My friend said I should love my wife more , what do you think?

There are so many times he has chose something over his family, alchol, friends, football, softball. If I confront him he goes crazy calling me every name in the book in front of ojf kids. I want to leave But my son begs me not too. What should I do?

I am 17 and my boyfriend is 46, can we legally get married in Ohio? Also, my parents don t exactly approve. I truly truly truly love him. It s not sick, I volunteered for him and it just happened. He has never touched me it s not like that, we just care for each other. Can I marry the love of my life?

Very Interesting - Why would one say Neither - what did B do to you to lose your friendship??? I'm speaking of close longtime friends. And Both - you would happily be friends with a woman who might eye your husband next? And she is proven to be of low moral character? This is actually a true story and A&B have kids that are close friends too.

She's the woman of my dreams I fantasized about her since I was 12 & she knows all my business. She's the only one who hasn't changed on me & I told her how special she is & she told me how special I was too but the more I continued to embrace her for being the wonderful person she is she went cold on me but she said that I could count her for anything for ANYTHING. I know she thinks I'm handsome I know her family loves me. She makes me feel as if my life actually mattered. Her texts brought me to tears. She's the only human to offer me help the only one who actually seemed to care. Except she's got a boyfriend & im tired of pouring my heart out motivating her it's been months since I talked to her. Why the **** do I get all my dreams except for her right now. If she's gonna marry him than **** me my lifeis over. You say I should let go because I'm emotionally unstable. But I'm the only one who doesn't see her as just a body. When I was in the hospital her sister was the only person who hit me up. I surrender to God I know he has plan. The only time I'm happy is when I'm with her. Something about her just soothes me its that gene se quoi. She giggled when I kissed her cheek. I'd serenade her. I'd overhear her telling her parents how handsome I am. She called me sexy is that even flirting? Do I give up on my dream? Because I wanna live my life with I'm gonna have kids with her just give me a plan & motivation. I want to send her a motivational text & tell her I'm therefor her

We are in a very difficult situations. My husband and I basically don't talk anymore. We don't agree in anything. We have two kids, the youngest being 7 months. This relationship has always been like this, am tired. When he talks to me is with attitude. We don't have sex any more and I don't feel like I want to neither. I always felt mistreated emotionally by him. A man that doesn't care talking to his wife for days or a week or two but expect her to have food for him. He doesn't like to be questioned because he always is the one with experience. It his is not how i want to spend the next ten years, but my kids love him. I feel trapped. I work full time and between the job and the kids feel stress out too just to come home to a person that I can't talk too, but I don't have the Strenghts of going through a separation.

My wife of 25 years used to love getting & giving oral sex. But now, she doesn t want it at all. Giving either. She says it s based on her religious beliefs. What can I do to make her change her mind?

Me and my wife have been married for 2 months. We're planning to go on a honeymoon in October. We're not sure if we're going yet we're thinking about it. If we do go we are going to Gatlinburg TN. We're going to go do fun stuff go hiking see some concerts if there are any and maybe go to Dollywood if it's opened this time. We're also gonna stay in our condo and swim in the evenings if we feel like it. What else should we do on our honeymoon ?

I just asked a kind of similar question, but I've thought about it more and just have to ask, do I even need to have sex? Nowhere in our vows did I state I would suck his dick once a week. I clean his house, raise his kid, make his food, and all he does is bring home money. I feel like the once every couple of months is so generous. Its my body.

I really don't enjoy it, now that I have my child I really don't see a point for it. As it stands we have it about once every two months or so, which is too much for me, but he complains a lot and gets cranky. Am I being unreasonable?

They say all these terrible things to my husband, like "shes just a cheating *****" (ive never cheated in any of my relationships) and "she's ******* useless" and "cant teach an old b**** new tricks" and "she doesn't deserve anyones love, time, effort or sympathy", then they get mad at me because I don't say hi and that automatically makes me the queen of rudeness. I don't want anything to do with them, but he doesn't want to let them go because theyve been friends for years. But he hasn't told them to stop disrespecting me. Honestly, they used to be my friends too, but Im done with them. What do I do?

It's a prepaid phone, not on our current plan with Verizon. Why would he need 2 phones?

They say things like "you should just go ahead and divorce her, she s unworthy of love and effort" when the only real problem is them. We re looking for a new house, and I ve already made it clear that I didn t want them even knowing where we would be living. I don t want anything to do with them, but he doesn t want to lose them as friends. In my opinion, if they were truly his friends, they wouldn t disrespect his partner. What do I do?

I see stains in his underwear when I do laundry, they smell like a womans privates. and not mine, we haven't had sex in months.I still feel tired from baby birth, just feel not myself. He sleeps in other room. does he have a lover or not?

I know I have been a terrible husband but recently I am doing my best being a good one anyway that's not the issue the issue is that my wife is always busy at work and when she come home she eat sleep then back to work and on week ends .... for any kind of reason we have a fight (I feel she intentionally have them with me) and then she doesn't talk to me for the weekend as an excuse taking our fight This happens every week so don't say I am a greedy husband or anything I am not joking If anyone could tell me what I should do please say so I will respect all answers as long as no insults are involved. Thanks in advance

Arranged marriage is a very unfamiliar term to me and it hasn't happened in my family for a long time. The marriage proposal was from a good family friend, I grew up with this guy. He is an amazing guy without any doubt and but I was surprised when I found out he suggested it. It took me almost 2 months to decide whether to accept it or reject it. He was very patient about it and didn't bother me about it. I really like that quality about him because I lack that. I feel like this arranged marriage process is going a bit to fast. I will be engaged by the end of this month, I only know him as a friend but not as a partner. I feel really guilty that he has confessed his love for me and I don't reciprocate. His parents are saying that we have plenty of time to get to know each other but I feel like we don't. I want to delay the engagement at least for 6 months. I really don't know how to break it to him? Any suggestions? Haha I definitely know he doesn't have a micro penis.

So I am expected to have a child with another man's wife. Before this, I had no idea she was married. She told me the truth that he's in prison for a long time and wants to have divoce papers but doesn't want to pay. I don't blame her but she could have told me what's up. I would have waited but I guess she really wanted to be with me that she was too impatient.

I'm turning 30 in 3 months and suddenly I'm craving companionship..my whole 20s I was really just okay being single but suddenly I have this desire to be with someone....is it my biological clock or what..?

My wife wants my son to treat her like an adult not a teenager. People around my son find him polite nice and curious. He gets an attitude when he doesn't get what he wants, but he never says another just gets quite and is a one word answer kid or walks it off (for how long it takes). My wife finds his attitude rude and won;t work with me. This is resulting in us getting a divorce. She also finds my family rude (and they can be) to her, which is also leading to the divorce. Is this normal?

I have been seeing my 13 year old since he has been little every other weekend from Thur-Monday before school. I travel 100 plus miles each week and stay at my mom's house to see my 13 year old and drive back and forth with my 13 year old to my house to be with my wife.

My wife said to our daughter how many kids you're having? Then my daughter side 0 and my wife said (joking around) well because I'll be on a island. Then I know my wife said if, but I do not remember the rest but it was something like "if it's grandkids" or "if they're grandkids" then it's ok because I know they're going home. Does that sound like my wife is done with having more kids? We have 3 girls and 3 dogs and my wife takes care of her sick father

My husband is too secretive about his phone. I have been married to him for 2.5 years. Recently he started ink and has been too secretive with his phone. He takes them with him for showers , bathroom trips , upstairs and even while brushing his teeth. When I questioned him about this he said I m not supposed to take his phone anymore and he needs privacy .he even set a phone passcode that he never used before. He never pics up my call (even during breaks ) when he goes to uni placements which is there almost every day passed midnight . Is he cheating on me ? Or hiding something he is not supposed to do ?

My husband works 50-60 hours a week and sometimes more depending what city he's going to. (He's a construction worker) I stay home with our son and daughter who are under 4 and my cousin drops off her zoo of kids so she can work. Sorry for the language.. I have a car but I can't go out because my kids and my cousin's kids run around or act up and it's really hard to take care of five little people's especially when I'm pregnant myself having a third child. I have to wash laundry but I cannot leave the kids alone because they unlock the doors and run out. I have to go grocery shopping but I have no family near me and no friends to talk to. I feel lonely and I cannot find a job right now because I'm on my last three weeks of pregnancy. I don't get paid to babysit and also I never get anything done. I have tried looking for a babysitter but they are so expensive and I have NO money myself. I am really depressed that I never have any adult interaction what can i do? I forgot to put that my husband gets home very late and I barely have time to talk to him.. he doesn't eat what I cooked for him and just goes straight to sleep... I need friends That's true.. I go outside with the kids but it's really hot and I colour with them and watch movies but it's true that I need to go out of ge house once in a while.. I haven't been out for about two and a half weeks already and I'm starting to get really tired of it. Thanks everyone there's no wrong or right answer so I don't know who the best is.. lol but I did talk to my cousin and sometimes she lies to me that she is getting out a certain time and four to five hours later she tries to explain that her boss didn't let her put blah blah but I told her I'm exhausted as my own kids are still a handful.. they are not BAD it's just that we go out and they run so I'd have to get a cart.. she will get a new babysitter by the end of the week anyway And after he baby is born I won't babysit anymore because she wanted to babysit right after I get out of her hospital but her 40 pound 17 month is really heavy so I turned her down but thanks again to everybody and yes I will look for a job as I do appreciate what my husband does and my apartment IS NOT a mess just toys so I've got that covered

Does Divorce Make People Happy?" represents the first serious effort to investigate this assumption empirically. The finding? Unhappily married adults who divorced or separated were no happier, on average, than unhappily married adults who stayed married. Even unhappy spouses who had divorced and remarried were no happier, on average, than unhappy spouses who stayed married. This was true even after controlling for race, age, gender, and income.

He claims to not know what love is don't love me the kids or anyone around him claims to be numb to the world and all feelings in general he's an emotionless man! He is always online talking to women throughout our 6 year marriage. He said I might as well leave since he's emotionless and will never love me so I said fine even though it hurts like a ***** I will leave, but he gets bothered by that it's weird I feel like I'm being mind ****** between damned if I stay damned if I don't. He's got appointment for a counselor because I swear he's a sociopath and has some serious issues. I'm just so broken and feel like if I leave no one is gonna want a 24 year old woman with 2 small kids ages 2 & 5. I feel so helpless it's not fair to the kids they didn't do anything but what do you do. I wanna walk away so badly so I can focus on healing but the thought of him being with another woman destroys me because I wasent good enough and you couldn't love me why try and be with some one else. I'm sorry so long and confusing but I'm so hurt and just need to help. And people to talk to I have no one :(

I work 48-72 hrs per week in 24 Hr shifts. My wife is a stay at home wife, with no kids. She cooks maybe once a week which is great, but her cleaning lacks. I constantly come home to a sink of dirty dishes. Everything in array. The litter boxes full etc. when I bring this up to her, she says she feels I'm should have to help around the house when I come home. Is that as irrational as it seems to me?

It's really rare wife and I have sex. I want to get tips on how men can romance wives through the day. Is it random kisses, messages he sends. Or what would you like your man to do to romance you?

I am in a long distance marriage and my husband has been giving me silent treatment for more than a week now. I told him something that upset him ( i wasnt wrong ) but ..instead of taking my side or discussing d problem. He jst shut off. I texted him d next day as i didnt want to drag d issue but i didnt get a reply..i apologized (jst to make him feel better....i knew i wasnt wrong) but still nothing. Now after 10 days suddendly he wants to talk and has texted and called up many times. I am VERY hurt by his silent treatment and cant fake that i am ok and talk to him normally so he again angry on me for not talking properly. I am jst fed up of this and he feels i shud be available for him after his abuse and act normal. Any suggestions how do i react ?

Me and my husband have been together for six years, we have two kids together and barely got our own home 6month ago. Since we live in his mom's house he hasn't kept a job. Finally after all the work I put into getting us into our own place he stopped working again after only three months he quit.... I jumped up, like always to provide for the family. I get up in the morning cook the kids breakfast make sure they are set for the day and head to work. I come home for my break cook dinner set the boys pajamas out and head back to work..... When I come home I have to give the kids a bath and put them to be and after that I catch up on cleaning or laundry. Sometimes it's super late, but after all of this he's either going out with his friends or playing his video games. He doesn't clean he refuses to look for a job, he won't cook and he won't even help with the kids. I'm trying so hard and he just has it so easy. I've kicked him out and brought him back I've "put my foot down" , I've threatened... I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm just exhausted and I don't know how much more I can take

So I ll try to make this as cut and dry as possible, my wife and I have been married a year now, she was highschool sweetheart and we married after I joined the military now im out and 21 years old. I skipped that whole party stage I m pretty much horny 24/7 .Here s where the problem arises my wife dosent enjoy vaginal intercourse. She has issues with her bladder and sex is an uncomfortable feeling for her during. The only thing she wants is for me to go down on her, we ve tried almost everything there is to make it better and almost everything we do dosent help. So after talking about it a lot she had mentioned she would be into the idea of a 3-some with another girl to satisfy us both Now here s my second concern, she seems to be really into lesbian porn and girl on girl stuff. She tells me she s not bi-curious or anything she just likes the "thought" of it . But back on track, yeah I m a guy and the idea of a 3-some seems awesome to me. But how you even find a willing girl to do that? 2nd thing she brought up once was letting me occasionally have meaningless sex with another girl. Now I hate the idea of that, it just feels wrong being married and I could tell she wouldn t like it either, I d imagine it would tear us apart and I would feel super guilty. So that s not really an option for me. So I guess I m just looking for advice ? I don t want to separate, our marriage is awesome besides that one small thing. I just can t go a whole lifetime with no sex. What should I do?

I really loved the woman I married. Here is the problem. She never listens to what I say or spends time on what I like to do. Instead, she expects the reverse. She expects that I listen to everything she says and does everything she likes. We tried counselling but it was a futile effort. She just never listens to anything I say. She does things her own way but expects me to listen to everything she says. I am thinking of getting a divorce. Do you think I am a bad person for dating someone else while being married. I haven't had sex with the other girl though and she is very nice, sweet, adjustable etc. I feel that we will make a lovely couple. That is why I feel that I have to take this rash decision.

He showed up an hour early this morning and I was still in my little nighty. I showed him the leaking faucet's and things that need fixed but the rude guy just kept eye raping me and I don't appreciate it.

She is widowed now and I feel bad for her. When she was married to my adopted son we also had a good relationship And to be honest she is kinda hot too.