He had a girlfriend. But my grandma forced him to get an arranged marriage in Pakistan. He did but refused to leave the GF. Who was fine being the 2nd fiddle. The wife cane to Canada. They had a kid. But he still preferred the girlfriend. Eventually he went to a mosque and married her too. Well religiously that is. He did a Nikkah, meaning they are husband and wife as far as Islam is concerned, but not legally of course. So now he a 1 dude with 2 wives, living in Canada of all places.

My uncle married his sister to get her to Canada from Pakistan. Paper marriage, a fraud but still, legally they were spouses for a while. She used a false alias. Married him. Brought over her sisters son posing as hers with a fake alias. They cane to Canada. She got her paperwork. They divorced. Went on to marrying other people. Had many kids. Canadian citizens now. Living the good life. Opinions?

Me and my husband have been married about 8 months now but lately there have been things happening that make me question if I am with the right person, frankly I'm getting kind of creeped out! The first thing that happened was him punching holes in our door every time we had a little argument, he destroyed multiple doors, then he threw my cell phone and destroyed that too as well as countless other things. He also calls me obsessively like today I was in the shower so I didn't answer for maybe 20 minutes told and when I got out I had 40 missed calls... What should I do? Please help!!!!

I have a major problem with my fiancé watching porn. I don't like it, never will. I've expressed this to him many many times, and he tells me that "men are wired that way" and it's normal. However, if it bothers me this much, and he knows it, why can't he stop? He makes it seem like men can't physically live without it. I've talked to some men who don't watch it. If he loves me and wants to marry me, shouldn't he stop? We have a good healthy sex life, there is no need for him to go behind my back and do this BS.

My husband and I have been together for quite sometime, and he has two young boys from a prior relationship that just didn t pan out and wasn t amicably settled. When his children are at our home, my husband does very little to discipline his boys (they are 7yrs) and steps on my feet whenever I say anything. Unfortunately, I m left to clean and pick up after them and always have to deal with their nonchalant disregard for their dad, but also with dad s nonchalant disregard for my feelings about it. What s a stepmom to do? I feel like a maid!

My husband is doing a side job of extending a drive way and building a block wall, the person he is working for has been finding any little excuse to say he is not happy with the work, my husband has put from his pocket for supplies to meet the persons expectation but i think its gone too far, this person has treated my husband and his workers very rude and refuses to give any money to my husband for the supplies or anything, does he have any rights if he doesn t end up paying him anything?

So my wife and I are currently embroiled in a prolonged and very contentious divorce/custody battle. She's been after my mother's estate ever since I first met her and I hired a very high-powered attorney to prevent her from ever touching even a cent of that money. At our most recent court appearance, however, she brought out the big guns and accused me of molesting our currently 16-year-old daughter. Don't get me wrong, some unpleasant things happened. Things I'll never be able to forgive myself for... ...but that was over ten years ago!!! My daughter and I have discussed this subject at length and she agrees that everything that occurred was totally consensual and above board. Honestly, our father/daughter relationship has never been more healthy and positive. I consider my daughter to be my best friend. How can I convince my soon-to-be ex wife to drop this subject entirely before it embarrasses our daughter and possibly costs me my livelihood? Thanks and God bless.

I have a daughter who have never seen her dad, he abandoned her. Have not seen or heard from him in several years. He paid child support on and off since she been born. Owe thousands in arrears. Out of the blue he contacted me on Facebook. He got married a few years ago, got a diabetic three year old son by his current wife. Now he want to play daddy to my 14 year old daughter. He is paying Child Support now cause he is married and got son with wife. His wife wrote me a message on messenger talking about her sick son and their lack of money. Gave me a whole background on her which I could care less. I got upset and told him that my child is none of her concern cause she knew he was a deadbeat when she married and had a baby by him. I let him talk to my daughter whenever he calls but I refuse to talk to him unless it is about the child. I feel that he is just trying to get in my good grace thinking I will drop child support which he will only be fooling himself. I don't want my daughters emotions to be toyed with so how can I handle this? Please help serious answers only. I am very distressed about this.

One of my mutual friends tried to set me up with someone. To be as clear as possible about the course of events: I saw the guy's photos, my FRIEND decided to set a DATE for us all to meet but it was maybe 2.5 weeks in advance, we all agreed to this, however I came back and asked my friend to give the guy my number because I thought it would be nice to talk over the long weekend instead of waiting. My FRIEND did confirm I am an attractive woman and other pieces of info, such as what I do, maybe even described me, and a few other things. So, just to be clear we're not going in totally dark. One thing I believe may have ruined it for me was that I refused to send a photo to the guy he set me up with, because I've been stalked before and requested for my friend to explain that I can video chat (even have my friend initiate the chat over his phone) or meet in person. The guy doesn't know about the stalking thing, but I am very private as a result and have opted not to disclose personal information such as last name, either. Keep in mind, I don't know the guy. Anyway, the weekend is passing and the guy has not called despite having my number (my friend confirmed he passed my # along). It's one of three options: 1. He is seeing someone (he confirmed being single, though), 2. He doesn't really want to talk to me, or 3. He doesn't really want to talk to me and would prefer just to meet at the time my friend set previously. Your opinions are welcome and appreciated.

I have been married for over a year now. It ll be 2 years in May 2018. When we started dating he had a job at a grocery store. Then he was able to get a job as an Employment Specialist for people with disabilities. This was a good job, but he hated it and quit back in January. He has been without a job ever since. Meaning that I ve been the one throughout our entire relationship providing for our family. I have a degree and a professional position. Our marriage almost ended several months ago. It has been very rocky. We are going through counseling. He started driving for Uber. His friend who has known him since age 5 reached out to me last night and said that he "hopes he sticks with Uber". This wasn t so hopeful for me. This has been hard for me and I was wondering id anyone on here has experienced anything similar?

I'm 23 and my husband is 27. We've been married for 3 years but together for 8. Lately we've been getting into many arguments about money. I'm a nurse and he's an Engineer/navy seal. We make a Very good amount of money especially since we don't have kids. We both earn a lot but I feel like we need to save it. He recently spent $1400 on useless electronics on Black friday. I flipped the f**k out. He's afraid of me now and says I need to chill out about the money. He knows that I come from an unstable upbringing. My mom was very irresponsible with money and honestly it traumatized me. I've always saved my money for rainy days. My hubby and I agreed to put at least $1000 into our shared account. (he created this account in order to get me to spend money bc I don't spend for "fun") Should I relax a little? I'm afraid of something unexpected happening and I'd like to have at least a 6 month safety net.

I am on good terms with my ex, and I was she told find out about renting at her apartment building. She was approved obviously, but me and my fiance or not. I work, but my fiance does not. My credit score is 535. My fiance is 600. I make 9.75 an hour My ex when she moved did not have a job at the the time, but her dad apparently was her "income" at the time. I guess he Co singed. She said she is sure her credit score also help because at the time it was 720, but I AM working so why was she approved, and I wasn't. Her rent is also more by 200 bucks. What's the difference. I actually work, and it was my ex and her kid. My fiance and I just wanted a one bedroom not two

This might sound like a silly question but I need some help. My brother who is 4 years older recently moved to another state with his wife and 2 kids. they don't talk to my parents and recently stopped communications with me too. My brother and I have never been really close. I have always tried keeping a good and close relationship but he never reciprocated especially after he got married. His wife was never interested in keeping my parents and I in their life. I have called them last week and left a msg but they never returned my calls. They have a FB page but don't really post anything. I am sad to ask this. How can i accept that they don't want me or my parents in their lives? It makes me sad because I love them and my nieces but I don't want to beg to be a part of their lives. I have tried and tried time after time but it's obvious that the feeling isn't mutual. I have considered therapy but unfortunately finances and time are a constraint. I would appreciate any advice.

Like they don't get to know them really well. ...They don't use protection. This happend to an ex friend of mine. He married someone who got him to fall in love with her and after the marriage and baby and green card, she decideded to divorce him.

If you are married but your spouse has no photos of you on their Facebook or instagram but has photos of themselves and their kids, friends, pets etc. but none of you what do you think the reason is?

Yesterday was thanksgiving and we had a blow up fight. Our family we normally spend Thanksgiving with was out of town so we had a little lunch with just the 2 of us and our 7 month old. I made all of the food by myself, including the turkey which I had never made before. I was doing a million things at once and my husband needed me upstairs for help changing our sons diaper. I was annoyed he pulled me away from everything in the kitchen because he didn't want to touch a poopy diaper and we argued. A small petty fight but it escalated when the food was finally done, the food I had been up since 7 preparing that he didn't even offer to help with was done and he refused to eat. He went upstairs and stayed there until 6 in the afternoon. When I went to apologize to him because I was over fighting. I am still furious with him. He's hung up on me making such a big deal (according to him) about the diaper that he thinks I'm completely wrong. Am I? I need outside perspective. Help

He has been married to his second wife and had two children with her over the span of 2.5 years. After the birth of their second baby, his wife found out she had been cheated on. What is even worse is it happened with his second cousin. Gross. She selflessly gave him a second chance and he yet again went behind her back. He then confessed to her that he has never been faithful and multiple infidelities occurred during their marriage. With his wife ready to hang up the towel and file for divorce, my brother has been threatening suicide. He also gets mad at his wife for her not comforting him. I feel like he makes everything in his life about him and I truly am having a hard time distinguishing whether his suicide threats are an actual concern or him just playing a sick mind game on everyone. What do you think my course of action is as a sister? When news broke of his affair with our cousin, I used all my energy talking with him and trying to help him become a better person, but all of it was for nothing when he went behind her back yet again. I need advice on how to deal with the type of person that he is.

At what point in your life do you listen to someone else or do you think you know it all? I've been with my wife for some 15+ years and have helped her raise her 2 sons from her first marriage. She refuses any type of help and thinks that she knows what she's doing. Her oldest son, 23, now has a baby and an extensive criminal record. He hasn't lived with us in years because of him constantly getting in trouble. He lives with his grandparents and he's had numerous run-ins with his granddad because he thinks he's grown. Several years ago I went back to school and got my bachelor's and master in counseling but the more advice I try to give my wife the more she shuts me down saying, "oh, you think you know it all now that you got a damn master's degree?" I'm not saying I know it all but I do know more than you. A master's in counseling and having grown up male I think I'm more than qualified to talk to him or even give you advice on how to deal with him. Thanksgiving was ruined yesterday for her because her son and his granddad got into it and she wanted to run and be the savior to defend her son saying her dad wasn't always right. I told her that he's living with his grandparents so in their house granddad will always be right no matter what. I've been in her life some 15+ years but I can't give her any advice on raising her sons because she knows it all. She has no degrees but refuses to take advice. Then when I don't say anything to her she comes crying to me asking why I won't take to her and she just needs someone to listen to her. She wants to talk and get everything off her chest and that's all she wants. When you start offering your opinion she tunes you out saying that's here child or she didn't ask for my opinion. She just wanted to vent. Ok, since that's your child you deal with him. Don't come to me only when you want to vent. I'm your husband, not your girlfriend. I'm here to help not just be an ear. Am I wrong to even offer advice knowing she won't take any of it or throws my education back in my face. I have 3 degrees and she has 0. I'm not trying to be a know it all but I can help if you want my help.

I the Father of my our son has had full custody since I divorced my wife in 2013. I was granted full because of an unsuitable mother she was on heavy drugs past few years in and out of jail and rehab and lost custody of a new born because she was on meth while pregnant. Her last dirty test was back in OCT 2016 while fighting for that child custody. Then having her rights terminated and baby being adopted. Since then she has had another child and supposedly has been clean Living with a new boyfriend. He last boyfriends and husbands where also into that life which leaves this new one questionable. Right? She was also ordered to pay child support which she never did until last month. In MAY 2017 she filed for visitation wit our and and wants to be able to take him to stay every other weekend with her. Now we have cut on Monday 27th. My question would be what can I really expect from a judges decision. How much time can she be allowed if any? Will the court order some kind of restrictions? Would it start with just minimal visits or monitored visits? It really frightens me for him to be out of his element after so long with just me. PLEASE ADVISE..... THANKS!

He will not compare car insurance companies to see which is best. He will not schedule appointments for anything, he will not talk to our landlord if there is a problem. I don t know what kind of future holds me with a person like him.

My husband has 2 children from a previous marriage. His ex wife was a drug addict at one time and when they divorced he got full custody of the kids. My husbands father was all about family so when he was alive my husband brought the kids around their mother. My husband would always tell me once his father died he wanted his kids to have no relationship with their mother. Well, his father passed away about a year ago and the kids haven't seen their mother since. He won't let them call her on holidays and even throws out birthday cards she sends to them. When I️ try to discuss things with him he gets really angry almost verbally abusive with me. He has called me two faced and a trader. He tells me it's not my place as it's not my kids. The kids wanted to call their mother for thanksgiving/her birthday and he refused to give them her new phone number or tell the kids she's moved out of state. I️ can tell this is really hurting these kids. Should I️ stay out of it? The kids are only 12 and 14.

Its on the itemised list on the bill. It was on my husbands phone the day before he wasn't where he said he was so need to know.

My wife never wants to have any fun I can't joke around with her at all and when it comes to sex she never wants it so I turn to porn Instead now when ever we try to do anything I don't get excited down there anymore my genitals don't care for her anymore i also secretly drink alot more now and have also secretly taken up smoking I kinda just stopped giving a f.u.c.k. all together because I feel like she dosnt give a flying f.u.c.k

One day I just woke up just like i always do but this time felt different it took a minute to settle in... i looked over at my wife and thought gee i sure do love you so much and I'm glad to have you in my life you really do make me happy i feel complete with her! But the attractiveness part just went away just gone "poof" no more I don't want sex from her anymore i used to beg her for it and she'd only give it to me once in a blue moon like 3 times a year is all I got, now I'd rather just take care of my needs myself and get on with the day I honestly don't want that kind of love from her anymore i just want like a best friend kind of love some one to be there for me vise versa and to talk to when I get home from work its sad it's come to this but why whould you think I feel this way? I also feel like i just wanna go out and party on my own or hit the bar by myself..... whats become of our marriage? Please help.

So my husband and I have been married for nearly two and a half years now. He's been an absolute dream the entire time and I've honestly never been more genuinely happy in my life. It's perfect! The only real problem I've encountered, however, is my husband's rapidly receding hairline. Over the past year or so his hairline has retreated at least an inch and a half on his forehead! I snapped some photos of him in his sleep and compared them to our Thanksgiving photos from last year and the difference is pretty noticeable. I'm studying to be a cosmetologist and I've been working as a semi-professional model for the past six months. Needless to say, aesthetics are very important to me. My husband will be turning 78 next month. Should I expect this problem to get worse? I'm turning 23 in May of next year but I still don't have much experience with this sort of thing. What should I expect here?

I've been sleeping with this guy for a year now. We dated for a few weeks after the first five months but we were both in different times of our life for it to work out. We continued to sleep with each other because the chemistry was there irregardless of our relationship not working out. It's been on and off but consistent over the past year and I respect him as a person entirely, I only want to make him feel good and be himself. I understand that we aren't meant for each other and we both sort of know that but I haven't given him any reason to think I was rushing back into a relationship. Why would he block me after all this time? Is he just unsure of how he feels or does he really just not care about and is trying to move on from this? I'm confused and just want to talk to him, but I refuse to go out of my way to contact him on social media if he blocked my phone number. I don't understand why he is so back and forth. Help? ? nvm figured it out

We've been married for nearly three years. He only pts photos of himself and his kids on there (my step kids). There are no photos of me it's like I don't exist. Should I say something? I put photos of him on Facebook a lot and am listed as married.

I married my husband who was divorced with two kids when we met. I have since become their step mother. I get along with the youngest well however his oldest has always been very rude and snooty towards not only me but others. It has gotten to the point where I dread being at home. His stepson will call me ugly and other names. He is also cruel to his sister and grandmother. He also has few manners and doesn't pick up after himself. What should I do?