Friends: Question: My best friend is getting really annoying? |
- Question: My best friend is getting really annoying?
- Question: I need help! What does he want?
- Question: Am I going to lose my best friend? Please help?
- Question: I feel like i am wasting my teenage years?
- Question: Is he still interested after all this?
- Question: How do you rid of a girl you’re not into anymore?
- Question: How do you know you have a bad best friend?
- Question: Why is this guy such a complete jerk to me? Havent done anything to him?
- Question: Did I indirectly call his son ugly by accident or not?
- Question: Did I indirectly call his son ugly by accident or not?
- Question: Why do my husband treats me like a friend?
- Question: Nicknames for Arielle?
- Question: Does he sound confused?
- Question: Is my friend lying?
- Question: Is it normal to give your friends massages?
- Question: Why are people friendly to me when I'm so quiet?
- Question: Going out without friends?
- Question: Should I be out more?
- Question: Help! What does this mean?
- Question: Should I dump my bestfriend ? Conflicted?
- Question: Ladies I need advice. I caught my boyfriend lying to me again. I invited him for fireworks and he said no because he was working.?
- Question: I'm really confused. Help!!!?
- Question: Why I can't make friends? I lost my high-school friends and. Now I can't find any friends in college.even boys, I can't even talk to girls !?
- Question: My friend makes me pay for a ride home?
- Question: Why would he stare?
- Question: What does he want? Help!!?
- Question: Would he keep staring at me if he didn't want to get back together?
- Question: Did my co workers do something wrong for me?
- Question: Should I [24F] tell my future roommates about my bladder issues (incontinence) before moving in with them?
- Question: My best friend GF me and her had something going and after they broke up I told my friend that we had something now she's won't talk to me?
- Question: Do you have to be 18 to go on an Uber by yourself?
- Question: How i look for a friend?
- Question: Does he sound interested?
- Question: Why does my friend constantly change her number? Is she running away from someone? Could she be in trouble?
- Question: I have no friends - what do I do?
- Question: I want to kill myself?
- Question: Why do people do this to each other?
- Question: Why does she care?
- Question: How do I compliment a girl without sounding gay?
- Question: Can anyone give me advice please?
- Question: I fell in love with North Korean girl, what should i do?
- Question: Am i a bad friend and what i did was wrong?
- Question: My very best friend and I shared an intimate moment. Quickly after finishing, they asked if were still “best friends?”?
- Question: I'm in a weird situation and not sure what to do?
- Question: I have no friends :(?
- Question: How to politely decline moochers?
- Question: Love triangle advice?
- Question: What should I get my friend for her birthday?
- Question: Is he still interested after this?
- Question: My best friend started hanging out with a toxic person and I need to do something about it.?
- Question: How to fit in a friend group (Highschool)?
- Question: What could this mean??
- Question: Am i overreacting or is what my roommate did totally wrong?
- Question: Do you support Cato?
- Question: Feel bad about taking his virginity?
- Question: Which sports best for weekend?
- Question: Should I accept this person as a friend? Skype: sullivan_man89?
- Question: What do you associate the phrase "gray area" with, what experience have you had relating to that term?
- Question: Why does she worry so much about me?
- Question: Should I dump my best friend? Conflicted?
Question: My best friend is getting really annoying? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 05:24 PM PST She always talks about her boyfriend which she clearly knew I liked before her. And then she always snapchats me pictures of her and him. She snapchats me around 50 to 75 Times a day (I'm not exaggerating) My other best friends agree with me. Then I stayed all night with one of my best friends (it's a bit confusing I know) and then she was like "why are you staying all night with her???" "can I come ?" And annoying stuff like that. I could go on and on about how annoying she's been getting. Do I drop her, or tell her to not be an annoying ***** anymore? Thanks. |
Question: I need help! What does he want? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 05:15 PM PST e'd broken up and it had been 2 months. I went to church where he's a deacon he kept staring from the altar so I thought he wants me which is why he kept staring. I texted him but he said it wouldn't work and why he'll never allow himself to have feelings again. He's also somewhat of a drama queen, I didn't want to engage and didn't respond. It' s been a month since and he doesn't take his eyes off me still. My friends and family notice and tell me he looks at me wondering/longingly If he feels so strongly about not getting back together then why does he keep staring so much?? what could it mean? |
Question: Am I going to lose my best friend? Please help? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 04:28 PM PST My best friend and I have been close for 4 years now (I'm a girl he's a boy). We tell each other everything and we talk about things no one else can understand. He came out to me several months ago about being bi sexual and I have been supporting him and being there for him throughout it all. Lately he's gotten close to this other girl and she recently went through a hard break up and he helped her through it. She wanted him to open up to her about his problems, but he refuses to tell her anything and she gets mad. He told me that she thinks her friendship with him is equally as close as his friendship is with me. He told me there's no comparison from her to me and that he isn't ready to tell her about him being bi-sexual at all yet. However she always wants to hangout with him and right now they're hanging out and I'm afraid that one day I will lose him. I don't want to confront him right now because I feel like I'm overreacting but I know how much he cares about me and how much I mean to but I'm just scared. What should I do? |
Question: I feel like i am wasting my teenage years? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 04:18 PM PST im 15 and never had any friends. by friends, i mean people who i have in my living space (home, outside from school, etc.) i've only seen my "friends" in school. all i do is stay home and no one makes any initiative to have plans with me and when i do try and make plans with people, they're always unable to. and my parents would NEVER let me even use uber and im also scared to use it to meet up with people. |
Question: Is he still interested after all this? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 04:17 PM PST We'd broken up and it had been 2 months. I went to church where he's a deacon he kept staring from the altar so I thought he wants me which is why he kept staring. I texted him but he said it wouldn't work and why he'll never allow himself to have feelings again. He's also somewhat of a drama queen, I didn't want to engage and didn't respond. It' s been a month since and he doesn't take his eyes off me still. My friends and family notice and tell me he looks at me wondering/longingly If he feels so strongly about not getting back together then why does he keep staring so much?? what could it mean? |
Question: How do you rid of a girl you’re not into anymore? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 04:13 PM PST She's clingy and sometimes won't let me have alone time. If I tell her I don't see her like that anymore, she's going to keep trying like before. Can I just cheat on her with this other girl, so it's a huge SIGN that she could leave? I know it's a jerk move, oh well right? |
Question: How do you know you have a bad best friend? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 03:40 PM PST I looked up how you know you have a bad best friend and my best friend doesn't do any of those things. So I have no idea if he's a bad friend or a good best friend. Me and him love to listen to music and he shows me some funny videos and makes me laugh, but when I find a video I want to show him he refuses to watch it and says no. There's never once when he watch a video I wanted to show him, what makes me sad and mad because I watch all the videos he shows me, but he doesn't do the same for me... Whenever I see something at the store that he would like I buy it then send it to him in the mail. I probably spent over $200 dollars on him for his birthdays and Christmas, and he never spent a single penny on me. He says he doesn't have money, but when it's his birthday he gets lots of money from his parents and spends all of it on video games... What makes me sad... Whenever I tell him something or did something cool he always just say oh. Just Oh. He never say's "That's awesome, or I'm so happy for you!" No, he always just says oh. Is that normal? Another thing he dose is he never tells anyone about me, he never even told his parents that he haves a best friend and doesn't tell any of he's school friends that I exist. The thing I love about my best friend is he never judges me and likes me the way I am, and he is always there for me when I'm feeling sad or upset. Is he a bad friend or a good best friend? I really don't know... :( |
Question: Why is this guy such a complete jerk to me? Havent done anything to him? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 03:21 PM PST I'm in high school, and there's a guy who I have a lot of classes with and he's a complete jerk to me without any reason. I've worked on a couple of projects with him, and he's really nice and funny sometimes. When we were alone once we were talking about test grades and he told me how smart I was and how cool it was that I'd traveled. We've actually had a few conversations where he acts like a human being. But then he's a total and complete jerk. One of his friends, Cory, likes me, and I heard him tell Cory "dude, she's not even worth it." And he kind of looked at me as he said it and caught my eye like he wanted me to hear. Another time, I arrived late to class and had to sit with his friends because all of the other seats were taken. He shows up and starts to sit away from his friends, and when they say 'what are you doing? come sit with us." he responds, "Oh, I just saw her (me) and assumed we weren't sitting there then." A couple of times in class I've commented on the lecture, and he literally rolls his eyes where he knows I can see him. I asked him a question one time because he was the only one who knew the answer, and he got super annoyed and nodded an answer because he couldn't talk to me. I happened to be standing by him at an awards ceremony, and as soon as he saw me he literally walked away. I'm genuinely confused by this behavior as I've never really talked to him and he's so hostile to me. And he's not like that with everyone- he's completely charming with most |
Question: Did I indirectly call his son ugly by accident or not? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 03:01 PM PST There was a pic of my friends son with a very adorable puppy on social media. I commented and said "what a cute dog". My friend said " I don t know how to take that comment" Me "its a compliment" Friend "my child is in the picture are you trying to say he is ugly" |
Question: Did I indirectly call his son ugly by accident or not? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 03:01 PM PST There was a pic of my friends son with a very adorable puppy on social media. I commented and said "what a cute dog". My friend said " I don t know how to take that comment" Me "its a compliment" Friend "my child is in the picture are you trying to say he is ugly" |
Question: Why do my husband treats me like a friend? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 02:58 PM PST When I want to cuddle and do things with him like how a couple should be doing.. he wants me to do guy friends stuff with him. He talks to me like I'm one of his guy friend or something so when he tells me he love me, I feel awkward. I do most of the talking and when he tells me stuff about other people..he sounds obsessed about them but he barely pay any attention to me. Most of the time, he don't remember half the **** I tell him. When we have sex, I'm turned off by the whole thing. I'm not physically or sexually attracted to him. I feel like he's a brother to me.. over the years I have grew bitter and angry at him. I don't think he realize we have no relationship. I care deeply for him at one point but he betrayed my trust and took my guidance for granted and feel so confident that I'll always be around for him, I seriously don't want him, I can't stand him. I'm having this strong urge to pull myself away..love blooms from the heart not just on looks or good clothes. * I tell him how I feel every single day, nothing have change. He keeps brushing me off. Every time I tell him whats not working in our relationship and express my emotion, he goes into this fight mode which puts me off and I would have to distant myself so I don't get kill (I get that feeling being with him). I don't feel safe with him because he have anger issues and an drinking addiction. He doesn't care about getting anything done in life, beer is his life. That's what he lives for. I forgive and let him slide too many times..I don't want to put in anymore effort into pleasing him but I can't divorce him because he have no job and no where to go. |
Question: Nicknames for Arielle? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 02:30 PM PST My best friend's name is Arielle and I would love to have a cute unique nickname for her. I don't want to use Ari as I know many people already call her that and Elle just doesn't really fit her personality. Thanks in advance for any suggestions :) |
Question: Does he sound confused? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 02:28 PM PST We'd broken up and it had been 2 months. I went to church where he's a deacon he kept staring from the altar so I thought he wants me which is why he kept staring. I texted him but he said it wouldn't work and why he'll never allow himself to have feelings again. He's also somewhat of a drama queen, I didn't want to engage and didn't respond. It' s been a month since and he doesn't take his eyes off me still. My friends and family notice and tell me he looks at me wondering/longingly. If he feels so strongly about not getting back together then why does he keep staring so much?? what could it mean? Procyrus stupid answers |
Posted: 11 Nov 2017 02:24 PM PST I asked her to hangout at 8 am for breakfast, but she told me that she is going to be somewhere from 6 am to 8 am.. is she lying - there is no place open then. she said we can meet later though |
Question: Is it normal to give your friends massages? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 02:21 PM PST Recently I gave one of my friends whos a girl a massage for like 20 to 30 minutes, she seemed to really like it. Although I don't get why her body temperature got so high, like I could actually feel her getting warmer and warmer. So, is it weird for friends to do that? |
Question: Why are people friendly to me when I'm so quiet? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 01:59 PM PST I like being quiet and a loner in my high school. It helps me stay out of all the drama(social issues, gossiping) and just to focus on school. I never talk to anyone, but a lot of people in my class knows my name(even though the teacher never calls on me) and they smile and say hello to me everyday. They hardly know anything about me besides my name, but why are they friendly to me? They know that I'm very quiet and super shy, yet they say that I'm a "cool person" and that I'm funny. |
Question: Going out without friends? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 01:45 PM PST It feels weird going anywhere without a friend, so ill stay home unless i have a friend to go somewhere with. How do i do anything outside without a friend? isnt it weird? |
Question: Should I be out more? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 01:39 PM PST Im a 16 year old girl and dont really head out much. My day to day is mostly spent on school, homework, then youtube or netflix. I can't help but feel like i should be out more, with my friends seeming to be constantly out by the looks of it on snapchat. Dont get me wrong i do go out, but it has more of a fortnight occurance then a regular deal. How often are people my age out and should i put in the effort to go out more? |
Question: Help! What does this mean? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 12:22 PM PST We'd broken up and it had been 2 months. I went to church where he's a deacon he kept staring from the altar so I thought he wants me which is why he kept staring. I texted him but he said it wouldn't work and why he'll never allow himself to have feelings again. He's also somewhat of a drama queen, I didn't want to engage and didn't respond. It' s been a month since and he doesn't take his eyes off me still. My friends and family notice and tell me he looks at me wondering/longingly. If he feels so strongly about not getting back together then why does he keep staring so much?? what could it mean? |
Question: Should I dump my bestfriend ? Conflicted? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 12:14 PM PST My bff was charged with possession of child porn over a year ago. He admittedly does feel attraction to young people but has never acted on it. I have a hard time processing it and accepting it. He's about to go to jail for it. He was also just diagnosed with HIV. Not sure if im being an asshole or if I'm justified with wanting to stay away from him. I think he makes bad choices and our moral beliefs are obviously different. What should I do? The only reason i havent cut him off is cause we have been friends so long. |
Posted: 11 Nov 2017 11:57 AM PST I found out on Facebook that he was actually going to a morocan party. I never had any boyfriend lie to me and he also came home late last night. I have given him so many chances and this guy is trying to play with me. He said he loved me and wanted to marry me and then lies like this? How many other times has he lied. I live with him and have been sick for a few weeks now and have not found a job! I am stuck in London and I am shocked about how bad he is! I have known him for 8 months but, yet do not know him at all! I told him today I will finish this relationship and he can take his stuff and leave! I need advice this guy is making me sick. |
Question: I'm really confused. Help!!!? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 11:55 AM PST We'd broken up and it had been 2 months. I went to church where he's a deacon he kept staring from the altar so I thought he wants me which is why he kept staring. I texted him but he said it wouldn't work and why he'll never allow himself to have feelings again. He's also somewhat of a drama queen, I didn't want to engage and didn't respond. It' s been a month since and he doesn't take his eyes off me still. My friends and family notice and tell me he looks at me wondering/longingly. If he feels so strongly about not getting back together then why does he keep staring so much?? what could it mean? |
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Question: My friend makes me pay for a ride home? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 11:25 AM PST My friend Cynthia always makes me pay for rides home from school, she has a car and she has been giving me and other friend a ride for 3 months now but now shes telling me that i have to pay her $30 even though i live across the street from her. It's not like she's wasting gas on me or anything. I already paid her 6 times so far. Do you think this sounds right? I am annoyed with this now. |
Posted: 11 Nov 2017 11:23 AM PST I was at the school library using the computer when I heard a guy said hi from far away. When I turned to look, he was just standing at the door looking in my direction. He didn't continue to say anything so I turned to look at my screen but quickly looked again and he was still staring. Then he proceeded to walk over which I did then say hi. |
Question: What does he want? Help!!? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 11:23 AM PST At church he's a deacon and from the altar he's cosntantly looking at me even though a couple weeks after seeing him stare at me I texted him and he said he was offended that I said something about his mom but he was the one who said it to me first. I said I didn't want to talk about the past and he said it's fine as long as I know why it won't work and why he'll never allow himself to have feelings for me again. I didn't respond to this, it's been a month and he still stares and steals glances I try and not look at him but caught him accidentally a couple times and he was already looking and gave him a bad look. My friends and family with me notice how he stares and say it's more like a wondering/longing stare. |
Question: Would he keep staring at me if he didn't want to get back together? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 11:18 AM PST At church he's a deacon and from the altar he's cosntantly looking at me even though a couple weeks after seeing him stare at me I texted him and he said he was offended that I said something about his mom but he was the one who said it to me first. I said I didn't want to talk about the past and he said it's fine as long as I know why it won't work and why he'll never allowhimself to have feelings fo rme again. I didnt' respond to this, it's been a month and he still stares and steals glances My friends and family know him so they're the ones telling me he keeps looking as I don't look at him and have given him a bad look a couple times. If he meant what he said would he stare if he was sooo hurt?? |
Question: Did my co workers do something wrong for me? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 10:46 AM PST The boss in the department I work for took a 3 week vacation and appointed me to take his place while he was away. I thought there might be a problem having a lot of men working for a woman (me) but that was not the case. We all had a nice working relationship. On the Friday the day before our boss returned from vacation my coworkers brought in a cake for me to share with everyone. The cake had this written on it. "You were a great boss and the most beautiful boss we have ever had". The Human Relations guy told my co workers not to do that again as it was a sexual thing to do. The next Monday when our boss returned from vacation my co workers told our boss what the Human Relations guy had told them. He said "Screw the Human Relations guy". "I agree 100 percent with what was written on the cake". I am not sure how I should feel about this. Should I tell my boss and my co workers thank you for the compliment? Did my co workers do something wrong? |
Posted: 11 Nov 2017 10:38 AM PST The title says it all. I'm extremely anxious that they might notice that, to put it simply, I do not always get to the bathroom on time : despite my young age I have a very bad case of overactive bladder, even if I'm otherwise in good health. I must wear "protections" in order to avoid any social discomfort, but it's really hard for me to bear emotionally! So I don't want them to "discover" my situation, but I don't know how to hide it during a whole year. Mabe it would be easier for me to tell them in advance, but I don't know how they could react :/ I feel quite lost, so if you have any advice..a huge thanks in advance. Two precisions : one of them is a friend of mine, I haven't met the 2 others yet / when I say "protection", I'm not talking about discreet pads. I hate this word, but they are..well..diapers |
Posted: 11 Nov 2017 10:10 AM PST HELP What do I do to repair this so I can talk to her again she told me she cares about still and isn't mad and forgives me but how can I talk or will I talk to her again please help I'm just in a bad place |
Question: Do you have to be 18 to go on an Uber by yourself? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 10:04 AM PST I'm 13 and I need a ride to my friend's house but idk if it's legal for me to call an Uber |
Question: How i look for a friend? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 09:45 AM PST |
Question: Does he sound interested? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 09:36 AM PST We are from different classes but we've had eye contact for few times during hallways. Few days ago, he also sat beside me at the computer lab even though there's other options...but he didn't say anything. Then a day later, when he and his friend were sitting down and talking with his back facing me, he scooted his chair into the table as I was walking towards them so I can pass by. Not sure how he knew, but probably saw my reflection. |
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Question: I have no friends - what do I do? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 08:08 AM PST I literally have no friends, I'm Autistic so even in the best circumstance I'd struggle, but being in my thirties and unemployed makes it harder to try to make new friends. I'm trying to get back into work and currently work a few voluntary jobs but I'm getting nowhere making friends, in one I'm being excluded by other cliquey volunteers. I try to go to meet ups via meetup.com but the same social struggles come up and lacking money means it's not a regular thing, same is true for trying to find new hobbies (I don't really have any hobbies). I try to find free events, go to gigs, etc. but at the end of the day I'm still there on my own looking like a tit standing on my own, so I'm not even getting the opportunity to meet people, let alone make friends. I'm not sure I know how to go from meeting someone to becoming friends, e.g. going to gigs and just talking to random people doesn't seem the best way to do it! I'm desperate for friends, hell even acquaintances I could just socialize with from time to time. FYI: I'm also a woman and get on best with guys, which adds even more issues. It just feels like everything is stacked against me ever making friends. |
Question: I want to kill myself? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 08:00 AM PST Do u ever imagine what other ppls reaction would be if u killed urself? Well I do. All the time. I have a lot of problems with my body.. not noticeable ones but some of them are embarrassing if someone finds out and I lost a lot of my friends bc of this one girl. And I'm in highschool and I cut myself before and now I have this thearpist that I'm lying to and pretending everything is fine bc I don't wanna make a scene about it and for my mom to pay more money bc its expensive. Nowadays I'm always so sad and idk if I'm depressed but I think about constantly milking myself. I don't know what to do |
Question: Why do people do this to each other? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 07:53 AM PST Why do ppl basically categorize/create an image for you, and then get mad when you don't fit it? Even people who are "friends" have done this to me! To be specific, I'm Asian American (born in the USA), and I've found time and again that some people just assume that I have no knowledge of popular culture. Basically, it's that old stereotype that anyone who isn't white must not be hip to the US culture. I've had "friends" who previously treated me w/ respect and kindness just ignore me when I talk about pop culture. It's like they can't handle it. It's so infuriating. I'm so tired of this. It happens so much, that I might as well NOT HAVE ANY FRIENDS. Help? If I was a stereotype my life would be a zillion times easier. |
Posted: 11 Nov 2017 07:32 AM PST My ex cheated on me with some girl a few years ago and I guess they got back together. But for some unknown reason she's pissed that I have a family of my own now. If she has my ex back then why does it matter what I'm doing? |
Question: How do I compliment a girl without sounding gay? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 06:58 AM PST I am a girl who really wants to compliment this other girl, but I don t want to give off that I like her (Even though I do kinda like her). How can I compliment her on her looks without sounding like I have a crush on her? |
Question: Can anyone give me advice please? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 06:47 AM PST 3 of my "friends" started ignoring me last Thursday and one of them went to talk to the other and told her that I'm not talking to her and the other one told her not to talk to me. They're the ones who are started ignoring me. I have till March seeing them everyday at school before high school finishes and I think one of them is ignoring me because a boy that used to talk to her in grade 6 is talking to me now (we're in grade 11) or because I'm doing better than her at school and she turned the others against me as well. I've already tried talking to her and she said that nothing happened to her so I stopped trying. Any advice on what I should do? |
Question: I fell in love with North Korean girl, what should i do? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 06:32 AM PST I'm 16 and I live in Western Europe. She is daughter of the diplomat, that's why she is here as for now. She is very beautiful (really very very beautiful) , always beautifully dressed, good-hearted, polite (usually), very good at study. On the other hand she is quite fanatical about her country, she seems to really love it. She talks about her country every day praising it, listens only to North Korean music (once she laughed at the western band i like and said that "it's not the music"). She seems to be very proud and happy while showing to me photos from Pyongyang in her mobile phone. She claims that she loves Kim Jong Un (she calls him "our respected marshal") and that she's fascinated by him. She claims that she misses her country, grandmother, older brothers, friends in Pyongyang and everything there so much, that she only dreams about the day she will be back there permanently. But she is really the most beautiful and charming girl i have ever seen. She has such a beautiful and soft voice, that i just can't describe the feeling i have while listening to her talking. She smiles so beautifully. I can't stop to think about her. I wonder if I have any chance to be with her. She doesn't know that I love her. And I'm afraid that... she probably likes me as a mate, but nothing more :( As for now it seems she's not interested in being my girlfriend, but maybe it will change one day? I hope so. I'm not against the DPRK so I hope that it would accept me. What should i do? |
Question: Am i a bad friend and what i did was wrong? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 06:09 AM PST Hi, My best friend and i were close for almost 6 years. We both were similar in class, where we both were hated by other students for our appearance. Thats how we both got close. I invited him to my house and we played games and took tuition together. Last year ago, my laptop disappeared. My mother suspected my friend and i said against it. I also suspected him because he was the only one their in my room.After school, i asked him whether he took it or not but he said no, i forced him to swear on it( As a muslim, a swear which a lie is a big mistake). I still suspected him, because by looking at his eyes, i knew he was lying. So i went to his house without notice. I opened his room and saw him playing my laptop. He immediately lied about bringing it back to maths tution. I let him off the hook because i did not want to lose my only friend. Few months after the previous things, a broadband modem (Found last week in his bag in school), 2 Trophies ( never found ), and my sister's hard drive (The issue was big as my big sister was involved). He lied saying that saying i was the who gave it. I cried later that night. I talked to my classmates about it out of anger, tried to ruin his pride and bring shame to him. Outside he would show a good student personality but inside, he is a lier and a thief. he never cared about me. Later, i have that regret feeling telling about this to my classmates. So i want to know, was i gossiping about him? Was i in the wrong? what others think? |
Posted: 11 Nov 2017 05:48 AM PST I'm downright confused with this one folks. My best friend and I shared an intimate moment, followed by a "I had the opportunity for you to stay over— but I was nervous, so I didn't get back to you." A few seconds slipped by without so much as a response from me or them until I was asked "are we still friends? Best friends?" Why would someone need justification? ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.01 |
Question: I'm in a weird situation and not sure what to do? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 04:55 AM PST First off, I've been talking to a guy since August. He's in the army so he is currently at his base, hours away, but we were planning to see eachother when he came home for the holiday. When we first started talking, everything was great. Constantly sending good morning messages and just cute messages in general. Recently, I've noticed a change. I had to start sending out the first message in the morning, and although he answers and we have somewhat of a convo, the cute messages pretty much stopped. Yesterday was actually the first day we haven't talked over this span of time. So question one.. do I reach out after a few days and ask why he's been distant? Secondly, one of his bestfriends from home recently superliked me on Tinder. Since he had recently been giving me no sign of wanting me, I thought there was no harm in swiping back and seeing what he had to say. We've been having casual conversation but now he asked if I want to text. For some reason, even though I'm single, I feel a little weird talking to his bestfriend. Opinions on this? Bad idea? That's kind of another reason why I'd like to get answers about the sudden change, because if he really wants nothing to do with me anymore, I see less harm in texting his friend. |
Question: I have no friends :(? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 03:26 AM PST So I'm 17, It's been 6 months since I graduated high school. Didn't have a solid friend in high school. I'm going to college in 2019 so I have 1 year of FREE time until college. So the past 6 months until now I've been spending my free time alone in my room watching youtube videos and entertaining myself with music and BTS(Popular Korean group ;). I enjoy most of my alone time(I'm an introvert) jamming to music and playing on my laptop, but sometimes It gets too lonely and boring, and I feel like having a friend to hangout with in my room or go to the movies, etc... But I don't know WHERE and HOW to make friends?.. like idk what to say to someone if I wanna be their friend... I am planning in 2019 to go to a dance class because, 1. I love dancing, 2. I wanna make friends so that I'm not alone all the time. Is anyone else with me on this? I'm really desperate for a friend,I know that sounds pathetic and sad but I actually really want a friend and not just for having a friend, like an actual nice friend who understands me. I live in Dubai at the moment and if you live in Dubai and you're a girl... let's be friends and get to know each other, if you want to? I'm a shy one so pls don't be so hard on me >.< |
Question: How to politely decline moochers? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 02:27 AM PST For a school project we have to form small teams. Two of the people i worked with last time want to work together again. Problem is they're using me because of my former experience. They want me to do all the work again. They act all friendly but i can see right through them. One of them just sent me a message: "We're going to work together again this time.", pretty much forcing it on to me. Thing is, even though they're leeches, i still don't want to hurt anyones feelings. Damn it. |
Question: Love triangle advice? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 01:50 AM PST My bestfriend and i have been friends for a while now we hang out all the time recently his childhood friend moved back to the state and we're been hanging out as a trio. Which is awesome we hit it off right away. i noticed that i started developing feeling for him during one of our movie nights that we ended up holding hands and cuddling during a scary movie since then we've been texting non stop and just have been flirty. Tonight my best friends sister told me that he was upset at me because he has feeling for me and he is really bothered by the fact his friend just came around and ruined things between him and I. Honestly I had no idea that he even had feeling for me he never made it obvious but what do I do now ? |
Question: What should I get my friend for her birthday? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 01:00 AM PST First of all, we're just teens so it needs to be around 20 dollars. This is the main problem I'm finding- a lot of the gifts that you find when you ask Google for help are around 60 dollars. I'm leaning towards a gift basket; small items that are about 2-5 dollars each, but a lot of them so it looks like I did a lot, heh. What do you think? |
Question: Is he still interested after this? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 12:52 AM PST We broke up 2 months ago and I started going to church and found him staring at me 2 weeks in a row so I texted him but he said he was offended which is why it wouldn't work and why he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again. I didn't respond. I've been going to church since then it's been almost a month, i don't look at him and have given him a dirty look couple times. He literally doesn't take his eyes off me my family says...confused. My friends say it's a longing stare i don't look at him and have given him a bad look a couple times but still looks. He tries to cosntantly steal glances at me. BTW he alsway told me to go to church when we were dating. But I just randomly started giong 2 months after we were broiken up. And I was the one who initially broke up and tried to constantly go back and we'd try and fight again.So it's not he broke up but who doesn't want to get back together apparently after all that time. But i don't now if he wants to make me work |
Posted: 11 Nov 2017 12:33 AM PST Recently, my best friend started hanging out with a girl who is just terrible. She is manipulative and always wants to get her way. If you refuse to do what she says, she drops spitefull comments on you (made to look like jokes) to belitle you. All the friends she ever had left her and now she has lached onto my best friend! have known my friend for nine years and I am afraid I might loose her because of this girl. My friend is quite naive so she thins this hole behaviour to be funny! I really don't want people bossing over my friends and especially my best friend, so I need to find a way to show her that this girl is a horrible person, I don't want to tell her my opinion straigt up because I'm affraid it could damage our relationship, but I really NEED to do something |
Question: How to fit in a friend group (Highschool)? Posted: 11 Nov 2017 12:18 AM PST I just moved to a new school about 3 months ago and still don't belong to a friend group. It really upsets me since I'm not used to being a new student and making new friends. I have been sitting with a huge group who are all nice but there is no sign that I belong. I want to know how to fit in as in get included into their group chats and get invited when they hang out during the weekends. It's only been a few weeks and I got closer to some of them and I was really happy, but today I saw them upload pics of the group out together without me. Also, I can't seem to be getting close to one of them, she's really nice to everyone but she seems to be ignoring me or cuts conversations short when I try to talk and get closer to her. Should I just wait and see what happens or take action? Please suggest some tips I can use to fit in, join their group chats and hang outs and also break the wall between the girl who for some reason might not like me... I already switched many groups in the past months and feel I want to be close with this group, but if they did not invite me or include me in anything yet, does this mean they don't want me? Also, one of the group members is also new and she fits in perfectly like she's known them for years. I just feel so tired of not fitting in and I don't stress over not being pretty or boyfriends, I just need a group of friends to belong in that I will feel happy about. |
Question: What could this mean?? Posted: 10 Nov 2017 11:47 PM PST We broke up 2 months ago and I started going to church and found him staring at me 2 weeks in a row so I texted him but he said he was offended which is why it wouldn't work and why he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again. I didn't respond. I've been going to church since then it's been almost a month, i don't look at him and have given him a dirty look couple times. He literally doesn't take his eyes off me my family says...confused. My friends say it's a longing stare i don't look at him and have given him a bad look a couple times but still looks. He tries to cosntantly steal glances at me. BTW he alsway told me to go to church when we were dating. But I just randomly started giong 2 months after we were broken up. And I was the one who initially broke up and tried to constantly go back and we'd try and fight again.So it's not he broke up but who doesn't want to get back together apparently after all that time. But i don't now if he wants to make me work |
Question: Am i overreacting or is what my roommate did totally wrong? Posted: 10 Nov 2017 10:30 PM PST she has a messed up sleep schedule which kinda created a barrier in our relationship so i talked to her about it many times so i can please sleep at night,, which worked out fine.. but she made me sooooo mad few days ago when she brought her friend in and told me she was going to room up with her friend , which im happy about, i was thinking of changing roommates since september, but i didnt bc i felt bad, but she said "Uhm me and my friend are going to be roommates next semester so you are going to the 6th floor, the room next to the elevators and you are going to be roommates with my friends roommate..."and then started to show her the room around like my bed, my desk, the bathroom, closet, etc... and that made me so pissed because she didnt ask how i felt about it, formaly talk to me about the whole roommate change, and she tried to kick me out of the room next semester and think its okay to simply replace my spot with her friend.. and how does she think its okay for me to room up with some random stranger who also doesnt sleep at night... it makes me mad bc she thinks about herself tbh i think she should be the one to move bc she wants to, but anyway thats not even how the roommate change works... The school has to approve and decide which rooms to put people in anyway... and right after i found out she went through my stuff and stole my stuff like my printer paper, water, ear plugs, sponges... which i would have been okay with if she ASKED me but it made me real mad how she would go through my stuff like that and just think its okay to take my stuff.. so i didnt talk to her, i didnt look at her, and i think she heard me talk bad about her to my friend and my parents or idk bc she seemed mad at me too and she leaves the room when im here so and what also made me mad was after this situation i called my parents and my parents got mad and started to stress over how people take advantage of me bc im nice and quiet and calm so people are very ignorant? to me, (long story) but anyway it got real deep and i started to cry after i hung up bc of what my parents told me and i just miss them, and no i dont like getting attention, i didnt even try but i cried real hard and couldnt really stop myself and my roommate turned back and saw me cry and just put her earphones in, blasted her music out loud, started to sing and dance while i was there right behind her, being depressed, stressed, crying... and i think thats kinda like a psychopath to me because even if i do see a person i hate cry, i would feel bad and either leave the room to give that person privacy or ask whats wrong, but i would never sing and dance in front of a perosn whos having a hard time right beside me.. and shes the reason why i was so stressed anyway |
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Question: Feel bad about taking his virginity? Posted: 10 Nov 2017 10:09 PM PST We have been really close friends for 8 months now and eventually started liking each other for 3 months now. I don't want any relationship and he is very aware of that. We made out lots of time but last night it was going to the next level and I had to stop it. He was ready to have sex but I felt bad since he is a virgin. He should lose it to someone who wants to be with him and make it special. I explained and he told me that he cares about me a lot and that it feels right for him to lose it to me. How should I reject it without offending him? We are both seniors in College. |
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Question: Why does she worry so much about me? Posted: 10 Nov 2017 08:35 PM PST I have a close friend who is a lot older than i am. 30 year difference in our friendship. She always worried about me and tells me she worries about me. I was telling her about something involving my parent and she had mentioned again to text her when i got to the hospital because she worries about me. I asked why she worried and she yelled at me "because i care about you!" Why does she worry so much? |
Question: Should I dump my best friend? Conflicted? Posted: 10 Nov 2017 08:27 PM PST My bff was charger with possession of child porn over a year ago. He admittedly does feel attraction to young people but has never acted on it. I have a hard time processing it and accepting it. He's about to go to jail for it. He was also just diagnosed with HIV. Not sure if im being an asshole or if I'm justified with wanting to stay away from him. I think he makes bad choices and our moral beliefs are obviously different. What should I do? The only reason i havent cut him off is cause we have been friends so long. |
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