I have all these things that i need to think about that j just end up sleeping and wanting to hibernate all the time! : boy issues : my driving : university work : family issues : my room needs organising : my own personal issues : my other personal issues : my friends : money : need to buy so much for me and friends and gifts I feel so upset:( how do i sort this all out ... im just ignoring everyone right now

I recently started dating this guy, its a long distance relationship. He sent me wrong texts a couple of times but always has a story to back it up. He accidentally sent me a text before saying "you have a boyfriend or a husband" and then quickly acted as if he was texting a lady behalf of his friend and apologized and had a long story to go with iit. I didn't this much of it so didn't make a big deal. He sent me another text by accident another time asking someone if he'll be "seeing them tonight" I asked who the text was intended for he said his colleague. Again, I chose to give the benefit of the doubt. The most recent one was me texting him good morning and how he slept. He responded with "I'm good" and then after a min followed up with this "movies,cuddling, and maybe more.." it was very random and seemed totally out of the blue and seemed like he was sending the text to someone else but mistakenly texted it to me. After being totally confused and asking what the text was about He later called and said it was for me. I think he's lying and sent me the text by mistake and realized it landed in the wrong hands. That's what my instincts tell me, am I overreacting?Talked to him, and he swears he wasn't sending the text for someone else but it doesn't make sense at all as the text seemed like it was a response to another convo he was having, we're LDR these things give me doubts. . Update: I also found out that he lied about closing his online dating account(as we're exclusive). He said he stopped going on since we met. I found out it was a lie he went there recently. All I wanted was the truth, wasnt going to make a big deal out of it. Anyway he ended up closing it but little lie like that makes it hard to believe that he didnt send that text by accident.

Me and my friend got in a bad bad fight and now my mom doesn't like her. My mom doesn't know that me and her started talking again. Should I even tell her? I'm 15.

So, my friend has a certain art style with her characters to be drawn with thick skin. She isn t really satisfied and has grown tired of this (she told me).

So I have been friends with my bff for over 5 years now. We were friends in high school, but we went to the same college and so have been best friends for probably about two years now. We get along really well, have similar senses of humor and people say they can tell we have a lot of love for each other. Well we just moved into an apartment together and ever since then I ve just been extremely annoyed with her. Like the little things I don t really like about her but have brushed away, have been amplified. The top things I guess she does is that: She oftentimes brags about her skills in a way where like she fishes for compliments and it drives me crazy! And other times she will almost like talk down to me and criticize me as if I m stupid and it hurts, it does. I know she doesn t mean it in a hurtful way but it does hurt. And other times she gets superly over hyper and it honestly just annoys me... ALOT. My bf has even said that she is kind of annoying sometimes. Like don t get me wrong, she has so many amazing qualities too and I don t want to lose her, because she has been such a great friend. But I m getting to the point where I just don t want to be around her and I don t want to feel that way anymore. I know I am not perfect by any means, in fact maybe just getting easily annoyed is one of my biggest flaws. But what should I do, please HELP.

I knock people over and break things and got fired from my last job because I kept dropping people's food all over them because I don't pay attention.I can't decide what to do so I have to bug my bf and friends all the time to ask them what to do. I almost got beat up because I couldn't decide if I should move out of someones way or not.I also have to stand close to people because it help remember what to do and makes them so uncomfortable Why can't people move out of my way? Why is it my fault when there stuff gets ruined because neither one of could move. I laugh hysterically and they take as I am making fun of them. But I am not. I laugh as a defense mechanism but they take it so wrong. how I do make people realizing that yelling at me is terrible. I can't decide what is ok to talk about and what will upset people.

First of all, I'd like to apologize for how long this is going to be. I graduated last year with this girl who has some mental problems. I have heard she had autism, and she treated me pretty much how a little kid does when something doesn't go their way. If someone spoke to me (even one sentence, yes or no answer) or I spoke to them, she would think I wasn't her friend anymore and was now their best friend. I have never really had a "best friend", and even when I tried explaining that to her, she still seemed to think we were. At least once or twice a week she would ask me things like "Are we still friends?", "Do you even like me?", or just the plain statement of "I don't have any friends, you're all just acquaintances." right in front of me. I assumed these things were to make me feel bad and reassure her I was her friend. I literally tried my hardest to not speak to any other students if she was around (and I had almost all classes with her). I also would help her in the classes we had, and if she didn't get what I was explaining, or the teacher, she would start shaking her head back and forth, get tears in her eyes, put her head down, and start crying. I'd try telling her it was ok, but if there was no response, I just stopped talking after that. The middle of our junior year she got mad one of her friends was hanging out with another girl and literally dig her nails into her arms and made long red lines on them. I was scared for her after that and didn't want her thinking she needed to do that, so I tried my hardest being there for her and give her acceptance. I lost a close friend to suicide a few years ago and I feared that for her. I have always been told I'm too nice, and give in too easily and put others before myself way to much. I already had really bad anxiety, and my senior year all but made it better. I feel like I'm constantly anxious, always expecting something to go wrong, I'm avoiding social situations so I don't have to embarrass myself or talk to others, etc. I just can't help but believe she is a big reason as to why. Even when I tried telling her about herself (as nicely as I could, of course) the next day or week I acted as if nothing happened because I didn't want to deal with more crap and anxiety than need be. Anyways, yesterday she texted me in multiple succession, "Are we still friends? Please be honest." I kid you not she texted that 5 times. I didn't respond because it was Thanksgiving and with family, so this morning she messaged me on Instagram with the same thing. I'm leaning toward not responding, but I feel like a horrible, heartless monster. If I do, however, I feel like I'm digging myself into an even deeper hole. If you were in this position, what would you do? Thanks!

Ppl say everyone has a purpose or a reason to be alive. Is that true? I have none, im loser. I don't help anyone in any way, I don't make ppl happy. I just dont benefit anything or anyone. Im a loner that cant even make himself happy. I constantly look at things and try to find a purpose for myself. But I cant. I tried dating but I'm too ugly because no girl even wants to talk. I really hate myself and I feel like a waste of a human being.

I have two friends that are the only people who will go do anything with me. We always have fun with just the three of us, but lately they have been inviting their other friends to things that I plan and they won't tell me about it until we get there. The problem is that I really can't stand the other people. We don't have mutual friends and I don't think I can get around to being their friends either, because they just aren't my type and I don't want to associate myself with them. How can I get my two friends to stop ruining my plans by inviting all these extras without pissing them off? I know there probably isn't a way to do this, but I was just wondering if anyone has been through something like this before.

My friend moved into my apartment July 1st. We let her stay for a month rent free to get on her feet. She has her own room. We then came to an agreement to have her pay $350 a month (which includes all utilities, WiFi, Netflix, me driving her places if needed, free food, and more!) she agreed. So starting with August 30th as the first due date, she would owe us $350 the end of every month. First month went great. Then she kept quitting jobs left and right. She started to get behind and maybe pay us a $100 or so a month. Well now she owes us $670 by the end of November. We warned her end of October that she owed us and she had until December 2nd to pay us the $670 in full or she would be kicked out. Giving her from October 31st until December 2nd to figure out how to get $670 or figure out a place to go. The whole month of November up until last week, she wasn't even trying to get a job. She somehow got a job last week but there is no way she will have the $670 by the 2nd! She doesn't seem worried at all. I feel taken advantage of. We gave her so much and she doesn't care that she owes us and that the due date is coming up. How do I tell her to get out? I'm going to wait until the 2nd to officially kick her out. I've given her warnings that she owes us $670 by then but she doesn't seem fazed Help!!!!!

I moved out of state at the end of August and only had one friend in my home city. He hasn't contacted me since I moved and I've been extremely busy, so I haven't really contacted him either. I went home for a visit in October and happened to bump into him. We had a chat and it seemed all good and like everything was normal. I did text the guy once since then, but received no reply. I've since made a couple of new friends in my current city and honestly haven't attempted go keep in touch with the guy again. For the record, I'm not somehow salty or bothered...I get that people have lives and are busy and a person on the other side of the country isn't usually a priority for most people. It's just that I'm kind of bored and was just thinking Is it safe to assume the friendship over and the dude doesn't want me to contact him?

By the friend being a snake I mean she is malicious. I'll tell my mom negative things that my mom sister says about her (my mother) just to stir up trouble. The friend is a snake but for some reason my mom likes her.

Me and my friend just for into a heated discussion over this. His parents take ALL of his money when he earns a paycheck.. He has to ask them for the money when he needs it. I told him that it was bs and they can t just do that. He says he hates it, but his parents are overly strict. How do you handle a close friend with very strict parents? Isnt this illegal? They open his mail with him knowing just to get the check. If he orders anything they open that as well. We are trying to become a couple but this is hard. He is 19 btw.

Ever since I can remember, I was always a shy kid. I felt like it got worse over my middle and high school years. I didn t really had real friends until 8th grade. That s when I started to text, call and hang out with people. But it was only a few friends.(that I m grateful for) But when I m not hanging out with them, I m alone (I use to hang with people I barly knew so I wouldnt be alone but I stoped)ill eat alone at lunch, do nothing on weekends besides play games, tried dating sites (and failed),sometimes i ignore others or not wanting to be around people. But when I see other people lives,(social media or hearing coversations at work) they look happy and theyre always doing something with friends or family. I don t really have the best relationship with my family (although I still love them) so its kinda hard to bond with them. The point is, am I depress? I dont know exactly how it feels but I feel so alone and sad sometimes. I tend to over think which is why its hard to talk to people in the first place. But what s going on with me lately? I have one best friend who is the world to me, and thats basically it. I dont hang out with anybody else. I try making friends but I seems that some people just dont want to talk to me (but thats probably because I m over thinking). How can I change this ugly feeling I feel?

So I started uni this yeah and I became really good pals with this girl called Alex! We immediately clicked and became best friends but as I got to know her I realised that all she does is gossip about people and she finds a reason to dislike everyone. When we go to parties and go out she always gets so drunk she doesn't know what she's going and she is really embarrassing to be around. Every night she goes home with a different guy and I just think it's degrading. She gets really loud and messy when she's drinking and I hate to be with her. I've tried asking her to maybe drink a bit less and not be so drunk but she's like we're on uni that's what everyone does. The problem is she's always a good friend to me and she considers me her best friend! She always comes to my appartment and stays for hours chatting and gossiping but I don't know what to do? People have told me she's the biggest gossiper and she talks about everyone. I don't know should I be friends with someone who acts like that? I'm a nice person and I hate talking about people. She's slowing turning everyone against her and people now associate me with her I don't know what to do cause I'm her only real friend? Please help what should I do ?

Well me and 4 of my friends made a presentation for her lesson(like many other students. I want to add that this professor didn t know me or my friends). I was the first to begin. When i began i forgot to say my name and the title of the topic, that really bothered her and i said "i am sorry. My name is blah blah and the title is blah blah". I am a very stressful person so i had a lot of energy at the begining and i felt i could do it..but every word i was saying she would stop me to tell me thats wrong and to correct me in a annoyed face expression...she didn t let me to get in the subject at all. She were moving her head and arms like she was thinking that i say only stupid and unverified things,something which i didn t as i made a lot of research for this presentation(i asked different people in the end if my work was that bad but they said it was fine and that the teacher let me complete no sentence)When i finished the first part of my work and my friend began to present hers the professor was saying all the time "thats the right way to present a subject, not like the previous one. Thats what she said to my three friends who were presenting after me( even though they were reading from the power point pages during the presentation and they were quite boring, it didnt bother her. Instead i was the problem even though i had learned my work by heart and i was looking in the pages now and then.

I don't really have any friends except my online gaming friends. After work and school I just go home and play video games with my friends online. I'm 23 by the way and I have never had a GF plus I'm a virgin. So I'm the negative stereotypical gamer. I don't think I'm ugly. I'm not scrawny or fat. I'm medium build and I'm 5'9. I do have more friends online than people in real life. My family tells me that I don't have a life becuase all I do is play video games. I'm not an outside person I prefer to stay home. I only leave if I have to. Am I loser? Should I change? I don't live with my parent by the way I live a state away from them. Don't think I'm some weirdo adult who lives in their parents basement. I usually keep to myself. I don't really have any friends in college. But I am social but in a formal way with my classmates

Aside from managers/supervisors and select few likes, this one guy will ignore you if you say or ask him anything at all. Sometimes he will even bluntly tell people to quit talking to him "You come here for a paycheck, not to talk to me." He told one person. It's my understanding he's been there a while also. Why have they not gotten rid of him?

I'm not bragging and I don't think of myself as better or more attractive at all it's not meant to come off as arrogant. I've been dealing with this girl who has copied me on everything for a few year, she's even changed up her appearance to look like I do. This is all over some guy who two timed us. Every time I talk about this with people they just say " you're being arrogant" or " You're not better than her" I don't think that! I just don't want someone mimicking me all the time.

First of all, I'd like to apologize for how long this is going to be. I graduated last year with this girl who has some mental problems. I have heard she had autism, and she treated me pretty much how a little kid does when something doesn't go their way. If someone spoke to me (even one sentence, yes or no answer) or I spoke to them, she would think I wasn't her friend anymore and was now their best friend. I have never really had a "best friend", and even when I tried explaining that to her, she still seemed to think we were. At least once or twice a week she would ask me things like "Are we still friends?", "Do you even like me?", or just the plain statement of "I don't have any friends, you're all just acquaintances." right in front of me. I assumed these things were to make me feel bad and reassure her I was her friend. I literally tried my hardest to not speak to any other students if she was around (and I had almost all classes with her). I also would help her in the classes we had, and if she didn't get what I was explaining, or the teacher, she would start shaking her head back and forth, get tears in her eyes, put her head down, and start crying. I'd try telling her it was ok, but if there was no response, I just stopped talking after that. The middle of our junior year she got mad one of her friends was hanging out with another girl and literally dig her nails into her arms and made long red lines on them. I was scared for her after that and didn't want her thinking she needed to do that, so I tried my hardest being there for her and give her acceptance. I lost a close friend to suicide a few years ago and I feared that for her. I have always been told I'm too nice, and give in too easily and put others before myself way to much. I already had really bad anxiety, and my senior year all but made it better. I feel like I'm constantly anxious, always expecting something to go wrong, I'm avoiding social situations so I don't have to embarrass myself or talk to others, etc. I just can't help but believe she is a big reason as to why. Even when I tried telling her about herself (as nicely as I could, of course) the next day or week I acted as if nothing happened because I didn't want to deal with more crap and anxiety than need be. Anyways, yesterday she texted me in multiple succession, "Are we still friends? Please be honest." I kid you not she texted that 5 times. I didn't respond because it was Thanksgiving and with family, so this morning she messaged me on Instagram with the same thing. I'm leaning toward not responding, but I feel like a horrible, heartless monster. If I do, however, I feel like I'm digging myself into an even deeper hole. If you were in this position, what would you do? Thanks!

I have always felt bad for my self not being the most popular. I have always been semi popular but I have never felt satisfied. Advice?

A few months back, I met this Nigerian girl on Facebook. We have been chatting as friends. She said she feels special while talking to me and that I have a good heart. She wants to apply for a visa when I'm done with college as I live in America. She hasn't asked for money and said money isn't important to her. I'm white and I told her about my mom's opposition to interracial dating but she says she doesn't care. She thinks we matter the most. I like to think she's serious about me but she's really hot and I know there are scammers out there.

I don't like that she stalks my Instagram but won't follow or like anything. The day I put it on private she immediately hit me up saying why did I block her. I'm her number one searched in her insta. She always has something negative to say. She just kinda creeps me out tbh.

Do you ever get jealous because one of your friends talks to other friends. Do you get filled with this intense jealous feeling that you know is irrational but you can't stop yourself from feeling. Why do I feel so possessive of this friend sometimes I think it would be great if they didn't talk to anyone else but me. Like how do you stop being this kind of person? I truly wish I wasn't this jealous can anyone offer some suggestions or does anyone relate ?

So today, at class, I argued with my friend. And then we were good again but she started recording me and I really didn't want her to do it, but she did it anyway. And then we watched the video. And holy ****, I couldn't believe it was me, I realised that I'm ugly as hell. My face is just so ugly... I felt like **** all day and my friend kept asking me what's wrong but I didn't tell her. She probably still has the video and I want her to delete it but idk how to say it. Honestly I think she recorded me because she wanted me to get mad and make me feel sad? I don't know. It was rude anyway but I couldn't do anything about it. I came home and started crying because I want to be pretty too but I have no idea what to do. :(

We met a few weeks ago on a dating site and live in different countries. She posted something online which worried me, and I want to ask if she's ok, but don't want to bother her either. How do I word it and let her know she hasn't me to talk to even tho we aren't super close [yet]

The only way to find them single is to go to a place where there are nothing but jerks and bullies! Then you cannot hang anything to do with them because of those jerks and bullies that they're with. If you attempt to have anything to do with them then those jerks and bullies are in your face.

I met someone on a dating app a few weeks ago. They speak English as a second language. They made a post on Instagram half an hour ago and I pressed the translation button on their caption. It translated ashen you want to be crying, but you're It's an incomplete sentence. Maybe 'you're' is referring to how she was in the photo (because she uploaded a selfie with it) I want to ask her if she is ok or not, but we aren't super close. I want to be caring and don't want to come across as intrusive. What should I say? I want to ask if she's ok and tell her that even though we aren't best friends, she has a shoulder to lean on if she needs to (a sister in she can talk to me) If it helps, in my friendship group it's my job to listen to people's problems. I'm not sure if thats too relevant though. I. About to go to sleep and want to send the message before I go

I met a guy freshmen year of high school and we immediately hit it off. If it wasn't the teacher talking in class it was us talking to each other. Sophomore year I didn't have any classes with him and towards the end i started to stop talking to him. Now it's junior year and I completely lost face to face touch with him, we still snapcht though. We send each other things with words but it's not like we're having a conversation. What do I do because every time I pass him in the halls I want to say hi and I get the courage to but then I go "ah never mind he won't hear me" or "he won't care" since he usually has headphones in and I'm not even sure he still likes me as a friend in the first place. We're both pretty antisocial and quiet people

So basically I was at my house and I decided to look at the snap map and it showed my friend was only a road away from me when his house is much farther away so I was like wow he's near me today and I checked a few minutes later and it said I was WITH him! Which means he's extremely close and I'm at my house so I started to close the blinds out of creep and I saw him run away from the window and now I'm scared and then he started knocking on my windows and door and shot one of my windows and smashed it pls help I'm crying

Im friends with this person and we've known each other 7 years, in a nutshell, the friendship is lowkey toxic and ever since I went to college (and she came to the same one, took the same manor I did) I found myself wanting to cut ties and just be on my own and explore these exciting years by myself. I didn't want any part of my past with me but this friend brought herself along. What bothers me is that she used to make fun of this major we're taking while i've loved it since I was like 12. Now suddenly shes the experienced one and shes the one who knows everything and pretends to like it which is just making me want to cut ties even more. But she'd think that would be weird of me since she has no idea how I feel and tbh if I were her i'd think the same cause its almost like we're glued to each other and I just want my own life. What should I do? ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.02

My ex gf and I broke up after a year and a half, but she didn't let me move on properly. She kept calling, wanting to hangout, have sex, showed up at my job and even tried to get back together. After a phone call where she wanted to come over and 'cuddle', I said no. A few months later, I got in touch with her, assuming we were friends, and learned that she was moving, she was very venomous and said all kinds of cruel things. She hurt me very badly. I finally confronted her about the times she used me as a spare while she played the field, it was a vicious call. She sent me a e-mail apologizing telling him that she still really cared about me a lot, how she was truly sorry for all of the things she told me, regretted it, and that she was going through stuff at the time. I called her back, she had just moved, she told me that she missed me, That she still felt a strong connection with me, and I think, that she thought of me as family. But she downplayed our past relationship (when we were a couple) attributing it to being 'young and naive' and that she liked some things about our relationship. She also told me how she was interested in hook ups with random people. But at the end of the phone call, I wished her good luck and happiness in life and told her goodbye. She told me that I could call whenever I wanted to talk, but I didn't respond to her offer, and just said 'bye.' After she told me bye, and she stood on the line until I hung up. And I never talked to her again. Even though she moved, I wonder if she was just going to use me as a spare/security blanket while she played the field again. Her past behavior exemplified this. Even though she said that the relationship (when we were officially a couple) because we were 'young and naive', yet she 'really cared a lot about me' and couldn't seem to let me go and feeling devastated when I finally said goodbye. Was she just trying to keep me on hold until she was done playing the field? On our final night together, during the period where she was being hateful, she came onto me sexually and I rejected her, and she told me 'if I was older, I probably would've stayed with you.' She even invited me to move with her. This was before the confrontation call, before the final phone call (a month or so before). You don't try to have sex with someone you feel is like family. So, I wonder if she was putting on a front during our last phone call.

Me and my friends are gonna do some dares tomorrow. Have any that you have to go shirtless for. Nothing too wild.

i had a fight with my best friend and since then, i have not heard about him and recently I've been thinking about him a lot...what should i do? should i call him?? he was the faulty one.. i could never forgive him then...do you think is should call him?..and now he has his own life and i have my own...

Im a junior in high school and my peers in my classes are the same 30-ish people for every class. I recently broke up with my girlfriend because she was making me miserable. After that, I was starting to feel myself again UNTIL, my ex told my best friend that I was into her boyfriend. It wasnt true, and I told my friend and apologized if it seemed that way. She said it was no big deal but shes been treating me differently and gets weird about me talking with her boyfriend, even though all three of us have been extremely close friends for almost 3 years. He was my best friend but I started avoid him like the plague. It makes me angry that my ex suceeded in tearing me apart from my friends. Even though I do have good casual friends besides them, it kind of made me lose faith in everyone around me. Ive had many fallouts with friends before, some of which I take responsibility for. But now, I feel like it got messed up right when things looked okay, and theres no one to turn to. I was already concluding that romantic relationships dont work for me at all and to have my friends turn on me made lose hope in my ability to keep people around. Should I just persue the rest of high school with shallow friendships so I don't get heartbroken? What can I do to keep friends in the future? Are people really not made for romance or friendships?

Such as purposely choosing to start conflicts, acting "most popular"/superior, gossiping, and doing petty things for attention. These are usually tactics that people usually drop when they get older. However, for example if a college age girl were to behave this way... would it be "normal" or would they come off as very immature or annoying?

This guy in my school doesn't seem to get it when people are annoyed. His obsession has been about sex or other irrelevant topics since we were in grade 7. The first topic he talks about when he meets someone is usually inappropriate. It made kids uncomfortable when we were younger, but now people just ignore him or give him signals that they don't want to talk to him. This guy also does things that annoy others in class (making noises or interrupting). The teachers take it easy on him. If another person were to do that exact same thing, they'd go to the principal or get yelled at. He does seem like he doesn't understand or maybe he has a harder time figuring out right/wrong (or just social skills-wise).

So apparently I'm viewed as the innocent friend and it's bothered me the past week about them laughing at the idea of someone pinning me against the wall and kissing me. Why?

I was looking up quartz and only came up with some kind of rock that's supposed to absorb negative energy or something, maybe they're saying stop being negative?? that seems like kind of a stretch though

Hello! I'm a twelve yr old girl with not many friends, but maybe 3 or 4. I do want to have a sleepover with just one friend. However my room is very small and my bed is a twin size bed. I have siblings but I can't use their rooms nor my parents. I have a living room, but who wants to sleep on the couch!? I was wondering if you had any ideas on how I could still ha e a sleepover!? Thanks best answer awarded

No matter who it is - even people I've known my whole life - I can't uphold a conversation with just one other person. I love meeting new people and I am very sociable with groups, but once I've met someone and I'm just having a conversation with them I get awkward and it's tough talking to them. I noticed this especially today, when I was at my cousin's for Thanksgiving. I ride to school with her every day because I don't drive yet, and I am so quiet with her. When we started I was very talkative, but after a bit we kinda ran out of things to talk about. It's mostly quiet and generic banter, or about stuff we've discussed 8 billion times already. But tonight, when I was with her and everyone else in the family, I was loud, sociable, funny and talkative. What is it about being with just one person makes me so quiet? It doesn't matter who the person is, if it's a complete stranger or a family member. Once I introduce myself, I run out of things to say except small talk. This is why I get terrified about going out with someone too, because I know going out with someone I already kinda know is just gonna end up being awkward after 5 minutes because of this. Why is this and what do I do? I hate this so much about myself

I need practice talking to people..but not sure how to find people to talk to. It's also hard to avoid complete weirdos

My ex gf and I broke up after a year and a half, but she didn't let me move on properly. She kept calling, wanting to hangout, have sex, showed up at my job and even tried to get back together. After a phone call where she wanted to come over and 'cuddle', I said no. A few months later, I got in touch with her, assuming we were friends, and learned that she was moving, she was very venomous and said all kinds of cruel things. She hurt me very badly. I finally confronted her about the times she used me as a spare while she played the field, it was a vicious call. She sent me a e-mail apologizing telling him that she still really cared about me a lot, how she was truly sorry for all of the things she told me, regretted it, and that she was going through stuff at the time. I called her back, she had just moved, she told me that she missed me, That she still felt a strong connection with me, and I think, that she thought of me as family. But she downplayed our past relationship (when we were a couple) attributing it to being 'young and naive' and that she liked some things about our relationship. She also told me how she was interested in hook ups with random people. But at the end of the phone call, I wished her good luck and happiness in life and told her goodbye. She told me that I could call whenever I wanted to talk, but I didn't respond to her offer, and just said 'bye.' After she told me bye, and she stood on the line until I hung up. And I never talked to her again. Even though she moved, I wonder if she was just going to use me as a spare/security blanket while she played the field again. Her past behavior exemplified this. Even though she said that the relationship (when we were officially a couple) because we were 'young and naive', yet she 'really cared a lot about me' and couldn't seem to let me go and feeling devastated when I finally said goodbye. Was she just trying to keep me on hold until she was done playing the field? On our final night together, during the period where she was being hateful, she came onto me sexually and I rejected her, and she told me 'if I was older, I probably would've stayed with you.' She even invited me to move with her. This was before the confrontation call, before the final phone call (a month or so before). You don't try to have sex with someone you feel is like family. So, I wonder if she was putting on a front during our last phone call.

My friend and I were in an argument because he said I don't understand what it's like to not hear from my dad because his dad is on a buisness trip, and when I said I did, he said "you don't. Your dad never wanted you and never will, neither does your step dad so you couldn't ever understand that." I almost lost my cool but I didn't because I don't think fighting is the answer.. how do I handle myself next time? Or should I cut off the friendship for good?

What do you think? Should I do that for my best friend, or is it considered weird or gay? I do not want to weird out my best friend, but I do care a lot about him. I buy my boss a Christmas gift every year and I don't even like my boss nearly as much at all, so wtf? If so what should I get him? He is planning on traveling the world soon for a few months, so maybe there is something good for traveling I can get him?

I want to make new friends but i'm awkward and regret everything i say 0.01 seconds after letting it out. I want friends so bad, but as soon as someone shows any signs of liking me, I lowkey frieak out and end up ignoring them out of fear. Anyone else like this?

-at 26 years old she still lives with her sister - she acts like a spoiled teenager. Very immature for her age -she has a sugar daddy who pays her bills - shes not that pretty. She looks like Angela basset - she's a stripper/escort - she has no kids or husband -has a mental illness that she takes zoloft for -she slept with the governor and didnt get in trouble for it -she is 5'1, 140 pounds with size 34D breast implants... That her sugar daddy paid for - she wears 30 inch weave everyday - she flunked out of college and owes $20,000 Like I really dont like her. I just want to be around her because shes popular on IG and she takes on a cruise with her every 3 months