I think they looking good in movies (celebrities) but in real life I don't find then attractive. I find it annoying how they chase a girl who was a toddler when they were teenagers. I usually prefer guys my age or 1-2 years order. I once tried dating a guy 5 years order (which is ok) and where was a different in mentality

He's a very sweet man. He gives me love & is selfless. I've asked what is I can help him with but I don't even think he knows. Hes misunderstood. Most people see him as an idiot but they never let him speak. They only judge him. They don't know he writes me love letters, buys me chocolates and roses, cooks for me and with me. My last boyfriend only saw me as a body but he makes me feel indescribable. He says I calm him, he's honest about his depression. He never complains or whines to me he pretty much just tells me I'm amazing and how much he loves me. I'm not used to people like him. I don't think he's used to me because he's fresh out of Highschool. I know he got picked on for being mixed and didn't know where to belong. He still feels lost as a Latino man in our relationship seeing as I'm brown and he's white/yellow. He's so giving and all people do is take from him. We don't have sex he makes love to me and he doesn't talk about my body like my ex's he tells me he loves when we do it. He's so good to my family. People judge us because he's five years my junior but he protects me. I don't mean to sound emotional but he's one of one. What do I do

I'm not married and live alone in my house but what if I hire a female maid would she like to tease me after shower @them, sex without feeling any love and sincerity is a BS for me. Prostitution is nothing, I need sex with love and good relationship in it.

Wasn't wanting to be a parent. I feel miserable trapped Inside parenting I don't care for it and want to leave it to live my life the way u want. My misery is sabotaging job opportunities also. I'm depressed because I'm doing something I don't want to at all. I feel dead and get no joy or have a care for this child I've been raising. Anyone else feel this way. What can I do.

I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 21 before anyone says anything we come from a community where the girls usually get married young and the age difference is not that unusual plus the girls are not supposed to have sex before marriage where then guys are always experienced beforehand, we are going to get married soon but we are in a secret relationship at the moment which again is normal in my community but last night I was joking around saying I had another boyfriend out of town and he got kind of upset and said that's he's "territorial" and I asked him what he meant and he said "figure it out yourself" what did he mean by that? Does he want me to be pure or? Thanks in advance!

Everything when I see my boyfriend's a lot ex at his facebook which is last year of them that the girls dump him I started to feel sad but...Am I stupid?

Example 1: talking to his ex 24/7 told me he thought he had feelings for her still. Example 2:Started sexting this girl he met thru a friend. I had left him after that. He blocked her from everything n we got back together. Current situation: on August 1st:I was getting an off feeling, so one day while he was in the shower I decided to go through his phone hoping I wouldn't find anything but of course I did. I found messages from his "Best friend" who is married and has children may I add. Admitting they mess around, how fun it is, how he should get me a job with her husband so night time would be safer for them to screw around. Calling each other bbygirl & daddy. Emotionally I was done BUT i had no where to go so I started looking for a place to go and honestly hoping he would admit what he was doing. Well, on September 2nd I found out I was pregnant and also was told by the bf sister in law the girl thinks she might have an STD. (Sister in law didn't know what I was going through, she just likes to tell everyone peoples business)/ So I flipped out and confronted him about EVERYTHING and left him. Currently crashing at my cousins place now. He said he will be there for me and my child but yeah... Our of anger and resentment I went and slept with someone else. (IT WAS AFTER I HAD LEFT HIM) and he found out- now he is trying to tell everyone I cheated on him and that he wants a DNA test.... I don't know what to do anymore.. has anyone ever been in this type of problem before?

A water type trainer, who loves to swim. He has copper blonde hair, red eyes, and tanned skin. He's serious, and can be a bit of a jerk, but is good at hart, and falls for girls at the drop of a hat. He's tall, and has built a lot of muscle from swimming. Partner: Staryu. A grass type trainer, who is very sickly, and has to take a lot of medicine. He has messy, red hair, dark blue eyes, and is extremely pale. He's very kind, but is a bit of a smart@ss, and enjoys messing with people. Is average height, and very skinny. Partner: Vileplume. A psychic type trainer, who is very lazy, and spends most of his time sleeping or eating. He has brown hair, yellow eyes, and slightly tanned skin. He's nice to his friends, but is also dirty minded, often popping off sexual jokes, or hitting on girls. Surprisingly, he is also extremely intelligent, having skipped through middle school, and has a 240I.Q. He's short, and a little chubby. Partner: Abra.

My husband and I recently moved to a new neighbourhood two months ago and settled in. Recently my husband has started working full time and he is back only early in the morning. There is a 85 year old deaf man whose our neighbour and he lives on his own. He barges in and invites himself to our house whenever I forget to lock the door. Last night he barged in at night! before going to sleep I made sure I'd locked the door. I tried talking to him and the other neighbours but they don't take heed and it's left on deaf ears!!! I don't know what to do it's driving me and my husband insane! I'm almost sure he has a spare key to our house!

I work in an office with 12 other women. A employee from another department Mindy was transferred to our department. To say she was beautiful would be an understatement. She was gorgeous. If there ever was a trophy girlfriend/wife she would be it. At first we all did not like her as we thought our boss Bob, a 29 year old single guy would give her all the choice assignments. That didn't happen. He treated her just like the rest of us. No better and no worse. We also started to like her as she was such a nice person. One day we had a staff meeting and Mindy was not there. We asked Bob if he noticed that Mindy was beautiful. He said all my employees were beautiful. WOW, he is good. Someone ask him if he would like to date Mindy. He said he was not allowed to date anyone that worked for him. He said, can you imagine the gossip that would start if I dated someone that worked for me. Another one of us, Linda asked Bob if he would date her if she did not work for him. He said "We have a date the first day you don't work for me". All of us are wondering the same thing. Is it possible for a single guy can resist dating such a beautiful woman? Could they be dating in secret? What do you think about what our boss is saying. Is he a good boss or a bad boss?

All of our friends throw themed birthday parties for their children. This year we decided to have our kids party at a park. We're planning on renting a bounce house, but the only cake my wife can find for Mickey is a luau themed cake. So now she wants palm tree decorations and is planning on having balloon table cloths from the dollar store. She insists that it all (decorations, favors, food) all follow the theme. Since we're doing a bbq, the cake will fit in perfectly. We're trying to do this on a budget, and my wife is spending countless hours on the internet surfing for the right decorations and favors, which would be fine except we don't have a final count on guests yet. Is it necessary to have goody bags for guests of a children's party? I would prefer just generic decorations, but she likes to center the theme around the cake. And before anyone judges...yes I know that it doesn't have to be extravagant, but the early years (toddler years) are kind of important for both of us to celebrate. My wife is already frazzled due to last year's fiasco...a 25 person party turned into 60+ overnight (my fault) with an extra beer run in the middle of the party, and on top of that my wife was late to the party due to a crisis with the cake order. She says we don't need beer, but it's customary where I'm from to serve it for the parent guests. As BBG commented, it's not unusual to have beer at a party where an actual meal is being served. All of our friends do the same thing. And for the record, the budget was my wife's idea.

Parent sleeps on toilet. So my mum every night a few times a night she sleeps on the toilet. This might be a weird question but I'm fed up. Other people have to use it and she will literally sleep for hours on the toilet with the door wide opened. I'll wake up at night and there she is and it takes sometimes a hour or so to wake her up and now I can't sleep cause I had to use it and having to try to wake her up. Everyone in the house is having a issue with this trying to wake her up. When it is brought up to her she thinks it's funny. She never takes it seriously. She won't see anyone about why she keeps sleeping there. So talking with her doesn't help at all. She says she won't before and she does it either way. I'm so tired of this it's been going on for years and I can't take it anymore. Only have one washroom and can't make a new one either. By the way I can't move out either so don't suggest that.

I've been at this job for just a couple months and so I still have questions and need further clarifications. However, my training wasn't well executed and as time goes on, I am getting more and more assigned to me, so I'm almost constantly learning new things and in need of training info. Anyway, long story short, this coworker of mine has been in very slow and inconsistent process of training me for this task that I am taking over from her. Everyone in the office knows she's kind of a b****. She's made sassy comments at me times before, but yesterday, I had had enough. In response to a terribly rude email and a face to face convo, I emailed her and said that I would not tolerate being talked to like that by her and told her she had a nasty attitude. But I did end it with saying that from now on, I hope we both can be kind and understanding with each other. She never replied and after telling my mom about it, she insisted I tell my supervisor about it. So I did. I showed him the emails and told him I might have been too harsh. He went and talked to her and now I know that we are gonna basically have one last training section and maybe even last direct contact. My supervisor told me not to worry about it. But I feel so bad now. I'm 21, she's like in her 50's. Everything is okay now, we just went through a little training sesh with each other and we're good. But I just want to know if I was too harsh? And general thoughts on the matter

I have been a private caregiver for a couple in their late 80s for 5 years now.I love them very much.The issue is the grown couples children they fight in who does what and when all the time over everything,constantly pinning me against one another,seem to be bothered if I ask for any type of help,I do everything in addition to adls,med refills calling in anything missing setting up appts,grocery shopping,drycleaning Have hired 3 additional caregivers since we now need 24 care. I find myself closing my week well over 50hours a week.When I am off I get constant calls from them since couple is very attached to me and complain that Im the only one who knows how to do anything.Yesturday the son called that I shiuld do payroll for me and other caregivers he too buzy. Single 9-5 job the other 5 children barking orders from out of state.Im drained emotionally fiscally just want to quit,but I fear they will not get the care they need if I leave what should I do

I called it off with my ex about 3 months ago. Some nights I find myself crying over him but I don't wanna be with him anymore. I think about him alot through the day but I'm not in love with him anymore. All things stated, he knows that I don't wanna be with him. He knows that I speak to other men and his reply was I'm still in love with u but there's nothing I can do about that. I may call him everyday for a few days then disappear and ignore him mostly because he's a ego boost when I'm feeling down. The other day when was talking I told him that my car had been dirty. Do u know that he drove 3hrs away just to wash my car and then drove back. He is even starting a saving account on my behalf because he knows that I party and is careless with money. When I asked him why is he doing this his reply was " because I'm a nice guy and the other guys aren't seem to do it for you and left" What should I think about all this?

Is it okay to send a Christmas card to my ex s family? Mainly fot his Mum but do I write to ______ and family or just to her...

Soo, I asked the guy I liked if we could talk more & know each other more & he said he wasn't interested in creating a long distance relationship, friendship or otherwise and found them tedious & a lot of work.. he said he doesn't mean anything personal by its just how he felt in general w/ a sad emoji at the end almost like he felt bad or something... anyway this is what I sent back.. "I am nice, I am too nice, and I'm kinda sad that, that's how you feel about long distance relationships cause you'll never know unless you try.. and I think that I'd be nice to just have someone to talk to, wouldn't you want that?" & he lost his chill by telling he thought he made it clear by remaining nice.. wtf. And told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again... I feel like he wasn't really being straightforward and honest but instead tried to hide how he really felt.. 😩😩 I don't know please share your opinions, he's slowly killing me 😭

Todo ese día estuvo muy cariñosa conmigo y vino a mi casa al día siguiente solíamos hablar diario pero ahora me contesta como súper equis aúnque ella me dijo que no perdía nada con intentarlo la neta no la entiendo y eh pensando en valorarme y dejar las cosas en ese punto ustedes que opinan?

Idk if it's that I'm scared or not ready. Women started paying attention to me at 12. I was a hot 12. At 17 i still look 12 (babyface alert). I'm tall, fit, handsome. I've flirted time to time but never had sex. I've never had a girlfriend until this relationship and I'm 5 years younger than wifey. I can probably make love but I can't do porno style sex. I don't think I have the stamina because I've never had sex in general. I'm cool with holding my girlfriend from the back and kissing her neck but anything further than that makes me doubt myself. I'm cute but I was the nerd (still nerdy but I'm handsome). I can barely do the mile run at school without sweating like a pig how am I supposed to hump and give her oral for 3 hours straight? Me dirty talking would probably be me saying I love her and she's my everything. She's called me sexy, cute, handsome etc many times but I'm always judging myself. I can't touch her butt without feeling like I'm dehumanizing her. I'm too sweet. I defiantly want to make love but not sex. I want to give her chocolates, candles, roses etc I want to spoil her but I'm insecure. I'm only 5 inches long. I'm 6'2 & weigh 139 lbs. I'm almost certain I'd cry during sex. Actually I'm scared but I love her. Any advice

I have a hopeless infatuation with one of my managers. We are both 25, but he's been married since his late teens. I respect his marriage and trust me, I'd never tempt him for an affair. Not to mention, he makes it obvious how in love with her he is. I didn't mean to develop feelings for him, it just happened. I am going through a bad break-up and I see my manager almost every day so he became a great distraction. Unfortunately now, he seems to be all I think about. I dream of him. We're even friends on Facebook now. This infatuation is pretty much consuming my life. I know I can't have him, so how do I get over him? I've thought about finding another job, though I wonder how miserable I'd be without him in my life anymore. It's so difficult. Help?

I think I'm self sufficient on my own but I'm not. The truth is I'm dangerously lonely because I can't let many people into my personal circle. I compromise myself everyday. I have passionate words I want to say but nobody to say them to. I search for every flaw in myself put myself down and than embrace them. My true love is with another. I don't care for marriage papers I care not for a soul mate but for a partner in this crazy life I live. I have a lot of emotional baggage, I have a light shining on me and I'm just there Infront of the audience gripping my fists and I'm plunging into the crowd. Allowing them to carry me. Who will I hold at night who will I comfort who will I cry to besides my god. At 17 I'm lucky if I live to see 19. a 21 yr old woman broke my heart only making me the other guy for her ego. I'm a virgin, I'm sensitive, all my friends know I'm a lightskinned simp. I've never had a girlfriend. I'm the life of the party but when the lights go up I'm a spectacle waiting to be blemished. Women adore me, other men hate me. I could never do a 1 night stand, because that's what created me. Just my mother and I. I'm a momma's boy always taking selfies with her. I'm handsome & I'm smart but I'm not wise. I'm mixed up of every race, I don't know how to feel. I overthink everything. I'm depressed but it inspires me to continue my grandios feats.

I am noticing more concerning behavior now that I'm around him all the time and not just every other weekend. He walks on his tiptoes at all times. He has a shoulder head roll tic that seems to increase if he's upset or stressed. He has started sniffing frequently and it's not from a cold or allergies, just quick sniffs every few seconds. He can't tie his shoes, can't dress himself in appropriate clothing on his own, and does not pick up on social ques like when his teacher seems exasperated that he keeps raising his hand and saying "I have a question!" before launching into what he may or may not know to be a fact about what his teacher is teaching. Any experience with issues such as this are greatly appreciated!:)

around this time last year my fiancé left the state 2 start over where his family relocated. The plan was to get on his feet, find work and we would look for a place that we can afford until I found work there when I came w/ our son. This didn't go as planned, my living situation back home didn't go how it was suppose to go and I never got a chance to save money and the way things went for him out there he ended up coming back. It's been a year and here we are struck in the same spot before he left and we are in dire need of a fresh start for our family, relationship, & peace of mind. I'm just wondering if it would be a dumb decision to reconsider trying to move again and take that leap of faith. I feel so trapped where I am like there's no way out.

When my husband goes to work from 9 to 5 i'll call my african american friend to come and bang me all day long lol he gives me cream pies and when my husband comes home he leaves so he gets sloppy seconds is it wrong of me to do this? Just my bbc friend is bigger and better. ;)

I've been sleeping with the neighbor's wife for two years. Eventually I got her pregnant and later got divorced. Her ex husband doesn't know any of this and we're not sure if we should tell this to our kid. The reason for the affair was due to being ignored and I know it was wrong when she could have divorced earlier. Should we tell her ex everything? Is it bad if our kid knows nothing of this when she gets old enough? Definitely not his. He never even wanted to sleep with her. Her ex husband was always out hanging with his friends and never made time for her. Here's the thing. They are divorced now. He has no idea. Does he still have the right to know?