I don't really know why I'm sharing this on the internet and I don't even know if I want an answer but just have to say something. I am turning 15 soon and I don't have any friends...at all. The thing is, I wouldn't consider myself to be a nerd at all. But the more that I think about it, the more that I realize that I'm such a loser and it's all my fault. Sure, there's people that I talk to. I have two people that I sit with during lunch, I have people that I talk to during school when I have to but nobody outside of school. I feel like even the losers have at least one friend. But there's literally not one single person that I would consider a friend. Sure, I could go out, make plans, talk to more people, ask to hang out with them but even though I want a friend so badly, I don't want one at the same time. I really don't like the people in my school very much and the people that i think I could be friends with...well...I could. But I'm so freaking lazy and tired and uninterested. I'm just tired of trying. I'm tired of waking up every morning to go to a place that makes me nervous and sad and then to go home and be more sad about the amount of homework that I have. I'm tired of pretending to be fine. Every day feels the same. I don't learn from my mistakes either. I've been procrastinating since I was little and I hate it so much. But yet I still procrastinate nearly every night no matter how many times I tell myself that today will be different. Pt 2 in the comments

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i am just trying to figure out if it is just me feeling this way because i like him? or would others feels this way too..so with this in mind, do u think this man is super sexy looking? how would u rate his looks from 1-10? just curious how others would view him or if it is just me? tks

Okay, so I rly need to let loose. What are some things i could do with my best friend? He is a guy im a girl. Legal or not, we don't care. I can't drink, I'm on meds that i cant drink with. And we don't have time to smoke weed between school and athletics without getting caught???? need some answers ASAP! Thank you!!

I dont trust my online contact who lives in oregon and i accidently leaked my first and last name including my state. Can he track my address down? Im getting paranoid as hell rn and i feel nauseas that i leaked those three things by accident. Fortunately, thats all that was leaked. Nothing else, besides my old phone number but that shits gone

If you met someone who seemed quiet, distracted like they were daydreaming, looked worn out, and who had a laid back voice that was higher.

My brother has this cute friend that I want to date, and my brother thinks I like him, which is not wrong, but i told him I didn t and I want my brother to invite him to the mall without him knowing that I want him to. How do I do this? Please Help.( I m thinking of going with a group of my friends and my brother s friends, so its not just us three).

Been friends with "Debra" for 10 years & I feel like this recent situation exposed her true self. She befriended a co-worker who I had a bad feeling from the get-go. We all workout at the same studio and sometimes my friend would being her along to go eat with us afterwards. This one time when i was alone with her, she asked, "Debra mentioned that you were having problems with your boyfriend and his sister. I thought it was so rude because you're such a nice person! She didn't tell me details, just mentioned it." I felt violated. What's my friend of 10 years doing by mentioning things to a stranger she just met 3 months ago? REALLY?! Long story short - the co-worker was exposed for being a malicious "loose lips". Debra said, "well no wonder everyone at work says she was a gossip." If you knew she was a gossip, why would you hang out with her still? I'm sorry but are you that naive or dumb? Your instinct (if it's in the right place) would tell you to stay away. That situation exposed her - it showed that she was desperate to make friends and just does not know how to keep her mouth shut, or honor things that are sacred or someone's private business. I feel like anything I tell her would be shared to other people, from the tiniest things to the biggest things & I don't like that. I've also now noticed that she doesn't know what to talk about unless it has other people involved. She'll ask me how a friend is and I refuse to answer anything other than "good". It's not by job to update her on other's lives. She'll knowingly share things like her friends like, "oh connie - do you know she and tom are trying? Yeah, she's so frustrated." I'm sure that's what people talk about but for me, I consider that very private and i wouldn't want my friends sharing that. There are times she'll ask me about the instructors (at the studio we work out at) since I'm close to some of them- I thought they were innocent, "is this person married? etc." I'll mention tiny things here & there but then she'll quote me, "oh SHELLY said that this instructor also has another job and is doing a fundraiser. SHELLY said that this person is married." UMM you asked me and I thought it was just between us? It wasn't gossip or malicious but it's like she's making me the one who gossips. AUGH. I can't with her and I'm OVER having conversations about just people. Maybe I'm expecting too much from a friendship?

I have never went on a date. I have shown interest in guys but they never asked me out. Being unnoticed this long is very depressing, like torture. I constantly ask myself am I ugly, or why hasn't any guy ever felt I was good enough to get to know better? On top of that, most guys tend to act like I'm invisible yet every other girl around me is seemingly noticed. They are showered in compliments and flirted with, all touchy feely, etc. This has been happening since my early teens and my self esteem is pretty low now when I used to feel extremely confident like I could take on anything. Now I wonder every day why with millions of guys walking around, why not one has noticed me.. and believe me I've tried to show interest but it's like as soon as I do, guys start to ignore me. Like as if I was just something to boost their ego and they move on. It r stings now more than it did when I was younger. There are 15 yr olds w/ more experience. I truly feel out of place when women my age talk about sex and their significant others while my mind operates like a toddler when it comes to intimacy. I live in a big city, so no shortage of men. I'm 5'11, tanned light brown skin, slender, and dress casual and modest. I have big round eyes, full lips, and face is kinda long but it doesn't detract from my appearance, at least I don't think. I'm friendly and always willing to help others, so I don't get it. Can you tell me why my life is like this? What am I doing wrong?

Since my best friend went to college hes been different. We have always fought alot in the past and we have always made up. I ve never had a friend i connected to so much and loved so much before, we hanged out everyday and we both cried sm before he left and he told me how much he loves me everyday. Ever since he left hes been distant and even when i talked to him about it he always tells me "i think our friendships fine"  and whenever i tell him "i love you" and "i miss you" he just ignores it and says "ill be back every 2 weeks its fine" but even when he does come he hangs for 1 day and is mysteriously "sick" for the rest of the week and doesnt want to hang, but when he goes back to college he is constantly going out and doing **** with other people. He never texts me back but whenever im with him hes always on his phone texting other people. We both have the same sense of humor and Ive never found anyone like him. I dont want to let him go because we both have relied on eachother constantly and i loved him so much. Its just weird to me how much he stop caring. Should I just end the friendship or wait and try to stop overthink/worrying about it?

A few months ago, I was living with abusive parents. They would beat me and scream abuse at me, and thankfully I'm with my lovely foster parents now. But now my school (the only high school nearby) has introduces compulsory swimming lessons. And basically, it's take the lessons or leave the school. And the swim coach is my old swim coach, who is also friends with my... dad. Let's just say he was horrible. He would always scream at me and pick on me. He would keep doing it even if I was bruised black and blue. I only took swimming lessons cos my parents made me cos they always told me how fat and lazy i was, and I got them for free, since the coach was friends with my dad. One time, I was so hurt I could barely swim. My coach kept screaming at me. Literally. Screaming. He called me fat and lazy and no good. I ended up fainting from sleep deprivation, hunger, dehydration and well...pain. My friend said the coach called me a lazy ***** and kept yelling at me to stop faking drowning. My friend said I had actually passed out, and the coach didnt believe her. 2 of my friends hauled me on the edge and one ran to call the ambulance. He said not to bother, and I wasn't worth it. Me and my foster parents have sent many letters to the school, and they keep saying I'm being ridiculous! What the heck!? What am I supposed to do here?

It's been 3 months into college and I cannot stand my roommate. I had the room to myself the first month until she moved in. The second day she moved in, I old her that I did not want to share any of my things. There was one exception though: I let her hold a couple of perishable beverages in my fridge because I did not want her to have to throw them out. After a while, she started to take over the mini fridge that I bought by myself! So, I reminded her again that I did not want to share anything and told her that it was best that she doesn't use my fridge. When I told her this, it was cohesive with the roommate agreement that we just had signed. Now, after telling her twice that I DID NOT WANT TO SHARE ANYTHING, she uses my wall mirror on my side of the room. She literally walks in my space in front of my closet to brush her hair and try on clothes and stuff. Am I being unreasonable?! How could I express my unwillingness to share so that she really understands?!

Me and my friend was getting to an arguement. And my friend said something about my religion thats bad. And then we were calling each other out and we were no friends. His mom read the messages and said she will come to my school and tell on me. Me and my friend used to be in the same school but he now is in a different school since were going to highschool now and i decided to stay at my old school. But after all the arguement after like 2 months. His mom said she will come to my school and argue with the dean. Can she do that?

Not like best friend, just a decent friend.

I was over at my friend's house whenever this happened. I met this friend whenever I was a junior in highschool and I am a freshman in college now. I would consider them to be my best friend until this point. We had both smoked weed before this happened. After we smoked I was tired so I laid down and so did they. I am in a relationship with someone but I trusted this person because I had been friends with them long enough I didn't think anything would happen. I had been laying down for a while and my friend thought I was asleep and literally said, "Oh I guess she is out" and they laid back down. I was about half asleep. A few minutes later they started to play with my hair and I dismissed it because I thought nothing would come of it. However then they started touching my body and at that point I had froze, I was scared to say anything at all, and I didn't know what to do. And then their hands went down my pants and was rubbing my clit. I was in shock at that point, but I still didn't say anything, but then they were trying to insert their finger and that was when I couldn't let it go on, I wasn't okay with this at all. I jumped up and said "what the **** are you doing?" and I got my stuff and left. It's been a few days and I can't get it off my mind. Was it my fault because I didn't tell them to stop until that point? They never asked me if I was okay with any of this. I never said yes but I also didn't say no before I jumped up and put an end to it. Was this my fault?

I'm a introvert and I hate it. I just wanna be more talkative and go hangout with people. I don't really get invited places. When my friends post pictures and they're hanging out with other people, I hate it. I wanna be there too

So the deal is I do want to be more social and make friends at my age and I'm being realistic here, I am not going to be a super popular socialite either nor do I want to. I just want to have a circle of friends and people to have things in common with and go out and do things on the weekends. It seems so difficult once you are out of college to even meet people.

i have been eating too much kind of again to.imalways SObored,tired,thinking about this one guy i like who doesnt like me and what he said, my parents making me feel ugh, etc i feelmore comfortable in my bed either on my phone or just sleep.i ate4TS in the morning and i slept a few minutes after. she wont let mehang out with one of my friends and my friendthat i want to hang out with always "has plans with her lots and lots of best friends"/she"canthangoutthatday"(otherfriends)OrmyMOMgets mad oversomethingSMALL. ifmy mompisses me off or ticks me off with her nagging and her "aleady mad for some reason"or imad for no reason or just grumpy i dont want to talk and idont want to be TLKDTO. but her bitchyness and naggingabout stuff (anger issues??)etc really makesme mad andi mumble stfu or shut UP already thjngs like that.im not in the mood to hear or do anything in the mornjng and when she does piss me off more and when i tell her to shut up quietly, she gets me angrier with DID YOUJUSTCUSS AT ME because my attitude or me telling her to shut up/idiot (she does the same thjng.cuss at me A LOT too)so i cant hang out with that friend.(shes the only one i actually do stuff with outside of school if my parents RARELY let me)because ive been stuck jn this ******* house, i get SO bored to the point i have nothing to do literally, fatigue and just get numb.which leads me to sleep.i dont mean lazy but i cant DO anythjng.like she keeps me from having a social life.& i have BREAK this WEEK!

okay so this year i became pretty good friends with this girl (V) and we didnt really fw no one else. but a few nights ago i met up with this kid she used to have a thing with (N) and after a few hours of hanging out we sotra made out but that it nothing else happened. then i told V about it the next day and she seemed a little upset but tried to play of off like she didnt care and i didnt think much of it becasue she has a thing with this guy named dale now but that night i told her i wasnt gonna fw N anymore if she didnt want me too, and i snuck out last night and met up with N and some of his friends and he invited V down butt as soon as she got there N and i where under the blanket together at the lake becasue it was cold and like a half an hour before she got there N and i made out, with out me even thinking about it first but his friend got a video and showed V and she seemed really pissed off for the rest of the night and didnt talk to me i told N we need to stop becasue i felt bad and didnt want V to be upset with me. so she hung out with some other ppl upstairs at N"s friends daniels house and we where down stairs just talking. but then my mom came in to the house and V was like "A your moms here" and i was super scared bc i was supposd to be at home sleeping and it was 3 am. she was pissed bc she had been looking for me for hours so i went home with her and i accidentally left my phone at D"s house but the problem is im not even supposed to have a phone so i got this one from a friend and this morning V texted my sister and told her she had it, but she is saying she doesnt care if i date N bc he likes me and im not going to bc obviously its dumb and she is saying she lost all trust with me and she doesnt know if we can be friends, but also im now grounded for the rest of my life and my parents are installing cameras in our house and im not aloud to baby sit after school anymore and in january im not even aloud to go to oregon for walker stalker con anymore. i messed up bad and my prents are pissed becasue iv been ******* up alot lately, and im pretty sure V doesnt wanna be friends anymore.

would u still continue to watch it, even if it did?

Yesterday i was at the cinema with my friends and when i came home i got a message from one of the person i was with. He sent a cropped selfie of me (you can only see my mouth and down, not my whole face) that i have used on hook up app only no other places. he asked if it was me and i said yes because of the fear that he may ask my twin brother. And then he was like somoene i knew sent me this picture to me, to verify it is you. and i remeber somone on the app sending me random messages like they knew me and i had very bad feeling so i ended up blocking that account, and later delete my account. and he said his friend foundt it on a dating app. And then he asked many questions and i tried to lie. and said that someone might catfish( which has happend to me before') . but for 2 days know i cant stop trembling/shaking (not lying) out of the fear that this or two persons might tell others. and i got exam in a few days, which makes everything much harder since i havent been able to focus for 2 days now. But im pretty sure that this ''friend'' is gay himself (i have proof) and that he didnt get the picture from someone else but screenshoted it himself. what should i do? Yes, I know this is my own mistake but this was the first time i used a hook up app(or something similar) to some degree. But I used a selfie of me who was barely showing my face on an app that is made for gay people, so i thought i was safe (which I clearly wasn't). so just because i used my face so that i could talk to people on an app, i now have to fear that someone or somebody might tell others and litearally mess up last year in high school school?

There have been these 3 ppl who have been making fun of me to my face or when I'm not looking. They only do it when they are surrounded by their friends but when they're alone they are intimidated by me and when they have to sit by me they r scared, shaking like a wet puppy and acting really shy. this one girl has been making fun of me everyday with her friends and I can hear them laughing. I saw her whispering something in their ear while looking at me and they all started laughing. But one day she was alone because none of her friends came to school and she walked past me with her head down covering her face walking really fast. i even caught her talking about me another time and I looked at her and she stopped laughing and told me she liked my hair. But She was just trying to play it off. Then she went to my friend (she didn't know We were friends) and said something about me and my friend immediately went up to me and told me she was trying to make fun of me and the girl got scared, covered her face and ran.

I'm texting a guy friend and telling him that he's a sweetheart.

One of my roommate is dating a guy who locked a girl in a room and attempted to rape her. My roommate is aware of this and doesn t care. At least one of our other roommates has been sexually assaulted, and several of our good friends have been raped. We have asked the roommate to let us know when he is coming over, but she doesn t do so. Is it reasonable to tell her that he is not welcome at social gatherings, as our friends who ve been through such will be there and are aware of what he s done? I feel unsafe with him around but I m not sure what to do?

So, one of my friends made me a channel trailer because she wanted to & I told her okay thx. But when she made it & sent it to me I wasn't sure if I wanted to post it on my YouTube channel. And, she keeps texting me, "Are you going to post it or not?" but I'm not sure. What should I say?

How do I tell a married friend that I miss him, without it coming off as me hitting on him or something? I've already expressed concern almost a month ago about how I haven't seen his family in a while and I still haven't seen them in a while. I know they're okay, but I want to tell him I miss him without it coming off weird. We were a bit close for several months and now we haven't seen each other in over a month nor have we really talked. He's kind of like a mentor to me or an older brother. He's commented on some of my posts, but I miss how close we used to be. Celine-He's been married for many years, so it's not a new marriage or relationship. We used to work together and he invited me to his church back before the summer and we saw each other quite often. His wife and I get along well and I'm not the only female friend he has. He's seemingly really busy with work, which I understand, but I never see him or hear from him anymore. I'm used to us talking at least once a week. I don't do well with sudden changes, especially when I'm not 100% sure why something changed. And yes I have feelings for him, but I try to block it out, out of respect for his marriage and family.

I have an online friend he lives in texas & i live in south carolina. We talk everyday almost all day for the past month. We both enjoy talking that much to each other. On friday the 17th it was just a normal day we were talking like we normally would & we said goodnight like we usually would. Now we talk on hangouts so i can see when he sees a message & when he was last active he s 22 btw. On friday he said he was gonna get something to eat have a few beers with his stepdad (he was at his mom s house) & then go home. So we said goodnight. He usually txts me every morning but he hasn t txted me since friday night & today is sunday. He hasn t been active on hangouts since friday night & he hasn t posted anything on google+ since friday. I ve been txting him & calling him but he hasn t even been on hangouts since friday. I have anxiety really bad so of course i thought of the worse possible senario that could happen so i looked everywhere i could to see if there were any reports about him but i couldn t find anything. Maybe im overreacting but im really worried so worried that I ve been crying off & on since yesterday i couldn t sleep at all last night until i was so tired that i passed out & i have no appetite what so ever. Please can someone give me some advice or something please????

my one friend, well he's not really my friend, butt he wears autographed Beaver sportswear and he says that he's entitled to money cause his dad says they are white...is this normal?

All my friends are probably talking negative about me behind my back. I always have this feeling that they secretly mock me. Should I do that?

She's a friend but hides absolutely everything. Last week she deleted a **** ton of Instagram pics, the other day removed her friends list entirely on Facebook, now today she is removing a bunch of her followers on Instagram?

This is day 3 of hearing nothing from her. The other evening I was texting with her, she had gotten a new phone with a new number, we were texting on he old number. she hadn't been sure of getting an iPhone or android, which I had recommended iPhone, just my personal preference. I asked her what she got, she told me she got an android because the salesman told her the iphones had a lot of problems, and he gave some story about her old number getting hacked so she got a new number. I told her that the main problem was a battery drain issue, and that a nice thing about the iPhone is that it really can't be hacked into or get a virus. She told me whatever, that I'm always right, so why don't I just go and work for the cell phone company. Said that the salesman didn't have a reason to lie to her. I was offended at it, tired of her giving me that "whatever" type of text, but rather than fight, I told her I wasn't saying what was right or wrong, only saying my preference, and was only doing it for the sake of conversation with her. To put a stop to the subject turning into an argument, I told her I was leaving it at that, and that I wasn't going to argue as I needed to study. Haven't heard from her since. Is it right to expect her to talk to me? It seems as though she tries to pick fights, and why would someone do that?

Im depressed so naturally everyone tells me to see a therapist...this is not a mental issue with me. Im just ugly, stammer when i speak and im not attractive for anyone. Im depressed cause no one likes me in this life so wtf is a therapist gonna tell me? Drug me on antidepressants so i can be more annoying to the ppl that already dont like me?? Plus therapy is expensive! Its like no one understands!

So, my oldest childhood friend and I recently got an apartment together. A couple of days before we moved in, I gave her a heads up that my friends would be sleeping over the following weekend. She responded by telling that her boyfriend would be staying with us on weekends and asked whether that would be okay. I definitely didn't want that, but at that point it seemed like their plans had already been made so I say that it was fine. The whole situation is weird. He goes to school 2 hours away but still works at a restaurant with my roommate five minutes away, so I understand why he would want to stay on weekends. So the night that we moved in, he was there. And he was there for the next week and a half. He left late Tuesday night but I woke up Friday morning to the sound of his voice. I've only had two full days without the guy. The thing is, I don't know if I'm being too sensitive about the thing. I'm in the bigger room (which I'm paying more for) with its own bathroom, so I have a decent place in our apartment to "hide". Her boyfriend cleans up after himself, buys groceries sometimes and stays out of the way for the most part but I'm tired of him being here. I always feel like a third wheel and like I'm the guest in their apartment. I can tell that they're both trying to be respectful but I didn't sign up to live with her and her boyfriend and she gave me no warning that he would be here this often. Am I overreacting or has he overstayed his welcome?

Last weekend I spent the night at my friends house and our other friend was there. When my friend whose house we were staying at fell asleep, me and my other friend went outside and vaped. Our friend caught us and the next day he called my parents about it. I asked him why he would do that and he said "It's for your own good" he called them even after I said there's no nicotine in it. He's such a f*cking snitch and the reason being is that he's too much of a good boy. Should I quit talking to him?

So I'm an average weight 7th grader. Whenever I try to eat healthy, or exercise, my friends/classmates, tell me that Im already skinny so I shouldn't take care of my body. It really hurts my feelings. I'm around 100 lbs, and if I want to stay average weight I need to take care of myself. Everyone around me, even the skinny girls, have crazy ideas about what is average weight and think I'm like thirty pounds underweight. What should I do? I do eat things like cookies and stuff all the time. But I try to eat healthily. They are saying I am skinny. I'll just be talking to someone, and they'll randomly remark on how skinny I am.

This person was a friend, so I thought at first. But I started seeing something was going on and she lashed out at me a lot and said some things she shouldn't have. Well, this is the same person that has a job/duty to protect employees, and cannot just pick and choose who gets protected and what not. This "friend" admitted to me that she does go after certain people and she can influence the bosses to get rid of people. I ended up reporting her only because I believe she is so overworked and overwhelmed that she's really stressing herself out so much that she's lashing out at me and others but not to their face. Eventually she is going to get herself in a lot of trouble. I've tried talking to her about the lying, about telling me or anyone about what other people are saying behind our backs. I mean really? I don't care what others have to say about me and all that's going to do is cause trouble. But, all I get is talked down to and told that I harass her. All because I told her idc what people say about me? So I have stopped talking to her. I just feel guilty for having to turn her in but she's just not acting right. I still care what happens to her but I'm also terrified that she's going to turn on me and cause more trouble. She already has caused a lot of anxiety problems for me.

It wasnt my fault. I was bullied since elementary school. While everyone had friends i had bruises, in high school i had to drop out cause the bullies were relentless. I went to college but never finished cause no one wanted to work with me. Im now an adult in my 30s no kids no friends and i wake up everyday with so much guilt and shame that i was never able to have a normal life, still havent. Whats the use in living when no one on this planet likes you?

i am too shy to walk up to them and say hi and also i am a little anti social but not fully anti social so i am guessing its just not meant to be then if im too shy to walk up to them.

He and I broke up 2 months ago and I started going to church and found him staring at me 2 weeks in a row so I texted him but he said he was offended which is why it wouldn't work and why he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again. I didn't respond. I've been going to church since then it's been almost a month, and he continues to constantly stare at me to the point that my friends and family notice. he offended my mom and i offended his mom back which is what he means by he cannot forgive me. But he continues to look. The couple times Ive caught him he looks down. What could this mean?

I am a senior and I have been trying to switch schools since my freshman year. The only thing I liked about my current school was our xc team, but then a lot of really bad people joined (by bad i mean mean and annoying) and now even that I don't like. I have been trying to transfer to a different school, but it kind of gets a bad rep as "ghetto". I know quite a few people from that school and they aren't ghetto at all. My school isn't that great either. 1) Our academics aren't very good; AP classes don't prepare us for college classes at all. 2) Our administration & counseling sucks; I was supposed to be enrolled in Calc 3, but they put me in calc and refused to transfer me. I also had to sit out the most important race of the xc season because they mixed up my file and said I didn't have paperwork in when I did. 3) Everyone is annoying. I'm someone who is considered to have a lot of friends, but my close friends have been getting on my nerves. I tell them to stop and then they'll go back to doing it again. I cut out a good portion of them already and with the remaining few they just keep calling me "petty" and say I should just make up with them even though I've given them plenty of chances. The other school may be bad as well, but I don't really see how it can be any worse. I've talked to my parents about it, but they keep saying "just suck it up senior year will be a good year". Now it's senior year and I just want to leave more than ever. Help?

My best friend has been getting angry alot lately and having freak out moments or outbursts. With his anger being that bad, I'm worried that he will do something extreme and get arrested. I want to help him but i don't know where to start... His girlfriend dumped him 3 months ago and since then, he hasn't been the same. I think thats what changed him He had one incident where he tried to attack his ex's new boyfriend and i had to restrain him He is my one true friend and I don't want to lose him. What should I do to help him be himself again?

I have a lot of black friends who are respectable people. but there are other black folks who just annoy me to high heaven. what's wrong with them?

Near the end of school last year, me and my female friend got into fight and I called a few bad words on multiple occasions because of it. When everything seemed to be over, another friend was trying to work things out. I thought it was getting better and that she would have moved on by time we started summer marching. When that happened, she seemed to have been completely ignoring me. At the time, I was a little mad, a little drama was started, but not near as much as previously. I soon shook it off. We are in thanksgiving break and I've been constantly reminded of the past for so many weeks I can't keep count anymore. I feel like I'm wasting away my freshmen year. As one of my junior friends told me, "If they left you, they never even your friend". I think thats very true. But that doesn't mean I didn't think she was my friend. Recently, I was joking around with one of my sophomore friends, and a girl who I guess knows about the fight overheard and went and told I guess to start drama or rile her up. So the girl who still won't talk to me starts yelling at me telling me what I'm supposed to do in my life and I just walk away because after all the sh*t I've gone through in life, I've realized I can just walk the h away. I said something like "I don't have to do this". That same day, I had a mental breakdown. I found out her dad has cancer, but I also found out that she tried to get the rest of our shared friends to stop talking to me lat year. Idk what to do, I'm so confused

I am hosting a Sweet 16 in May of 2018. My party won't be too large, about 75 people. There are Two youtubers who both have about 200k that I want at my birthday. I live in the same state as them so it would be very easy to do considering a flight would only be about $90. Just wondering tips on how I can contact them/convincing them to come? Ps. One of them follows me on instagram, the other follows me on twitter

So, ok. I have an african american friend and he's awesome. We hung out all the time at school. But... i saw a picture he posted and its him calling an asian family a bunch of "bleached raisins"? What? I NEVER expected that from him. Surely he would know that racism is wrong considering all the posts he makes about why the N word is wrong and what not. What the hell? He is such a hypocrite. I still want to be his friend... but should i? I don't have much respect for people who do that. That was honestly very mean. The asian family was celebrating a birthday and he really had to comment that on their page? What do i do?

WHAT ARE THEY DOING?? THE IDIOT POPULAR GIRL WHO HAS LIKE 1000 BOYFRIENDS LITERALLY JUST POSTED A PIC OF HER BOYFRIEND OR WHATEVER THE HELL HE IS... DRINKING??? LIKE WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING YOU IDIOT? YOU ARE 12 YEARS OLD AND GETTING DRUNK WITH YOUR STUPID FRIENDS? THEY WERE OBVIOUSLY IN SOMEONE'S LAWN SO WHERE ARE YOUR PARENTS? SERIOUSLY WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU??? YOUR PARENTS COULD GO TO JAIL AND IF I SHOW AN ADULT THIS, YOUR FUTURE IS GONE. I TOOK A SCREENSHOT AND UGH IM SO MAD. WHAT DO THEY THINK THEY ARE DOING? HOW DUMB CAN THEY GET? THE GUY IN THE PICTURE WAS OBVIOUSLY DRUNK AS HELL! HE LOOKED COMPLETELY SPACED OUT, WASNT EVEN LOOKING AT THE CAMERA! GOD MY CLASSMATES ARE SO DUMB, THIS IS WHY I LEFT PUBLIC SCHOOL FOR A YEAR. WHAT IDIOTS. I DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT TO DO? DO I TELL SOMEONE?? I DONT WANT THEM TO CONTINUE TO DRINK BUT I DONT WANT THEM TO HATE ME AND UGHHH. HELP? Ugh, sorry. When i wrote this i was so mad i didn't even realize i had caps on. Im just so angry. My classmates are morons. Now I'm afraid to go back to school. What the HELL are they doing? I don't want my friends anywhere NEAR them. Im genuinely disgusted. Adults come in EVERY YEAR to discuss smoking, drugs, drinking, etc. Are they that stupid to ignore it? Stupid idiots, i bet they do drugs too. What morons, god.

How to connect with females? How to connect with females? Making female friends has always been tough for me. I m a rugged, stoic, alpha-male who does not know how to "soften up" around females to make them more comfortable around me. I tend to act the same way around them that I would around my guy friends. I also have an intimidating appearance with very broad shoulders, tree trunks for legs, a deep voice, and a face that seems very stern. People do compliment my looks quite often, though. I don t know how to talk to ladies either. I like to talk about masculine things like sports, politics, science, sex(most girls I know act very prudent), and I have a very dark sense of humor that most females don t seem to appreciate. Gossiping about other people s affairs and talking about shopping and cute kittens online just seems dreadful to me. I really just want to connect with them and understand them because I feel so lonely sometimes with the fact that I have no female friends. Please give me advice! Thanks! Also, if it helps at all, I am a 16 year old high school male.

So basically, I dislike this guy in our friend group and he s really annoying and acts like he knows it all and acting like he is innocent and hes new in our friend group, My bestfriend likes him as in like like, and she knows that I don t like him and yet she isnt going to change the fact of my view, She wants me to not be "fake" toward him and not talk to him or else it will lead to more drama. I have my own reasons and issues on him and she thinks those reasons are pointless and annoying, like she can t hear me out, she think she is always right which I have problems with that. Like a bestfriend should be able to put me first not some guy. Like this guy is in between our bestfriend relationship and I really don t know what to do, we have been bestfriends for almost a year and I don t want to lose her over some guy... I need help... I really dont know what to do at this point..

How to connect with females? Making female friends has always been tough for me. I m a rugged, stoic, alpha-male who does not know how to "soften up" around females to make them more comfortable around me. I tend to act the same way around them that I would around my guy friends. I also have an intimidating appearance with very broad shoulders, tree trunks for legs, a deep voice, and a face that seems very stern. People do compliment my looks quite often, though. I don t know how to talk to ladies either. I like to talk about masculine things like sports, politics, science and I have a very dark sense of humor that most females don t seem to appreciate. Gossiping about other people s affairs and talking about shopping and cute kittens online just seems dreadful to me. I really just want to connect with them and understand them because I feel so lonely sometimes with the fact that I have no female friends. Please give me advice! Thanks Also, if it helps at all, I am a 16 year old high school male.

My 14 year old brother told me he smoked weed with his friend one time. I don't know how many times he's done it, but I don't want it to become a regular thing. He's easily influenced and has a decent amount of friends who smoke weed, one of them even went to rehab so.... I'm just worried about him. He's smart, but he tends to do the opposite of what I tell him. Should I tell our parents? (I'm 17 btw) I feel like if I did, they'd over react and from what I know he's only done it once. He told me in complete confidence and I want him to trust me in the future.

Okay so I have a friend named Liz and a friend named Ashley. I wanted to go see the movie "Wonder" and Ashley's mom was willing to take us. But, Liz said that we should watch it together. Liz is the type of person where if she's mad at you she will ignore you as long as she can. She doesn't care. If I told her I was going with ashley she would be mad, but Ashley's mom was going to take us. So I go and Ashley posts it on snapchat and what do you know? Liz is ignoring me :/ Now I am sad :( What should I do?

Hi, I'm a freshman in college and an 18 year old guy and my friend is the same except he's 19. He has a tough home life and his parents are definitely not supportive of him at all. Despite his messed up home life he's an extremely nice and genuinely good person. He's been my friend for years and years but he now lives far away (8 hrs) to go to college as a commuter student and his parents moved there as well. Today he called me in the morning crying saying that his parents kicked him out of the house the previous night and he slept cold and alone in a parking lot. He said he didn't want to wake me up or bother me so he didn't call me which he really should've done because I wouldn't have let him sleep outside alone. He convinced his parents to let him back in the house but they're threatening to kick him out again. They're clearly nuts because he didn't do anything wrong, he's an upstanding student, does not do drugs, risky stuff etc. What should I do? he's far away and I can't have him stay in my dorm room secretly. He's like a brother to me and im worried sick about him. I couldn't concentrate at all today and I can't sleep tonight. He has no family or other friends willing to help. I'm so scared and lost as to what to do to help. I promised to give him my paycheck from my job to help if he's kicked out again. I love him a lot as a friend and I'm terrified because I don't know where to turn. What do I do to help him? Advice? How do I handle this situation? Thanks!!

It s not from lack of trying but of all my "friends" at work or school, none are close enough to even ask me to hang out. Im nice and have great conversation skills, ever since middle school I ve been a tad bit more mature, so I don t find certain things fun. I keep those thoughts to myself in hopes that I get an invite but I never do.