Marriage & Divorce: Question: I want a divorce but he will not divorce me, help!? |
- Question: I want a divorce but he will not divorce me, help!?
- Question: What could I do my bestfriend keep joking with my wife?
- Question: .I am married?
- Question: Ex says I have to deal with his new wife because we have kids together?
- Question: Is it a bad sign if I can't remember when last I masturbated?
- Question: Can outsiders looking in, tell if two people are having an affair?
- Question: How do I calm down with my infatuation?
- Question: Am i bad for cheating on my wife?
- Question: Why do men think women should stay with them even when they're already taken?
- Question: My wife control my life, what will i do? i need advice....?
- Question: Was it selfish of my mom to not tell me she had a boyfriend and that he's now living at my house back home?
- Question: Do people who just go to the court house and get a marriage license have a less happy marriage?
- Question: Should i stay with my fiancee?
- Question: Two of my friends are having an affair...... what would you do?
- Question: My parents are divorced and I feel like it is my fault because they divorced to protect my siblings and I. How do I get over this?
- Question: Special things to do for hubby on his birthday?
- Question: Should i give my wife a ultimatum?
- Question: I'm tired of my husband and marriage, what do I do?
- Question: If your spouse cheated on you would it hurt more if it was with someone thats close to you and your family or someone thats only known by?
- Question: What are some sexy clothes/shoes I can wear for my husband (:?
- Question: Ramadan :Trying hard to be a good wife, can't handle husbands mood?
- Question: Ejaculated on my husband's face and feel so embarrassed.. Help?
- Question: Do you agree with this statement:"A great wife is supportive of her husband's dreams and goals."?
- Question: Do you agree with this statement: "A great wife communicates respectfully and lovingly toward her husband."?
- Question: Do you agree with this statement? A great wife takes great care of herself, in part so she can take great care of her husband.?
- Question: My husband and i are divorcing. During our marriage we purchased 2 cars one only in my name and the other in both our names.?
- Question: Marriage problem? Lingering feelings for ex?
- Question: I told my wife I cheated and she didn't care. What now?
- Question: Is it too late to change my wife into the woman she used to be?
- Question: What do married couples do on their wedding night ?
- Question: Another woman kissed my husband. What should I do? My husband is in the Airforce?
- Question: How did you meet your husband/wife?
- Question: Husband wants to be with another woman but he can't get one so he's not leaving. What would you do?
- Question: Did you know "Right Away" your husband/wife was "the one?"?
- Question: Why do I keep doing this?
- Question: Husbands tend to use the phrase "the wife." while wives tend to say "my husband. Why the difference in adjectives?
- Question: Does date on marriage license affect 30/60 ruling?
- Question: If you are alway unintentionally making the one you love mad and you can never seem to get it right, should you marry them anyways?
- Question: Physical custody?
- Question: My husband has a hard time saying I love you. Any suggestions to get him to say it more often?
- Question: Wife wants to venture, i do not but I don't want her sneaking around and having affairs either.?
- Question: Went out of town for business with a Co-worker. We won business and we drank to celebrate. I drank way too much. Next thing I know I wake up?
- Question: If Islam allows married women to be financially independent then how do you explain this?
- Question: Is there anything wrong with divorcing a military spouse on the grounds of living separation?
| Question: I want a divorce but he will not divorce me, help!? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 10:20 PM PDT I am in California right now, and he is not in this country. He basically stopped supporting our family, leaving me and our kids behind. I was able to get in touch with him one time, but he said he will not sign the divorce. Is there a way to get a divorce when he is out of the country, and how will the property be split? |
| Question: What could I do my bestfriend keep joking with my wife? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 09:48 PM PDT sometimes he says some sex jokes and naughty stuff |
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| Question: Ex says I have to deal with his new wife because we have kids together? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 09:19 PM PDT There's a lot to this story but there's a custody date coming up. He says to me, you have to deal with her because she's my wife. He gives my phone number to her and allowed her to bother me until I had no choice but to try to get a peace order. My ex is bitter and it's stressful. Has anyone dealt with a ex who got married and you had young kids? I don't care whose he's with BUT I don't want to deal with his " wife" because she's jealous and keeps drama going. Can I bring this up in court? |
| Question: Is it a bad sign if I can't remember when last I masturbated? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 09:03 PM PDT |
| Question: Can outsiders looking in, tell if two people are having an affair? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 08:18 PM PDT For example, if 2 people were having an affair (one of them married, one not) could the wife of the man be able to tell or guess it? if you say yes, how so? |
| Question: How do I calm down with my infatuation? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 07:38 PM PDT I've had this hopeless infatuation with one of my managers for several weeks now. We're both 25 and he's married and has kids. I feel so bad having feelings for him, but I can't help it. When I say I am consumed with infatuation, I mean I don't go a whole 10 minutes without thinking of him. I am constantly fantasizing about him, even when he's around and I even dream about him all the time. I don't think he has any clue I am into him at all. He also makes me very horny and I hate it. I hate being around him sometimes because all I want to do is jump his bones. Thank goodness for self-control! I don't even understand why I have such feelings for him. He can be very hot-headed and gets onto me a lot about things and gets frustrated with me more often than I'd like, but he also can be funny and goofy and he has his flirty moments. I wish I wasn't so addicted to him. I am just getting out of a relationship and my heart is broken, so I guess in a way he's been a great distraction, but this is getting very unhealthy. How do I calm down? |
| Question: Am i bad for cheating on my wife? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 07:12 PM PDT I have always been a bisexual since i was 5, but kept it a secret. Me and my wife are married for 6 years and i cheat on her with men when i am away or she is not at home. I get a thrill of it and enjoy it. She is sometimes a ***** to me and is very demanding and money draining, she expects me to be a MAN which i am getting sick of. I lied to her about my sexual past as well and told her i was a virgin when i met her when in fact i used to do gay porn before i met her. I don't even know why i married her, i think i am regretting it now. We are both 28, and i have been cheating on her since we started dating so for the whole marriage and relationship. I never felt guilt and in fact got off on cheating on her. I have cheated on her with prostitutes lots of times as well. About 300 in total and over 900 men. So over 1000 people of ALL ages. We have one son together who i couldn't care less about. SHE is the one who wanted a kid, not ME. I DO ENJOY my life, it's just that SOMETIMES it bothers me, and that is when i go online and talk....as i don't have anyone in real life to say this to. Along the way, i had 6 relationships with 4 women and 2 men as well excluding the sex. Would you say i am a bad person? |
| Question: Why do men think women should stay with them even when they're already taken? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 06:42 PM PDT This guy was cheating on his wife with me, he got mad because i leave him, he keep posting rude comments under my facebook post, i block him and delete his post. Why do men think women should stay with them even when they're already taken? |
| Question: My wife control my life, what will i do? i need advice....? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 06:30 PM PDT We are separated for 6mos, and i filed a custody case to our 4yrs old son because she cheated at me. and this coming Sept. 19 is the 1st day of our hearing of the case. she call last Aug. 20, to make our family together again, we talk and eat, our kids happy but she side that she want our case to be w/draw, I agree but my family and friends did not life because she maybe want that our case will be w/draw. and if the case will be w/draw she will live as again and that happen. but she didn't know i did not w/draw the case. |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 06:01 PM PDT So my parent's are in the middle of an ugly divorce. I'm 19 years old and am at college (2 hours away from home). This summer I lived at home with my mom and my dog, I'm an only child as well. So I was on the phone with my mom Monday and she asked me if I was coming home for the weekend, and I told her I was planning on it. I asked her if she'd be busy this whole weekend at work (she usually is) and if it would just be me and my dog at home. She told me "kind of.." and i asked what she meant. She went on to tell me how she's been dating a guy for about 2 months (partially over the summer while I was home) and that 2 days after I moved back for college he moved in. I was PISSED out of my mind. Not upset that she's dating someone (even though she's still legally married) but at the fact that she never once mentioned a boyfriend let alone that he lives in my home!!!! Am I crazy for being this upset about it! She think's I am be selfish and rude for being so upset about this situation. |
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| Question: Should i stay with my fiancee? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 05:32 PM PDT I have been with this guy for almost 4 years, we always had stormy relationship with fights. It all started when on the begging on our relationship i found out he was cheating on me. Somehow we went thorugh it , i forgive him, but we continued of having a lot of fights and disagreement. After 3 years he proposed to me, i said yes, we started to organise our wedding and furnish our new apartment but the fights only grew. Like we fought about everything. What he likedi didnt and , what i liked he didnt. No compromise. Finaly i said enough is enough and i cancel the engagement. The first two or three days he was calling me and begging me but than he stopped. He said if thats what u want than ok. After 3 weeks of not beeing togheter no im wondering did i made the right choise, or should i go and try to reconcile with him? Everybody are saying to me be careful u can make the mistake of ur life, but i think that by marrying him will make that mistake. Please , any advice from someone who has been in simular situation, or from someone who has brake off engagement. P.s All of my family and friends likes him, he can be very charming person with the people i love and i think thats what is making my decission even harder becouse everyone are talking to me like go back to him. Sorry for my language mistakes im not originaly from english speaking country |
| Question: Two of my friends are having an affair...... what would you do? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 05:31 PM PDT I am friends with both of them because all of our children are friends. One is married, the other is divorced. It is very obvious to me because I see how they interact when the married party's significant other is not around. They are always laughing and talking together. But, when the spouse is around, never to they speak. They stay far away from eachother. I have watched this for a few months and have had other indications. To tell you the truth, I think they are meant for eachother as I do not like the ones spouse anyways. I feel guilty that I know, but just don't know how to handle it. Neither has come out and told me, but they have both said things that lets me know they communicate outside just our childrens activities. |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 05:30 PM PDT It has been years since they divorced and I still feel this way because my mother always said "we are doing this to protect you all" followed by insults about how the rest of it is my Dad's fault. My Dad even says they decided to divorce to protect us. So it is my fault as well as my two sisters (I am the only boy in the family). I am in therapy for a number of things (this included) and asking for advise from strangers on here also. How do I get over this. |
| Question: Special things to do for hubby on his birthday? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 04:09 PM PDT what else can I do for him? I'm going to bake him his own personal cake. What else can I do for him? |
| Question: Should i give my wife a ultimatum? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 03:58 PM PDT Ok me and my wife have been together almost 2 1/2 years, married for almost 1. Things were great before we got married. We were both employed and dont have any children at the age of 30. We got along perfectly. After we got married she just stopped going to work because of bad job and she has bad angsity. I have been working supporting both of us for about a year now while she draws unemployment. She does nothing all day long while i work. I work 2 jobs making 2,000 a month after taxes and about to get a third job. She does not like living in a apartment but its all i can do right now. We got into a big fight because i am trying to get a third job. She thinks i will hold it over her head. I told her its not to hold over her head. It is because she does not want to work so i will. I am getting ready to give her a ultimatum help do something or we will have to go seperate ways. |
| Question: I'm tired of my husband and marriage, what do I do? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 03:52 PM PDT I'm 27 and my husband is 30. I'm biracial and he's white. He acts like a typical white man and annoys me all the time. We have 5 children the youngest is 3 months old. My husband works long hours and I appreciate him for that but he's so annoying. He leaves a mess wherever he is and makes stupid jokes. We have been together for several years now. I'm not in love with him and haven't been for a while now. It's just the same old every day he works I take care of the kids and cook. There's no excitement. I feel lonely because we moved because of his job a couple of months ago and I miss my mother and friends so I only have him to talk to here. I'm so bored of the marriage it's just the same old all the time. He always has to act in a silly way even when we are watching a movie. I'm tired of listening to him talk about his job. The children are in school so I feel I have more time on my hands. What do I do? |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 03:46 PM PDT A select group of friends? Why would it hurt more in your opinion. Thanks |
| Question: What are some sexy clothes/shoes I can wear for my husband (:? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 03:45 PM PDT U really wanna catch him off guard (: and get him really girly and exc(: |
| Question: Ramadan :Trying hard to be a good wife, can't handle husbands mood? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 03:37 PM PDT Everyday my husband comes home from work and basically ignores me. He works 6days a week and his day off he never spends it at home with me. Most days I feel scared to even speak to him just because the look on his face. I will usually try to give him a hug and ask about his day or bring him a drink or something to eat and he will refuse all of it. It's killing me because I don't know what to do anymore. I try to keep the house clean even though his brother is staying here and cook, wash the dishes and please my husband. I'm trying my best out of my circumstances. I know he is having a rough day at work and I'm trying to be considerate of that but he won't let me. I just leave him alone most of the time and he will just talk to his friends or something,thats the only time he laughs or smiles. Am I doing something wrong? Should I be doing more? It's my first time being married. I feel so lonely everyday, I just sit at home and wait for him to come, and he doesn't even acknowledge all of my efforts. I'm very sad about this please tell me if I'm doing something wrong? I've tried asking my husband and he said no, I'm doing great, but he still ignores me like I don't even exist. I am feeling so neglected. |
| Question: Ejaculated on my husband's face and feel so embarrassed.. Help? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 03:36 PM PDT I know this may sound a bit strange but I just don't know how to get over it. I recently got married and we delayed our honeymoon since we needed to sort out our visa but we've been staying at a hotel for the past couple of days. I was a virgin til last night and I was raised in an that you shouldn't have sex before marriage and even when my husband and I were engaged the most we did was kissing since I was comfortable with that. I just don't have any sexual experience but my husband does have some experience. Last night, he went down on me and I ejaculated(squirted) on his face. He just stood up and washed his face and continued to kiss the lower half of my body, his facial expression was unreadable so I don't even know what he was thinking. I just feel so embarrassed and awkward from what happened and how do I deal with this scenario? Also how do I become more sexually confident? |
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| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 02:41 PM PDT He is threatening me to stop paying for the car he is using which is the one thats in my name only. Is there any forms i can file asking for him to continue paying for both the cars? He got the car as a gift to me and has been paying for every month |
| Question: Marriage problem? Lingering feelings for ex? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 02:13 PM PDT I've been married for 3 years and I love my H very much. Long story short, My ex and I broke up 8yrs ago, i'd not seen him since, he moved away stating he couldn't deal with living close to me and not being with me. As funny as it sounds we'd been together since we were 12yrs old and we had an incredibly close relationship. We crossed paths two days ago in the line at the post office and we noticed each other but we didn't talk, He kept staring at me but I just gave him the odd quick glance, I couldn't believe I was seeing him, I have to admit he looked so good even more attractive than I remembered. Some feelings came back to me that I used to have when I was with him, feelings I didn't realise I missed so much. I said it to my friend and she said he is back in town. I cant get him off my mind since and my mood has changed a lot, I'm grumpy towards my husband and I keep thinking what my ex is doing these days etc. I feel ashamed to be thinking about another man when I honestly love my H deeply and he's become aware of my mood change and keeps pressing at it. How can I move past this and not let it affect my marriage because deep down im very happily married. Any advice? |
| Question: I told my wife I cheated and she didn't care. What now? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 01:06 PM PDT We've been married a year. She had a miscarriage and I had sex with an old friend since understandably my wife didn't want to for a couple weeks. It was only one time and I haven't seen the old friend since. I wouldn't have gone looking for sex if the friend hadn't started it. It's not an excuse, it's the truth. I told my wife and she was angry and attacked me but since then she's not said anything else. She's acting normal, although we still aren't on good speaking terms. What do you think she's thinking and what is she going to do next? She seems depressed. It's been 2 weeks since I told her and she hasn't said anything else about it. Does this mean I'm home free or is she going to leave me soon? She's normally such an emotional person that I'm confused. Usually minor things make her angry or upset and she has what I can only describe as tantrums. That's her personality. Now she seems sad but not explosive, throw things around and scream sad like she usually gets. |
| Question: Is it too late to change my wife into the woman she used to be? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 12:35 PM PDT I met my wife when we were 18. She used to be energetic and full of life. She had dreams of becoming a detective and she was really into fashion. She was young and living. 7 year later... She s gotten fat, sleeps all day, works at a post office , doesn t want to go to college, on her free time she just loves to read Facebook updates and articles on the most random thing you can think of (example: articles about Dead kids in Syria) She doesn t clean, she cooks but it s sloppy crap that she doesn t put her heart into. It s like she make it however it comes out because she doesn t want to cook. Hasn t washed a single dish in 9 months . Hasn t done nothing but sleep, eat, go to work, come home, and repeat. I on the other hand , go to school, take care of our son, clean the house constantly after both of them, and whenever I need to go to military drill once a month. I get mad at her an she gets mad that I get mad . I try to sit down and talk to her that he needs to do more with us , take care of herself, and needs to just do more for us . She spends about 3-4 hours reading Facebook statuses and she is always up to date with everyone else s problems instead of our own. I m just looking for advice or to see if I m the problem by not pushing her. (Btw I push her hard to workout and she hates it). So what should I do? Please help |
| Question: What do married couples do on their wedding night ? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 12:29 PM PDT My sister is getting married in 3 weeks. She's really excited and nervous. She's wanting to know what will happen after the wedding that night ? |
| Question: Another woman kissed my husband. What should I do? My husband is in the Airforce? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 12:25 PM PDT We had some old baby stuff we no longer had any need for so I asked him if one of our friends knew someone who could use it. His Comander found a single Mom in the unit who could. The woman Amy, invited us over for dinner as a thank you. The day of I was sick and had to stay home. The week leading up to our dimner my husband showed me messages and explained that Amy was acting odd and alittle flirty, our mutal friend confirmed this. Flash forward to last night my husband had dinner as I was laying down to get some rest, i got a call from our friend saying he was dropping off my husband at home. I thought it was odd. Come to find out my husband came clean and told me after dinner he offered to help her with dishes before he headed home, she called his name when he turned his head she kissed him and he immediately withdrew. He then drove to our friends place explained the situation, asked how to fix it with me and apprently got a bit tipsy with our friend. Im upset he put himself in that situation, but i still love him. I'm livid with Amy. You dont make moves on someones husband, especially when all we did was try to help. I know i seen some red flags but i ignored them trying to give the benifit of the doubt to Amy, but I was sorely wrong. How would you handle this situation? Another thing to consider while my husband will try to distance himself from Amy, its alittle hard because they work on the line together |
| Question: How did you meet your husband/wife? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 12:14 PM PDT I feel like I'll be single FOREVER! I'm 23, and all my friends are either in a relationship or married. I have been on a couple of dates but it seems as though I can never connect with that person. |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 12:10 PM PDT My husband of 19 years says he doesn't want me anymore and wants another woman, but he can't find one he wants except a former coworker who doesn't even really want to be friends with him. So he's staying with me, but he thinks about this other woman and tries to communicate with her on facebook. The other night when he was drunk he called me her name by accident. I asked him today to stop communicating with her and he refused. What would you do? This is hard to live through. |
| Question: Did you know "Right Away" your husband/wife was "the one?"? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 11:18 AM PDT They say you know right away when you've found "The One." did you know immediately after meeting your husband/wife for the first time that they were the one for you? Or did you have doubts? Did you ever break up prior to getting engaged/married? Did you feel you "knew" right away? |
| Question: Why do I keep doing this? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 11:17 AM PDT A few months ago I found out my husband is cheating on me. We've been together for 10 years. He wants a divorce so he can marry her. Before my husband I had only slept with 2 other men. One of which was a long time boyfriend. Since my husband and I seperated I have slept with 6 men. I even had sex with the guy that came over to haul our matress to the dump. I can't seem to stop. Why am I doing this? |
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| Question: Does date on marriage license affect 30/60 ruling? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 08:57 AM PDT My boyfriend is here from Italy, he arrived one week ago and was supposed to leave after 3 weeks. He came on a tourist visa but we decided two days ago that we didnt want to do long distance anymore and in the excitement we went straight to get a marriage license. After researching how he could stay, i learned about the 30/60 ruling that is used when deciding if these cases are approved or not. So even if we get married after the suggested 60 days, is the marriage license being dated only a week after he arrived going to affect us? Any advice? |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 07:52 AM PDT My soon to be husband and i are getting married in just under two weeks. The thing is im worried about going through with it. I want this more than anything i love him very much, but he always seems to be mad at me for something and i never know how to fix it. He just always seems disappointed in me. I ask him about his thoughts on the wedding and he wants to get married. But when we fight he always says hes leaving me, even though he never does. We been together 4 years. And im still wondering if he is truely happy with me. What should i do? Or how can i fix this? |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 07:24 AM PDT Me and my son's mom have joint custody but she has physical custody because at the time my past job had me working alot of hours I now have a new job and my wife and I have a very open schedule so now I can have him monday thru friday. My question is will I be able to go for physical custody if I change my days from 2 days a week to 4.5 days a week. |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 05:58 AM PDT He grew up this way. I didn't grow up that way. I need creative ideas? |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 05:50 AM PDT My wife and I discussed sex with exes on numerous occasions when dating and first married, usually while drinking, and she basically told me that she had orgasms most of the times she had sex with her ex. She told me that she had multiple orgasms with him and some of them were very intense/strong. She didn't love him, met me later, been together over 20 years and she has seldom had orgasms with me. I have tried the positions they tried and the only thing I can feel makes the difference is penis size. For about the past 10 years we seldom have sex and I always initiate and sometimes she says "just hurry up". Recently she lost a good bit of weight, looks hot and in bed one night out of left field stated she would like to try an open marriage for a while because she has missed out on great sex and we are best friends but sexually she doesn't enjoy it with me and said she doesn't want to hurt my feelings and doesn't want "to cheat on me" by sneaking around. I told her F--- that but I suspect she will sneak if I don't agree. She said if it was open she would tell me who she sees and be discrete so people we know don't see her with another man. Thoughts? |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2016 04:21 AM PDT and my pants are down and she is doing you know what. I freaked out and she got off of me. I am married and not sure what to do. I have to tell my wife but there is no way she will believe me and I don't blame her. Thoughts? |
| Question: If Islam allows married women to be financially independent then how do you explain this? Posted: 08 Sep 2016 01:54 AM PDT Muslims, you always brag about how your religion Islam gave women right to be economically independent and own/sell property without husband's interference. But in Islam woman isn't even allowed to leave her domain or do anything without husband's permission. So how is it possible for a Muslim woman to sell her own property or earn and spend money independently when her leaving her very domain to engage in such activities depends on her husband |
| Posted: 07 Sep 2016 11:16 PM PDT I was taking a capstone course at my university for family studies, and we were discussing the grounds for divorce. Apparently, separation is often a grounds for divorce in the sense that not living with your spouse in not occuring, (even if the service member is on deployment). With that in mind, the spouce who is a civilian may divorce. I openly admitted that was disloyal and cold, then the class called me a bigot because women, (I never said anything about just women) have the right to be happy and divorce when they see fit. One girl even said, "Well if he's not there for me, he's not a good husband. Military life hurts marriages and if my husband isn't doing his job as a husband because of his job, I will tell him goodbye). I mean the way I see it, you knew you were marrying a service member, why did you say yes in the first place? Secondly, what happened to "for better or for worse." I would be so heart-broken if I got a letter from my spouse about how I am never there for her when really I did what I did to put food on the table and serve so my kids didn't have to. My professor pulled me aside after class and told me that military members are changed by each deployment and that they are not the person they married. Am I wrong? It sickens me because these people want to be family counselors, social workers, and nurses. As a future school psychologist, I would hate to see this attitude in another helping profession. |
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