Okay so ima make this short and sweet. I been with my husband for five years he is a sweet guy but I feel like his family uses him and he dosent know how to say no at times we have our own life and family but family exoects him to pick up his dad from work every day drop him at his home then drive back to our home which is 40 mins away from where we live ! His mother calls him randomly to run all kinds of errands for her. One time she called him randomly and told him to go wait in a crazy line of black friday just to buy her a tv. Me n my husband plans that day was ruing because he spend majority of his day waiting in line for a tv. They even call him to tell him to pick up his dad once again at a bar because he got drunk once again we are a 40 min hour drive and the in laws still have a grown child living at home with them that doesn't help out I just feel sometimes they make it seem as if he has no life or don't care to interrupt ours I talk to him about this but he doesn't see a problem with it am I wrong???

So I am a crossdresser and everyone thinks that I am gay. I just feel more comfortable in women's clothing. Why is it gay that I like to do that ???

When two people choose to force cousins into brother and sisterhood by marriage without thought for those dangling in their winds of whim, i get confused.

So my dad got sick 2 years ago and ended up in the hospital for 4 months. After he got out he came to stay with me in my new house with my husband and our son so i can take care of him. Its been 2 years now and we have another child who is 4 months. Our house is a 2 bedroom so the room he stays in is my kids room. My family and I have never lived alone (this is our first house) & I love my dad but im ready to live alone with my kids and husband. It does get hard cleaning after everyone or not having privacy. Am i wrong?

Did you ever think "I'm not going on another date with this person."

A girl I grew up with and thought I was close with, went behind my back one morning and told my husband that I am cheating on him and that no man ever wanted me. My husband told me everything. And after the girl begged me I still spoke to her. I regret for talking to her but I have come to realise that she is psychopath and she more or less told me that. My question is how should I be around her even though I have already spoken to her after the incident. Should I start to avoid her

Many of my friends are in college still or in graduate school and still live with their parents and don't even have jobs and got married. What happens if their spouse can't find a job, or both can't find a job and have to move. What happens if they can't afford to move out and are still married while living with their parents still. What's the point in even getting married in these situations

hes a millionare..im married hes also married..why a millionare guy does like this..why asked me to his gf

My sister got married to her boyfriend after being together for a week. They had no reason she wasn't pregnant he's not in the army they had absolutely no reason for getting married so fast. I'm surprised 5 months later they're still together. It's a good thing they're really close to each other. They're both 25. They were married two days before his birthday. They didn't even have a honeymoon we do go camping down by the river every summer but that's not really a honeymoon. They said it was but I don't think it is. They secretly got married I didn't even know till the weekend after when we went camping. Our mother died when we were kids we never knew our father it's just been me and her. Her husband is also the lead guitarist in my band I see him almost everyday she was crazy about him I didn't know she was that crazy. What's wrong with her ?

My husband and I have been married for 19 years and I've always known he was adventurous but we were also only 18 when we married so we didn't even know who we were. Also I felt that his energy would eventually mellow out considering he was only 18. Well it didn't, it actually increased. We have so much love for each other but we recently have been shattered by the truth that we are very different people. He yearns to do really adventurous things in which I simply can't do them because I'm miserable. I have some physical limitations. He hates doing things I like because he finds it so boring but I don't feel my interests are that boring. I'm definitely not a homebody. I love traveling and exploring. He gets excited about going to Africa for a trail run that lasts for a week. He says it makes him whole and alive doing these things. He is like this in his life too. His work becomes very stagnate to him every 3-4 years. Is it ADHD or is he just adventurous?

My husband is Dutch, but we live in USA. We want to vacation to Europe next year to Netherlands and Italy. The thing is.. he wants to take his family to visit Rome and Florence. Two cities which we just recently visited! This is my argument: "We should spend romantic time alone as a couple, visit new places, not revisit the same cities just so your family can visit too! Theyre European, they can travel to those cities wheneever they want for super cheap! And you will spend time with them in Netherlands anyway.." He replies that I've always been a hater to his family and that I'm selfish and that he wants to spend time with them. I need a third point of view.. can someone please give me their opinion?

What are some things that would prevent you from getting into a long term relationship with someone?

My boyfriend (25) and I (24) have been dating for 8 months. He's been in America for about 2 years, but "overstayed his welcome". His dream is to be a pilot and must return to his country to continue training and get a job. He said now is a good time as the window for hiring pilots is very slim. We talked about getting married at city hall so he can stay and work here. We love each other, but I feel as if marriage is a big deal. He is the first guy I ever slept with too. He bought his ticket to return to his country this weekend. I just don't know the best decision to make. If he goes back he will be certified to fly in his country and I fear he will stay there. I do not want to live in his country and I know it would be hard to find work for me there (I don't know the language yet). He would get married, but doesn't pressure me about it at all. I get very sad and often cry at the thought of him leaving. He doesn't want to leave but his work options here are limited and he has little rights in this country. Any opinions/Experience?

I divorced my cheating wife, did my best to prevent the divorce but she would not cease her cheating. Post divorce I am not being allowed to meet my boy of 3 year old, i suspect he is being poisoned against me....In last 9 months i met him twice for 15-20 mins each and every-time when it was time to go he cried hysterically....which breaks my heart! I am wondering when i get court permission to meet him on visitation schedule, what would become of him if his mother continuously bad mouth about me...the article i read on the effects of parental alienation scares me.... Is it in best interest of my child to be left with his mother? And move out completely even though I would be extremly sad about not being able to see him?

Lately my husband has been "going to bed" at 8 or 8:30 pm. Basically we will be watching TV and he will say he's "going to bed" so he'll go in the bedroom but not actually sleep. He will watch shows on his ipad and return to the kitchen several times to takes snacks like cookies and popsicles to bed with him. Then an hour later he will finally get up one last time to brush his teeth, pee, and finally lay back down and fall asleep to his show. His entire process of "going to bed" takes about 2 hours. Is this normal? Anyone else know someone who does this?

Is your husbands cousin sister and super close to your husband but hates you because she is jealous and thinks you stole her man from her and she wants everything you have? What would you do if you were in my place?

So apparently my husband is close to his cousin sister and she seems to be envious of me and has constantly talked harsh and also wants everything that i have. She recently blocked me on whatsapp for no reason and then i deleted her from my contacts because i have no guts to talk to her about it and also me and my husband had constant arguments and he also slapped me because i was so annoying because she was chatting with him late night and she has their picture as her whatsap profile picture. In our community cousins can get married and she seems to be obsessed with him. We are only married for 3 months and i have no idea what was going on. My husband said i have trust issues and i agreed and now im talking about it. Now the thing is... It is her birthday in 8 days and im in common group as her in whatsapp and my husband and his other cousins will probably wish her and um......should i wish her a happy birthday? What should i do please please help..... What would you do if u were in my place?

10 years ago my wife told me to propose if we break up. I proposed but it was so bad. Crap ring and crap situation. No thought went into anything. We had a lovely wedding. We have 4 children now and the past still comes up and leads to huge rows. Money is tight and has been for a long time. She has been asking friends should she leave or stay. I work and she is a homemaker. I'm not bad and would never hurt her on purpose. She is constantly angry and abusive towards our children and me. All over not getting her a proper engagement ring ( I feel embarrassed I can only imagine how she does). What Can I do? ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.02

Just a little background: my husband and I both have our Bachelor degrees. We worked minimum wage jobs from 16 through obtaining our careers to pay for any bills and we graduated debt free (qualified for financial aid). We both each make a decent salary for our professional positions (about 60k each). BUT we just started making this salary about a year ago- we had NOTHING when we got married!! Here's what's bugging me and I need advice on: my family is very supportive and constantly is positive at our success. However, his family CONSTANTLY makes remarks like "Wow, you must be making BANK!" Or "you should be giving others money" etc etc. it bothers the hell out of me... like, so we worked REALLY hard to get where we are, and we don't deserve a decent living?! Just need to add this here because I think this makes a difference in his familys' heads. I am white, my husband is Hispanic. He is the only boy and has 3 sisters. I've heard several times that I am "so successful" at my career only because I'm white, and that we'll always be financially stable because "I'm white". I am a simple, humble, "jeans and t-shirt girl". I was raised simple, and I keep my life simple. His sisters's husbands make just as much as my husband (both do not even have a HS diploma). The ONLY difference is my income. So, am I crazy to be pissed off that this keeps popping up?! I am SO tired of the comments and remarks. The ONLY conclusion I can come to is jealousy and envy. Your thoughts?

and when refused to go, makes them sit in the car for 2 hours in a parking lot alone at night watching a car thief check cars to see if they are unlocked.