I have a crush on my coworker. He is very shy so he wouldn't make any move. He asked me if I'm single so I assume he has some interest in me. I thought writing my number on his hand is better than leaving a post it note on his desk. Would guys feel disgusted if a girl does that?

There's this guy in one of my classes I've known for years. I used to find him annoying but now I think I like him. Last year, I didn't talk to him at all and he'd stare at me. I was smiling at something on my phone one day and when I looked up, he was looking at me and quickly turned his head. But now this year, he sometimes sits next to me and tries talking to me. Some days he'll sit behind me by himself. When he gets around the other girls in our class, he jokes around with them and but he doesn't do that with me. For some reason it's irritating. Why doesn't he treat me how he treats them? I just really wanna know if he's into me or not

honestly i don't think approaching a girl is for me. i rather they do that I'm really good looking and tall and muscular. ill actually be the most tall, toned, and handsome guy at parties. Women of many ages stare, smile. some will keep ete contact and some will quickly look away when i catch them and repeat. i have only had one girlfriend which she pursued me. and I'm still a virgin and I'm 23. though i could have lost it much earlier but i decided not to since i was afraid of pregnancy and i guess of commitment. I'm also pretty shy and i don't talk/socialize or get out as much as i should. i live out in the middle of nowhere so i have to drive all the way to town when i do go out. To makes matters worse i have schizophrenia which makes it much harder to socialize but i do push myself SOMETIMES to do it. i guess sine my first girlfriend pursued me it made me believe that they all should. i know it stupid but that is what i feel. should i break out of this?

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At church he's a deacon and from the altar he's constantly looking at me even though a couple weeks after seeing him stare at me I texted him and he said he was offended that I said something about his mom but he was the one who said it to me first. I said I didn't want to talk about the past and he said it's fine as long as I know why it won't work and why he'll never allow himself to have feelings for me again. I didnt' respond to this, it's been a month and he still stares and steals glances My friends and family know him so they're the ones telling me he keeps looking as I don't look at him and have given him a bad look a couple times. If he meant what he said would he stare if he was sooo hurt??

Why does god act like an abusive boyfriend? "You're nothing without me. You are so messed up that you need me, or else you'll hurt yourself. You'll get hurt if you leave me. You'll get hurt if you disobey me. You'll get hurt if you look at someone else. I hurt you to keep you in line, because I love you. Look at all the things i'm warning you about, i'm trying to protect you. Only with me, are all things possible. So don't ever leave me, cuz I need you, I mean you need me." yup. god sounds just like a paranoid, controlling boyfriend. why is that?

I met my boyfriend in August and we became official in October. He had just recently gotten an instagram for the first time and had about 115 followers and people he was following. Since then, he now has 144 and most of them are women that he has added. This really bothers me. I brought it up to him and he said its because he just got a new instagram, and claims most of them are from facebook anyway. Ok...but I noticed today that he liked some girl's Halloween picture and he liked a few more pictures of hers (she wasn't in the pictures, they were pics of scenery) however I saw that she was only following 6 people, one of which was my boyfriend. This was strange to me. I don't know what to do about this. They all seem to be local women within 2 hours from him. It makes me really suspicious. Should I be worried or is this harmless?

I had gone on 4 dates with this girl from work. All the dates went great. Kissing, hand holding, lot of PDA. Our last date was on Tuesday of last week. I then texted her twice last week and got no reply back. I then saw her at work on Monday and she told me she was studying all week and her phone was acting up. She said she would text me Tuesday if she was free. She never did. I then found out via a friend that she was seen leaving work crying on Monday. Her week at work was also cancelled due to a family emergency. Again I never saw her cry on Monday so I was thinking of waiting till Sunday when we usually work together and call her to say hey didn't see you come in today thought it was weird hope all is ok. Is that a good idea? She also recently posted a picture on insta from last night where she went out with her Sister

Hey guys. BACKGROUND: My ex boyfriend and I broke up at the beginning of August but we were still "a thing" 2 weeks after that. He ghosted me the night he moved into his dorm. Since that night, I only heard from his roommate and his now girlfriend. In general, the breakup ended up being messy. My Issue: Since the night he ghosted me, I posted different things on Tumblr. Some were how sad I was. Some were me talking **** about him and his girlfriend a little bit(bc she slept with him the 3rd day she knew him). Occasionally she would tell me to stop talking about her boyfriend, talking **** or how "gross" it was that I posted about their relationship/him. It has been almost 3 months since the break up. 3 weeks ago his girlfriend told me to "stop talking ****" and threatened me if I didn't, so I stopped. A few days ago I posted about missing him and about the last time I hughed him. She responded by saying, "sto talking about him already. It's gross." But what is her issue?! I said nothing disrespectful about either of them. It was just me being sad. Today he made a post about how happy he is with his girlfriend and in love, and they both sent the post to me. I told him to leave me alone, to which he proceeded to say **** and ask if the guy I currently have "a thing" with knew about me being stuck up on him(my ex). He then said "Lets test that". Im tired of this crap. Is there anything I can do?

First off, I want to say thanks to those reading this and who will leave me a sincere opinion. I met someone, who I thought that there was a mutual connection between us. She said she had never been treated as good as I had treated her. She told me many times she liked me. So, basically she let it be known she liked me. I took her out for her birthday to a park and made it very special for her. She loved it and said she liked me more. She said no one had ever done something like that for her. That was the last time I saw her. Which was on Oct 30th. This past Sunday, she messaged me saying "sorry for wasting your time, I don't think I can have a deep connection with you". That hurt me of course because o really liked her and all. I then said "OK, I understand". The following morning, she messaged me "well, I do miss your good morning messages. I hope you have a good day". I said "thanks, you too". 5 minutes later she messaged saying "we can be friends? ' I said yes. I then got a message by a friend of my that Sam's day saying he saw her on a online dating site. That really did it for me and I blocked her on my phone and two social media sites. So, did I overreact or no? I honestly thought we had a future but I guess not.

I have been talking to and hooking up with a guy that I used to go to school with for about 3 months now. It was never established that we were friends with benefits, but it just seemed to be that way. But we'd typically see each other about once a week, text/Snapchat at least every other day, went on a few dates, I met his parents and family, he invited me to come around his friends, etc. We'd typically just watch tv and movies at his house and hook up, but we'd also go out for dinner or activities every once in awhile. He knew that I liked him as more than just a hook up, and he said he didn't only see me as that either. So after months of doing this, I decided to tell him that I am looking for something a bit more than just being casual and that I can't continue to keep hookikg up if things aren't going anywhere. He didn't tell me yes or no as to if he wants to become more serious, his response didn't really give me any answer. I took that as he didn't want to be anything more than casual, so I've decided to attempt to move on. For my own sake I wanted to try the no contact method to try to get over him, but do you think this will give me a chance to make things with him more serious? If I don't text or call him back and create distance with him, do you think this will make him realize that to keep me he needs to step up, or is it too late and I'm only seen as just a friend with benefits to him? Thank you!

I've knoen this girl for quite a while, and I think she knows I like her (I asked her to a school dance), and ever since then we got closer. She started viewing my Snapchat stories, when before she didn't. I asked one of her friends if she said anything about me, and she laughed and said yes, but she told her not to tell me what it was. So i'm pretty confused, does this mean she likes me back?

Ok so first off, I just want you to know that we are NOT actually related. You will figure out why thats important in a minute. So I really like this guy, the only problem, well one of them, is that our families are super duper close and we grew up as basically family. His sisters are my 'aunts' his mom is my 'grandma'. And I guess hes considered my 'uncle'. Also its very important that you know that hes only 2 1/2 years older than me. I've never considered him my uncle though, not even really when I was little. Anyways I really like him, and he recently told me that hes liked me for a while, and I just want to know if that's wrong since we've been raised like out families are actually related, even though were not. But we aren't relating so dating him wouldn't technically be incest or amything like that right?

I tried online dating and I've been chatting with a girl I like but she lives an hour and a half away and I don't have a car. Also public transportation is even longer like almost 10 hours. I don't really know what to do with this. Should I tell I want to meet up but I don't have a car? Anything suggestions will help

There's this guy at school, I have never met him. One day I was at lunch with my friends sitting at the same table as Him. He was sitting opposite from me but two seats down. He kept looking at me and he picks up a spoon and gets rice and flicks it at me then says "I'm sorry" and I said "it's okay" But he knew I saw him doing it intentionally. A couple of days later we walked past each other and I remembered him so I looked back but when I did he had already looked back at me and was looking until he turned and kept walking with his friends. Why would he act this way towards me if does not know me?

This girl I talked to a couple years ago and I have drifted apart but weird stuff happens when we see each other around. I made the mistake of looking her way and she stared me down for many seconds even though I looked away and pretended she isn't there. When I talked I tried to be evasive and not intiate anything. I only had a class with her she listened in to my conversations to chime in and I'd ignore her. Get in my face to try to talk to me and if I walk away gets back in my face. Her friend told her stuff I did or said to go back to me on it. Gives me a lot of attention but wants mine. If I acknowledged her presence seemed to go off on it. Asks me where I live and knew something about my house seeming to already know. Liked a picture of me and my dad tagged on Facebook and tells me the next day she likes it. She told her bff about me I don't talk to her and she liked it too, weird. Some days be in a good mood laugh loudly, blush, others sat their with a straight face. Moods were weird one day being serious other being estactic. If I talk about something bad, inappropriate, says my name in a sweet tone. Once said something that's a double entendre that can imply I have a big penis. Once was a ***** by chiming in and having a bunch of allegations against me when she doesn't know the full story but when I tell her she backed down. I sat next to her and talked to her she seemed shy quiet and blushed. Before she graduated said frequently she'll miss me.

We'd broken up and it had been 2 months. I went to church where he's a deacon he kept staring from the altar so I thought he wants me which is why he kept staring. I texted him but he said it wouldn't work and why he'll never allow himself to have feelings again. He's also somewhat of a drama queen, I didn't want to engage and didn't respond. It' s been a month since and he doesn't take his eyes off me still. My friends and family notice and tell me he looks at me wondering/longingly I dont look at him but accidently caught him and gave him a dirty look. My friends and fmaily with me say he doesn't stop looking at me. What could this mean?? He's a deacon and stands at the alter and just looks down at me constantly no matter what he's doing. My friends say how do you handle him looking at you so much??

I asked out a girl who was a friend of mine but she turned me down, now I feel awkward around her and kinda wanna just stop talking to her but the problem is we have the same group of friends so doing that would mostly mean not chilling with them either.

I'm 16 and he's 17 and I get so upset when my boyfriend even likes another girls picture or like when he talks to all these beautiful girls. I constantly feel like he wants someone other than me, although he always reassures me he ONLY wants me and finds nobody else attractive. it's not him it's me and I don't know what to do

There was a long awkward silence with this cute girl, and we both said something at the same time to break the ice. I"m still cringing, mehh ):

There's this guy at my local cvs and I go there a lot , I like this guy who works there. However I don't really know how to even talk to him by this I mean I'm kinda hard to talk to I guess, keep in mind that although I sound nice I don't look it lmao? I'm very closed off or at least I appear this way to those around me. He's distant but so am I , yet he's very serious about his job , so for a teenager he's professional which is why I don't really Know how to talk to him I feel as if there's no hope but I want there to be cause I'm done with bad guys. I can tell he's a good guy. Any advice?

There's a guy in my class that i really like. He's very outgoing and he likes to scare me, throw paper balls at me, pull/play with my hair, touch my arm whenever i walk by his desk so he can ask a question, etc. One time, i asked him "Would you really do that if someone asked you to?" (long story) and he said "Well yeah, if i really wanted to show that someone that i care about them" and it seemed like he was referring to me. Another odd time is when i asked how was his homecoming and he said "Oh I went with someone-I mean i went with a group of friends" and proceeded to talk about it, and i literally have him everywhere on social media, so i knew he went with someone lol. When i was in a bad mood on day, he tried really hard to cheer me up and even a classmate told me he looked really concerned. And another time on my Sarahah (where people can message you anon stuff), he sent me a message saying he'd tap lol. My friend (lets call her A) told me she thinks he really likes me since he tries to talk to me all the time and he usually doesnt talk to her and even ignores her sometime. Sometimes i think he gets annoyed with her, but i always brushed it off since she's my friend. Recently, i went to the class all three of us had together and they werent talking until i walked in, and he started flirting with her, the same way he would with me... Obviously i got really jealous, but im not sure if he did that to make me jealous that day or he's just a huge flirt. Advice? Thanks. A few other stuff i havent noted~ He teases me a lot by saying mean things but always reassures that hes joking, he snapchats me quite frequently about my posts, he texted me some dirty jokes a couple of times, he kinda stares sometimes and listens to my conversations with A, and he somewhat fails to make eye contact at times but when i had eye contact with him last class, we both held it and had a moment :)

I have a crush on this boy in my school. We used to talk all day everyday and we used to snap each other all the time. He asked me if I liked him and I said yes and he said he only liked me as a friend. Now, he only says hi to me in the hallways about once a day and he ignores me the other times I see him. I always say hi to all of my friends in the hallway but I feel like I'm being annoying whenever I say hi to him first. Recently, his girlfriend broke up with him (he started ignoring me before they even got together.) However while he was dating her, he did things that made it seem like he was trying to make me jealous such as sending me pictures of them together and would usually say hi to me first whenever they were together in the halls but when they weren't together he would ignore me like he does now. Also, he would sometimes contact my through his girlfriends Snapchat instead of his own. I also always see him looking at me and he looked a little bit jealous when he saw me talking to my guy friend that he does not know. Why is he ignoring me and what does all of this mean? Should I ignore him back and see what eventually happens or continue to be myself and be outgoing and friendly?

I met my boyfriend in August and we became official in October. He had just recently gotten an instagram for the first time and had about 115 followers and people he was following. Since then, he now has 144 and most of them are women that he has added. This really bothers me. I brought it up to him and he said its because he just got a new instagram, and claims most of them are from facebook anyway. Ok...but I noticed today that he liked some girl's Halloween picture and he liked a few more pictures of hers (she wasn't in the pictures, they were pics of scenery) however I saw that she was only following 6 people, one of which was my boyfriend. This was strange to me. I don't know what to do about this. They all seem to be local women within 2 hours from him. It makes me really suspicious. Should I be worried or is this harmless?

Any advice on how to get over somebody. I was dating this girl for six months and I have gained such attachment. I feel like I get a lot of anxiety when I'm not talking to her and I get very depressed. I think about her constantly and feel like we had so much in common it's scares me about finding the common interest again in someone else. I'm a very attractive guy and I need some advice on what to do?

I started dating this girl that has completely changed my life for the better, but before that I had feelings for another girl who is a best friend of mine (she has a boyfriend, I have no chance with her). I may still have feelings for her, and now my girlfriend wants us to take a break so I can figure out what I want. I need help, i don' know what to do!

Okay im 16 years old and I live in Haven, KS and for semester 2 I wanna go to Hutchinson High in Hutchinson, KS but idk what its like. Does anybody know what hutch high is like??

First, this is NOT a troll. Second of all, I m a male virgin, so that s why I m asking people who have had sex with a women before. What makes men so crazy for sex with women? For example, in real life why do men rape women? Is sex that imaginably good? It s seen everywhere, men OBSESSED to have sex with women (in real life and movies). Why? Enlighten my mind.

This girl got pissed at me for defending my friend who was playing a dog whistle. Nobody else was complaining and she tends to be extremely loud herself. Plus there was tons of other noises OUTSIDE AT RECESS. Then we walk into the field to get away from her and play the dog whistle again, she follows us just to scold us more. She then turned around to my table group during math out of nowhere and pointed to the 3 of my friends saying she liked them all and then said "and I hate you" when she came across to me. Few weeks later and she gets pissed at me for wearing a bandana at school that I had received multiple compliments from other teachers and staff members, so I was sure it was okay. Another girl in her group then tries to rip it off my head. My guy friend then comes over to her and gets between us and puts his arms out (not touching her) to get her to stop. This girl is black. She then goes on about how its racist that he's trying to touch her and that I'm wearing a bandana. I have no idea why she is pissed about it exactly because her and 5 other of her friends are all yelling at me. I told her if she has a problem with me to go see the teacher. She did and then came back and told me to take it off again. I said I would only do so if I heard it from a teacher. Now the black girl (lets call her girl number 2) and the girl who was originally harassing me (girl 1) complimented my shirt the other day. does this back and forth thing w/ drama. Read next question on girl 2

Curious to know if any males know what this is without having to search it up!

I had started talking to this guy over the summer. I'm not really sure how long we talked before we met. We were supposed to go on a date in August, but it ended up being at his parent-less house. We cuddled and watched a movie, but he was more concerned about kissing than the movie. We ended up with his shirt off and my shirt pulled down and him dry-humping me while we kissed. I didn't stick around for a second movie and had him take me home. Later that night, I told him we needed to take things slower and that things went too fast for the first meeting, he agreed. We were supposed to go on an actual date, though it never happened. I was going through a difficult time because I lost my job so I asked him for some space due to how clingy he was being. He never told me he was talking to another girl besides me and during the space I asked him for, he started dating her officially. I sent him a few messages telling him he should've been man enough to tell me he was interested in somebody else as well as me. A couple weeks ago, I noticed I had a voicemail. It was from a guy who referred to me by name, but never said what his name was. It did sound a little like this guy, except whoever it was, was drunk. They said they messed up the best thing in their life and they regret it. I texted them saying I had just gotten the voicemail that they left 2 days prior and asked who they were. They wouldn't say and then claimed they called the wrong girl. I thought it may be him, so I went to his FB and saw he was still in a relationship so I figured it wasn't him. I just now went to his FB again out of boredom and saw he's single now. I'm not sure how long he's been single. Do you think he was breaking up with that girl and drunk called me to tell me he thinks he regrets screwing things up with me? Also, do you think he'll try to come back to me and if he does, what do I do? I'm almost 27, he's 22. It was so weird that he went from REALLY liking me, to dating another girl LOL! I'm not obsessed. I literally haven't thought about him until I got the drunk voicemail that sounded like him. He hasn't been on my mind in 2 and a half months until that voicemail. But yes he should've mentioned he was talking to another girl, too. I asked him for space, he disappeared and then I found out he started dating this other girl. It was rude of him to not tell me. He was over the moon for me and obsessed with me and I wanted space and then he went for another girl. I think I deserve an apology.

All I want is my mom to be happy. She's a single mom who's been divorced for a longg time and she just wants to meet someone that is loving and can support us. So she met someone but the thing is I don't like him that much and I can tell she doesn't really either. He's super nice but he's just not my moms type. Is a little older than her. (My Mom is in her 40's) They've been going out for about a month. After the first date my mom wasn't really into the whole relationship because of how much he was bragging and trying to impress her with his money. (He's super rich) So after she tried to end things off with him but he was like "you broke my heart blablabla" Which is a strange since they've only been on 1 date. But my mom gave him another shot and now they're back together. I met him the other day and I just don't really know if I like him that much. Of course, the only thing he talked about is his expensive things and money. Thinking he could impress my mom and I. Well it didn't work. And I don't like his humor. It's that serious kind of humor. I come from a crazy happy funny family so I can't really stand boring people lol. But he is super nice! And my mom tells me that she doesn't really like him that much either but how he's really nice. I think she is trying to get herself to like him so she can just be with someone. Like they're both rushing it. All of my moms friends tell her that he's not the one for her. And she kind of thinks the same. Please help!! I just want my mom to be happy and find a man who she loves completely and doesn't have to think whether she really likes him or not. I just don't think this guy is right for her and I don't really like him that much. I can tell she doesn't like him that much either. I kind of want them to break up. She said she was going to break up with him again but now it seems like she's second guessing it.

All I want is my mom to be happy. She's a single mom who's been divorced for a longg time and she just wants to meet someone that is loving and can support us. So she met someone but the thing is I don't like him that much and I can tell she doesn't really either. He's super nice but he's just not my moms type. Is a little older than her. (My Mom is in her 40's) They've been going out for about a month. After the first date my mom wasn't really into the whole relationship because of how much he was bragging and trying to impress her with his money. (He's super rich) So after she tried to end things off with him but he was like "you broke my heart blablabla" Which is a strange since they've only been on 1 date. But my mom gave him another shot and now they're back together. I met him the other day and I just don't really know if I like him that much. Of course, the only thing he talked about is his expensive things and money. Thinking he could impress my mom and I. Well it didn't work. And I don't like his humor. It's that serious kind of humor. I come from a crazy happy funny family so I can't really stand boring people lol. But he is super nice! And my mom tells me that she doesn't really like him that much either but how he's really nice. I think she is trying to get herself to like him so she can just be with someone. Like they're both rushing it. All of my moms friends tell her that he's not the one for her. And she kind of thinks the same. Please help!!

nd advice.? Have been dating this guy who used to be engaged to his first love. A girl i don't rhink he's forgotten. He doesn't speak to her however, she texts him and i noticed he reads everything but doesn't respond. Also. He has never posted pics of us on any of His social Media. Is he dating me as a rebound? He was with her for More than ten years. And I heard she's a great Woman. What would you do in my Case? He just started following me on Instagram because my sister and brother in law posted a picture of all of us hanging out. Will I️ lose him to her?

I want to break up with my almost two year boyfriend whom I'm engaged to and I can't marry him or anyone else how am I supposed to do it without ending in bad terms ? I don't want to hurt him but i tried to break up before and Hebrew wouldn't let me because he said he'd always be there for me so how do I end it if he won't let me ?....

There's this guy & girl that has both cheated but is still semi together in a sense. They still have sex. He calls her numerous times of day to pick arguments with her asking who is she sleeping with..talking to and who's coming over but when she goes to his house...he treats her nice for the most part...lets her lay in bed until he gets off work.....all day rather...and..doesn't pick arguments with her. He never says any of the things in person that he says on the phone. He cooks for her or orders in and makes great love to her he also cums inside her and tries to make her stay laying down in order for his sperm to be a success. He is very happy and calm when she is around but when she returns home he turns back into a sort of over protective...insecure type monster that doesn't trust her. They've both cheated on each other and their aware of it but their relationship is still sort of questionable a bit. I think they will still cheat on each other but they always get back together like nothing ever happen until every once in a while they will argue but once they lay down for a few moments their all cuddly and what not...

I met this guy at my new school I started in August, and I just am not interested in him anymore. We've barely dated for a month but I am so afraid to hurt his feelings. I tried breaking up with him last weekend but he talked me into staying with him. Well I regret it and I'd rather be single. I need to do it soon because he wants to go see a movie tomorrow at 12pm and I don't want to go with him, since I'm not interested. The worst part is, that we have a class together in school. How do I got about this? We are only just 17. I never had to break up with someone before. Please give some advice on how to do it nicely

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A friend of mine who is a girl broke up with her boyfriend recently, and I used to have a big crush on her a couple of years ago before they started dating. I was never able to work up the confidence to ask her out while she was single, but she's very open about romance, and just through casual conversations we've had it sounds like she's not against the idea of going out with me. So, should I ask her out? Advice for asking out someone I know well? Thank you all.