Nothing wrong with it, just curious.

My parents are getting divorced. My dad and I have been spending a lot of time together. He visits me frequently at college, we spend the weekend at sporting events, bowling etc. However my mom sent me a text that im "choosing sides" and that she does a lot for me and i've abandoned her. I dont know what to say..

My husband (soon to be ex-husband) is not allowed to have contact with our kids because he did something terrible. I m a 28 year old Christian woman who was more than kind/amazing/patient with him but he broke vows and wasn t the kind of father he should have been. Now I m left raising a 3 year old and 10 month old by myself and can t help but wonder if there s a fantastic guy out there that wouldnt avoid me because I m already a mother and divorced.

Ye.. I Kno the question seems a bit throwed off.. but I m asking as a honest father. I m not the best wen it comes to budgeting, and I m new to this father role shid. Child support is generally looked down upon wen it comes to my folks, but that s becus the money would be used for otha things than the child.(in most cases). So should I voluntarily be put on child support until I figure things out?

At my job that I been working at for 2 months I came across 2 men who were in happy relationships, thinking about marriage than as soon as I showed up they had cold feet. 2 guys at my job like me with serious girlfriends and even thou the "relationship seems perfect on the other side" the men seem to be in love with me and would even leave they're woman for me. I have never came on to these men myself they came on to me. There was just something about me that they loved. That They still love.. I work with 2 men with woman who wanna be with me instead..does this make me a homewacker? I'm friends with one of the guys girlfriend so that's a dubble no for me but I do like one of the guys but would never wanna date them until they been out of that relationship for at less a month or two to not be any "added drama" .overall am I a home wrecker?

Edit Do you think my brother Jeff is a little crazy about the Golden state warrirors? I met up at his house after we all went and went out to eat. His daughter Lynn is eight and had been misbehaving at the restaurant. He hurried home cause the Warriors game was going to be on. Lynn apparently continued to not behave so when I got there Jeff was sitting in the recliner chair with Lynn across his lap with her dress raised. The game was soon going to start so Jeff waited for a commercial break. Lynn did not seem concerned with her satin white underpants showing as she lied there. She was watching the game too! Soon the broadcast went to commercial and I could hear Lynn then getting a panty spanking til the game came back on Is my brother the biggest Dubs nut or is he gone overboard?

Ok so for the past 6 months or so my husband has been working sooo soo much to the point where hes gone from 5am and gets home at 8pm or even later than that he works 6 days a week and sometimes they dont even give him a day off! I feel like this is making us grow apart from eachother since we never have time. And the times he doea get home like at 7 he wants to eat n go to sleep and i understand he is tired. So i dont nag at him. I do beleive he s working because his boss calls to give him his schedule. Ive been feeling really depressed lately and i think its cuz im home alone all day everyday with my two girls (1 and 7year old). Im just getting so tired and feeling like im single. Ive brought it up before and all he says is we need money and i do understand everyone needs money!! But ill rather have enough money for bills and stuff but have and spend quality time with ur family. We never go out as a family neverrr or do anything..i just feel like if he would ask his boss for atleast 2 days off a week maybe it would help or is it too much? Or am i exaggerating 😩

For the past 2 years, it's gotten really worse. I'm a 13 year old and my parents always fight. My dad always starts it even though he doesn't believe it to be true. Whenever we have some dishes to clean and he comes after work and sees it, he screams at my mom; she did nothing wrong, she was doing homework and we went shopping, plus she said she would do it after she came back. Then because of that he left the house saying he won't come back. Which he actually left. Other times we get in trouble for arguing with his opinion or just some simple things, all of which leaves my mom to cry and suffer. If anyone can help then please do. She is crying right now.

You caught your wife/hubby cheating and you shoot them..will you go to jail? .I just think If someone ever done that deserve to go jail or sentenced

So I met this girl about 4 years ago while she had a bf. We started to flirt at work and she would say how much she can't stand her current bf and that she wants to dump him. She says he emotionally abuses her and has even put his hands on her a couple times. She was sending me nude pictures while they were still dating so she clearly didn't care about this guy. So they break up and about 2 months later me and her start dating. Things were good for the first 8 months or so then she started showing some questionable signs. -Extreme jealousy. If a girl I knew from High School or past jobs even said hi to me she would get mad. One time a former co-worker said hello at a bar and she dumped her beer out. I never cheated or did anything to make her not trust me. I was good to her -Insecurity. She rarely had a nice thing to say about people -Poor handling of conflict. Even minor disagreements would turn into big fights and she would always leave the scene instead of talking it out. -Other questionable behavior include: crying at a restaurant when they messed up her dish, then when they brought the new one out she refused to eat it. We end up breaking up. 3 weeks after our breakup she was back in a relationship with the guy she was dating when we met. It absolutely tore me apart that she moved on so quick especially with a guy who she claimed to hate. I know she isn't good for me but I still miss her like crazy. It's been 3 months since we broke up. What should I do?

Why is he upset that I am letting him go by telling him that it s okay and we will just get a divorce so that he can be with her?

He obviously has anger issues but it seems to have gotten worse since we got married. He's put his hands on me before like grabbing me but he's never punched or slapped me. It seems as though he just likes scaring me when we argue. After he threw me on the bed, he started crying and asking himself why he has to be this way and that i don't deserve him. He asked me why am I still married to him. We've tried going to church but I don't even think God can change/help him. I don't know what to do anymore . Should I leave? I dont want to because i love my husband. We have a 2 year old we share.

My husband, myself and our 9 year old son were out having dinner in a restaurant. Towards the end of the meal, ny husband brings up thie issue of a long standing weekly appt our son has which I have been forgetting to bring our son to, for the past couple times. We get charged for no show. My husbands tone waa admonishing, like scolfing a chold. At one point, i jokingly said, if he can remind me, he said no he will noy call me to remind. He said this while shaking hos head. What was really annoying is why he always brings ip sonething like this to have a chance to admonish in public. Ehy not just say the word no he won t call to remind me and not shake hus head to show everyone in that restaurant, including our son, his reactuon which appears there is something negative going on between us. I am enjoying my dinner. Why not wait til we get to tbe car or house to tell me. I hate that he is never discreet about his reactions. His facial ecpressions when there is conflict between us, and these have to happen in pubkic, are so expressive while I am the complete opposite. I respond in a mild manner, and pleasantly. But he seems to relish my discomfort and chooses this public confrontation. I hate him. I got very upset (exploded) once we got inside our car. We ve been married for 24 yrs. We already talked about this public conflicts, reactions he has, and hoe it embarrasses me but to him, he thinks he sais it nicely . Wjat do you think?

I don't know why people say that the spouse should come before the kids. If I had kids with someone else, and then got married, I wouldn't put my Then-Spouse before my own kids. What if, during the wedding vows, she promised to give me and my kids the whole world and then 3 years later, did a complete 180? Started drinking too much and became physically abusive to my kids? Do I just say "To hell with my kids, my spouse comes first"? Really? If anyone, including my spouse, laid a finger on my kids, I'd put them in the hospital.

When I want to cuddle and do things with him like how a couple should be doing.. he wants me to do guy friends stuff with him. He talks to me like I'm one of his guy friend or something so when he tells me he love me, I feel awkward. I do most of the talking and when he tells me stuff about other people..he sounds obsessed about them but he barely pay any attention to me. Most of the time, he don't remember half the **** I tell him. When we have sex, I'm turned off by the whole thing. I'm not physically or sexually attracted to him. I feel like he's a brother to me.. over the years I have grew bitter and angry at him. I don't think he realize we have no relationship. I care deeply for him at one point but he betrayed my trust and took my guidance for granted and feel so confident that I'll always be around for him, I seriously don't want him, I can't stand him. I'm having this strong urge to pull myself away..love blooms from the heart not just on looks or good clothes. * I tell him how I feel every single day, nothing have change. He keeps brushing me off. Every time I tell him whats not working in our relationship and express my emotion, he goes into this fight mode which puts me off and I would have to distant myself so I don't get kill (I get that feeling being with him). I don't feel safe with him because he have anger issues and an drinking addiction. He doesn't care about getting anything done in life, beer is his life. That's what he lives for. I forgive and let him slide too many times..I don't want to put in anymore effort into pleasing him but I can't divorce him because he have no job and no where to go.

I have lupus and connective tissue disease. I am having a severe flare up and am vomiting with fever and a host of other symptoms My husbands parents are in town. His brother lives nearby and has a house yet everyone is insisting on coming to our studio apartment to visit. The place is a mess. I am sick. We saw them last night. We see them at least 3x per month. I Dont want to clean and cook and entertain when I am sick What should I do

My husband has debts and he always streases out on everything money related my son who is 24 works and he earns more than me and my husband and he is still leaving with us but does not give any money towards bills my daughter is 21 she does not give anything to but she does not earn that much but my husband demands money from my 15 year old but he doesn't even work or anything and he can't work I told him ask your 24 year old son for money he said he doesn't want to give anything my husband really is stressing out everyday same topic money money I just don't know what to do I told him in the past to save money but her never?

I ve been dating my husband for 5 years and ever thing is amazing. One day he just came up to me and said I want to be a girl , dress like a girl and fully be one. I was in shocked and didn t know what to say. I fully support lgbt community but I m striaght and like men so it made me uncomfortable . The signs have always been there because of rumors he was supposedly gay but I didn t listen and dated him. I want to stay but I can t be with a girl or a man that wants to be.

We have a 6 month old plus 6 other children together. 2 mine 4 his. 3 in all living with us now. I'm afraid of his response or internal stress response. I can't keep this secret long :(. Also will I be ok getting preg so soon? Had c section.

He doesn't seem to realize how difficult my parents are. My father is and was abusive my whole life to my mother, and verbally to me. My mother is sadly an addict but has her good days and I believe she's a wonderful person that didn't have the courage or means of getting out of her abusive marriage... I hate my father, but love my mom but sometimes i'd rather not visit because 1) my father constantly tells me insults about my husband whenever he gets mad and frankly, I want nothing to do with him. 2) it's just really unsettling trying to enjoy time with my mom only to realize 5 mins in that she's high off of something and can't act normal. I don't have a good relationship with my parents. My mom is difficult because I love her but I can't deal with her acting like that. Majority of my childhood, all throughout adolescence... I want to get away from all that. My husband doesn't seem to REALLY get it because when I call or text everything sounds and is nice. Is it weird of me to tell him I don't want us ever visiting my parents? Or if I want to visit then it's JUST me, not him. Would that make you feel bad if you were in his place? They've alllll met before, and yes he knows everything about them and my past with them. I just don't want him to ever see my parents because in the end that goes allllll on me.