Even though my wife has known her gay friend for years I think that it is just not right. I am her husband and I should be the only man cuddling with her in bed regardless of sexual orientation. I just recently realized this was happening. She played it off like it was no big deal. To me it is. She should share her cuddling intimacy with me and no one else. My heart feels like in a way it s cheating. Especially since she has been secretive about it. Now that I know this has been going on for years it upsets me. She drives 2 hours away to spend time with her college friends and spends the night at his place. In the past I didn't mind that she took a weeked trip to hang out with college girlfriends and her gay boyfriend, but now knowing she sleeps and cuddles with him in his bed I do mind. I just don't know how to approach a conversation about it without it turning akward from here on out.

The day i broke it off with my finace, i meet a guy in a wierd kind of situation, and we instantly clicked. Two months later we still talk on a daily bases and i have feeling like i know him my whole life. Its just we have perfect way of communicating with eachother (something i couldn't have achieved with my fiance in the last 5 years). We have so many common interests, we like the same things, we have same views about lots of things in life , its like he is my other half i didnt even knew exist. In meantime, my ex fiance is calling me to give him another chance and try to repair the things between us (he is desperate). If i didnt met this other guy i would probably give him the chance, but now im wondering if meeting the other guy is some sign that i can be a lot happier in my life with a better person. Its a like a destiny we met the same day i broke up. For some of you this may be stupid way of thinking, but i wanna hear opinions. I am not religious person, but i want to belive that there is something in this universe...some energy maybe. Thank you

Me and my boyfriend never really cared much about money. To us it was just an object. We spent it left and right and even handed money out to other people but now we are attempting to be adults lol. We moved out and got our very own place that we rent! We then said we would need to save money and we thought "Well, it couldn't be that hard! Just stop spending money on useless things!" ... Easier said than done! He gets paid every other week and his paychecks are usually around 680-800 then I get paid every week but that's only around 70-100. Then we think to ourselves that 20$ wont make a dent out of the money. So we just keep spending and spending telling ourselves that we're only spending a little bit. BUT IT ADDS UP, TRUST ME. Just a few days ago he got a bonus 1200$ We spent 450$ on bills and thought the rest of the money would last us a long time! Sike. We now have 9$ to our name. WE GOT A PROBLEM. We tried making budgets. We just love eating out and buying things we will probably never see again! Sometimes i'm not even sure where the money went because we literally go spending crazy! I would like to make it very clear that we are in no way struggling! We do pay bills and get all of the needs before anything! We would just like to have money in the bank incase of emergencies.

OK so I'm 18 years old and I graduated high school this May. I was supposed to go to school in NY but it was expensive so I decided to instead go to a school four hours away from home and they said that if I left home they would disown me. I enrolled in a college nearby (35 miles away) and got accepted, went to orientation, selected my classes all in two days so my dad wouldn't have to drive there every day of the week since I have no car. The day before class started, my dad told me to withdraw and start in January bc it was gonna be a pain for him to be driving me, to take this time to work and save money to buy my own car that it was gonna be ok. So I do what he tells me, I've been working one month somewhere and already got promoted, I make $11 an hour, I'm a good kid, I clean, I cook, I barely ever go out... and they still don't wanna help me get a car. I can't even bring up them helping me in the process of getting a car because they go ballistic. Today my dad asked me to borrow money and I told him I would if he helped me get my license (I'm mostly ready for the test I just need to perfect my 3pt turns) and he said that he gave me everything I asked for as a child and I had turned filthy and manipulative. I don't know what to do. I'm scared when January comes around I won't have a car and it'll be the same crap over again and I don't wanna delay my studies anymore. I understand that a car is a luxury but they refuse to help, what can I do?

Firstly thanks to anyone who takes the time to read through this So I've been pretending to be this person online for 2 years now. It started innocently because I just wanted to protect my real identity. I ended up making a bunch of friends and it was still harmless. Last year I ended upp creating a bunch of accounts to make it all seem believable and keep up the facade. Some of those accounts were male, and I'm female btw. PI did NOT impersonate anyone as all of these people are figments of my imagination. So anyway I ended up making friends with this girl around the same age, and she fell in love with me, as in wants to marry me one day. The thing is, I couldn't stop even though I knew it was wrong. All of these accounts had become a part of me in a way, like an addiction. Heck, I think I spend more time and effort being these fake people than the real me. I feel so bad because this girl is really really nice and I don't want to hurt her but I've gone too far to leave without hurting her. It's a habit and part of my daily routine doing this and I need to know how to stop and leave because this cannot go on.

this guy I liked kind of rejected me, but instead of being straight up & saying I don't like you back, he said he wasn't interested in a long distance relationship or friendship, he said I seemed nice & he wished me well but that's how he felt with a sad emoji at the end, and then after I responded back letting him know I was kind of bummed he felt that way about LDR, he turned into an *** & told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again... like he should've just been straight up & told me he wasn't into me instead of trying to be all nice & sensitive & then turn around & be a jerk when I tried to get him to change his mind.. if he had told me he wasn't into me, I wouldn't have pushed him.. do you think he knew how I felt & just didn't want to hurt my feelings? Or he genuinely cared about my feelings? by the way, he ended up hurting my feelings anyway.. & I was the one who apologized & tried to be on good terms. I just don't understand.. I genuine I thought he was into me, in a way I feel like he kinda lead me on I tried fixing the situation & thought he would at least appreciate my apology since I pretty much swallowed my pride. I don't understand it, please give your opinions.

I just want to chill but they always ruin my good vibe when my life is already poor enough, literally everything they say to me is negative stuff and I have to converse with them the most. I just wanted to say hi to my girl because she's close to graduating but this teacher stopped me and asked me all these questions and scolded when I came to school late at lunch, I asked if I could just go talk to her quickly and come back but he refused and by the time he finished lunch finished. There's kids smoking outside that came late as well but I get the attention and talk the most.

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"I don't think he was trying to spare your feelings or he wouldn't have yelled at you" what does that mean? Was he intentionally trying to hurt my feelings? Or just didn't care for them?

Okay so this guy. One day in lunch we met and he started playing around talking about how I'm too young for him . And he's onky a grade up from me So from that day on like everytime I walked past him he would ALWAYS stare at me. Like there were some times where I would catch him staring at me and at those times when I do he kept on staring like wth lol and then when he makes jokes he starts being cheesy with it idk if he doesn't know how to express himself or he's a little shy idk lol. Like one day when lunch started and he was walking out of class he seen me and he said something to me and kept walking lol. Like for example if me and my best friend would walk around the school during lunch and we would pass him it's like I would be the one he's staring at. But anyways everytime (mostly at lunch) when I walk past him my best friend would always tell me that he's staring at me and that he likes me but I don't want to like think that and then find out that he really doesnt. keep in mind I don't even know his name and he doesn't know my name. So idk if he has a staring problem or he likes me ?? Idk ....

So we sexted yesterday and I may have sent a nude.He said let's not talk about it and to not tell anyone. Today now he's saying okay don't tell anyone and don't talk at school or basically at all is which I interpreted. I still really like him is there any way to try to get him to like me back because he said he liked someone else.

It's like when a woman cheats it's obviously the man's fault for her having the affair, but when a guy cheats he can't blame his wife?

You and Curtis were students together and have worked for the same business since graduating together 4 years ago. In college, Curtis had a pattern of procrastinating when it came to getting work completed on time. At 9 a.m. on this particular day the two of you were supposed to submit a report the manager asked the two of you to prepare. Curtis shows up at 10 o'clock and says "I'm sorry I didn't get my part of the work to you last night. My computer crashed and all of my work for the report was lost." I need to come up with a win-win solution for this problem, does anyone have any suggestions?

He went to University last year and visiting him with his father I found weed in his living room. After confronting him he said he smokes it for anxiety and to relieve IBS pain. I don't agree with drugs and I told him I wasn't happy. My husband said there was nothing to worry about since he has a job and he won a scholarship a second year running for good grades.

I've worked for my current boss for a little under 2 years. He just hired his sons fiancé to work at the company as she just graduated with her masters. I get along with her and joke around. I've been helping train her. The other day we were sitting at my desk and she started talking about her fiancé and all the family drama. She then proceeds to tell me that my boss recently had an affair with someone at the company and that the wife has been threatening to divorce however now they are not. For some reason I now dot. Trust this girl. I would never ever tell someone I just met two weeks ago that their boss and my future father in law had an affair with someone and she even said the woman's name at my company. My boss gave her a job, she lived under his roof for the past year with her fiancé while they saved up for their own place, and they have been dating for five years. She always trashes other people as well I have noticed. Am I reading too much I to this or would you also be cautious?

I hopped just about 5 jobs alltogether out here and all of them have men mostly working there. These guys have a delinquent personality and acts as though as they were in a reform school. You would constantly see them disappear because they were sexually molesting women in them places and I find it hard to work with them myself as a guy, -after hopping about 5 jobs out here with the same class of guys working there, I don't know what to do anymore. They tease and taunt me and provoke me, some tries to start fights with me, and other bullies me non work related. Going to hr on one of them causes all of the guys to get together and accuse you of 'running your mouth' and coming after you. In my home area I once held a job, it had a flow of black people working there but they had a prison personality. Just as bad, People claims that my city is ghetto, and I am starting to believe them. What should I honestly do?

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