He compliments me every time he sees me, he hugs me every time he sees me, like a tight hug, he touches my hair to get it off my face, he makes sexual jokes, etc. but he is touchy Feely with other women as in I've seen him touching other women's knee when talking to them in front of me, but he also touches my knee when talking to me, he just gets really close to me when he does it and some of those times he will compliment my looks.

Sometimes it seems married men are even hornier for sex than single men

Is it true that if a single mother with minor children remarries that she could receive a 'reduction in child support' due to her new spouse's income & assets? A new spouse isn't required by law to 'share' his or her money or property with their spouse's children that they do not have custody of. So, the fact that an adult parent 'remarries' should have no bearing on the amount that the non-primary custodial parent pays for their own children.

Am I not ready to be a Father? I have been dating my fiance for close to a year. She has been raising her daughter Rebecca alone. "Becca" is soon going to be eight. She never had a Father in her life and I am adopting her. I have my own place still but spend most of the time over with my upcoming family. Becca as adorable as she is can also misbehave which I never gave thought too her being punished. About a month or so ago Elizabeth did not answer the phone and when I talked with her later she said that she was spanking Rebecca's panty for misbehaving at school. That is odd to say? Yesterday I was watching TV. Becca got into mischief outside and Mommy was going to give her a spanking. She undressed Becca by lifting up her dress and then put her across her lap in the recliner chair near me. So in front of Daddy our daughters underwear was fully showing. Elizabeth then gave our daughter a lenghty but light spanking. When I discussed this with my sister she told me maybe I am not cut out to be a Father if seeing my daughters panties upsets me? Am I not acting like a Father??

Hello, me and my husband have been married for 2 months and we are already talking about getting a divorce. I'm completely devastated from this. He acts like he doesn't even care and acts like ending the marriage is no big deal to him. We were doing pretty good up until we got married. We had a huge blowout fight the week after we got married and he said some really hurtful things towards me. He called me a whore and a **** and I never cheated on him or anything. I have said some pretty hurtful things to him myself so I'm not saying I'm completely innocent. It just seems like he changed so much after we got married. I thought we were going to be happy newlyweds but i just can't believe that the marriage is ending. A few weeks after we got married he actually left me at our house alone and now he doesn't even want to come back because of all the fighting. We were together for one year before we got married. He keeps saying he wants to move back in the house but then changes his mind. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.

I'm 26 and I don't have my license right now, long story. I'm always having to get rides places, but most people don't mind. I have this married friend who I secretly think the world of. I don't think he suspects because before we were friends, I really thought he was the biggest jerk ever lol (he's 37, btw). There has always been some sexual tension that obviously neither of us has ever acknowledged. He used to give me rides to/from church until I started getting my mom to go. When we'd ride together, his oldest child was with us so it was fine. Only one time did we ever ride alone together and that was during the day and we talked about work and stuff the entire time, no awkwardness. We're extremely comfortable with each other. I get off work close to 7pm M-F and my mom doesn't like driving at night so she's been asking me if I can find a ride home some night. The people I work with aren't allowed to give another coworker a ride home so it would have to be somebody who lives/works in the area. I was thinking of asking him for a ride some evening since he gets off work half an hour before I do. It's a long shot, but he might say yes. Would it be bad to ask him for a ride? I'd never do anything to jeopardize his marriage or family, it would just be nice to catch up and spend a little time together since we haven't in a while. I'm fairly broke so Uber/Lyft isn't an option. Also, my job is only 5 minutes away driving so no bus/train, but I don't need to be walking in the dark

My husband deployed to Korea & he left me his car in his mother house for me to go pick it up when I️ went to pick it up his mother did not want to give me the car keys What Can I️ do for her to give me the car keys ? He is far away and there's nothing he can do she won't pick up his call or respect the fact that I️ am his wife and he left me his car for me to use while he is away.

My husband and I are 25 years old. We have talked about me going of the pill this summer, when I am 26. I have always known that I wanted to have kids, but there's this part of me that's completely terrified. I worry about being a good mom, finances, being a working mom, and my relationship with my husband. I have a history of anxiety and depression, and I just don't want that to negatively affect a child. Does anyone have any words of advice? I do know that I definitely want children but I'm also so worried about the unknown.

I have a childhood friend that I let move in with me, my wife and 9 month old son. I heard through another friend that him and possibly my wife have a crush on each other and it's bothering me. In order to protect my marriage I feel like I have to kick him out but I feel bad because he has no place to go. What to do about the situation?

Recently my wife said her ex boyfriend from 20 years ago contacted her online. She then asked if it would be okay to meet him for lunch. He lives 2 hours away. I said I wasn't comfortable with it. She agreed not to. She tells me she still talks to him about once a week online but it's nothing bad. She swears she loves me and nothing would ever happen but I don't know what this guys angle is. He is married too but I highly doubt his wife knows he is doing this. Am I reading too much into it. I trust her more than I trust him.

He says that he didn't enjoy it, but I found some bondage pornography on his phone when we first got together, but he hasn't seem to be interested in it since then.

Last week, I was at Costco buying home goods. I saw my husband kissing a girl and they were both smiling. When I saw him, I was crying on the way home. When he got home, I threw water with ice all over him and yelled you lowlife bastard cheater! Then I met his 'girl' and she told me she is her younger brother, and that she is helping him pick out my gift for our 10th anniversary. I tried to apologize to my husband and he said forget it and left the house. How do I know its his sister? He showed me a picture of a younger him, and his little sister looks so much like his actual sister. I don't want a divorce, I feel so bad not knowing before doing. It is his sister, at first I didn't believe him, but she actually is his biological sister.

Me and my wife have been together 5 years. We have 2 boys age 5 and a baby girl 6 months old. I caught my wife cheating on me the first time 4 years ago. We went to counseling and she admitted to cheating another time before that and they had intercourse in our bed. I told her that I would stay with her as long as she promises to continue going to counseling and to not do it again. After that I put a hidden camera in our bedroom without telling her just to see if she would do it again. I forgot about the camera after a couple of months and decided to check it and found her having sex with about 3 different men over the past couple of months after I had set up that camera. I confronted her about it and she told me that I'm never around and that I don't pay attention to her. I am a lawyer and I love my job and i'm dedicated to it. I try to spend a lot of time with my kids and I will admit that I fail to give my wife the attention she deserves but I feel if she would have told me that instead of having sex with different men I could have made her happy but she didn't do that. I love my wife to pieces but I know this isn't healthy for me or my children and I want to divorce her and raise my kids on my own but a part of me wants to stay with her. I need advice.

My husband gets on my nerves at times and so I try to avoid him. Is this normal in a marriage? For example, I'll do housework, return things at the store, do dishes, clean up the kids stuff, give them baths, etc. and he'll get home asking what I did all day, while he was out playing with friends. It's like I didn't do anything, but he's wonderful because he ends up cooking dinner. He has said before that he does everything. Things like this piss me off. Today I said I was going to a certain store to exchange something. He said Haven't you already been there three times? I was pissed off again, as if I have time to go there three times! Why can't he just say, see you later. I know it sounds petty, but I'm scared of divorce because we get pissed off at each other easily. My parents were divorced, and this is not what I want for my family, but we can't seem to be happy. He has a loud voice (type A personality), sounds like yelling, so I do not like to "talk" things out with him. What's a good solution without divorce? I would like to have him put his feet in my shoes and see what how his actions and words feel toward me. He doesn't understand my negative reactions to his rude comments. He doesn't think he's being rude when he says he does everything, etc. I can't hold back when I feel like I'm being attacked verbally. I feel like if I don't say anything back he won't understand how I feel, but it doesn't help.

Dude moves in with a single mom and her child into her place and doesnt marry her. Does this look bad?

My hubby and I recently met a new couple. We joined a country club when we moved to our new house. We are both in our early 30 s. During a free happy hour we met a 54 year old man I ll call Jon. We made small talk and he quickly got to prying into how much my hubby makes and how we cud afford to join the country club and liv in our area (we liv in an affluent area). I found this rude and intrusive. He even asked if someone in our family died and we inherited money. As we talked I made this mistake of admitting I had a bad relationship with my Dad bc he was abusive. Jon then started to push these classes called Landmark which are about self improvement. He tustve mentioned it fifty times and how we need to go before we have kids. He insinuated I cud mess up my kids unless I went to these classes. He also kept insisting I cud get along with his wife and how she cud help me with my iBS bc she sells oils. My hubby & I agreed after that he came on strong & had an agenda. he emailed my hubby few days later saying we shud all get together. I was dumb and invited them over. I could tell he was in awe of the size of our house & he was opening cabinets, looking in them which was off putting. It seemed like he was really trying to soak in what we are all about. once he started drinking he started pushing landmark again, he even said I have a negative vibe that I emit (he had really pissed me off at this point) & that before we had kids again we need to go to Landmark. Thoughts?

We got married last March and he had anger problem from the beginning but I thought it was because of my job being demanding that drive him. I loved him and when he fought he brings out every detail I have ever told him in confidence even my intimate details with my ex to my dad. His fights got violent and when in the second fight he hit me I left him. Now he is going through counciling while I stay with my parents. It's been 3 weeks and he wants me to move in with him due to economical conditions such as house rent and other details. He says he misses me and wants me to be around him since I'm family. He seems to be interested in therapy and doing it without anyone forcing. Should I go back

When my hubby and I got married and moved in together he brought with him his 12 year old dog which he had had since she was a puppy. I'm not a fan of dogs but was ok with having her there since it was important to him. I took to the dog, I bought her food, took her for walks, loved her. We ran into an issue though because our home didn't have a doggie door and his old house did. Soon we realized that she was starting to pee on our carpets. I never got mad about it but my husband did and he actually blamed me for it. He said that since I won't allow the dog to sleep in our room at night she has free run of the house and can't let us know when she needs to go out because the door to our bedroom is closed. He said I'm selfish because I didn't want her sleeping in the room with me (due to her snoring) and I didn't want to get up in the middle of the night to let her out. It made me so mad because I didn't want the dog to start with and I felt I was compromising enough by even agreeing for her to live with us. I feel I deserve a decent night of sleep. So he gave her to his parents and she is thriving over there. She has a doggie door and is loved. However, last night my husband told me he wants her back because he misses her. I said absolutely not. I put forth so much effort into compromising and caring for that dog and got no recognition for it. Should I feel guilty for not wanting the dog back?? She is perfectly happy with his parents and he gets to see her whenever he wants.

My husband and I are downsizing to a smaller home. Weve been saving for awhile and had a yard sale to sell a majority of furniture prior to our move. We are planning to buy new things since it's a smaller home. I had mentioned we needed guestroom furniture to him after we move. He decides it'd be a genius idea to purchase a $300 bedroom Set! Mind you, we are trying to SELL things. The pieces are so heavy and HUGE it took 4 of our friends to move it into a storage unit plus they are hideous!! We'd have to hire a moving company just to move the furniture into the new house!! Not just that they are too large to fit into the guestroom!! I'm trying to sell it but there's so many storage bins and a few pieces of furniture we are keeping in our small storage unit I can't even get to the pieces to show it to people!!! Should I just give it to Goodwill and save us the headache? I've been told they will pick it up. When you donate can you write it off on your taxes? Just curious! Thank you.

We were enjoying a lovely dinner in our favorite restaurant. We were laughing and joking when my mistress came into the restaurant with my friend from work. They both looked nervous to see me, he especially. I was furious to see her out with him. My wife sort of picked up on this because I went quiet and stared at them. She asked who they were, call it female intuition but I think she knew somehow and we both sat quiet for a while then left. I think she knows now about us, she's asked questions and is not in the mood for sex anymoreI am furious with my friend for dating my mistress and bringing her to our restaurant and causing this mess What do I do?

So I was married to my ex husband for 6 years and it was pretty abusive. None stop fighting and just all out bs 6 months after we tied the knot. Well we broke everything off last November and got our divorce. It was pretty calm seeing as how we were both done. Well I moved away and then came back and him and I re connected. We both have been in therapy and he is on medication for his PTSD now and seems to be doing a lot better. Fast forward to now, we have decided to try things again but it seems as though because I'm in a drifferent place and a have grown up a lot since the break up, I just want/need different/more from him than I did before. It's causing us to struggle a little. There is little to no fighting at all and when there is anything I consider it disagreeing. We talk through everything so well but emotionally, I just don't feel like he is here the way I want him to be. Say what you want about me but I love being with someone who tells me I'm pretty or beautiful (even if it's just every now and then), but it seems like it only happens when I complain to him. I want someone who will compliment my brains because I do take pride in being so damn smart or someone who looks at me in a loving way when I'm talking about things I'm passionate about and yet it seems as though he just shows absolutely no emotion. So I guess I'm just wondering, am I being to needy or should I just tell him I'm in a different place and want different things?

We live in a nothing town with a 15-20 mile drive to anywhere. My husband always refuses to go to town with me, so when we go out, like to dinner, we choose one of the 3 hole in the wall places in our rural town to go to. He reluctantly skipped his exercise workout this morning to drive into town today to help and give his expert opinion on a christmas present for my son. Now, I had offered to go later in the day after he worked out, but he said no. I skipped having anything to eat to hurry up for him. I guess I assumed he would skip his workout today. We finished shopping (all of 30 min). When he got back in the car (now 3pm) he said he needed to get home to workout. I said "you never ever come with me into town, and now that we are here, you want to rush right back. (I was thinking it would be nice to go someplace good for an early dinner) a few other things were conversed and we were back on the highway headed home. I am so pissed. I know he knows I am, though we have not discussed it. He's out for a walk in the wilderness where it will get dark before he returns. I'm eating something out of the freezer because I was starving. Should I be pissed or let him off the hook..... ugh!

I detest his presence in the house, when he tries to talk to me, even when he simply talks? Everything about him makes me cringe and feel disgusting?... What to do?