I was the one to find her. She worked nights so when I left at 6:40AM like I normally do, she wasn't home yet. I got Back home at 6:30PM and noticed her t.v in her bedroom was still on. I walked in to find her still sleeping, or so I thought. I called my husband, who was still working, and asked him if she was supposed to go to work that night. He said yes and told me to wake her up. I walked over, shook her shoulder, nothing happened. I shook it again and whispered her name, nothing happened. This time I shook her with both hands and yelled her name and still nothing. I turned her over and knew right away that she wasn't sleeping. I called 911 immediately. They kept me on the phone until paramedics got there. I called my husband and sped home as fast as he could. Within minutes of his arrival the paramedics pronounced her dead at the scene, claiming that she had been gone for hours. They took her to hospital where they made it official. My husband is devastated. His dad died just four years ago and now this. 30 years old and having both parents gone. Don't get me wrong, it pains me greatly to see my husband mourn, and I have cried a few times with him, but I am really not all that sad. She was a terrible person. Racist, homophobic and rude, she hated my guts for the first few years of our marriage and almost caused us to divorce. Even in the end she went two days without speaking to me for god knows why. But I cant help but feel guilty for not being the slightest bit sad. Am I wrong?

I'm getting a divorce. Currently working part time and in school. I need money to get home. And the only way I can think of doing that is working full time. And if they let me do online courses. What are my options?

She is 20 and I am 30, we have been married for 2 years and I love her dearly. However lately she has started dressing in extremely short skirts and shorts where her a** hangs out. In public people make comments about her outfits. She has an amazing body, in amazing shape but she is constantly getting backlash. I support her in her decisions ultimately, but can I get opinions on this?

I got married in 2014 me and my husband lived together for about 5 months. After he just left with out telling me why or where can I contact him.2 years past and I met someone else who I got pregnant by. Now I have a 1 month old son. How can I get a divorce? And how long should I wait for ut to be approved?

Este proceso ya es más fácil y rápido que lo que erá gracias a esta nueva reforma del Papa Francisco desde Diciembre del 2015. ¿Alguno ya lo realizó? ¿Si es rápido y más sencillo de como lo era? Gracias! (Experiencias por favor)

I messed up, how do I get my wife back? I love my wife. Let me say that first, she and I have been married for a year and a half. So we live in Provo Utah but I have been dealing with some stuff and so I took up very heavy drinking. When I was drinking I would pass out drunk and wake up hung over the next day, shower brush my teeth use mouth wash and go to classes/work. One night when drinking I fell and hit my head and broke both my legs, I fell down the stairs. Anyway I was given some pain medicine and started taking it with alcohol and was rushed to the ER. I guess the final straw was when my wife tried to take my vodka away and I pushed her....I hate to admit that that happened. I do not like to think about what that does to her. I am experiencing night terrors from being abused as a child, was homeless for four years until a family from my church took me in. I am a damaged man wanting to get help but I don't want to deal with these feelings alone how do I get her back? I need her to be there with me when I go to counseling and I need her to be there when I get back. As you can tell from the question my wife left me and went to stay with her sister at her place. She said I need to think about us. How do I apologize and show I want to get better.

I feel like over the past few months, my husband and I have been struggling. And he probably doesn't feel that way, but I do. We have two toddler girls, and will be married for three years this November. I'm not saying I want to divorce him, but I can't help but feel as if that will happen sometime in the future. I don't feel like our marriage began from a strong foundation, we sort of rushed into it. I don't feel completely happy with him. We're not very affectionate anymore, and I don't really care to have sex with him. A lot of little things he does frustrates me like crazy and we argue about really petty stuff a lot. I understand that there are ups and downs to marriage. But I feel as if, even on our worst days, I shouldn't be daydreaming about a life without being married to him...and being single. I've suggested so many times in the past during arguments that we should find a marriage counselor before it's too late, but he never felt like it was necessary and that I was being over dramatic. So we would sweep issues under he rug, until they crept back up again and again. I want to have faith that this marriage will last a long time, but it's very hard at this point.

My family is eur0pean and have n0t inv0lved the state in 0ur pers0nal affairs since 1806. when I, m0st 0f my peers, and all 0f my relatives married we did n0t inv0lve any g0venremnts and never have t0 w0rry ab0ut that stuff. we sign marriage c0ntracts bef0re hand and b0th parties must agree 0n the terms s0 if the marriage fails is it always fair..and n0b0dy ever has t0 g0 t0 c0urt. d0nt y0u think that way is much better, m0re fair and civilized? like the new wave femnist m0vements that have pr0duced these unfair stabdards and laws i think there sh0uld be a m0vement by men t0 refuse t marry in that manner if they persist.

he was honest and told me he was married. We had sex more then once. I'm in an unhappy marriage... Getting divorced. I just can't help to think why is he doing it? Is he really married because he hardly ever mentions her. She's like a non factor. I'm only in it For the sex. I do want more... I feel like I love him but I honestly don't want to break up his happy home. I feel maybe I give him that spark he needs back in his marriage... IDk.But he just makes me wonder. FYI I am type damaged my husband mentally, emotionally and sometimes physically abused me. I feel worthless and I don't think I'm worth anything but sex. Sometimes I don't care that I'm taking him from his wife but the good that's left inside feels so bad because being cheated is very hurtful... I know.

So is it 1 yr, or 2 yrs. A coworker said that her now husband and her, waited for 8yrs before they walked down the aisle. They got married in January of 2014. He is now 53 and she is 46. They both have very successful careers. But being engaged for 8 yrs is a long time, and a year and a half after getting married they were separated for a few months and now they are back together again. So any feed back would help. Thanks.

A guy said he'd message me after his trip. We haven't been out yet but he mentioned wanting to. It's been a few days since he got back. Do I text him to plan a date? Or wait for him to keep his word?

My husband and I have been married for three years. I've been happy. As of the past several months, (maybe close to a year?) my husband (we are both in our early/mid 20's) has been talking about quitting his job, and living "off the grid". I don't want to live like that. He hates secular work. (I really think it would help if he found a job he liked, but he insists they're all the same) I'm pretty sure it's illegal, but he doesn't care and also believes that he won't get caught. Last week, we started having a discussion (not arguing) about how he feels that we are "stagnant" and like we've accomplished nothing in the past three years. I keep insisting that we are young, and that it's normal but he isn't happy with that. During said conversation, he kept saying how when the lease on our apartment is up, that he wants to move back in with his mom until he's ready to go "into the woods", and me move back into my parents or wherever I want to go. Not really because he doesn't want to be with me, (so he claims, anyways) but more so because he feels his family "needs him so much, especially before he goes into the woods". His mom (who is really awesome, by the way) insists that he's just being ridiculous and that none of this will actually happen. But it's just so confusing because some days he can be so sweet, and the next day it's like we are just friends. Should I start letting go emotionally? I don't want to get a divorce, but I don't want to get blind-sided, either.

My husband has known his employee for 8 years. She's married with 2 kids. I'm at a wedding and she shares that she cut my husbands toe nails at work. And then also shares asks me about my job telling me she knows I was debating quitting. This bothered me because she and my husband are discussing our personal conversations. and I know he's talked to her about other things too. Should I be upset about this? I know there's no bad intentions like cheating here but it just bothers me that they have this type of relationship.

He is 57 and has never been married and has no children. He is not a virile man. He only has a bachelor's degree and works as a general contractor. I make more money than him. My mom should date someone who makes at least as much as her son does. He tucks his shirts in his pants when wearing casual clothes and wears socks with sandals. He has a disgustingly hairy chest and sometimes wears button down shirts that he does not button all the way to the top so you can see some of his hair poking out. He drives a truck. He does not pluck his nose hairs. He has really bad crow's feet. He wears cheap cologne when going to fancy restaurants and mispronounces the names of foreign dishes he orders off the menu. He is voting for Hellary Clinton. The list goes on and on. He is really pathetic and an embarrassment. How can I make my mom see what a loser he is?

I am an American man, 34 years old married to a beautiful woman. I am known to drink sometimes and recently I have been diagnosed with liver cancer and I have a maximum of 3 months to live haven't told my family about this because I don't want to hurt them.. I am planning to tell them that I will be dying soon how can I let them know? Please help me nothing can be done

I am always on the lookout for ways to broaden my circle of business contacts. There is one lady who is part of a group that I volunteer with on Saturdays. We don't talk much there (due to the nature of the activity; it's not conducive to that), but I discovered that we're in the same line of business, and so it would be a good thing generally for us both to connect about business and if we can be helpful to each other. She is totally hot. I thought that she was hot and would jump at the chance to meet with her 1-on-1 even if there were no networking/business benefits. So...should I avoid asking her to meet for lunch or coffee? We're both "taken" and I wouldn't want to be using business as an excuse to connect with her, when I find her extremely attractive; that's just not right. Thanks.

it tastes like salty mushroom sauce rotten.. I don't want to swallow it but he says it means I don't love him if I don't, does it get better?

My sis inlaw just stared college beautiful young girl and she has moved in with use for a couple months. The first couple weeks were good but she's been walking around in these ridiculously small booty shorts and tank tops lately and it was driving me crazy she's so hot. But then last night I was doing laundry when I saw her basket of dirty clothes and it smelled like her I thought I was alone so I got one of her g string thongs and started to use it to pleasure myself but as I was cleaning up she walked in behind me and started to talk I was trying it hid every thing but she found here g string covered in my fluids. She was so disgusted she smaked me and told me she's keeping it and she's gonna come up with something she wants and I'll have to pay for it or she's telling and showing my wife what I did what should I do should I try to explain it to my wife was I wrong please any and all advice is helpfully I'm going out of my mind with stress fell free to email me about it as well

This is hard for me to even open up about. But i was sexually abused when i was 8 years old. I've been thinking about opening up to my wife about it. But then i have a change of mind for some reason. I guess its because as a man its not easy to talk about,

My ex husband of 7 years ( physically and sexually abusive for 5 year) and I adopted a son after the miscarriage I had due to the abuse. In the process of adopting our divorce was finalized. Our son loves his father and I won't lie he's an amazing father to him ( and O know he wpuld never hurt him). I filed for divorce it's not a secrect and in the process not only did I lose a husband (which I'm not complaining about) I feel like I lost my child since he feels I made daddy leave for no good reason (he's 6 so he can understand the basics of divorce but can't understand my personal reasons for my divorce). Our son's bio sister needs to be adopted (she's about 3 months old).Anyway my ex husband wanted to adopt him together because he wants to adopt him and so do I plus we already have a child together. I want for her to have a father and a mother like her brother however I don't want to find myself in the same situation as before. I asked close family who knows about our relationship some say "yes" some say "no way" I just don't know what I should do for either situation. Any advice would be greatly appiciated.

A friend of mines is fooling around with this married guy she's been seeing him for years. When she first met him he lied about his marriage an family an my friend ended up getting pregnant by the guy but ended up loosing the baby she found out about his marriage via Facebook afterwards she tried to break up with this man but he just won't leave my friend alone. He keeps convincing her that him an his wife isn't together anymore just to see her an every time they get together he gets angry an upset when my friend insist he uses a condom.

My friend told me after 16 (uk) your boyfriend/husband has a right to discipline you as they see fit if necessary by "law". Because they're your closest legal guardian. This seems a little far fetched to me and I think shes pulling my finger but it does sort of make sense to me since when you move out your parents won't be around but my bf/husband would. And well i've heard of some pretty strange laws like you can't eat an orange in a bathtub in california.

My brother is getting married in January and he is having a small, intimate wedding at a resort in Mexico and he said he only wants family and his closest friends to attend. I of course was invited because I am his brother but he also invited my mother and told her she can bring a plus one. Of course I thought her plus one meant she would reunite with my father but no she said she is bringing Steve, her boytoy, to the wedding which is highly inappropriate. This is an intimate family gathering and casual boyfriends should not be allowed. Even my sister is wise enough to know not to bring one of her casual sex partners to the wedding. My father will be there and will be heartbroken to see my mother with a new younger man. It is very rude and disrespectful of her. I told my mother I will not come to the wedding if she does not uninvite Steve but she said NO. She told me that they are serious and that they eventually plan on getting married so I should get used to having him in her life and in mine. I told her I refuse to ever be friends with him or accept him as my stepfather and I told her that if she marries him I will disown her. She said that there is nothing I can do to stop her from being with him and that she will marry him regardless of what I think or do. Why would a mother choose a boytoy over her own child? I thought women's strong maternal instincts made them always choose their children first over anyone or anything else?

Ok so basically I was married once before my current wife. I got married at 20 and at 23 I had a child my unfortunately my first wife died giving birth and was left to take care of a baby boy. Then about 6 months after my first wife death I met my current wife in a grocery store. Basically we hit it off and ended up dating and got married, as pretty much she helped me raise this child and in a way became his mom. Now I am 27, my child is 4 years old, so my current wife has been with me for about 4 years and boy even calls her mom. We are getting divorce because she cheated on me. I don't want her in my life and anywhere near my child. Since she helped me raise him she feels a connection to my son like if my son is her son. When we argued about divorce I told her that once we get divorce and I move on I just want to cut her out of my life and not be near my son. She threaten me that she's going to attempt to get full custody of the child or the very least joint custody with mandatory visitation. Morally and legally does she have the right to do this? Especially considering that my child is not blood to her. It's not like she adopted him or anything but she did help me raise him while we were married. Registered Immature? How, she's not blood to him, and I want nothing to do with her. He is young and will get over her, and in the end of the day its not his real mom. And I'm not going to deal with a dead ex wife, and then ontop a ex-wife who wants custody of my child that isn't biologically hers and having to deal with her and then step-family on her side, sorry but she's not his mom. And to some extend I need to take care of my well being to some extend. Registered Are you going to suggest I do that with the next woman I date, or the on one after that? Sorry but he is my child. I can do what I want, and logically its best for the both of us. We can move on, he's young, he won't remember, he is going to already deal with his real mom being real. We don't need the burden of a cheater mom and put him through divorce of a person who does not even belong to him and then he has to deal with Step-family And to people who say "you always have to put your child first" well it depends, you also have to take care of your needs to be fit as a parent. Just like how in an airplan you have to put on your safety mask before your child. Life works that way instead of stupid black and white chiches. If her being in my life is going to cause me anger and distress its going to affect me. And to those who will say it doesn't have to affect you, well it does, and its actually natural and resonable Its actually logical for me to feel that way. You people like to put barriers on normal human emotions and slave yourself into social construct and cliches.

Below are my wife's complaints. Any advice? My coworker has been working here for a year. Ever since she came, my boss has never given her any tasks to do. For example, I have more on my plate but boss will add more. For example yesterday he only sent me out to buy him coffee, freeze his coffee and go out to buy dinner My coworker was just sitting at her desk, why didn't he ask her? My supervisor even complained about her performance and the boss never called in my coworker to warn her. He said he and the other bosses like her personally. As a result I don't like my coworker and give her dirty looks whenever she comes in. Why does the boss let her have it easy?

It's been a few months since we had sex but within a few weeks he's told me he doesn't love me anymore and he wants to break it off. I thought my period was late due to stress. I am so lost now. I, scared he will try to stay once he finds out I'm pregnant. I don't want the baby to grow up in a loveless marriage.

About 4 years ago after I moved here from Texas I met a married gay couple who offered me a home and fianancial support in return for performing sexual acts with one of them. The other is a Psychiatrist that has worked for the state department and local prison systems throughout the California area. In addition to myself there has been dozens of young males that have come and gone through this "Family". This psychiatrist is Harvard trained and a master manipulator. He should know the difference between right and wrong. After 4 years I have finally refused to have sex with his husband anymore and am now being evicted. I would like to expose this person. He should not be practicing medicine. I have emails dating back to 4 years with both men that involve specific sexual acts and money exchanges.

My husband and I are both physicians married for about a year. We are both well-educated and come from affluent families. However, due to our respective careers, we are not able to live together in the same city at this time. While we were dating (2 years), we were living together. I am getting fed up with my husband's neurotic pattern of behavior when it comes to our separate finances. Specifically, he wants me to pay rent when I visit him and stay for extended periods of time (3 months at most). His reason is that while I am doing this, I am subleasing my apartment and "making money." I cannot comprehend why he would even feel the need to ask his wife to pay him rent when she is visiting him!! Do you think this is normal behavior between married people? Even when we were dating, he was adamant we split everything 50/50 early on. I think he paid for the first date, and that was it. Other men I have had longt-term relationships with would never even think about letting me pay for anything! Neither of us are in debt. His parents are actually quite well off and paid for his entire education (college, medical school, living expenses, luxury car, etc.) I really cannot comprehend why he is so cheap with me. Should I divorce him? I think this is an inherent character flaw and we have had so many arguments every time he feels I have "ripped him off." Please advise. Thank you. By the way, he is a surgeon who makes ~500k while I make around 300k. He makes considerably more than me and still wants to charge me rent when I visit. Everything else (groceries, utilities, dates, etc) is split 50/50. When my husband visits me, the thought of charging him rent has never even crossed my mind.

When we re found each other again after 15 years of not knowing anything from each other, he got divorced and I already had reasons to get divorced myself, but not plans, I didn't even have a car on my own, so I had to gather the money to get a car and then to pay a lawyer and have a place to live so I could send the divorce papers, once it happened in the mean time since he is in another state he said he was dying out chronic loneliness, he said as soon as I was ready he would leave everything for me no matter who he was with or where he swore he was gonna leave everything for me so I suggested myself for him to find someone else in the mean time, so I trusted that if I was the true love of his life like he said I was he was gonna fulfill his word and he did find someone else and his attitude towards me started changing until I was not longer the love of his life and I told him the most horrible things he has ever been told and that he cannot believe any word I say and that I don't even know how to love. It took me a year and half to get all the money I needed for a car, a lawyer and to get another place and when I was one month from meeting my goal, he stopped loving me I feel so angry, sad, dissapointed I could have just go with him, but I have a child to take with me, and I have no body in this country I am a foreigner would I have been alone I would have gone to him just like that

So the story is, I'm in love with this girl. We've been together for about two years now, 8 in the same city and the rest is when she was abroad. She came back recently for about 3 weeks, and it has been literally the greatest time of our lives. I had this habit of forwarding my cell, not all the time (since before I met her) and it's the most thing she hate in this world. Okay, the thing is I'm having exams this month, plus my home city is under military siege, so I'm kinda constantly worried about my family given I have a sick grandma (cancer) who can't travel because of the war going on. I really hate this situation, seeing your home town getting ruined and all the memories, your family is there trying to survive, life and it's sh*t. Anyway since she traveled she kinda changed because she knows this time she'll stay for 2 years. And the question is, what's that about? She said she isn't happy anymore and she just doesn't feel it anymore( she was happy a week ago when we were together) What did really happen? Is the love gone? Is it me? Is it her? P.S I do intend to marry this girl, I'm just confused. What should I change or do?

Would it bother you if your spouse smiled at, stared at and was very friendly/chatty with others but were a little mundane and boring with you? They say they are like this because they relax around you yet you always find yourself carrying the conversations and putting in the effort yet when you are out they are very friendly, chatty and smiley amongst others. They also Facebook message people of the opposite sex an post selfies and get likes and comments from those people. They say you should trust them and not be bothered by this type of behavior because if you trust them it should not bother you , but would it bother you and should it?

Hi! I am a 24 year-old woman, and my husband is 26 years-old. We got married at the beginning of Summer, which is when I told him I was abstinent. I wanted to be with a man, but I don't want sex. He's been trying to convince me to have sex with him for a while now, but I don't want to. I believe that sex is wrong, along with any other sexual things (kissing and masturbation). Yesterday I came home from work, an I caught him with another girl. I was really hurt, and I kicked him out of the house. His excuse was "well it's hard to control urges when tricked into a sexless marriage." I thought he loved me for who I was on the inside, not the outside. I need time to get my head through this, and I fear it may end in divorce. What should I do?

so I liked a guy for many years and he is from a very traditional country that marries young.We both liked each other. Recently he told us friends that he will be getting married in a few years, and he is still young. we convinced him not to do it, but he doesn't listen, his family is forcing him and he doesn't rebel somehow. If he knows he will be arrnaged to marriage someone else soon, then why did he liked me in the first place? and still gets jealous somtimes? I am so devastated. I really wish we can somehow get married, but not right now because we are young (19-20). and despite I like him, I really dont want to convert to his relgion after the marriage. but the thing is, I really love him as a person and I just can't let me go? help!

My boyfriend and i have been talking about getting married and i wanted to know if i to will be responsible for his child support fees? He has 2 kids from a previous marriage and he pays 450 dollars monthly... let's say one day he decides to not pay it will i be responsible for making sure its paid in other words could we both do jail time ?? Will they garnish my check being that i make more then him???

What reason bothers men/women the most about being with someone seriously who has children already? and why is it such a big deal?

I've been super bitchy to him and I've said some not so nice things to him that I don't mean. He hasn't responded well and I can tell I made him upset. We haven't really spoken the last couple days and it's my fault. How can I make it up to him? I feel bad

She has been in the secretarial pool for nearly a decade. She has been single that entire length of time, as she was divorced before she joined the firm. I have never known of her to have a date, or a man interested in her in any way, shape or form. She has made passes at every man in the firm, me included (and I am 20+ years her senior). She openly brags about making passes at her son's teachers, her son's classmate's fathers, and any man she encounters in her daily life. In addition to this, she also openly brags about all of the men that are in love with her online. These men invariable turn out to be Nigerian 419 scammers, but she refuses to accept it. She was "engaged" for about two weeks to a man and she asked for a pay advance for his "basic travel allowance" from Nigeria, in the amount of $5,500. That's roughly one-fourth of her entire yearly salary. Request denied, of course, and the "engagement" ended. While the bragging is annoying, the passes at the male employees is causing some major issues. When she is reprimanded, she just says flirting is part of her personality and she "can't help it" that men flirt with her. Only they aren't flirting with her, they want nothing to do with her. But somehow, she doesn't see it. What more can I do? She has been reprimanded, received a demerit after harassing a young man in procurement for nearly a year (and he was engaged at the time, now married) and has been suspended. I am at the end of my rope with her.

Here s the deal : my daughter is turning 9. We generally do joint birthday family parties at a restaurant. He s remarried. Im not. We had one at his house and it led to heartache because she assume her dad and I would be getting back together. So we decided if parties are at home they will have to be separate. She now wants a huge friends party at home. She s begging me for a sleepover party. I told her for sleepover it could only be 3-4 girls because im the only adult at home. She was sad because she wanted all her friends which is like 15 girls. I suggested she ask her dad if he would give her a big party so she could invite the other girls; but to invite both would be inappropriate. I also told her dad this but he never told his wife. Now the wife says well if you re doing a party we just won t do one now. Urgghz. My other thight was to invite the 3 girls and just call it a sleepover. They can bring a gift for her at her dad s party. Any suggestions??

My boyfriend told me that he would take care of me while I was sick. Instead he chose to ignore all of my calls and texts. His ex only lives a few blocks from me so I went on her block and sure enough his car was parked outside. I was so mad that I slashed his tires. He kinda figured it was me but I denied it and asked him how does he know his ex didn't do it. He claims that me and her are the two suspects. When I asked where he was he wouldn't admit that he was at her place. He wouldn't even say that he was with her at the time so it couldn't have been her. I don't know how do we keep going from here. He apologized for not being there for me when I needed him. Why did he apologize? Do we keep trying to be together or move on?

I have high social anxiety, I am 57 and have never been married, and have'nt worked in 40 years, no kids, and very few friends if I know what a friend is? what should I do? I know doctors just want you to take a pill, I think it's all up to me, but my mind won't concentrate long enough to make toast.. I have multiple sclerosis and been on disability all might life, help help help

Im a divorced father of two young kids. I pay child support each month. I see my kids at their soccer practice for 2 or 3 hours on saturdays and will stop by my ex wifes house occasionally during the week to see them for a few minutes here and there if I have time and I will call her at the last minute to let her know I am stopping by. I can't be around them alone because of some legal issues pending. Is this being a good dad?

My mother in law recently found out she has stage 4 brain cancer, my husband is taking it really hard, he is shut down she is the only person he will talk too. He gets so mad, when we say we fight it he keep saying,what the point it stage 4...i just dont know how to get my husband back this is not him or how to help him? He yells, drinks, he shut down all these things he didn't do before?

A year and a half ago we were granted custody of my then 3 year old SS (now almost 5). We just received paperwork that she wants full physical and full legal, which is what we have. My husband and I also have a child together so my SS has grown up around his brother for the last year. Other this is biological mother getting married there has been no other change in circumstance. We will be contacting our attorney Monday but I wanted to know if anyone else has dealt with this or has any insight to if she even has a chance of turning this around? It would be so terrible for my SS.