Family: Question: I want more!!!!?

Question: I want more!!!!?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 02:21 PM PST

Hi my name is Jessica (I am using my brothers account) I have always liked watching people taking nice big chunky piles of **** . So one day when my mom didn't flush the toilet I tried a piece of her **** and it tasted like it came from the gods them selves. I want more how do I convince my mom to give me more? Plz help.

Question: My parents won t let me get a bird?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 02:08 PM PST

I have written countless letter and given so many presentations to my parents about owning a pet bird. Whenever I talk to them about it, they come up with an excuse as to why I can't get one. When I tell them how I would solve it, they just change the subject or come up with another reason I can't have one. I'm so tired of not getting anywhere with them. I've done so much just to try and get them to look at letting me buy a bird, I don't want to give up now. Please help me, I'm desperate. Other things I have done to persuade them: -Did research about birds -Wrote out all the costs and how I would pay for them -Saved an extra $500 for any unexpected medical costs -Showed them how I would find time for the bird in my schedule (without it interfering with school and sports) -Showed them that I can clean up messes by cleaning the house without being asked -I've been doing extra chores for the past six months -I am constantly the number one person who takes care of my dog and trains him -Took my parents to the pet store and talked with an experienced bird owner -Showed them the bird that I wanted and explained it's personality ad how I would train and take care of it.

Question: Dream my grandfather died and my mom weren’t be good afterwards like she wouldn’t be here, my grandfather died now I’m scared for my mom?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 01:36 PM PST

I had a dream I was sitting down and my i was thinking of my grandfather being ill like if he wasn't going to be here then I was like and how about my mother what's going to happened to get then a thought came that in two months after my grandfather pass something would happen to her I imagine a hospital room in my dream. Now everything happened my grandfather died the room doors were what I saw in the dream, I'm scared now for my mother I got a vision of my mom being in the hospital and feeling what it felt of her not being here and it scared me so bad cause I got that for my grandmother years ago and she died

Question: Crap dad help.....?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 01:24 PM PST

I go to my dads every weekend even if I have plans I wil just cancel them last minute to go there ,and trust it gets annoying.i don't mind going to my dads but it's like he doesn't even care if I go or not like I waste weekend after weekend and for what?he lives with his new wife and her kids and my brother n I was like I'm going to ask him for a couple of pounds so I can eat to one of the kids n they were said nah don't do that he just spent£200 on our shoes .....this pisses me off as I'm his real kid and there not n he always buys them stuff but NEVER me ,he lost my phone didn't replace it,promised to buy me a school bag never did ,school shoes nope,normal shoes nope,just something nice in general no way ,this has really been getting to me idk what to do should I stop going for a while ?shouldnt he care more?

Question: Put downs from my girlfriend on weekends as a joke? Shes high strung too and doesnt listen? Is tgat low self esteem or her?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 01:01 PM PST

She says stuff that implies Im acting like a girl if I complain. She called me sassy, sourpuss, bi tchee. She wont shut up sometimes or stop talking trash. She buys the wrong stuff too but is so impulsive she wont wait for me to go too. I feel like a prisoner here sometimes too.

Question: What should I do in this situation?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 12:25 PM PST

Me and my ex had a really nasty breakup a few months ago and my whole family knew about it. I told them I was done with him and they all hate him, my dad has sent my ex messages threatening him that if he ever comes near me he'll do something to him. The thing is though we've made up recently mostly because I'm pregnant with his baby I'm due in March. None of my family knows about us talking again except my mom and even she told me that she hopes I don't make up with him. We've been on good terms mostly because I'm trying to get him to help me out with the baby because I don't know how I would do it on my own. I'm 18 by the way.. I haven't told my family that I've been hanging out with him because I know they won't agree with it and they will start drama and be disappointed in me. I still have feelings for my ex even though we've had a rough past I just can't imagine myself moving on especially because I'm carrying his child. I'm stuck and I don't know what to do? Any advice? My family doesn't realize now I'm always going to have to communicate with him in some way because of our daughter.

Question: Should I call my mom? Shes a toxic parent and I moved out?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 12:09 PM PST

I'm caught in guilt. She said shes worried about me and loves me sounding sad but I got her on tape being possessed pulling serious drama in the house. I left for my own well being and sanity. She sounded sad.

Question: Is disrespecting my father justified if he's a terrible person?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 11:52 AM PST

I won't rant about all the things that make him such a horrible person but to sum it all up, he's a jobless bum, a pervert, and a religious hypocrite. He asked me if I was satying religious and I said, "how about you worry about yourself".

Question: How do I get my dad to stop being gross?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 11:13 AM PST

My dad won't stop farting! He would constantly be farting when we're watching TV, eating, playing board games, etc. He also farts in bed, and my mom always complains, so she moved with a sleeping bag to sleep downstairs. Also, whenever we go out to eat, especially at our favorite Chinese place, my dad would fart really loud, and ruin my appetite! It's embarrassing! At other times, like at a restaurant or mall, he would abandon my mom, me, and my younger sister, and go flirting with the other females. Also, I think it's gross, but my dad would stick his hand down his pants, play with his boobs, stick his fingers in his mouth or nose, or grab his *thing-a-ma-jig* and *squeeze*. Everybody in my family cringes, and my sister even threw up b/c of this. What can I do? Help!!!!! Earlier this week, we went to eat out, and my dad began masturbating at the table. I literally threw up. My dad then began rubbing his boobs. My mom hid in the ladies' room, embarrassed to death. And my sister began crying.

Question: My Dad gets mad when I leave early at Thanksgiving to go see my Mom and her family. How do I tame his anger so not to feel nervous this year?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 11:02 AM PST

I am an adult so no longer required to only see one parent at holidays, I hated that rule when a kid and my parents ruined Christmas each year by fighting about it (they divorced). So when I leave early on Thanksgiving (around 7PM) how do I avoid my Dad and his Mom (my grandmother) trying to stop me and making me have a panic attack?

Question: My sister is always mean to people yet my parents love her. How do I react when she starts insulting people on Thanksgiving?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 11:00 AM PST

The sister is 24 but a bully like a 8 year old. My parents have always given her all she needs and my mother is an especially bad enabler and has created a monster.

Question: My Mom says my Dad had an affair when they were married. Dad denies this. I feel nervous like I have to stick up for one parent,what do I do?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 10:58 AM PST

Mom says I need to know so I know why she left him and don;t judge her. I just feel sad

Question: "If I didn't love you I wouldn't pick on you so much, okay?" What dies that mean?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 10:52 AM PST

Question: Should I be concerned for my sister's future?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 10:39 AM PST

So my sister is only 17, but her future seems empty. She started to get her permit a few months ago, but after she failed twice, she just gave up. She says that she has no interest in finding a job, not even a part time one. She doesn't even have a bank account! Sometimes she jokes around saying 'my husband will pay all the bills, and i'll stay at home'. But the thing is, she has no boyfriend or friends. She's homeschooled and has been for two years, but she's a full year behind what grade she's supposed to be in. She also sits at home, and paints her nails all day long, something almost all teen girls do. I'd help her out if I could, but sadly, I'm hardly in my teens, but doing amazing, and have a future set up. I just want to know if i'm being too harsh by thinking that she may have a rocky time trying to be independent. I guess it was like she was always better than me in everyway, and it's slowly changing and I feel bad for assuming her position. Thanks in advance

Question: Why are my parents this way?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 10:06 AM PST

So I am 18.I entered a medical university this year My parents are never content with me.i admit,I commit mistakes, I am moody,I have social anxiety and psychic issues.I am in this state because of them Dad is an irresponsible,cold-hearted man with the "I don't give a flying ****" attitude. he ignores me.I never knew what a fatherly love meant. He is a womanizer. He betrayed mom more than once. I was young when we first knew about it, I was going insane.I stopped eating,studying or going out like a normal person he has a good job and a nice car,but he never picks me up or helps me Mom has a heart that cares for the whole world's population, except for me.she wishes me the worst all the time.She insults,yells, calls me names(psycho, stupid,crazy),laughs at me for being a good student and beats me brutally.Last summer we had an argument.She kicked me hard I almost broke a rib, pulled my hair off and hit me with a piece of wood in front of her "beloved" niece She is so controlling that I can't eat comfortably for god's sake She compares me to people and says that I am not good enough,that I will be alone I tried committing suicide.I am a loner,I don't know how to interact or act normally. I also have nightmares and a lack of sleep. They know nothing about this. If they knew, they would gladly send me to an asylum The funny thing is, I still love them more than anything else What should I do? I have no one to turn to. I am seriously afraid I will do something and regret it

Question: Am I wrong for not wanting to speak or see my father side of the family??

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 09:00 AM PST

When I was a child, my father was abusive. He was scary to us too.there were a lot of times were he was just angry for no reason & the whole house could feel that energy coming from him. He kinda sheltered me and my three siblings too. There were times where he did not wake up to feed us breakfast while my mother was at work. Usually we didn't eat til our mother got home from work. I'm sure she was unaware of our father not feeding us. When we got a bit older(middle school), my father started doing some terrible things to my sister. I mean it's something that he should only do to my mother if you get where I'm coming from. My father only touched my once. He didn't go far with me like he did with my sister. Eventually the cops found out. He's in prison now. But 7 years later, his side of the family still thinks he's innocent. They think we lied about his actions just because my parents were having marriage problems. My father has been lying to them!! If we tried to tell our side, they would still think our father is innocent. What made me fully cut them off was when my aunt said that me, my sister, and my mother are going to suffer the consequences but she still loves us. I just said ok bc I was trying not to snap on her. Now they're confused to why I don't want to speak to them -_-. It's sooo frustrating that they're on his side. Am I wrong for keeping my distance? And am I wrong for feeling upset that my OTHER sister is speaking to them??

Question: How can I get my girlfriend to help with daily chores?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 07:53 AM PST

Recently my girlfriend of several years and I had the opportunity to move into her parents recently built second home, where they will eventually retire. Living there rent free is wonderful and allows us to save money for our own place, however, there are certain expectations on how clean the house should be when her parents visit every other week. I try my best to clean daily, as it will be important to do so once we have our own home, but I cannot keep the house in good condition without her help. She sees no reason to keep their house clean as they are her parents and they are used to her not cleaning. I, however, wish to make a impression on her parents and cannot do so if we do not take care of their house. I have talked with her about this multiple times only to be told "you re fine and they like you. " How can I get her to understand me and help with cleaning?

Question: What's a good way to ask my sister why her boyfriend keeps sleeping over?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 07:29 AM PST

Question: Is it bad that I want to move away from my family and never talk to them again?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 06:55 AM PST

Okay well let me start off by saying, I don't talk to ANY of my extended family anymore. Nothing specifically went down but they all live in different states and just don't care. The only family I have is my mom, dad and brother. I'm 17 years old. Im working on getting my first job and every dime I get is going to be put towards getting my own place, because I cannot stand my family. I mean I have love for them, but I want to love them from a distance because they are so toxic. I will NEVER be happy living with them. I've hated my life since I was 11 years old And everyday I cry because I'm stuck with them until I can get the money saved up and it's going to take so long. My mom is the best out of the 3, but still has said and done so many messed up things. Its my dad and my brother who absolutely detest. My dad is bipolar and scary when he starts to get angry. My brother is a bully who only cares about himself. Nothing I ever do is good enough for these people. I don't understand why I had to be brought into this life. Its like I'm the only one in this family who is a reasonable person. I know I have my flaws but I can truly say I do nothing to these people that puts any kind of damage to their lives, but every day they do something that messes up my life even worse. What should I do ? Will it make me a bad person to move away and keep them out of my life? I mean I'll still call every once in awhile and maybe even visit sometimes but besides that I want them far away from me

Question: How do I tell if someone forgot to invite me or is deliberately leaving me out?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 06:43 AM PST

About a month ago, I reunited with my sister after having not spoken to her in a year. She went through a hard time and kind of shut out our family for a while and then I initiated contact and went to see her. She seems ed eager to be spending time with me and we talked for hours, she even mentioned some things she'd like us to do together. One thing she mentioned was that she would like me to meet her boyfriend at a play he was apart of in November. I was really looking forward to it because I wanted to make up for more lost time with my sister. But she hasn't said anything to me all month about it. The play is in less than a week now. I know this seems pretty pathetic, but I'm worried about pushing her too much. I don't know if she forgot about me or regretted inviting me. Should I just ask or leave it?

Question: My boyfriend was repeatedly sexually abused when he was younger by older brother, I don't know what to think of this or how I should react?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 06:31 AM PST

Back when he was like 9 his brother started touching him sexually and it continued until he was like 13. He says he hated it because it made him think he was gay but it just kept continuing because he wanted to feel good. When he was old enough to realise, this is when he tried to discontinue but his brother kept on doing it to him. This caused him to believe he was gay and question his sexuality. This makes me question it too now that I know this but I think he is straight as he acts straight with me and he loves my body. He has shown no problem doing anything sexual with me. He says he absolutely hates his brother. It all made him feel depressed. Now he is 15 and so am I. I don't know what to think about this and I've never really met his brother but it's going to happen soon I'm guessing. His brother is graduated from highschool and probably 19 right now. How should I act towards him? My boyfriend says he expects me to hate his brother but I don't know how to feel. I don't know if I should hate him or think of it as something in the past he didn't mean. I do feel strongly upset because I believe that my boyfriend has mental issues caused by this. He might be sociopathic or physcopathic. Please give me some advice?

Question: I'm in trouble with my piano teacher, help!?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 06:31 AM PST

So last year, I had a lot going on at home and I was very stressed and I barely passed my piano exam. I was very upset because I knew my mom would be furious if I got any lower than 80 percent. Thankfully, she never asked to see my results. But this year, my piano teacher is really pressuring me to do well. He keeps warning me that there are plenty of other people who want to play piano and he could take them instead of me. He also keeps ringing my mom and telling her I don't make an effort in my piano lessons. Last week, he told me that if I did not finish half a song he would kick me out. Problem is, I had to stay in my dad's house for half the week so I didn't have the piano and the other days my mom had either loaded me with chores, or I was sick. I only had today to practise, and even though I spent 2 hours, I barely got any done because I'm sick and I can't concentrate. I can't get kicked out or my mom will kill me since we're broke and my strict posh grandmother pays for the lessons. What do I do!? Lesson starts in 20 minutes!!

Question: When I say: "Mom's cooking", what comes to your mind?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 06:03 AM PST

Question: I think my dad's gone mad?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 06:01 AM PST

He is 76 and I am 43. Every time I visit his house (which is next door to mine) he will start touching my hair. And the minute his hand comes in contact with my hair,he will scream. Like a really loud, high pitched scream. Should I bring him to the doctor?

Question: I am very concerned for my son and people around him.?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 05:57 AM PST

He is eighteen years old. I am out of the house a lot with work and I came home today and he had hired two strippers to entertain him. Ive started coming home a bit sooner discreetly and it turns out he does it every day. What should I do?

Question: My 30 year old unmarried son is too adamant. He do not speak to me in a social manner. How to make him talk properly?.?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 05:24 AM PST

He is grownup. His marriage is due.He is my lone son. He was under depression after 2009 which continued for almost five years. Still he is under medication and taking light dose of depressant. He is taking five mg of depression medicine daily. May be some time s he skips medicine. He was an obidiant child. But since he was in second year of degree he beceme adamant. May be from 2006 onwards. He could not settle in his life satisfactorily on account of depression. However he is on a small night job now whch earns him his pocketexpenses. Day time he has to sleep. He blames me for his failiure in his life. He blames the dispute between me and my wife who is also adamant. some time he talks in a proper way by calling me daddy. But often he neglets speaking. Today morning he was asking his mother to prepare a dish for him for which her mother scolded her saying that how many dishes should has to prepare. I asked what is the matter for whcih he responded "No nothing" in an abrupt manner. I was angry as I cannot bear if any body behaves me in this way. I told him not to behve like a dog. He asked waht happenned I explained he should not have spoken in rude manner. He said he was awaken during night as such I should not expet good behaviour from him. I told him if a freind of you calleld now then you will be too polite. He said I am prolonging the issue. I said in case I wanted to prolong I would have prolonged long back. I spent on him lot of money for education whcih gone waste., Now I have to spend on him much more for his marriage. In case if he behves in the same manner in front of the daughter in law then I will be no more. How to make him obidient. Or if not obidient atleast a socialite speaker. ( a person who speaks politely). I want to add something more I feel.

Question: My mother is trying to poison my mind against my Dad who she is divorcing. How do I avoid letting her do this?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 04:51 AM PST

I am 14

Question: My Mom likes to ruin Thanksgiving each year by banning us from seeing the rest of her family so I am going away this year, question BELOW?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 04:49 AM PST

So this year I am going away. This way I don't feel the sadness of not being allowed to see the extended family (they don't ask us cause my Mom has made clear she won't go). Now my Mom is mad I am not coming to her Thanksgiving and I am scared my Dad's mother will be mad also (Dad is an only child). I will see my grandmother come Christmas but how do I diffuse the anger when I choose to go away alone and how do I avoid being depressed being alone on the holiday? Being with my Mom depresses me cause I feel the shame of being unwelcome in her family cause of Mom's anger (I see them other times of the year but am not asked on holidays).

Question: I want to maintain a stable relationship with my Mom, but I keep "causing trouble." Please Help.?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 02:47 AM PST

Lately she has been stressed because we are currently moving to the other side of the country. I supported her whenever she needed some help. We had a happy relationship until a few months ago my personality changed drastically, (probably puberty)I was no longer the "nice", "innocent", "caring" or "useful" person anymore. Not like I was much help to her anyways. Or so she thought. I was the "emotional", "angry-all-the-time" and "lazy" teen that all parents have trouble dealing with. I tried cooperating and not be that kind of person and I didn't complain when she asked me to do things. I was doing the dishes one night, and a few words that I "didn't mean for it to slip" slipped out. She was teasing me and called me a wild animal for my mood swings so I called her a "pathetic Idiot" for not "understanding me". I know that calling her a "pathetic Idiot" was wrong so I apologized quickly after that. She got mad at me and gave me a lecture about how the word "Idiot" is a cuss word. I felt like crap after that lecture. And she kept making me guilty for it. She calls me a dumbasss everyday. I apologized everytime she made me feel guilty for it. But she still keeps bothering me about it and told me that she'll send me to boarding school if I keep acting like a total "dipshit." Please give me advice on how to stop making her calling me those things, it breaks my heart not being able to make out a stable relationship with her. I'm 13. Just hit puberty.

Question: My mom keeps trying to accuse me of not really being at school and seeing/having sex with someone when I m not.?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 01:19 AM PST

My mom is still trying to accuse me of seeing/having sex with somebody during my class gap. I have a 5 hour gap between classes on Monday and a Friday. And she doesn t believe that I m on campus doing homework. (I commute about 50miles to get to my school so there is no point of me going home during my gap, plus I don t want to waste gas) Its sooo annoying. She thinks she knows me and her "intuition" is telling her that I am and she keeps saying the truth will come to light soon. I told her yeah the truth will come to light that I haven t been seeing some one and I m really at school and she ll feel bad for accusing me of stuff that s not even happening. She thinks bemused she studies psychology in college that my body language is saying that I m lying. I m just irritated. I feel like she s really convinced herself that whatever story she made up in her head is true. I'm 21 and yeah I'm in college. I just think nits annoying because she really thinks I'm lying. And she tried the whole " if you are seeing someone speech that's your business but I don't know why you're being secretive" speech. I'm not being secretive, there is no one 😡😡😡. Because* and studied* sorry I have typos

Question: How I can teach him this thing?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 12:39 AM PST

My brother never deleted photos from fom our pc when our computer need to get repaired and he also never deleted photos from mobiles so what I can do in this suitation please helpe me how I can teach him this thing

Question: Is it incest to have a crush on my 10th cousin?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 12:26 AM PST

Long story short, I'm a gay guy who had a long time crush on Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau, because who doesn't, he's got a nice ***. Figuring that I was curious about his ancestry because he's French Canadian and I'm also French Canadian I wanted to see if there was any link between his family and mine. Apparently, I discovered that my 9th great-grandfather Toussaint DuCharme is a common ancestor. My 8th great-grandfather Fiacre Pierre DuCharme is brothers with Trudeau's 7th great-grandfather Jean DuCharme, who had Catherine DuCharme, who had Pierre Roy, who had Marie-Ann Roy, who had Louis Dupuis, who had, Michel-Louis Dupuis, who had Marie-Louis Dupuis, who married Justin's 2nd great-grandfather Louis Trudeau. Is it me or is my once innocent crush on Justin Trudeau now officially messed up now because I learned I am related to him?

Question: Is 2005 a long time ago?

Posted: 17 Nov 2017 12:02 AM PST

No it's not the year I was born.. Just wondering is it a long time ago in your perspective?

Question: I think my cousin is mad at me? Help what do I do?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 10:32 PM PST

So it all started when she borrowed my favourite piece of clothing, she borrowed it at June and now it's november it's been 5 months already she hasn't returned it. I asked her twice for it but she keeps telling me her mom is looking for it for her, but it's supposed to be HER responsibilities in finding it. When I needed it, I was lowkey mad at her for not giving it back so I decided to text auntie(her mom) bout it and asked if they have it n I want it back asap, I didn't complain in the text or said something like I'm mad, I was just asking politely. My cousin texted me that her mom was mad at her n stuff n yelling at her and forcing her to find it, she even told me I shouldn't have texted her mom and I should've texted her instead, (I mean she was the one who told me that auntie will be the one looking for it, so I decided to text her instead) and she sounded mad by the way she texted, Well I'm kinda glad I'll be getting my stuff back soon tho but I may have got my cousin mad. What do I do?

Question: Am I wrong to want to cut off my mom?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 10:26 PM PST

The bad blood between my mother and I go way back, I won't go into all the details, but as a quick summary, as a teen only wearing clothes she liked, criticizes the way I talk, act, and even my facial expressions, she buds in my marriage, how I raise my kids, how I wear makeup, didn't want me going to college....stolen money from me, lies to my kids about me and always accuses me of lying, she asks to barrow money, and is always trying to let me live with he cause her marriage is a trainwreck....to list a few she apologizes a few days after one of episodes but I know it's always a matter of time before the next, I feel bad, I'm her only child and she is astranged from her family, I'm all she has, but I don't know if I can take much more

Question: HOW DO U HANDLE A BOSSY/possesive mother?ITS BECOMING WAY TO MUCH TO BEAR NOW?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 09:33 PM PST

Question: Is it true that women suck at raising kids without the man?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 09:02 PM PST

Question: What can I do about my 10 and twelve year old sister's?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 08:38 PM PST

My sister's control my household. My parents never discaplin them. For example, the younger one attacks people and tells my mother that she wants her to die a brutal death on the daily and gets off Scott free. They don't do anything around the house, they regularly blatantly lie and they arnt even embarrassed when cought. They even dress like thots. were are the morals? Where is the care? Id be the alpha parent if I could, but I'm only the mean 16 year old brother. what can be done? Please don't tell me to respect my parents decisions. I do, and thats why nothing gets done.

Question: Is it normal for kids to raise themselves?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 08:19 PM PST

I've met a few kids who act as a parent to themselves or siblings. They make the boundaries, often meaning that they can play video games until 12am etc. Sometimes they appear to "parent" their parents, such as insisting that they choose safety first or stopping an argument. It seems as if they have little to no time for their childhood, they're in a rush to do their best at being mom or dad.

Question: Someone please help?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 07:55 PM PST

I live in a extremely poor neiborhood and I live with my mom and that's it I'm 14 years old and my mom is struggled she doesn't think I notice it but I know she goes to sleep hungry just so that I can eat l. It makes me very sad and depressed to see my mom struggling for 14 years most people were I live sell drugs to help there parents but I want to do good in school an stay legit so that ah I get a good job I can buy my mom a house and pay all her bills she disserves for sacrificing they way she does but how can I make money at my age to hell my mom

Question: Why does my mom not like me?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 07:13 PM PST

Is it cause of my sister

Question: Do I have a right to be upset?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 07:12 PM PST

I have been with my BF for about 6 years on and off now. We have a 4 year old daughter together but live seperately (with our parents) due to financial issues right now. He works graveyard shift but will leave hours early to go to work and hang out in his van to play video games, because he doesn't have a room at his moms and it is crowded, On top of that he won't let me know when he leaves so I basically never know where he is what he's doing and he doesn't feel the need to communicate with me. It bothers me that I'm home with our child and he doesnt even call etc. Am I over exaggerating?

Question: The word baby makes me wanna cry?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 06:55 PM PST

Alot of my family members (Expect for my mom and dad there's doesn't wanna make me cry) Call me "baby" And it makes me wanna cry but i'm not sad about it and i'm not mad about it but it makes me want to cry? Any help here

Question: Is it fair that my parents won t buy me a new PC?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 06:39 PM PST

To be clear my family isn t poor of any sorts quite the opposite. I haven t received anything for my birthday as well as last Christmas and sure its not all about getting I asked for it almost a full year and a half ago and 1. no answer and 2. its 749 not 1k+ like most good gaming rigs are. They recently bought me a laptop and its the 8th in a row to have a problem the 8TH. All my computer stuff is either problematic or unfunctional/so annoying to use that I want to rip my hair out. Whats your opinion? To be clear my family isn t poor of any sorts quite the opposite. I haven t received anything for my birthday as well as last Christmas and sure its not all about getting, but I asked for it almost a full year and a half ago. I've gotten no answer and its 749 not 1k+ like most good gaming rigs are and the one they got my brother. EDIT: just some grammar ^

Question: I don’t know what to do anymore?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 06:28 PM PST

I've been living with my mom and step dad for about 8 months now and it's a pretty rocky road. My step dad is a psycho with a temper and a dull sense of humor and my mom is bi polar basket case who thinks I'm a disappointment. I struggle in school and I don't know why. Honestly I think I'm just lazy and I don't care anymore because no matter how hard I try it'll never be good enough for anyone. I feel like I'm verbally abused In my home constantly being told that I'm "******* off my life" and that I'll never amount to anything and that my main concern is going out and catching a buzz. My mom thinks that I go out and party and drink and do acid but all I really do is smoke weed with my friends. My mom doesn't think I have a job because they don't schedule me because it's slow and I never talk to my step dad cause I feel like I'm walking on eggshells constantly. I want to leave this house so bad but I'm 17 and I have no where else to go. I've thought about killing myself multiple times but I don't think I'll ever have the guts to do it. I just don't know what to do anymore.

Question: I need to know what to do when im bored, etc?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 06:01 PM PST

so my mom grounded me and i would like to know what to do as i cant get on the internet(unless it its for homework or i sneak it) she might not let me play video games,(dont think im being stupid because she said the ban is going to be a month long) i dont like reading.

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Question: Should I go have thanksgiving dinner on my own?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 04:56 PM PST

Lately I've been asking my father where he wants to go for thanksgiving dinner because I'm tired of cooking big meals, I mentioned my favorite restaurant and he always cuts me off by saying he hates that f****** place and the food is a piece of ****. It hurts my feelings because when my mom was around we would always go whenever she wanted to, and now that she left he doesn't like doing anything. should I just go myself and enjoy my own time because my father has something against every holiday?

Question: Can i pay my own way through college at 17?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 04:46 PM PST

my parents won't even let me move an hour away for college not even because they can't afford it but because my mom likes to control me. She's refusing to pay if i do and given i'm only 17 can i take out loans by then or no? i'm tired of her controlling overbearing nature so what can i do? i don't want to like legally emancipate or anything but any other options? literally her answer for not letting me go literally up to 6hrs away is because my sisters never did so i can't either..

Question: How could I deal with a mom like this?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 04:32 PM PST

Now just to begin this I respect my mom but she really gets annoying and makes me feel unimportant. I can't even make my own choices (I'm 14 year girl) on what sports i want to play and what classes i want to be in. And no im not one of those annoying teenagers who are immature and think that doing illegal **** is funny cause it's not. I'm a straight A student (4.0) and take the highest courses a freshmen can take. I love sports. I made the varsity volleyball team and the season was fall and i want to do water polo and track and field but my mom doesn't let me. She said that she doesn't want me to play water polo because she thinks they're going to turn me lesbian (most waterpolo girls on the varsity team are gay and my mom advices me not "hang out with those people") and that kind of hurt because i know i like girls but i havent came out because i don't want to get judged. And she also said i can't do it because i have club volleyball and if i get anything less than an A she won't let me do sports anymore (it's only twice a week, two hours each). Also when I try to say how I feel about something we disagree on she invalidates me saying that me and her are not the same and to not argue on her level and that i don't know anything. Which really makes me feel unimportant.

Question: My parents are going to my redneck uncle's for Thanksgiving. How do I get out of having to go?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 04:26 PM PST

My parents like to ban us from the good part of the family and make us go to the bad part. It is a form of bullying my Mom likes to do. So we go to my uncle's (my Mom's brother) cause he is the only one she speaks to in her family. So instead of being with "the Family" for a "family holiday" we go to the redneck uncle's with his in-laws. His in-laws consist of two racists, a convicted pedophile, an alcoholic, my uncle who is also an alcoholic and his family, and a slew of in-laws and in-laws of in-laws of his. Last year there were 77 people there. I feel so bad about myself cause Thanksgiving is about family, not in-laws of family. My Mom boycotts her families and so she hurts us by making us miss out. I get suicide thoughts at this time of year every year. It is not that I mind the redneck uncle but his in-laws are not family and it is a "Family" holiday. I feel such a huge loss. I resent my Mom so much for keeping us from family. My uncle's kids are all much younger so I am a teen and they are little kids toddler through eleven. So how do I get out of having to go and be unfaithful to the rest of the extended family? My Mom is bitter towards her extended family because her Dad was once an alcoholic (he died years back). So she holds a grudge against them despite being good to her alcoholic brother. My Mom is a HYPOCRITE, how do I not let her ruin my Thanksgiving by causing me to be disloyal to the extended family of hers?

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Question: Is it inappropriate for a parent to talk with their 14 year old about adult issues in the family?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 03:58 PM PST

Like when I was 14 my Mom was giving me all the details of my Dad's extra-marital affairs and how her brother had an affair.

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Question: My Narcissistic Ex Allows My Daughter to Work as a Webcam Model and Married a Girl the Same Age. What do I do about this as the mother?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 03:53 PM PST

2 DAYS LATER------------------THIS WAS A DR PHIL EPISODE, JUST ASKED CURIOUS IF ANYONE ON HERE WOULD REALIZE. I AM 19 and NOT MARRIED. JUST ASKING FOR ENTERTAINMENT.

Question: My Narcissistic Ex Allows My Daughter to Work as a Webcam Model and Married a Girl the Same Age. What do I do about this as the mother?

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Question: Weird question but any moms can answer?

Posted: 16 Nov 2017 03:33 PM PST

My mom takes so long I'm bathroom. She has had frequent problems urinating and sometimes is in pain. But I've noticed she takes like way to long In the bathroom sometimes. She's a single mom, I've asked her why and she gets pissed off when I ask. I'm just bothered that she may be doing something inappropriate while I'm still in the house? Or is any other moms out there that can say they take long to?