Even when we're not together anymore, but they end up telling me "I'll always love you"?

If he likes you why wouldn't he atleast get your number

I am totally and completely consumed with infatuation for one of my managers. We are both 25, I'm older by 6 months, and he's married to his high school sweetheart. I respect his marriage and would never do pursue my feelings. Plus, we don't get along all that well so he wouldn't want me anyway, even if he were single. I don't know what it is about him. It first started off as intense sexual feelings for him, but I've started getting really, really attached. I always have to be around him at work and when I'm not, I ache to be near him. I get so jealous over the friendship between he and another manager. They act like if they weren't married to other people, they'd be married to each other, I hate it lol. He's even called her his "work wife". How do I turn off of my feelings for him? I hate feeling this way about a married man, even if we are the same age. Lala-If you would read, I specifically said that I respect his marriage, that I would never pursue my feelings. I also said even if he were single, he wouldn't be interested in me as we don't get along that well, so obviously I'm nowhere close to having an affair.

My wife of 7 yrs has a great figure and dresses up for work. She wears decent clothes that show her curvaceous body. I get annoyed because she doesn't dress that way at home. I ask her to stay in her work clothes when she comes home and she refuses. Am I wrong for this?

you to the grown children to get sympathy from them... what is a person supposed to do. I felt that a divorce should have been between us. Yes I know the grown kids are hurt.. but face it.. divorce was inevitable. Why did he do this.. does he not know how much this has hurt everything in our lives... including the kids? Words cannot be withdrawn. The damage is done. Bad thing is now he died and there is NOTHING I can ever do to get back my children. 5 years still counting I am paying a price for something I never did and things will never be the same.

So I was told by people that in order to be able to have a wedding and get married in vietnam that I must go through a psychological evaluation in order to get permission. I have bipolar so I am worried about this. My wedding would take place in the countryside and not in the city. Is it true that I would have to get permission ?

I went out to dinner with a guy and it seemed like we were having a good time. I had a drink or two, and so did he. I went to the bathroom before leaving. I think I left my drink on the table (there wasn't much left in the glass), and I can't remember if I took a sip or not after I returned from the bathroom. I started feeling really funny as we were leaving. He asked if I could drive, and I wasn't sure. I pulled my phone out to call a friend, and after that I can't remember what exactly happened or what went wrong to calling someone to take me home. I felt really drowsy, like I wasn't fully aware of what was happening around me. I remember a dark room, and the guy I went out with doing something with my dress. I'm not sure what happened after. I woke up and my clothes were off and I was in his bed. I had been awake for awhile before he got up. I left and went home. I wanted to scream, but I couldn't get it out. I asked him what happened and he didn't say anything. I feel so stupid for going out at all. I don't know what I need to do. I haven't told anyone I know. I don't know who I could talk to without everyone else I know asking questions I don't have the answers to.

If a man and a woman are divorcing and the man is the bread winner (he has a high paying job while she is a stay at home mom) how could she go about actually paying for a divorce lawyer. They have a joint checking account but there wasn t too much money in it. Most of it is in the husbands company, stocks and checking accounts which are under his name. She was a teacher until they had their first kid and she quit to be a stay at home mom. Also all of the money was earned after they married. So would there be any way for her to get her hands on some of that money before the divorce to pay for a divorce lawyer since she would be woefully disadvantaged otherwise.

Thoughts? Married my wife at 18 for the sex and bc I had low self esteem. I focused for the last 15 yrs on building my career and family of 7 thinking things would work out. Truth is I still don't love her, I'm not super attracted to her and think I could do better both in terms of looks and personality. Logically I've made my bed and I'm going to lay in it...I just couldn't do anything to harm her and the kids...but I've got to get rid of these constant feelings of regret so I can be happy. Like all of us I only have one life and feel like I've caused myself to miss out due to this mistake. How should I frame this in my own mind to allow me to move on and be happy as-is?

My husband and I, are together for years. He was working in army and I have been waiting him for months and months. During those months he left me a few times and since then I am really scared with whatever I do. I do not know what his reaction will be. The last 2 months he finished work and he is finally home. Since he came home things are very bad between us. He is very weird and I do not know what to do. I tried to hug him one night and he grabbed my hand, he woke up and he was ready to punch me. We walk on the streets, a random dog barks and he gets jumpy and he is ready to attack.. We argue everyday about silly things and he always blames me for everything and when i say that he always blames me he says that he does it because its my fault. He doesnt even want to have sex with me lately.

She wakes up in mid sleep just to tell me nasty things, i tried to surprise her with something the other day and she woke up telling me to get back to bed. Even now as i'm writing this she's next to me telling me to close the laptop and asking me to pleasure her. What can i do, please help i'm helpless. I don't want to leave her or kill her but i'm on the edge. Help.

Just wondering opinions and if this is means for divorce. At the beginning of the year I kept finding weird numbers on my husbands calls/texts, they were like shady massage places/escorts. He brushed it off that he just Googled looking for a massage place and didnt realize they were Escorts. Fastforward to this past weekend. I found he again Googled escorts in our area. Says he ran into a friend whi has split from his wife and was showing my husband that his ex is now escorting. Sounds like BS to me. Am I jumping the gun to go for divorce?

My fat slob husband went to the doctor and he told him he needs to severely cut down on his drinking or he will have a heart attack soon. Wouldn't you know it the jerk actually listened and quit drinking that six pack every night. Now that he is more coherent he wants to spend more time on our marriage. How do I tell him I liked him better drunk?

My husband and I planned an a long weekend vacation which is our only trip this year. I have been very excited about the trip as we have both had stressful years at work. He knew I was extremely excited. Just this week (the week of the trip), his lower back pain has started acting up again and he stated that we cannot go on the trip which is non refundable. It is only a two hour flight and he has been prescribed pain medication. I was devastated and only said that I was disappointed after I asked how we was doing with his back. I didn't say I was going to go alone or anything else just that I have the right to be disappointed. He went off on me that I am selfish and I should care more about him than a trip. Am I being selfish for being disappointed that the only trip I was going on and super excited for is being canceled by him?

When a man who claims he loves his wife is a no good lying cheating husband, what makes the scumball loves his wife?

His family comes by everyday that it drives me crazy & they bring there friends with them when they come over. They dont call they just knock and knock my husband claims that he is bored so he lets them in. So i got ppl in my living room i cant sit down ppl in my kitchen cooking. Some ppl outside. When i get so annoyed I start telling them to stop running in and out my husband gets mad cuz he says im bossy. But I dont like a hiuse full of ppl over its not a family function today nobody called us and set this time up to visit. One day I planned on having a family dinner with my kids & hubby I went to the store when I came back home my brother in law was there in my kitchen cooking and his friends where in my living room chilling. My husband says nothing he lets them do whatever they want. Im stressed

From someone who had a brief and unsuccessful marriage. I know a man who is in what he describes a battle of wills with his wife and he was going to win. I admit everything is on his side. But he is so uncompromising. I think his wife is too on this issue but I can see her point. I see this damaging their relationship greatly. So in a bsttle of wills with your spouse, does anyone win or do you both lose?

My teacher said that communication is what made her and her husband stay together for a really long time. They've never been married to someone other than themselves. How does that work? How do you communicate with your wife/husband? What do you talk about?

I'll try to make this short, sweet,&to the point. I've been with this guy on&off for over 7 years. We've produced a BEAUTIFUL daughter who is almost 6. During these years, he's lied, cheated, went behind my back for numerous things&just done me wrong. IDK why I stayed. I did leave at 1 point for an extended amount of time&we didn't have contact for months. After he came back into my life he was little better&I was happy (or so I thought). He's been back in for 2 years now&I know he's changed a little But my issue is, I've still caught him lying. My birthday is in 2 days&he hasn't gotten me anything. Hasn't planned anything. NOTHING. I've ALWAYS made his day special&got him so much stuff. I actually sent him a list this year. He's had the time&money to get me what I wanted. He did ATTEMPT to get what I wanted but had a small issue with the site & wanted me to do it. I refused. I am not going to order my own present. I am just not happy. I want someone who wants to make my day special on my birthday. I want someone who want me to be happy, not even just on my birthday but everyday. He spends so much time on his phone, or doing other things, I just don't feel connected anymore. I am not financially capable of supporting myself&our daughter&I just feel trapped&so very unhappy. There are days when I think I am happy&I am okay, but the days that I spend sad or mad because I cant get him to help me clean up or help me with anything without the complaining, outnumber my happy ones. Also I wanted to add, for about 2+ yrs of our relationship, he didn't hardly make an income so when I would go to his house, I'd buy him groceries & just help out. Well now, he's moved in with me and I got him a job with family & he makes TWICE as much as me. However, he doesn't enjoy helping with bills. He does help, but I can just tell it's a hassle. I go broke every paycheck, while he gets paid so much every WEEK! He doesn't even think about the years I helped him. he only thinks of himself. Finally, I do think he truly does LOVE me. I've told him many times how I want my man to be, & if he couldn't be the kind of man I desire, that I don't want to change him bcuz that's not fair, but I want to find someone who I think I deserve. He always says he can be that guy, but never is. I want romance&sweetness&LOVE! I don't want to change him if he cant be that guy. I can tell he tries sometimes but it's just not enough for me to be happy & it's very short lived.

And blame her

My wife mother has asked me to give her £10,000 so she can put a deposit on a house and then she will give me my money back as agreed! Here's the problem, It's been two years now and she is denying that I have given her that money! I am one of those people who would help anyone as much as possible and I can't change "me" that's who I am. With that money, i was going to spent it on my son education to develop his career. My wife stopped all communication with the mother and I refuse to talk to her. My father-in-law is scared of his wife so he does not talk...he's a puppy and follow commands by his wife. What would you do?

I don't need any hate or overly insensitive responses. I just honestly want to put my mind at ease and get some feedback on this very difficult moment at hand. I just got divorced a few months ago and I'm trying to reinvent myself and my life. Something funny happened today ... My ex husbands mistress messaged me last year telling me that he was having an affair with her and that she "was" pregnant by him. for some odd reason the message popped up randomly out of nowhere and this had been hidden in my messages until now. She also said that she was well aware that he was a married man and that she knew who I was when they were dating. What should I do about this situation? It infuriates me that she even had the audacity to message me in the first place but I'm so furious because I've been blatantly crushed, abandoned and abused by this man and he had been lying to me for so long during the course of our marriage & seperation. What am I supposed to do right now?

Help I don't exactly know whay to do or how to handle these feelings that I don't like my husband. Spouses are suppose to be good friends we use to be but now I can't talk to him about anything, he does not listen or when he does listen he's not very sympatheic really unconcern. What should I do been together for a long time I have tried to get back where I use to be but it's not happening. I'm mad or just unhappy all the time. Any one have any suggestions need some advice right now. Counseling out of the question