so me and my best friend facetime almost everyday from like 6-9 and we have been doing it for a while... so just now her mom called her and i heard their conversation and her mom told her that "every day you have been on your phone for 3 hours and u need to spent time with ur family and not ur friend"... etc... i feel bad and i think it's my fault kinda and idk what to do

First date was last night. She said thank you again and that she had a good time. Then this morning texted me "Good morning, hope you have a good day!" Before our first date, she would sometimes text good morning. We text good night about every night too.

I like her alot however she always refused to date me, always had some excuse about ruining our friendship. After 4 years I broke our friendship. We did not talk for 3 years until we started meeting where she told me our friendship is important, not talking affects her life, I told her that I do not want to be friends since I will always bring up my feelings and I do not want to get attached, which upset her again, as she wished we could only just be friends and blames me for ruining her life just because i cant be friends with her. If i could, I would be her friend but it gets me to a point where our friendship hurts me because of the rejection and she belongs to another guy. When I am not friends with her, it also hurts because I miss her though I coped with that pain since I dont know anything about her life, however when I think about how she feels when I am not her friend, I feel terrible and guilt, I want to be her friend but I do not want to get hurt which happens anyway and I will never move on, how do I make everybody happy , how do i decide what to do, sometimes I just wish i was dead because i dont know how much i can take

Everytime I make friends they just leave me out and go hang out with their friends when that person is the only friend I have. This happens everytime. I talk to them and they seem cool. But after one month into knowing them they start to take advantage of me and leave me hanging and go hang with their OTHER friends. But yet I don't have OTHER friends. I'm just looking for someone who would be real with me and not just there to be a **** AROUND HORSE PLAY kind of friend. I've never had anyone like that. I guess I was just born in the wrong generation that I expect myself to be in. If this is the only thing there is for me that life offers then why try to put up a fight trying to make friends who aren't really there? Just give me advice. Am I doing something wrong?

I notice that it's mostly teenagers who get into drama because of fake friends. I don't see many kids causing that much drama because of that in other age groups besides from maybe some preteens. But tween drama is mainly over boys, crushes, and other friend related things like how one ditched the other for a boy. Then as high school which starts in 8th grade here the girls start calling each other snakes which is a word for a scamming backstabber and they make new friends at first but at the end of the school year things change and some become the most drama causing teens ever. Fake friend situations start as soon as they make new friends in high school even though it might have been as early as a few months! It's somewhat like those high school drama movies and TV shows but without much drama about popularity (although some kids hate a certain group).

I tried to condense as much as I could. I have a close female friend (at least I thought). She had a really bad week (some personal things I won't mention), shattered her iPhone, etc. She's a close friend and I wanted to help her. Talked to her, and asked what would make her feel a little better. Ended up bringing her up her fav drink to work, took her phone to my house and fixed it, and she said she had a headache so I brought her some ibuprofen. However, things went kind of bad...I was testing her phone to make sure it worked after I fixed it (camera, audio, messaging since I had to remove the sim since the tray was damaged). I tried sending a text to make sure the cell network worked, and no notifications popped up, I thought it was still broken, but when I opened the messages app it was there. I found out she had blocked all notifications from my texts and I felt sort of hurt. I drive back up to give her the phone back, and she takes it says k thanks and walks away, and I hear her make a joke behind my back as I walk away and all her co-workers laugh. Then, she texts me asking me a question, and then never responds. I feel so used and hurt, and I don't know what to do. I honestly just don't know, I want to just kick her outta my life for that. I didn't expect anything in return, but the combination of finding out she muted me on her phone, making a joke behind my back, and ignoring me is already enough. Any help?

For three years. One of the kids in ff, we will call her Stacy for now, has one of her bffs from school on the team. We will cal her bff hannah. I wanna be friends with Hannah, but Stacy is jealous and doesn t want Hannah to become close with us. Stacy talks to me all the time ab how she thinks Hannah is si annoying and how she doesn t want Hannah in fab five! I really like Hannah, and on insta I posted a picture of her. Stacy got mad and was like "wow ok" so I apologized.. should I of apologized!?! I feel bad because I talk to Stacy all the time about how Hannah isn t gonna get close with me, but that exact thing is happening, and I WANT it to happen. Hannah Facetimed me last night , and Stacy heard, and is really angry. I want to know, should Stacy be angry. Should I apologize. Who s wrong in the situation? Please help!

So basically here's the run-down. There is this girl I have been friends with for 3 years now, and we will call her Alice, and Alice is 16. So in the beginning of this friendship, Alice was great, but now, she is very nagging and hyper and she is C-L-I-N-G-Y!! She follows me EVERYWHERE and she is always making me weird things like craft projects and other strange things. Anyways, I've recently been trying to distance myself from her because she just won't let me be friends with other people. I want some advice on how to get her to get away from me. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I am trying to be nice, but it is so hard!! Help please!!

My friend is almost 20 and I've never seen her cry much before except for when she was 12 and I was like 7 because I put chewed gum on her hair when we were playing on a playground at my old elementary school but that's it. I'm now 14 and I wanna see her crying. She gets stressed out sometimes after doing homework and work so I thought of bothering her for a long time after she finishes her work but she just got frustrated but didn't cry. She's told me she was crying on social media because of something before but I didn't see her physically crying in real life.

I really don't , like i mean i have people that i speak to and go out to parties with but nobody to really properly hangout and watch a movie and stuff.. maybe thats how our generation is now or something i really dont know.. like a year ago i had a best friend and a few others but things happened and i realised a lot of them were fake or just absolute b*tches so yeah.. i'm a 19 year old girl and all it seems is that people pass through your life constantly nobody really stays and most "friendships" arent even real its just people either being too scared to be alone or having buddies to get pissed drunk with .. maybe im wrong but i dont know does anyone else feel like this?

I moved into my uni accommodation a week ago and since have struggled to make friends with the people I live with. There's 8 of us in total; 4 boys and 4 girls. I struggle to make friends with the other 3 girls as they are into make up, dressing up to go out and gossip etc. This is the opposite of me so I struggle to bond with them. I don't dislike them, we just don't click but they all do with each other which is making me feel left out. As for the 4 guys, one is a third year who is rarely here anyway. Two are really confident and outgoing and love clubbing. They are nice people, we just don't have similar interests so it's hard to properly bond with them. The other guy is quite shy and reserved and does not enjoy going out much. However, hes the most similar to me and I have sort of bonded with him the best. But, as he does not enjoy going out much, it's hard to make proper friends with him as he tends to keep himself to himself. On my course, I'm talking to a couple of girls but they're seemingly really good friends with each other and into the same things, which again, makes me feel left out as I don't share their interests. I have joined the university judo club but training has not started so I don't know any people from that yet. Freshers seems the most important time at uni for making friends and I have not had luck with that so far, which makes me worry about the rest of my time at uni staying like this. Any advice from someone who went through a similar thing?

I hate these guys. We all live on the same street so I'm always running into them, and they are mostly my older brothers friends, yet we all grew up together and USED to be friends. Nowadays they hang out all the time, but the only time they consider hanging out with me is if I hit them up first, and when i do they usually find excuses to blow me off. They've made it very clear i'm a last resort. I'm at the point where i want to give them a reason to hate me ( by telling them off) so I won't have to go around them when my brother invites me to hangout with them all, my only problem is I don't want to be outcasted by my brother since he will choose them over me (I know sad). Also my brother moved out so he prefers for us all to hangout at bbq's, parties, etc.

So im 14(boy) and my grandparents were going to Jacksonville to see some family and they said I could come so I could see my cousins who are my age So we got there yesterday and in front of our house there was a lake. We went down there at about 5 PM and we saw a group of kids across from us swimming. I was laying in the sand while my cousin(11) was talking to the group. I couldn't hear what they were saying but the group started calling my name. I went over and there were about 6 kids who were all 12. Their parents threw a party. There was one boy who looked nearly identical to someone I knew so I told him and he joked saying he was him. Out of nowhere he said my swimsuit is super high. The girls started saying really hurtful things to me and my cousins like" Are you anorexic or are you gay" I naturally left and to go home and they all started calling my name and asking why I was leaving. I said they were all mean and I didn't like them. The boy started saying he was joking and didn't say anything else which was true and that he thought I was cool but I wouldn't listen. I gave them the middle finger which I admit was wrong We went back down later and ignored them because we knew they would leave us alone. They all left Today I felt immensely guilty and distracted for rejecting the guy Im home now but before I was I talked to my cousin(13) about it and she said if she saw them she would tell him how I felt I feel bad. He did seem cool How do I get rid of the guilt?

since i was 21 i got in a lot of trouble since im not use to opening up to people ,im kind of a quiet guy ,most of the times im very kind to people , but people dont like my presence and look at me in a very bad way, I don t understand why people treat me like this if im just being friendly to them and not disrespecting no one i need an advice on how to handle this type of situation

I saw him and was passing by him without speaking, and he actually walked up to me, and started talking to me. Why would he though if he blocked me on social media.

I have friends, but I've never really had any super close ones that I share secrets w/or anything like what BFF's do (idk). I'm introverted and I don't usually talk much, but it's not b/c I'm shy. I guess some conversations don't interest me? I'm not sure exactly, but I don't talk as much as others. I don't really mind being alone; I actually prefer to do most things that way b/c sometimes doing things w/other people is a hassle. Like, when I'm shopping with family and I just wanna buy a new shirt or something and leave, but they wanna go into every store and stay there for 20 minutes and not even buy anyting. Or like, going to concerts or music festivals, b/c usually I'm the only one that wants to go see a certain show and I can't find people to go with (probably b/c of what I said earlier of not having close friends that wanna do stuff like that with me). And basically, you can just be on your own schedule and do what you want. Sometimes I feel like I would want a cool, close friend to hang out with, but it's not like I'm crying myself to sleep b/c I'm lonely. Its fine to me. IDK its weird. I don't mind being alone, but its like what if I'm alone for the rest of my life and I never have a close friend or anything? Will I still be fine, or will my life suck? I'm also not into dating or having sexual/romantic relationships with other people, so that's another thing too.

Im in high school, I dont smoke weed. I just switched schools and this kid im friends with smokes weed. Im hanging out with him soon, if it comes up, how do I fake smoking?

I've seen people in school who just never smile and who look mean. Now, this does not mean they are mean, I know that, but they have this look that makes one believe so. I have also noticed that when I am mean to people ( does not occur very often), they tend to be nicer to me. But when I am nice ( I really try to be nice for I think it would be better than being mean), people tend to push me away or at least they are not as nice as when I am mean. So why is that? Would you say being mean or looking mean, makes other people want to be your friend? Or could mean people just show confidence? Do you recommend being mean?

My best friend got a boyfriend recently, and now everyone is saying that i should stop talking with her, because she have someone more important than me. I know her since i was 6. Like, seriously, i moved from the countryside, and she was the first person to socially interact with me at school. I really can't let my friendship end because someone wants her vagina. My other friends are trying to help me to meet more friends (that's too freaking superficial), my parents are saying that i'm being a third wheel and i can see that her boyfriend is kinda uncomfortable with my existance. What should i do ?

I don't have any friends to hang out with anymore. I get so lonely here alone in my room I actually cry about it if I think about it too much. There are people at school who kind of act like my friends but we have absolutely nothing in common so I wouldn't want to be friends with them. They also like to make fun of me sometimes and I guess they don't realize it really does hurt my feelings. I actually used to have quite a few friends back in elementary school but now that I'm in middle school no one really like me anymore. All I really want is one or two close friends who respect me and share similar interests as me and I would be happy. But there's no one at school like that. Last year I was trying way too hard to get people to be my friend but I came of as intimidating and I made the situation a lot worse. Next year I'm going to move to a different school but I'm afraid that there won't be anyone who wants to be friends with me there either. I really really yearn to have good but I'm afraid I'll just be a friendless loser for the rest of my life, I don't know what to do!

And I'm already having a meltdown! I'm just so nervous because I'm going to highschool ( HS starts at 10th grade here, don't ask me why) and I'm worried that it's just gonna be the same thing like the past 4 years of middle school. I don't wanna be an irrelevant person that's always in the background anymore, I want people to back me up and realize that I'm nice and want the best for everyone ( everybody thinks that I'm a fake person that talks **** behind everyone's backs) and nobody is giving me a chance to show them the real me. My best friend had his breakout year in 9th grade where he was friends with everyone in class and was well liked. I think it has something to do with all the social media apps ( I don't give anyone my account because I don't show myself on the accounts because I think that I'm ugly and a gained weight). I know that I sound crazy but I really need help. Also there's a certain someone that I'm trying to get their attention, but they are one of the cool kids. Help me

Me and this guy have been talking for a few months. We live in different cities,and I've seen him face to face only once, but he's friends with some friends of mine. I like talking to him a lot, and I think he's very handsome. Okay, so, next summer I'll be at his city, and I'd like to spend some time with him. I'm not looking for a relationship, because we live in different places, but it would be nice to hang out, make out,have sex, you know, just have some fun. But I want to make him notice that I'm interested and that I want all those things without saying,because I don't wanna sound desperate,slutty or something, and specially because he's always very kind and respectful towards me,and always seems to be a good guy. Btw, I'm 19 and he's 26, and yes, we're both single. Can anyone help me,please?

I am in high school volunteering at another schools Halloween festival. I was told to wear my costume and it needs to be PG. My costume is a Crysis Nano Morphsuit with augmented weaponize(fake) wrist gauntlets, utility belt with trivial gadgets, and Gun holsters to carry 2 pistol Nerf guns. Is that considered PG? Should i take out the nerf guns?

Yesterday i was walking down the street with my sister, we passed grocery shop where one guy who was standing outside started to go after us. At first i didn't even notice or pay attention that he is behind us after few minutes walk i felt that my feet hurts because of sandals and i asked my sister if she has band aid. She started to look for it on her purse when i noticed that guy stoped and looked at us. He was standing like this around 1-2 minutes then turn around and walk away. He was looking behind his arm at us while he walk away. Do you think he was following us for purpose or i'm exaggerating? Even my sister said that she felt weird.

Lately my best friend and I have been growing apart. There are recent events have been events that have made us a little weary of each other and I decided I needed a break so I haven't been talking to her. She texted me wondering why I wasn't talking to her and I told how hurt she has made me feel the last few months and why I feel that way. She began to get rude and defensive and we both began to personally attack each other. I said something really mean and soon as I said it I felt bad. I apologized and said that hopefully we can get passed this and learn and grow from this. Since we hadn't come to a conclusion on the argument though I said that we should discuss it later and maybe be a little more civilized this time. She texted back but didn't give me an answer. We are obviously still mad a each other but I feel bad for what I said but I don't want to forgive her easily due to the pain she put me through. So how can we still salvage our friendship?

So I was talking to my friend and I had found out about her doing something with another girl, so I thought I'd tease her about it. We do this all the time (messing around about stuff) and we usually don't mind when we are teased about it. So I kept joking about it and she was laughing at most of it. I then made one last joke and I finished writing a sentence (this was at school) and I looked up to talk to her again and she was crying. I tried asking what was wrong but she just didn't answer. I don't know how to apologize bc she won't talk to me and I don't want her hurting. How can I approach her, apologize, and repair this broken friendship??? Much love to all helpful and serious answers 8:(

1. I was born with a disease that I suffered with in excruciating intestinal pain for the first 6 years of my life until it was diagnosed. 2. I don't honestly recall ever having a single hug from either of my parents, not a pat on the back, not even the words "I love you". I know they care though, I was spoiled with toys. Just not physical attention. 3. I was insulted by my parents. Been called "retarded" on occassions just for simple mistakes. 4. I've been bullied by grown adults. Mocking the way I walk. 5. I was even bullied by 2 elementary teachers. One always tried to make me feel bad about myself, another threw my backpack across the room and said to "MOVE IT" even though I was 5 years old and didn't know what I did wrong. 6. Every friend I ever made moved away and lost contact with me. I KNOW I didn't say or do anything to upset them in anyway. 7. I simply love life and see the equality and value of everything. I help those who need help. But if I ask for help, I get ignored, insulted, and sometimes threatened. There's lots more. But I will stop here. I swear I cry more than I laugh. What did I do so wrong in life??

I'm currently 14 years old and 6 ft tall, and it's just horrible to be that tall. Every time that i walk in a place, the majority of people are smaller than me, so i'm extremly visible, and everyone starts to look at me, making that kind of normal situation REALLY uncomfortable. Every time that i try to talk to someone in my classroom that is seated, i can see the person painfully moving their neck more than usual (and, most of the time, the person gets up to stay talking). Most people create preconceptions instantly when i get closer, looking kinda afraid and making facial expressions to make me understand that they're scared and ready to defend theirselves, but, when a NORMAL person go to talk to that same person, they just talk. It's just absurdly hard to make new friendships. The worst part is the fact that, probably, i will grow higher, because i'm in puberty. What should i do ?

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My long distance boyfriends best friend followed me on instagram. They live in the same city. Whats up with that? Hes not on my instagram.

I was kind of a loner for a while, and I accepted it until I met some pretty cool kids. I was texting one of them and I thought he wanted me to come up to his house. He lives about 35 minutes away. When I show up he and his twin were completely weirded out because they had no idea that I was coming. I was confused because I thought that they asked me to come. They may have been some Misunderstanding. And apparantly they were talking about me when I rang the doorbell so it was extra weird. Should I try to make it up to them? Was I wrong to have shown up? I felt like a stalker when I saw their reaction.

Someone texted me claiming he was from one of my college classes 3 years ago. I dont remember giving him my number nor do i remember him but he got the class right and professor right. Why would he text me three years later? I'm confused. I do not remember him at all. I have a feeling its a friend playing a prank on me but the friend who i think it is shares a mutual friend with me and the mutual friend knew him longer and says hes not smart enough to pretend to be someone else. What do I wven do?

I told this guy I would be in his city. Me: I'll be Las Vegas next month Him: I can talk to you for an hr or so. The last time he said he would only see me for an hour or so but he ended up staying the night.

so i just got into a huge argument with my friend because basically I "put her down all the time" according to her I: 1. Insult her book taste (I don't like to read and when she talks about books I generally just reply with something like " ah right sounds boring to me") 2. Insult her obsession with acting (no idea what she is talking about here, she doesn't even act) she goes to swats and said that i said " its for kids" when all i said was "Isn't there an age limit, you cant do it forever right?" (we are 17) she also said I use her crush against her (no idea how, except for one time my other friend was messing around on my snap chat and told her i love him but i told her afterwards it wasn't me and it was a joke) and she said I throw stuff at her (I'm simply just throwing her stuff that she let me borrow back across the desk to her it never hits her) Then she finished by saying " you need to know your don't give a crap attitude isn't cool anymore" she thinks I don't give a crap about anything especially college when I have depression and find a lot of things hard. so is she over reacting or am i generally horrible to her?

I'm in 8th grade and I want to go to homecoming with 3 of close my friends.I asked my mom and she said no.She is very protective of me.When my brother was in 8th grade he was allowed to go to the homecoming game by himself.Anyway she got an email from the school saying any middle school students who goes to football games must be accompanied by an adult (this has always been a rule and my school sends it out every year).my mom wants to go with my friends and I.Which is extremely embarrassing because no one else comes with an adult.It wouldn't be as bad if my mom stayed away from me but she follows me around when she goes places.And she always makes me leave early.No one follows the rule and no one enforces the rule.I want to just go with my friends.what's a way that I could convince her that we don't need an adult?Or what's a way i could trick her to letting me go with my friends alone?

I've had this friend, he considers us as best friends but I don't feel like it. We've been friends for a bit more than 2 years and he's always been really rude to me. Here are a few things he has done/said to me: He's in the enriched math and I'm in basic. He told me that I should've gotten into enriched (my teacher last year suggested it) for more of a challenge and I told him that I am struggling a lot now (which is true) and he stared at me and just laughed... He had tears of joy I told him that I would want to be an optometrist one day and all he said was "Yeah good luck with that you will f*ck up in university it's too hard for you". If I defend myself ever, he always says, "Awwww, is bwaby twywer twing to defwend himswelf and is fwawing" he says that in like a baby voice He always judges me from what I do. I use musical.ly and he just tells me reason by reason how it's the worst app ever. I'm not using it for money or anything it's just for entertainment. We help out at the school library together. He does it on a different day than me. But on my day, he says "Im going to help you out because that's what best friends do". Then he does most of the work on something that I like to do and says "it's sad that I am better than you at this and you've been doing this longer". One last time, I have so many stories from previous years (these stories are just a few from the first few weeks of school so far In gym class, we have to do this running test. We have to run back and forth in the gym and we have to make it to one end before there's a beeping sound and it gets faster and faster. Last year, I did it and I was one of the last people to continue because everybody was tired. My friend stopped at 4 minutes and I was doing it for 9 minutes and a half. This year, he told me that we both suck at cardio and running and I mentionned how I did do pretty good on the test last year(story will continue) (Continuation of story)And how I was in the top 5 out of 40 people doing it and he said "you did **** and everybody was just not trying hard". I'm tired of this, I may act immature sometimes and not get the best grades but I don't want to be treated like this. I will never confront him. Help. We have all our Classes together and his locker is next to mine...

There s this girl I met in church. We ve been chatting for the past 3 Sunday s now and Friday nights for worship. I m very interested her. She started attending to the church about a month ago but I feel like we have a connection. A couple weeks we got into conversation and asked her what she does for a living etc she just told me she works in retail and works a some women s boutique. Nothing else. I didn t see her this morning at service but found out by someone else that she owns a popular boutique in town. I had no idea! She never said anything about that! It makes sense now because she didn t tell me exactly which retail store she worked when I asked her. Is there a reason maybe she didn t want to tell me?

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people tell me I'm pretty. This one kid that's popular is always talking to me. He's always asking if I'm his friend and he asked if I could make a handshake with him. He even offered to take me to this popular girls birthday party ( I don't even talk to the girl). He volunteered to be in my science group and is always telling people I'm his friend. One time he even blurted out "Do u love me" ( WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?). If he's just talking to me to be his friend that is super weird because the popular kids at my school don't talk to kids like me at school they stay within there group and friends. So I don't even why he even started talking to me. But even if he wanted to ask me to one of the dances or something he probably couldn't cause at my school there's the squad and if you ask someone To the dance or something that's not in the squad( the popular kids) the girls in the squad will totally hate me and start bullying me. So do you think he likes me?

Okay I have a very close BFF and we are just on our own, just the two of us. I want to have a squad and be popular, my sister is really really popular. I mean like how can I be popular with my best friend at the same time, I know some popular like me but mean people are like 'shut up' the summary is how to get popular with a friend I can't just leave her hanging.

Hi, so I m only 19 and I m in a situation with a friend she has anxiety and I ve always been there for her and I worry about lot about her..and I always try my best to motivate her we talk about everything that s wrong with her...and even tho I call her beautiful and smart..everyday it never seem to help we really always in the same she talks about every guy she talks to and how they always change...and I want to maybe tell her something to maybe feel better about herself...she use to cut herself and she s down mostly 24/7 and even tho I don t mind talking about her problems and I always give myou opinion everything I say to her she s always like "I m not worth it" we ve been talking for like 2-3 months now and it just seem that nothing I say changes anything I feel so useless and I feel that nothing I do helps I just want to do something good for her and maybe help her a bit...I just...idk...I m just out of resources on how to deal with it..but I llike always be here for her...so please I m just looking for some tips on how to handle everything because I feel like I m not doing anything even tho I m trying my best.

Hello, I am in eighth grade. I am 13. I have a lot of friends in school but also quite a lot outside of school. Boys and girls. They are mainly freshman and sophomores. Some do drugs but its not that I am worried about cause I don't really do that. Its just, my mom doesn't know any of them. I got invited to a Halloween Party by my friend. He is a sophomore and my two other friends (ones my mom knows) are going. I don't want to lie to her but I know I have to cause she wouldn't understand. So I need advice. What could I tell my mom I am doing but then I'll go to that party. Suggestions? Thank you.

I told this guy I would be in his city. Me: I'll be Las Vegas next month Him: I can talk to you for an hr or so.

My grandparents live an hour and a half away on a golf course, and there's this girl in their neighborhood, and I sorta have a crush on her. But, she has this friend that I also sorta like too. I've talked to the friend when we were by ourselves for a few minutes, and we were messaging each other on Instagram last night. How do I get the friend (Named "Toria") to like me back?

So I have two good friends but i feel that it's not enough. I wanted to know how to make more friends? Since it seems that everyone is on their phone in their own world. I like to play basketball, work out, go to sports games, bars and clubs.

I'm in 8th grade btw. So my friend groups is relatively close like during school/after school we'll all hang out and stuff but then there are times where everyone will split into 2s. Now my friends said that we should all just be best friends and not have an individual best friend but clearly they do. 2 of them always post stuff of each other saying 'that's my best friend' and then the other 2 always go out and post it on social media etc. I have a few other friends but they all come from similar backgrounds so they'll talk about stuff like that and I can't join in. I've told them how it makes me feel before but they just found it funny. I don't know how to make new friends now as everyone has their own 'groups' and I have no one. For example like unless one of the 'peacemakers' of our group invites us all round then I never go anywhere as they just invite the 2s. All I want is someone who I can hang out with a lot and tell secrets to. How do I find someone like this. Thx in advance :)

I'm just a 20 year old, shy and taciturn male but my classmates in the college, bully me and they laugh at me... They call me "pyjama boy" and they try to irritate me... They say that i'm a wimps, incapable and coward person... I don't have any friends and it's obvious that the people, who try to have a friendship with me, feel sorry for me...

I've known her for about 3 years now. She's nice, but she's one of those people that wants to hang out every day. If I hang out with her or respond to her texts, she will want to do something for the next several days. Problem is, she's very draining and always wants me to go to her house. I recently had a personal tragedy and don't always have the energy or time to hang out with her. When I do go over, she complains about her bad dates or other trivial things. How do I gently convey to her that yes, she is my friend, but I can't be catering to her when I am going through grief and depression?

A friend of mine AWOLed out of Little Rock Job Corps Center and now he wants to return. I think you have to wait one year after you get terminated for AWOL. He was terminated January 20 of 2015.

So this person messaged me saying "Hey it s Heather! R u doing badminton?"... I don t know Heather. But I don t want to tell her I don t know her because I might have just forgot about her and she remembered me and I could hurt her feelings... I am very confused. What should I do?

My friend (girl) is off at college and have a pretty rough time there. I was hoping to send her a package of fun pick me ups but I have absolutely no ideas. Any help would be awesome!