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- Question: Some of my morphe items that i ordered didnt arrive!! Im so disappointed?
- Question: So I have a friend who I'm fairly close to but found out he has a disdain for Jewish people, please help.?
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- Question: When I was in School I was bullied for many years.In my town the kids knew my name.They beat me and sent me to the hospital.Everyone avoided?
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- Question: Does It sound like he still has feelings for me?
- Question: Which one is an example of protecting/looking after your friend?
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Question: I threw a m&m and it hit above my moms eye idk what to do help. i did not mean to hit her? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 05:39 PM PST |
Posted: 30 Nov 2017 05:23 PM PST I'm scared they will tell people at school 😞 help... |
Question: I think I've created a monster!? My friend has lost it!? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 05:12 PM PST Dammit! My good friend told me his mom and dad won't accept him for being gay and they keep making fun of him and he told me he's feeling super sad and down. I thought I could cheer him up by telling him that if he had money and a stable job and was able to support himself then his parents and everyone who ever doubted him would start apologizing. He said his cousin told him the exact same thing! I also told him if he needs to get out the house sometimes just hit me up or anyone of us in our small group of friends and we'll be there. We support him. Now he's acting like a super diva and told us in our group chat on Facebook that we were going out tomorrow morning at 10:00 am sharp and we can't be late and if for those of us who can't make it "oh well". I said, okay whatever he's just trying to feel accomplished and he's taking the initiative to take us out (usually he doesn't take us out unless it's been a long while, but we just hung out yesterday! And now he wants to go out again!). I told myself "calm down, he's just trying to be cool". So then I asked him, where are we going? He said HE DOESNT KNOW, WE'LL FIGURE IT OUT ON THE WAY. OMFG, DO HE NOT REMEMEBER WE ALL BROKE AF. HE GOT 70 IN HIS CARD AND I JUST GOT MY EDD THAT I CAN BARELY GET W/ BUYING FOOD AND PAYING MY BILLS. |
Posted: 30 Nov 2017 05:08 PM PST Ok I know this guy for almost a year. We exchanged numbers few months ago back in August. Anyway we would have deep convos. I used to work with him. He would always tell me how much he loves my hair. Plays with it. Get close to me and stuff. Anyway at first while ago he claimed he was over her. And how he would like to date me in the future and how he wished he asked me out and be my first bf. Since last year I had a bf for the first time which we aren't together sadly. But whatever anyway lately he keeps talking about this girl he was in love with. He told me he would marry her. But I don't get why he talks to me and kinda show interest we are gonna be something. Then he keeps telling how much he likes me and stuff. And for some reason he keeps telling me how beautiful girls are and how beautiful his ex was. I don't want to hear that. And I tell him it makes me feel sad and jealous. He hardly calls me beautiful like he used to when we met back at work. We aren't dating at all. He made me cry so many times. And he knows it. And then keeps apologizing how he is emotionless and @$$hole he is. |
Question: How do I end a friendship? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 05:00 PM PST |
Posted: 30 Nov 2017 03:33 PM PST So i thought she was really cute. So in my lunch period, i approached her at her table. Here's exactly what I said ''Hey, I don't know you, but here's 4 dollars'' and i handed her for dollars and she responded, ''Thank You'' It was a nice response. I just wanted to do something nice. I want to approach her again tomorrow at lunch. But I don't really know what to say. I don't wanna mess up because i really wanna be friends with her. Thing is, she's with her other friend and idk what she thinks about it. I just want to know some options i can say or do. I don't wanna mess this up. Any help? |
Question: What should me and my friend do? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 03:32 PM PST My friend is coming over for the first time to my house, and she's going to be there for 4 hours. My house is pretty boring, and I don't know what we should do. Can you include some stuff that doesn't include buying things? She's coming over at 10. Please no immature, or innapropriate answers. We're 13 if that gives you a idea c: thank you! |
Question: I think a good friend of mine might have an abusive family. What should I do? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 03:19 PM PST An amazing friend (I'll call her Mary) has recently told me some information that disturbed me and made me realize that her family might be seriously hurting her. I'm 13 years old, and Mary is the same age and is someone I've known for about two years. She's a very kind person, although I've been realizing lately that she isn't the happiest. She doesn't smile when she thinks no one is looking and constantly puts her work down when compared to others. An example of this would be just today when we were doing a workbook assignment in class and she talked about how good my written responses were and how awful hers were. This confused me. I started asking her why she was putting herself down, and she shrugged. Later in the conversation, she asked me to sing for her since she brought up the fact that I'd quit chorus earlier that year. I said no and giggled a little bit, and she grinned and sang for me. I told her it was beautiful and she said, "My mom says I sound like a little b****h when I sing." I asked her why that was, and she said she didn't know. She said her mom was never the sweetest lady, and that she lied to her a lot. Apparently, her mother is in her early fifties and had her when she was around forty years old. This caused her many health problems, such as a heart problem and an issue with her joints. She and her sisters cried because of their mother every day and are afraid of being hit. I want to help, but I have no clue what I should do. Any suggestions? |
Question: My parents are getting divorced, what should I do? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 02:50 PM PST I generally don't care that they are getting divorced. I can't wait for them too, actually. That may sound bad but here are my reasons: My mom abuses me, not physically anyway. She calls me a whore, idiot, ****, *****, etc. Another reason is that I'm not allowed to go anywhere, suddenly. I got a boyfriend, and I have my best friends that I like to hang out with after school. Suddenly, my mom tells me I HAVE to break up with my boyfriend and that I have to stay home right after school. She once screamed at me because my bus didn't drop me off early enough. That day she chucked my phone (she doesn't even PAY for) into the cement, and shattered the screen and everything else. I have checked around and talked with my friends if I can have any say in court at all about my parents getting me. I am 15 by the way.I don't want to go with my mother. It means not seeing anyone of my friends and my boyfriend.¨You can just make new friends¨. I cant. I only had one friend in my whole entire life before I moved to the town is currently in. I get extremely stressed when I'm around new people in a new school.I've gotten stressed enough before that I missed my period for almost 4 months straight.I know that my answer is probably going to be like, let the judges decide.But what if they don't go to court and instead my mom has to DRAG me to her new home? I've gotten depressed enough where I've been generally suicidal. The only thing locking me down from doing anything drastic is my boyfriend. |
Posted: 30 Nov 2017 02:49 PM PST Working 3rd shift+ wknd. prefer not to talk at work all NIGHT. Everyone else has long convos going but I say just a few things and kinda kill the convo. Don't find old college friends interesting anymore-all they do is drink party smoke. Got closer to some older friends but theyre all in relationships now and I'm mad at them for kinda bailing on my bday. They pretty much ignore me now bc they have their own things to deal with or maybe they hate me, theyre tired of trying to hang out with me bc of my ridiculous sched or I'm too boring. I fight some with fam, just got yelled at by my sis for a mistake i made and i realized how lonely i felt when i couldn't talk to someone about it. Basically, i stay home watch tv movies documentaries and read books and stuff, do some volunteer work and i love it. I LOVE my alone time, which is pretty much all the time now... BUT, Not having a single person, to talk to, someone who occasionally asks about me or someone to vent to is seriously affecting my mood.. Sure it's starting to make me feel sad but now i have thoughts like.. "Everyone hates me" or "the common factor is always me. Something is wrong with me" and i need that to stop. i can't let these negative thoughts take over. My ex was my best friend and now I'm keeping my distance it's been 3yrs. it's hard for me to find people interesting. I don't want to be so boring. I dont NEED a boyfriend so stop there. Sure I'll join a gym.Will stop feeling sorry for myself. but what else ya got? |
Question: Yes or no..you would like to be this guy's friend? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 02:48 PM PST He shoots pool, watches sports, smells good, dresses nice, listens to music, down to earth, humble guy. but he's always alone. |
Posted: 30 Nov 2017 02:47 PM PST If you're invited to a wedding of someone who isn't family or a close friend, are you obligated to give a gift AND give money? |
Posted: 30 Nov 2017 02:37 PM PST my friend has been hinting me stuff. making me call her boo thang and whatevs. how do i tell her i wanna make out with her? |
Posted: 30 Nov 2017 02:14 PM PST I work the 3rd shift and weekends so I rarely ever see my friends. happy with my job, been there for about 3 months but I don t like working with others. I was put on a bench where people work closely and everyone keeps conversations going. I say a few things but nothing long, nothing too interesting so convos come to a crashing hault or there s long awkward pauses. I m fine w this bc I still get along with my coworkers and I m doing a pretty decent job as far as i know lol just haven t been feeling too social. I like getting work done & leaving to get home to relax. Also idk how everyone is so talkative everyday at night, but they all have interesting lives. I have no such stories, i live a very simple life. I mind my own business & i used to be close to several people but post-college life pulled us apart & i no longer find most of these people interesting. Made efforts to hang out with a few and all they talk about is drinking partying smoking. Got closer to old friends and they ve all been MIA since they re all in relationships now.. & I m mad at them bc they kinda sorta bailed on me on my birthday. I asked them if they wanted to hang out.. Got no response and idc for it anymore. My work sched is bad enough & i still sacrifice sleep and try to hang out every once in a while but i guess everyone is tired of me, bored with me or tired of making an effort. Live with family. Just got yelled at by my sis for a mistake and i just got to thinking about how lonely i feel |
Question: Tips on making friends for introverts? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 02:07 PM PST How have you made good friends? What steps did you take to become close with them? I'm an introvert & I want to become more social and out going & there are a few girls that I want to become friends with (we're more of acquaintances now), but we're all kinda on the shy side, so we get a long, but we've never really hung out, outside of school.... any tips would help a lot! |
Question: Should I talk to her???? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 02:01 PM PST for 6 years I had a bestfriend Jenna, but we haven't talked in 9 months. We had a big fight back in February and it was all my fault because I lied to her. She asked me to never speak to her again, but I kept trying and trying to talk to her just to apologize. But she eventually got more frustrated and she went to the police. The police came to my house and asked me to leave her alone, I still miss her everyday. Tomorrow is her birthday and My brother told me to reach out to her, because maybe she has cooled down by now. But I'm really scared to talk to her, what should I dooo?????? It's been 9 whole months!!! |
Question: Annoying boy in my class? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 02:00 PM PST there is a boy in my class and he does really annoying things to me. He was always mean/annoying to me ever since the first day of school. Every time I try to talk he always interrupt telling me to shut up which I wasn't talking to him. He even touch my stuff without permission, it wasn't his stuff it was mine. And he even mocks me. He always treats me so different than other people, he nice to everyone but me. I just don't understand because I never did anything bad to him. P.S I'm 14, but my anger has built up over time so that's why I'm so annoyed |
Posted: 30 Nov 2017 01:57 PM PST me and this dude were really good friends until about a year ago, where he ended his friendship with me and every other online friend he had suddenly. I still considered him a friend, and now i'm becoming friends with him again under a name that makes him think i'm a different person. we voice chatted once before, and idk if he will remember my voice or not, and i'm quite scared. don't you dare ******* say "you should have moved on" or **** like that, please just tell me what i should do. |
Question: Tips/tricks to a good conversation for introverts? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 01:56 PM PST Hi, I'm doing a social experiment, and I know all of the basics to a good conversation, such as questions, eye contact, smiling..... but for those of you who are more outgoing and good with making small talk/conversation, what are your secrets to keeping the conversation going, not having awkwardness, talking with shy people, and making friends? Please give examples! This is mostly for teens or introverts... thanks in advance! |
Question: When people ask you personal questions? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 01:52 PM PST and they apologize if question seems too personal.. Why do they ask it in the first place if it is personal? |
Question: Am I one sick guy for doing this? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 01:48 PM PST My high school buddy Jimmy invited me to come to house and hang out. At his house he introduced me to his mom. WOW, was she beautiful. The fact the she was showing a lot and I mean a LOT of cleavage probably had an influence on my thinking. As she was serving me food for dinner, her boobs were 6 inches away from my face. I got a b0ner and almost come in my pants. I finally got control of my feelings and thought what a pervert I was for thinking of Jimmy's mom as sex object instead of Jimmy's mother. She was a very nice person. After we had talked for a while, I ask her if she had been a model. She said she was a lingerie model until she got pregnant with Jimmy. That was the end of her modeling career. She ask if I would like to see some of her pictures when she was a model. I told her YES. Some of her pictures were her in a VERY skimpy lingerie. I almost got a b0ner again. I am ashamed of myself for the way I reacted but my weenee must have a mind of it's own. Did I have an normal reaction for a teenage guy? It was really embarrassing. |
Question: Was I worried for no reason? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 01:46 PM PST Where I work my boss is in his 50s and his wife Sue, is in her 20s, my age. It is known through out the company that my boss is very jealous of his wife around other men. We try to avoid her as much as we can. I have had a few brief conversations with her and she seems to be a nice person. One day Sue ask me if I could drive her home as her husband had to work late. I told her I would if it was OK with her husband my boss. I did not want to get in trouble with my boss for being around his wife. She said my husband does not control what I do. If he objects to you driving me home, I will cut him off from sex for a month. OH CRAP. I am in a lose lose situation. If my boss is mad at me for driving his wife home and is cut off from sex for a month, goodbye my job. If I refuse to drive her home she and possibly my boss will be mad at me and goodbye job. After some thought I decided to drive her home. When I got home, I started updating my resume. The next morning my boss called me into his office. He thanked me for driving his wife home. He said she had a great meal waiting for him when he got home. Did I dodge a bullet by doing what I did? The LAST thing I want to do is become her friend. Do you think I was worried for no reason? |
Question: Some of my morphe items that i ordered didnt arrive!! Im so disappointed? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 01:41 PM PST I wrote them an email onto their support desk but i want to contact them in a few several places because im really upset by this ! And hoping that it would help to make them reply and make the chances bigger.What else should i do to receive what i was supposed to ? |
Posted: 30 Nov 2017 01:38 PM PST So I have a friend who I'm fairly close to. We met through a mutual friends and I really enjoy his company, and he seemed like a cool dude. I however found out that he dislikes Jewish people and thats not okay. Do I break it off, or confront him about his beliefs or try to ignore that fact? |
Posted: 30 Nov 2017 01:34 PM PST My friend commands me and my friends at basketball and it sucks. What should I say to my friend? |
Question: Im so afraid of taking to people? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 01:24 PM PST It's been getting worse. So I do after school activities, but I'm alone. I don't know who to talk to and when I do talk nothing clicks. My friends are so good at it, and I'm jealous! Everyone wants to be around them but when I'm in the picture it seems I bring the mood down. I always try to be nice and polite too. 😔 Yesterday I cried really bad and over the weekend I cried because I was afraid of interacting with people. Plz help! It never used to be this way but now I don't know what to do 😭😭 |
Posted: 30 Nov 2017 01:06 PM PST me.I was poor too.Now as a result I m lonely.I dont have friends from my youth.Because of them.I m 25.And I hate them.What to do? |
Question: How to tell friends you feel bad without alarming them? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 12:59 PM PST I would never commit suicide. And I don't want to be the kind of person who alarms people by saying i wish i would die or something, when I know for a fact i"m not going to commit suicide. I just feel really sad and alone and awful. When people are mean, I feel bad and wish I didn't have to think anymore. I would never kill myself, but I wish I could get some kind of support when i feel bad, like a hug or something. But if I say I feel that bad, people will think i'm suicidal and freak out, and I'm not. I see how nice people are in books and how they care about each other but i don't really have many friends and I feel like people act like animals most of the time irl. I feel really sad lately. |
Question: Argument with friend? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 12:51 PM PST Prepare yourselves... Ok I'm going to try to explain this as simply as possible. I was texting one of my friends and she sent me this video and I was like give me a minute I'm making pancakes and she started saying how she didn't like pancakes now me, clearly joking around went "*gasp* but everyone likes pancakes" she responded well I'm not everyone, so I kept messing around with her and went so you're no one and she started getting so mad and going well that sounds like something a no one would say and we just kept doing that for a while but joking around, now I was very tired so I was done and just went ok whatever you want t think you can think and what I want to think I will think and she went k (not ok, k) glad we agree and I just responded we don't necessarily agree I'm just letting you know you can think what you want to think and she went sure we don't agree, and when she said that I was so mad and pretty much just told her people have different beliefs than her sometimes and she needs to respect their beliefs because she obviously wasn't respecting mine and we kept saying the same things and at one point she told me to shut up (when I was just saying what she needed to hear) and she kept saying how I kept keeping the conversation going. So pretty much what I'm asking is like what should I do and do you think i am in the wrong? If this was confusing let me know and I will type out the conversation. |
Question: My best friend doesn’t care about anything? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 11:55 AM PST Ok so I've known my best friend for about 3 years, and we're good friends, we hang out a lot, we have fun, but a lot of the time he never seems to care about anything, at first, I just thought he was being edgy, but he's always been this way. Honestly i worry about him sometimes and wonder if he's depressed or something. He honestly seems to lack genuine human emotion a lot, I've never seen him be sad or anything. The only thing i ever get out of him is conversation and laughing, and I've been worried for a while now. |
Question: How do I keep friends? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 11:29 AM PST The thing is, I meet people (online and irl) who I definitely can become friends with. But I'm horrible at keeping in contact and replying back to messages, and I isolate myself so much, mostly because of my depression and anxiety. How do I fix this? I am already seeing a psychologist and trying to get better. |
Question: Does It sound like he still has feelings for me? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 11:27 AM PST Ex looks giddy and happy when I'm around, and no matter what he does he constantly looks back to see what I'm doing. He acts like a guy with a crush. His body language is flustered, and excited. I don't understand because 2 months ago he said he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings again and that he wouldn't forgive what I said about his mom although he said something about mine first. Does this mean he changed his mind? He smiled and said hi a couple days ago too he said something about my moms clothes and I said his mom looked like she came from the stable and didn't have new clothes. That's what he's referring to. |
Question: Which one is an example of protecting/looking after your friend? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 11:19 AM PST 1) a friend told you, you made stuff up inside your head it cannot be true (your crush is "gay") you are being honest with her. It made you cry and really hurt your feelings, she knows it made you cry. She told you maybe he isn't gay and you made stuff up inside your head for a different reason knowing it made you cry the first time. 2) one of your best friends tell you to be careful and something is off what a person is telling you. She told you if it was her she would stop talking to this person but it is your decision. She tells you to be careful what this person is telling you. |
Posted: 30 Nov 2017 10:59 AM PST Of course it is my son evan's fault that his car was dinged into. I took evan's side because my husband is being an ***.I know who did it and it wasn't evan. Also you can barely see it. I told my husband but he doesn't believe me. He kept me awake all night screaming about how evan made icecubes half assed so he kept dumping them out and making evan make them again while swearing at him. Until evan told him to make his own icecubes and left . He is also angry evan's girlfriend's grandma came over to the house to give us presents and made her feel uncomfortable in the house so we left and had a good time with her at a restaurant.I don't understand all of the hostility. He is mad he wasn't invited and kees going on and on about what a bum evan is and storming around the house slamming the doors screaming and yelling. |
Question: Help! Getting bullied into taking my mean friend back? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 10:49 AM PST I used to be best friends with this girl for years, but since we started 9th grade she'd ignore me whenever she felt like it, be moody at me when we'd hang out and let her guy friends punch me and gang up on me with them and just generally be mean. So I decided to ditch her completely so I didn't have to put up with her idiot friends. I've been happy alone but now a busy body girl in my class keeps pressuring me in to being friends again with her and to "apologise for ditching her". She kicks my chair and tells me I'm stupid for ditching my old friend because now i'm all alone, but I'm happy alone and I can't forgive me old friend and never wanna speak to her again. How can I get this nosy girl to back off? |
Question: Is it inappropriate to tell my friend that I have been accepted in a PhD program? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 10:19 AM PST Once I was I accepted, I happily told my friend who was sitting next to me. But then I felt guilty because she is older than me and she has only a BA. So this might make her feel bad about herself. |
Question: This girl is starting to annoy me? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 09:42 AM PST Ok I feel really bad for feeling this way, but this girl I know is starting to annoy me. I met this girl at the hospital I work at who is about 2 years behind me in her nursing studies. I've given her a few of my books for free and I really need money now because I'm going to a university and she wants to pay me a lot of less for what they are worth. I'm generally very giving as I've already given her a few books for free, but I really need money as I have a lots of expenses to pay. Don't get me wrong, I do like her, she's nice which is why I feel bad for feeling annoyed. She also calls me and texts me constantly about random things. She's invited me to have dinner with her and her family about 5 times now, and I've finally agreed. I like her, but she's annoying me. What should I do? |
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Question: What is the name of your most fun friend and why? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 09:36 AM PST |
Question: Do you think this is a good idea? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 09:34 AM PST I feel like my friend is talking to me a lot less. If my birthday comes and she doesn't say happy birthday or anything about my birthday then I'm just going to unfriend her. She's always says happy birthday to me. My birthday is in a few weeks. |
Question: Copycats got me frustrated..? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 09:24 AM PST I am doing this draft assessment, for this 2000 word assignment later in December. I decided to do it on OJ Simpson and the 'incident'(the assessment needs to be on a crime). I go to school and tell my friends about it as I completed it before it needed to be due in. Most of my assessment is based around OJ possibly having CTE, and I mention the footballer Aaron Hernandez. All of a sudden one of my friends does Aaron Hernandez. Now I know it's not the OJ story but that's gojng to based on CTE too! I thought having the CTE paragraph would make my story really unique. But now it won't be as she'd be talking about it too! I have never felt so annoyed, this assignment could give me an advantage to go to a high university if I do well. I won't do so anymore I guess, now she's doing it too. SO UNFAIR ahh Basically all I'm asking is how to calm myself down from this all, I have never felt so frustrated in my life... |
Posted: 30 Nov 2017 09:19 AM PST Like, if I don't ask him to hang out he gets sad but he never tries to ask me first to hang out. |
Posted: 30 Nov 2017 08:50 AM PST So I m a 14 year old girl. I m a freshman in high school but it isn t going at all like I wished it would. For the past 6 years since 4th grade I ve been a loner. I always was shy but the only friend I had ditched me in a really mean way and every since I ve been a loner. I ve always had extremely bad social anxiety but it wasn t until that time that it just got worse. I went mute, and didn t say anything unless I was asked. Nobody says anything to me, and I don t say anything to anyone. I m tired of it and it makes me so sad when I see people in school laughing with their friends. Everyone has a group except for me. I eat lunch in the bathroom to avoid sitting alone. I go through school not saying a single word and then when I get home I take a nap and wake up only to eat and go back to sleep. Ies just gotten so much worse I don t feel like doing anything but sleeping. My parents keep saying I m lazy and going to amount to nothing. I want to get help but I would just be embarrassed because my sisters used to make fun of me for going to therapy a few years ago. I feel so alone and i don t see the point in being alive anymore. I m just so sad but I can t cry. Im failing in school cause I won t do the work. I m just so lazy. What should I do? |
Posted: 30 Nov 2017 08:44 AM PST She is 5 foot 2 and weighs 140 pounds. She also is socially awkward but convinces me that she will not be bullied anymore and will be popular if she makes the team but she can't do flips and is flexible. I wish she would do other activities such as softball, soccer, theater, band, etc . She doesn't always do her homework right after school, she doesn't do her chores anymore, she wants a Michael kors bag and watch for Christmas, and she complains about 3 cheerleaders teasing her in P.E. class. She used to be so good at Tennis but she quit because she said it isn't what popular kids do. At her middle school cheerleading and football are big things. She didn't even take an interest in cheer until June of 2017. She played tennis this past spring and was so good but she quit. She was so good that the high school varsity tennis team was very impressed and she was playing for a recreational league. I am not buying her the Michael kors stuff and I just want my normal child back. Did you have any teens who were desperate to be popular? How should I tell to her about this? |
Question: Is it wrong to refuse a friend a ride? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 08:31 AM PST I enjoy driving alone, listening to whatever music I want driving is me time to me. She asks me sometimes after school (we're high school seniors) when her mom cannot get her and I feel like it's just not my issue she lives about eight minutes from me which is definitely not far but is out of the way I'd have to make a detour. Opinions |
Question: Best friend is pregnant and I don't know how to feel about it? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 07:23 AM PST Well I'm currently 6 months pregnant (unplanned pregnancy) I decided to keep the baby and I have all my family's support and the fathers. I guess my best friend might have got influenced by it or something and started having sex a lot with this guy she was with for like a month, I told her to be responsible and use protection and she told me that they did use protection but she lied to me and they didn't. She told me that her period never came and she got a positive test and she seems really happy about it. I know it's her life and her decision but honestly I'm really concerned because she's 18 and was only with that guy for a month and there's no way I can picture her as a mom mentally and financially. Plus she started college this year should I just be happy for her? Idk I don't think she's making a good decision she seems so happy telling me she wants a boy. I feel like she might have planned the pregnancy honestly to trap the guy and they're not even together anymore. |
Posted: 30 Nov 2017 07:03 AM PST My bf comes from a family that has had it very well. He grew up in a really nice part of the city. When I say nice part I don't mean some suburban place but like really nice place in the center of the city. And his friends kind of reflect that. He went to med school and his friends are all doctors, lawyers, bankers and those type of people and their parents are those type of people. Nothing wrong with that but it's just not what I am used to. It's not like I grew up in a trailer park but my parents and my friends were generally people that didn't have extra money to go around. The difference between my friends and his is that my friends are a bit more colorful. They are loud, they are fun and something always happens with them. Listening to his friends talk about their made up problems makes me just roll my eyes. They are perfectly nice people but it's not like I want to hang out with them any more than I have to. I completely understand that he has a tough time getting along with my friends too. But we are great together. We come from different worlds and we don't have to force something between our friends that isn't there. To me the important bit is that we click. But all his past girlfriend have been kind of in the friends circle. So now for him it's weird. Why must we click with each others friends? |
Question: Why didn’t Cathy wave back to me when I said hi to her when passing her in the hall? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 06:33 AM PST |
Question: Do you consider this a friend looking after you? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 06:09 AM PST My "friend" always created drama and fight when it involves my crush. I thought we would stop fighting if he accepts her Facebook request (he only accepts he knows and they don't know each other) but we continued to fight over the same things before he accepted it. She really hurt my feelings and made me cry when she told me I made stuff up inside my head it cannot be true (he's gay) she knew she hurt my feelings and made me cry. She told me maybe he isn't gay and told me I made stuff up inside my head for a different reason knowing it made me cry when she told me I made stuff up inside my head the first time. A year later she told me she was looking after me. I don't feel she was looking after me i feel she was being mean. |
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Question: I rarely even cry. Why is that? Does it mean there is something wrong with me or what? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 05:15 AM PST |
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Posted: 30 Nov 2017 03:59 AM PST So throughout all of this year I've dealt with no friends but I did find some people on twitter who are cool like me. But I feel alone again, like before when had no friends. I think we drifted apart and when we were closer and more like friends, they would notice me on twitter and Instagram but now no one notices me, it's like I'n invisible. What can I do to fix this? How do I fix feeling invisible? |
Question: How do i get over a toxic best friend breakup? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 02:34 AM PST Yesterday, my best friend messaged me saying how much of a terrible disgusting person i was, because of something, here's what happend.: I told another friend of mine, that this girl (my ex-best friend) had already kissed, and i didn't yet, and i was just venting about that lolol. So my ''best friend'' has my social media acc's password, and she normally used to log in, probably because she didn't trust me. She was just looking at my dm's and found the dm where i was venting about not kissing yet, i think she thought i was making fun of her or something? Because she said that it's private stuff, though she never told me that, i thought it wouldn't be a problem for me to talk about it to another person. BUT she actually hates that person (that person doesn't hate her) so i guess that's why she was so mad, i didn't even think it would bother her that much. She blocked me and blablabla, but this isn't the first time. I really like her, before, she used to be such an amazing best friend and would support me in everything no matter what, now, she used to get mad at me for EVERYTHING, it was really hard to maintain our friendship. The first time we had a breakup recently, i begged her to be my friend again, as she was just insulting me, but i was so desperate i didn't even care. But now, i don't know how to feel, i'm not going to beg her again, because honestly, i'm tired of trying, she's such a toxic person and i can't even understand why i care about her so much. |
Question: Why does my friend always beat me? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 02:05 AM PST |
Posted: 30 Nov 2017 01:05 AM PST She's says that she's not mad at me and that she's just focusing on other things. She also said to let her know if I want to hang out with her. It's just that she used to be so interested in talking to me and now it seems like she's lost interest or something. I know I'm probably too attached to her but it's just that hanging out with her made me so happy :( |
Question: How do i get over a toxic best friend breakup? Posted: 30 Nov 2017 12:17 AM PST Yesterday, my best friend messaged me saying how much of a terrible disgusting person i was, because of something, here's what happend.: I told another friend of mine, that this girl (my ex-best friend) had already kissed, and i didn't yet, and i was just venting about that lolol. So my ''best friend'' has my social media acc's password, and she normally used to log in, probably because she didn't trust me. She was just looking at my dm's and found the dm where i was venting about not kissing yet, i think she thought i was making fun of her or something? Because she said that it's private stuff, though she never told me that, i thought it wouldn't be a problem for me to talk about it to another person. BUT she actually hates that person (that person doesn't hate her) so i guess that's why she was so mad, i didn't even think it would bother her that much. She blocked me and blablabla, but this isn't the first time. I really like her, before, she used to be such an amazing best friend and would support me in everything no matter what, now, she used to get mad at me for EVERYTHING, it was really hard to maintain our friendship. The first time we had a breakup recently, i begged her to be my friend again, as she was just insulting me, but i was so desperate i didn't even care. But now, i don't know how to feel, i'm not going to beg her again, because honestly, i'm tired of trying, she's such a toxic person and i can't even understand why i care about her so much. |
Question: What s the best advice you can give me?...? Posted: 29 Nov 2017 11:59 PM PST I m an 18yr old who s done every terrible thing except murder. Who barely has read any books, watched any movies/tv shows, listened to any music, and doesn t know much, if anything, about many well known people. I don t have interests. I need an educational review of numerous of subjects starting from mid-elementary school. I am a bit socially awkward. But i want to and believe that i can change. Become an extraordinary or at least a more decent and normal person. What s the best advice you can give me? |
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