Friends: Question: Why is it hard for me to make friends? |
- Question: Why is it hard for me to make friends?
- Question: How do I become friends with this guy?
- Question: Annoying Friend?
- Question: Should I ditch my friends or stay with them?
- Question: How to make friends?
- Question: Am I awkward?
- Question: How can I become closer with my friends?
- Question: Wtf is he ignoring me on purpose?
- Question: Why am I never invited anywhere?
- Question: Was I wrong yelling at my daughter's friend who is 22, for doing sexy dancing at a club we went to? My daughter is a prude?
- Question: Why are people this rude on xbox?
- Question: I'm staying at home while friends are hanging out?
- Question: What the f*ck is wrong with me?
- Question: Someone thinks I'm spreading rumors about them? PLEASE HELP?!?!?
- Question: Why does my friend hang out with my rapist?
- Question: I m lonely and becoming more depressed as the days go by?
- Question: Should I spend my money on a computer or a hobby?
- Question: I am sad of losing all of my classmates and friends? I really need advice.?
- Question: I have bad friends?
- Question: My friend has changed?
- Question: Am I being crazy?
- Question: What to do at a coed sleepover?
- Question: Do you think he wants more then just a hookup buddy? Did I mess up my chances? Please help?
- Question: My annoying "friend"?
- Question: When would it be socially acceptable to add coworkers on Facebook?
- Question: How to make new friends?
- Question: Hey Guys, Are you supposed to get a gift for a person for a retirement party that is being held in the afternoon tomorrow?
- Question: Would it be weird to ask my roommate how I can be a better roommate?
- Question: Annoying best friend?
- Question: Can the sex be as just as good as the romance between friends?
- Question: Is it weird?
- Question: Why do people seem to hate me so much? It's not like there's a reason for them to envy me. I'm just an average person.?
- Question: What are some reasons you've blocked people online?
- Question: Tonight is homecoming and im not going.?
- Question: Why are people like this on xbox?
- Question: How do I keep going with lack of friends,family,or relationships?
- Question: Annoyed with best friend?
- Question: What should I do for his birthday?
- Question: I want to (leave) my friend?
- Question: I used someone for friends and losing him meant losing them?
- Question: HOW ARE CELLS (Not the jail kind..The tiny ones inside every living thing kind) LIKE A BOX OF CHOCOLATES?!?
- Question: Does she like me?
- Question: How many close friends do you have? Do you prefer a small circle or tons of friends?
- Question: My best friend is seeing my underaged cousin?
- Question: Have you ever had someone you thought of as a friend but they only think of you as nothing more than a person?
- Question: How should i apologise ?
- Question: My friend and I fight sometimes?
- Question: Why do I have a grudge towards guys and men?
- Question: I judt snapped and beat up my friend. Help ?
- Question: My mom really supresses me. I'm afraid that when I go off to college, I'm gonna have a 'Freshman 15' with everything.?
- Question: Did i become anti social?
- Question: What do i do?
- Question: Do women really typically do this?
- Question: Is there a term for people who do not believe in "age"?
- Question: I think my sister is trying to control me.?
- Question: I go to an all boys school-not good!!?
- Question: I feel like men have taken pieces of my soul,?
- Question: I go to an all girls school and need new friends?
- Question: I love my ex best friend. Is this wrong?
- Question: I go to an all girls school!!?
| Question: Why is it hard for me to make friends? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 05:31 PM PDT Why it is easy for some people to do it? While it's hard for people like me? |
| Question: How do I become friends with this guy? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 05:26 PM PDT There's this guy I like and I want to become friends with him. I've known him since last year cause we had the same English and now we have the same art. Sometimes we talk in the hallway or in the lunch line. I would talk to him in art but I always see him with soemone else. Right now I would say we're good aguentices. I would really like to become friends with him cause number one he seems like a cool guy to hang out with and number two I kindof have a crush on him. How can I become friends with him |
| Posted: 30 Sep 2016 05:25 PM PDT I had this really nice friend last year, but over the summer... she changed. Now she's very annoying... she sits with us at lunch and is currently in the process of stealing all my friends. She is very loud and draws a ton of attention and it's very annoying. My friends don't mind but I do. |
| Question: Should I ditch my friends or stay with them? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 05:24 PM PDT Ok so I'm in 7th grade and I have two close friends. At first they always dated a little goofy and a little immature but not enough to annoy me. Now they are so annoying and immature they act like they're five year olds. Ok so at lunch I wasn't feeling good and I felt like throwing up a little and then my friends just jumped out of they're seats and starting baking so dramatic and yelling she's gonna throw up embarrassing me. Then after that I went to the office and the nurse said I could stay but they had to leave, so they left but there's a window in the nurses office and they started banging on the window making faces at me and just acting like baby's. Also there's this one kid that's a little bit slower and is in special Ed, one time he was just walking and they both started screaming and running away I asked why they ran and they said that kid scares them cause he's weird. They have done so much more stuff that gets me so angry. Do u think It's normal for them to act like this and just stay with them or leave them? Thxs. |
| Question: How to make friends? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 05:19 PM PDT I'm 15 years old and in my dad's neighborhood (which I'be lived in for 8 years) I don't have any friends this is probaly because I don't go to the same school as anyone there cause I go to school district that my mom's ne ighborhood is in I see a bunch of kids there at the parks but the thing is I'm not really sure how I can go up talking to them. Sometimes I just shoot hoops and hope someone will come over but that doesn't really work. Or if I do figure out something to saw I end up just psyching my self out. My mom says it takes a while to make friends, and I know that but there is any tips you have so I can atleast make an aguience by the end of this weekend. I don't want to to any longer with having no friends here. |
| Posted: 30 Sep 2016 05:14 PM PDT during this first quarter of freshman year of high school its been ok but no one wants to talk to me than when I try to talk they act weird around me even my friends from middle school do the same and when I try to talk or play around they act differently or don t say anything. What should I do! |
| Question: How can I become closer with my friends? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 05:12 PM PDT There are two people in that I am friends with. I consider them to be my only friends. I only really see them at school. They seem to have other people that they are closer with. I want to deepen my friendship with them without seeming too "clingy." I have known one of them for 3 years now but we are still not very "close" of friends as I'd like us to be. I have never had a very close relationship with someone (besides my parents and siblings) where I feel always comfortable around them and I can trust them with anything. I feel pretty lonely. To sum all of this up, any advice to gradually become closer friends with someone without seeming too clingy? I know I have asked this question before but no one answered. |
| Question: Wtf is he ignoring me on purpose? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 04:44 PM PDT It's been three days since I texted my crush a question about his travels. He's back home now. He always texts back within 1 hr. so it's weird of him to not respond. But I see he's active on social media sites. Nothing bad has happened between us that I know of. Is he purposely ignoring me, or is he really that busy to send a quick reply? |
| Question: Why am I never invited anywhere? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 04:34 PM PDT I m 16 and I go to a really small private school. My family always invites friends from school to our house for get togethers and sleepovers but we never get invited anywhere back. It hurts my feelings because I clean and do a lot of work to get the house nice and nobody even appreciates it. I m really nice and friendly to everyone at my school but they never invite me to their house for anything. I haven t been invited to a sleepover for over a year now and it really hurts my feelings that sometimes I can t help but cry. It also doesn t help because everyone brags about how awesome the sleepover was that they had. This one family also stole my family s friends so now they get invited to their house and not us. |
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| Question: Why are people this rude on xbox? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 04:30 PM PDT I was invited to a party from a guy on my friends list. I joined and some British kid told me to suck ____ then kicked me and the guy won my friends list even though the kid's friend invited us. I sent him a message telling him that what he did is rude and ask him how he'd feel doing it to someone else. Then I got an invite so him and his friend could start shouting words of hate at me for no reason. There so edgy and I heard one of them scream at their brother to kill themselves. I am amazed about how rude people can be when I did nothing. |
| Question: I'm staying at home while friends are hanging out? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 03:34 PM PDT Hi, im a freshmen and tonight is the homecoming football game. My friends were all going to stay after school and hang out and watch the game, but I'd rather go home :/ I'm not into this sort of stuff. I like to spend time with my family instead of my friends more. Anyways, point is they all wanted me to go, but i didn't, will my friends end up getting tired of me and not want to hang out? |
| Question: What the f*ck is wrong with me? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 03:25 PM PDT So, I've started high school recently and I'm having a very hard time making friends. All of my friends and my sister, even the ones that are socially awkward, have made more friends than me. I'm not smelly, fat, ugly, mean, but yet no one wants to be friends with me. Its getting quite depressing... |
| Question: Someone thinks I'm spreading rumors about them? PLEASE HELP?!?!? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 03:23 PM PDT There is this girl at my school and she thinks I'm spreading rumors about her which is NOT TRUE. What happened was there was this guy who told me she sucks d*** for money and I know a friend who knows this girl and I told him about it. For some reason my friend told the girl and now she's pissed and might be telling all her friends that I'm an asshole, I already told this friend to say I'm sorry and I didn't start the rumor, but she still might be pissed. I barely know her and I feel like just going up to her and explaining things would be kinda awkward. What should I do? |
| Question: Why does my friend hang out with my rapist? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 03:09 PM PDT Basically, there was the 3 of us, all best mates, me, "G" and "B". "B" being the only boy in our group. " B" raped me. I dropped out of school, but still kept in contact with with "G". I told her what happened, and anyway years later she's still friend's with him. I haven't told her that it confuses me that she hangs out with him? She says that what he did was wrong, yet she goes travelling with him??? If "B" raped "G".... There is no way in hell would I be in contact with him. I would of sent him to prison for her. It's been 4 years. |
| Question: I m lonely and becoming more depressed as the days go by? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 02:58 PM PDT My friends who I though were the closest things to me never include me in anything outside of school, I have no other really close friends, I m in so many after school activities (an attempt to make friends that has failed) my schedule is ridiculous and I can barely keep up with it. The group of friends who don t invite me anywhere are closest match to my personality, and now I don t know what to do. How can I make friends? It s my senior year and I want this year to be memorable in a good way. |
| Question: Should I spend my money on a computer or a hobby? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 02:49 PM PDT I ve worked up some cash to spend on a new computer that s actually pretty cheap. Fact is, though, Id kinda rather put the money into propmaking, which I really enjoy. Originally I was going to buy a few parts from my friend who is really into computers. The thing is rigt now I only have a laptop, and the thing isn t amazing but it runs well enough. My friends have been pushing me to get a new one because they think mine sucks, but it s not even theirs and I know I shouldn t buy something just because they want me to. Help? |
| Question: I am sad of losing all of my classmates and friends? I really need advice.? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 02:38 PM PDT I am starting high school next schoolyear, and most or my close friends are going to different schools, because they all have different interests and priorities when it comes to school. I have many really, really close friends and I am just super sad to lose them, because it's just hard to keep up with them, just because I won't meet them regularily, they will find new friends, and we will just lose contact later in life. I am really sad, because these friends were special to me and I cannot imagine my schoolyears without them, and with completely new people. Most of my close friends are going to study quite far away so yes, it's not our decision to not meet each other. Also I got so close to a few people that I never noticed before and it's their last year in our school...I am really sad and don't know how to overcome it. |
| Posted: 30 Sep 2016 02:38 PM PDT So for about the past year I've been having trouble deciding who to consider my friends, and who to drop as a friend. I'm a 15 year old male and I am extremely academically oriented, taking every advanced class possible in 9th grade and getting straight A's. I do a lot of extracurricular activities like Jazz Band, Cross Country, Science Olympiad, and Math Club. To start, almost all my friends would be considered 'hardcore gamers'. The kind who only play competitive games, and play to win, nothing less. I'm not as good as them by any means, and almost always loose, but it's really one of the only ways I can connect with them outside of school because they don't really want to do anything in person. For one friend who I'll call AN, we used to hang out a lot since we only live a block from each other, but lately he seems to have been converted and changed by the hardcore gamer group in many ways. All he does in his free time is play League of Legends (an online game) with everyone else. I personally hate this game and don't see any redeeming factors in it, but its what all my friends like at this time. So this group of friends I would say, has probably the worst sense of humor you could think of. All of them say things to each other like: KYS (Kill yourself), Fag / ******, "Are you autistic or something?", "Stop being cancer.", and many more things like this. I personally hate this because I have a brother with a minor form of autism, and who is suicidal. I wouldn't consider any of my current friends ideal, or good but they're all I have. I don't have the best luck making new friends, but I really feel like something needs to change, and standing up and losing all my friends doesn't seem like the right answer. All my friends are very smart as well, just they are exactly the nicest people. I used to be close to AN, but he really has become a recluse and acts more and more like everyone else each day and I don't know how to save our friendship. Aren't* |
| Question: My friend has changed? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 02:35 PM PDT I had this really nice friend last year, but over the summer... she changed. Now she's very annoying... she sits with us at lunch and is currently in the process of stealing all my friends. She is very loud and draws a ton of attention and it's very annoying. My friends don't mind but I do. |
| Posted: 30 Sep 2016 02:27 PM PDT So I've been scared of a bunch of **** boys in my school. Last Wednesday, they came up to me and my friend and they made it feel super uncomfortable. Today, I was in the nearby bookstore and I was looking for something, but as soon as I found what I wanted I saw the boys from far away and they saw me but one of them got up and came from the other way so I was like surrounded but I didn't see him do it. As I was exiting, he was standing right near the entrance and when I looked up and saw him, I ******* froze and I almost peed my pants. It was one of the scariest looks I have ever gotten so I passed him and I walked as fast as I can and he was just looking at me. I feel like they are coming after me or something and I'm a really paranoid guy but I feel like they want something and I'm so scared and I want them to stay away. I've heard rape stories involving them and I don't want any of it to happen to me. |
| Question: What to do at a coed sleepover? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 02:19 PM PDT so im hosting a coed sleepover tomorrow. there are gonna be 5 girls and one boy, the boy is a girlfriend to one of the girls. But i like the boy and he is one of my closest friends, so it may be weird. Thats besides the point. so what do i do? Nothing inappropriate (we are only 13.) |
| Posted: 30 Sep 2016 02:15 PM PDT This guy that I've been seeing on and off for the past year and having sex with. A few months ago he made it clear to me that he doesn't want a relationship and me not wanting to lose him I continued seeing him but wasn't really talking to him as much. Between then and now we weren't really talking much up until a few weeks ago. A few weeks ago he even told me that he wanted me to come spend the night with him but didn't want any sex he just wanted to be with me. (Which was weird since we agreed to nothing but a sexual relationship) Fod the past few weeks we have been talking really good, joking around and having good conversation. He even told me that he really respects me. But I sent him a few nudes of myself and respond back to me with the serious face emoji and now is completely ignoring me. In the past whenever I would send him nudes he would always respond with heart eyes and he really liked them. So why all of a sudden is he ignoring me? I tried contacting him later on in the day to change the subject and he ignored me again! Did I lose his respect? What can I do to fix this? Please don't have any negative comments either I didn't think it would be a big deal because I have sent him nudes in the past and we have been intimate with each other. Any advice would be great! Thank you! |
| Question: My annoying "friend"? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 02:10 PM PDT Ok so yeah "friend" at school is so annoying. She always gets all up in my face and hugs me ALL THE TIME. She has NO respect for personal space whatsoever. And she always takes my food without asking at lunch. And she goes all through my purse and my stuff. And she takes my pencils in the middle of class. Ugh. I've known her for like 3 months(we're in 7th grade btw) and I wish I could just say something to her but I'm way too nice. I can never tell anyone to stop because It seems rude. Help please |
| Question: When would it be socially acceptable to add coworkers on Facebook? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 02:10 PM PDT I have been at this company for about six months. I talk to these coworkers everyday. You could say we are really close. Would it be okay to add them on Facebook or wait until they add me? |
| Question: How to make new friends? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 01:47 PM PDT i started school august 22 and im a fresh man so that wasint that long ago go into a new enviorment see new people new faces old faces but sill cant find a friend ro talk to i mean someone sorry i dont mean to waste your time but i just need your advice on what is the best way to make new friends and im just going to tell you im autistic but that doesint mean i cant make freinds i know alot of people are autistic but thats none of my concern im asking ok im getting alittle twisted in my own conversation so what is a good way to make new friends its been kinda hard because your in the new enviorment and new people and i dont know anything else to say but please no rude answers i mean its your choice to say whatever you wish to but im just asking nicely |
| Posted: 30 Sep 2016 01:43 PM PDT It just occurred to me that maybe something is in order. Any suggestions? You are right that it matters not when it occurs other than not being able to order form say, Amazon. The lady's husband is throwing the party btw, not a company. She is my neighbor. |
| Question: Would it be weird to ask my roommate how I can be a better roommate? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 01:34 PM PDT My roommate is probably the most annoying person ever. She invites people over at all hours without giving me any warning, she is never mindful of how loud she's being when I'm asleep, she chews with her mouth open, she blasts crappy music, she leaves the shower a mess, she doesn't clean up after herself, she takes phone calls at all hours and doesn't leave the room even when I'm sleeping, and lord knows I could go on forever. I've only brought up 3 of these issues with her so far, and I plan to bring up more with time. I feel bad though, should I be asking her if I have any annoying habits that she'd like me to change? I'm in college so a new roommate is not an option. I brought up the inviting guests over because some of my roommate's guests make me genuinely uncomfortable, but I don't want to be "that one girl" who talks to the RA about every little thing. In my previous update I meant to say that I brought up the inviting guests over with the RA. |
| Question: Annoying best friend? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 01:33 PM PDT Me and my bestie are super close, we call eachother sisters etc. She's muslim, we have the same culture and we come from the same place but i'm not muslim. Her parents are strict (k lets be real here, everyones parents are strict), idk how strict but she keeps nagging me about the fact that I wear crop tops. It's so freaking annoying, we live in europe btw, so it's not even like it's weird that i'm wearing that. I don't even know, like what is the issue. It's not revealing (I'm 13 so wth why would I do that) and my parents don't mind. How do I tell her (in a nice way) that idc that she doesn't like my clothes and she should shut up about it? |
| Question: Can the sex be as just as good as the romance between friends? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 01:24 PM PDT What is your opinion? Can sex be just as good as the romance between friends? |
| Posted: 30 Sep 2016 01:13 PM PDT I was bullied before summer break (One of the popular girls Were mad at me and turnes everyone against me) I'm not getting bullied anymore (Sometimes I feel lonely but I'm not getting bullied) Is it weird that I stil cry about it? Like if I see a picture from that time, I just start crying? |
| Posted: 30 Sep 2016 01:08 PM PDT Their hatred is apprant through their behaviour, constantly Trying to make me feel inferior. If I'm hanging out with two of my mates, they seem to eye each other while they talk while completely ignoring my existence. When I try to speak, they instantly cut me off. It has happened in the past as well in my football team, they all seemed to gang up on me, this one dude would trash mouth me regardless of whether I was present in the moment or not. I've constantly felt like a third wheel. |
| Question: What are some reasons you've blocked people online? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 01:04 PM PDT Okay so this girl(let's call her Amy) I was good friends with in college randomly blocked me on FB for no reason to my knowledge. We talked pretty often and never fought before so this confused and surprised me. I initially thought it was a mistake, but then the day after I followed Amy's Instagram she blocked me from there too! I casually asked her about it over text and she crossly replied it was "family problems" and "don't take it personally". After that Amy blocked me from Tumblr, and LinkedIn as well. And THEN one of her friends and Amy's younger sister(who I've NEVER met before) blocked me from instagram , facebook, tumblr, and LinkedIn. I also got a nasty message from one of her sister's tumblr followers saying "don't come to my blog again *****, I know who the **** you are" and I don't even know them! I'm MONUMENTALLY confused and hurt by this. Believe me I havent harassed her or done anything wrong to Amy or her friends/family circle...so I wanted to know some reasons why someone might do this? It seems like I've been conspired against and my peers and I have no clue why.. I'm a girl too btw, so I don't think she thought I had a crush on her. Even then it's still messed up. |
| Question: Tonight is homecoming and im not going.? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 12:48 PM PDT All my friends have dates and no one asked me. I really wanted to go but cant because i dont even have a dress or ticket. What should i do tonight while everyone at school is having fun? |
| Question: Why are people like this on xbox? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 12:48 PM PDT I was invited to a party from a guy on my friends list. I joined and some British kid told me to suck ____ then kicked me and the guy won my friends list even though the kid's friend invited us. I sent him a message telling him that what he did is rude and ask him how he'd feel doing it to someone else. Then I got an invite so him and his friend could start shouting words of hate at me for no reason. There so edgy and I heard one of them scream at their brother to kill themselves. |
| Question: How do I keep going with lack of friends,family,or relationships? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 12:28 PM PDT I'm 19,graduated high school,work at a grocery store,and going to collie in spring! The one person who I had the best relationship with and who truely cared about me passed away.i've also lost several cousins.All my family I do have is out of town or state,they can't always visit me,Most of them act like I don't exist,and most of the people on my moms side are toxic.I feel like family is a important support,company,and connection that can't be provided with friends.i've always had social anxiety,problems with making friends,and keeping friends because I have aspergers.I want people in my life who are in my interests such as science,nature,and video games.i also want someone who can be like a grandpa or a mentor.I've never had a girlfriend or been in a relationship because i don't feel good about myself and never had to confidence to try,I feel bad about myself because I have acne bad,it's hard for me to get a tan,I'm skinny,and I don't always eat right.i've never had the chance to see a dermatologist or go to a gym to help my problems.i don't know where to go to make friends or get into a relationship.i want family but don't have much biological family,is there any kind of hope to get the kind of people I want in my life such as a grandpa? I know I can't bring my grandpa from the dead but I need someone that cares for me.this is one of the most suicidal situation for anyone.i'm only alive because I'm alive and it's like a death sentence not having anyone. I meat college when I said collie |
| Question: Annoyed with best friend? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 12:27 PM PDT My best friend and I attend different colleges, which makes it harder for us to hang out as often as we'd like. After she recently came out, I feel like we've been talking less and less. We talk through Whatsapp and are also in a group chat with her gf (who is a mutual friend) and 2 other friends. She makes time to reply to all group chat conversations and hasn't replied to my personal texts in almost 3 weeks. It even says she hasn't opened my texts on Whatsapp, I mean is there a way to make your messages Unread? I'm just so frustrated, and I feel like she's playing mind games with me because in the past I've taken up to 5-7 days to reply to her, but I've always given her a valid reason. She has responded to 5 group chat texts today already. |
| Question: What should I do for his birthday? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 12:24 PM PDT I met my friend on his birthday. It was when he was in 6th grade and I was in 7th, at a football game where we sold "Split the Pot" tickets. Now we're in 8th and 9th grade and I want to do something special for his birthday/our meeting anniversary. He doesn't know that I like him, we dated a week once but we were both really young and that never works out, you know? I moved but we still hang out sometimes, like we hung out at the fair yesterday. Any ideas on what I should do for his birthday? He likes The Walking Dead, The Beatles, Imagine Dragons, Minecraft and has social anxiety so a big, people-crowded place wouldn't be cool. |
| Question: I want to (leave) my friend? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 12:15 PM PDT It's hard to find good people in this country where I live.. I never thought this girl could turn out to be like this. I don't think it's a friendship when she leaves me sometimes and talks to other classmates. Once she yelled at me just because I didn't do what she wanted. She is just using me. It was 3rd week in this semister of school. I've met girl who I would like to be friend with. Now I'm thinking of how to leave my ex-friend... I need to leave her slowly. I mean not suddenly stop talking to her, but to get closer to that girl and slowly leave this friend.. But how? I would be glad if you guys help me about this. |
| Question: I used someone for friends and losing him meant losing them? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 12:12 PM PDT I really don't know how it all started. I hung out with him and seeing him as the leader I clung to him. He wasn't complaining though, as each day I was meeting new people, and new friends. They all really liked me at first, and did for months. That's when he turned on me. Was he jealous? I don't know. What I do know is after our constant fights and reunions where I held grudges and pretended to like him, because half of me felt I needed him to maintain the friends I have and another half wanted me to juice more new friends out of him. I remember, milk the cow dry was my exact thought. He was the cow, the new places, new friends, and new people were the milk. I geuss I got so caught up in it, I tolerated his wierd and all around the place prank personality and told myself that apparantly that's attractive. I had to stick to the magnet. Now that he's finally turned on me, so did his minions of friends. Who told me they would fight for him. Who told me I wasn't welcome even when he was the only one who wanted me to stay. Was it fake? Idk but did I still want to stick to a magnet that attracted hate in my direction? No. Now I miss his friends. And I truly wonder, was I cunning and succesfully manipulative atleast for a while. Or was I being played through my blindness? If there's anything I know, it's that I can look back and say, damn did I milk the cow dry. I met all but a few of his closer acquaintances and all his friends. I geuss it's time to find a new fat cow. |
| Posted: 30 Sep 2016 12:05 PM PDT Alright so in school we have to make an analogy for cells, And I REALLY want to do box of chocolates (Forest Gump man..) But my group members want to do a turtle or something...BUT COME ON! My mama always told me cells were like a box of chocolates..You never know what you're gonna get.....(?) |
| Posted: 30 Sep 2016 11:59 AM PDT My best friend is bi and she's been clinging to me all the time recently. Wherever I go she follows I literally adore her but not in any way other than friendship. We're both 16 so I'm guessing we're trying to find out whats what with our lives. She finds every opportunity to hug me and always tells me she loves me and how cure I look compared to other girls I don't know if it's just her being my best friend or if she's trying to tell me something I don't want to make assumptions but I'm just really confused loads of people have told me that she likes me but I don't want to ask I mean she's my best friend. Of course I love her but just not like that (I'm a girl) any advice on what to do? I don't want to hurt anyone or make things awkward |
| Question: How many close friends do you have? Do you prefer a small circle or tons of friends? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 11:58 AM PDT |
| Question: My best friend is seeing my underaged cousin? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 11:54 AM PDT I'm 18 years old and I have my own place. I have my little cousin (13 yr old female) staying with me. My neighbor told me that she's has been seeing my best friend since 5th grade (18 yr old male) picking up my cousin from my house while I'm at work for a little over a month now. I'm furious, neither my cousin or friend told me about this. My cousin and I had an argument but she agreed she won't see him again unless i was there with her. A week later I woke up in the middle of the night to take a piss and she was GONE. I discovered she left her phone on her bed and it had messages between her and my friend about he was going to pick her up. He had picked her up during the middle of the night!! The next day I confronted him and told him to stop picking up my cousin. He straight up told me "No" and that she was his friend. What do I do now?! |
| Posted: 30 Sep 2016 11:41 AM PDT I caught someone calling me an acquaintance not it a rude or demeaning manner just a normal way. But I have known them for over 4 years, and had always considered them a friend. After hearing that I questioned my other friendship turns out I don't have any. I'm going to be honest at first it hurt. But now I'm just afraid to put the word friend on anything. Has anything like this happen to you? I'm 25 male. Before last week I would have thought I had a dozen or so good friends turns out they were friends to me but I was nothing to them. I'm just glad none on them were rude about the misunderstanding. |
| Question: How should i apologise ? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 11:31 AM PDT I ve been going through a rough time at the moment and one of my friends asked me "what s it about" and wanted to know if I was ok over text but I didn t reply as I didn t want to talk about it. I now feel I should apologise but I don t know how or what to reply. Please help me, I don t want to say the wrong thing |
| Question: My friend and I fight sometimes? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 11:13 AM PDT I'm 15 my friend is 12 me and him get along really well but when we disagree we start screaming at eachother and swearing at eachother he can't control it he has adhd so after we fight we get to the point where we end the skype call 5 seconds later it's either me or him we call back and just start talking like nothing happened why do we do this? I am not taking any answers that involve me leaving my friends i'm very childish and some of them are all mature I have 5 friends that are 12 and 1 thats 13 the 13 year old and all of my other friends are all more mature than I am so any answers that involve me leaving my friends are out of the question i'd rather kill myself than ditch my friends anyone who tells me to ditch them can go to hell oh and we argue about video games and anime and stuff |
| Question: Why do I have a grudge towards guys and men? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 10:59 AM PDT I'm a 15 year old female and I've never had any crushes on guys. I have a lot of guy friends and I think they're great people. But somehow I just don't like them and I don't know why. Everyone seems to have developed crushes and such but I have never fallen for anyone and I don't see myself falling for anyone ever. Believe me people when I say that it's reality and it won't change. My question is why don't I like guys? I'm female so I should at least me attracted to them in some way. I don't like girls either lol |
| Question: I judt snapped and beat up my friend. Help ? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 10:58 AM PDT Yesterday at school one of my friend was mad on me bcause lately ive been ignoring him, and he started pushing me, i told him to stop but he was rlly angry and punched me in my jaw, god damn it hurt.There were people watching us and wanting a fight and i didnt wanted to be embarrassed so i fought back, were almost the same size but we punched each other until i managed to take him down and punch his face until he said he couldnt take it. I got up and he runned and cried. Now everyone is laughing at him at school and i tried to apologize but he ignored him. I dont really want to end our friendship we know each other till kindergarten, but in the past he beated me several times maybe thats why i got angry and broke his nose. Anyone who can help? Im not a bully or something but i couldnt stand it i defended myself. |
| Posted: 30 Sep 2016 10:56 AM PDT Hi :) I'm Annie, and I'm 13 years old. I guess you could call me one of the alternative folk. Anyhoo, My mom really suppresses me. Whether it's acting my age, how I dress, or what I eat, I don't get to have any choice. She makes me dress in dorky, embarrasing and preppy clothes. I wan't to choose my clothes, which I don't get to do. My friends ask me "Why do you always dress like that?" (Don't get me wrong, I don't want to go and dress like a stripper, but some choice would be nice instead of wearing a box to school. She bought me a phone, yet she doesn't let me use it. Kind of a waste of money, right? She doesn't let me go shopping or do other teenager girly stuff with my friends. I have never, ever done anything more than go to Claire's when I was 12 with my friend. I know she is trying to be healthy, which is fine, but the stuff she gives me... Yeuch. I don't get to choose my own lunch, and any opinion other than a good one causes her to flip! I can't disagree! Another thing I can't do is ask for things that I want. Not only am I terrified of asking her for stuff, but if I even did, she would go nuts. For my birthday, I got an autographed band t-shirt, signed by one of my favorite guitarists. Now she is teasing me about my 'grunge boyfriend'. I was excited- who wouldn't be? If you got a t-shirt autographed by Jimi Hendrix (I know he's dead, just an example because he is amazing), would you be excited? Ok, yeah. My rant is half over. *updating* I'm afraid when I go to college (I'm pretty good at school, I'm estimating that I'm going to graduate high school when I'm 16), that I'll go nuts expressing myself and actually being able to breathe! Help me please. I just want to express myself, and be a normal 13 year old. *imitates free bird flying away* |
| Question: Did i become anti social? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 10:51 AM PDT ever since what happened at KOHL's where the girls were gossiping about me, lying, giving me a hard time, i just dont want to socialise anymore. my new job has this man ditory party every year. i try my best to stay way from the other workers. i end up depress in the end. i just dont want to socialise with people anymore. had bad experience in the past and only prefer being aound family |
| Posted: 30 Sep 2016 10:50 AM PDT My bfs friend added me on instagram and i added her back and saw all her pics with my bf then she unfollowed me when i changed my picture and again when i changed my picture she blocked me. Why did she do this? What does she want me to do thet im not doing when i come online and she gets angry and she says ok she was online and she didnt do this so ill just unfollow her then delete her. I never liked any of her pics. Thanks |
| Question: Do women really typically do this? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 10:31 AM PDT My fiance and her roommate/best friend were going shopping this afternoon (pre planned) for an end of summer clearance sale. I came home at lunch today and my fiance yells out asking me to wait outside her bedroom while they "finish getting dressed". Apparently they claim they were trying on clothes and swimsuits to figure out what to throw away and what to buy before going shopping. They also were trying on some of each other's throw aways before throwing them away. But all I know is they were both more or less fully nude in my fiance's bedroom. They both acted natural, like this was no big deal. I didn't hear or sense anything odd going on, and neither have ever seemed to have any homosexual signs/tells, and the roommate does have a very serious boyfriend. I want to believe them but I cant imagine trying on swimsuits in the same room as my best friend. It just seems odd. Yet they were very calm like this is normal/natural. Is it? Merlin---yes I've used a locker room. I'm not a total modest person. But if I were changing clothes down to naked in my own house with a roommate, and we each had a room, we wouldn't strip down right next to each other. |
| Question: Is there a term for people who do not believe in "age"? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 10:22 AM PDT For people who believe that developmental stage(s). Should be taken into account over the number of years you have been alive. In grade school, many children are thrown together because they fall into a certain age group; meanwhile, some are getting "left behind" because they arent at the developmental stage required to keep up with the others |
| Question: I think my sister is trying to control me.? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 10:19 AM PDT So I've been looking at some people lately who have been looking at me for whatever reason, and I can't help but bring myself to glance at them out of curiosity or interest, right? Well, my sister doesn't seem to think that I should be doing that, and she'll do everything from standing directly in my field of vision so that I'm bombarded by her to re-positioning me so that I have no way of looking and trying to get their attention without making an obvious effort (turning my head or body around) to do so. And yet, she does the exact same thing with different people, especially people she fancies. When I try to confront her about the latter, she counters with my own actions in the past, and makes herself seem as though she has perfect control over herself while I'm just a pathetic freak who shouldn't be looking at people they're interested in. Worse yet, it seems that my father won't do anything to stop her, but will go after me for the slightest slip-up. I feel that, if I make myself emotionally disconnected from the people I want to interact with, then this conflict will stop. On that same token, I feel like I'd be giving her complete control over my actions, and that I'd hurt any potential friendships or relationships if I train myself to ignore or hate certain people without giving them a chance, all because of a sibling with a God complex who has the full support of a parent just like them. I need advice, I want to cry. |
| Question: I go to an all boys school-not good!!? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 10:19 AM PDT I'm I'm guy and I don't go to a mixed school. It's really fustratibg because allI see is testerone filled bodies. I seriously need to make friends with some girls. Plus soon I'm going to go crazy like when I want a girlfriend I won't be able to talk to girls becuse I've only been around guys. I still wanna have my guy friends but I would LOVE to talk to some girls my age. Where can I meet girls? |
| Question: I feel like men have taken pieces of my soul,? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 10:16 AM PDT They have sex with me, and I feel used. I feel dirty and invisible. I Had sex with 3 guys in 1 week, and one I let pay me to have sex with me, and slobber all over my-boobs, I feel so dirty and used. I feel like a piece of me is gone, What can I do to feel like me again? And, how do I get Love and not just Shock. |
| Question: I go to an all girls school and need new friends? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 10:10 AM PDT Ok so I have askd this question before but a comment made me realise how b*tchy I sounded myself. So let me explain. I'm my school you have you friends but there is one group that I can't stand. I'm not the one to just let people get bullied.They do that and they are always tweaking in class swering also. They like to make nasty comments and asked me so called friends I she likes me. So this girl and I are having an argument. Is she doesn't stop there. She says how she wouldnt want me as a friend and my friend said nothing. That hit a nerve becuse I was gave really accepted in primary or anywhere else for that matter. Because I was taller, bigger, and wasn't cool enough. Despite how big I am to others. I really want to make new friends i don't have anyone that is loyal to me. Or that we hang out when we want. It doesn't man it better that I love far from my school. Where can I meet some people? But now that I think about it in scared to.meet guys becuse I get really nervous and awkard around guys and girls prettier than me. Please help and Rebecca- please don't say counselling. |
| Question: I love my ex best friend. Is this wrong? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 10:05 AM PDT Several years ago I had depression and was almost suicidal. I wanted to break lose from everything and everyone and start a new life. Back then I never knew how much she meant to me. I didn't want her to end up with someone as negative as me although she loved me regardless of my flaws....I cut her out of my life and that's when I finally realized how much she meant to me. I tried to fix my flaws after suffering so much....all I can do right now is watch her from the shadows...I always thought love had genders but it doesn't you can't help with who you fall in love...How can I forget her..? and is it wrong? |
| Question: I go to an all girls school!!? Posted: 30 Sep 2016 09:53 AM PDT I can not stand being around girls all day. It so annoying. I wish I had like some nerdy guy best friend because girls suck. Really b*tchy and unloyal. For all those adults I recommend a mixed school I your child will: hate loads of people, become b*tchy. Please help me. Where can I make friends out I school. Like guys and some girls. I can't do my neighbourhood or volenteer. I tried swimming and i nearly got hit by a ball when i got close. Im a teenager. Please help me. |
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