UV here and I need your help again. Yes, I'll actually take your advice this time. No I'm not lying. Anyways, I've figured out my marriage problem once and for all - we are emotionally ignorant..... My wife and I grew up in emotionally bankrupt families. Neither of us had parents that wanted to show us the correct expression of Love or any other positive emotions. The only demonstration of emotion we had from 13 years up till we met was anger and Hate. So we don't know how to be positive or in love with each other. We didn't even date each other, we were following our infatuation. But now I feel like I need to be taught how to have emotions so I can have a healthy relationship with my wife and be able to teach these things to my son so he doesn't follow in my footsteps. But this is very hard because everything we expose ourselves to is not supportive of a healthy relationship or healthy expression of feelings. As a matter of fact most things that look like healthy expressions are really campy and cheesy to us so we don't do it because it's very awkward and it looks fake to us. Even compliments seem shallow to us anymore. This doesn't mean that we should divorce it just means that we have lost touch with ourselves and each other. We're both working a lot of hours and I've been focusing a lot on my son and life has just been very hard. And like I said we didn't really have any role models to demonstrate the right way to do it. So maybe you can help me?

This past summer my husband said that his ex wife wanted their daughter to spend the summer with us because she was being disrespectful. I agreed and later regretted that decision. His daughter who is 16 and sadly morbidly obese just wanted to sit in front of the tv and eat, he never asked her to clean up after herself, he would have to tell her to shower, she slept on our floor and would wet herself during the night, he started undressing down to his boxers right in front of her, one time they disappeared together and he was just in his boxers, he plays with her like she's 4, one day she touched his chest and he tried to grab her breasts, she climbed in our bed and got on his back, the last thing was one morning she was in the shower and he went in shut the door so that he could pee. I am too through confronting him didn't work because he said he just sees her as his little girl and it's normal. This is the same daughter who got mad because he didn't come see her on a particular day and said he molested her then retracted her statement after her mom threatened my husband , told his family, and called the police.

I am at my 45.i had married to an woman for 5 years.She is at her 50.recently we are divorced.she was stay at home mom.Her previous marriage was not bad,but she divorced her ex-husband for me,she had two kids with her ex-husband,they share custody.Her kids never liked me.but after marriage,a lot of things changed,things deteriorated when her ex-husband married another woman after divorce and his ex-husband expecting a baby from his new wife. Suddenly my wife become so different,she was following her ex-husband,trying a lot to keep contact with him,watching his images,she even started stalking him secretly.when i confronted her,she told me,'an woman cant forget her first marriage,i cant forget him,he is the father of my kids'.i got completely shocked after hearing this,I tried hard to keep our marriage going,i asked her to have baby,she told me she cant have baby at this age.She continuously follows her ex-husband secretly.at the end,she initiated divorce and we are divorced now.she told me,'she is sorry for what she did,she will now either try to get back to her ex-husband or remain single for whole life'.initiating divorce then after missing ex now a days so common,now a days a lot of people take divorce,but dont even sure either they want the divorce internally or not.I really shattered by this situation of my life.NO WOMAN should miss their ex-husband if she married to another man,its not their right to do,it hurts the new man.is a crime.I think she is a mad and psycho.

19 year olds, married in the military. yes, i know we're young. before we even got married he cheated constantly! but i forgave and took him back each time. we'll the week we got married i found out he had cheated again this time sexually. being the dumby i am i forgave him. he manipulated me into thinking he was going to do right. well i finally moved from ga to va to be with him about 2 months ago and it has been nothing but pure hell. he complains i don't do anything around the house, when i cook, clean, and basically maintain the house AND take care of our 4 month old. when i ask for a break from the baby for about 2 hrs it's a problem. well tonight i overheard him in the living room on facetime with another girl this was my breaking point. i guess i'm just wondering how does getting a divorce in the military work? considering we have a child together but i will be moving back to our hometown which is ga how will custody play out?

I know that relationships and marriage with Filipino women is in a lot of countries including Americans and Australians aswell as men from The Middle East and countries like China etc (and I have also heard that there are a lot of Colombian women marry American and European men also) Out of curiosity, have you ever heard of men from UK (and maybe a few men from Spain and Italy) marry Filipino women like men in other countries do? Thank you for all your answers I understand that love and marriages happens regardless of nationality, but have you heard or witnessed it happen?

Stop loving her husband if he doesn't provide much someday due to laziness or stops providing for her altogether? I say true, especially sine biologically, women can separate love and emotions from money and resources easily, while men cannot.

So I'm married and I was getting help from this guy in math and we ended up talking a lot more than studying (I have nothing but friendship in mind and I'm not attracted to him in that way at all) I ended up driving him to his car because he parked far, and then I did something stupid, we were talking about tattoos and I was wearing a long sleeve shirt. He said he would like to see my tattoo so I tried to showed it not exposing any other part of my bod. In that moment I was like wtf is wrong with me! I feel so guilty, what should I do

we live with my parents right now. hes waiting for his work permit. I tell him that i want to save up for a year or more and then go travel the world, then we can start looking for our place. he says he doesnt want to. that he wants to get out of the house asap and find good jobs elsewhere and basically settle already. idk what to do, can someone advise me, i have nobody to go to and ask for advice. what wouks you do

Okay, so I started a new job back in September, it is in a factory with a lot of men, since then my husband has had a lot of anxiety, he has trust issues. He accuses me of sleeping with any and everyone. He said he really thinks I am screwing someone at work. This is COMPLETELY not true. I applied for another job and I think they want to hire me. But my problem is the new job pays less than the one I have now. I dont think I would really like it, the ladies I have encountered when I have been into the new job for interview, drug screening and such have all been rude. I want to turn down an offer if I get one. My husband wants me to take it, he thinks he will have less anxiety. Should I just fib and say I didnt get it? I know lying is bad and do not need a lecture on that.

My wife cheated on me, she said it was my fault she was with someone else but still wants to work things out. All I can think about all day and night is how much I want to hurt the guy. I haven't given the thought of whether or not I want to fix things as I've always been faithful but she wasn't. I'm not sure I can ever trust her. What would you guys do? P.s. She didn't confess I caught her in the act otherwise she would probably be doing the samething again.

I have dealt with this issue for ten years, and my husband will never take up for me. His mom and sister do horrible things to us, like call child protective services when he won t give them money. His mom is an alcoholic and he says, that she "only does it because she s drunk" and he thinks that rectifies the situation. I am now pregnant with our second child, and his sister is telling everyone that the baby is not his which is a complete lie, and it s ruining my whole pregnancy. They make things up to hurt me, and he will not say one word to them about it. Over the years I have slowly started hating him and I have completely lost respect for the man I once loved. His mother is now sober and we don t speak, she hasn t said much lately, but the sister lying about me is getting old. I ve begged him to ask her to stop and he refuses. I m ready to pack up and leave. Any advice?

I am a married person. A guy I used to see around me all the time so I thought we could be friends (my husband is aware of this person and situation) we had some misunderstanding and I thought I should talk to him and sort it out but he kept ignoring me and also gave me mixed signals that he wants to talk to me! but now I feel like his ignoring means he thought I was flirting and wanted relationship with him? When I was simply trying to talk to him!!!!! I think he is bad mouthing about me too...This is bothering me so much! In this circumstances what should I do? Talking to him is not option because I feel he is a rude person and not mature enough to have conversation.

Me and my husband are newly weds and have been married 4 months now. After our wedding he told me to keep any problems we have or anything that deals with our marriage between us, but he's always telling his family about our life and the choices I make. It really annoys me and when I tell him I don't like it he'll get annoyed at me for getting mad because he thinks it isn't a big deal. also he just recently has taken time off work to spend with me but he hasn't done it and when I comfrinted him he looked up for free vouchers so he can take me out. I ended up telling him to go back to work if he not spend time with me. Since we had gotten married he hasn't spent money on me unless it's to buy me something to eat which is always a cheap sandwich nothing that will hurt his wallete. He's never actually taken me out unless it's for free. I don't know what to do. I feel bad if I tell him he's cheap, but I mean I have no money. I came to his country to marry him but he doesn't acknowledge it. And I'll be leaving in a month, it's also the reason he took time off work.