That there's nothing better then black men claiming their deserved right to ***** our young white daughters, wives, and mothers all of them should be available for black men to have fun with I have no problem with adult black men raping my underage white daughters it will help them to be black cock slu.ts for life my mother divorced my father so she could be a black cock slut and I'm proud of her.

I am currently not in school right now and my grace period is coming to an end but the problem is that I am unemployed and cannot get a job for the time being. There is no one to take care of my younger baby brother at home (he s only 2) and I can t get a job because i don t know how to drive and have no transportation either. My younger siblings still go to school, my mother is handicapped, my father and older siblings go to work. I don t know how I am suppose to pay off my incoming loans.

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When I tuned 15 I asked to get a job but the answer was no because I wasn't ready, so getting a job right now isn't a interest anymore. I turned 16 about a week ago and my dad keeps pestering me about getting a job and how when I turn 18 I need to move out. My brothers are literally 23 and 24 and still living at home one has A SON. I don't understand the big rush about getting me a job now. I wanted a job on my count not yours.

My mother passed away unexpectedly a month ago. It has been extremely hard on me, my dad and seven year old son. My son and my mom were best friends always with eachother. Since my mothers passing my son and I moved in with my dad so we can stay together and be there for eachother. Lately my son has been lashing out and not listening to me and whines all the time. It can be exhausting sometimes. Does anyone have good advice on what to do? I have talked to him numerous times as well as my my dad. Now my dad and him get along and he doesnt give him a hard time. What am i doing wrong? Pleas help!

My boyfriend is going to college in another state and really wants me to move away with him. I'm scared because I'm only 21, still live with my mother and have 1 son and now pregnant with another. I've only lived with my mom and never been on my own. This is probably something i should talk to my mom about but she doesn't give me good advice because she wants me to live wit her forever lol. My problem is i don't even know how to get started what am i supposed to do how will i move and find another place to live without struggling with my kids. I know my boyfriend will help but there's only so much he can do also. I'm taking online classes and have 10 months left before becoming a paralegal, have a full time job, and my son is in daycare but even with a full time job money seems so low. Is moving a bad idea. I won't be going until August of next year probably but I'm scared and i don't want to separate my boyfriend from our kids. Family is everything.

They have Chronic Fatigue and would otherwise be homeless. You care for them but haven't seen them in 40 years. They don't have a penny to their name.

I'm 17 and I️ feel like my family hates me. They all treat me like ****. Like today I️ gave my nephew a toy that they were saving for Christmas.... I️ didn't even know it was for Christmas and now they are all mad at me just because I️ didn't know. But let them do something like that and I️ would forgive them in a quick second. Why should I️ have to deal with people who treat me like ****?

My Dad is an enabler and my Mom a bitter woman with mild narcissism.

When we were first married, mom helped us out financially. That was many years ago. We are in a much better financial situation now and my husband Bill says we have a moral obligation to repay my mother for her help when we were first married. Now when mom wants or needs something no matter how big or how small Bill buys it for her. He is not keeping track of how much mom gave us and how much he is giving her. If mom wants it she gets it. Mom is very happy that we are doing this for her and I am very happy that we can do this for her. My problem is my sister and her husband are mad at us for "making them look bad". I assume but I do not know for sure that mom helped them when they were first married. They can well afford to repay her but I don't think they are. I discussed this with my husband and he said that is my sister and her husband's problem. He said we will continue to help mom as it is the morally right thing to do. Is my husband right about what he is doing for mom?

Hello9 everyone, I have a couple of questions for you to answer and my questions are: Was it right for me to break-up with my partner because my partner said that it was "weird" for me to text him hearts at the end of my messages? My partner has also been adding lots and lots of new and unfamiliar people on Facebook recently which made me assume that he was cheating on me with one or a couple of the new people on his Contacts List. My partner used to go onto my Facebook profile and start texting my friends then my friends would ultimately delete me from their Contacts List. I ask him very regularly whether he is cheating on me but he keeps denying that he is cheating on me. My intuition is telling me that he is cheating on me. I have known my partner since August 17th this year and I broke up with him due to my suspicions almost or just over 3 hours ago and he didn't even text me back. I would be very grateful if you could please read the entire paragraph and answer my above questions. I thank you very much for your assistance to my query in advance.

I don't get the logic there. Many cultures don't even subscribe to this idea and they encourage the kids to stay until they marry off. What the hell am I as a single female adult suupposed to do getting a job and moving into a roommate (with a total stranger...not safe ) or living alone situation? To me theres nothing natural or normal about it. First of all I would be lonely and could more easily get into fornication or the wrong crowd, even drugs. There would be hardly any authority over me. I have morals and am Christian but still, I am a vulnerable sinner. I don't get why people keep saying move out even my parent says this to me even though I do my chores and keep the place clean...I'm in school as well. Its ridiculous.

Recently, my mom has been acting stranger than usual. I'm used to her angry outbursts and emotional self but lately she's been calmer. She is pacific now and I don't mean the ocean. She is also listening to whatever my dad says, too. My dad is pretty rude and he is not that good of a husband. I can remember my parents fighting since my days in the womb. My mom was so haggard and vexed because of my dad but now she is not that reactive to my dad. Yesterday, he kept complaining about something and my mom was still calm. Some of the strange changes in my mom include cooking a lot of food and being so nice to me. I like that she is being nice but it doesn't feel right. She should be acting more tough and hard on me (my mom is Asian so it is normal for her to be tough on me). My mom started praying after a long time. In our religion, praying is mandatory but most people don't do it regardless of potential punishments (like hell). My mom was one of those people who didn't pray but now she is. Do you think she is praying because she wants to avoid hell? I feel like my mom is regretting her past actions and wants to die peacefully. Do you think she is dying? Please, I need serious answers.

I am a high school girl that has chores that help out my mom. One of my chores is to wash the clothes and sheets from the beds. I noticed the sheets from my little brother's bed were sticky when I washed them. They kept getting more sticky each week. I asked him how come they were sticky and he denied they were. I finally got tired of washing his sticky sheets and demanded he show me how they were getting sticky. Gals, YOU WILL NOT BELIEVE WHAT HE DID. I asked him if that hurt. He said no. It feels pretty good. Is it normal for guys to do that? It sure messes up his sheets. Should I tell him if he does not stop doing that, he will have to wash his own sheets.

My sister was dumped my her husband of 10 years for a woman much younger than she was. The house sold and she had to move but her apartment would not be ready for 2 weeks so she is temporally staying with my husband and me. As expected she is depressed and has a very low self esteem. Trying to help her I asked my husband to tell her she is still beautiful and appealing to men. He did not want to do it but I insisted and that was what he told her. BIG MISTAKE. She thought he was flirting with her and she has been flirting with him ever since. He has been trying to avoid her but it is hard when she is living here. He wants me to tell her to back off. His is not interested in her in any way. I think he should tell her so I will remain good friends with her. Please give me your opinion. Who should tell her? My husband says the faster she leaves our house the better.

Last night my 5 year old told me her 11 year old cousin sexually assaulted her. My sister in laws other son (15) commited suicide 4 weeks ago. I don t know what to do. I know I have to tell her, but she is so broken I just don t know how. I also don t know what to do about my daughter. I m so devastate and lost. I need some advice please.

My mother just turned 67 and as she ages I grow more concerned about her. She still gets around well but is beginning to show signs of forgetfulness, idk if it's just age related or the early signs of dementia. Anyway, I'm 27 still live at home and try to help her out anyway I can. I work two jobs to save up & help her pay the bills. But she's been complaining behind my back that I'm too busy for her & because my eldest siblings & even the next door neighbor has been throwing out hints that I need to "quit job & spend more time with mom" But if I quit I won't be able to help out with the bills anymore, and she's been complaining about that to them too. We'll spend time together & go places but when I want my alone time she acts offended. I love my mom but am fed up because no matter how I try to help her she demands more & it's never enough. She doesn't treat my eldest siblings like this, never complains about them living 600 miles away & living in nice homes, yet they rarely visit her. I've been under her my whole life and am ready to move out to create space start my own life but feel guilty due to her age. Plus I know my family will lay the guilt on hard. To be fair my eldest brother has asked her countless times to move in with him when she's older & can't look after herself anymore but she refuses to move out of state & said she won't do assisted living either.

When all 4 grandparents were living they lived 20 minutes apart. We only saw my Mom's family on Easter, Thanksgiving, and Christmas. At Christmas my Dad and I would go alone to drop a gift off at my grandparents on his side on Christmas Eve. Sometimes my siblings would come. We never did the big family gathering though cause we had to be with my Mom's side of the family. I always found it sad and upsetting that my parents didn't share the two sides of the family. My Dad always said all families did it this way. Then my grandparents on my Mom's side would travel at Thanksgiving to see my aunt in Dallas. Yet, we'd go to my uncle (Mom's brother) and his in-laws. I hoped my parents would share with the grandparents out of town. Yet, my mother still insisted we just see her family. Now my Dad's parents and my Mom's father have died. My Dad says, "well now that the Granny is the last of the elders we do holidays with just her, it is how it is". Yet this is how it was before she was the last elder. So is my Dad full of **** and just letting my Mom hold us back from his family or is it a general rule that family holidays are to be with the mothers side of the family only? Like I say even when my maternal grandparents were in Dallas my Mom still didn't let us do time with Dad's family but made us go to her brother's redneck in-laws farm.

She is 23 and our mother (sometimes our father to) have always spoiled her.

I mean children should live with their fathers in any situation, because they come from their fathers no their mothers.

Every time WITHOUT FAIL during a conversation, my dad yells "This conversation is over because you won't let me speak" the minute he hears something he doesn't like to hear. It just happened about a minute ago, and I was super SUPER close to kicking his a**. I'm bigger than he is in muscle, the same height as him, and a brown belt in Taijutsu, so I seriously could if I wanted to. Why does he do this? These are always one-sided conversations where he does all the talking and the minute I say something, he says that.

My 14 year old daughter accidentally broke my blinds because she was trying to close them. She ended up breaking them and now she feels bad because I yelled at her. I know she didn't mean to break them but she still broke them. They were expensive! She's been crying saying she wants to die because she keeps hurting and break Bf things even though she doesn't mean to. She has a history of past suicides and selfharm. She can just stop because I am done with her sh*t. She's pathetic.

Thinking about Estrangement. I'm beyond stressed/exhausted. Too many events. My husband finds time to play video games, nap, have drinks and laughs, I'm running myself ragged. "But I did a lot!" he says. I always plan ahead, do things early. I planned a combo event for son's 1st bday/Baptism to avoid 2 events. A LOT of planning, many obstacles. Dad had a heart attack last week, can't plan for that, now have 3 bday events with Baptism TBD. I'm the correspondent for all 80 or so extended family about Dad and rescheduling so mom wasn't bombarded. It's also my husband's, Dad's, and brother-in-law's bdays this week. Cousin's baby shower next week. Thanksgiving after that. All the cooking! Been living in the kitchen, broke our grocery budget by a lot. Dad's heart attack was scary. On the phone with mom through it, he died 3 times, my mom lost it saying she was going to run away and hide or kill herself, same as when she's drunk. Then claims she doesn't remember, which I've accepted about the drinking, but to use that card on this is too much. Hosted in-laws yesterday. Went to bed the night before slamming vitamins and reading positive affirmations feeling physically ill from exhaustion. I was too busy to enjoy much of it. Another family party today. I just want to enjoy my son. I don't want to go through this Thanksgiving and Xmas.

I'm enlisted and I've been home only once in the past 9 months, and I don't talk about it too often but I do mention that I have dreams about home and that I miss it a lot. Everything about it from my home itself to my family and even my pets. She doesn't seem to like this too much and even though I have dreams about her and whatnot, she seems to be offended that I want to go home at all for Christmas instead of spending it only with her, and she's also offended that I went home for my boot leave instead of coming to her. What's the issue here? What can I do to make her feel better? Should've added that I will also be spending time with her for Christmas. Not completely leaving her out of the equation but I also want to spend some time with my family too.

My mom always yells at me. I'm 18 years old. She even forced me to go to college that she choosen! I have a job. Obviously I still did not earn much money that I can leave the house since I'm not from US and salaries are much less over here. She always tells me what to do. I can't even go out without saying to her. She forces me to do things, If I say "NO" she yells even more at me and even wants to hit me sometimes. Since my parents are divorced, my dad sends me money, she takes almost everything from me that I get from him. She has a nice job and doesn't need anything else. She even stands outside my door room listening me when I'm talking with someone on the phone. I don't know what her problem is but I can't keep up with this anymore. I'm always getting yelled at and I can't stand someone treating me like I'm 10 years old. I'm living in Croatia, I can't live with my father because he is currently living in Switzerland and working there.

I talked to my best friend yesterday. My dad is in the hospitsl and not doing too good, its making me want to give up on life, the amount of things I have had to endure lately.. the night before she caleld checking on me and saying how much she was worried about me.. anyway i was talking to her and she was letting me let stuff out, i finally just broke a bit and said " I try to look at the good things but a lot has added up, a lot of pain. To where it doesn't feel worth living anymore." She has helped mr through stuff like this before but she did not answer me and I am wondering why or if i bothered her. Is it bad if i texted her again asking why she didn't respond or if i bothered her? Would i look stupid?

I live with them. Its clear they like being sick. They also lay in bed for hours or days at a time, they get their nails done but say they can t see?? They also order soo much clothes from catalogs but how can they see to do this? They have no plans on ever getting off ssi and they are abused by their lover. They also don t exercise and don t care to. I feel as if they have given up and it hurts me to see them like this. I can t tell them how I feel as it will spark an arguement Them the whole family attacks me bc this person is a tattletale. They are over 50 going on 10. I also have tried to find cures for this eye problem They also have a license but are legally blind. Why keep it if u never use it? They also get ssi every month It baffles me they cannot see for other things but they can go out, get their hair done, do laundry, bathe the dog but they use their illness as a crutch? How can I tell this person without an arguement happening? They also depress me bc they are sooooo negative. I think they may have undiagnosed bipolar or something. They refuse to go see a psych. So any advice is appreciated. Plz do not be rude!!

I can;t tell her "I can't say that" or she goes all mad. She is a classic narcissist and everyone is scared of her. She is especially mad in recent years cause the extended family doesn't give her the attention they used to.

I am a sophomore in high school, probably up until this past year my home was very stable. But come September things have just gone down hill. My dad caught my mom sending messages that were very friendly to our neighbor. My dad made a huge deal and said all these crazy things. My mom is emotionally absent and just not like the mom I need her to be. My dad can either act very nice and understanding or crazy and will literally swear at me and my brother for saying anything about this. They fight all the time now and I am just sick of it. I know for a fact that they did not grow up in a house like this full of anger, and sadness. So they have no idea the hell that they have been putting me through. I am very mad and it s gotten to the point where i just want to get away. If I try confronting them on it they always turn the table to make me look i m crazy for even saying anything. Please give me some advice or guidance, me and my brother do not deserve this, no one should be going what I am going through dealing with toxic parents. I do not even hardly tell my friends this because it is too shameful and embarrassing. I just need help. Also they never let me do anything alone I always need a escort with me. and it is so annoying.

I have the biggest bedroom in the house so my mother thinks its ok to dump boxes of kids toys in my room. My sisters are 10 and 17 yet she wont let me sell them. Its impossible to reason with her as she just says " it took effort to get them" and then she complains why i have so many boxes in my room! Everytime i say i'll throw them away she threatens me. I have no where to put anything please help i need advice

I love my mom, but one thing is that she is so fixed on me that she wouldn't ask any of my siblings to do anything only me, and when I got tired of it and told her that my sister is is ******* 17 to do her part instead of my mum always saying she's tired or she's little she doesn't know anything, what does that mean for me I'm 18 does that mean I'm little too? I'm not older then her that much. I told my mom that I'm not doing the cleaning or anything until she starts telling my sister to do it, but you know what she did even know she has kidney problems she started doing the cleaning herself, she treats my sister like a kid, and expects me to be a quite little girl and do everything she wants me to do I never use to say no to her, but I'm the only one in this big family that does every hard work, while they rest, by now it's clear to you that my sister is the favourite one which I don't care, because I was the favourite when I was young, got everything I wanted but I'm just tired of my mother the only woman I thought would listen to me isn't taking my situation seriously. So now my sister does the kitchen and not even probably or clean enough and she goes to her room. While I have to make the whole kitchen spotless, and the living room and the toilet? Really it feels like I'm just a maid and they don't even care that I do that for them and not say a word. I'm the type of daughter that says no but means yes

I had a extremely light period or spotting for 5 days and then 14 days later, I get heavy bleeding and bad cramps then it stops to barely anything and then starts again the next day, this time it doesn't stop, the cramps come in bad waves and TMI but I had something that looked like a really big clot come out but it didn't look like a normal one idk I can't really explain it, what is this?

I m 16 years old, I m not allowed to go out with my friends and if I am allowed on a rare occasion I have to be home by 5 so very little time to do things with me friends also it much be in the suburb I live in. I am not allowed to go to parties. I am not allowed to text boys or allowed to have a boyfriend. I m not allowed to stay home alone when it s dark. My mother is so nosy, for example I asked her to put Get my money out in cash and she refused until I told her exactly what I was going to buy. After work if I don t come home straight away or I am running late she instantly thinks I m lying to her about doing something when I simply just tried to get home. There are more things but I can t think of anything else right now.. So do you think my parents shelter me too much. Also it makes me really sad that I don t get to experience things other teenagers get to, and I just feel caged.. How could I get them to loosen the reigns a bit?

I'm 18 years old and working 2 jobs to save up for college. My parents are divorced and each have their own problems. I grew up the oldest of 9 kids, and I take care of them a lot of the time. I'm like a second parent. I grew up taking care of them. I never really had a childhood because I was a second parent. It's starting to get old. I just don't have it in me anymore. It's gotten to the point to where I don't even want to have kids of my own In the future. I love those kids more than anything. My dad is just plain responsible. He is constantly asking me for help. Like paying his bills, or giving him money. I just can't do it anymore. I'm starting school in NYC which is about 6 hours from my parents. How do I tell them I can't help them anymore? Multiple people have told me that I'm being "disrespectful" by not wanting to help my parents anymore

I want to make my child's teacher a bobblehead as a Christmas gift. Is it inappropriate to make her wearing a short skirt? Because she always wears short skirts. Or is it better if I make her wearing a gym outfit because she runs marathons and loves exercising.

I have a godmother that i have not seen for years. I don't know her well. She has cancer and probably dying. My mom makes me feel bad telling me to visit her at the hospital because she is my godmother, but my mom told me that my godmother only asks about my older sister, i guess because she doesn't' even know i exist lol. ... What do you guys think? Is it bad that i have not taken the time to visit her even though I don't know her well?

So my dad has a bunch of video tapes of me when I was little and in one I was casually playing at home in only my underwear and I was maybe 4 (but I look 5/6 because I grew fast), personally I'm just not comfortable with it. Was this appropriate because I was so young? Any opinions?

Living with my mom is a nightmare honestly. And I know that some will say "Then move out" but I am only 18. And I am unable to right now. My mom literally yells at me with extreme anger. She will scare anyone. And kicks and smacks and pulls hair. She doesnt beat me though. And then in less than a minute she starts to cry accusing me of her stress and that she can die because of me and that when she dies she says that I cannot shed a tear for her because I am an awful daughter. Then either a couple hours later or the next day she is all lover dovey and says "oh im sorry for yelling, you poor thing" but its a cycle. Ot happens every other day. In tired of it. Im not an awful daughter. I go to school im a full time student at college and I am involved in church. Like today she told me wash all the dishes so I did and she also told me to cook so I did. But when I finished cooking there was 4 dishes that where from cooking that I had not washed yet because I had just finished and she got extremely pissed and did that whole cycle again! Why?? What are your opinions?

My mother in law is a danger behind the wheel, literally every time I've driven with her there is a near miss accident due to her driving. She is very overweight and has bad knees so she can hardly get out of a chair let alone move anywhere quickly. She spoils my daughter with endless crap food and sweets and does not respect my directions when my daughter is with her. For example, if I say she cannot take her swimming, she does it anyway. She's a nice lady and means well for the most part (when she's not being sneaky) but I am terrified to leave my 6 yr old daughter with her. She's very aloof and laughs off any of my concerns and is very naive to the modern dangers of today like predators and such, she's not aware of her surroundings in regards to these types of things. I've spoken with her and she took it as a personal attack. My wife continues to let her plan things to do with my daughter and take her for days at a time, driving hundreds of miles with her. Help I'm a bundle of nerves fearing for her!

my dad calls my family a bunch or retards and idiots basically daily. He is always mad and irritated and argues with my mom everyday. He once punched a hole in our wall. I can remember one major abusive sign when i was like 7. i was at my grandma's, and i was hanging with my cousin. My cousin dropped a vase, and when my dad looked over, he thought it was me. He then grabbed me and threw me against the counter. Is he abusive or am I just weak

My 16 year old boyfriend needs to leave home, his mom is verbally abusive towards him and extremely over controlling and unfair, he wants to move out but his mom keeps coming up with lies and excuses as to why he shouldn't, like he wants a GED but his mom said he won't a good job with one. He really needs out of his house, his mom drinks a lot on weekends and I'm death for his safety, my mom is willing to take him in and get him emanated, but he needs to get out of there first other wise it's never going to happen....I need suggestions...he's legitimately afraid of his mom...she's hasn't hurt him but I'm afraid she might, she's swears at him and calls him names...it's just not safe for him mentally or emotionally there.

She is leaving to outstation she don't like hugs but can u guys tell me how to hug her and the hug should be accidentally.Dont think me wrong the hug is for love only

when I was little i used to tell him i had a crush on him. now im 19 and everytime i see him..... i dont know. i just get a rush. what should i do?

Ive always never been interested in hanging out with my family. I have 3 sisters that are grown adults now 21,26 and 30 and my parents. They are divorced but my dad has a gf we never met and our mom has a bf for more than 10 years already. Anyways, ever since I was a teen I never wanted Or had the desire to hang out with the family to go to family functions. The only time I did was during Xmas or on hoildays and sometimes I would not go unless I had to. I do not know why. I would hang with my mom one on one and my littlest sister from time to time but now we are drifting apart. All I want to do is work and build up my skills and make money build up my clientele and just do well. But when it comes to day offs I still don't really want to go to family functions I don't know why. Am I just not a good daughter or sister ?

I want to hear your stories about being kicked out of the house. Maybe not just exclusively by your parents, but it can also help your siblings or anyone you were living with. I want to hear your stories because I want to find an answer for myself. Depending on what I read I may come to a conclusion in one of my most difficult decisions in life..

So yesterday my dad was yelling at me on the top of his lungs he would keep coming in my room without my permission and yelling at me and slamming my door and slamming other things. He would also yell at my mom. He was also told not to come in my room without my permission but he would anyways. His excuse was that he had a tooth ache. Like 3 days ago before that he said everyone yells and that when they have a tooth ache. Which is not true. He slammed my door so hard yesterday that it opened its self. My dad is not sorry but he said he did nothing wrong and that I'm mean to him all the time because i call him a crappy dad that's because he tells me to shut up and makes fun of me when he makes me cry. Then he says that he is like that because I'm mean to him. I offered him to go to counseling with me but he won't. Im 24 female with mild mental disabilities. He says he doesn't do anything wrong. I lhove with him because he wanted me to move in with him. He and my mom are my caregivers. Because I'm in CFH. Years ago he went to the mental for 1 day only because he was going crazy and breaking stuff around the house and and yelling and slamming stuff. He said he didn't do anything wrong either and he went there for no reason. My mom is also my legal guardian. What does this mean when he has the exuse when he has a tooth ache???

I'm 13 year old girl so far my list is: Plain black/white/grey hoodie/sweatshirt, Season 1,2,3,4,5,6 once upon a time dvd, 2018 once upon a time calendar and Black/Grey leggings with mesh

Most parents love their children even if they may be unfit to raise them. Trafficked women can get an accidental pregnancy. If it's just their parents who are in prostitution but NOT the child, can they still have legal guardianship? Drug addicts often have their kids taken away to foster care because of potential dangers. There's always a chance that someone will have access to abusing an offspring of an already abused person.

My sister is 23 years older than me. My mom's not married and when I was a kid, she was like my second mom and helped raise me, always telling me what to do and what not to do, making sure I didn't get hurt, etc. I'm 15 now, but she still acts like she's my mom and not my sister. She picks me up from school, tells me to do my homework when we hang out, gives me chores, makes me meals, tells me "don't talk back", disciplines me...it's really annoying. I even have to stay at her house most nights when my mom is working. My mom always tells me that I have to listen to her. I wish she acted like my sister and not like my mom. She can be fun sometimes, but it's not like she's actually my big sis. She doesn't have any kids, but I wish she did so that she would leave me alone. Sometimes I hate her. Does anyone else have this problem? What can I do?

A guy saw me at a party, never spoke to me and friended me on fb a few weeks later. One year has passed. We ran into each other at a event recently and he passed by me multiple times, and THREW his head down really hard and looked at his cell to avert eye contact or convo as soon as he saw me. He is CUTE and a SOCIAL guy in general and talks to a lot of girls. Why is he acting like that? Update: I am just curious what would make someone act like that?

If my mom's sister, my aunt, got married her husband's brother had a son, what would he be to me?

My mother is 30 years old and my father is 52 years old. I never really thought about this before but now i am starting to think that this is a little weird. I am 14 years old and i am barely noticing this and it kinda creeps me out. But my parents say that age is just a number. What do yoy think? Is he too old for her? Is that illegal or something?

Before anyone asks, I have a job and a car and savings, and I am over legal age. It'll be tight but I can support myself. The trouble is I'm not sure I can sneak around looking at apartments while living there, because I have to tell her where I'm going. And she's going to explode once she finds out. When she gets mad she'll follow me around the whole house yelling at me to the point where I can't eat or sleep without leaving the house. She thinks I shouldn't move out because she wants me to stay with her forever so she can have me available whenever she wants and I can't say no to her (because she just interrupts me whenever). I don't have anyone nearby I could stay with. I looked into shelters and the like, but they won't let me stay because they have certain hours you have to be there, and I have to be at work so I can't make it to the shelter on time. I don't know how long it'll take to find an apartment and I'm not sure I could afford a hotel for the whole time if it takes longer. She has picked the lock on my bedroom door before. What do I do? I'm trying to move out, but I don't think I can do it without alerting her, and I know she's going to be really mad and try to punish me to stop me. I think people might miss this, but I'm literally afraid that if I tell her, she won't let me eat or sleep or she'll try to take my car keys or something to stop me from moving out. Most likely she'll just follow me around yelling at me, she'll do this even hours into the night when she knows I have to get up for work so I can't get any sleep for days on end until I give in and do what she wants. My lunch hour isn't long enough because in order to afford an apartment, I am looking at apartments about 30min away, and I only get a 30min lunch. And she'd notice me coming home that late and demand to know why and I'd get the same treatment if I didn't have a good explanation. She's not hitting me or anything, she's just following me around and yelling and getting in my face so I can't do anything except pay attention to her, but I don't think that's actually illegal. The trouble with moving out first is she knows my schedule well and it's going to be impossible to run around and see apartments and get a lease signed without her figuring out something's up. And if I don't tell her what's going on she's going to give me the same treatment for not telling her.

My grandpa's one year anniversary is coming up since he has passed away and I was wondering if this is something strange. Please let me know. Thank you!