He was wealthy and handsome, owned a home that he invited me to live in. The it started, he started to control little things that I did, refused to be inconvenienced if I needed to move for work and seemed to hate any of my fiends. He promised the world and then changed when I moved in. My life turned into remodeling his home, and doing only what he wanted. Again he could not be inconvenienced. If he did come with me on a rare occasion, say to a concert, he would act like he was in hell. I started doing everything alone and honesty having meal with this man was less entertaining then having a meal with a brick. Yet here I am alone on a friday night...alone...with no family. Should I have just settled since he treated me ok some times?

My wife and I have been together for 7 years. We married because we had a daughter together. (Cant go back in time so please dont suggest I should have not done this) I told her I love her dearly and still do but the only reason I married her was because I want our daughter to have both parents raise her together, marriage makes it harder for her or I to "get away" "escape" "break up". If we didnt have kids (2 now and we are DONE) I was perfectly happy never getting married. Ive always viewed having kids and marriage as a trap to be stuck in, as monotonous, similar to a prison sentence. But she would never consider abortion, so I supported her and her decision. So, before marrying her I told her when things get monotonous, I want us to become swingers or have an open marriage. Our marriage is now exactly as I predicted, extremely monotonous. However she is not willing to fulfill the agreement, gets angry whenever I bring it up, that Im bored and want to find another couple. She watches my every move, combs through my phone thinking Im going to cheat. I feel isolated, NO freedom. I wont cheat, but I dont know how much longer I can do this. Im being honest about my feelings with her and always have been. Is it terms for divorce if my spouse wont honor the agreement we made about opening our marriage? Im NOT religious so please spare me the religious rhetoric.

My wife was forced to give oral sex to her uncle (by marriage) from 11 to 12 years old when he baby sat her occasionally. I ve been with her for 15 years (since 15 years old) and know him. He and her Aunt came on our high school senior trip to Cancun, and he made a statement that he "liked them young" one night as he tried to manipulate his way into the other graduating girls room one night. He also showed many signs of perversion when he was in some of the clubs with all of us and other girls were drunk and lacked inhibition or awareness of his groping actions. She confronted him one night that he was at her moms house about 5 years ago and he apologized, said he was in a weird place then and was very sorry. She buried it and let it be. I think he should be in jail to pay for his actions that clearly messed my wife up as an adult (another story), and to prevent another child from experiencing him like that...how can I do something about it?

Me and my boyfriend met a few years ago, when I was an exchange student in high school. The problem is that we live in different countries, he's from USA and I'm from Brazil,so after a year being an exchange student, I came back home. We're still together, we talk everyday, but we only see each other face to face on summer. Although it's really hard to keep a relationship like this, we've been together for 4 years. Last month he had a talk about our situation, and he kept saying how much he hates being away from me, and that he wanted me to be closer to him, and he ended up asking me to marry him and move to USA. I told him this would be a big change in my life, and I need to think about it.The truth is that I don't want to marry him for now,because I don't want to move. I have a life here: I work, I study, I have family, and I have friends.And I know he also has a life over there, so I wouldn't ask him to drop everything and come live with me, specially because he doesn't even speak my language.But I'm scared to say no, and make him wonder if I don't love him,because I do,he's one of the most important people in my life. I just think maybe it's not time for this yet,and I don't know when will it be.And there's another problem, I get a feeling that he's really tired of being in a long distance relationship, I completely understand how he feels,and I honestly don't know how much longer this relationship will last if I say no.What should I do with my life?Btw, we're both 21

Do people have a private life from their spouse?

I've been feeling upset and stressed lately & I need help to get over it. My first problem is that my husband, has been arguing with me almost everyday. Im worried that he'll divorce me, but Im willing to do whatever it takes to stay with him (I never went to college, don't have a job, and live pretty lavishly thanks to his job.) The negative energy in our house adds to my sadness about my sweet baby girl leaving for college in a matter of months. This brings me to my next point; I will have an empty nest for the rest of time come august. My daughter told me she wants to get as far away from me as possible, so she refused to apply to colleges within 1,500 miles from our home. I don't know what I will do with myself when I have to face my pitiful husband on a daily basis. I have considered changing my identity and moving wherever charlotte is so I can still be with her (although now it seems a tad extreme). To try and cope with it, I have found myself buying things that will make me happy (i.e. a race car, a horse, a new speed boat, vacations, etc) but I'm fearful that if my husband decides to leave me my money outlet will run dry and I probably should start stock piling to save it. Ive also considered adopting some children to make up for the emptiness, but my husband will NOT allow me to do that because he has resented me since our daughter's birth. I clearly need some better coping mechanisms. Any idea's how I can somehow find a glimpse of light in my black-hole of a life?!

He makes more than enough money from his job to support us but he is threatening to move out and leave me desolate... and he says if he files for divorce he does not have to pay for the basic household bills like the electric, water, cable, car note / insurance, etc. (we do not have a house payment because I received the house as a part of an inheritance when my parents died on a Gift Deed). I have not filed for state disability money because he makes plenty of money and I didn't feel comfortable mooching off the state's taxpayers, but I do not work because of my disability. Even if I did file for the money, it takes up to two years to get benefits. My doctor has confirmed the disability and I can present evidence in court but I can't live without the basic bills paid. Is he right??? That is unfathomable to me as I believe that he is partially responsible for me as his wife and should pay the basic bills until at least a judge can make a decision and enter a permanent amount (if any) my husband has to pay and for how long. We have lived together and been engaged since 2004 and we finally got married in 2011. Please help me figure this out! Thank you! I live in Pima County, Arizona

So my husband and I constantly argue over a parking spot. We have a two car garage and agreed that he gets the whole garage (half for his car and half for storage). He then bought another car that's in the street. Then he bought another car that he doesn't want to park in the street "because it looks crowded now". I said either park it on his side of the driveway or in the garage. It would be a super tight fit in he garage with two big cars, and if he parked on his side of the driveway, he would have to move car B if he wanted to drive car A. Ugh. He wants to put car B in front of where I park my car in the driveway. I like pulling all the way up, I don't want to worry about hitting his car. It's been my spot for years. It won't get hit by the sprinklers when it's pulled up all the way. It's MY spot. He says I'm being selfish, rude, bratty, and spoiled because I won't share my side of the driveway. You think I enjoy parking outside when it snows? Or when it's hot enough to peel the paint off of my car? No. But I don't call him selfish for taking the garage, when I know his car is nicer than mine. He gets the whole garage, the whole right side of the driveway, and the street - which can easily hold his other two cars. I don't think its fair for him to take my spot when he has other options. Your thoughts? Its just a spot but we fight day and night over it. No one forced him to buy three cars.

We met on Face book back in 2011 and met in person a moth later.We had strong connection but the distance eventually took it's toll and he broke it off since neither of us were in a position to move. After time part we would reconnect and meet up again.This went on on and off for few years untill we finally broke it off for good in late November of 2014 when he met someone closer. In any event,he started reaching out to me again more than year later.He sent me multiple messages back in April and june telling me that he had been thinking about me and misses me etc. Then all the sudden I noticed that he wasn't putting any effort into contacting me anymore. I was the one always initiating contact,and sometimes he wouldn't respond.I didn't think much of it .I then texted him and ask him to come on skype before he goes to work.He responded and said sure.We skyped for a bit but didn't talk because his volume on his phone was not working, according to him.Then he had to get off so he can get ready for work.He also promised to take a pic for me later on. We exchanged few text then all the sudden he said "he's not sure if he can't do this anymore and he is sorry. Then proceeded to say, it wouldn't be a problem if we didn't live so far apart and maybe we might have something in future when his life is more settled. I immediately asked if he is not coming anymore to see me and I asked for more explanation. He didn't respond to these messages and ignored further messages from me..

My hubby's ¢um has just started to grow inside my belly, I am so scared ó_ò

My fiancé and I bought a home recently. We were living with his parents for the past year. His dad helped us move in and Renovate a little. We have him a key to to our house. Last weekend we were away and him and his wife showed up unannounced and went in the home when we weren't they. They texted my finance when they got to the home to let us now they were over at our home. I feel like they should not come over when we aren't there. I told my fiancé to say something or I would. He told them to not do that in the future. Today I talked to his dad and invited him over for dinner. He responded with only if I am invited I don't want to ruffle any feathers. He Made his point that he didn't like that we had a problem with them going over. I don't think it's ridiculous to simply expect them to ask if it's ok when they are going to stop by when we aren't home... What are your honest thoughts? Did we overreact?

My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. I have children form my previous marriage that I pay child support on. I also like to spoil my kids with other things such as toys, movies, I pads, expensive birthday parties, eating out where they want to, etc and have accumulated some debt from this. I have gone on a couple of vacations so far with my girlfriend but she has paid my way since I was behind on bills. However she booked a vacation by herself next month and is meeting friends on this trip. She invited me and said she would love me to go but couldn't afford to pay for both of us again. I think it's selfish of her to do this and I do not like the idea of her going on vacation without me and think she's wrong for doing this. She says I'm making a big deal out of nothing. Is she wrong for going without me? She is childless so does not understand what it's like to have bills like I do.

I found out the woman I was seeing is currently married but she explained to me that she's in a abusive marriage so I stayed because I know it's difficult and maybe she wants someone to feel safe with. The problem is I never get to go on dates with her. All I get to do is sneak around in her house when her hubby is out of town or at work because if we go out in public, people will know. We watch movies and have sex but I can't keep the affair going on forever. I understand that she's scared to leave him because of the bad things he'll do to her but we're already sleeping around. I told her that I can help so we can finally be free but she would rather not risk it. I asked my buddies for advise and they told me I'm a sucker. They all said that she's lying to get me feeling bad to stay for sexual desires only while her husband provides. Could that be true? Is that why she never leaves him? To be clear, I wasn't awared that she was currently married when we started.

Living with good siblings or cousins rather than a boyfriend or husband if I'm 40 and older, single and childless? I feel happier and safer living with a good relative than a boyfriend/husband. At that age, I need stability and security. Sex and romance are not that important. If I have a good brother or male cousin to live with, I'll have a guy protecting me, helping me with the bills, just like a husband or boyfriend. Same thing if I were to live with a sister or female cousin. We can grow old together and take care of each other. It's less stressful than living with a romantic partner like a husband. Am I bad?

Me and my boyfriend met a few years ago, when I was an exchange student in high school. The problem is that we live in different countries, he's from USA and I'm from Brazil,so after a year being an exchange student, I came back home. We're still together, we talk everyday, but we only see each other face to face on summer. Although it's really hard to keep a relationship like this, we've been together for 4 years. Last month he had a talk about our situation, and he kept saying how much he hates being away from me, and that he wanted me to be closer to him, and he ended up asking me to marry him and move to USA. I told him this would be a big change in my life, and I need to think about it.The truth is that I don't want to marry him for now,because I don't want to move. I have a life here: I work, I study, I have family, and I have friends.And I know he also has a life over there, so I wouldn't ask him to drop everything and come live with me, specially because he doesn't even speak my language.But I'm scared to say no, and make him wonder if I don't love him,because I do,he's one of the most important people in my life. I just think maybe it's not time for this yet,and I don't know when will it be.And there's another problem, I get a feeling that he's really tired of being in a long distance relationship, I completely understand how he feels,and I honestly don't know how much longer this relationship will last if I say no.What should I do with my life?Btw, we're both 21

I need to start by saying that I truly know it is very wrong to get involved with a married man. I sincerely feel bad about it. BUT, you can't always help who you fall in love with. It was an immediate spark, a connection made right off the bat. I fell in love with him almost instantaneously the more I got to know him. We met at work, he had a management role and stayed at a motel during the week, then went home to his family 3 hours away every weekend. Once our relationship started, he basically moved in with me. We were with each other 24 hours, 4 days a week. We did everything together. I fell in love, he seemed to reciprocate. Then our company was acquired by a larger company and more than half of management was laid off within 2 months. He was unfortunately one of the lay offs, so he is now living back home with his family. He assured me it's not over. It's been 2 months and we've been seeing each other once a week. His family doesn't know. I feel bad about this but I can't help it. He says he's in love with me too. I asked him if he planned to leave his wife and he said it's not easy to walk away from a 28 year marriage, home, and two kids. I understand. So I need to move on. But how to move on from someone you're truly in love with? Someone who you know loves you too, even if he doesn't love you enough to leave his wife? He's a wonderful person and we have great memories so thinking negatively about him as a person just because he's unfaithful won't help me move on.

Married for 8 months now, but I have feelings for my girl best friend, what do I do? I still love my wife but there's something between me and my best friend that I cannot ignore. She is starting to like this other guy who is a complete tool, but I dont know what to do...

I think both would have to be horrible. If they have an emotional affair, that means they're building a life and doing things they would do with you with a new person, whereas a physical affair, they're throwing away what you have for a cheap fling. So, what's worse? Someone throwing away what you have for another serious relationship? Or someone throwing away what you have because of superficial sex and physical attraction? What would be harder to stop? And which ones kills a relationship faster?

What do you do when your madly in love with someone whom says your his world but yet he does things like, when he doesn't like your response or something you say flipping out saying well Divorce me and other things to hurt your feelings.. however when he calms down is really amazing too you... Or when he is extremely angry and says sorry I'm not good enough or I guess I'm a shitty husband whenever you bring up how he treats you. Or how about when he breaks his promise to not forcefully shove his finger up your *** as hard as he can to make sure you hear his point, and starts to do that again because he is sick of hearing what your says (in this case it was just me ranting over the fact that his truck payments and truck insurance has kept my bank account cleared and I was upset because I won't have 27$ to pay my phone bill, [he has a job just in medical leave]) truth is I haven't had any of my paychecks since... When I was talking to him about his additude today about me talking about it and he tried to shove his fingers in my *** again (as a punishment) and when he was unsuccessful he grabbed my peirced nipped and twisted them (I hate anything being done to my nipples so he picks things that I ether hate or desperately hate) when I asked why his response was cause I wanted too.. :'-( I'm honestly not sure what's gotten into him but I just needed to get it out.. I tried to rant...while keeping it down low I'm not posting everything just the bits that get me the most.

So married him in the 86 or 87 can't remember, left his place, never seen him since. Found him recently on FB and he blocked me just after saying hi long time no see, he lives in another country. My roommate said if still married I could get benefits, how do I find out if I'm divorced. What would scooby do?

So I am dating a woman married to an active duty soldier. We met last year while he was deployed and since moved to the west coast as work had relocated us. She is preparing for her divorce now that he is back in the states but he is refusing to allocate some of his money to her in the meantime. I remember when I was deployed in the reserves some of my soldiers had to pay their wives a certain amount of money even though they were legally separated. Anyway, what would be the best course of action to get this guy to pay her? Do we need to contact his chain of command? The only reason this even concerns me is because his daughter is living with us which not only inconveniences me but costs extra money. Thanks for any help or guidance. I really do not want to be a jerk and contact his CO.

My ex has full custody of my 2 daughters. She collects child support from me faithfully, although they live with her mom. I visit them every chance I get Lately, she has been texting out of the blue and telling me she made my daughters doctor appointments without my knowledge and that I have to leave work to take my daughter to the doctor that same day because she wont. When I say I cant, she tells me what a crappy dad I am. How do I go about this eloquently but at the same time stand up for myself and let her know I cannot? She would rather let my daughter get picked up from school by her mom and sit at her moms house until someone else takes her to the doctor.

My husband spends a lot of money on his kids. He has two kids from his previous marriage. I understand paying for his kid's needs (clothing, food, toys, school, shelters, insurance, etc) but each time one of his kids has a birthday he throws them a party and spends over 400 dollars each on them. He is always broke and never has money to go on vacations, go to concerts, movies, etc. so I always end up paying. What should I do? Ive considered going on vacation and doing things with a friend instead so I don't have to pay for two people. My friend will at least pay her own way and is more fun to be around anyways.

My husband is currently frustrated with the guy. We will call him B. He is very immature still lives at home. I guess he said something that brought my husband to a boiling point. He has been ignoring B for a few weeks now and B is now asking me what's the deal. I don't really feel it's my place to put my two cents in. I've been very generic with my responses like "he never mentioned anything to me" just playing oblivious. Now he is leaving passive aggressive texts to get me to admit something. Should I ignore him? Just trying to handle this without getting involved but also if they do rekindle I don't want any awkwardness. They've been friends for over 25 years.

I cant afford an attorney. She makes twice as much as I do. I have 2 small children from a previous marriage and I left a lot of stuff when I moved here to be with her. What forms or wording should I have her sign to make sure she will do what she said. She is very hostile to me and my kids and has actually hit me with her fists. I am not gonna stoop to that level and exchange violence with violence. So basically what do I got to do to make sure she keeps her end of the bargain. we are actually still married right now and still in the same house. She keeps threatening to leave and get her own place. She said she dont care if me and my kids have to live in the streets. SO what wording and what forms and anything else I need to know to make sure she keeps her end o the deal when she decides to leave. I am sure she will sign anything because apparently she wants out badly. The items are a couch, love seat, entertainment center, dining table and 6 chairs, 5 cubic foot freezer, weight bench and weights, elliptical, and various lamps.

i really wanted a virgin bride, so i went back to my parent's home country Vietnam to get one, because i couldn't find one, nor a suitable compatible woman in Canada and just gave up on western women entirely for dating marriage and relationships. I've only known her and courted her for 3 months We were introduced by relatives .She claims to have fallen in love with me, and wants to marry me and accepted my proposal. Her parent's and family love me and are crazy about me because I'm a doctor and a foreigner from Canada. but I'm taking her far away from them at such a young age 18. She has only just graduated high school back in June. Too late to call it off now. i promised her and her parents that i will help her get settled in Canada , teach her English and find a job and, help her start a new life here with me . When i start my own private practice and open my own private clinic in a few years she can be the head receptionist. i believe that if she had a choice though, she would not marry so young and go so far away from home. my new wife comes from a poor rural village and her family is poor. She doesn't have the option of going to college to pursue a career. She only has the option of either marrying a good man or working in labor factory conditions. From a young age she was trained and raised to be a house wife and bride for her groom's family. i feel guilty about taking her so far away from them. She's probably nervous and scared as well. There is a 10 year age gap between us I'm 28 and she just turned 18

I honestly didn't notice this or have reason to suspect this before I married him so please don't bring that up. Its become apparent though, that he pushes his responsibilities onto me to address them. It's gotten to the point where I feel I'm enabling this fear of his, along with being put into positions where I have to take on more responsibilities than I should. For instance, one of his sons (my stepchild) has trouble in school. His teacher called and left a message, saying he hadn't been feeling that well so he laid down to rest, along with noticing a few "issues". When my husband told me about the voicemail, i said..well you need to call her back and figure out whats going on with him. He said..'well it must not be a big deal since she didn't seem too concerned". Basically at this point I don't knwo what to do about the teacher. I'm not the childs actual parent..(and his real mom is only semi responsible in his life) this is just one example out of many where my husband doesn't take initiative and other people suffer or have to take responsibility for it. How do you rectify this problem in a marriage. I don't want to treat him like a child and boss him around by saying.."you better call the teacher!" but i'm sick of doing it on his behalf

How do people deal dealing with people they don't like 8 hours a day 5 days a week ? I hate it !!!!!!!!!! Is this a universal feeling ? Omg

It's my wife's birthday tomorrow and I was thinking about taking her to Dallas to go to Medieval and get a hotel room for the night or text let her stay in town and go to the spa and get a hair and nails done for the day and maybe catch a movie or something to eat after she gets done if there's time I'm just not sure which one to do so let me know what you think would be best

Married for 4 years,recently we went on our holidays to Turkey as I needed to urgently check my mail and my phone was left discharged he said that i can use his, he forgot to log off of his mail so I've noticed the email with a title "Germany trip" i opened it and what i've seen that for 2 weeks prior to our holidays my husband was mailing with his 3 other colleagues from course about their own weekend trip to Germany by car the group contains 2 single girls and 1 single guy and of course my husband. One of the girls reserved 1 apartment for 4 people confronted my husband n asked what is it he was surprised and he tried to explain himself with saying that more ppl can join them and i was like , how more if place is already booked for 4 ppl.I got so mad that i hit his arm he didnt even propose me to go with them n he replied " will u feel ok cause we go there to practise german language we will talk german all the time" Before our marriage (we know each other for 7 years total n while he was on a contract in Qatar,Doha i catched him on flirting through net on some russian webpage for a week i almost called off the engagement and the wedding but we got married and all look and went pretty well.Till this day when i learnt about this trip what should i do? i feel so broken.and now he is acting mad n said tht i humilated him cause i hit his arm and chest n closed the door on his face he even used few mean words towards me and act like im the crazy one here.What should i do? Would You ladies let your husband do it?

This is the second time I've filed for divorce from him (for cheating). I fully expected him to try and dodge service, because he said we would always be together on the phone to the other woman, the reason we are now divorcing. He begged me to stop the first one. I am headstrong this time, but just wondering why he hasn't put up a fight?

Stop calling me , stop texting me, stop coming to my home. I don't want that police stuff around my door, I know y'all going to say call the police. I changed my number he calls my job. Breaks in my house. I feel like I'm a bad person because I don't want him. We was together for 3 1/2 years. I used to be so in love with him until he started lying to me cheating on me with multiple women. Thru out the relationship, Trying to leave me for other women, crying over his ex, refusing to please me, or help pay bills. Let his family in friends disrespect me. He would disappear for 2 and 3 weeks at a time. I been thru he'll with this man. Now he trying to make me feel guilty for moving on. I can't even come to his mom house They will call police on me. But he think he can come to mine. So he keep saying it must be about another man. But I just don't want him. He makes me sick. Even wen we was getting counseling about our problems he was cheating on me. I'm drained and irritated. He talking about we need to make things better. I keep telling him I don't feel that way about him stay away. He keep saying no. I said we can be cool he said don't make me f u up . U not going no where

My husband and I have been together for 7 years. We married because we had a daughter together. I told him I love him dearly and still do but the only reason I married him was because I want our daughter to have both parents raise her together, marriage makes it harder for him or I to "get away" "escape" "break up". If we didnt have kids I was perfectly happy never getting married. Ive always viewed having kids and marriage as a trap to be stuck in, as monotonous, similar to a prison sentence. So, before marrying him I told him when things get monotonous, I want us to become swingers or open marriage. Our marriage is now exactly as I predicted, extremely monotonous. However he is not willing to fulfill the agreement, gets angry whenever I bring it up, that Im bored and want to find another couple. He watches my every move, combs through my phone thinking Im going to cheat. I feel isolated, NO freedom. I wont cheat, but I dont know how much longer I can do this. Im being honest about my feelings with him and always have been. Is it terms for divorce if my spouse wont honor the agreement we made about opening our marriage?

To begin, I am 22 years old. I am married and have a 19 month old son. I'm having a bit of an identity crisis. Nothing satisfies me anymore, I feel worthless and boring to be around. To be honest I have contemplated running away, or how things would be if I wasnt around anymore. Im not sure who I am, or what I stand for. A couple months (7 months) after I got married I found out my husband was on backpage, looking at other women. I found several webpages he had save to his phone. I never found out if he did anything because he denies it and says its spam on his phone. Then a few months later I found an email to a womans post on Craigslist. My husband has 2 other children with 2 other women. and he never gets to see the other kids because they dont like the fact he got married to me and moved on. The 2 woman are friends and hang out regularly. He pays child support weekly. Well I ended up cheating on my husband and I told him. He went crazy. He destroyed everything in the house. choked me up and called me every dirty name in the book. He then left and went to the store and got cigarettes. He took my car keys with him so I wouldn't leave. I grabbed my son and took off walking down the road and was going to call my mom to come get me. He ended up seeing me and pulled over and insisted everything was settled and nothing would happen, to just come home. So I did Im not happy. I feel so stupid and my mind is clouded that I cant make any good decisions. What should I do?

I'm married to this guy, we used to work both of us, but he lost his job (I never knew why they fired him cause he never told me), I'm a lawyer, I earn a good amount of money, He never looked or found a job again, he took money from me, and i had no problem with that, But things got really serious after that, he started to take a lot of money, we didn't even have money to eat because of him, When i asked him about the money, He would go crazy, destroy everything in the house and leave, He used to spend a whole week away without telling me if he's dead or alive, All these 2 years that I spent with him, it was a waste of time, I gave him everything, I loved him, I supported him, Even when he stole money I didn't say a word, But all I got was nothing, I was always worried, I had a lot of things going on inside my head, my job, the cases etc... and he was there driving me crazy, Now. he took a huge amount of money i've been saving for my sister's treatment (she's so sick and she might die if she doesn't get help asap), I asked him to get the hell out of my house, and leave me and my 4 years old son alone, I threw all his things out, he comes when i'm at work, takes my son away from me, and then bring him back the next day without telling me, He doesn't want to give me my money back, He told me i'll never get divorce and i will never take his son away, It's been 4 months now, and we're still going to court but nothing happens, He's doing all he can to delay the divorce procedure And besides that, he owes some people money, He will probably end up in prison for that... I'm so tired of all this, I can't believe i was so blind, I married a thief, and a liar, Everything was so good before he lost his job, I'm even thinking now that maybe he stole money that's why he got fired... And my son in between, I'm so tired, I was so naive and I gave him everything, I tried my best, The problem is that I still care, I don't want him to go to prison I was even thinking of defending him, be his lawyer.. and I hate myself for being this stupid, and this naive, I just can't change this trait about myself, People always trick me, get the best of me and move on.. i hate being used and treated as If I was an idiot... I need advice about this, I'm tired of going to court all the time without a result, i want this to end... He's so smart that he's making the procedure longer and longer ... please ?

wouldn't life be great if husband and wives could just relax at home have a nice dinner and tv without husband perving over 18 year olds in shorts? seeing young girls working out and drooling, why not?

Hi all, I have a question to you. we have been married for almost 4 years now. My husband is learning German language and I ve met his teacher but never his colleagues from it.During our holidays I learnt that he is going on a weekend trip to Dresden in Germany and his friends from course meaning him (married guy) 1 single guy and 2 single girls, they rented 1 big flat with separted bedrooms but still... i feel betrayed what to do? is it okay what he is doing?

Does it work out when a married man leaves for the mistress?? Some experiences please!!!! I am not the mistress I was left by my husband!!!

I will say "we dont cuddle very often " and he will say yes we do ! Or i will say your family doesnt like me ,and he will say yes we do or i will say you spent $100? And he will say no i dont ,i feel like he never believes me

!! The guy was supposed to be my "best friend". For five or six years they had an affair (even in my own bed and my son's bed). I never caught them, she finally told me about it and said she loved me and would never do it again and will never see or talk to this man again, should I forgive her, and how can I ever get my trust back, and get this knife I feel is sticking in my back out??? how long before the pain goes away, because I don't even want to live anymore, it hurts so bad. The guy's got an a** kicking when I see him, but should I trust her again?

Basicaly i want to marry my 18 yrs old gf and im 38 of age. Some people say shes too young for me but i dont see that what so ever. We have lots of fun together and shes full of life and wants to learn from me. As opposed to single moms and divorcees with kids i used to date. Im entitled to a fresh young lady like everyone and will not accept picking up what another guy left behind plus his kids. So what issues are people talking about ? Why would we have any issues if its just the peoples problem that im getting a fresh young girl ? I dated women my age and older but they were boring, full of luggage, paranoid, controling and just messed up under all aspects. Any suggestions ? I still dont see the issue of having a young girl as a life companion. At this point people are just jealous. Who in their right mind would choose a single mom or divorcee ?? I've known this girl since many years and shes so sweet and esp fresh n clean. And she loves every minute with me.

can u please let me know about the freequancy of having sex of a married couple? freequancy of newly married couples and freequency of couples of 40s. please let me know ur personal sex freequancy per day or per week? and what will be the maximum sex freequancy that a new married couple have?

i am planning on getting married soon and someone suggested premarital counseling before we got married. It would be so we could get a good understanding on "what to expect" before diving head first into marriage. does anyone have any tips or just some advice for the married life?

By the time a guy settles down his wife had probably bedded the entire football team