I'm a kind of person who doesn't wear make up, I'm not into fashion... Generally I don't care what others think. But my husband thinks we have to dance, and as we get closer to the date, I'm starting to get worried about people's opinion on my dress, on my looks, on how I dance,etc.

A good friend of mine is getting married next month on the 15th and has asked if her mother and father can stay the week at my house to be present for the bridal shower, rehearsal dinner and wedding. I figured they wouldn't be at my place that much since they have so many events to go to throughout the week so I said yes and being that her and her fiance both share a small apartment I could see how it wouldn't be much space for her parents... But anyway this was two months ago, today she calls me and tells me her sister along with her husband and two children and her brothers will also need to come to my place and here's the thing she didn't ask me she basically just told me and I don't know how many brothers she has but I only have a three bedroom house not big enough for my boyfriend myself, and 6 people including her "brothers" I don't know what to do. I did stay with her 1 year ago for about 2 months and I felt like me allowing her parents to come to my place was basically paying the favor back but I can't allow her whole family and I don't know what to tell her without her being upset and causing conflict in our friendship I also will like to mention I did pay her while staying with her and I offered ... She hasn't offered me any money and she has been talking about how she barely can afford her wedding so I doubt she plans to give up any money in exchange what should I do? Should I offer to get them a motel or something? I know I need to tell her something soon.

My fiancé has a lot of debt and children from their previous marriage whom they are financially responsible for. Their ex is still alive and well and employed and sees the kids too. My fiancé wants to combine finances with me when we get married. I do not want to do this until their debts are paid off front he past and they can prove they are capable of making good choices with money and saving some. I have a lot of money saved and a good jobs nd no debt and no kids. Why do they want me to combine finances so bad?