when its lunch time at school, me and my friends go to the bowling alley which has arcade games and pool. and we play pool and play shooting games and stuff. but he wont give me any money for tomorrow. so what am i suppose to do at lunch when all my friends playing pool and shooting zombies in 3d? he said he already gave me £25 this morning to last all week. well i spent it all today cuz i had some nandos for todays lunch which cost me £9.45 cuz i had 2 sides, bottomless drink £2.60 and i played pool twice which was £2, table hockey £1. and i forgot my train pass this monring so had to pay for the train. and i had a frappachino on my way home. but he dont care. said i need to learn not to waste all my money and eat something cheap instead. everyone was getting nandos so i couldnt not get it to!! i would just look poor. none of my friends have to beg their parents for money. its not like hes hurting for money. he just talk crap about learning to be responsible with money. i already know how. i used to have jobs. so now tomorrow im gonna have to eat at my school cuz i have no money. just some money on my school lunch account thing which will maybe be enough for fries. while all my friends are playing pool. he dont even care. just made fun of me by saying his heart bleeds for me. so i threaten to quit school and he threatened to beat me to a pulp. what kind of dad is that? i want him arrested i dont deserve this abuse, and what if i forget my train card again.

Earlier I saw a text on my dads iPad that said "interested?" I was suspicious because when I googled the number it said it was an escort that lives in our city I later saw a text that said "ok well I'm available just let me know" no I wasn't snooping on my dads iPad that something else I feel l don't need to explain myself for. A lot lately I've caught him watching porn and now this I'm beyond upset I don't want to be the one to tell my mom I think that should be him but I do feel I need to confront him he gets home in a little bit and we have some time before my mom gets home. How do I tell him I know?

So um recently I was trying out the IOS digital touch thingy and it automatically sends to his phone, which I didn't mean to do intentionally. I forgot that he don't have fall break that time and his teachers took his phone away for the rest of the day. He said he won't be able to take his phone to class anymore cause of me. I tried giving him suggestions for his teacher to let him bring his phone to class, like a gift basket and an apology. But he said he won't do it. I try to help him but he said he is done. Like he expect me to know that he didn't put his phone on vibrate? Me and him are really close and I don't wanna ruin that all cause of some stupid punishment and technology. Is there anyway to make it up to him?

Okay So Hey I'm 16 years old. My Mother gets Child Support from my dad. She have not being using the money on me at ALL. I know she gets around 7 hundred and she has a job. When I ask her what does she do with the money her response is always "I pay the bills with it". We have 4 people in my household working. My mother ask for 200 every month from them. So if My 700 dollars going to the bills Where does the rest of the money goes!? Even when I ask her for 100 dollars every month she told me No. So I told her I'm take it all from her. I guess my question is how can my dad gets the money or how can I take it from her please help!?

I'm getting married in the next 2 months. The girl I'm about to marry is a wonderful person. Being with her makes me realize that she is unlike every other girl I've met. It is her personality that truly attracts me, not only that she is smart, but she makes me feel that my life really means something, that I'm not a nobody & I have a significant role in life. She is there to support me and build my confidence whenever I need her. Now, we have passed 7 years of our relationship, and I'm still happy being with her. However, life isn't perfect. Here are why: She has a messy family, living with her parents and younger sister; her Dad passed away in an improper manner. In other word, I no longer have a chance to have a father in law. Speaking of her sister, she is 25-26 years old, and she is handicapped. My gf told me that she was born normal, but has this disease that make her skin turns yellow. The reason she became handicapped is because she is late to receive medical attention...that was what being said to me. Judging from this situation, I personally worries that we will not make a happy family in the future. Especially when talking about having kids, looking back at my gf's sister, will it have any impact to our kids later on? I keep thinking about her sister as well, as if her Mom passed, I'm not ready and don't have any idea on how to take care of her. So what should I do? Is sending her into appropriate institution (orphanage for handicapped) is a good idea? Just to clarify on her sister's condition; she is physically almost looks normal, but her growth isn't. It seems like something is not right with her bones or joint that rendered her unable to walk or even standing, she moves by crawling. She can't communicate properly, only speak few words over and over. My gf and her Mom loves her so much, but keep her existence away certain people that comes to visit them. I'm not expert and never have someone close being handicapped. Need advice on this.

I'm a freshman in highschool. A couple years ago, my family and i started going to church so i took sunday school and my parents took like a sunday school for parents type thing. For religious reasons, my dad changed completely and it feels like i don't even know him anymore. He has this awful view on the world where to him, everything is evil and of the devil or whatever. He yelled at me badly a couple days ago (and made me feel absolutely awful) and told me that as long as i lived in the same house with him, I'm not allowed to leave the house AT ALL unless im going to school or church. I'm never allowed to go out or even to a friends house and i can't have anyone over either. I'm so stuck and my social life is GONE. My mom doesn't agree with any of it, she thinks i should be able to do my own thing but because my dad is so religious he thinks that a woman's word doesnt mean anything and since hes the dad and husband hes "the only captain if the ship" you might say "oh just try to talk to him" and i have about a dozen times but hes probably the most stubborn person on earth and im not exaggerating so i cant talk to him, and my mom cant help me either i have NO ONE. i don't want the life he wants for me and ive seriously been contemplating how im gonna run away, suicide etc. He doesn't understand anymore that i'm a human being with aspirations and feelings and he says he has complete ownership over me. i also dont want to get him in legal trouble what do i do??

Okay so, my mum and dad got a divorce about 1 year ago. Since then I have moved out of the place a free up, into a small house, into my new house. At the start of the divorce I was devastated obviously, but my mum got me a puppy and a laptop to take my mind of it. My father is a changed man now and he is so nice. He isn't the way hr use to be, he misses my mother dearly but my mum despises him. I really want them to get back together or at least be friends. I just want them to be together. :(

Growing up I used to be awful to my mom and brother. I yelled at her all the time, I would push my brother and sometimes yell at him too. I deeply regret hurting them, they never deserved being treated that way but all of that happened years ago and they talk to me now but it's only recent until I've seen the error of my ways. What was done in the past was horrible and I don't know how to make it right?

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First, I am not successful at all. I might have the life that my dad wished for, and that's all. I was in one of the top ranked Music colleges. I was awarded and nominated for 4 times. I was already teaching and felt so ready/excited for my future. But they I ended up withdrowing from after medical leave it due to physical injury where I can't play my instruments. I was so depressed that I was forced in behavioral unit for being danger to myself. So I decided to pick another career, an interpreter/translator. I had lived in English speaking countries for a decade. My English is ok for a trilingual person. I've worked for IT company, health provider and TV program. This is def not my dream job and I still get depressed by the fact that I was so close but would never it to a professional musician. But I do appreciate that I have an actual job, a job that pays me better than what I'd make as a musician. It feels like I can now start putting my life back together and feel mentally and physically ready to move on to the next chapter. My dad, however seems very unhappy and jealous of what I have been doing lately, for the following reasons I think he might be. 1. i lived overseas for a good 10 years starting the age 15. Lots of adventure, saw some parts, both good and no-so-good sides of the world. Anc that's the life he was dreaming of when he applied for exchange program it was rejected because his GPA wasn't high enough. 2. He thinks my physical injury which led me out of Music school is not as bad as Paralympic athletes. And for withdrowing, he thinks I was being lazy or I think too sad about myself for not having a dream job. 3. He thinks picking another career due to physical injury is not an option. He think I should keep up with music and keep up with the pain as well. Lately, dad is acting a little violent and call me "Psycho", "Personal disorder" and those scientific/medical names that he knows I'm not happy to hear. He also tell me that I don't have a friend because I'm a psycho. In fact, I do have some friends I wish I could hang out with but I have to stay home because of my physical injury. All i want out of this is that I want a happy family where I am included in. I want my dad to be supportive for not-my-dream-job butt he job i appreciate for. I want my dad to stop calling me medical names and continuing insulting when I ask him to stop. Am I asking for too much? Or I'm just a really bad daughter and disgrace and dishonor to the family? Sorry for the typos. I'm taking sleeping pills to get myself some rest. All advice and help are deeply appreciated. ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0.02

Ok so here s what happened. I was waiting for her to pick me up from school, when a kid (let s call him Patrick), comes up to me and says "I wrote down everything on the psych quiz, give this to your brother," and hands me a piece of paper then walks away. Shortly after my mom shows up at my school. I get in the car and on the ride home I tell her what happened, then she goes into a full rage. She starts calling me an idiot, and saying things like "I DIDNT MOVE US HERE SO YOU CAN **** UP SENIOR YEAR," meanwhile I told her about it she gave her the cheat sheet out of confidence and maturity, and every time I tried to tell her I did nothing wrong she looks at me and says something along the line of "DONT YOU UNDERSTAND? YOU INCRIMINATED YOURSELF JUST TAKING THE PAPER." Am I in the wrong here?

So my dad literally does nothing all day, he has no job, he doesn't do the dishes and we always have tons and tons of dirty dishes just sitting on the counter for months, and it never will leave until my mom gets to it, he doesn't do laundry, our two cats will throw up hairballs on the floor and they wI'll stay there for weeks! he eats everything in the house and I never have a chance to get to my certain favorite foods my chicken nuggets will be in the freezer for one day and by tomorrow they'll all be eaten!!, he treats my mom with disrespect ( calls her fat, steals all of my mom's money, drives all of the gas out of the truck, and he's always quick to yell and scream at her, etc.) And he will give me and my mom random silent treatments, and won't talk to us for days, he has no money and my mom pays for every last thing in the house, my mom does everything that she can to provide for me and I just feel like that all gets ****** up by my dad. Also my mom works from 9 am to 10 pm so she is gone all day and by time she gets home she's ready to go to bed. What am I supposed to do about my lazy dad?

Hi I live in another state but my dad and his wife live in state of Texas. The problem is there was an adopted daughter who my disrespected my dad and was cut off by him and his wife and the adopted lives in another state also, so my dads wife said that he doesn t want that girl in his house if he ever get sick but his wife wants to bring her in the house and move her in when he get sick and incoherent to force him around her but the house is not in her name and I m not having that I a, for his wishes whatever he wants is there anything I can do or what can I do to stop her doing that ? The thing is I'm 34 married living on my own.. My dads wife who has nothing in her name ( including the house ) wants to bring their adopted daughter (who really was my cousin that disrespected my dad and her cut her off a few years ago) in their house when he gets sick and incoherent to force him around her (but the problem is he doesn't want that girl in their house he said over his dead body and I'm just following his wishes. If he didn't mind I wouldn't care but he told me he doesn't

Parents advice... Today during the after school run with my 5 year old boy, 5 boys (9-10 years old) threw a conker right on to my butt really hard and they all laughed at me. And threw it back at his shoe and laughed again. I couldn't stand kids who act such behaviors specially in front of my child and they go to same school. I don't want for him to see that's it's ok to threw a conker at someone or to behave badly at someone.. But it made me really angry whe they all laughed so I picked up the conker and asked who did it and they all pointed at one boy so I threw it right on his shoe to scare him off. And when I called the head master to report this, his mom already called to report that I threw a conker on his child's face! If you're a parent what would you feel if you're on my situation and on others mother's situation? Because if I find out that my child tried to behave badly to other people I will be the first one to give him a kick on the butt! And not tolerate it..

My girlfriend and I are both virgins. Im just kinda confused on the process. I know you start out by making out, but after I? Finger her, or finger her with lube? Do i eat her out a lilbit? or do i just put the lube on my condom? I know this question is kinda silly but i just need some help lol.

I have an estranged relationship with my mother (she abandoned my brother and I in high school to be with her boyfriend who was 15 years her junior and lived out of state) She later resurfaced on our lives only to cause endless amounts of drama and worry due to her bad life choices and bad mouthing us behind our backs to one another. I keep her at a distance. She is unemployed now and divorced and is bored. She will occasionally drop off things at my house (she does not have a key) and leave them outside and drive off. These are things I do not want or need (old food, beauty products she no longer wants,appliances she does not want, clothes that no longer fit her). Why does she do this?

So first off I'm home schooled, which isn't so bad. I'm in an online school and whatever. The problem is that my parents think that since I'm home schooled I should be doing more around the house. My mom is back in college and doesn't ever do anything but that. She doesn't cook meals, do laundry, or clean. So all of that is on me. The expect me to do all of that, and watch my little sister who is two all the time. I'm getting bad grades and I don't have any time to myself. I've tried to talk to them about it but they just say I'm being selfish and that's the end of the conversation. I hate my life and don't know who to talk to. I don't have any friends and only get out of the house maybe once a week or less to buy groceries. I don't know what to do, please help?

Whenever my family eats salad, my dad uses dressing, but he won't allow the rest of us to use any. None of us have health issues that would prevent us from using salad dressing, but still my dad says no. Is this a power and control issue? what's going on?

Well my parents barely ever let me go out but on friday we finish early and i have my tutor at 4;30. What is a good excuse to tell my mum that im doing something i dont know what but anything so i can go to a party

The title of the question is mostly a joke, but I really am asking for advice on how not to blow up on my girlfriends mom/grandma (long story, doesn't involve incest.) It was a hell of a night, first I made the mistake of asking a question on here about my girlfriend. She looked over my shoulder and saw me choosing the best answer. So she blew the **** up, packed my ****, and told me leave or stay. I chose to stay because I really do love her no matter what. It was a hard decision because I don't see how she loves me with what the fight was about and it took until she was done packing up until I could choose. So she's mad about that and her passive-aggresiveness isn't helping my mood much. The mom is a *****. A total *****. She judges her daughter for being bisexual, not wanting to live a traditional Christian woman's life, not being a part of the famiily cult (and I'm not being edgy, they really are in a cult), and she hates me because I'm a trans woman. She will ***** about the house being dirty, that we have pets, that we're not married, etc. She will emphasize male pronouns when referring to me even though I no longer look anything like a male. I pass to anyone who doesn't know my past. She will be passive-aggressive and be a ***** every time anyone she doesn't like speaks to her. And she's coming over today. Again, I'm not really going to slap her, but I don't need to cuss her out either. I can't leave and go somewhere because my girlfriend's already mad at me. What should I do when she drives me up the wall? Oh and we stayed up all night cleaning the house and got maybe 1 or 2 hours of sleep so now we have bags under our eyes. What's a good way to get rid of them?

My brother's now fifteen and when he's with me he would talk away and we'd have a conversation about anything, but if someone else is there or he's at another persons house (for example, our granny's house) he'll be very quiet and rarely talk. My granny recently picked up on this and said he used to be cheeky/argumentative as a child (I remember this too) and now whenever he's down he'll lye on the sofa and pretend to be asleep, and that when he went to a family gathering recently (I couldn't make it) he was really quiet unless one of our cousins would approach him. It's not like he's upset or thinking about something, he just stays quiet and he'd even be embarrassed by being seen with me or my dad (he's always been like this so it's not just a teenage thing), sometimes even be argumentative out of being asked to go out with us. I doubt it's just a teenage thing, considering I'm nineteen now and never behaved this way, and I'm slightly worried and want to know if I can do anything. Any help? He'll also spend all day in his room on PlayStation talking to his friends from school or be watching TV

I m not going to go into great detail, but this summer I unofficially moved out of my dad s house, and moved in with my mom. I haven t seen him very much, but evey time I do, all he does is guilt trip me and make me feel bad about myself. I love my dad, we did have good times together in the past, like baking Christmas cookies together when I was little. But, I just can t be around him, and I have to have a life of my own outside of him. So, is it okay for me to miss him?

My cousin can't have children but I can, she wants a child but I don't. I meet all requirements to be a surrogate for her except the prior pregnancy. We have discussed it and she is excited if it will go through. Would anyone accept us?

My family and me are residing in grampa's house from dad's side and as an unhappy extra, with dad's papa lives his 2 daughters and the last 3 of them (dad's papa and his daughters, are plotting against us. Let's call those tree old but psyho, devils. they are plotting with most of theyr friends to badmouth mom so dad pick up verbal and psihic fights with her for over 20 years. We can't afford to move or rent an appartment for 2-3 years in the same village and they being aware of this, they keep poisoning dad's mind and mom is suffering and have some problems with hearts :( I don't know what to do anymore, nothing legal that i can do about those 3 old wicked ppls and i'm 25 :( What are you advicing me to do about those 3 sinners until i find a job and help my parrents to move out ? I'm afraid not to resort to sending dad's papa a compromising photo about the fact that they smoke and the old fart don;t know and don't tolerate :)) or yelling at the old fart even if he get cardial shock because he is the rotten root of all unhappiness in our lives. My soul is very shattered and everytime i get a little upset by someone, i tremble because of high tension...i think that i got as well some heart problems. Please, send me some good advices and answer honest and serious. I hope to get the day we all 4 live happy in our house and to do something about dad's naivity and trust in those awful farts even trough they have no proof of what they're plotting about.

I was in middle school and considered chubby. For some reason my aunt (around 50), hates me and seems to like to bully me and teach her kids to bully me too. I didnt do anything bad to her. She just seem to be aggressive toward me.

Everything I bring up my dad to my grandmother she gets very defensive. She refuses to see how he can do anything wrong. To a point she almost expects us to praise him like a godly figure. He does provide for my family which is something I think is wonderful. My father is not a easy man to live with. He can be very cruel to my mother and to us (my brothers). My grandmother said to me that I don't take any criticism about him seriously because I know who its coming from (me). I reponsoned with that's an insult towards me and she said yes it is. Im so grateful that my father does a lot for me. When it comes to his lack of total disrespect for my mother it's hard to not take issue with that. When someone disregards what you say because they don't believe their child could do any wrong it's really scary. I love my dad but everybody in his family thinks he a angel.

She just sent me a text. This is what she said "You need to get a handle on your money. I only work a min wage job, and I shouldn't have to work an extra job to pay my bills just to put gas on your car. I can't afford this. I did the math and your making me go broke. I get stuck putting 15 bucks a week in your car, and you talk me into getting you cig. Twice a week. Plus I have to put gas in my own car. I am almost always paying for food. This is why I never have money. I have no idea what you are doing with yours. And sort to break it to you but 30$ going out to eat is not a lot of money. And chili's is not a nice upscale in pressive restaurant. I don't keep at a fast food place all the time. And your stupid... You get 100$ in food stamps get you blow 100 in less than week at McDonald and taco bell. And uou are an idot.. You sell your food stamps for 50$ then I feel bad for your daughter and buy her good because you are to broke to buy her anything because you just pawn everything and but fast food and look at me to help you out. I'm am done and that 80 you owe me for buying you clothes keep it and buy you kid FOOD with it at the store.. I am so some. " what do I do?

I was 5 or 6 years old and my cousin was 7 or 8 years old. We would always tell eachother we would get married and stuff and once he told I'm giving you a piece of candy if I suck him off I agreed and he told me to lick his asshole and he did the same to me, we got caught by my mom and his mom and my mom hit me and started yelling at me that I started crying. We're both teenagers now and I'm socially awkward and have anxiety, and low sex drive.

I only ask because I'm curious and I've never had a step sibling. Do step siblings view each other in a totally platonic love? Do you think it would be weird if they fell in love? What if they were in their teens when they became step siblings? What if they grew up in a family environment but still became romantically involved? Again, just curious as to people's opinions.

5 older kids were trying to jump me. I was 8 and they were 10. I tried running in the house but my mom locked the door before I got there. then she told me to fight them. I said **** it and ran to my aunt house. they were arguing. She told my aunt she was teaching me how the world may treat me.

Im 22. Shes 18. Shes the pretty one. Skinny. Blonde. Prettier than me. Ive had many guys (also ex boyfriends) that would not give a crap about me and try to go for her. She would even flirt back! I feel like i can't even bring guys around her. The kids i went to school with dont even know me, but they know my sister who is like 4 years younger.. Can anyone relate lol? How should i feel?

my mom kicked me out 2 weeks before my 21st bday with no money to my name. When she kicked me out I'd been out of work for about a month but I'm working now with a job that pays $11/hr. I just made my first pay check and it was decent. But I've been sleeping on my cousin's couch at night. On my birthday (2 weeks after my mom kicks me out) my cousin told me I had two weeks to leave because it's too crowded at his house I guess. I know I want to get my own place but how do I go about that in such a short amount of time? I've never gotten my own place before and I'm really nervous about making that big step. Any advice?

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Me and my fiancée were planning on getting married in malta, this November. I told my mum because I don t like keeping secrets from her and I wanted to give her the chance to come. She flipped and said she will never forgive me and will never talk to me again if I did it. She hasn t got a lot of money and neither have we, hence why we want a small intimate wedding. I ve been in tears over it all and I want my mum to be there but I don t understand why she s being so selfish and not thinking about what would make me happy. I even offered to pay for half of her flights, hotel and passport, bearing in mind I am already in some debt. I also don t want a big wedding because my partners family are wealthy and already disapprove of me and my family and I don t want an awkward unhappy wedding day.

She is severely heartbroken by this. She is entering the teen years and needs both parents in her life. He received a promotion, and is not home all week (M-F) On his custody days (W-F), he is entirely out of town and has his girlfriend take care of her overnight. Never calls or sees her. Now, on his custody weekends, he drops her off immediately at a friends house. She spent last weekend from Friday to Sunday and overnight at this girls house. They are both pre-teens and I know there is a man in the residence here and there but the mother will not return my calls. I am worried for the safety of my child overnight, the fact that her dad fought with a lawyer for this agreement, and also the fact that when she comes home she asks why her dad isn't around. She clings to him and cries at my door to not leave. I am wondering if a lawyer will see my side of this and if anyone else has been in this situation? Also, he makes up for all of this when he sees her by handing her handfuls of money, candy, and whatever electronics (tablets, ipods) without her even asking. Thanks.

We get my step daughter every other week she is the same age as my daughter 8. I feel like I spend a lot of money and time on her and her dad sometimes can blow his money... Anyways I was just shopping for my birthday to go out and only my daughter was here this week she went with me and I decided to get her a couple things because she was said I was leaving. when i got back my husband was upset that i didnt get my step daughter anything but she isnt even with us this week and i was already spending way to much:(

My mother went to the funeral of four of her 6 aunts. The two aunts that were not at all racist were the two she missed. The three I knew were the ones I was warned were good people but very racist due to where they grew up. They would use the N word. Yet my mother loved them and was fond of them (they were otherwise very nice). So the two that were NOT racist she did not go to the funerals for. One time she said she was going to stay back because an uncle on the otherside of her family had just died suddenly and that funeral was same day (grant it that uncle had 4 kids and her aunt had no kids). The other one my mother had just had a baby and the death was sudden. So is she racist or is this just a coincidence? She attended the four racist aunts funerals but not the two non-racist aunts funerals. She also had a very racist aunt on the other side of her family but I only met that woman once as it was a great-aunt and my mother went to her funeral but it was local where we lived so there she had to.

My mother gets mad at her siblings often and won't let go of stuff. Sometimes she has the right to be mad for a few days but then she holds onto stuff for years. It is little things. My uncles and the aunt dont do this but my mother does. When I reach out they seem awkward seeing me because of my mother. So I sometimes (not always) miss out. So I worry I am 2nd rate because of my mother and there for have a stigma on me. So while my mother is not bad, she is bitter. How do I handle this stigma. I know I can't change my mother but how do I survive the stigma? I especially feel it at times of year that family matters (weddings, funerals and especially the holiday season).

I'm 16 and never met my biological father, he ditched before I was even born. My mum met my step dad when I was around 6 months and they eventually got married and he raised me as his own. He adopted me when I was 6 but my mum died a couple years later so it's just me and him. I've really become interested in finding my biological father but I just feel like I'm betraying my dad. He's being supportive and helping me but I can see the sadness in his eyes and face and has been off with me recently. I accidentally said my 'real' dad when I told him I was searching for my biological father and I think that really upset him. No matter what, my step dad will always be my 'real' dad. I love him more than anything, he raised me and nothing will change that. He taught me how to ride a bike, shave, gave me 'the talk' and just been the best dad I could've ever asked for. I was a difficult child and still am but he's always stuck by me, something my biological father never did. Now, I don't know what to do. Should I talk to him about this? Just to tell him that he'll always be my dad and that I love him. He adopted me 10 years ago in two weeks so I'm thinking about throwing him a party or something, just to say thank you dad. My Nan suggested it and I think it'll be a great idea. I don't him to feel upset by this, I just want us to go back to normal

Im out as gay and like this guy who actually happens to have the same first name as my little step brother. Im scared my family will laugh at me for it. Also i dont want him to feel weird about it. Me and my step brother never talk. what would you think about this if you were my parent / step parent?

My dad calls me a ******** and tells my family members to pull their heads out of their asses. He yells at us all the time and I can't remember him saying he loves me much. Maybe once? But I tried saying it to him once and he kinda laughed. He is really affectionate towards the dogs. Those things don't do anything. They lie around and then he calls me lazy even though I'm a full time employee.

Every time I yell at my son he gets really quiet and gets all stupid and can't do anything right. Like, I yelled at my older daughter and he still acted weird even weirder than my daughter. I asked him "what's wrong with you?" this morning and he just went to go lie down in bed. I haven't said anything that bad. "Get your head out of your ***" and "You're a d$ckh@ad" are just two examples of how I talk to him. Harmless right? I just don't get it. He also gets weird when I yell at his mom.

In March this year. I caught my stepdad cheating on my mum with this woman between around 15-20 years younger than her. She's 45 and my now ex-stepdad is 48. I'm 20. They were married for just over 15 years and they gave me a half-brother and a half-sister. Both of them are 15 and 14. I have (or should I say had) three step-siblings. Two step-brothers aged 24 and 21 and a step-sister the same age as me. As I was saying I caught my stepdad cheating on mum. He found out that I found out and ordered me to keep quiet. I only kept for about a week because it slipped out during a dinner. After I revealed it to mum, she argued with him and ordered him out. Six months later they are now divorced, never to see each other again. They're both also in a custody battle for my half-siblings. Since their divorce a few weeks ago, everyone has been blaming me for their divorce (excluding my mum because she said "it's that pig's fault"). According to everyone else, it's my fault because "I should've kept quiet" and "If I didn't reveal what happened, they'd still be together today". Everyone (excluding my mum) have turned against me - even my half-siblings have turned against me. They won't speak to me or even look at me because "it's all your fault". Is it really me that's responsible for their divorce?

I am college age and saw my uncle and his kids. My mother found out via a Facebook post. My mother and her brother dont talk so my mother expects me to be on her side but I am not on anyone's side. So what do I do? Do I apologize? Do I say too bad, they are family also? Do I deny I saw them and say it was an old photo? My mother is seldom on Facebook but was this weekend.

Do I have the right to resent this friend of my my mother's doing this and this not be comfortable around this lady? She is otherwise fine but I don't like it when this lady does this

My mom and he BF are tenants to our home me and my brother who is 22 are currently living with them. We have had ton of problems with my brother. He has very bad behavior and is very disrespectful especially to my mother. He has had to go in inpatient care and a social worker talked to him and us saying that if he continues his bad behavior there could be serious consequences for him and my mother could even get in trouble for letting him stay here because we have two little sisters and it s not good for their safety. He recently just fought with my mother and said he wants nothing to do with her all because she can t afford to pay his bill from being in inpatient care (he s also not taking his medication he was given) she told him that he needs to get out of the house but he will not leave even though my dad has offered to take him in. He said he doesn t want to move with dad until 3 weeks because he needs to put in a 2 week notice for his job and that it s bad to just get out of the school he s in. So my brother stated that legally they can t kick him out even though he doesn t pay any rent or any of the bills even though he comes home eats our food, water, showers, and even washes his clothes. All things he doesn t pay for. We don t know how to get him out of the house. What can we do?

My son is so worthless. All he does is eat junkfood, watch cartoons, play video games and stare at his iphone all day. I told him if he wanted nice things he has to get off his *** and get a job like the rest of us. He cries everytime I yell and makes this excuse that he can't get a job because he has school. I don't know what to do anymore. I have had it. If he doesnt geta job by sundown I am either kicking him out or shipping him off to military school with the finklestein **** kid. GOD DAMMIT

I'm use to having White stepmoms, I sort of feel that my father has betrayed me by getting engaged to a woman who isn't white like my mom.

My sister in law and i used to be close. Out of the blue she started ignoring me. She swore it was no problem with me, but she would never call or text back. She has been known to do this to a select few. My husband warned me about her. She gets along with most of the family and can be very sweet in person. Long story short, there are several family gatherings coming up. I cannot bring myself to be in the same room with her. I dont even wanna look at her. I told her off in a txt. If she sees me she will open her mouth and i will go off. It is best that i avoid her. Mother in law and everyone else loves her. How do i make the perfect excuse with out the drama. I hate this woman.

And my stepmom is Mexican?

So I recently drove approximately 250 miles on a camping trip with 5 other people. So since I was the only one with a car that could make the distance I decided I would drive. So we ended up getting to the camp sight around 2:30 AM and it was around 45 degrees Fahrenheit so we all just decided to leave the car parked there illegally. We were all aware that it was illegal but we weren't willing to walk 5 miles in the cold and on the beach and we weren't even sure if there was going to be a place to pay for the overnight parking since it was past 3 AM by the time we unloaded the vehicle. Sure enough I woke up to a $300 parking ticket and nobody offered to pay. I drove the whole way there and back, paid for half the gas, put many extra miles on my car, wore out my tires and got my car dirty with sand everywhere inside and out. I also spent at least $150 on things that they all consumed and didn't pitch in on. I know $300 isn't a lot but I'm a full time college student without a job at the moment. I understand that it's my car and I'm legally responsible to pay for it myself, but do you think these circumstances are okay to ask for part of the money? Any responses are good just want to hear your opinion. Thanks

Like whenever i need something i say "hey old man" "i need my car fixed" or something like this.

I have been a surrogate for my own sister twice. I have no desire to have children of my own and my sister wanted children badly. The world pulled a bad joke and made her infertile and not me. They had to use my eggs for it to work as my sister was born with deformed ovaries. I love my nephews and I am happy to know I was able to give my sister the family she wanted. At work, one of my colleagues heard I had been a surrogate and has been begging me to do the same for her.. She said neither of them are infertile she just "doesn't want to be pregnant" and would be using her eggs. She keeps talking about payment which is weird for me because I did it for free for my sister. She is offering $200 which seems a lot but at the same time is already talking about changing my lifestyle to be "ideal" for her child. She said she had print outs and a book for me to read if I say yes, on how to be a natural parent. Part of the lifestyle change is giving up all meat and processed food. The big sticking point for me is the no post-birth contact she is wanting. She wants no contact after the birth or for it to be discussed between the two of us. I would like to get updates even if it is just in the form of a picture or note. I have to give her an answer soon. Would it make me a jerk to say no? Should I ask for a more formal meeting to discuss specifics, I haven't even met the husband yet or know of their living situation? She agreed to pay all medical expenses but said that she could not afford more.

I'm 14 by the way and from Australia, Warning, it isn't easy to change my mum's mind Our school has introduced to us that there will be an overseas New York trip it will be 6000 dollars but my parents (mostly my mum) think that it's too much money and it's not worth it. Any tips to persuade them or raise 6000 dollars in ten months? Also this really means a lot to me.