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Its long and confusing...be prepared. So anyways me and this girl we'll call her Alissa. So me and Alissa used to flirt ALOT but then she started dating a guy and they dated for a year and eventually broke up. Well about a week later i check on Alissa. We start flirting again for about a week and i feel that old spark. She texts me late at night and says she needs to talk to me. She tells me how this guy and her started flirting (while we were) and she made out with him. She says she screwed up and all this. I tell her im tired of being led on and everything and she says i am too. I am so sorry for what i did. I just didnt want someone else to tell you and you freak out. Now my question should i just tell her that we'd be better off as just friends?

i couldnt sleep last night.. i watched some TV then phone stuff like that and then i tried to go to sleep. i kept thinking about my crush and i just couldnt go to sleep at all rhat time. i know he might not like me anyways but i couldnt stop thinking about him last of half the night?? is it true that he COULD have been thinking or dreaming of me while he was asleep or awake even though he might not like me? we have texted 1 week ago and it ended badly but i apollogized and he left me on read.. but is it true he might have been dreaming of me eventhough he may not like me??

My boyfriends family live in another state and are coming to see him but I knew something was wrong with him when he came home from the doctor and started crying and couldn't stop crying so I just held him and cried with him. After we,had our break down when just took a bath and shower together and I washed him. We talked about our future together and watched a couple of movies and didn't go to bed until 4:00 am. I let him sleep in but I'm afraid to lose him. He confessed to me when We were crying that he was going to propose and he showed me the ring. Now I don't know the status of us but I know I love him and I will stick by him through thick and thin but I don't know what to tell him other than I love him amd I won't go anywhere. We're scheduled to go get treatment options. My boyfriends estranged dad who lives in state offered financial help to his son but his son my boyfriend doesn't want help from his dad who abused him as a child. I know this is a lot but I need advice,

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I finally told my friend that I was in love with him. He told me he was getting back together with his ex and that he was sorry. A few days later, our friend threw a party and he came, with his ex, and seeing them together absolutely sucked. Long story short, I ended up getting drunk and making out with his friend. I know it doesn't look good and I know this is horrible, but in the moment, I just didn't care. I know he knows about the kiss but I have no idea how to save this friendship. Help?

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My boyfriend has been really vulnerable lately ever since he's been hurt he's the strong silent type amd ever since his car wreck that broke his arm and leg and gave him a concussion he just isn't the same. I asked him if he needed anything and he said just hold me, I held him and gently kissed him al over the face head and mouth then covered him with a blanket when he fell asleep. The neurologist said this is nothing serious and that he's just in shock how can I be supportive

My ex gf and I broke up after a year and a half, but she didn't let me move on properly. She kept calling, wanting to hangout, have sex, showed up at my job and even tried to get back together. After a phone call where she wanted to come over and 'cuddle', I said no. A few months later, I got in touch with her, assuming we were friends, and learned that she was moving, she was very venomous and said all kinds of cruel things. She hurt me very badly. I finally confronted her about the times she used me as a spare while she played the field, it was a vicious call. She sent me a e-mail apologizing telling him that she still really cared about me a lot, how she was truly sorry for all of the things she told me, regretted it, and that she was going through stuff at the time. I called her back, she had just moved, she told me that she missed me, That she still felt a strong connection with me, and I think, that she thought of me as family. But she downplayed our past relationship (when we were a couple) attributing it to being 'young and naive' and that she liked some things about our relationship. She also told me how she was interested in hook ups with random people. But at the end of the phone call, I wished her good luck and happiness in life and told her goodbye. She told me that I could call whenever I wanted to talk, but I didn't respond to her offer, and just said 'bye.' After she told me bye, and she stood on the line until I hung up. And I never talked to her again. Even though she moved, I wonder if she was just going to use me as a spare/security blanket while she played the field again. Her past behavior exemplified this. Even though she said that the relationship (when we were officially a couple) because we were 'young and naive', yet she 'really cared a lot about me' and couldn't seem to let me go and feeling devastated when I finally said goodbye. Was she just trying to keep me on hold until she was done playing the field? On our final night together, during the period where she was being hateful, she came onto me sexually and I rejected her, and she told me 'if I was older, I probably would've stayed with you.' She even invited me to move with her. This was before the confrontation call, before the final phone call (a month or so before). You don't try to have sex with someone you feel is like family. So, I wonder if she was putting on a front during our last phone call.

Im a man and use my right hand (dominant) when using my phone. Apparently gay men tend to be right handed when using celluar phones

I fingered her a lot and I could barely get a second finger inside of her is that normal? She is a very small girl maybe 100 lbs but she wasn't a virgin or anything so idk?

A girl always look at me. When she was getting trained on the phones she kept looking back at me. She once made a conversation about the shirt I was wearing. She thought I was someone else and when realized I wasn't that person and She put her hand on my arm and she said she thinks that I thinks she crazy.She was going to wash the pizza sauce scraper and it still had sauce on it and she was trying to playfully throw the sauce at me. Her butt bumped into my butt and she said our butts just touched. A few days later she was trying to move an order to make space and I blocked it with my hand and she changed her body position and she stared at me. Her body position seemed flirty. I realized she knew my name even though I never told her my name. One time we worked everytime she saw me she kept smiling. She bumped into me another time and she said sorry and that she didn't mean to do that. Is she just being friendly?

My ex cheated with a girl in Miami while on vacation and I found out. I dumped her but she wants to get back together. I not feel I can trust her anymore....

I've seen this girl stare at me when I turn in class she thinks I can't see but she stared with a blank face with her eyelids lowered.

I no longer miss or love this guy anymore, but I still want to come back. It's weird, when I was in the relationship I felt the same way, like I really wanted to leave but somehow never had the strength to leave. I used to be constantly stressed during our relationship, everytime I talked about leaving he would threaten to commit suicide. I also used to be scared to talk back to him because of how he gets really hurt easily so he would call me "spineless" or "weak" and start laughing at me. I was cheated on by him for about 3 times, and whenever I tried to confront him he would insult me and dodge the conversation. He's done the same thing with other women. He wasn't a good guy, and I know there are better guys. How can I move on?

I am 15 and am in a family who has a maid. We have had our family maid for abt 13 years. Her husband passed away and she is now a widow. She is older (40+) and is thick. I feel she has a lot of stress becuz she works a lot so ik she does not get any men. She also takes care of 2 autstic kids and ik that is very hard. So the point of all is this is that should I make sexual advancements towards her? She has always said I am good looking and I do feel it would benefit both of us. I have been very horny because my gf stopped talking to me straight up? Plz give me advice thank you

A few months back, I met this Nigerian girl on Facebook. We have been chatting as friends. She said she feels special while talking to me and that I have a good heart. She wants to apply for a visa when I'm done with college as I live in America. She hasn't asked for money and said money isn't important to her. I'm white and I told her about my mom's opposition to interracial dating but she says she doesn't care. She thinks we matter the most. I like to think she's serious about me but she's really hot and I know there are scammers out there.

I wanna stay up.. but I don't have any energy drinks.. I just looked up slender man porn.. won't be sleeping for a while ahhh

So a few days ago, I was talking to a guy that I really like and he just happened to be stoned. I was smoking too but was sober enough. He started asking me if I would reject him if he came to me and I was just like no i wouldn't then he proceeded by saying something like "it's been on my mind, being with you for a long time but i'm good at keeping it to myself" then he started texting me about hanging out and planning stuff to do and was actually pretty precise about everything. he told me he wanted me to be confident and open with him and so I asked him to text me a picture of him that i liked. without even specifying the picture, he sent me the exact one i was talking about. he was being really honest to me and wanted to even "talk dirty" the next night he said it was "all the weed talking". Is that true? Or is he just bluffing and blaming it on the weed. I've asked a few of my stoner friends and they don't think it's true.

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Long story short, I've known this guy at school has had a HUGE crush on me for a while, and after getting to know him more I REALLY like him back. After working up the courage to tell him, he told me he had feelings for me for a while too, he just didn't have the guts to tell me. I've been hanging out with him a lot for a while and he's probably one of the nicest people I've ever met, if not THE nicest. He has the best manners too, especially for teens this day and age. I know for a fact we both want to start dating but neither of us have dated before so how do we go about this? Help?

Why is a guy more likely to understand that you don't want to date him because you don't like his personality, even if he's hot, but can't understand why you won't date him because you're not into his looks?

Okay, so I'm 20 and a girl being a Christian is the most important trait I look for in a girl. So Church is the best place for me to meet my type of girl. The problem is the Church I go to is large, the congregation is not very close to each other (I've been going the my whole life and I have not talked to anyone there). There are several attractive girls that go there though, another problem is a lot of them are with families (which makes approaching them even harder). Talking to them before mass isn't likely because no one lingers outside of the church they just go in and find a pew, and after the mass most people rush for their cars as soon as it has ended. Even if I was able to catch one of them before/after mass I wouldn't know what to say. I'm awful at that kind of stuff. Oh, and joining church related activities isn't something I'm able to do. Tips?

When he first asked for my number he texted me for a couple of days, then stopped. If the conversation goes until late and he ends up falling asleep, he usually doesn't respond the next day (even though he did one time). I mean, it's not like we were talking about anything super important that he needed to respond to anyway, because he probably didn't want to continue a whole conversation the next day if he was busy. However, I see him at work 3-4 days a week and we talk during lunch and whatnot. Also, if I text him first (which I did like twice) he will respond and then continue the conversation. I definitely know he's a shy guy because the day after he asked for my number and then told me he liked me he couldn't look at me when he saw me. He also still flirts over text (he sent me 😗 and called me cute in the beginning when he texted me, and when I texted him first he texted me "you're doing great 😂😘" during the conversation), so I don't think it's a matter of if he likes me, I think maybe he doesn't want to talk about nothing and would rather wait until we go out one on one to initially talk about ourselves.

I just found out that my grandfather died but I didn't know him that well and the last time I saw him was 6 years ago (he lives halfway across the world). My father is obviously devastated and hes going to fly back tomorrow. I don't know what to say to him or how to comfort him. Is it weird that I didn't cry? I'm still kind in shock

There is a handsome guy at my school and he seemed flirty with me. He came up to me after class and introduced himself to me. He asked me where I'm from and then spoke to me in portuguese (sounded sexy). He asked me if I understood what he was saying. I said no and he told me that with him I can learn a lot of portuguese. A few months later, my friend asked me if there was anybody that I found attractive at school. I didn't admit that I found this handsome guy attractive. She then told me that she thinks he finds me hot. I asked her why and she said because of his body language and interaction with me. She said she could see us being together in the future.

So this guy at my work sorta flirts with me but i don't know if he actually likes me. We recently got closer. We have this inside joke where he'd always ask me when I'm taking him out but the other day on my break I was ordering food and i texted him to see if he wanted anything and he replied "no my dear" I also posted a pic and he dmed me saying "ugly" jokingly and i said "thanks" he said "jk ur mesmerizing" the other day we were joking around with co workers and he was telling them that me and him are going out and i went along with it and said that we were secretly dating. Then he stood next to me and ran his hand through my hair cuz i straightened it. A while after that we were joking around with other workers and told them I'm his future baby mama or something like that. then he put his hand around ny neck squeezing it. A while ago we were both in the office and he's just standing there checking himself out in the mirror then he got his hand and rubbed it all over my face telling me that he's been picking his nose all day, obviously joking, and after that i was talking to him and a group of guys and i was standing next to him and he pulled me close to him squeezing. Like people are telling me that he's into me but I'm having a hard time believing it. He found out my last name and he told me that he used to have a relationship with my cousin and she used him for money and sex and broke his heart so I don't really know what to think.

I got this guys number and we texted on and off for a few days. We saw a movie and we texted afterwards but haven't heard from him since. Then I asked him (in person) if I scared him off and he said no, he didn't know what to say after that night. I asked if he was sure and he said yes. Been a few days and still haven't heard from him after I texted him, asking if he wanted to go out again. Should I leave him be at this point or confront him or something else?

I had sex with this guy and we had plans for another night after and at last minute something came up and he wasn't available. I told him we can make plans again and then later asked if he wanted to see a movie some time and he only said sure, didn't bother making actual plans either time. Is he tryna shake me loose or is he playing hard to get or what? He complimented me on the sex and wanted to do it again soon but now I'm not sure what's going on. Help?

when I'm around kids I feel the need to ack mature as possible to like set a good example towards them. But honestly i want to enjoy my young life now while I still have the chance. and then later on in life when I'm mature enough have kids of my own. But my boyfriend puts so much pressure on me. like we always have to hang out with them. Not one weekend goes by without doing something with the kids. And I have nothing against the kids I love kids but There not even his kids, yet we spent so much money on them and it's like we never have a free night where it's just me and him. whenever we do something he always says let's take the kids. and when he's around them he dosent even try to set a good example. He swears in front of them and a.m. talks to them like there just some of his friends. They are really naughty kids especially the youngest witch is 5 years old. she swears, hits him and her brothers. and he doesn't do anything he just laughs and encourages that kind of behavior. and it's like I hate being in public with them because they're so naughty and they look like my kids even though they're not and it's like I'm a horrible "mom" because I just sit there and let them act like that but I can't discipline them because they're not my kids. even though if they were my kids I would not let them swear. Anyway I know he loves them but sometimes I just want to say no I don't want to pick them up today. but I just can't because I feel and seem like an asshole.

Okay, so there's this new coworker of mine (she is really attractive) that has sparked my interest. I looked her up on social media and I found out she is single. She has a lot of friends on facebook, followers on twitter, etc. so she is pretty popular. She also has made posts insinuating that she wants a boyfriend, she even made a post asking for a date for a wedding. She is in a sorority, so once again, her social life is very active. I have a couple theories why she is single, she's high maintenance, she doesn't give guys a chance, which leads to me. I'm a pretty reserved individual, I'm afraid because of this she won't give me a chance. How should I approach this? Oh, and we are both 20, and keep in mind she is new to work we haven't talked to each other yet.

So a few days ago, I was talking to a guy that I really like and he just happened to be stoned. I was smoking too but was sober enough. He started asking me if I would reject him if he came to me and I was just like no i wouldn't then he proceeded by saying something like "it's been on my mind, being with you for a long time but i'm good at keeping it to myself" then he started texting me about hanging out and planning stuff to do and was actually pretty precise about everything. he told me he wanted me to be confident and open with him and so I asked him to text me a picture of him that i liked. without even specifying the picture, he sent me the exact one i was talking about. he was being really honest to me and wanted to even "talk dirty" the next night he said it was "all the weed talking". Is that true? Or is he just bluffing and blaming it on the weed. I've asked a few of my stoner friends and they don't think it's true.

This guy in my band class (Matt), used to always hang around me and watch me play during practice. At first, I thought he was making sure that I was playing the right notes, but I'm the only person he does this to. - Matt doesn't do that anymore. Anyway, after practice, he nudged me and said, "Hey". That's the first time he's ever talked to me. Then, Matt did this trick (he was showing off) and when he was done, he looked over at me and smiled. During the football game, Matt kept looking over at me, and he came over and stood next to me, and later, he started talking to this girl and asking her questions about herself. So I decided to break the ice and I messaged him over social media, but the thing is, he only messages me (on social media) if I message him a question. He liked my profile picture, but that probably doesn't mean anything. Anyway, I messaged him a question and he left me on read, but he came to talk to me about my question the next day.

i met this guy on tinder and he has about 3 pictures all about the same. Flexing and what not and we havent been talking long. his profile says 21 and says he has no other social media..at all. I thought that was fine. we had plans to go on a date because I'm leaving for 5 months for a job. he then cancelled saying his nan was in the hospital. obviously i was bumbed out but what are you gonna do? so i felt bad and i keep getting responses like I'm crying and i never do that, I'm so sad, i need a hug. all normal, but for some reason i feel I'm being catfished. i usually snapchat with people so i can see their real face and stuff. Anyone experience the same thing before?

So basically I was at his house making out and then he got a call from a girl named Julie Ann and he answered it and said Hey babe and I asked who is that but he ignored and continued talking on the phone and I heard them saying you're beautiful and I love you so much and when he got off the phone I was crying and he said you're ugly trash I have a better girlfriend now who has more money and he started beating me and slapping me and kicking me and then he stabbed me in the head with a knife and I started bleeding and he cut my arm and then he shot me with a gun and beat me and beat me super hard and slapped me and kicked me and punched me and then he stabbed my head

He mentioned to me in prior conversations that sometimes that was how he did things if he needed "a release" but he said it was not an all the time thing. I figured, all guys watch porn, right? However, one night when I was using his laptop (we share it for the most part) I was looking for something I did another night and went back through the website history to find it, and found the porn sites he used and what he searched for. I don't know why, because he even told me he did it, and I shrugged about it, but it hurt me. I still don't understand why it hurts me. It does though. I don't know. I don't like it. But it's not like I can ask him to stop.

We have been together for almost 2 years. I have spent $200+ each time I have seen him. I have seen him 5 times and I have planned and paid for everything. I even drove there and then picked him up and drove back the same day. I keep telling him to come see me but he always makes up excuses. Saying he don't have a driver license so he can't get a job to get money to come see me.

I️ realize I️ can't change him or make him feel a certain way. But I've tried talking to him and I️ can't just act like I️ don't give a **** and hope that he does. What should I️ do?

My on and off again boyfriend made a sex ad on Craigslist and I answered it by messin with him. He went outside thinking the girl who he was talking to going to show up at his house. He gave out his address online.

tbh there should be a short film on society how if everyone who was a virgin wore a neon V on their forehead i would love to see a dystopian film like that