But I'm held back by a toxic relationship. The girl that I'm in love with has admitted love for me. But I don't know how to leave my relationship. My gf is mean, she makes me feel small. She belittles me. She takes me for granted. And don't get Mr wrong. I do love her. But she's so mean. Calls me a bitxh almost daily. Talks **** to me. I can't even talk about my feelings without being told I'm bitching. The girl im madly in love with is mad st me brcsuzr she said I don't respect myself. Should I try for her ? She left me and I feel kind of werid about messaging her. Should I risk my relatio ship? I love my gf but I'm not in love with her and I want to be happy but she's so incompetent and useless and I say that with as little disrespect I can but she doesn't know how to do anything. I feel bad about leave ing her . and on top of that I don't want to regret it. I think about this all the time. And I'm scared. What do you think I should do? Should I tough it out or should I go to this girl I'm madly in love with ? Should I message her ? I'm looking for a sign and I'm hoping I'll find it here

Yet shes constantky trying to pick at me about my past relationships.

My and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months and our 'dates' consist of the cinema and then his house after to 'chill' or whatever. I have always paid for my own ticket and he has never even offered and he still hasn't taken me out to eat. I'm sometimes feel like I'm being used or am I just overthinking things?

So my friend girlfriend we had a thing when they just started so after they broke up then I told my friend that me and her had something when they where dating and the girl still kinda liked him and now she won't talk to me she says she's not mad anymore but will I be able to talk with her again she says she still cares about me

So a few months ago this kid would stare at me constantly. He would watch me if I got up, his eyes would follow me as I walked down the hall. It was always happening. I started to notice him, and developed a pretty big crush on him. As of right now, I am majorly crushing on him: he's beautiful, and I'm always thinking about him. Anyway. Now he's giving off really confusing signals. He'll watch me one day, and just stare, and whenever I look at him he looks away quickly, but then the next day or so he doesn't really look at me at all. Last Friday, he didn't pay an ounce of acknowledgement to my existence, but this week and today he looks at me all the time. He literally will turn his chair around so he's facing me if I'm behind him, and on the bus if he sits ahead of me, he'll turn ever so slightly so I'm still in his view. Please keep in mind that we aren't friends at all, as we haven't even spoken to eachother. I'm very shy, and he's rather on the quiet side as well, so I think we're both to afraid to talk to eachother. But what do the sudden attitude shifts mean? Why does he go from not paying attention to me one day, to watching me always the next week? Guys confuse me so much, I swear.

She will buy me something then expect to share it right away when Im enjoying it. Or she will jokingly threqten to take it away I get mad because my mom used to pull that crap. It kills the mood every time. She just doesn't know when to shut up spmetimes either

Ive been called this several times. Once at my old job where everyone thought i was gay - i didnt talk and just worked - one girl said "hes too cute to be straight" and the other time was at school at this girl knows one of my old coworkers - so she knows me before really knowing me - anyways she ssaid "hes so cute" to her friend. The day prior when I walked into class she called me gay and I flipped her off and then the following day is when she made this comment .

This girl I made friends with at work, well good friends laughs and smiles when she sees me. She already mentioned she is engaged and has a fiance.

I'm in my 40s, never had a girlfriend.

This guy in my class shows almost all of the signs (body language signs) that he likes me, but he doesn't talk to me, unless he's saying "hi" or "bye" to our whole group. He literally talks to everyone else except me. Today he kept looking over at me, then he cane over and stood next to me and said hey to everyone around. Then later that night, he started talking to this girl, but he didn't talk to me. So, I don't know what to do. A few days ago, he did this cool trick (basically, he was showing off) and when he was done, he looked over at me and smiled. So I thought he was outgoing, but I guess not.

Long story short, there's this kid at school who has a HUGE crush on me and I know this for a fact. I was told my multiple people that he likes me and he told one of my friends to tell me. This was when I was new to the new school and I barely knew him, so I said I didn't like him back that way, but now that I know him better and we're friends, I really like him a lot. The friend he told to tell me that he liked me also isn't my friend anymore and he's been helping me out with that because it's been bothering me. I'm not going to explain everything cuz it'll be waaaayyy too long but here's a sum up of some stuff he's said to me... He's told me I'm beautiful, and perfect. He told me I'm a really nice person. He's always really nice to me and he cares a lot about me and overall just makes me feel good about myself. There's more but that's just some of the nice things he's said to me. How do I tell him I like him back? I'm not sure how to go about it and I don't wanna make anything weird. Advice?

There's this girl that I really like at work. We're both 20 years old. She just started working there about two weeks ago. She fits my description of what my ideal woman is due to her mature personality and intelligence. She's also drop dead gorgeous. She has a very flirty personality. She has another job in a very male dominated field and she never grew up with a mother. She was raised by her father. She's truly amazing but it seems as though her flirtatiousness is just part of her personality. She stands very closely to me. She lightly shoves me and laughs at my shitty jokes. She leans up against me. She doesn't do too much of that with anyone else, however I am truly clueless. How can I tell if she's into me at all? Any help would be appreciated

there's this boy, we started talking last january. after time it grew and grew and was off and on and i grew to love this boy, and he loved me. we haven't talked since july but we've kinda talked as friends here and there. he's been blocked for about a month but recently contacted me and we talked for two days. since july, why can't i get over this boy? i still love him deeply and i just don't understand

So my bf and i have been dating for a year now we have a great relationship. I know he loves me unconditionally but when my cousin comes over i feel like all that goes away. My cousin is very pretty she has a great body she wear clothes that enhance that she just really pretty with a cute face a very cute laugh like a girl he would fall, i say this because i could see something like that going on . Im a very outgoing person , im very different from her. Im in a orchestra class, i like dragon ball z, Im that one girl who carries a big backpack to school, i play sports like tennis and soccer, she doesnt play any sports. but anyways whenever she comes over and hes here i feel like he focuses on her the most, i feel like I dont mean anything to him. she also tries to find a way to talk to him and he also ask questions about my cousin . and i told him once like why do you want to know so much about my cousin and he just kinda stands there. Ive tried to ignore it but it just hurts me . i try to leave it behind me but idk what to do ? Ive even ask him to come over when i know she isnt . its gotten to that point, I just feel it . i want to be wrong but its to ignore it. Hes an amazing guy , i know hed do anything for me like anything. but all that goes away when she comes over and they talk.

I have a question to American girls. Do American girls often say to boys like"are you not gonna hold my hands?" as joke? If my English is weird, please point it out.

We just started going out and he was in the covers, I couldn't tell about her. I'm not happy with her and I wanted some clarity. All I got from her is that "we are just hanging out". Do I have a reason to be concerned?

I'm 20 and in college and I'm too socially awkward. I fear that I will never be confident, cool, and outgoing. I'm an introvert and everyone hate introverted guys. Everytime I talk I feel like my voice is annoyingly deep and my anxiety shows which makes me even more awkward. I HATE IT!! So I feel like I'll never get a girlfriend, have a wife, and have a family. So I have to watch all my friends get girlfriends and get married while I'm still a bachelor. I know I'll never find the right girl for me because I'm too socially awkward and I get nervous when I talk to girls because I don't know what to say to them. I already talked to a counselor (therapist) but they don't do anything for me. I workout, study, study business, play piano, and everything so it's not like I don't have a hobbies but my Social awkwardness is holding me back socially and therefore I fell like it's pointless to change myself if I know women hate socially awkward guys. So should I give up? Why or why not?

so i feel as if i'm tired and like... i can't focus? i feel like i'm out of it and like not myself but at the same time i'm fully aware but it's like i'm dreaming but it's reality at the same time and i just want to sleep but it's early. i never feel like this? it's barely 7:37.

People above 100 years.

Okay, so there is this girl (been very nice to me and somewhat i like her) which i've talked to for weeks, we text on the phone, we meet in college etc. She always laughed at my jokes and said i was cute and everything. However, recently she stopped messaging me (Been almost 2 weeks). When we meet, she usually just says hi to me and moves on to talk to some other dudes (2 of the popular guys). How do i get her back? I don't want to seem like i'm trying too hard, and i don't want to see like it's bothering me...Can someone give me an advice on how i should handle this?

Lots of y'all about lately but no really says what it is. Obviously I know what the extremes are but like if I make a move on girl hat I thought liked me and she doesn't like me did I commit sexual assault? If that's the case should guy stop making the first moves and wait for women to make the first moves?

Its weird, he also kind of give signs he likes me even though we barely know each other. We sit by each other but barely talk to each other, only twice we have thats all. what does it mean?

So my girlfriend is on vacation from home but phone had no service so we communicated through snapchat,however today i woke up and did not see her. When search for her name it didn't pop up. It said to invite her to snap chat? But that's odd what could've happened?

So my girlfriend is on vacation from home but phone had no service so we communicated through snapchat,however today i woke up and did not see her. When search for her name it didn't pop up. It said to invite her to snap chat? But that's odd what could've happened?

It was in math class, and I was reading. All of a sudden I over hear these two boys in the desks next to me. They were talking about my, boobs? And, yes I am sure it was about me. My name was used and they pointed at me. It made me really uncomfortable and I wanted to cry. Am I overreacting? My friend said I should talk to the administrator but I dont know..

Twice I have been accussed of sexual harassment at my current job, but I haven't been fired. I've talked to both female co-workers incessantly, asked them to do stuff with me outside of work more than I should, put my arms around their shoulders, made flattering comments to them, and plain put them in uncomfortable positions. My behavior has been noticed and I have been warned repeatedly, but it has taken until both girls reported me before I finally stopped. I'm autistic (the only reason why I haven't been let go), but why have I been unable to control myself until the worst possible outcome occurs? Does this make me a bad person?

Me and ex have been on and off for almost a year. So we just recently broke up because i just realized I couldn't do it . now we just recently texted and i saw he was on the phone and now my i feel some tome of way.

I've been thinking about this and I really want to get it done. Should I?

i met this guy. we are from the same state. we were coincidentally in the same state when we met. he wanted to hang out and i told him lets hang out when i got back home which will be in like about 2 months. he said thats tooo far.. he kept asking nd wanting to hang out. why did he get mad? why cant he just wait until i go back.

The girl that i really like broke up with her boyfriend about a month ago. I plan to catch up with her and make a move soon. When they dated for only a few months her instagram was private. A couple of weeks after they broke up she made her instagram open again, but now its suddenly private again. What does that mean?

Girls, what would you say about his face AND overall apperance(the way he dresses/physique)? 1-2 fugly 3-ugly 4-kinda ugly 5- OK 6- decent, not bad 7- good 8- very good 9-10 extremely good https://www.flickr.com/photos/151956883@N04/

I really like my guy friend and when he found out he started talking to me a lot more, he looks in my eyes as we talk, we've hung out together with our mutual friends, he told me I looked hot once at a party, when we were saying goodbye at the end of a party he hugged me tight, he told me he doesn't like the other girls in my grade, he's made me laugh a lot and he's kinda shy so he's never really told me his feelings. Now he doesn't talk to me as much but sometimes I see him looking at me. I'm too shy to say anything because I don't know if he's interested, and now he just doesn't speak to me as much. What should I do? Do you think he likes me?

My brother been with the same woman since they were sixteen. They have three kids. But always have struggled Financially. They party every day. I've been jealous of how social he is. He's always had the most friends and coolest guy in the group. I don't have his charisma. I spend a lot of nights alone at home. I even date a guy similar to him with the same similar interestes. But I find that even though I look up to my brother and think he's so cool, I find it draining to be around people as much as he or my boyfriend is. So I spend my nights alone a lot because my boyfriend who is similar to my brother, likes to party everyday and have friends over everyday. Except, I want it to just be us. But he wants to include friends most of the time. So now Im jealous of my brother, but when I try to be like him I find it too draining. So what can I do now I'm still unhappy.? But when I don't try to be like him it's boring. My boyfriend is too similar to him except I'm different than my brother I'm more nerdy and like to have a clean house and I like alone time more than my brother and his wife does. They are more laid back and probably polygamous. I just don't get the same luck he has with people and wife that sticks by him. My boyfriend barely wants to spend time with me everyday.

If he comments on a picture I post and if i just like it and not respond to it, he deletes it a few minutes after. If i tag him in something and he responds and I just like his comment, he deletes the comment. If he tags me in a photo and I just like it and don't respond to his comment, he unlikes the picture he tags me in and deletes his tag of me he commented on. Why does he do this?

Need an answer asap and thanks for ur help :)

When I was a senior in high school, I went to the homecoming dance with this guy I liked as a friend. I only asked him because all my friends had boyfriends and I didn't want to be left out. A year later, he asked me to be his girlfriend through a text message but he said he wanted to send texts all the time rather than go on dates. I turned him down because I thought it was weird that he wanted me to be his girlfriend but didn't want to go out with me and I only liked him as a friend. He then responded "You didn't think I was serious did you?" I said I did. He then said that he only wanted to see how I would react. He said he thought I had a crush on him and tried to have a crush on me but didn't. He then said he was seeing other girls and it would be fine if we were just friends. We didn't talk much after that. But two years ago I started having these obsessive thoughts about this guy that usually last 2 or 3 weeks. But currently I've had these thoughts for about a month. I don't know why I'm thinking of this guy because I haven't seen him in about 5 or 6 years. The thoughts seem the same as if I were to have a crush on him. But I don't think that's true because I have liked other guys and have felt happy and wanted to think of them. My thoughts of this guy make me feel depressed and anxious and I just want him out of my head. I also occasionally have dreams about him. How can I stop thinking about this guy and why could I be thinking of him?

Okay so recently there is this guy who sits next to me in this one class but we havent ever talked to each other maybe only just one time but thats it. He copies me, stares at me like intensely and seems like he likes me but the only bad part is I don't really like him -_- So its always awkward and weird, he is just not my type, I mean I'm not really sure but just for me. I guess I'm kind of a cute girl though but why would he show signs he likes me even though we barely know each other, I don't get it. He is also kind of awkward around me also. Why would he act this way even though I barely know him

I love it!

can u rate her facial features from 1-10 from what u can see? tks in advance for honesty..will choose a best answer.

I met her last semester in college. I always saw her stealing looks at me then & looking away if I catch her. She was always shy around only me. I thought she liked me, & I genuinely liked her. I legitimately never had the chance to do anything about it, so I stupidly & regrettably gave her a note saying I liked her/my phone number. She never said/did anything about it, but she was still paying attention to me, if not a little more than before. As far as I know, I got rejected. The new semester started & she's in another class with me. From the start she seemed to be acting weird. This last month in particular, I've noticed her taking more looks at me, & on multiple occasions have seen her look at me when she passes the room I'm in for my next class. *Today, a bunch of us were in class before it started. I was looking down studying for an exam & some friends were goofing around behind me & posted something to Instagram (a video). I didn't know about the video until I saw it later in the day. She was in the video (in the background) so naturally she caught my eye. You can see her take 2 or 3 looks out of the corner of her eye before she turns her head & takes a very quick look at me. She looked like she mumbled something like "Oh shoot, oh my god" when she looked. She looked right down after she looked and then (she bent her lips in towards her mouth, usually when I do this its to lick my lips but I don't know if there's a name for it). I don't know why she's doing this.

I dated a lady for a couple of months. We seemed to get along really well, spent hours together each time we saw one another and that sort of thing. We had our deep conversations for the first month or so, then she started to get more and more quiet. Before everything that we planned, she'd have some excuse. She was sick, a family member was sick, she had to watch her nephews, etc. She wouldn't reply to a simple text for days and I wasn't overbearing or anything. I'd send a text maybe once or twice a day just to see how she was doing. When we first started talking, we'd text for hours a day in addition to in-person stuff. She didn't have time for a quick text, but was updating Facebook at least a few times per day with videos she was watching. Days later, she'd reply with a quick text that she was busy and a lot of friends and family were texting her. Apparently so many that she couldn't take 10 seconds to send a reply. One day while we were at the park, she took my phone and asked me to log into Facebook. She added me as a friend and was showing me stuff on it. Later on when browsing, I saw a post from about a year ago where she wrote something like, "I want everyone to know that I'm coming out today" and had something else after that. It seemed like a "rebuke" for certain friends or family or whatever, I guess them saying something judgmental to her and about her being herself. To me, "coming out" means gay. I'm kind of curious because she was married before. She claimed that he raped her and was abusive. She became a Christian and he wasn't a believer, so she got rid of him, basically. She got divorced and said she was terrified of her ex. She has dated all guys as far as I know. What was she "coming out" about? I asked her about that in a text and she never replied. She claimed to have been formerly into the occult ("talking to fairies" and doing spells and such), described previously smoking marijuana and "catnip" ("because it relaxed her") and various other things. She started going to church with me when we first met, so it makes me curious if she went back into that stuff or what. She seemed so excited to try a new church that we were going to and then just kind of lost interest in it and me. I'm thinking that I may have somehow offended her by asking what she meant in her post "about her sexuality" and the coming out thing. I mean, if she became a Christian and had been through marriage and dated all guys, I don't understand how she could have been gay. So her post made no sense to me. Never got an answer for that, but she seemed mighty quiet after that. I'd ask if all was well and she would always say that nothing was wrong, that I didn't say/do anything wrong to her, etc.