So I caught my wife cheating on me....i set up hidden cameras in our house and a voice recorder in her car and found her going out to lunch with another guy and hanging with him at work....it didn't start to get serious she was just seeing him at work....then I noticed she was leaving so I got in my car and followed her, I soon noticed something suspicious going on....all of the sudden I looked over and realized the man was her brother! Should I confront the fellow inbred about always hanging out with him?

Im a girl shes a girl. Shes married im not. Long story short. We hooked up at work. We joked around all went well but now shes completley ignoring me, wont make eye contact, wont say a word to me. I talked to a few people and they said she regrets it because shes married but im not sure why? Shes the one who seduced me. Anyways her wife visits the workplace at least 3 times a week and im scared if she finds out her wife will cause a scene or will fire me. I just want to be on good terms with her but shes giving me the cold shoulder.

My wife cries after we made love. How can I make her feel better ?!

I personally think I'm doing pretty good. Pot. Beer. Video games. Lsd. Food. This world is a screwed up place.

the reason why trump won is because all those women trump supporters were just following what their conservatives husbands views my mom is a true independent strong minded liberal woman because she voted for hillary, while my dad voted for trump how often do you see a women vote for trump while her husband votes for hillary?? lol

My husband has a 9 year old daughter, he has had a verbal custody agreement with his ex since she was a baby. They each have her one week on one week off. And they have made all decisions for her together. There have been some disagreements about holiday schedudeling coming up and it has turned into her asking for sole legal custody and joint physical. My husband has been there since day one, has no anger issues, no substance abuse problem, had always been there and there's no reason they can't have joint legal and physical. She just wants sole to have control. Does she have a chance at getting it ? Any advice for him?

So my parents got divorced when I was 5 years old and I didn t feel anything. I never thought anything of this until i watched how much divorce affected people and how devastated they looked. When my mom and dad divorced I lowkey was like "okay" and never thought twice about it. What s wrong with me?

Long story short, we got married, and the club meeting is on Friday. I broke my promise and I didn't go to the club for like 2 weeks. One of the club member got to know about our marriage and I bet its news down there.

Basically I have Reason to believ my mom is cheating on her husband with her boss and I'm worried about my brother . She's being reckless and she could lose her job if her other boss finds out and then who will hire her after that ? Mcdonalds ? And my brother has no extra family he can go to if her husband was to find out and he already has trouble in school . And I'm in college . I'm just looking out for him what should I say To her ?

My girlfriend won't have sex with me, and it's been almost a year. She says she never needs good enough. I told her sex will help. Part of the reason was I had more sex with my ex's. I told her lets have sex then it will help, and for some reason that upset her. She always says she never feels good enough within our relationship. I dont know what to do, but I do got physical means. I told her I want to have sex more then once a year..sex is not a bad thing, and she just she's her mind is not mentally there anymore. She also got mad at me when she comes over to my roommate..." Watch my kid for me? Hey I'm here again watch my kid? I'm over again you gonna watch my kid right?" I told her everyone does that, but she only got pissed. Later I her everyone puts a cartoon on for their kid for a quickie, and again she got upset. (Her kid not mine) I dont know she doednt even seem to want to touch me anymore.

He has wanted a divorce for about 4 months. Whike I begged pleaded and tried to do anyth ing to change he said there was no chance and he wanted me to move on. I kept trying to remain friends and see if it woukd turn things around bit eventually felt like a doormat. Seemed the more counseling I went to, the sweet things I tried to do, he became colder and colder. I reactred badly at first. Abused alcohol and pills. It's taken me a long several month to get stable. He has his own issues... he's bipolar and alcoholic. We still live together and he wants to be friends and be civil but i finally decided I dont want to be friends and i want to do low contact. I can't move on otherwise. I'm fed up with being treated like crap. Tired of trying to save the marriage. Tired of being there for him while he has abandoned me emotionally and been very cruel. I just want to move on now. But he doesnt respect I dont want him to approach me. He comes to my room to give me mail, to tell me he is changing a lightbulb etc. This seems innocent but the fact is we can't get along. I just want him to leave me alone now and I'm done trying. I explained why I don't want co tact even with little things right now and he doesnt honor that. What would you do? Also, I have no where to go right now. I have to gain financial independence first which is one thing I am working on.

If you know you belly fat gets on the way while having sex what stopping you from doing 200 crunches a day?

My husband of 5 years is about to sign contract for the army for four years in 2 weeks. He's going in to be an aircraft engineer. Back story we have children and decided this would be a good thing for him and us by having him go to college whilst in the army thereby having a marketable career afterwards. One of my concerns about being an army wife- I've heard there is a lot of drama amongst other wives even though I'd think we'd want to pull together through our spouses deployment so that makes me nervous because I can't stand the thought of any drama when he's away. I hear there is so many donts as in no army wife bumpy stickers or shirts and I feel that's very petty. If you're proud of your spouse then what's the big deal supporting them especially when they, your spouse, think it's sweet? I'm just confused. I don't expect it to be easy at any cost. I have family in that have told me but I back him and feel this would be good for our family. Do I just keep to myself? How do I know who to trust amongst these people who claim friends and are fake adults that act like high schoolers. P. S. This isn't my main concern, my main ones have been answered within my immediate family. This is just a curiosity of what can't be answered within it. Hoping for perspective or maybe some positive stories or even the negative ones. Just realistic of what to expect . Thank you all.

Okay, so my husband and I are having problems. We're moving slowly to find a marriage counselor and neither of us like to talk about the issues. A few months ago we were on the brink of divorce. I feel unhappy and trapped and am willing to see a therapist and he ignores the fact that we have problems. A few weeks ago he joined Tinder as a joke. He said it's just to see if anyone would like him as a joke. That's what he keeps telling me, but he checks the app nightly and he cropped me out of his main photo. When I ask him why he still has the app on his phone he laughs and says it's just a joke and I'm being too sensitive.

so me and DH have been married for 8 years we have our ups and downs. We love each other and I love him very much aswell. But lately iv found myself wanting craving and likeing the attention if they man. And it makes me feel good but at the same time i feel bad. Also I been talkin to a really old high school friend over fb. We leave in different states he has his gf we don't see each other we just talk. random stuff. But I have found that everytime I like talking to him more and more. He flirts and sometimes I find myself messing around back. and we just talk and are friends. But lately these talks have turned to like almost everyday. he knows I'm married. and last time he told me he wished he was the one in bed with me instead!! And that shock me then he said sorry and what not. But the fact that I like the attention he gives me and I like talking to him scare me. And like I always want to have sex with mybhusband and sometimes his just to tired or falls asleep. And I'm like craving it and then this guy comes and texts me. I know it's not healthy. What do I do with these feelings I'm having. I'm scared it's going to pull me away from my husband emotionally.

I been really stressed out because of bills and him constant complaining about the bills. We stay in my dad's house and he let's us stay there rent free we just have to pay water bill and power bills. He mentions that if he has to pay bills he rather stayed with his momma, because she let us stay for 2 years with out paying bills. By the way my dad doesn't stay in the house,he let us stay here again rent free. He just bought a new car and he wasn't complaining before. Now he's talking about he rather not pay them because we are struggling with the bills we already have. Then again he tell me we aren't on the same page and I'm disrespectful, and he rather be single and pay child support then be with someone who is disrespecting him. And who takes him for granted. Yeah I complain about I don't necessarily agree with everything he says, because we do use the water and the lights in the house. I'm 5 months pregnant so of course I'm stressed and angry all the time. I'm expecting him to step up more but he's expecting me to do that. I'm just so confused.

Im only confused because its not a black girl fantasy Thing its only black guys having sex with the wife while the husband watches 👀 ive found a ton of those kinds of vids only those please no jokes i have two kids with him and need real answers

My husband of under 2 years has become increasonably more and more critical of me in the last 6 months. He becomes angry very easily and lashes out at me then 20 minutes later he acts all sweet. I can t even buy a $5 item without the possibility of him becoming angry about it and my income is almost twice his. Another thing that has really disturbed me is that many times during sex he talks about his fantasies with me and another woman having sex. This has actually happened twice while he watched. The last time we had sex, he talked about how he wanted to eat another woman and suck on her breasts. That really hurt me, but I didn t say anything. I ve mentioned counseling to him and he just shrugs it off, saying we are fine. What should I do?

My uncle married his sister to get her to Canada from Pakistan. Paper marriage, a fraud but still, legally they were spouses for a while. She used a false alias. Married him. Brought over her sisters son posing as hers with a fake alias. They cane to Canada. She got her paperwork. They divorced. Went on to marrying other people. Had many kids. Canadian citizens now. Living the good life. Opinions?

Me and my husband have been married about 8 months now but lately there have been things happening that make me question if I am with the right person, frankly I'm getting kind of creeped out! The first thing that happened was him punching holes in our door every time we had a little argument, he destroyed multiple doors, then he threw my cell phone and destroyed that too as well as countless other things. He also calls me obsessively like today I was in the shower so I didn't answer for maybe 20 minutes told and when I got out I had 40 missed calls... What should I do? Please help!!!!

I have a major problem with my fiancé watching porn. I don't like it, never will. I've expressed this to him many many times, and he tells me that "men are wired that way" and it's normal. However, if it bothers me this much, and he knows it, why can't he stop? He makes it seem like men can't physically live without it. I've talked to some men who don't watch it. If he loves me and wants to marry me, shouldn't he stop? We have a good healthy sex life, there is no need for him to go behind my back and do this BS.

My husband and I have been together for quite sometime, and he has two young boys from a prior relationship that just didn t pan out and wasn t amicably settled. When his children are at our home, my husband does very little to discipline his boys (they are 7yrs) and steps on my feet whenever I say anything. Unfortunately, I m left to clean and pick up after them and always have to deal with their nonchalant disregard for their dad, but also with dad s nonchalant disregard for my feelings about it. What s a stepmom to do? I feel like a maid!

I have been married for over a year now. It ll be 2 years in May 2018. When we started dating he had a job at a grocery store. Then he was able to get a job as an Employment Specialist for people with disabilities. This was a good job, but he hated it and quit back in January. He has been without a job ever since. Meaning that I ve been the one throughout our entire relationship providing for our family. I have a degree and a professional position. Our marriage almost ended several months ago. It has been very rocky. We are going through counseling. He started driving for Uber. His friend who has known him since age 5 reached out to me last night and said that he "hopes he sticks with Uber". This wasn t so hopeful for me. This has been hard for me and I was wondering id anyone on here has experienced anything similar?

I'm 23 and my husband is 27. We've been married for 3 years but together for 8. Lately we've been getting into many arguments about money. I'm a nurse and he's an Engineer/navy seal. We make a Very good amount of money especially since we don't have kids. We both earn a lot but I feel like we need to save it. He recently spent $1400 on useless electronics on Black friday. I flipped the f**k out. He's afraid of me now and says I need to chill out about the money. He knows that I come from an unstable upbringing. My mom was very irresponsible with money and honestly it traumatized me. I've always saved my money for rainy days. My hubby and I agreed to put at least $1000 into our shared account. (he created this account in order to get me to spend money bc I don't spend for "fun") Should I relax a little? I'm afraid of something unexpected happening and I'd like to have at least a 6 month safety net.

Like they don't get to know them really well. ...They don't use protection. This happend to an ex friend of mine. He married someone who got him to fall in love with her and after the marriage and baby and green card, she decideded to divorce him.

If you are married but your spouse has no photos of you on their Facebook or instagram but has photos of themselves and their kids, friends, pets etc. but none of you what do you think the reason is?

So my husband and I have been married for nearly two and a half years now. He's been an absolute dream the entire time and I've honestly never been more genuinely happy in my life. It's perfect! The only real problem I've encountered, however, is my husband's rapidly receding hairline. Over the past year or so his hairline has retreated at least an inch and a half on his forehead! I snapped some photos of him in his sleep and compared them to our Thanksgiving photos from last year and the difference is pretty noticeable. I'm studying to be a cosmetologist and I've been working as a semi-professional model for the past six months. Needless to say, aesthetics are very important to me. My husband will be turning 78 next month. Should I expect this problem to get worse? I'm turning 23 in May of next year but I still don't have much experience with this sort of thing. What should I expect here?

Yesterday was thanksgiving and we had a blow up fight. Our family we normally spend Thanksgiving with was out of town so we had a little lunch with just the 2 of us and our 7 month old. I made all of the food by myself, including the turkey which I had never made before. I was doing a million things at once and my husband needed me upstairs for help changing our sons diaper. I was annoyed he pulled me away from everything in the kitchen because he didn't want to touch a poopy diaper and we argued. A small petty fight but it escalated when the food was finally done, the food I had been up since 7 preparing that he didn't even offer to help with was done and he refused to eat. He went upstairs and stayed there until 6 in the afternoon. When I went to apologize to him because I was over fighting. I am still furious with him. He's hung up on me making such a big deal (according to him) about the diaper that he thinks I'm completely wrong. Am I? I need outside perspective. Help

Our son passed away about 2 months ago. My wife has been struggling. She won't live/stay in the house at all since he passed. We've already put our Home up for sale and are in the process of closing on a new home. She now wants to sell everything we own. She's already sold our sons bedroom set, our livingroom set, plates, dishes, she wants everything gone. I'm trying to be supportive but this isn't normal. We can not afford to purchase an entire new house with everything entirely new. She's been selling things behind my back while I'm working. I realize she's struggling but this is really unhealthy. She said she's doing it to rid herself of bad memories and start totally over. We've had a difficult few years. My mother and mother in law have both advised me to stay out of it and let her cope but I'm concerned. First for her sanity and second for our bank account!!! Selling everything is going to put a tremendous amount of stress on myself and the family. Any advice?

At what point in your life do you listen to someone else or do you think you know it all? I've been with my wife for some 15+ years and have helped her raise her 2 sons from her first marriage. She refuses any type of help and thinks that she knows what she's doing. Her oldest son, 23, now has a baby and an extensive criminal record. He hasn't lived with us in years because of him constantly getting in trouble. He lives with his grandparents and he's had numerous run-ins with his granddad because he thinks he's grown. Several years ago I went back to school and got my bachelor's and master in counseling but the more advice I try to give my wife the more she shuts me down saying, "oh, you think you know it all now that you got a damn master's degree?" I'm not saying I know it all but I do know more than you. A master's in counseling and having grown up male I think I'm more than qualified to talk to him or even give you advice on how to deal with him. Thanksgiving was ruined yesterday for her because her son and his granddad got into it and she wanted to run and be the savior to defend her son saying her dad wasn't always right. I told her that he's living with his grandparents so in their house granddad will always be right no matter what. I've been in her life some 15+ years but I can't give her any advice on raising her sons because she knows it all. She has no degrees but refuses to take advice. Then when I don't say anything to her she comes crying to me asking why I won't take to her and she just needs someone to listen to her. She wants to talk and get everything off her chest and that's all she wants. When you start offering your opinion she tunes you out saying that's here child or she didn't ask for my opinion. She just wanted to vent. Ok, since that's your child you deal with him. Don't come to me only when you want to vent. I'm your husband, not your girlfriend. I'm here to help not just be an ear. Am I wrong to even offer advice knowing she won't take any of it or throws my education back in my face. I have 3 degrees and she has 0. I'm not trying to be a know it all but I can help if you want my help.

I the Father of my our son has had full custody since I divorced my wife in 2013. I was granted full because of an unsuitable mother she was on heavy drugs past few years in and out of jail and rehab and lost custody of a new born because she was on meth while pregnant. Her last dirty test was back in OCT 2016 while fighting for that child custody. Then having her rights terminated and baby being adopted. Since then she has had another child and supposedly has been clean Living with a new boyfriend. He last boyfriends and husbands where also into that life which leaves this new one questionable. Right? She was also ordered to pay child support which she never did until last month. In MAY 2017 she filed for visitation wit our and and wants to be able to take him to stay every other weekend with her. Now we have cut on Monday 27th. My question would be what can I really expect from a judges decision. How much time can she be allowed if any? Will the court order some kind of restrictions? Would it start with just minimal visits or monitored visits? It really frightens me for him to be out of his element after so long with just me. PLEASE ADVISE..... THANKS!