Me and my wife got married yesterday. Why do we sleep together ?

My husband lives in California and I live in New York, we recently got married but have dated for 7 years. I am currently active duty and he works for a winery. I ve been insisting that he should move with me and he agreed . The plan was he would move with me for a year, he wouldnt work and we would go back home and I would pick orders close to home(deep in my heart I want orders to japan). But unfortunately his job will not allow for him to be on leave for a year. He told me he doesn t know what to do and its been days since we discussed whether he s coming to live with me or not. I told him he can get a job here and he doesn t want to do that either. I m tired of insisting and asking him whether he s coming with me or not. He says he works hard and does it for us but if that was the case i dont see whats he doing for us. Am I wrong for wanting him to come with me?! Am i being ungrateful?! Am I asking for too much?!

Hi. So I hate this I ask it the seat in my husbands vehicle to my liking. I hate when someone adjusts or changes the seat, it always is such an inconvenience to adjust it back and find the right spot again. Well recently my husbands younger sibling demolished the vehicle he was using (wasnt even his vehicle) ans now has to request a ride from my husband (they work together) and He then adjusts My seat (the passenger front seating) its rather bothersome. I understand I may sound selfish , however I hate having to fix what he does every time Expecally after I work all day long. Yes he may be taller then myself ... But when I state I want my seat left as is.. Should be respected since he. Is inconvenicing us any way . I was curious is there anyway I can lock or prevent the seat from being Adjusted in anyway?

I'm 21 my wife is 18 we just got married yesterday on her birthday I hear lots of people say it's wrong for teenage girls to get married especially to older guys. My cousin was 19 when she married her uncle he was 40 something she had a kid with him she's doing fine 5 years later. They're divorced now she's with another guy but she's still doing well. Lots of the girls on 16 and pregnant and teen mom are married. My friend was also 18 when she got married and had her kid. I'm not in the army she's not pregnant even though we didn't have those reasons to get married we still love each other. Why do people think this is so wrong ?

Me and my wife just got married yesterday also yesterday was her birthday she's 18. She was really upset last night when we got home from the court house where we were married she cried her eyes out. Me and her haven't been together very long we've been together 3 years. She's my best friend. I asked her what's wrong she said nothing. She's not pregnant or on her period. What's wrong with her ? How can I comfort her ?

E. and I are both married and have established a close and personal friendship. He has invited me to go riding for a day of adventure. My husband is against it stating that any man who wishes to be alone with a married woman, has one thing in mind. He is also concerned that I met E. on Y/A (m & d) however I have known this man for quiet some time, we've had coffee several times, we are not strangers! I disagree and cherish our friendship. E. and I have a bond and talk to each other about everything. I have been very honest with him that I am committed to my marriage and while his marriage is rocky at best, he still seems to understand these boundaries. My husband said I have the final call on if I will continue the friendship. Please help me decide if this is disrespectful to my husband? I love my husband dearly but also feel that it should be okay for me to have a friendship with E. Thank you so much for your help! It may be beneficial to know that I think E. may be homosexual and unable to 'come clean' due to his employment. We have not spoken openly about it yet, but he exhibits homosexual tendencies. * I am only speaking of this to further explain that I think it's safe to go riding with him*

My husband has expressed he finds it annoying and invasive that my ex husband (father of my son) calls our house every night to say goodnight to his son, stops by our house when he's not home to pick up his son and takes him to dinner or lunch. My husband told me he needs to spend more time with his son that doesn't involved him coming by or calling our home and he needs to act like a father and see his kid more and stick to the divorce decree. However I don't hunk my ex is capable of taking it son in the weekends to his place like it says because he has a tiny apartment and isn't good at being with his son for long periods of time(he is selfish). Is my husband being controlling?

I'm referencing this question. https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20171107151331AAxsM1T In response to this question, a lot of women who replied to the question said that the guy in that question must have been controlling, jealous, whatever else... But nobody points out that perhaps, he wants to know his wife's whereabouts because maybe she cheated on him in the past? Or as someone who answered said, maybe she told him she cheated during an argument just to piss him off, and now he's paranoid? Or maybe an ex of his cheated? It seems to me like some women are cognizant and honest about the fact that some women do have affairs. However, it seems like *other* women are completely in denial about the fact that some women have affairs. It seems like these other women pretend like no women on the planet ever have affairs, and that any man who is suspicious is just an evil control freak with bad intentions. Why is this? Do these women live in a make believe bubble? Or are they just never cheaters themselves (or victims of cheating) so they just don't understand?

My husband works from 8am until 5pm everyday except weekends. We have 4 little kids together under the age of 9yrs old. He tells everyone he is the only one bringing in an income and he is trying to find me a job. He basically complains to everyone that I don't work. I would have to work 3rd shift to work around his schedule. He takes off work whenever he wants because he works with just 2 other guys doing flooring self employed to say the least. I had an interview this morning that I couldn't go to because he wouldn't take an hr off from work for me to go. Im kind of new to the area and have no friends or family to help watch my kids. He said he wasn't going to lose out on money for me to go. We have been together 11yrs. Am I wrong for being upset? I feel like he should have been excited to have an opportunity to have more income coming in.

One year after marriage , i discovered that he inforced me to make things , i don't like. For example, weekly visit to his mother , and she always make troubles with me and if i make any defence , that means , "I am very bad personality" . 20 years of miserable marriage with no feelings , just ,I decided to live for my children and ran away by dreams for real sexual life . Suddenly in the last year someone try to make love with me through facebook , by the way ,i don't know him , i asked my husband to treat me kindly because I like this voice from that facebook friend , My husband decided to hack my facebook page and read conversation between me and that Facebook friend, it was about love. My husband faces me and ,as usual , inforced me to block him. After few days ,I do unblock , my husband discovered the unblock ........he made many troubles to me .... I wrote the conversation between me and that friend to keep it in my dreams, my husband read the note in front of my kids , and burnt it. And treat me badly... Now I can't start my life again with my husband , what shoud i do? N.B. I still watch that Facebook friend's page

She told me she had something to tell me and she told me she had an affair with some guy from work and when she told me I started laughing and I told her I also had an affair with a cashier girl at a grocery store. When we told each other about it we asked who it was and if it was good and she said she didn't like it that much and I said it was ok for me. And surprisingly we had the same reason for having affairs (we both wanted to try something new) and then we had a good laugh about it afterwards. Is that bad

I am middle-aged divorced mother,at 45.I have 3 kids aged10,12,14.I divorced my Ex-husband for some silly issue,because he gives less attention to me.because it was not a major fault marriage,i did not get extra favor during divorce,equally divided.I got my kids .but i got shocked to see my husband already married after divorce,after 1 year he expecting baby.but in my case i dated many man after divorce,none of them want to love my kids,and some man showed interest to my kids,but in deep i noticed they dont actually want my kids,actually they are just telling they will be good step-father but deep inside they are not ready to accept them internally.moreover my kids also dont like my another man in my life and also dont like their step mom too,somehow still stuck on that family,which already broken.moreover i had some known woman who has kids from previous marriage,break their second more quickly than the first one.specially the step -dad in maximum case dont like their step kids,so as the step kids also.In some case some incidence from step dad towards step kids are so horrifying.like one of my friends new husband tried to strangle her daughter when her mother is out of home.and these stepdad n step kids horrifying issues are increasing day by day.u may find some loving step dads in internet stories,but in reality they are very rear case,is it the reason of single mother percentage in rise so fast?

My husband has 2 of his friends that's staying with us. Things have been good so far and they pay rent. My husband says they're staying temporary but I don't know how long they actually are planning to stay. I want to tell my husband a certain amount of time they can stay in our home but I'm afraid it will make him upset because they are close friends of his he's trying to help out. I feel bad and selfish for doing this but we have a 8 month old son and I want my privacy back.

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I cheated, I confessed, I am stupid, I regret it... a f uk a one night thrill and now 22 years of marriage are over, for what 20 minutes of regretted lust??? Come on??

They are going to Pakistan to visit her parents after 5 years. Her parents can't come here yet. I am afraid of something happening and me not being there. There is an airplane ride, political unrest, diseases, etc. I just can't live without my wife and I can't go because of work. She has the right to see her parents after such a long time and she deserves a 4 month trip even though I think it's too long. I don't know what I will do without her.

I mention going to hawaii, he responds with "Why, there are plenty enough things to see here in the USA"....he like driving, I have driven every road with him for miles ad miles around where we live...Redwood, drove to see the Grand Canyon, but all of these road trips were done WELL over 12 years ago...He is a very boring person anymore....selfish also. If I do plan a vacation in Hawaii or ?...all the while getting there, being there, he will complain...yes, he drives me nuts...he just wants to hang around the guys...we have a tree business....that is ALL I hear about alllllll day long, all year long, I need a break...what would YOU do...I take him I absolutely know he would ruin my vacation, yet if I vacation without him, he will be pissed right before I leave, will state I will be sorry...what now? Yes, don't tell me he is an azzhole, (hate calling him that) he does work hard, but...there are more things in life to do....I need a break, he knows it, but yet does nothing, shows NO interest in taking a vacation, IT HAS BEEN YEARS....please no smart *** answers, don't need that, need a solution....leave him how do you do that after being married for over 25 years. His daughter got married in Hawaii, he of course went and paid for that, unfortunately, my husband was on crutches, all we did was SIT in the ROOM for a week....

When I asked him about the first pair I found, he claimed it was one time he stole them from the Laundry room and it was just to jack off onto. But now a month later I found he had a whole bag full of women's underwear. For those who have a fetish with panties, do you like having selection to choose from? That's his reason for having a whole bag full of them. He said he's been collecting them for months, yet the first time I caught him he said it was one time thing. So obviously he's a liar and I don't know what to believe. Is he gay? Cross dresser? Has a panty fetish? Or cheating and keeping his girls panties..idk?

They are going to Pakistan to visit her parents after 5 years. I am afraid of something happening and me not being there. There is an airplane ride, political unrest, diseases, etc. I just can't live without my wife and I can't go because of work. She has the right to see her parents after such a long time and she deserves a 4 month trip even though I think it's too long. I don't know what I will do without her.

We started trying for another and of course that didn't matter. We did it a lot with kids in other room. We have also made sure kids stay in own bed which helps as well. The other night she told me she felt great after sex and could do a quickie like that every night. With young kids, a Moms mind is always thinking about something. I know sex isn't up front like it is on mine. I have been trying to give her kisses, hug her and massages without her thinking I want sex. Before moving kids in their own room you can imagine we never did it unless they spent the night somewhere else. Now that they are in their own room I want more even after she gets pregnant. I want to tell her that it makes me connected to her more and can we compromise maybe once a week at least? I don't want to sound corny and desperate. Please let me know your thoughts or provide any suggestions. Any success stories out there?

If there was a younger woman who you found attractive and who you knew had strong feelings for you, would you ever be tempted to invite her over while your wife is out of town? If you knew you two wouldn't get caught. Say there is really strong sexual chemistry between you and the younger woman, even if it hasn't been implied. I love how everybody either thinks I'm the husband or the young woman. This is a hypothetical question, a poll. Not a real scenario. This is not about anybody. It's just a hypothetical situation/question. Mandy--did you not read the part where it said this isn't a real scenario? It's hypothetical. Read before you accuse people of being terrible