Okay so my fiance has been going to court for a little over 7 months trying to get joint custody of his daughter. He did not have a lawyer at first which he knows would have helped him sooner but he has one now. All I'm here for is moral support and to stand as a witness on his behalf. His lawyer wants to bring me in to talk so she can get my side of the story and make sure everything adds up correctly but that's not until next week. I wanted to know can a judge order me to stay away when it comes to his daughter's extra curricular activities or anything like that?????? I've been to all of them for the last four years. I came into the relationship with 2 children, he came in with one(his daughter), and we both have 1 together.. She loves me and the girls dearly but her mother is not fond of me at all. She wants it to where she doesn't even want me in the car with my fiance while he drops his daughter off. Their mediator already told her that she can't use me as an excuse to have control over their daughter and his life. I'm not a threat nor have I proven to be one. She hasn't been compliant with both parental agreements, which are the same, because of me. Smh...the crazy thing is, she doesn't know me at all and doesn't want to get to know me. I've tried to talk to her so she could feel more comfortable but she always say no because I'm irrelevant. Their mediator even suggested it and she refuses. Oh well. Smh, I was just wanting to know if a judge can order me to stay away.

She says hi to me and thats it . I try to compliment her to get a conversation going bc its all about her, she wont even sit next to me . She never asks about us and we harsly see her . She never shuts up so we dont get a word in and she insults my husband so i insult her back when she does that .She loves all her other inlaws . My husband always talls abojt me and i think.maybe that makea her jealous but her favorite brother is their younger brother so and ahe hardly in my.husbands life so idl what she has against me so much ??? Im done trying to brown nose her, its been 5 years ,time.to get used to me right, whoever her younger brother is eith she loves .

Please tell me if this is okay for husbands to go out late at night from 9pm-1am and smoke pot with his friends while I wait at home and am pregnant with his baby. He told me he was going to his store just so his friend can get his PlayStation out of it and now he's been gone over an hour, store is 10 minutes away as he said he's going to hang out a while once he already left. I'm tired of waiting at home like this and his pot head friends are more important to him. He tells me I'm over reacting and that I ruined thansgiving when his friends showed up as we pulled into our place and we're going to have our first thanksgiving together as a family... he fed them and then left with them while I stayed in my room. I hate him more everyday. Please tell me if you would be okay with this and if I'm over reacting or not.

I've been night shift. Out of the blue she contacted me in the early hours of the morning and was complaining about not being able to sleep. She got a bit upset that I forgot to send her some information to ask her friend for her passport application. I messaged her back to go to sleep and not stay awake late. Suddenly I found she deleted me from the messenger and when I tried to call, she had blocked my phone number! She had a meeting to go to this morning. I was angry and sent her a text saying that I'm not coming home with the car. I did come home and went to sleep in the spare bedroom. I left the car key on the table. I didn't want to disturb her by coming to the same bed... When I woke up, I found several missed calls and a swearing text from her about needing the car... This was all completely out of character for her. I haven't slept at all. I've been upset. I tried calling her from my phone and our home phone, setting my no. to private etc and she isn't picking up. She is nearly 5 months pregnant with my son and still pulling off these ridiculous stunts on me. I honestly feel like telling her she can stick the baby where the sun doesn't shine and just walking out. Is she going to piss off on me whenever she feels like it after the baby comes along? Forgive me for thinking the worst, but I'm wondering if she is up to no good. I have no idea why she suddenly turned so nasty on me...should I pack up and disappear without a trace for a while?? This isn't the first time she has turned on me. I've had episodes in the past where she will out of the blue block me for the day and then come home in the evening... it doesn't make sense if she is pregnant. My mate urged me to get a paternity test because of the way she is behaving. I actually think she needs a psych evaluation.

I don't what to have sex anymore with my wife. I find her unattractive due to the weight she has gained, every time I looked at her the only thing i see is her double chin. We have never discussed about her weight cause I don't know how to bring that up.

Never in my life have I met so many lazy women as military wives... I've lived all over the world and I have to say I'm shocked. When I moved to the US and got to meet so many wives I became worried for their kids.. They keep making babies and then yell at them, let themselves go and are just mean to their husbands.. But don't care to work either. Wth is up with that???

To be clear, she doesn't know that I know about him. She's been calling, texting and snapchatting with him. She specifically instructed him in one of her messages that he cannot call her while she's at home and hasn't ever mentioned this guy. What would a rational person think about this?

I m conducting a questionnaire for my presentation on Marriage and Millennials. If you have a minute to spare, please fill it out. It s only 6 questions long. https://goo.gl/forms/hTuMI6NN79M3d0ke2

So I asked a question the other day and was asking what should I do about the fact the my child's fathers wife does more for his 3 year old than are 1 year old because she had a better relationship with his other child's mother. The reason we don't have that relationship is because I found out he was sleeping with her behind my back now I've let that go because he married her and my child has to be around her so I don't need the tension but she still feels like he wants me so she has Ill feelings towards me. Anyways a lot of answers were saying she's not obligated to take care of his kids it's his job she doesn't owe the kids anything. Now is my thinking wrong because me I believe when you marry someone his kids become your kids and your kids become his kids. She married him knowing he had small children and she has 6 of her own. I'm just not understanding how people can say that I wouldn't necessarily use the word obligated but I just feel when you marry a man your taking on everything he comes with and vice versa So i need opinions on what others thinks

My daughter got out of drug rehab 6 months ago after she aged out of the system. She has since gotten married to my best friend's son. They live with my best friend who cries to me about how they steal her medications, they don't help to pay any bills and they don't clean up after themselves. Last night, my daughter informed me she is trying to get pregnant. I told her she needed to be able to support a baby before even considering such an idea. I was floored by her response. She said that the room she shares with her husband in his mom's house is big enough for the crib once they clean his room. She said that her part time job would be enough to support a baby since they don't have to pay for anything but gas fr her mother in law's car that she and her hubby have basically taken over. I told her that before she considers getting pregnant, she ad her husband need to have their own place, paying their own way for at least a year! She said it was none of my business, I think it is, cause i fear my friend and i are going to be the ones raising our children's child. PS. My daughter is also facing legal issues after being caught shoplifting

We cannot sleep in the same room due to his snoring. Once or twice a night he comes into my room, kneels on the floor and puts his head on the edge of my bed. Wakes me up because he will then snore And the movement on my bed. I asked nicely for him to leave any gets angry with me. Most of the time I have to go to the couch I sleep there until he gets out of my Room. I don't technically have to wake up in the morning as early as he does to get off to work but because he needs help in the morning I wake up super early as well. All I ask is that he lets me get a full night's sleep and he essentially tells me to go screw off.

Now a lot of man of 40-55 years old(long marriages) are facing divorce by their wife as terms 'his wife has fallen out of love'.As a result in most case man loses his whole life's income & savings,his home(which may be built by him but awarded to his wife),his kids(no matter he did not want divorce,he pays for child support,but gets less right to meet his kids),his family(after providing for a long time,now his wife feels he is not needed,but he still has to pay for his family,even he is thrown out of his family). After providing a lot for family,when the family turns the sole purpose of his life,divorce takes everything from him,because law favors wife,whether she is at fault or not.he is troubled from every side emotionally,mentally,financially,A divorced man sometimes has to pay alimony for that wife,who left him and remarried,but still he has to pay alimony.but no one want to give attention to them,because media and society were always favored on poor woman & demonizing man.They granted wife as victim and husband as demon for eternity,man dont feel pain,he can die by depression or suicide,its not a issue for them.Honestly,these man are more helpless than woman,trapped by the unjust and biased law of court.Divorce changes less to woman so definitely they will initiate most but it is a life changing effect for man.no equity on mental damage of a man who gone through this way.Suicide rate for divorced man is higher.Please punish bad husbands,not good husbands for no reason.

How do I find a man who will practice this??