Family: Question: Since my Dad lied to my Mom and said he makes more money then he really does and other money stuff should we never trust him again?

Question: Since my Dad lied to my Mom and said he makes more money then he really does and other money stuff should we never trust him again?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 02:17 PM PST

He didn't file his taxes for 6 years either and while the accountant my Mom was using is evil it still doesn't make my Dad lying right. Should we never trust him again? He also lies to me when reassuring me of stuff and constantly lies to my Mom and probably my brother and sisters with this (he has 4 kids).

Question: My Mom is crazy. She never settles for one doctor or one treatment. Is this why her craziness keeps getting worse?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 02:14 PM PST

She is like certified crazy The question is whether this is why she keeps getting worse, that she never settles for one counselor or treatment.

Question: There is a big debate between brand and generic formula, but what about organic generic formul specifically, thoughts? Personal experience?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 02:12 PM PST

Question: Do I have to live with my mom?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 02:09 PM PST

I'm 6 months pregnant and will be turning 17 in 2 months. I am currently living with my 4 siblings and mom and stepdad, total of 7, in a 2 bedroom camper. my little 9 year old brother and 8 year old sister share a pullout couch, i sleep on a pullout couch (which me and my siblings wake up with back pain) and my sister lays on the floor with some type of mat. We have absolutely no room for my kid, legally, could i move in with the father of our kid or my dad (lives in a different state).

Question: My grandaughter's step mom won't let me give her a birthday gift.?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 01:59 PM PST

My granddaughter's 15th birthday is next week. I bought her 4 things. All of which she wanted. Today I saw her step mom (She lives with my son and his wife). Since she failed some classes in her first semester of High School, they are not letting her get birthday gifts. I want to give her the gifts though cause it's for her birthday. One gift is a back pack she wanted for school. On the other hand I would like to respect my daughter-in-law's rules. What would you do?

Question: Parents hate my boyfriend?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 01:51 PM PST

He comes from a family who has less money than we do, and works as a manager at a local restaurant. They think he's trash because he has less than we do and will not be able to support me, even though I'm currently in school to become an ultrasound tech. We're 10 years apart, and they don't like that either, however, my parents are 11 years apart themselves - but it's "different" because they met when they were older. My mother tells me I'm a disgrace to our family and berates me every single day over him, but if I️ were to move out, he only has his car and that would be a tricky situation since I️ cannot yet afford to buy myself my own. It's gotten to the point where police have been called due to our fights and their judgement on someone they've never met. Do I️ grin and bare it with my parents or take the leap to move out?

Question: My aunt is a pathological narcissist and my parents use me to get revenge on her. How do I get out of this dysfunctional family?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 01:47 PM PST

My poor cousins, the aunts two children, I pity those poor children (now adults).

Question: My sister peed herself when I got mad and yelled at her? Why does she act like that?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 01:43 PM PST

Question: Is it bad to get tickled by sisters?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 01:38 PM PST

Im the only boy in my family and the youngest by far.When I was really little I loved to play with my sisters. I was so small to them so whenever they all came home they loved to tickle me. One would tickle my armpits one would tickle my tummy then when they wanted to really get me to laugh they went after my feet. I used to have so much fun so I never stopped them. They told me its so cute that im ticklish and i get really embarrassed about that. They also told me little brothers are supposed to play tickle monster with big sisters. I just get embarrased that im the only boy and im the most ticklish. Should i be embarrassed about getting tickled by my sisters. They keeo saying im a ticklish cutie which I hate. It always is so much fun when they do it but is it bad to get tickled by my sisters? Am I overreacting?

Question: It is not my fault my son broke someone's guitar why should I have to pay for it?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 01:33 PM PST

My wife told me our son Zachary broke someone's guitar at church my wife Rhonda told him he could play with it while the church band was on break. The guitarist came back and cusses my wife and son out calling them horrible messed up people. He said his guitar costed $500 and that Rhonda had to pay for it. My wife and I are 40 our son is 8. Can we report this guy demanding we pay him? I asked my son what happened and son said he threw the guitar. He is just a kid!

Question: Seniors...another question for you...?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 01:29 PM PST

Drugs in the family, alcoholics...I do neither. Have you ever been a target in your family, to whereas, you have gotten so sick and tired of it...a lot of this is mostly drinking, jealousy...I do not have hatred nor jealousy in my heart, if anything I do and give to much, some things are not expected of me, that got old, cut that off. I do not live close to my so called family, but...I am obviously some kind of a target...I grew up in foster homes, later in life my mother remarried, had more kids. she took me back into her life. I ended up raising the 2 kids she had, being my step sis and brother....after having 2 more kids, she once again left, never around, this new husband molested me, he was religious as with my now 53 year old step brother, the one I ended up raising. I have one brother, one step brother, one step sister, none of us talk anymore....some very harsh things were said to me 2 weeks ago, my step brother had been drinking...asked me why I do not talk to my real brother anymore....the answer I gave him he is 20 years older than me, we just don't talk....he lives out of state...this step brother upon asking me why I don't talk to my real brother anymore...after a few drinks called me up asked why, did he molest you too? I did not respond....should I write some letters to this step brother and step sister...my step sister and I don't talk either.....we just parted way years ago, doesn't bother me,...tired of this, letters to what I think???

Question: Baby girl name?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 12:43 PM PST

between two: Topanga Gwendalyn or Evvrytte Dahlia

Question: I'm not close to my dad.. at all, is that bad?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 11:43 AM PST

Ever since I was about 8, I've been feeling disconnected with my dad. We used to be close but then he started drinking. He's very short-tempered and he yells a lot. Just hearing his voice makes me upset. I've had little daydreams in my head of like an alternate universe where my parents divorced or he died. I was never upset that he was gone, in fact we had a happier life. But then that makes me feel bad because he's my dad and he's providing for us. I really want to visit a therapist but my mom says that I need to talk to God.. what should I do?

Question: My Dad abandoned me at 1 year old. I have never seen him since. Why do I still love him and want him 30 years later?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 11:40 AM PST

I tried to reach out in college and he did not respond to the letters. I still love him and want him in my life and am proud of him. He died last year and I feel ashamed of myself I did not attend the funeral and yet I did not know in order to attend. A few weeks ago I saw an aunt of mine who mentioned she saw it in the paper last year. She is my Mom's sister but remembered the name and didn't know I would have wanted to know. I feel so ashamed like I lost my beloved Daddy and yet I have not see him in 30 years and never remember laying eyes on him accept in a crowd when I was ten and we saw him and my Mom pointed him out and then told me I could NOT say hi to him and we left quickly. I also drove past his house some in college and saw him out in the yard just to say I'd seen him and I took a picture from across the street so I'd have one. He was with his kids. I know I was stalking but I needed him. Why do I still hurt and why do I still love him so much when he was an evil Dad to leave us. A part of me wants to be his friend in heaven and another part of me wants his *** in hell forever for ruining my life.

Question: How can I get my Dad interested in letting me have a relationship with my Mom's family?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 11:11 AM PST

I am 15 and my Mom died when I was 4. My Dad has banned me from having a relationship with them since because her Dad was verbally abusive and an alcoholic. Her father died 8 years ago though. My Dad has still banned me from having a relationship with them accept one day in June each year we are allowed to go to a reunion. I want to see them at times like Thanksgiving or Christmas or other times of the year. My Dad says no cause they didn't stick up for my Mom and don't deserve to know me, I feel like I am being used to get back at something that my Dad is mad about and I am not. The child abuser died 8 years ago so there is no threat and I see my Dad's family a lot so want to sometimes get to know my Mom's side. I feel like I am missing out, how do I get my Dad to let me know my Mom's family? They have given up on asking us to stuff probably cause they know my Dad hates them but now I feel so rejected.

Question: How can i convince my parents to let me move to college?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 10:58 AM PST

my parents are abusive, negative people in a broken marriage and frankly i don't want to be around that anymore for a "new beginning" in my life. it's not even that they can't afford it but yet they're against me dorming in college. my college is literally only 4 hrs away so it's not like it's in Ohio or anything. the only reason my mom gives me for not moving to college is the fact that my sisters never moved away so i'll never move away and the fact all her friends' children never moved away either. ALL my life my mom has been very controlling so if i do move it'll be the first time i "defy" her. should i just say **** it and move or just suffer save up and move out later. she's legit saying she won't let me move out until i get married lol. HELP!! this story is currently what is happening now as i'm applying to colleges now lol, my dream school is 4hrs away..

Question: My Dad is an alcoholic and whenever I want to have friends over their parents won't let them come over, this hurts me. How do I feel better?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 10:53 AM PST

Question: My Dad is a selfish liar. How do I get him to think of others besides himself?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 10:38 AM PST

Question: Have you ever heard of someone going to their local parks and taking the toilet paper out of the bathrooms?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 09:57 AM PST

My 25 year old brother goes to 2 parks that we live close to and puts their toilet paper in a backpack he takes with him. He says he is doing it so he can save my mom money from having to buy it at the store. Ever heard of anyone doing this?

Question: What should I do when dealing with hostile people?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 09:41 AM PST

My brother already beat me up but yet he still walks around like he wants to hurt me. My sister is constantly trying to fight me. And my neighbors bully me on a daily basis. But I get treated like this everywhere I go.. society, school, church ..and I do absoultly Nothing to these people most of the time ... they just drag me into their bullshit.. what should I do ?? WHat should I do wen dealing with these hostile people? Ignore last question please...

Question: My Dad likes to lie. How do I know when he is lying or do I just take all he says as a grain of salt?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 09:02 AM PST

The person belows question made me think of asking this, I am not the same person

Question: Since my Mom lies about others when she is mad or gossiping should I never trust anything she says about anyone?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 08:55 AM PST

Question: My parents hate my boyfriend?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 08:22 AM PST

He comes from a family who has less money than we do, and works as a manager at a local restaurant. They think he's trash because he has less than we do and will not be able to support me, even though I'm currently in school to become an ultrasound tech. We're 10 years apart, and they don't like that either, however, my parents are 11 years apart themselves - but it's "different" because they met when they were older. My mother tells me I'm a disgrace to our family and berates me every single day over him, but if I️ were to move out, he only has his car and that would be a tricky situation since I️ cannot yet afford to buy myself my own. It's gotten to the point where police have been called due to our fights and their judgement on someone they've never met. Do I️ grin and bare it with my parents or take the leap to move out?

Question: I’m 16, can my parents tell me what to do about my appearance?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 07:43 AM PST

I live in the UK, and my parents want to keep busting my spots without my permission. I'm currently job searching, and seriously considering moving out soon. Is there a law against them telling me how to look, or something similar?

Question: Is it bad that i'm kinda attracted to my cousin who is older then me by i lot and i never see her cuz she lives 3 hours away?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 07:19 AM PST

Question: Am I being unrational? Or does this seem unappreciative?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 07:17 AM PST

My husband, son and i had to stay by my in laws for a week before our power got turned on at home (today). In the mean time, I had been buying food, cleaning their house, washing dishes & even doing their laundry some days as well as cooking dinner most nights. All this as a way of saying thank you, so I really didn't mind at first. Then I noticed more and more, his mother (not trying to be rude or anything but she's about the laziest person I have ever met) kept nominating me to make dinner, but in more discreet ways such as "what do you wanna make for dinner tonight" or "can you do dinner a little earlier" and this was every night. She would never get up to do the dishes. If I didn't do them, they would sit in the sink for a day or two until her husband got up to wash them or I finally gave in. One night I was making dinner and she kept mumbling to herself about the way I cooked & how she had never done it that way. She didn't eat that night either. But it's not only her, this morning i got up and noticed the clothes I put in the dryer last night were all thrown on top of the washer, unfolded in a pile that suggests they were quite literally just thrown up there. My father in law had washed a pair of jeans the night before and I guess he didn't think it was necessary to fold our clothes like I would do to theirs so he just took them out and left them so he could use the dryer. I mean, am I just getting upset over nothing? I have also noticed that certain foods (that I buy for myself and made it clear to everyone that I would like for them not to eat them, something as simple as some yogurt) they would slowly disappear and nobody would know where they went. I'm also 7 months pregnant, so I mean, the fact that I'm upset about it could just be hormones or whatever. I understand that it's their house, I'm not trying to change how they do things, I just wanted to know if my feelings sounded rational because it seems I'm the only one that feels this way about it.

Question: My mother has the few the bad traits of her mother but none of all the good traits. Why would a daughter be like this?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 07:17 AM PST

Only good in my mother is she is good to her kids and if someone is on her good side she can be really good in return. Otherwise she has no good.

Question: How should I get this cat? (Convincing people)?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 06:32 AM PST

My old friend has a cat she's trying to find a home for. I live with my dad and his wife and all her adult children (it's a problem and I hate them all but whatever) when I was about 6 i got a cat for my birthday but I had to give her away to my grandmother when my step mom and her family moved in with us because she "doesnt like cats" and for a young child it was heartbreaking as all hell to give something I loved for people I never wanted in the first place. I cant get that little girl back because she's old now and I'm not going to take her from my grandma who loves her. But alas, it's years later an im much older, im in high school and I have a job so I can totally support this cat and i already have a few other small animals I take care of. The problem is my dad is somewhat okay with it but he's pretty much afraid of my drug addict step mom and her kids (which are all over the age of 23 and live with us) Her eldest son who is 28 is allergic to cats and he lives with us even though he has a good paying job and and can totally afford his own apartment so her argument would be him and his son who only comes to the house 2 days out of the week. It's difficult and I dont know how to work around it. i could just bring in the cat as a big FU to them all but it might cause more problems..

Question: Does your family dysfunction come out at Christmas and if so how do you cope with it?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 06:31 AM PST

My family is perfect so nothing goes wrong but curious how others cope

Question: How to deal with a narcissistic mother?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 06:13 AM PST

I'm 24 years old and the oldest of 6. My mom has been a narcissist for as long as I can remember. She needs so much attention and expects us to put her above anything in our life. She never knows about anything going on in our lives bc she spends so much time talking about herself. She acts so entitled and has a fit when someone says no. She also acts like a victim and is easily offended when we say anything to her. It's beggining to cause problems between my husband and I bc he feels that she constantly takes advantage of my siblings and I. He wants me to say no to her constant begging and just let her have her fits. I wouldn't mind doing that but the youngest siblings are the ones she'd take it out on. What should I do? This is very annoying now.

Question: My dad gifted a gift I got for my best friend to his friend s wife. Do I have the right to be mad?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 06:06 AM PST

I bought this special gift ages ago and wrapped it up and did everything to make it look good and all that for my closest friend (we re teenagers) who s birthday is in 3 days and my dad just casually gifted it without even asking me. If he had asked me I probably would ve said yes, but the sad thing is that I m finding this out from my mother this evening and I m so angry that I don t have a gift for her now. Am I being unrealistic or is it okay for me to be mad? I do have mood swings often

Question: My parents are bitter and hold grudges at people. It is rubbing off on me and now I do it for fun. How do I break this habit?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 05:38 AM PST

My parents like to have "outs" who they insult on a regular basis and refuse to speak to. Now I have this habit and select people as the "outs" to insult regularly behind their back and avoid seeing.

Question: My sister is always being a mean brat when on her period and my mother claims she can't help it. How do I get her to stop and stop Mom?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 05:29 AM PST

And how do I stop Mom from enabling the *****. Sister is 20 and my Mom 52. I am 16.

Question: Do you prefer your moms side of the family or dads?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 04:01 AM PST

I hate my dads entire family besides his mom (my grandma). Everyone else is so selfish!! Like I'm not saying you have to keep in touch with each other but at least don't be rude when you meet after so many years. My dads side is literally the worst I can go on and on telling a story about each and every single person. They're so egotistical and they only talk to my dad when they need something from him. It's not that I don't get along with them tho, I just don't care for them as they don't care for me. Whereas my moms family is sooo much nicer and caring. Even tho there are a cousins who I actually don't get along with, I would much rather call them at 3 am asking for help than someone on my dads side who I claim to even slightly get along with. What about you guys

Question: My elderly uncle wants a new tv but he wants b/w because he says they are cheaper?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 03:40 AM PST

How do I break his heart and tell him b/w tv are no longer made

Question: Should I give him the ornament any way?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 02:49 AM PST

I have a cousin who graduated from barber college a couple months ago and I got a personalized ornament of a barber pole with his name on it. This was about a month ago. Then last week, he started at FedEx as a package handler. My dad asked him what about barbering and he said he's making more money at FedEx than he could cutting hair. So should I give him the ornament or throw it away. Wouldn't it just remind him he waisted 18 months learning a job he's never going to do?

Question: My mom was acting like I was stupid. Any advice?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 02:45 AM PST

Question: I’m 18 and want to move out, help?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 01:38 AM PST

My man and I have been together for a year and a half now. We both believe it's time for me to move in with him, but the only barrier that's keeping me back is my mother. I am eighteen, with an 8 o'clock curfew, who can't have my own boyfriend in my room (even with the door wide open), who can't spend a night with him, who can't go out more than twice a week. I feel like my life froze at the age of 14 or something. And I need to break the ice by moving out. Note that him and I have discussed all the pinpoints of what needs to happen as I move in, so this decision hasn't been made last minute. I've been having these thoughts about 3-4 months ago (I was seventeen), and in between there and now, I have respected my mom's rules and haven't complained. I've made mistakes but I own up to them and find myself not doing them again. I feel responsible enough to not be under her wing any longer and having so many untrustworthy restrictions really makes it impossible to see my true potential. I need to discuss with my mom about this topic, ASAP, and I don't want to hurt her feelings and make her cry. She always guilt trips me saying she doesn't want me to leave and that she'll be alone for the rest of her life. I love her, but I can't live under her roof. Please, is there anything I could say that wouldn't have her either so upset to where she can't talk to me, or so heartbroken to a point where she thinks I don't love her anymore?

Question: It's middle of the night and I can't sleep cause I'm thinking about the old wounds opened of the emotional damage my parents did, how do I?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 01:36 AM PST

How do I stop feeling these old wounds? The wounds are Parental Alienation Syndrome where I had to be used by them as weapons in their divorce and my Mom's battles with her family members. Now I feel I am damaged, 2nd rate, and hard to like. I feel the extended family probably thinks of me as the "less known" cousin. Or the "unfaithful" cousin. As for the divorce I feel guilt for times I backed one parent against the other but I believed what they were saying when they were poisoning me against the other parent. With Thanksgiving coming I feel the shame of the extended family on my Mom's side not knowing me very well and not including me.

Question: Girls ... embarrassing step-sister issues?

Posted: 14 Nov 2017 12:36 AM PST

I'm 15 and my step sister is 16. She knows I've had a crush on her, and I admit I did do some bad things in the past, like stealing some of her underwear. But now she always calls me "perv", and has told multiple girls about a genetic disorder that I have (which makes my sex organs smaller than normal). Now some of her friends call me "little man" and laugh. I feel very embarrassed and nervous around her, and just want her to like me. Why does she treat me like this? And why do her friends make fun of me so much? And how can I make her and her friends like me?

Question: Me da tristesa por lo mucho Ke Te odio. eres la madre me mis hijas. y las maltrarado para aserme sufri.maldita se la hora k te conosi...?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 11:36 PM PST

Question: Why do less parents choose to have an only child?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 11:24 PM PST

There's more parents who prefer to have two or more kids. Even in poorer families, it's more likely for a child to have a sibling. If a parent plans to have an only child, lots of times it's because they know they can't financially support them or they're too exhausted already. If everyone in this world was middle class or rich, they'd probably try to have more kids.

Question: Is it normal for twins to go everywhere together and never be apart?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 11:06 PM PST

Question: How Long Will This Take?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 10:57 PM PST

I haven't had contact with my child's father in about 4 months so my last ditch effort at contacting him is through personal letter—snail mail! I'm going to send him a letter along with photos of our baby hoping this will yield some sort of response; especially since he still lives with his parents. So we live in the same city, about 5-10 mins away from each other. I know you're thinking "why don't you just drive to his house and put it in his mailbox yourself?" Well, I don't have a car and I'm too embarrassed to ask my family/friends to drive me. Plus I don't want his parents to see me if they're home. So how long would it take for the letter to be mailed to his house if we only live a couple miles apart?

Question: Was I wrong for this?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 09:16 PM PST

I was sick and my mom was sick so she didn't answers the phone when the school was wondering were I am my dad answers the phone screaming at me saying is mom drunk (my parents are divorced but my mom doesn't get drunk and I'm not to close to my dad) and I said no and he said don't ****** lie to me and I said she isn't she is just asleep then u hung up the phone. I saw him while I was walking to the 711 that is a block a way from my house and I saw him and he said I thought I were sick u little **** and tried to grab me so I punched him in the face and told him not to grab me like that because he would actually hurt me bad if I didn't fight back I'm 13 years old and I don't think I know everything but I don't think he should talk to my mom like that especial in front if me.

Question: Mommy issues?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 08:36 PM PST

I m 32, married with a kid, a career, a nice house and nice car. I have a big family, 6 brothers. And I m just realizing why my relationship with my mom is so... Weird. She never compliments me or acknowledges any of my accomplishments. Same with my daughter. She s 12 and has overcome a lot over the last year, she s worked really hard and is now doing really well in school and all of her activities, including a community service group. But absolutely no acknowledgment. It s weird. She brags about other people, their accomplishments, or their problems. Including my brothers. I always have to hear about how great everyone else is. I just want my mom to recognize my accomplishments and be proud of me. I m starting to get super bitter about it. I ve started fishing for compliments. I know, pathetic. But it s to no avail. What do I do?

Question: Chinese parents threatened to kick me out for bad grades?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 08:16 PM PST

I had to miss three days of school two weeks ago because I was sick. We had a unit test and a computer test on two of those days, and I haven't made it up yet. Progress reports went out today, and I had one C(78) in Algebra--the rest were A's. My mom looked and she started yelling me, saying, "Get out my house! You not my daughter. My daughter, she make all A. I no feed you tonight!" Great, Thanksgiving break is next week, and my parents promised to take me out of state. And now the trip is canceled. I only have four and a half weeks until the semester is over. And my dad threatened to kick me out and let me live with my aunt if I make anything lower than a 97 on my report card. I'm a ninth grader and I'm still trying to get use to high school because my middle school had less than three hundred students. This school has over two thousand.

Question: Im 25 and still live with my parents is this bad?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 08:05 PM PST

Over the years while I was living at my parents house I bought three cars a 2013 Mazda 3, an 2015 f150 and an 2016 Toyota camry. And I always have money. My friends who live on apartments always tell me they are broke and they can't go out. like they all tell me living with my parents is bad. But I don't see anything bad about it.

Question: I met a guy online, met him in person, and he broke my jaw, what should I do about this?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 07:59 PM PST

I was in a chat room, saying how the u.s. military are suckers for joining, and the war was a scam for oil profits and power, and the troops are just being used as pawns in a corrupt system, I was going on and on, how they were suckered in, and I said the u.s. military is so weak, can not accomplish anything either in the middle east. Anyway, this Active Duty Marine said to me, if he ever met me face to face, he would break my jaw. He went on to call me a coward and wimp. I said I am not a coward, he said prove me, meet him in person, so I drove 200 miles, I met him, he broke my jaw, and walked away, and I went home. I did get his screen name

Question: What is considered elder abuse?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 07:56 PM PST

My mom bullies my grandmother a lot mostly because my grandmothers getting really old and is starting to be more like a child like many elders do, which is normal I guess. But it kinda concerns me is my mother always putting my grandmother down for everything. My grandmother could say one simple thing about anything and my mom will respond with "are you stupid" and other things along that line. I admit my grandmother can be pretty un logical but i don't blame her because of how old he is. My mother is constantly yelling at her and treating her like a kid. Today my mom got angry because my grandma locked her door and my mom yelled at her and demanded to give her the key and to stop locking it. I feel really bad watching my mom do that because she never does that to me.

Question: Guys Read this convo please?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 07:36 PM PST

I texted him after 2 months of being broken up that he was on my mind then he said I honestly dont know what else to tell you, you really offended me and the things you said about my family unbelivable. I said are you still on the past he said of course, the things you said about mom are you kidding me? no sorry I can't forgive that or allow that.I didn't respond to him then 10 min later he texted back My mom has the purest heart and for you to say those nasty things about her are you kidding me I just said i'm not in the state to discuss the past nor do i want to. He said and thats fine but you should know why this will not work and why I won't allow myself to have feellings for you again. I didn't respond. Update: I go to church where he's a deacon, and he constantly stares at me from the alter to where my friends and family notice and tell me. I don't look at him. The only times i have i've given him a dirty look. It's been more than a month since that convo. He said something first about my mom fyi. Does he still have feelings or being dramatic? FYI in the past he's also said a lot of things and gone back on his word so idk if he's trying to be dramatic cause he keeps staring. I chased after he stopped chasing me so Idk if thinks he can get away with saying stuff like this.

Question: Abusive Sibling! HELP?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 07:35 PM PST

I am 14 years old and have a 17 year old brother who has verbally abused my mother ever since elementary school years. I am sick and tired of it, to say the very least. He always gets up in her face and screams the most vile things. He normally brings me into as well, though i have absolutely no part in my brothers life. I tend to keep it that way. He will yell and scream such nasty things, my mom has been very in a depressed mood because of it. I understand that my parents of course want to have a good relationship with my brother, but simply letting him do whatever to avoid conflict, is not the way. At some times, he will cuss out both my parents and refuse to go to school. He says it is their job to go court if he misses that much school.

Question: My twin brother wants to apply to all of the same internships and programs as me.?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 07:22 PM PST

I am an identical twin. My brother and I have the same major and we are interested in mostly the same things. I have done a lot of research and looked into summer programs and internships I want to apply to. Whenever I apply, my mom makes me tell my brother so that he can apply too. I feel like this hurts my chances, especially in internships since there is only one spot available and we have mostly the same credentials. What should I do?

Question: My mother and my fiancee physically fought over extreme views about President Trump. My fiancee almost beat her up?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 07:19 PM PST

My mother is a good woman but there's one problem, she doesn't like my fiancee. The reason she doesn't like her is because I broke up with my children's mother. We had two sons together. The thing is we never had a good relationship. She wasn't right for me. We fought a lot. My fiancees name is Emily and my sons' mother name is Karen. Karen and I get along and coparent for the sake of our two sons. Emily and I have a better relationship. She makes me very happy and I am positive that I want to share my life with her. Karen has since moved on and is in another relationship with another man. I have no issue with him. Karen wants me back and has done so since we officially broke up. I don't want her back and have told her this. My mother was very upset that I left her. She was almost angry and felt that I should have married her and stayed with her until our youngest son turned 18. Like she tried forcing me to marry her. I didn't see a point because it would not work out So, since I've been with Emily (I've known her for 7 years we have been together a year and a half), my mom hates her. She blames her for the reason I'm not with Karen. My mom has called her names, ignored her, treated her badly and Emily did take it. I have told my mother to stop. She doesn't like that I'm marrying her. Well Emily got upset about this and told my mother that she's a stupid b**** and told her that if she says another comment to me, that she will beat her a** And f*** her up. What do I do?

Question: Seniors another question for you...?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 07:09 PM PST

I am not seeing eye to eye on a few things with my pathetically screwed up family, maybe you can clear this up for me. Most of my family so called members, talks very poorly about each other, some are religious. Some are step sisters/step brothers....foster kids. When I say they talk very poorly about each other, it is horrible the things they say...I will NOT lower myself to this, these are not kids anymore. I know who has said what about who, talking about others marriages, mixed marriage...on and on. Now we have the Holidays coming up, could you, I can't get together with them anymore, knowing what each thinks of each other, yet they get together hug, maybe buy each other a gift, sit around drink, me just knowing what each thinks of each other, it is very hard to enjoy my time with them. I have started backing off of get togethers, now I am being picked on for not showing up to these get togethers...any suggestions, sad to say, they are ALL I have left in this world for so called family....help and thank you!

Question: Should I say something?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 06:51 PM PST

My sis is expecting, me and her were pregnant around the same time she had her last child so she seems to be very paranoid that I'm going to get pregnant this time. Me and her got married to our husbands he same year so I'm not sure why she would be surprised that our timelines as far as having kids would over lap also this is her third and the would be my second child which me and my husband have decided we want more just not right now. I understand her wanting this to be her moment but she has been making comments to our mother about the possibility of me becoming pregnant and in turn my mom has told me not to be a copy cat. How do I address this?

Question: Can't deal with my family anymore...?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 06:35 PM PST

I moved in with my aunt/uncle/cousins when I was 11 because my mom passed away. At first everything was going smoothly but after a while it started to get worse. They make my sisters and I do things we don't want to do. For example, we have to get into the hog pen that has pigs that attack you. My uncle always says that he wishes that he didn't take us in. He gets up in our faces and curses at us. Calls us "*****, stupid, ungrateful" and he threatened to "***** slap" me. Maybe it doesn't sound that bad. But I'm a 14 yo girl and I don't know how to deal with all of this. I have self harmed and tried drugs to get my mind of the current situation. I don't know what to do. I can't call anyone 'cause that'll just make things worse. I don't want to talk to the school counselor because they'll probably tell my aunt or uncle.

Question: My grandma is abusive to me,my family don't know and I am afraid if I tell them they wont believe me and get mad at me,what do I do?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 06:16 PM PST

Question: Ladies who drive would you have done this?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 06:12 PM PST

I just got to my parents house for a 2 week visit. I had a very long 10 hour drive so I drove in my bare feet and kept my shoes in the back out of the way. It was very comfortable being in my bare feet on my long drive.

Question: Is it ok for a 19 year old to be a flowergirl?

Posted: 13 Nov 2017 06:06 PM PST

My aunt wants me to be a bridesmaid for her wedding but i really dont want to, i feel too young for that. Ive been a flowergirl before when i was younger and im comfortable with doing it again. Should i ask her if i could do that instead or not