Me and my girlfriend are having a baby in April we want to be married before he gets here. She's 14 almost 15 I'm 17. Should we get married ?

When i was around 6 i was raped by a family member im 25 now but i cant get sexually turned on or anything ive tried a lot of things to get turned on but i cant i finally told my husband what happened and now my marriage is going down the drain i dont know what to do any answers

My mother is a good woman but there's one problem, she doesn't like my fiancee. The reason she doesn't like her is because I broke up with my children's mother. We had two sons together. The thing is we never had a good relationship. She wasn't right for me. We fought a lot. My fiancees name is Emily and my sons' mother name is Karen. Karen and I get along and coparent for the sake of our two sons. Emily and I have a better relationship. She makes me very happy and I am positive that I want to share my life with her. Karen has since moved on and is in another relationship with another man. I have no issue with him. Karen wants me back and has done so since we officially broke up. I don't want her back and have told her this. My mother was very upset that I left her. She was almost angry and felt that I should have married her and stayed with her until our youngest son turned 18. Like she tried forcing me to marry her. I didn't see a point because it would not work out So, since I've been with Emily (I've known her for 7 years we have been together a year and a half), my mom hates her. She blames her for the reason I'm not with Karen. My mom has called her names, ignored her, treated her badly and Emily did take it. I have told my mother to stop. She doesn't like that I'm marrying her. Well Emily got upset about this and told my mother that she's a stupid b**** and told her that if she says another comment to me, that she will beat her a** And f*** her up. What do I do?

I just got home from dropping my husband off at work. Since it was warm out and I did not go in anyplace and was only gone for about 45 minutes I just drove barefoot and left my shoes at home.

I'm a 23 year old black woman. I've never had a significant other. I never had a boyfriend at all. I'm not virgin and I had a little 'thing' with another guy, but it just never worked out. I've struggled with my looks for years. I even had two different cosmetic surgeries last year. One on my butt and breasts. I lost a lot of weight four years ago, about 100 lbs. The surgery just cleaned up what I lost. My family is okay. I've suffered from self esteem issues my entire life. From church to daycare to elementary, junior high and high school, I was always called ugly by everyone especially the boys. I never had a prom date and was teased for my looks a lot. I gained a lot of weight from food causing me to be obese at 230 lbs. I lost almost 100 of it through hard work four years ago. I was proud of myself. . I was called ugly nonstop & would cry all the time and it hurt my feelings a lot. In high school, I remember a male student saying "anyone who would like you is clearly crazy and stupid as ugly as you are." In junior high, I sang a song and a male student said "if only your looks were as beautiful as your face." I'll never forget that. Well, fast forward to now, I'm 23. I feel much more prettier and a bit more confident in myself. I guess I look back and see my flaws from younger til now. Especially my emotional issues. I feel unlovable because of it. I wonder if a man would fall in love with me in spite of them and really be into who I am as a person?

Married 37 years! He snores so bad we sleep in seperate bedrooms. Anyone else have issues with their husband (or wife's) snoring?

Well, I've been married for over 20 years. My husband is a mess at times but he is a great father to our kids. About 7 years ago his sister made allegains of her sitting on his lap and she felt his d*** get hard. She also said that he tried to talk to her friend. Mind you my husband knew a lot of people because he owns a business and we have bought very nice things. He does have a habit and that's smok in but he never does it around me or the kids. And during that time I didn't catch him chea ting because he broke his leg. I'm hurt because he looks put for his sis by beating up guys she hate and give her money when she broke. He then did the same for his cousin. We get a big house and then she calls and says he was messing with her little daughter. I was blown away. I spoke to my kids and they say he don't touch them or anything. The cousin didn't tell police because she doesn't have enough evidence and she doesn't want her to go through it. I asked my husband and he denies saying their hating on our relationship. Mind you his cousin is being abused by her boyfriend and before allegations he stuck up for her. Protecting her. I'm thinking wow the woman in his family he look out for don't like him ????

I have known my boss since I was 17 and I've always had a crush on him and he has known this for a long time. I turned 18 a couple months ago and that's when we started seeing each other and I didn't have a problem with him being married because I thought all we were doing was hooking up until he said he wanted an actual relationship with me. I told him I would love that if he weren't married. After I told him that he went and told his wife he wanted a divorce and he told her why and mentioned me and said I was the main reason. I have met his wife before and she's very protective of him and I was afraid that she would come after me or something. So far it has been 4 weeks and this lady will not leave me alone! She calls my job asking to speak with "the skank who stole my husband" and she has shown up a few times making a scene. She has even tried contacting my parents and a lot of other psychotic stuff. I do plan on having a relationship with him and I know that'll make her even more mad. How can I get this lady to leave me alone??

I'm spanish and my boyfriend is pakistani,both 29 years old. He is living and working in Spain. He is muslim and he told me he only wants to marry a woman who is muslim and raise children as muslims. This is not totally a problem for me as I appreciate islam. But what is worrying me a bit is that we are together for almost a year and now he wants to live with me,doing a normal married couple life as soon as possible. To note that we never had sex together at this point (i'm not virgin by the way but he said he is). But he seems always very interested in doing sex with me and get me pregnant. As far as I know,some parents in Pakistan try to marry their sons with their cousins,but he said me that he doesn't see his family for almost 8 years and they don't even know if he is already married and has kids or not,but he keeps sending them money especially for litlle brother's education (thats what he said). Is that possible? And if it is,would his family accept our relationship? Also,he is not legalized on the country due to work issues,I'm afraid. He never asked me for money,help in anything and always wants to be the one paying for everything.

My husband birthday is on the same date of college meet. It is a mega programme which include one night stay at five star. I asked husband to join also but because of financial reasons he refused. Though it is costly to me also I want to join. Husband wanted to birthday celebrate along with children. I pressed husband to pay online for me as I understand it will be too costly for entire family. Did I do the right thing?

My husband birthday is on the same date of college meet. It is a mega programme which include one night stay at five star. I asked husband to join also but because of financial reasons he refused. Though it is costly to me also I want to join. Husband wanted to birthday celebrate along with children. I pressed husband to pay online for me as I understand it will be too costly for entire family. Did I do the right thing?

Well, i have met a guy as an arranged marriage but, i got to know him well and i discovered that he has a great personality and he loves me extremely and nothing is wrong with him except his appearance he doesn t know how to wear his clothes and he is not handsome at all. He is fat and doesn t wear smart outfits . and i see that he is so kind and loyal . everything is ok , but when i see handsome men or guys wearing elegant clothes , i feel very sad about him. i told him that i don t like his style and he promised to change but it is hard for him because he has a bad body shape. Should i leave or stay?

The story is my friend needs a place to stay for awhile because the place where he was staying at before kicked him out. My friend agreed to help pay rent and watch my 8 month old son. I'm afraid my wife won't approve because she's a very private person and don't want to give up her privacy. I don't know what to do.

I've been married 45yrs,my husband and I are 65.He sits in one room watching tv, I sit in the other.If I don't talk there is no communication.I have to put the happy in our home,I am suffering severe depression because I can't handle everything.I have raised my 3 kids now adults,he worked of course but never really communicated with them so all the discipline was on me,I have given my kids everything to this day and they don't like it that I say things they don't like so again I am off their list to talk to,"their mom",,my husband will talk if i'm argueing with any of them so he can take their side so they like him,,isn't that sad.I don't have money to go anywhere else so this will be my life,,and I can't just find things to do,it's not easy when you're "crazy" depressed,this is all ridiculous,,are all 65yr old men like this?? I doubt it!! Why are we still married,I suppose because we married at 18,raised 3 kids,just retired 3yrs ago and have no money to do anything else,moving and living separately financially isn't an option,,,,my question was about,men not talking

There's plenty of YouTube videos where a guy proposes using a puppy. That's what I want. I don't want an ugly worthless ring. I hate jewlery and it has no real value. Id never wear it. Even spending $100 on a ring is too much money for a chunk of ugly metal I'd rather he spend the money on something I'd actually enjoy. No, a ring isn't an expression of someone's love either. An expression of love is getting to know someone and giving a gift you know that they'd like. Like, why buy an expensive item that will just get tossed in the back of the closet or in the trash? Well a proposal should also be romantic and thought out. And the ONLY way to do that is surprise me with a puppy. Rings aren't even tradition. That is something that jewelery companies made up for marketing purposes. If he uses a ring and no puppy, my answer will be "NO", because it shows that he doesn't know me and is uncaring and doesn't love me. So I can breed the dog and keep a pup. He might be able to ask for dog back, but can't take the pup. A dog is way more valuable than any ring.

She is my husbands cross cousin and she wont stop hurting me with harsh comments and is trying to seduce my husband. She says she will be the lawful mother of my child. What is wrong with her and how do i stoo her from stealing my husband?

Im married to man i love. His mothers brothers daughter (cross cousin) wont stop annoying me and has made harsh comments on me when my husband isnt around. She says she is the actual wife in relations (even though they are never married) and keeps competing with me and says she will be lawful mother of my child?? Im scared to get pregnant. What if she kills me to get my child? I asked my husband about this and he said if i di while giving birth she would be the mother???? She is obsessed with my husband and she has blocked me on whatsapp. I have no idea why because i have been nicest towards her and she hates me for no reason. She thinks i have stealed him from her. i dont understand this. My husband says she is only 20 immature and young and isnt thinking right and he says that he loves me.. My MIL on the other hand praises her and says this girl is better than me. I feel scared and have a fear. Please help me

Hello. I wonder if it is possible to get married without all the "'marital documents" and all. I want the marriage to resemble an engagement. But I want it to be official. The thing I don't want is all the "if divorce happens both partners will each have half of what they own together". It seems weird to me. Neither I or my partner would want to take something from each other that isn't theirs. And if I write it like this: if my husband would have a business/run a company that I have nothing to do with and we would decide to get a divorce, I wouldn't want the half of his bussiness because it isn't mine. I just want to officially get married without the "who shall have what" if a divorce happens. And if divorce would happen I would just like to send in some papers to the goverment and have the marriage pronounced over. Hope you understand what I mean. (I do not think that a divorce will occure, but I am aware that I as a woman have some kind of privilage in a divorce compared to men. Women usually get to keep the kids, house, car in a divorce while men get all the loans and bills.) I just don't want marriage to become just some kind of a contract. I want the beauty of it. I want to be called a wife and be married to someone I love. Or is the only way to get married without papers is to get married unofficially and just call each other husband and wife?

Hello. I wonder if it is possible to get married without all the "'marital documents" and all. I want the marriage to resemble an engagement. But I want it to be official. The thing I don't want is all the "if divorce happens both partners will each have half of what they own together". It seems weird to me. Neither I or my partner would want to take something from each other that isn't theirs. And if I write it like this: if my husband would have a business/run a company that I have nothing to do with and we would decide to get a divorce, I wouldn't want the half of his bussiness because it isn't mine. I just want to officially get married without the "who shall have what" if a divorce happens. And if divorce would happen I would just like to send in some papers to the goverment and have the marriage pronounced over. Hope you understand what I mean. (I do not think that a divorce will occure, but I am aware that I as a woman have some kind of privilage in a divorce compared to men. Women usually get to keep the kids, house, car in a divorce while men get all the loans and bills.) I just don't want marriage to become just some kind of a contract. I want the beauty of it. I want to be called a wife and be married to someone I love. Or is the only way to get married without papers is to get married unofficially and just call each other husband and wife?

doesn't speak English. He always comments when she is live saying things like "hi' "you are beautiful". Why don't you say my name?" "Please smile" He has about 300 women on Facebook. He doesn't know most of them but always flirting. But in real life he seems harmless. Should I be concerned? I find it creepy

Hello, I am struck in a divorce for ages potentially facing a huge settlement. Some say that hiring a detective to monitor her movements can put an end to all this and possibly win the case in my favor. But, I am conflicted to do so as I still cherish the good moments I had with her from time to time and also feel like a bad person if I were to go ahead with it. On the other hand, I don't want to pay the huge settlement they are demanding too. I tried to make a deal with them but it did not work as expected. Should I think with my mind and do what's best for me by engaging the detective or should I think with my heart, forgive her for all that she did and pay the huge settlement? Thanks in advance.

My husband and I have been married for about 2 years now and dating for 4 before that. We don t have children yet and love to go out and have a good time. The past few times we went on our so called, "date night," I feel like he rather talk to strangers at the bar than pay any attention to me. I will get conpletely shut out of the conversation, he will turn his back to me and I will just be sitting there sipping my drink in silence. When I ask him to turn around, include me, or ditch the stranger and spend time with me, he tells me I am being rude. He doesn t seem to care that I am hurt by this and I want his attention. Maybe it is rude of me to want to ditch this person I don t know and have no ties to and I am being selfish to want to just spend time with my husband, but is that so wrong? Have you dealt with anything like this? Does your husband make you feel like strangers are more important than you?

He always drinks a little bit when we go out for lunch or dinner. It became more often and the dosage higher in the last months, since we got married a year ago. He s highly focused on his new position at work, but I wonder if he s trying to push me away

Stepson wants to move back Into my house with g/f. I'll take him but not his g/f. I think that this will create some chain of reaction with my other step kids and they'll wanna move in with their g/f or b/f...the same goes for my own son but he's far too young and not on his 20's. Ps. it's my house!!! I'm not a moocher that shacked up with a woman so that I can have a place to sleep.

I can't stand him as of yesterday anymore. Whenever his kid is over, I watch him and take care of him while he sleeps/plays video games or hangs out with his friends. Mind you this is only every two weeks on the weekend. He always tells me how important it is to him yet he doesn't make an effort to spend time with his son. I am now 7 weeks pregnant (first child) and the main reasons I can't stand him is because of him going out smoking pot late at night, ignoring me and my texts/calls, never helping with cleaning, he's gotten physical with me several times and shoved me while bending my fingers so they would hurt and threatened to break them because I was pissed when I came home and his friends were here while he purposely ignored my calls as I was visiting my mother for an hour. He has been taking off and staying the night at other places lately while I'm home alone. I'm starting to hate him and don't know if I should keep trying to work things out or just leave and stay with my mom for a while till I get back on my feet. I don't want to end this because I'm pregnant with his child but he makes me miserable. I want what is best for my baby and me. I am at my wits end, please tell me what you would do in this situation. :(