So one of my siblings a few years back installed one of the apps to find your divices. She then went on to add everyones phones to this app so that "if anyone loses it [she] can find it". Well she s useing it to know where my parents are at every waking minute. She has straight out called them asking why they were in some places. They don t like it but every time it s brought up she shoots it down with a different topic. They ve taken it off before at one of the local phone store but she put it back on. My parents travel with location off for the most part now but she has done it to her husband, her kids, and I fear she s done it to my phone. I don t know how to check that. My parents can t confront her and be hardfooted on this topic in particular due to personal reasons. But I simply don t know how to adresss this situation without there being hostility or it simply being dropped (she dosent take me seriously epically now since I ve moved out).

Siblings compete with each other, only children grow up with mostly adults.

I've been very frustrated lately and sad too , because I'm going on vacation to see my boyfriend this Christmas holiday. It's the first time ever spending Christmas away from my family . And knowing that my dad passed away a year ago makes it only my mom me and my brother . Now that I'll be leaving this holiday for Christmas and New Years , they'll be alone at home only 2. I don't know what to do about my sadness because on the other hand I'm so excited to spend my first time Christmas with my boyfriend (+ I can't just cancel my flight coz it's already booked!) . Even my mom expressed (in a subtle way) that she's a bit sad because were only 3 in the family now ; and now that I'm leaving they'll be only 2. I feel guilty and sad but at the same time I don't want to feel too frustrated about that . Any advice how I can over come that? /:

Im 26 year old female and hes 24 my boyfriend at 16 fell inlove with a girl and gave her a promise ring. Apparently they got in an accident where she died and he was ok ever since he always wore the promise ring. I thought it was cute at first until we recently got promise rings and he put our ring on the same finger as the ones him and his EX had before. I told him i dont like that and we argued and ever since hes been distant and we barely talk. Am i in the wrong

I left school at today with the people that get released early because they have their own transportation. I went to go eat with them and came back to the school later with the people who had to stay and were in a study hall. I got in trouble when I got to the classroom, even though I had my parent's permission. I made my decision because I am not a troublesome kid with all A's in my studies, so I did not need a study hall for a full three hours. They put my name on a list along with other students who did the same thing.

There has been so much friction between my adult kids and me.I asked my daughter 42 if she could have them,she got all upset,,I said well I have had them for the past 45yrs,I am 65 and I just don't care to.My 1 son 25 lives at home but he acts like I don't exist,doesn't say a word when he leaves for school or work,,we got into an argument yesterday he told me i belong in the fricken nut house,then added go F yourself.My daughter said she's having Christmas with only her kids and husband.So really I just want to skip these holidays as if it's just another day.I don't care to buy gifts for who? my mean kids,,the one still at home could care less but he wants those presents..I feel like a scrooge but i'm tired of all the hype,"happiness" which I used to feel but I could care less.Is this wrong??

Background: in the past year, I have been admitted to a hospital for suicide attempts 3 times my parents divorced a few years back. I have one brother. Ever since I was about three, everytime my dad left the house, my mom made me slave. I not talking doing the dishes Im talking like scrub the floors with a toothbrush and clean the toilets with your hand When I was about ten, I got into a fight with my mom as I was taking out trash and she grabbed it out of my hand, but my arm twisted back and my shoulder dislocated. Several times over the past four years (I am nown 14) we argue and she makes it physical, grabbing me, scratching me, hitting me on places it will not show. I know live with my dad because of this. My brother still lives with my mom most the time because a) she has never abused him and b) he goes to a school for smart kids, and my dads house is out of district Anyway, my mom still has visitation and i stay with her on weekends. How can I get out of this? TD;la my mom us terrible , how do I get out fir going to her house

So I m a 15 y/o girl and we were having a family reunion at my house. There was like 80 people there.And i have 2 cousins who are my age and the one I am really close with and the other one is a bit*h. We were in the basement. And she went upstairs crying saying we were bullying her. My brother who is old hes like 30 something started yelling at me. And I told him to F off and then he grabbed my arm and was pulling me upstairs. Like everyone was watching. And I was crying. And he brought me in my room and went on for like 10 minutes telling me how disrespectful I am. Then when he was walking downstairs to the normal floor where everyone was he said sorry that she's such a brat. Then I heard my uncle ask where is she. And he said she's in "TIME OUT" like wtf first of all I am way too old to be called a brat and am way too old to say time out . I hate my family so much. And my parents did nothing. What should I do? I want a new fmaily so bad

My mom use to work as accountant and she married my dad because she thought he was rich. Turned out he wasn't. She stays at home 24/7 and my dad use to sometime hit her and insult her almost everyday. The reason why she stayed with him becuz she didn't want to work.

My mom gives me a salary when I clean the house. But she gets angry when I give some of it to homeless people as she says they just want to exploit people's emotions. She also gets angry when I buy food to hungry street cats or when I bring them food from home.

My aunt in law has 8 kids. The youngest just turned one last week and she is now 10 weeks pregnant with number 9. Whenever she is out in public with her children, people stare at her. She even gets rude comments. People will say things like the following: " are all of those yours?!" " why did you have so many kids?!" " don't you know what causes that?!" My aunt in law is a traditionalist Catholic and does not believe in using birth control. I respect her beliefs. I have never made such rude comments to her as the above. Why do people stare and make rude comments towards large families?

? this guy i have been dating for almost a full year in December , cousin has inboxed me on facebook trying to hit on me. he said he wants to know whats so interesting about me ?? what does this mean ?? why is he even inboxing me ?

My dad has been in and out of my life since my mom left him when I was 13. He's been a drunk his whole life and has never done single thing to help me out ever . I'm 17 now and pretty much taught my self how to shave , play sports and do everything without him . Should I try to keep a tiny realation ship with him or just try to just say the hell with him ? He's never taught me anything . I don't even consider him my dad . My grandpa was a way better father then he will ever be . I'm just really pissed right now . Me and my mom are struggling finanaclly and he doesn't help at all

Okay, bear with me on the details. I am 19 years old and a sophomore in college. I live at home but really want to move out due to the fact that one; my parents are very controlling. One example is that I am not allowed to study at school past 8 pm despite having night classes and that being my only time to study. I often get locked in my room for not listening and all that even though I find myself to be an overall good kid who simply stays out late to study since I work a full time day job. Second of all; my university is an hour and a half drive to and an hour and a half back. I have no motivation to study as much as I should since I find that driving three hours round trip everyday is exhausting. I really want to move closer to school since classes are getting harder and I need to study. My boyfriend lives in the area and has offered to stay together, but I am NOT ready for that commitment. I make about $1,400 with my current job and worry that it wouldn't be enough to get my own place. City living is expensive. I could do it but I'd have to scrape by. Or I could suck it up and live at home without the worry of bills. Long story short, should I live at home without bills, but with hard parents and away from school? Should I live with my boyfriend who lives close to school and save money but jump into a huge commitment I'm not ready for? Or should I live on my own next to school with more freedoms but live paycheck to paycheck? Thank you in advance!

My 7 - year old brother is so spoiled to the point of screaming and getting violent to the simplest of things. Sometimes, he gets so damn stubborn and forgets all reasoning. (I even gave him tips on how to lessen the consumption of his battery in his tablet, and he just started throwing punches at my back.) Any advice?

Hi.. so i'm 16 years old and i live with my mom in egypt because my parents are divorced.. since me my sister and mom lived in egypt all i got was getting hit and starved by mom she even hit me infrot of everyone in school and called me a ***** before stopping me from going to school she even took my phone for 2 years for no reason And two days ago we got in a fight so she called my dad and told him she doesn't want me anymore (my dad is way worse than her) she called me weak and like an insect she can control me And idk what to do anymore.. i'm already sick from this i even tried to suicide before

So I have a relative that I was very close with. He came under some hard times and asked me for a favor. He asked me to put my name on a house he wanted to buy and that he would switch it to his name since he didn't have good credit. I do have good credit. The thing is I didn't feel comfortable with that move, and I didn't want to jeopardize my credit and I also wanted to buy my own things with my own credit, so I said no. He has not spoken to me ever since that time. It sucks that it feels like it was the wrong choice to stick to my principles, but I feel like his favor was asking way too much of me. is he being childish by behaving like that or am I the one being stupid by not doing him a favor? I just feel like I had to stick to my principles on that one.

My sons girlfriend will not let me see my granddaughters. They have been together for 4 years and things have changed so much, my son doesn't come to family functions anymore, I barely hear from him and he doesn't even speak to his only brother. My family has never got to meet the only grandchildren of the family. I've tried to reach out to them and they both just ignore me. My heart is in so much pain it causes my so much anxiety. I just want to be able to see and spend time with my son again. I want to be able to be a grandmother to my granddaughters, life is too short tomorrow isn't promised she's depriving my family and my granddaughters of so much. She controls his life and I wish he would just open his eyes and realize it. Im hoping someone has answers, I've been suffering for so long.

He and I broke up 2 months ago and I started going to church and found him staring at me 2 weeks in a row so I texted him but he said he was offended which is why it wouldn't work and why he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again. I didn't respond. I've been going to church since then it's been almost a month, i don't look at him and have given him a dirty look couple times. He literally doesn't take his eyes off me my family says...confused. My friends say it's a longing stare can you people not see that i said my friends see him staring?? i dont look at him

I'm 14 and I do online school. I've been thinking about running away for about a week now. There's this place a few miles away that I can bike to. It's got some cheap food in the area and a local animal shelter that I can volunteer for. Since I do online school, I don't have to worry about hours when finding work. I can take a bag of stuff and go. Please help me do this. My life is a mess and I just keep messing everything up. It's not like my parents are abusive or anything, but my siblings are so much better than I am. I can see it in my moms eyes each time I crap up that I'm not the child she wanted. We get in fights much more than my siblings do and I can see the disappointment in me. It's obvious. She might as well tell me that she wishes I wasn't her child. I know she wants to.

She is bad mouthing about them and gossips and i have no idea how to handle this situation. We have just lost our dad and she has no mercy on us. I told my husband about this but since she never says this when he is around and thats why he doesnt believe me... And maybe he doesnt want to hurt his mother because he is the only child of hers. Please help Opinions?

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My son is 19 he currently going to college part time but it concerns me is that he really does not have a life. He spends most of his time on his computer or playing video games and never leaves the house besides school. i think he is introverted person who keeps to himself. When i was his age i had lots of friends and girlfriends. He really doesn't like party's, social gatherings,or any event with lots of people. When ever we do make him go to a party and there is girls his age he avoids them. what is wrong with him? Btw he is not gay

My 14 yr old son had his female classmate come in for a group project .. I had to run some errands so I left home .. when I came back I caught them having sex . I called the parents of the girl . Her mom came and started accusing me that I purposely left them unattended to help my son have sex with her . She said she will complain of rape . Although both are minors . I don't want my son to face any legal trouble . They had a thing for each other and did with consent How to face this issue in case she did complain to police ?

I have a relative in my family who lies on me she tells other relatives that I'm a thief, that I talk too much, tells them that I'm a messy person (none of this is true). My cousin probably thought it wouldn't get back to me. My cousin and my oldest sister are close and our cousin would tell my sister things and my sister would believe it and stop talking to me. The crazy part is my cousin talks about my sister and her kids and everyone else in the family but dont even have her life in order (be struggling herself).

Hi, i am in 8th grade and i usually take the school bus home from school. I got on the bus with my friends and the bus was still boarding people and about 10 minutes of me being on the bus, my dad walks in the bus and starts yelling "IS DARCY HERE???" "IS DARCY ON THIS BUS???" It was so embarrassing. I eventually had to get off of the school bus and go with my dad. He didn't even tell me he was picking me up. What should i do? Should i be mad at my father? I hate him so much right now.

My eight year old doesn't want to go to her daddy's house on scheduled visitations days (every Saturday), because his house is filthy and smells like garbage. I've tried voicing my concerns to him, but he won't listen to me. My daughter is correct-his apartment is nasty. The wood floors are caked in dust, there are books and dvd's all over the floors. He has furniture everywhere, and there's barely any room to move around without risking a serious fall. The bathroom and kitchen are disgusting, and there's no fresh food or bottled water (the tap in my area is nasty). What do I do?

My brother is the definition of cocky. It's all about him and his children. He takes the prize for the most..."my kid's the best". He's also mean. My mom never had a car: when my sister's son had a game, my sister would call my mom and pick her up. My brother never did that for his kids, and is upset my mom never goes to his kids games. When you compliment his kids to him, he's a douche. I say, "Wow, 'name' is sooo polite." My brother boastfully/matter of fact responds, "Of course he is." When we all have conversations, he only chimes in to talk about his kids. It's hard to be around him...for most of us siblings. I had a long vacation, and when I came back, he didn't ask me how it was...he tells me what I missed about his kids. He also drinks every day (he takes drinks in soda bottles at 10am baseball games). At what point do you say "I can't take his attitude, his "my kids are better than yours"...". I love my nieces and nephews, but at what point is is okay to just say, "I'm sorry but your dad is an a$$ and it's not worth it" anymore (i would never tell his kids that...I'm just saying)? And I feel bad for my parents because he's so flipping jerky and mean to them about his delusion that they go to my sister's son's games (again, my sister calls and picks my mom up...my brother doesn't/expects her to walk?!? Oh: and all his kids are in travel sports, so she can't walk there). Idk what to do and how to handle this. I hate my brother, but love his kids...

So my mother in law is CRAZY and constantly attacks my husband (her son) and calls crying saying he's abandoning the family. (mind you, he comes ATLEAST once a week) So she called yesterday, yet again, saying these things on the phone, and so my husband later texted her that her accusations are hurtful and hes basically being punished by her for trying to be a good husband spending time with me, his wife. She now is texting me saying, "Im sorry that your husband having parents is inconvenient for you. Dont worry. We are gone. I will not be around people who do not want me. good luck have a nice life with my son...one final word of advice, dont have kids, theyll only break your heart." She thinks that because her husband is finally sticking up to her, that it is MY FAULT, as his wife. As if im stealing him from her. not only that, his younger sister, who lives with his mom and believes everything she says, messaged him saying, I wish you married your ex, atleast then you actually spent time with ME.....people I literally through a birthday party for this girl with my husband about a week ago....THESE PEOPLE ARE FREAKING RIDICULOUS, am I allowed to just move across the country with my husband and avoid them until the holidays come around every year, cause this is tearing me apart and driving me insane. its been going on like this since we got engaged last December. Not only that but its making my husband get frustrated a lot more, and even turning that frustration towards me more often. There is absolutely no reason these people should be allowed to tear my husband and my own wonderful marriage apart, as we both agree we have never been happier in our lives then since we have been together, but his own mother cant even be happy for him, and instead attacks him and puts him down on a weekly basis. Do you think it is a good idea for my husband and I to just ignore them and avoid seeing them for some time? His mother did say she doesn't want to see us again, so should we just give her what she wants (and what i want) for a while? I think time may heal things. thanks for reading my rant. I feel like I have no one right now, as this woman is attacking me texting these horrible things to me while my husband is currently at work.

Or did they? My oldest is six and complains that he can't do enough to help and wishes he could do more. But not only does he do what he can willingly, he'll actually think of ways to be helpful on his own. I was really cold this evening and of his own accord, he went and got the bed buddy, put it in the microwave, wrapped it in a blanket, "made" me get in bed and tucked me in with the bed buddy.

Edit Ex-Gf of mine just added me online. We've been in good terms/flirting since. We talked about a potential date but that was it. She never brought up us going back to dating again. I left my ball in her court since I had invited her too many dates. I then i noticed she wasn't really moving forward with us as in progressing. I started to flirt around with other girls instead since she didn't make a move. She got mad about that. I apologized for my ugly behavior in the past and we been ok since. Recently she completely stopped talking to me. It's now been 2 weeks no txt/call from her. Maybe she still mad about the other girls?.... it's not my fault they hit on me. I just reply to not be rude. The other day I txt my ex and she ignored me. Well what to do now???? wait or talk to her??? I don't want to seem desperate

I'm a single mom with a teenage son and we have always been close. I know he is with alot of girls but he's boy so that is normal and I have never felt uncomterable with him. However I have noticed some times I will catch him looking at my ***. I do have a really big butt and he has never made any kind of sexual advances toward me so can I just ignore it let him go looking at my butt and just pretend it's not happening?

My sister in law got mad at me bwcause i asked why she didnt include me in her pictures on a famiky trip once and she deleted me on all her social media and wont lwt me add her kids ,my brother ib law got mad over a joke i posted about tattoos bc his gf at the time had them and that was a long time ago and he wont speak to me on any social media ,he lives in another state so i can only talk via fb and he wont add ,if i send request he blocks . Idk i am just tired of this behavior . When i am with them they take no pictures of me so ive decided to not be present ,is that what i should do, my husband stands up for me but they just get mad at him and a vad fight happens and of course its my fault

So, I've posted this question before; https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20171006034150AAiAdXA But there were a few things I didn't mention. So you know my mom flips out on me when i wear leggings and blah bah blah, but i only wear leggings in the house, so the answers to the question when i previously asked weren't really helpful. And the only males that are in the house are my step dad and my brother, so no one should be looking at me like that.

I am 41 so can obviously do what I want but my parents believe their 3 kids are still kids. I figure that is normal. I am the only daughter and not married. I don't want to go cause my anxiety acts up. My parents believe anxiety is just something I choose. I need to rest and will see everyone come Christmas. How do I get out of going without a conflict. I know I can do what I want but my parents are controlling and will be mad.

I'm 21 and want to leave home but at the same time I feel guilty. I haven't got a steady career, but I have a loving bf who supports me and has supported me In the past. We were living together until I decided to come home for unrelated reasons and I've stayed home since because it hurts me to leave. He lives in a different country so if I were to leave home it wouldn't be anywhere close. The reason I don't want to leave is because I've got a 14 year old sibling here at home. My father is abusive to my mom, claims he cares for my sibling but never does anything that shows he cares. Never cooks, cleans or anything besides dishes and occasional laundry. My mom is depressed. Extremely. Depressed. And whenever she has her bad days she doesn't come out of the room, maybe makes a quick meal for my sibling and then back in her room. Which just angers my father even more and yells at her and me. I always tell my parents to stop doing this IN FRONT of my sibling, the only person they're hurting is my sibling. My parents are adults and can choose to do what they want, sadly my sibling is literally helpless and born without a choice into this broken home. I'm the only normal person here Actually FOR my sibling. I don't want history to repeat itself. I want my sibling to be as normal as possible and not have to deal with this secondary verbal abuse. What should I do? I know I can't put my life on hold forever.. but how can I leave my sibling? Or even my mom.. she needs help too.

she asleep all day and i have to wake her up for school she will get up but she complains shes sleepy she slept for 2 whole days she 14 years old she use to be active and play now she not sometimes she has mood swings and will be nice one min and then she will yell she was sweet when she was young but after her mother had died she changed she would not talk to anyone she wont even eat that much she has been getting skinny by each day and her sister is 17 they use to be close and now they fist fight every day and yell at eachother

She's had a history of abusing rx sleep meds in the past that cause her to be drowsy, slur words, stumble around, do weird things (get out old belongings, not wear pants, etc.), and fall asleep randomly. And it irritates everyone, especially my father but he's abusive and it just gets worse because he's just angry at her instead of trying to fix the problem: her depression. She said she doesn't take the meds anymore (has been a problem for like almost 10 years off and on) but as of.. 2 days ago or so, she's been sleeping during the day ALL day and barely eats maybe a bowl of soup ONCE a day, because that's how often she sleeps. And when she wakes up she claims she's feeling this and that and so bad and often tries to throw up...? Idk if she feels bad or if it's a cry for attention (not bulimic). Sorry to say, but nobody trusts her when she's 'sick' because whenever she's sick she resorts to sleeping all day, not eating because she's sleeping and complains when she's awake. I tell her she needs to eat, and if she's feeling up to it then stay awake and do something she enjoys even if it's just tv. She doesn't listen to me. So does it sound like my mom is ACTUALLY sick or is she using that as an excuse to abuse medicine?? I know nobody really knows. And this happens like 1-2x a month at least and it could last at least a week. And yes she's got 2 kids (20 and 14) and yes I'm the older one so I take care of my sibling and the house because my father doesn't do anything.

I have never heard my mother use foul language. I have never heard my father use bad words in the house. I've heard my dad use bad words with his friends, but never in the home.

My fiancé and I live in Provo Utah, my fiancé moved here to get away from him s abusive amd toxic family. His saint of a mother moved to Utah to be near her only sane son after she was bought out from her home by his father. My fiancé and I love each other but his dad said that if he and I move back to Nashville he'll lease us a place to stay and he can get treated at several cancer treatment centers, I could get a job working in either Nashville or a surrounding town but his dad is abusive and his brother is mentally ill, so much to the point to where he had a double amputation for no reason. My fiancé has Chronic leukemia and I'm terrified about his health right now. His mother amd I are trying to convince my fiancé to stay in Utah because it might not be perfect but he'll be in a loving environment opposed to being with his dad and brother? How should I go about this. I want to provide more information in Utah we have the Huntsman cancer research institute, while in Nashville there is St. Thomas and Vanderbilt. I don't know what to do. His Dad said he will help with bills and insurance if we stay in Utah. His one brother is mentally unstable. How can I convince my fiancé that it's less stressful for him to stay in Utah and get treatment than to move to Nashville get stressed and that will affect his health. I would like to explain that his brother had numerous doctors tell him that there were numerous treatments, instead he shopped for a doctor to amputate both his legs

Okay so i have 3 brothers and a half brother and a step brother. Thats 5 kids in one house, that might sound like alot. But when there was only 5 kids i had my own room. Now my step mo adopted a kid and i have to share my room with a spoiled bratty 9 year old, and im 14. And on the weekends, ANOTHER ONE of my step moms kids comes over, and shes 9 too. so the weekends are hell and im sharing a room with 2 other people. Well now she wants to get another one of her kids who is the same age as me but its gonna suck sharing a room with 3 other girls. And i have no privacy any more like literally i have my own laptop that i bought with my own money that i cant even use because my sisters are always on it. And plus i cant even do my homework because its so hard to focus. Idk what to do.. also i theres so many kids my parents pay little attention to me, like literally my dad hasnt talked to me in days. Plus i get almost nothing and i have like no clothes. I cant live like this. I have 0 space. idk what to do please help

Ok, first off, my fam's hispanic. We yell, talk loud (most of us anyway), compete, argue and all that hispanic good stuff. The last year's holidays, my extended fam didn't come to visit. It was just us: mom, dad, grandma, grandpa, and me, and my dog. And it was disapointing. No excitement, barely any talking, it was basically an average day at my house, just dull. The only difference is decoration. And even then, my cousins are always on their phones everytime the fam comes, and I get stuck with my phone as well because I and the "kids" can't contribute to our family's hilarious conversations. 4 Pete's sake even one of my cousin's husband gets stuck with his phone too! He hasn't been able to connect with the rest of the fam (c'mon it's obvious). I want this year to be different. I want to help my fam reconnect. Especially my immediate fam (i mean, we live together, so..). So my question is: What activities/convo starters are best to make sure that every one has a good time? And as a tip, homemade is the best. As in, I wanna try not spending a lot of money. Usually, when the fam is doing something together that doesn't actually cost money, like playing a game that exisited 10 generations back rather than buying the newest xbox that only lets 2 people play at a time. U see what I mean? Any old games/activities/things any of you used to do would help loads! Any advice/suggestions/etc. would be greatly appreciated. Please help me I REALLY want to connect with my family as well!

I'm not here for you to pity me, I just want a honest opinion. Ever since I was 13, I've been bullied in school. I don't have any friends any more, when I started off with a big group of 6 or so. They slowly started to hang out with me less and started to ignore my texts. One by one, they said they didn't like me anymore, because I was too fat or unpopular. Everyone tells me I'm a waste of space. I had an abusive boyfriend when I was 15, and he gave me terrible anxiety. Now, I can hardly look at people who I used to trust in the eye anymore. He would hit me, and tell me I was nothing. I am now 17 years old, a senior in high school, but I don't see any point of moving on. I applied to 4 different colleges, and got denied by all of them because I've been having trouble in school because of my depression. Another thing is my Dad has promised to kick me out of the house as soon as I turn 18, because he's hated me since the day I was born. My Mom died when I was 5, btw. My Dad has always told me he can't wait to get rid of me, and that I was a mistake. He is an alcoholic, so he can get really mean sometimes. He never hits me, but he just yells a lot. I want to kill myself to end my suffering. If my dad kicks me out when I'm 18, I'll have nothing. I would have to live in an apartment or trailer park. I don't see myself having any great future, because I don't have a passion for anything or a drive to do what I used to want to do. Should I just end it all, or no?

I hate my aunt, uncle, and cousins. I moved in with them 3 years ago because my mom passed away. They have made my life a living hell. They constantly tell me how ungrateful I am and that I'm stupid. They make me do things that I don't want to do. Sometimes my uncle threatens to hit me. My cousins start physical fights with me. I'm just so tired of being yelled at everyday for hours on end. I get yelled at for stupid things, like being sarcastic. Sarcasm is my personality and I can't change that. I am counting down the days until I can move out. I have been depressed for a year now because of what they say and do. Am I a bad person?

My siblings are 2 years younger than me and they are trying to follow in my footsteps to be successful. I got a new job at newspaper carrier. Then, my siblings started copying me and they got a job. NOW THEY MAKE MORE MONEY THAN ME. I got enrolled to an AP program at my school, and now they want to attend the same school as me. Plus, they are more successful and getting better grades than me. I started trying out for clubs and sports team, then they copied me, and they got accepted into teams and clubs. This is annoying since I work so hard to be successful, they are copying me and they aren't even trying, yet they are more successful. How to I stop my siblings from copying me

She is alone with two of her three kids. Those two kids we don't speak to either which I think must be so sad for them. The aunt can be a bully and is estranged from one of her kids she expected too much from. That kid lives near his Dad (her ex-husband). So though my aunt is a bully (no doubt about that) should I feel sorry for her cause she is all alone with just two of her kids at times like holidays? She has not attended a family event in 4 years and her two kids that are close to us have only seen us once in 6 years. The aunt is very bitter, insults people. degrades her son terribly who lives with his Dad, and mocked my Mom when she had a nervous breakdown 13 years ago following my brother's suicide death in 2004. She was sympathetic with my Mom at first and offered support but after a year degraded my Mom and insulted her for being on medicine and not being social.

Or do I just say, "Happy Birthday" and nothing more.

Im a 15 year old male and ive been thinking about my destructive and horrible behavior as a son. Ive broken things out of anger and my parents have put up with so much **** with love and care. I really want to repay them. What can i do?