Due to her childhood was very bad, she grew up like adultchild, she doesn't know how to close with others and don't know how to love others. Always alone, no body care of her, even her parents. Her parents treated them so bad.

I like this girl and she knows that I really like her a lot but I'm not sure if she likes me back. She invited me her party that her girlfriends are hosting. The only thing is that I don't know anyone that is going to be there. Would you invite someone that you know likes you a lot to your party? She must not like anyone else I assume or else she wouldn't invite me.

I want to be close to my cousin. She used to be friendly to me at school but I never showed her much respect back then. I was 13 and she was around 15. I believe she wanted a hug at school and I just ignored her and it was awkward. Shes 18 now and I'm 16 and I really regret what happened and we're not even close. Do you think she' cares about me and do you think we can have a good relationship without it being awkward? Shes 18 now so I'm quite sure shes drinking and having sex. Not exactly the cute 15 year old girl who wanted a cuddle those years ago... :(

I'm 19 and I have a 10 month old daughter who was not planned but I love her more than anything. I broke up with her father because I didn't love him as much as I thought. He's not a dead beat though. I'm in college studying psychology and I work. I've always wanted to travel and go out partying but I don't know if it's appropriate for me. Also, would guys still be interested in me when they find out I have a child?

I hope I'm not ranting here. lol. I don't have a lot of experience being around guys, which doesn't matter anyway as I'm a bisexual woman ;). Anyway, at university, I'm in a group assignment with two other guys. The due date is Sunday, and I had completed my work. One of the guys seems to be struggling with his work. The last message he wrote was: "I hope to finish by Saturday... if I don't, finish it and kick me out of the group" So not only is he passing his work onto me and my partner if he fails, but he is even leaving the group! So lazy... and it's no wonder why many young people, both men and women, scoff at the idea of marriage these days.

And its in snapchat... i don't really get how am i supposed to entertain him..:)))

My mom went on a date site and met this guy. He is younger than her but they really share a lot in common. They talk everyday through text for the last four months. He lives a little distantly so my mom is going to meet him as he doesn't have a vehicle at this time. He currently lives with his mom and sister. My mom has told us about this guy and she has asked him to please make mention of her to his mom and sister. He said that his mom and sister did not like his ex and he doesn't want to mention my mom yet because he is not sure what they will think or if they will like her. He is afraid to mention her before in case it doesn't work out between them. My mom has decided to give it a chance and visit him to see if he will make mention of her. He told her not to worry, that they haven't met yet. Is this a bad sign?

I think this guy I like is holding a grudge against because I sincerely apologized for crossing his boundaries & disrespecting him. I admitted that it was selfish & wrong of me to try & get him to change his mind about something he didn't want.. I told him I wasn't going to be bothering him anymore & hope things went well for him & im not demanding a response back but i hoped because I put my heart into what I said & meant it.. and thought he'd be mature about it and appreciate it. It's been almost three weeks since I apologized and it's slowly killing me not know how he feels about it. I almost just want to text him again & be like YOURE EFFIN KILLING ME 😩 WHY WONT YOU FORGIVE ME 😭 But I have to much pride.. Is he still pretty mad?

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2 years ago my 9yr old daughter was taken away from me by her mother despite having a court order against it. after years of court battles where everyone was against me including the judge. I withdrew my application and lost any hope of ever seeing my daughter again. now I am grieving, unable to eat or sleep. The world looks different to me, I am like a walking zombie. I don't know how I am going to survive this.

I want to fast forward to present day. When my mom is not around and she gets a message, I usually check it (don t judge)if its from the man, I delete them. They defiantly had something going on a long time ago. There is also times where I m suspicious if she s texting him, and if I ask can I go on her phone, she will almost slap my hand away.If she is texting, she usually turns away from us. For the last few days I was sick, and when she was in the garden, I checked her phone. My mom sent something to him along the lines of (BTW she also sent a picture of herself with pouty lips) "Ray, I miss your cuddles and and kisses, I m your boldy" Also, a few more facts. I learned his name back in 2015, Ray Brophy, I think I met him before 😡 and he calls my mom Boldy ..now, whether she actually met up with him while I m in school, I don t know. But I can t believe how terrible she is to my dad. He works 8 in the morning until at least 6pm, he is literally the only one working and comes home tired often. I know my dad loves my mom, and he would never cheat. Oh, did I mention I got the phone number of Ray? I saw it in the last text. I probably sound too involved, and creepy, but its soooo damn hard to ignore this. I m only a 13 year old girl, so I don t know whether I should talk to my sister, subtly leave out text messages that were sent...I m really confused and worried. Please leave serious answers, I feel so bad for my dad. Thanks to everyone.

suburban neighborhood. Recently, there have been people moving in that have made the neighborhood anything but great. First of all, a colored family moved in across the street .. their young son looks like he's probably involved in a gang and I feel crime is right around the corner for us. There's also a couple practicing homosexuality moving in next door .. I'm very offended by their total disregard for the Lord's word and I did not answer the door when they tried to come over. My husband and I are very concerned about how there are sinners invading our neighborhood and how can we make our neighborhood great again? I've put our Trump yard sign on our yard to convey where I stand on moral issues, but feel like there is more to be done.. considering having a pastor come over as well. I'm Opel Water and 68 year old woman here living in a suburban neighborhood.

I've never been the type of person to get really mad or hold grudges and i know they are people out there who do and I'm just curious how it makes people feel to hold grudges and not forgive the person who hurt them/wronged them, disrespected them. Does it get to them? Do they get annoyed everytime they see the persons name? Or at the end of the day? And do they end up forgiving that person?

I'm a 24 year old female (just turned 24). I have dated and kissed guys, have held hands, etc. but I am still a virgin. Some days I don't care but other days I get really bothered by it and am reminded of it. I am very pretty and I am a normal weight so it has nothing to do with me being unattractive. I don't want to necessarily keep it until marriage but for me I have always wanted to lose it to a guy I really really like but I guess I've changed now. I hate being a virgin. I have had chances to lose it but I didn't see a future with these guys so I decided against it. I know most people lose their virginity way earlier and I feel stupid. I feel like i cant even be happy in life right now and I try to be. Sometimes I just want to give up and just die. I also can't eat anymore, think I am developing an eating disorder because I went from 112 lbs to 104, now back to 114. I feel ashamed to be honest. What can I do to feel less embarrassed about this?

Yet, when I notified them about my going they, said they were okay with it. So anyways, today I got prescribed the two milligram bars instead of the one milligram xanax and I usually take two one mgs but I accidentally took two bars and when I got home I started acting crazy; so my friend's wife basically confiscated my xanax bottle and said I could have it back whenever I can afford to get a place. But I really need the xanax for my anxiety, and it is prescribed by a medial professional for an ongoing issue. I really didn't mean to take too many, but she doesn't seem to want to budge. What should I do?

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Thank u in advance for reading my story- I met this guy Jim through mutual friends months ago. He is such a sweet, good man. We r the only single ones in our group. We also have a huge amount in common. I know he has told one of the guys he thinks I'm cute. Which is a big deal. He does not mince words. This past Sunday night, our mutual friend's acoustic band had a small, quiet gig at a winery. I was the only one from our group of friends attending (besides our friends the singer and his wife). I told Jim the day before that'd Id be going to the winery. He told me his plans were still up in the air. Well he texted me the day of and said he's coming later. Turns out he drove almost 2 hours from home to technically just see me there for only an hour. He didn't drink a sip of wine or eat. My girl friends say he went to the winery just to see me. What does it sound like to you? Thanks!

I asked the guy I like if we could talk more & get to know each other because I like his personality & wanted to keep talking to him.. he said he doesn't have any interest in creating a long distance relationship or friendship because he found them tedious and a lot of work which is kind of a bummer because I've never wanted to talk to anyone as badly as him, anyway I tried to get him to at least give it a try and he got mad & told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again which made me mad cause I felt like his demeanor changed all of sudden so I was like if I had known you were so stubborn I wouldn't have said anything and that it was my apologies for wanting to try & get to know him.. after awhile I felt really bad and apologized for crossing his boundaries & disrespecting him, but he ignored it :( I honestly thought he'd at least consider the fact that I was mature enough to apologize.. I wanted to have a genuine talk & be on good terms but idk I guess he's still mad, I almost want to text him and just be like you're effin killing me, i want to know how you really feel about me?? 😩😩😩 but I have to much pride to do that...

Let's say i wanted to tickle a young family member or my son when I have one, How do you know when to stop, Should you be really light,am I missing anything here?yes it is kind of a weird question but I don't wanna overkill or wind up scaring them for life.

OK. So I work in a high school with students that can, at times, be highly volatile. I have a good relationship with most of them, meaning, I can usually talk them down when they are upset. Today, a student exploded and was being walked out by our security officer and a behavior specialist. The guard had to physically move the student into the front foyer. Said student started yelling that he wasn't going to leave so from a distance I asked him to calm down and leave as the security officer was advancing on him. Another coworker, "Bob", intervened and I convinced the young man to leave the building with Bob and told the security officer to back off and let it go as the young man was doing as he asked. After which the behavior specialist comes to me and tells me next time that he and the security officer are dealing with a student I need to let them handle it and back off. I told him no. because I feel that if I have a rapport with a student, then I should say something. I told him that sometimes, he and the security officer amp up situations unnecessarily and that if I can keep it from getting to that point I'm going to. and he walked off angry. I feel like the only reason he said anything is because I am a woman and younger than him as he didn't say a word to "Bob". I was angry to the point where I was almost in tears and was shaking and another coworker said the situation was trivial and I was blowing it out of proportion and that he was only trying to "protect" me.

they keep telling me to be quiet and the teacher too! everybody is allowed to talk except me. do they have a problem with me or something? they talk in the class too everyday and when i say something they'll tell me to stop or say " i wasn't talking to you" or "why do you keep butting in the conversation" or " we were talking to you" what should i do? answer!!!!!!

I really love my boyfriend. I really, truly do. But I am starting to realize that he may not be someone I can be with. We have had a lot of issues. But the main things that disturb me are 1) He resorts to name calling during arguments. I mean like throwing around *****, **** and just stuff like that. He says it's just words but that is bullshit. 2) He is 36 years old and while I understand economic times are tough, he doesn't show much ambition as far as getting a job goes. He has been out of work for like 4 or 5 years. He is currently renting a room out of someone's house and HIS MOM is paying his bills. She pays his rent and everuthing basically. He says he wants a job but he's only done one lousy job search and just doesn't show much... ambition of any kind to improve his current life. 3) He doesn't have a car and until recently he had a suspended licence due to unpaid traffic tickets. 4) he has a baby with a woman, and never sees the child because she doesn't allow it and also it's a sticky situation. But I know he owes a ton of child support. I'm supposed to be moving to his state, this weekend I am going to look am houses in his city. BUT... I am asking all of you because I don't really have anyone to talk to about this.... am I making a huge mistake in moving to him and being with him given all these things? If I do break up with him I know that it is going to crush him and im not sure how easily he will accept it. I still respect him despite everything. I feel like this is really going to take a big toll on him and I feel bad about it. I have been staying mostly because of guilt and also because I DO love him truly. But I don't know if staying with him is in my best interest. I am trying to figure out a way to break this off without absolutely crushing him. I already feel guilty about it because I care about him so much despite his odditites and set backs. Generally it wouldn't bug me that he doesn't have a job but I am weary now. I have had a conflicting time the last few months with trying to decide if I should end it or not. I feel like him and I have such an extremely deep connection that it has been hard to break the tyes. I want him to be different in a lot of ways... His temper is not good, the way he deals with fighting and disagreements drives me insane. He has said things that have really hurt me and I still haven't gotten over it. There is also an issue with him becoming increasingly controlling. When we are on webcam he asks me who I am texting when im on my phone or questions why im on my phone, he thinks its weird if I fall asleep and don't answer him and acts weird about me gong out with friends., If I did go out with friends he would want me to send pictures that prove im with who I say I am with and also send him my location. Which has started to bug the **** out of me. l feel like he questions everything that I do and at times my every move. Even benign things.... it seems that he is always asking, or interrogating me. I have started to feel like I am walking on egg shells with him most of the time and it is starting to drive me crazy. This is another reason why I think it may be best to terminate the relationship.

Ok, so at Hebrew school (I don't want to see anti Semitic comments) there's a boy I really like. Trouble is, I'm new there and I only know 3 other kids. He's really, well "cute" (I'm not really this type of girl, to call someone cute or adorable or anything like that) We also have stuff in common. We are both Safardic Jews (please, once again, no racist comments), usually older than the rest of our class (he's about 4 months older than me) and both our names start with M. I know this doesn't seem like a lot in common, but it's something. We're not polar opposites. I see him twice a week, 3 hours on Sunday and an hour on Wednesdays. We are 6th graders. Please, I don't want him to fall in love with me, I just want to be friendly, and then if we're good friends, maybe we'll take it to the next level (causally doing activities together instead of a group, nothing else.) I doubt it though. And I'm ok with just being good friends. Sorry it's so long, I just kinda need advice, and please no racist comments. If you have some, fine, just please please please keep them to yourself. Thank you for all giving me advice, it is greatly appreciated.

How did you resolve them? I have a hard time talking out our problems/arguments to my boyfriend because my lack of communication and I tend to walk away from arguing.. :/ so I want to stop doing that so he won't be upset at me no more..

There was this guy. I knew him from high school and we were always friends with a very strong connection. He liked me but I always had a boyfriend and frankly I thought he was weird. We talked briefly in December and stopped because I was going through a tough time...In August he reached out to me and we started talking seriously like dating. We became very close but because we already knew one another I felt free to fall for him although we vowed to talk it slowly. In the last month I got super possessive and weird constantly asking "what are we"? Questions. To where he would constantly have to reassure me and he got annoyed. Yesterday he told me that he doesn t think it will work out between us because he doesn t want a relationship and I do but the truth is I was happy with him just how we were. I told him we could still be friends. The question is what to do now? I wanna give it a couple months...hit him up calm and cool and see if he s into it.