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- Question: What should I message this guy?
- Question: What's the message in my "friends" actions?
- Question: What should I do about this friend?
- Question: I hate my new school?
- Question: Rather stay home than hang out with friends?
- Question: Tw. Which of these situations are sexual abuse? Help me please. Why or why not. V confused?
- Question: Where did you meet your true friends?
- Question: I feel like I'll never make any friends again?
- Question: My girl had an abortion?!?
- Question: My parents don't care that I'm depressed.?
- Question: How do I progress my friendship?
- Question: How to remove someone from my life?
- Question: How to get 9, 10, and 11 year olds to like me?
- Question: My "friend" wants to fight me?
- Question: Im in eighth grade and very short. My friends and others bully me a lot. This issue has made me really insecure. What do I do? :(?
- Question: Is online school a good option for a high school student?
- Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do?
- Question: Everyone says I am arrogant and mean.?
- Question: Is my friend trying to compete with me?
- Question: Should I take a break from the Internet?
- Question: How did you meet your best friend?
- Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do?
- Question: This might seem stupid... but how to get rid of guilt?
- Question: I'm trying to not be selfish?
- Question: Would you rather see your mom walk around the house with no shirt or your dad?
- Question: I have a REALLY BIG PROBLEM please answer ANY ADVICE HELPS PLEASE!!?
- Question: My best friends mum hates me!!?
- Question: If someone told a guy the girl he likes is a slut and a criminal would the guy tell the girl?
- Question: What should I do if a girl is being a slut in class?
- Question: Is 12 to young to go trick or treating with friends?
- Question: FRIEND KEEPS CRITICIZING ME!?!?!?!?
- Question: My friend has a tiger parent dilemma and I want to help her?
- Question: How should this be discussed? Help if possible?
- Question: My "friends" are bulling me.?
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- Question: Girls please answer this short question would be highly appricated?
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| Question: What should I message this guy? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 06:06 PM PDT The guy I like said he'd text me after his family vacation because he said he wanted to hang out. So I told him when I was avail. It's been one week since he got back from his vcay and he hasn't texted. But I have a gut feeling he's stringing me along. So should I ask him to hang out one more time, or do I text him saying that if he doesn't ever want to hang out let me know? |
| Question: What's the message in my "friends" actions? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 06:03 PM PDT I moved schools before school started. I've had the same friends since I was about 10. This particular group of friends (I have more then 1 group of friends) only contacts me when they need something or when it's convenient. I only see them when I have to now. I transferred schools to get out into the public and away from private school. We used to talk a lot last year. This group goes to my new schools pep rally's. They only sat with me because they didn't know anyone there then they didn't talk to me after. I later found out they went for some guy who used to go to school with us. That seemed so fake. Now they're bugging me to buy them homecoming tickets for my school dance which made me upset today. They didn't ask if they could go with me or anything like that. They know I'm not going because I don't know a lot of people yet. They can literally be involved with any other high school around cause I know they know people at each high school but this year, they're focused on my school. Idk why.. And it's getting annoying because They seem fake now🙁 Maybe I'm over reacting or maybe I have a right to be mad about this. Advice? |
| Question: What should I do about this friend? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 05:58 PM PDT Hi so I will try to make this story short. First, the background. I have this one friend (male and I am female) I went to high school with and we also go to the same college. We are sophomores. Last spring however, we had a fight. I offended my friend; I was spending less time with him and leaving campus every weekend to go back to my boyfriend's home (dated since high school). I was having some mental health issues so I kept trying to escape campus. Nonetheless, I am aware that this was dumb and awful. I was a terrible friend during this time; I would still see them during the week but never on weekends. Progressing forward, I wanted to talk to him about it and apologize in person but he did not. I discussed this with another one of our friends who said we should talk but he still did not want to. I respected this. He did begin to talk to me again but it never felt the same as it had before (obviously it wouldn't). Over the summer we did hang out, though and things seemed very good. Now college has started though, and he never responds to anything I send online/snapchat. He does not invite me to anything and I see him on the weekends, but only by inviting myself. I have a theory that over the summer we hung out because his other friends from college went back home. Now those friends are back and they all hang out all the time, and never include me. I guess I am asking what to do in this situation. He's really the only good friend I have so I feel quite alone. Thanks! |
| Question: I hate my new school? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 05:26 PM PDT I moved and I hate my school. There's this girl that's 12 and she already drinks and has a new boyfriend like every 3 days. I can't avoid her because we live on the same street and she always wants to hang out. Then there's this guy in our grade. I thought he was cool, but turns out he's a real jerk. I just hate everyone. They're all so rude and Immature and they act like they're 18.. At my old school no one had a boyfriend/girlfriend at 12, but here they start dating at 8! So many guys are asking me out and It's making me so uncomftrable! On top of that, I'm not a native english speaker (although my english is very good) and I literally had a mental break down when I was practising spelling with my mom. I totally embarassed myself, because I wasn't really crying about spelling, I'm just so tired of this school and this country. I moved across the sea and I miss my old friends. I miss my grandmas and my grandpa. I miss my grandma's dog, I miss my older sister. I miss my old life. I honestly feel like dying right now. So many people would want to be in my place right now and I thought I was gonna be happy. I was so excited to come here, but now that I'm here, I realise that your home is always the best. I'm sorry that this is really long I just have so much to say and I can't talk to anyone. What could I do to make myself feel better? Thanks. |
| Question: Rather stay home than hang out with friends? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 05:21 PM PDT Hey, im a 14 year old girl and I love my friends, but i prefer to stay home than go to the high school football games with them and hang out. It kind of makes me sad cuz i do want to hang out but i don't like those kind of events :/ so okks that normal, lol, but id rather stay home with my family |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2016 05:02 PM PDT I'll describe the situations. I'm 17 now. 1) I tried to pull away from this guy but he made me suck his dick, and got on top of me. 2) (Both 15 yrs old).I got drunk/high and couldn't walk straight.I approached a sober guy, led him to the back.We may have had sex? I don't remember. I sucked his dick drunkly,(offered) and he said that he felt guilty but then I remember something sliding inside me. I don't feel hurt by this. 3) I fooled around with a guy at school.We were 14.He led me to an isolated stairway and we made out. I liked it.The only thing he did wrong is he kept grabbing my hand,and putting it in his pants.I kept moving it away,but he kept grabbing it and putting it there.This happened 3x.i eventually gave in 4: I was 10. This person was 11. It was sort of incest though. He showed me porn, then said we should try it. It was consensual.He knew everything about sex. Idk how.He showed me EVERYTHING.He did some things without asking me,like he'd randomly finger me, I'd be terrified initially. I felt really guilty but nothing was forced |
| Question: Where did you meet your true friends? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 04:58 PM PDT Like, are you still good friends with people from high school, college, university, etc. |
| Question: I feel like I'll never make any friends again? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 04:55 PM PDT I try to be nice to people and I make the first move by saying hi, but later on I completely dread it and think I did something stupid. I'm not much of a funny person. I feel like I don't fit in! I had a best friend and friends in the 5th grade. But ever since I went to a new school in the 6th grade, EVERYTHING CHANGED. I lost all my friends and I became even more shyer than before. I haven't had any real friends since the 5th grade! What can I do??? please help :( I'm in the 10th grade now |
| Question: My girl had an abortion?!? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 04:51 PM PDT I was in a relationshipnce we was maybe 12 now Im 27. I got back and found out she had an abortion 6 weeks after I went to jail. Obvioualy this is years ago now but just finding out it feels new to me and its fckd up. I am hurt with my girl for 7 years but 5 of those years i did a sentence in prison for a crime i didnt commit. The only reason i got convicted was because i took the fall for her brother weve been friends si and ive been ignoring her calls but i can tell shes still hurting from it. What is the best way to react to this? |
| Question: My parents don't care that I'm depressed.? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 04:44 PM PDT I'm 14(female) and I've been depressed for a while. I'm constantly crying and I'm always upset. I think the main reason is that my parents never let me do anything with my friends. When my friends ask me to go on a sleepover, they say no. When they ask me to go shopping with them, my parents say no. I'm supposed to go on a bus to a nearby town this weekend with my friend who's moving away(I most likely won't get to see her ever again) but my parents won't let me. They let my sister do all of these things when she was my age but they don't trust me. I'm so depressed but they think I'm over exaggerating. What do I do? |
| Question: How do I progress my friendship? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 04:27 PM PDT I'm not really popular, but i do have a few popular friends. One of which I'm at a sort of awkward stage where I'm not super friendly with her but we still text a lot. I want to go up to her and talk to her more than i do, but I'm mortified that I'll say something stupid or have nothing to say and make it awkward. She's very popular and pretty, so i don't want her to think I'm weird. I honestly never thought i would make it this far, lol. Anyone have any tips? |
| Question: How to remove someone from my life? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 04:24 PM PDT There's actually two people. Both are girls that I've known for a while. I used to consider them friends, but they've been pretty mean and harsh to me lately. Now, I can take a joke, but when it gets too far, that's when I start to get mad. I've had sleepovers with these girls, and they consider me a close friend. I don't want to be their close friend anymore. I want to be nothing more than aquantances. They both don't understand my sense of humor, so when I say something that I think is funny, they always treat me like I'm dumb and stupid. Also, One of the girls claimes many times that she is better than me. She has said it to my face many times. The other one is too controling. She forces me to do things that I don't want to do. Like, if we're at her house, and I'm tired, she'll make me stay up and play games with her. If I don't she'll slap me. I can't take it anymore. I don't want to be their friend anymore. What can I do to get them out of my life? I know it's super unhealthy to have people like that around me. |
| Question: How to get 9, 10, and 11 year olds to like me? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 04:22 PM PDT I'm barely 13 and in 7th grade, and I am helping with an afterschool program at the elementary school I went to. 2 of my friends also help out, and the kids seem to like them more, but I don't know why. What can I do? |
| Question: My "friend" wants to fight me? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 04:12 PM PDT so i am in high school and me and this other kid who i thought we were friends for almost a year (its a group of friends and we pick on eachother a lot, more than often me) but we are still chill and talk like regular friends. today we started being racist towards eachother in stupid ways just to be funny at first but it started getting a little heated and left him upset because i ended up slapping him which we do a lot to eachother (not on face, just back). well he kept sending me snapchats calling me racist even though he started being racist in the first place, calling me a cousin ****** and other white terms like school shooter, and i called him a goat ******. as bad as that sounds i am not sure if he is being serious about fighting me, as he said "im gonna beat your *** when i see you" which is not normal for him... i honestly dont really like them but sometimes i do. should i just ask a counseler if i should switch my classes? i cant just move seats because they will just insult me from across the room and expect me to do it back which im tired of. I don't want to go up to a teacher and say I am being bullied or something, cause ill just be looked at like a pussy and ****. maybe if i talk to a counseler and stay anonymous but they will still know who it is i feel like... please help. |
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| Question: Is online school a good option for a high school student? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 04:01 PM PDT I really just don't find myself happy or jovial in public high school anymore. I want to do online school, but my parents are reluctant. I feel like it'd be a better choice for me, but my parents really don't think it'll be healthy, and the only reason is because so many of my friends left to do online. I am in grade 10 this year, so it's not like I haven't encountered social interactions and I know how to converse with other peers and adults around me. Almost all of my friends are switching to online K-12, and other virtual school academies and they absolutely adore it! (One of the reasons I want to go) One of my friends switched last year and two of my other friends just recently switched this year, even though school has been going on for a month. I think two of my other friends are also contemplating whether or not to go, and one of my friends, Haley's last day is tomorrow. They all say it's a breeze and have a more flexible schedule to get their work done, plus most of them are ahead, and they still hold in contact with friends and do sports via my school and have jobs, so they don't miss out on the, oh so essentials of social interactions. What are your opinions? In some ways, yes I want to go because of my friends, but it's primarily because I strongly feel like it'd be a lot better for me. I know it's not for everyone, but I want to give it a shot since those around me say it's a good choice if you abhor, or don't like public high school. Just wanted to type this for clarification, if you're gonna be brusque and curt about how I said my friends leaving wasn't a reason, then I say it's one in the second paragraph. |
| Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 03:50 PM PDT Ok so today at school I was sitting down and some girl that sits at the same table as me was starring at me and would just keep starring at me and wouldn't take her eyes off of me then she started laughing out loud all of a sudden and I didn't even know what was so funny and I didn't even do anything funny. I felt like she was making fun of me or was thinking I'm ugly inside her head that's why she was laughing out loud when she looked at my face. I'm in high school. What do you think of this situation and what should I do? |
| Question: Everyone says I am arrogant and mean.? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 03:23 PM PDT I am not trying to be arrogant by saying what I am going to say: I have been president of my class for four consecutive years. I have always been seen as "The most popular kid in the grade". The teachers all know me and ALL the girls in the grade used to like me. This year, people keep telling me I am a jerk. I kept saying to myself "They are just jealous" "Don't pay attention". But this has taken a toll on me, as I have lost friends and my "standing". I just want to go back to the good old days. I don't want to have to worry about others hating me. I just wanna be me. I want to thank you for you answers. They help so much! For example, what can I do tomorrow to start changing how people think of me? |
| Question: Is my friend trying to compete with me? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 03:00 PM PDT me and my friend hadve been hanging out for two years now. and since the first day of school i told her i wanted to drop a class and i did. i told her it was bc i wanted to have more time for a job and start driving. and she mentioned how she was too busy for a job. then two weeks later she is bragging to me about all of the places she applied for. and the same week she braged about how she has two interviews now. and about how she is going to get her drivers liscense because her parents bought her a new car. we talked about going shopping and i said wait until i get more money, then she says lets wait until she gets her paycheck. which she hasnt even had the interview yet. . especially how i mentioned i was going to do everything shes doing Weeks and days before. shes never acted like that. she asked my referance to be her referance.. (she knew i asked her to be my referance a week before) and told me how she got exited for her and was going to help her get a job in the medical field when she is 18. ( we are both interested in the medical field) i am not jelous, in fact im glad for her but i feel like she is doing everything on purpose to rub it in my face. |
| Question: Should I take a break from the Internet? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 02:57 PM PDT This sounds stupid but lemme explain. The Internet has always been my kinda safe space. There are lots of things I'm so much more confident about doing online, like posting my drawings, but recently I've been considering just ditching social media for a while. My tumblr blog has gained popularity in the past few years, but I've suddenly seen so much more anonymous hate in my inbox. It's usually people calling me out on stupid things, or just blatantly without reason insulting me. I know anonymous hate is stupid, but the reason I retreated online in the first place was because I'm too sensitive. The worst part is that only people I've allowed to follow me can see my posts, so the people constantly calling me out and sending me hate are obviously people I trust, or perhaps an even online friends with. The reason this is so difficult for me is because I love the feeling that people are seeing what I create and there are a lot of things on the site that I'm passionate about, so it'll be hard to leave. What should I do? |
| Question: How did you meet your best friend? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 02:57 PM PDT |
| Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 02:50 PM PDT Ok so at school today I was sitting down and the people I sit with randomly started bothering me because one of them said something in Spanish that I didn't understand and I said yes in Spanish and one of them lied and whispered to one of them that I said I want sex. Then they all started laughing and saying that I said I want sex when I didn't even say that. Then they asked if I had an argument with one of the people I sit with in the table. Then the person they asked if I had an argument with said something about me to get me to say something to her but I didn't and they were all telling me to say something back to her. Then one of them asked me how long is my hair and I didn't even say the correct length because I knew they were going to just make me feel bad about myself if I said it was really long. Then one of them asked me if I think I'm cuter than everyone else sitting at the table. Then I said yes. Then they all started laughing. Then they were talking to each other in low voices then I heard them saying something about to look at me from the side. This embarrassed me and make me feel insecure about myself. Then they even told one of the girls that I said I think I'm cuter then her and she started screaming and getting angry and they all started running and laughing. I'm in high school. What do you think of this situation and what should I do? |
| Question: This might seem stupid... but how to get rid of guilt? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 02:43 PM PDT So today in English class we had to present a paper that we did with our group and I didn't want to read so I asked another girl in my group if she could read my part because I "lost my voice". I didn't think much of it until we got to that part and she decided to announce to the whole class that I had lost my voice so she was reading it for me. A few people were in that class that I had eaten lunch with and had other classes, so they obviously knew I was fine. But those people that I knew weren't my "best" friends or anything so I dont want to seem like a liar, considering school just started. The other people I don't personally know made me feel judged and like a liar. And afterwards I talked to one girl with my regular voice after school and then I realized she was in my English class!!! I don't want to feel like a liar!!! HELP ME PLEASE! P.S. I go to a special academically advanced school which has zero cheating policies and lieing polices! |
| Question: I'm trying to not be selfish? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 02:39 PM PDT Me and my bestfriend are extremely close, but I have a huge problem with competition. I always try to 1-Up her when she gets something good, or does something well. I hate this part of myself, because ironically I HATE people who are selfish and snobby. I try as hard as possible to control this mentality but it bothers me to no end. Help! |
| Question: Would you rather see your mom walk around the house with no shirt or your dad? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 02:37 PM PDT When I say no shirt I mean no bra either. Completly barchest. I was at this party and some guy ask this question. Most of the guys at the party said their mom. They were drink of crouse but then it had me thinking. Would you rather see your dad walk around the house with his chest showing or your mom? |
| Question: I have a REALLY BIG PROBLEM please answer ANY ADVICE HELPS PLEASE!!? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 02:34 PM PDT I'm 16 and a girl. My friend is throwing a party and her parents won't be home nor do they know about it, my dad is working that night over night and said I could go but he doesn't know there's not gonna be supervision. I'm carpooling with my other friend. He just wants the phone number of my friends parent just in case of an emergency (he usually would only call if there was actually an emergency, not just for no reason). I don't know what number to give him. What number do I give him??? I don't to give him her actual parents number because he might call and then we would all get busted. What should I do??? Advice??? Help!!! (Btw do not try to tell me I shouldn't go or that it's a bad idea, because I'm going to go still no matter what warnings you give me). |
| Question: My best friends mum hates me!!? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 02:31 PM PDT So basically I have been Best friends with this girl for like 11 years. So this guy liked me and I liked him so we would all hang out. He was quite a bad influence as he smoked and spat as swore but he was very nice. She liked him but in the friend way. One day her mum found out that she hung out with him and told her not to stay with them. My friend told her that I loved him (I didn't ) and her mum started saying I'm just disappointed that you would hung out with these boys. She didn't seem upset at all but my friend said that I'm allowed to hang out with her but If i chose to hang out with him she is not allowed to stay with us. My friend and her mum have a year to get over this do you think they will get over it ? It's not only her mum it's her too as she agrees with her mum. My friend says she agrees with her mum and that her mum was right how do I fix this?? |
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| Question: What should I do if a girl is being a slut in class? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 02:21 PM PDT One of my friends (We will call him Adam) asked her (calling her Kirsten) out to homecoming and hasn't got a response since then. That was two weeks ago. They ended up not going to homecoming for some reason. In class today, the class talked about how an article relates to the presidential debate and when the teacher said Kirsten should speak for bringing up a good point about it, she announces in front of the entire class "ADAM THINKS I LOVE HIM. I DONT GIVE A SH** ABOUT HIM." She also has a history of being late to class with her friend (ditching) and she even said in an article "So last year, I was anorexic..." Who says that? A slut. She does these things just for attention. After witnessing Kirsten randomly yell about Adam being in love with her rather than actually talk about the debate, I considered whether or not to report this incident to a trusted adult so she can get punished. What should I do? |
| Question: Is 12 to young to go trick or treating with friends? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 02:20 PM PDT OK so I would like to trick or treating with my friend, but I'm not sure my mom will let me. She got mad yesterday because I didn't invite her to the volleyball game I wanted to watch with my friend. I love in a really small country town in Arkansas. So do you think I'm to young? |
| Question: FRIEND KEEPS CRITICIZING ME!?!?!?!? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 02:14 PM PDT I have this one friend (which is my "best"friend) which is better in school and get higher grades than me, but he keeps saying to me out of nowhere, even if i haven't said a word "why are you so bad at everything school related" and "why are you in school for? you are not gonna be anything good when you graduate". He also keeps getting mad when I'm browsing clothes. Like when i was just sitting at my table not saying a word and he just says that it's ugly and i can't afford it (which i can) and why do i keep looking at clothing and asking about his opinion (when i didn't ask him about it) and when i ask him about his opinion he just completely turns and flips the f*ck out, talks **** to me and just overall being a ******* narcissist. But when he ask me about my opinion i'm just calm and saying my opinion, but if i get one word wrong he's mad at me.. |
| Question: My friend has a tiger parent dilemma and I want to help her? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 02:04 PM PDT My friend has parents from Korea, they moved her about 25 years ago and are very strict (stereotypical, I know). She's in college, 18 years old and no where to go but up. She's finally decided she wants to go in to music because it's been a part of her life since she was very young. It was a tough decision for her privately, because she know show hard it will be to get into the field and succeed. She also had a hard time due to the fact that her parents would obviously never approve of such a horrendous idea. Every time she tries to even explain to her parents she doesn't want to do what they want (as respectfully as she can) her parents still turn away and tell her she doesn't know what she's talking about. We aren't saying we've lived in the real world and know what we're talking about, but there's obviously some value in saying that you know what you want to do for the rest of your life and following through with that rather than sitting down and doing as you're told. She absolutely does NOT want to just go against them and throw away everything they've done for her, but she doesn't know how to explain to them, and keep them listening, that she wants to take a different path in life than what they want. So my question is, has anyone ever successfully gotten around this with their parents in a relatively smooth way, or is there just going to be a lot of rough weeks ahead for my friend? Thank you so much, specific examples and/or stories are welcomed. |
| Question: How should this be discussed? Help if possible? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 02:02 PM PDT Problem: I have a friend who is a dental nurse. She has a friend that's getting married, her friends fiance came to his appointment, he filled out his health history medical info, my friend learned that he was HIV positive, the finance asked my friend to not share this info with his fiancé. Further Questions: How should my friend handle this? Should my friend be sharing this info with other friends even when they been told by their friends not to share it? Is it illegal to share this info to anyone, even your friends or anyone? She told me about this and asked me for advice, I told her that I don't know how she should handle it and maybe she should ask her boss (dentist) of how personal info like this should be handled. Would you save the friendship and possibly get fired or would you save your job by following rules properly? Could the patient sue her for revealing the information.What are the legal actions a patient can take if a dental employee revealed someone's medical info to their friend or anyone? Should my friend discuss this with her friend? Can she discuss this with her friend 'legally'? Should she discuss this with the faculty? How should she handle this information? |
| Question: My "friends" are bulling me.? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 02:02 PM PDT So I recentley moved and I go to a new school with all new people. So I made about 3 friedns that I thought I could trust. So I felt I could tell them anything. I like my choir teacher and I know that its not a good idea and it won't go anywhere and I know that but I still wanted to tell them. So I told them and they made fun of me, which I knew would happen, but its gone to far. They say horrible things when I'm near him and they just laugh. The things they say make me feel sick and I've told them to be quiet because people hear the but they won't stop. I can't go to anyone because they'll find out I like a teacher. What should I do? |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2016 01:57 PM PDT One of my roommates, Anna has been mean to me since we moved in together. And I have started to notice that the other two roommates have stopped talking to me. Last night, one of the other two roommates, Ashley, dragged me into her room and said that she doesn't care what I did to upset Anna but I have to go apologize to her because she is worried about my safety. She said I need to watch over my food and my stuff if I refuse to apologize to Anna, she also said that Anna threatened that she would send my cats away if I don't apologize. Ashley also said that if Anna really did something to me, the other roommate, Jiaxu, would back up any alibi story Anna says because Anna keeps buying her stuff and she herself will not also testify against Anna because she wants no trouble. I tried to go to police today even though they said on the phone I can file a report if someone else heard the threats the police there says I can't file a report based on hearsay. What should I do?Also, I asked Ashley why does Anna hate me so much, she told me that Anna is mad at me for unfriend one of her male friends on social media. She wants Ashley to pass the message that she would let me go if I apologize to her friend and her and friend her friend again. I'm really worried because I am an international students with no family in US and I can't always be home to watch over my cats. I would really appreciate it if someone can help me and tell me what I can do to protect myself. |
| Question: URGENT PLEASE HELP =(? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 01:55 PM PDT listen This girl I denied to homecoming I denied her because she's a psycho person. Told her friend which is the girl I like (she's her friend too) now she doesn't talk to me as much. I told my friend and now he dmd her telling her I like her and she said she doesn't like me like that he then swore at her WTF DO I DO PLEASE IM DRIVING MYSELF NUTS I deleted my snapchat. I'm a f***** wreck do I text her and ask idk if he even did but he knows her IG I'm so pissed |
| Question: Everyone thinks I'm stupid and weird, and I want to die.? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 01:53 PM PDT I don't know why, but it seems that smart kids think I'm stupid and popular kids think I'm weird. I'm just being myself. But, I'm tired of everyone treating me like trash. So, I'd rather not be myself, if it means people will leave me alone. Does it get better after highschool? What usually happens to people like me? Do outcasts generally stop getting bullied after highschool? Of course I try not to care what people think, and for the most part, I don't. But, everyday people barrage me with insults and it just takes a toll on you. Also, I get that this is a first world problem. Okay, I'm not a slob, I'm clean cut so I can blend in. Also, I get good grades, I'm polite and I try to keep to myself. But, I can't be social because it doesn't matter what I say, people will make fun of me. Once you're labeled an easy target everyone, including other outcasts, will make fun of you. I would be more of a laughing stalk if I stood up for myself. |
| Question: Opinions/advice: younger friends? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 01:32 PM PDT My circle of friends is kinda small (about a dozen) and of them only 3 are my age (30). The rest vary from late teens to late 20s and I met them through college, work, and outdoor events. Some I've known for years, but I've come to value their friendship and we get along fantastically. I understand the perils of hanging out with minors. But the others I'm confused. One woman even told me I need to cut off all but the 3 my age! I'm an active person. I pay my bills, work, and am also working on a career change. So I'm not trying to relive my youth. To be brief I have difficulty connecting with people my age, many of whom are parents. I have no desire to force friendships. Is this really so unusual? Or is it that my elders are stuck in an older mindset and there's nothing wrong with having younger friends? I'm getting kinda tired of everyone's input on my life and unwanted advice on where to meet people. |
| Question: POLL I LOVE THIS SONG AND I DONY CARE WHAT YOU SAY? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 01:24 PM PDT Saying you don't like wont change my opinion of anything I don't care IDC IDC I LIKE THIS VIDEO AND I LIKE THIS SONG OKAY IDGAF http://youtu.be/5_msHpEa3_Y POLL what is your definition of institution❓😊 |
| Question: First bra fitting. What to expect? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 01:23 PM PDT I'm going for my first bra fitting today because my bras never fit. I don't know how it works. Im going to a independent lingerie boutique that has signs advertising fittings but no real details. I made an appointment. 1) Will they take me somewhere private? 2) How many women will be there to do the fitting? 3) Do I get altogether topless? I'm not overly modest around women, but I have no idea the protocol 4) If so, when? How will I know when to strip down? 5) How long will it all take? 6) What should I wear to the fitting? 7) It'll be a woman/women, right? Thanks so much. |
| Question: Como le puedo hacer para ligarme a esta chica? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 12:56 PM PDT Es una chica con novio pero ella nunca lo ha visto en persona. Ella lleva una relación a distancia con el y siento que esta solo perdiendo el tiempo pues está muy joven (tiene 23 años y yo igual). Yo he salido con ella y ella ha aceptado salir conmigo pero como amigos. Incluso siento que ella me está metiendo a la friendzone lo cual no quisiera estar o al menos salir si es que ya lo soy. Casi siempre le invito a cenar y ella acepta y hasta hemos ido al cine solos nosotros 2 sin nadie mas pero en las conversaciones ella intenta meter a su novio y recordad que lo ama y que es "genial" pero siento que yo sería mas genial que su novio. Algún truco o manera de que me haga caso o al menos lograr que se acueste conmigo? Espero su respuesta. |
| Question: I haven't hang out with my much and I'm already in high school.? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 12:56 PM PDT When I moved her like to where I live like ten years ago I had many friends in my neighborhood. The ones I hung out with the most were the ones next door. However I have gone from hanging out with them thrice a week to once a week to once every few weeks and now to only be limited to hanging out with them on special occasions like they're traditional New Years party. Can you somehow revive a friendship that faded from out over the years? How |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2016 12:53 PM PDT I am a freshman in college and really am at a loss for something that happened today. I share a room with three other girls, and today two of them complained that they've "had to see me naked." I wasn't sure what that meant but they were really on me and acting like I'm all inapropriate. It suddenly dawned on me that they had been going down the hall to change clothes in the restroom stall all semester. I never realized it cause I wasn't paying attention/keeping track. They didn't really tell me I was causing a problem, but they certainly teased me and made me feel very weird. But I think it is ridiculous to expect me to go to the bathroom to change in a dirty toilet stall twice (or three) times a day. I have never (and would never) hung out naked, done homework naked, or anything like that. I wear a robe to the shower and back, etc. Is it really against roommate protocol to simply change your clothes?!? I'm worried I maybe missed something and am one of the "naked people" and just don't realize it. My summer camp growing up had wide open group showers, and I had 3 sisters, so I'm relatively comfortable changing around women (well comfortable is a big word, but it doesn't freak me out). But while I'm not a modest mouse, I am FAR from well here I am!!! Woohoo!! I think I'm reasonably discreet, and actually reasonably modest. But is it really inapropriate to get changed in my own dorm room without going to extreme lengths of hiding myself? I have also (in fairness) been nude while drying off after a shower in the dorm room.....but ONLY when there was a line for my shower and I didn't want to keep the next girl waiting while I dried off (so I put my robe on and went back and dried off in my room). So like two or three times total. And, just as with changing, I didn't like do a polka or sit down and eat a salad. I just took care of business and got dressed |
| Question: Does This Girl From Another Country Like Me? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 12:39 PM PDT There is this girl that lives in Vietnam that I have started talking to very frequently - everyday and for several hours at a time. I first met her in May where we talked only once and only for a few minutes. I don't know why, but I randomly messaged her this early September and somehow we've been talking everyday for hours at a time. She said she originally thought I was weird but now she likes talking to me. I asked her if she would meet me if I were to travel to Vietnam (as I often do) and she originally used to say no. But we kept talking, and now she even said she missed talking to me. I then asked her if she would meet me in December which is when I plan on going to Vietnam, and she said maybe. I eventually got a yes for December, but I cannot wait and told her I want to come in October. She agreed to that now, too... The thing that throws me off is that she keeps saying that I am a very good friend of hers. She says things like, "I don't even talk to best friend this much, it's so weird." She's very obviously a conservative type of girl by the way she dresses and the way she acts. We also video chatted one time only over these 3 weeks, but when we did, all we did was laugh. I could not look at her as I'm a bit of a shy guy, and she as well. She could only cover her mouth and laugh and look away, it was kind of cute. But now she's scared to video chat again. We also have voice note conversations quite often now as well. Am I just a friend or does she like me? |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2016 12:13 PM PDT I will climb on anyone if I have to. I will fake liking anyone if that's what it takes. I'll balance my schoolwork, but I'm still at planning stage. I see myself as an ethical person however, and how ethical is this master plan to gain a ton more aquantances and disposable friends I'll never show the real me. I don't want to to let it consume me however, and I'd like to know how ethical it is. Personally I feel I might be using a few dirty unethical tricks but the greater good is popularity, which results in a less depressed me, which translates to better grades and an overall better life. If I have a better life, and power, the ethical guy (me) can do whatever I feel is right. I'll have to ignore my conciouss however to get there but I don't mind. |
| Question: Girls please answer this short question would be highly appricated? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 12:06 PM PDT So basically ive noticed that when i try to have a converstation with girls not all in general but a few. They tend to not wanna keep the eye contact but with my friends they have no problem. Is it that im ugly something what can it be? |
| Question: Why do people love being rude to me? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 11:35 AM PDT I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm very polite and sweet according to some. Today, I step in my school's library and say hi to a friend who was with another ***** who acted very rude to me. I didn't finish what I had to say and says bye. This girl is really rude but I'm not rude :( When I was in love with a guy, he would take advantage of my feelings. Why are people like this? |
| Question: I'm torn between two things? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 11:34 AM PDT So I live in this Homophobic country where gay people are killed. So me and my friend are always bored, so we talk **** about others. Lately we've been getting dirt on everyone so we can spread rumors and know everyone's secret. We found out about a gay guy and he doesn't know that he's being stalked, so he talks openly about being gay and having a crush on someone in his class (I know who it is). We're really excited that we found something, and we also have his account's password and we can see all his DMs. My friend is planning on blackmailing him and then exposing him, but he needs more dirt so he can tell everyone about everything. Today, I feel so bad about the poor guy and I don't want anything bad to happen to him. I can't talk to him on Twitter because my friend can see all the DMs and I don't want him to know, also if I talk to him at school my friend will figure it out. Right now I don't know what to do, do I stay loyal to my friend and do nothing or should I break his trust to save the guy? I'm sick of being nasty and I'm just so over it. Please help me I need to know what to do before anything happens. |
| Question: I think I'm too attached to my fiancé. HELP? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 11:09 AM PDT Im getting married in 3 months. My fiance is my very best friend, and we have lived together for 2 years. Ive ALWAYS been a homebody, so I've always enjoyed just staying home, but I'm afraid I'm going to start losing friends. For example: tonight I got invited to go to a friends house for a girls night. I REALLY just rather not go and stay home and be with my fiancé. Being without him just for even one night makes me sad, but I'm pretty sure this isn't normal and idk what to do about it. I'm obvisouly very attached to him and I'm afraid my friends are going stop being my friend because I can "never do anything with out him" which is obviously true... |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2016 10:59 AM PDT My friend and coworker is planning on leaving her job and moving in with a friend of hers and the friends child. The divorce process has just begun and the custody battle is just beginning. I really don't want to lose a very good worker and have to try and replace her. She is young and making a big mistake (I believe) by doing this. I don't want to tell her what to do but, I want her to understand what she is getting into.. |
| Question: Please, someone give me an answer...? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 10:58 AM PDT What do i do...I have feelings for a girl that doesn't care about meat all and im aware of it too. Im aware that she is lying but i keep getting into her...This is my last resort, no one wants to hear a 14yr olds problems, not even my own parents, they keep telling me to grow up but i realize its this age and time where the things 5\that influence me now might and will stay with me forever...i cant trust anyone, not even my friends, people are always lying and ive been through it... cheated on time upon time, lied to time upon time... i want to have friends but how do i know who to trust, why cant i just find someone and be happy like all of these other 14-15yr olds. |
| Question: What to do about a co-worker/friends talking ****? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 10:53 AM PDT Ok, basically there are 4 of us that sit in a quad like desk with dividers. Two of us on one side and two on the other side. She's on the other side. Well the other day, my music stopped and I heard her talking about me. And I was gonna say something, but I think it's better to just listen when people think they aren't being heard. Anyway, what she said was how she helped me the other day. Everything was fine and I think she just needed a reason to talk because she had nothing better to do. But that's making me feel different about being her friend because I've told her so much, I feel like I can't trust her... We both work for a decently sized company and I'm 24 and she's 23. So we aren't like kids... I don't know if I should confront her, or if I should act like I don't know. And just today the other girl whispered my name seeing if I could hear them talk, which I think is pathetic, but I didn't say anything. I fear one day I'll just burst and cuss them all out, but I'm trying to stay cool. |
| Question: Want to add my face book acct? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 10:28 AM PDT |
| Question: Gift ideas to send through the mail, but on the cheap side for shipping? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 10:24 AM PDT My best friend lives 800 miles away from me... Last year we sent each other gift boxes, but the shipping was around $10-15. I can't afford that amount for shipping on top of her present price. Gift cards would be cheap, but those are impersonal? Any ideas to spice up the gift card idea? Or any other ideas? |
| Question: Why did I get upset after hearing it? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 10:21 AM PDT Ok so I'm a girl and I heard that my ex friend really likes this one boy. Why am I upset anyway? I felt really sick to the stomach for the rest of the day. I shouldn't care why did I end up feeling this way? |
| Question: Are you a grudge-holder? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 10:10 AM PDT I'm not about petty things but holy **** I can be. I take things like betrayal and dishonesty WAYYYYYYYYY harder than most. Which really sucks. Being bitter and resentful is really ******* crippling. I got cheated on 8 years ago, and the worst part is he lied to me about it for MONTHS. And I'm STILL mad about it. He's dead to me. I could use advice on how to let **** go from the more optimistic folk out there. |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2016 10:00 AM PDT Okay, so i met this girl in college and we became pretty good friends. As time went on i obviously learned more and more about her. At first she basically told me she ***** a bunch of guys a lot and i was like okay i mean im not really like that but whatever doesnt really bother me too much. Then this ***** makes a seeking arrangement account where you talk to old men and try to get money off of them basically. And as before i was like o okay a little weird but whatever.. But what really made me question if i should continue our friendship is that she said was going back to the city and getting money to suck this random guys dick... and to me that sounds like prostitution and im not really about that at all and think thats disgusting and so degrading and i dont know what i should do... me and my other friend alexa who also "friends" with this girl both feel the same way. LIke i personally do not want to be associated with someone who sucks dick for money... But she seems to like me a lot and opens up to me and always wants to be with me but i really think what shes doing is really gross and im not about that life. |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2016 09:44 AM PDT She has a lot of friends although most of them are just acquaintances. We used to be friends two years ago until we fell out and things were never the same. She got badly injured this week and I got really worried about her. Anyway I wanted to talk to ask her how she was feeling but she ignored me with a grim face. That's why I gave up trying to talk to her. Now she noticed I'm ignoring her and she's desperatly looking at me in class. She even went in front of my desk to catch my attention but I just continued with my work emotionlessly. Why is she so sad? she has friends unlike me who only has 2 good friends. Why does she feel upset? |
| Question: Why do people hate me? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 09:09 AM PDT I never fit in. I don have any friends. Many people left me. A lot of people annoy me, the once that are all about party raving ( geminies mostly ). I try finding friends and when i find someone to talk to they only use me for their selfish reasons. Whether they dont have anyone to go out with and im like the their last option, or they need my parents ride and are bored. I went parting once with one girl and she acted like i dont exist. I kissed a stranger and she started gossiping and half an hour later she did more than just kiss him. ( im not the party type person, probably never partying again ). When we went to shisha bar i got really sick and wanted to leave, she told me to go myself where ever i want because she wants to smoke here. Even my cousin started ignoring me. ( she was very close to me ) I have no one, parents only and they annoying af. |
| Question: Blamed for what I didn t do? :l? Posted: 28 Sep 2016 08:27 AM PDT So Today 3rd lesson was Music, And as it was music our class nearly did nothing as always. While I was sitting in the back with my friend which is little bit retarded. He draw a shitton of penises on those music books which teacher gives to us. So those Books were kinda full of those things as always but he Draw like 5-7 of them. This evening My mom got a call from music teacher and our school social worker. I think they wanted to talk about this, I don t think I can prove that it wasn t me Because The Social Worker is aunt of my friend who d never do this . Thoughts? |
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