I m gonna get married soon and it disturbs me to think that one the night I get married, everyone who was at my wedding will know that that s the night I will be making love. I m thinking about getting eloped and then having a bigger wedding just because I want it to be private and don t want it to be an assumed thing because that s awkward

My fiancé is currently in jail for a crime he didn't even commit. He went in on Monday and I've cried everyday since because I know he doesn't deserve this and I'm worried for him. The only upside is that I've gotten closer to his parents and talking to them has helped. But still, I've never had a significant other that was behind bars. Plus, the jail he's being held in is in Arkansas and I live in Texas so I can't even visit him as much as I want to. His next court appearance is January 22 so he'll miss all the major holidays including my birthday. Now I'm starting to doubt whether I should go through with the wedding. I don't know how much time he'll end up serving or if he'll be able to put his life together once he gets out.