Family: Question: Smelt my deceased grandfathers scent?

Question: Smelt my deceased grandfathers scent?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 02:34 PM PDT

My grandpa passed away a month ago. Two days ago my parents and I were driving in the car. My dad rolled the window down and I suddenly caught this very strong smell. It smelt just like my grandpa used to smell when I would hug him. My question is, was it a sign that my grandpa was there?

Question: Should I respect my dad if he doesn't respect me back?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 02:18 PM PDT

All he ever do is complain and complain about me every single day. (that I'm so stupid and name calling). He always yells at me every single day. But to me, "Respect is a two way street, if you can't give it, don't expect it." I believe in this quote a lot. My dad doesn't respect me, so why should I respect him back? All he ever does is start arguements and complain about all of us sibilings. He thinks that empowering us gives him satisfaction. He always threaten to hit us and all.. But he always say that, "I'm your father, you cannot speak to me like that." To me, I don't care who you are, you don't talk that way to your kids. So, What do you guys think?

Question: Should I just forget about this and not let it bother me?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 02:16 PM PDT

I am a 16 year old girl with a stepfather that is 10 years older than I am. My mother remarried a much younger man. He is the greatest dad any girl can have and I adore him. After hearing other girls my age talk about their dad, I think I am the luckiest girl alive. He is always there when I need help with anything. I have learned so much from him. My problem is when I have my friends over or I go to a school event, they all want to flirt with him. They tell me how lucky I am to have a hot and sexy stepdad. I sure don't think of him that way. He totally ignores all of their flirting and never says anything to me about it. However it embarrasses me to no end. I tell my friends to stop flirting with my dad and they will stop for awhile but the always start again. They tell me is just too cute not to flirt with. I am thinking about not having my friends over to hang out with me and not having dad go with me to school events so I will not be embarrassed. I would hate to do that. Since it does not seem to bother my dad as he ignores these girls, should I just forget about it and not let it bother me?

Question: Why is my little brother so toxic?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 02:02 PM PDT

There is normal sibling behaviour, but then, there is my brother's... - He has no respect for myself, my sister, our parents, or any other family members. - He is overly secretive. - He will act defensively, or aggressively if you even say "Hi" to him, or congratulate him on something. - He constantly has a sarcastic attitude. - You can't even have a conversation with him because he will get too angry at you for even asking him a question. - He is constantly on defence. - He is generally unpleasant to be around. - Nobody ever attacks him, and he is respected by everybody, despite his horrific behaviour. - It doesn't matter what you say to him, he *will* have a go at you. - He has been this way, for as long as I can remember. - He will mimic your voice or laugh, if you even make a sound. - If you jokingly poke fun at him, in response to how he's just treated you, he will become Mr Super Defensive and act even more aggressively towards you. - He is never violent. - I have been told he does not behave this way in school. I know that people have trouble with their siblings, but usually it's provoked, or easy to solve. This isn't the way with my brother. As I said, he treats everybody in my family this way but I get the worst of it. I am never mean or rude to him. I treat him with kindness. I fear for him, as he will be an adult very soon and I wonder how this will push his cruelty further... Why is he so horrible? We are respectful, loving and kind towards him. He is so scary.

Question: I love my two children from my current relationship more than my child from past relationship?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 01:57 PM PDT

My oldest child is from a previous relationship that i had when i was a teenager the first years i loved my child more than anything as time passed she started rebelling and treating me badly because she says im the reason for why her dad left (i never told her that i left her father because he was abusive to me). In college I met my husband and we have an amazing relationship and had twins after we graduated and sometimes i feel like i love my twins more than i do my eldest. Is this normal? I feel horrible whenever I think about it.

Question: Is my mom dying?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 01:56 PM PDT

So I know there is no way of knowing but I just want some opinions. My mother abuses drugs and has lost a lot of weight. She weighs 88-90 lbs. She was 130 something. She thinks she has cancer but cant afford the test. Her face is sunken in and she just looks awful. She uses the bathroom on herself. She acts constantly tired and in pain but i feel like its just a show to get drugs. What do you guys think? If you think she is dying, how long do you think she has

Question: Was my aunt wrong in this remark about the gift I gave her?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 01:44 PM PDT

For my aunt s birthday I gave her a crystal candy dish. I had her over for her birthday and did a cake and supper for her because she is widowed. Later, she looked at the box and snorted that it was made in China. I am on a budget and I can t afford Waterford crystal or top of the line crystal. I was taken aback at her remark.

Question: Do you think he s using me??

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 01:36 PM PDT

Me and my daughters father split and he wants me to live on my own. Bring my daughter over late at night. Then us to hookup . I just find it stupid if we don t live together.

Question: How would you handle an abusive father?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 01:36 PM PDT

I grew up with an abusive father. As being a man I was told to just suck it up but as an adult in a healthy relationship I discovered just how much my childhood has affected me. If I didn t do well enough in school he d shun me and purposely treat my siblings better than me. I never did drugs, skipped school or gotten in trouble with the law. I graduated and live on my own but it doesn t seem like anything I do is good enough for the old man. I m in a relationship with a wonderful woman. A few days ago she cancelled coming to my parent s house for supper. When I asked why she said she doesn t like how my father talks to me and hates to see how he just brings you done and treats you like crap. It was a real eye opener. She never said to cut my father out but that she doesnt' feel comfortable. She doesn't want to say something she'll regret. I just hate that my father emotional abuse is rubbing off in front of my girlfriend.

Question: Why do my parents have a better relationship with my brother than me?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 01:24 PM PDT

So I m 17 and currently at college earning the degrees I need to get into university. My brother who is 19 has a full time job as a mechanic. Over the last few years my parents have started treating me differently, kind of like I m a waste of space and I m not worth their time anymore. Once I get in from college on an evening my parents are cooking tea and getting the jobs done, straight away I put my bag down and start to help them. They don t seem to notice this or even notice I m there, they don t ask how my day has been or whether I m okay. However when me brother comes in from work, they stop what there doing to ask him how he is, what he s been doing etc. They always seem more interested in him than me. Money is also a problem, my brother has just borrowed £1500 to buy a car. I asked my dad if I could borrow £65 for my course fee s and he said he can t afford it because he s got other things to pay for. He doesn t explain anything to me or he doesn t help me find a solution to this. That makes me feel like he doesn t want to help me out. Also my parents drive my brother into town and back on a Saturday night when he s out with his mates but when I ask for a lift to my mates house they say they don t have time so I end up walking. I feel like an outsider when with my own family and I don t seem to understand why?

Question: My mom?! Help! :(?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 01:12 PM PDT

My mom started going down the wrong path a few years ago and quit all three of her jobs the same day. She then later became an alcoholic and was addicted to pills. I was 14 at the time so seeing her like that really made me upset and she wouldn't take anyone's help. I remember always watching over her as she stumbled and fell walking through the house It was usually a school night at around 3 in the morning. I began missing so much school that I got charged for truancy! The court system called DSS on my mom and I got tooken away and got put in a house with my dad. My dad had 5 other kids and only had a 1 bedroom house so the told my mom if she went to rehab that she could have me back. She went to rehab and 2 months later I was back with her again! She was doing so great until she got married to an alcoholic... She relapsed... Her and her husband had no jobs and we got evicted. She then decided to divorce him.. I was just 16 so I dropped out of school to get a full time job so we would have money since my mom refused to get a job... We then got evicted again because I couldn't do it on my own. At just 17 years old I moved into a home with my boyfriend whom I had been with for 2 years. My mom went and moved in with her new bf and his family... Well, his family is recovering crack addicts. My mom is now so strung out on methadone and she is in a terrible situation but she refuses any help! Recently a family member caught her asking random people for money. Me and my boyfriend want to help her but she refuses any help we give! Our family is completely done with her so I feel as if we are her last hope. I cry every night because I should be living with my mom at 17, not my boyfriend! I love my mom but she hurts me so bad by doing this. :( and I just want to put out there my dad is not an option to live with. He told me he wanted nothing else to do with me and left! Also please don't make comments about me living with my bf. I wanted a stable environment to handle my depression and anxiety. I understand this is wrong to do but it was best for me to get my life on track and stop worrying about caring for my mom. I just want her back with me now so me and my boyfriend can care for her.

Question: This is the continuation of the first one. Is that a good idea or bad for talking to her sister or mother?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 01:05 PM PDT

Zoe's father said that he is thinking about it. The weirdest part is that she knows that I care about her. I was thinking maybe I should talk to her sister or talk to her mother.

Question: What does it mean when a teen boy spends all his time with his older sister?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 12:46 PM PDT

Question: Poll: How much trouble will he get with his parents?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 12:42 PM PDT

If I sent this guy that I met onlines text messages that he sent me to his parents of him calling me a ***** and telling me to send him a variety of pictures and videos and telling me he's going to block me if I don't send it in a certain amount of time. I would also send them the text messages he sent me to my fake account of me pretending to be 13 (he didn't know I was pretending to be 13) and then show them his text messages of him asking her for sex when I was actually pretending to be 13 but he didn't realize it. How much trouble will he get if I sent this to his parents?

Question: I want to hangout with my friends but my mom never wants me to leave the house , and I am almost 19 ...?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 12:32 PM PDT

I am a full time student in college so I usaully have a lot of homework to do , and I work over 20 hours a week in retail , so I barely have time to my self.When I do have time for my self and me and my friends want to hangout my mom always have an attitude and says no , and if she says yes should would call every 30 minutes and if I don't answer she threaten to call the cops. I am almost 19 in october and dont know what todo, I cant afford to live on my own because I only make $9.90 an hour and I cant have a nice time with my friends at all.Even when my dad leaves for ONE hour she gets mad and yell at him for it. What should I do ... Should I say Im leaving and tell her the time I will be home and ignore her calls and risk her calling the cops, or stay home and NEVER have a social life. Some one please help me.

Question: I'm a 14 year old boy and my mum is forcing me and my siblings to board.?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 12:31 PM PDT

Baisically my mum needs to leave urgently and she says i have to go to the boarding part of my school (my school is a boarding school and day school). My house is being re-made and the downstairs is completely gone and the kitchen is what remains. My mum is leaving for an urgent meeting in another country and my dad works for the government in Nigeria so he stays there anyway. So my mum is insisting that we go and board. But I keep arguing to my mum. I have 3 siblings. I have and older sister who is 16, I'm 14 and i have a 12 year old brother. The house is being reconstructed so there are builder who know us personally who come to the house from 7am to 5pm to build. The house will be done in 2 weeks and my mums other good friend who stays with us when this happens is in holiday and won't be back in two weeks. We have a guest room but it's not done in 2 weeks since the house is under reconstruction. The only place which is fit for living in is upstairs.These are the options 1) She leaves us in the house where there will be the builders who can take care of us if we need anything. For 2 weeks until my aunt gets back from holiday 2) My aunt and uncle can regularly visit for 2 weeks until my other aunt who's on holiday comes back and takes care of us in the guest room. 3)My grandmum can easily come and stay in my mums room 4) Boarding My mum has argued that she feels better with us in the boarding house but I told her that our aunt uncle and builders can take care of us.

Question: A police officer is trying to talk to my daughter but she is distracted by playing with her boobs should I pull her bra up or not?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 12:19 PM PDT

Question: Can i get my dad arrested for treating me like a criminal, acting like i tried to drown my sister in the ball pit. which is unpossible?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 12:13 PM PDT

my sisters have a ballpit/bouncy castle in their playroom. and my 1 year old sister cries whenever you put her in there. shes just a big baby. anyways my mom toad me to watch my sisters while she cut some food to put into the rice we were having for dinner. the whiny sister wouldnt quit screaming, throwing herself around on the floor so i just put her in the ball pit, just cuz she was annoying me so i thought ill annoy her back. then my dad come into the room to take over from me and see me putting her in there. he get mad at me like i committed a crime and i was being mean to do that, when i know she dont like it. but she was screaming all ready anyways. besides if they dont like the way i watch them then maybe he should of been watching them. my mom should of waited for him to get out of the shower before she went back to cooking. i said that and she was like, the food will be cooked wrong then &said it couldnt wait. well then i did them both a huge favor so they shouldnt criticize. i even said that too & my dad was all like, well youre eating that food too, thats its not my moms personal food. should of ordered pizza then. see how everything is my fault? that little brat stopped screaming as soon as my dad picked her up but when i tried earlier she just screamed more. its like shes trying to get me into trouble. i know that sounds crazy cuz shes 1 but she smiles at me after doing these things, like she is the antichrist i thnk my parents should be arrested for neglect. these babies werent my choice. they were theyre choice. and my dad just deflect that, saying i was a worse baby and still throwing myself around and screaming when i was 14. no i wasnt! besides they didnt have a slave (older sibling) at their beck and call to look after me, like they do now and they managed so why do they need me to help? i wouldnt care if they didnt always have a problem with something i did and whenever i mention my antichrist theories my dad turn the conversation back onto me and how terrible i was

Question: Plz hear me out......im ready for my grand mother and grand father to die.?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 12:05 PM PDT

It was all good until I got too old for them.... Now I'm 15 and I get treated like ****. The only reason i still come to there house and that's only to watch my niece and nephew. I will give you some background information on me.... As you read i am 15 and I'm mixed.....so black and white with a hint of Vietnamese and Mexican. For most of my life i stayed with the black side of my family, and there i was treated like a prince. I wasn't a spoiled little ***** though. Even though i was treated well i was gonna let that **** get to my head, and it didn't. My mom wasn't there with me but she made sure i didn't get ****** up by all the attention. I was good, i think the only problem is that my african American family is wrapped up with drugs and what not, but that doesn't make the white side of my family clear of fire, because there nothing but drunk ****** hics, all rednecks and all asshole; i think the only one that isn't is my mom, and that's her family. Ain't that ironic, my mom was raised by assholes, but didn't turn out like one. Eventually I moved away from my dad (which he is black) cause he started getting weird and clingy, to finally get to live with my mom (she is white). We did some sort of "jump in the car and drive" moment to get away from my dad.it worked and for the mean time I stayed with my moms boyfriend till we could find a place to live. My sister then had her kids and I still have to watch them. And still get treated like ****

Question: Trump or Felix Unger?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 12:05 PM PDT

Question: Parents calling me fat?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 11:53 AM PDT

Im a 5'7 male and 149 pounds. My Mom is cooking something special for everyone today since its a big day for us. My Dad told her to cook some chicken for me too since i love chicken. She told him "No! He is getting so fat. I wont make him anything". My Dad just agreed with her. Its not even thos once, she keeps putting me down telling me how huge I am every chance she gets. When i try saying something, she puts up a big fight. My dad just acts like a henpecked husband. What should i do?

Question: Need some help? Currently held back in life.?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 11:25 AM PDT

This will be very long but I really need some help. I just turned 18 a couple months ago and I have not been able to do anything for myself and I feel like I'm being held back in life by my mother. Father is out of the picture completely he is a drug addict that hasn't even been in my life. I've had my permit for about two years and I finished drivers Ed about a year ago. I have not gotten near enough road experience to take my road test to get my license because my mother always refuses to take me out driving anywhere. She has not once said yes without me having to beg her and when we do go it's to Walmart 3 minutes down the road. I should also mention she is an alcoholic and is drunk 24/7 and has been spending her pay checks on beer. I have driven once before in my cousins car but I cannot use that as a good source to get hours of experience. I have no one else that can take me around since I need someone who's 21+. I have not been able to get a job because I live somewhere where there is no nearby places for me to work that I can get to easily and I will not have a reliable ride to be able to get to work. I have applied at quite a few places before and they don't want anyone without a car. I haven't been able to start college because of my current situation. I have no money except for what I have to buy my first car which Is less than $2000. Then I'll have repairs and other expenses for the car.

Question: My 9mo cries everytime she is left alone with her dad.?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 11:15 AM PDT

Whenever left alone or being held by her father, she has to be watching me at all time or she's having a tantrum. Her father blames me and my mom who babysits for us for this problem, saying she is spoiled etc. But shes a very friendly baby and will go to anyone. Every time this occur, it starts a argument because he is blaming me for this. Maybe I am a little over barring, but I hear the frustration in his voice when trying to soothe her, so I don't remove myself from the room and let him handle. what can we do to fix this situation.

Question: How can i get myself out of thus family situation? Is this abuse?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 10:58 AM PDT

Im 16 years old. I struggle with anxiety and depression. I feel so stuck. My parents dont let me use a phone or email or see friends out of school. My best friend is my now ex girlfriend (we are taking some time off because of my parents making it hard) so basically my parents isolate me. I get so sad and depressed. Ive talked to family counselors and tried ti reason with my larents but nothing ever goes anywhere. I have under a year and half until i turn 18. I need to get out. I have friends who said theyd help me out and obviously id still go home at night but after school and on weekends id just leave until night. It makes me feel so much better and my self harm has significantly gone down. I just want ti be there for the people i love and it makes me so happy and feel alive when im not home. Is it a safe move to leave continuously (because really what could they do) or is there some other way i canget my life back?

Question: My mom boyfriend is 21 years old has changed her now my mom wears tight clothes & he show me naked pics of her I'm the son 18 what to do ?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 10:58 AM PDT

Question: My granddaughter is 13 years old and do not want to have visits with her mother so what do?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 10:54 AM PDT

Question: What is sexual harassment ? i want to know coz i think ive been sexually harassed but im not sure. according to what i read it had nothing?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 10:50 AM PDT

to do with verbally calling names but touching in the wrong places. i did not know how to respond to this coz i was in bed with my face down and had just woken up from a nap to anonymus touching me down there i laid down and pretended i was sleeping coz i was afraid

Question: I don't know what to do, where can I get help?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 10:49 AM PDT

Since my parents divorced, I started living with my mom because my dad totally abandoned me, but recently 2 days ago I got in a fight and my mom left me in the house alone and abandoned me. I made myself two six packs of water from empty bottles, I have 2 packs of sour milk and 1 jerrycan of normal milk. I also have breakfast olives, 1 cereal box, crackers, 3 chocolate bars and 2 small packs of cheese. I still have internet for about three months. I'm really getting worried about myself, I'm stressing out every single day.

Question: You're brother is sexist, and you're the sister. What do you do to keep from punching him in the face every time he puts you down?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 10:37 AM PDT

It's the worst for the people living with them. I don't want any snarky remarks or "don't be such a beach", just give a normal answer. For the sake of my faith in decent men everywhere (cause I know you exist).

Question: Caregiver legal advice, SOUTH CAROLINA?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 10:25 AM PDT

Hey guys, So for the past year I've (19y/o) been taking care of my mom (BACKSTORY: March of 2015 she had open heart surgery and immediately following she had a major stroke which left her MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY incompetent.) My sister (20) lives here with me and takes care of her when she is off of work, and so does my SO (23). In the past five months none of my moms other kids (50, & 52) have came to help us out (even when they did come over they would constantly be calling onto me or my sister instead of doing it themselves) and so we've decided to move. We're wanting to move two hours away and the other sisters (50, 52) do not agree with that. They say that is unfair that they won't get to see their mom. They complain to my other sister (20) who works with them both on a daily basis and always say something about her money and her personal belongings.. I know that that is all that they care about but they doesn't hold up in court. I'm asking to see if anyone knows my legal rights here in South Carolina. P.S: she has NO power of attorney.

Question: My Dad is breaking up with my Mum?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 10:24 AM PDT

My Dad left about half an hour ago after telling me that he is done with my Mum. I literally am shocked and I don't know what to do. I just turned 21 and I didn't see this coming. My Dad told me he just doesn't feel the same anymore. Seeing him cry actually breaks my heart. My Mum went for a walk after he told her but she'll probably be away for hours. I hope she's not too long because I get worried really easily. I don't know how to deal with this. They've been together for 24 years. I'm finding it hard to process. Waiting for Mum coming back is killing me. I don't know what her reaction will be, but my Dad was in floods of tears. He said to me he's been unhappy for a while and he's never been so apologetic. I am totally broken :(

Question: What's wrong with my cousin ?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 10:19 AM PDT

My cousin is only 16. She's already pregnant with her second child. Her parents died when she was little all she's had was her sister. Her and her boyfriend together are drama I don't know why she stays with him. She was 15 when she was pregnant with their son. She said her sister is the only friend she really needs. I don't understand why she continues to stay with her boyfriend he's 21. They always fight she said she's leaving him then she comes back to him. I don't know why she does this. What's wrong with her ?

Question: I can't pay bills at all and I'm 24 years old thats why my dad is paying for the apartment for me?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 10:15 AM PDT

i have social anxiety and can't get a job

Question: What do i do?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 10:13 AM PDT

My step daughter seen me stick it in her mother

Question: Name this Family?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 10:05 AM PDT

Last names: Nash, Anderson, Cassler, Morse, Greenbaum, Long Mom: Allison, Rebecca, Jamie, Emily, Jessica, Tamara Dad: Dustin, Maxwell, Guy, David, Peter, Kyle Daughter 1: Daniella, Elizabeth, Olivia, Grace, Sara, Joanna Son 1: Isaac, Ross, James, William, Benjamin, Lee Son 2 (Twin): Warren, Reid, Samuel, Owen, Noah, Michael Daughter 2 (Twin): Ava, Abigail, Lucy, Michaela, Tabitha, Elise Son 3: Joseph, Andrew, Levi, Alexander, Jacob, Daniel Son 4: Jackson, Simon, Finn, Caleb, Ryan, Mitchell Daughter 3: Caroline, Audrey, Eve, Sophia, Rachel, Victoria Son 5: Nathan, Gabriel, Nicholas, Joshua, Adam, Ethan Daughter 4: Lillian, Stella, Violet, Harper, Molly, Avery Daughter 5: Lydia, Madison, Rose, Riley, Natalie, Kathryn Rebecca Jamie Anderson-Long Maxwell Guy Long Daniella Grace Long Benjamin James Long *Samuel Noah Long *Elise Ava Long Alexander Levi Long Caleb Ryan Long Rachel Audrey Long Joshua Adam Long Violet Molly Long Natalie Kathryn Long Becca and Max, Dani, Ben, Sam, Elle, Alex, Caleb, Rachel, Josh, Vi, and Nat

Question: So I m a single mom to a 8 year old daughter. I m really feeling drawn to move to the ocean. I live in Ut and was born and raised hear.?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 09:50 AM PDT

Part of me really wants to move but the other part is really scared. Iv been living alone for like 4years but its been hard iv needed my parents and others help to care for my daughter while I work. It will be hard to leave all my family and everything I know but I feel I m missing out if I don t. So what do ounall think move? Don t move? How would I even start ?

Question: What can be done about a 19 year old immature man. he till acts 12 and hangs out with kids on his bike and plays with kids toys?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 09:18 AM PDT

He says he doesnt feel confortable around people his age, because they are too old, he thinks he is still a kid. can a pycologit help him to grow up? He says he isnt intrested in girls or sex yet, thinks it gross. I dont what to see him go his whole life like this. if he is left to do what he wants he will be relying on his mom all his life, she indulges him too much imo, just the other day she bought him a Disney Clubhouse toy set, he isnt 6 but he was o happy with it, my worry is what if in a few years he starts acting a little older and tries to date someone that 14 or 15 because he thinks he is that age. The law wont care about mental age only physical age, he would go to prison. This is my nephew and I worry about him.

Question: Why does my dad love to control ne?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 09:10 AM PDT

As an adult he loves controlling me. He does not let me talk, he speaks for me, thinks he knows what I want, doesn't care about what I have to say, ignores my feelings, and doesnt care about my life. He is choosing my major even if I am miserable, and traps me from the world. He assumes my whole life is about school and that I have no life. He wont let socialize and do things with my friends. He has no compassion and is always drinking wine in front of my tryjng to make me jealous. He is trying to kill me forcing me to eat fatty foods.

Question: Wtf is wrong with my "mother"?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 08:50 AM PDT

She sneaks into my bedroom at night to look through my phone. Anytime I'm doing my makeup she says I'm ugly as a dog and shouldn't even try. She always barges in on me when I'm getting dressed abd say 'WOW, you're so fat. ' she tells me all the time that im so wicked and evil and that i have no good qualities at all. She always praises my sister for being pretty, outgoing, and having a nice heart but says I'm a bad person and how much she hates people like me. She does buy me a lot of cool stuff though, but she just is mean to me all the time. What do I do?

Question: WOULD YOU SHARE YOUR NUDES with family members. or not?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 08:46 AM PDT

Question: My sister pays me to kick my balls?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 08:39 AM PDT

My sister is being bullied at school, and has bad grades. She says she needs to relieve some stress, and the best way she can do this is by kicking my balls. She offered me £50 to kick my balls, knee my balls, punch my balls, elbow my balls, stomp on my balls and squeeze my balls. I don't know what to do! I know it'll be painful but I want to help my sister?

Question: How do i convice my parents to let me change schools?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 08:25 AM PDT

Ok so im a freshman in high school(9th) and I have been going to this school since 5th grade, its a small country school. Anyways i really hate this school. I left the second have of my 6th grade year and did online school, my paretns didn't like it so they made me come back here. I've been trying to deal with it but i cant anymore. They have no good classes to help with college. The only sports they have i dont play, and if you dont play sports you're a nobody and the teachers dont like you. Im friends are fading away, they only talk to me when they want something now. Basically the only other school around here my parents said they will never let me go there. But i need to convince them otherwise, i have till next school year to convince them to let me change. Sorry its long but please help

Question: At my wit's end with drug addict brother?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 08:08 AM PDT

To make it brief-my brother is a drug addict who has really been dragging my family through the mud. My parents have paid for a few rehab programs, given him money for other things, we've all been there for him despite the things he's done. I have 2 kids (2 and 5 months) and i found out he watched my older son when he was a baby while my brother and his ex fiance were on drugs. i had no idea. He has stolen things from my husband and I (including a bike which he has sold online) He's now stopped going to meetings, sober houses and is dating a woman going through a divorce with another drug addict who who has 2 kids. He has moved into my family's beach house which was a fun place for MY family to go on the weekends and now we have to worry about dealing with my brother and his new insta family. I Have had it, so has my husband by mom parents now thing I"m being selfish. I don't know what will happen with my brother and this girl but I just DO NOT want them in my family. It's one thing for him to decide to date someone who has kids, but I dont appreciate him expecting the rest of us to deal with all this. I dont want to be around this woman and her kids on my weekends and Im angry that they have inhabited my parents beach house. All I can do is just not go there anymore, but I feel like it's become a very unfair situation, all my brother's doing.

Question: Teen, have anxiety when talking to parents? Help?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 08:04 AM PDT

So I have anxiety and im so afraid of having awkward silences even with parents. My brother used to be the one constantly joking and talking whenever we go out or at home but hes now in university. Ive been noticing a change in my dad's attitude since my brother left. He became really quiet somehow and my mom noticed it too. Ive been really trying to find better topics during our walks and whenever we go out but my anxiety keeps building up and I get stressed out. Our weekends are usually just my dad napping at home in front of the tv while my mom and I go out. I dont really know what to do to fix his mood and make him as happy as he was before. It could also be work thats stressing him out i dont know..but hes quiet sometimes. how can i open him up more again and make his weekends more enjoyable after a long week of work? help?

Question: Can I get my brother arrested cuz he didn't throw my laundry in the dryer like I asked. I cant not do it due to a broken arm.?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 07:58 AM PDT

Question: How did you feel when you had your first child?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 07:41 AM PDT

Question: When my brother does his business, he gets particles of poop everywhere, and my mom wants me to clean it up.?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 07:40 AM PDT

When my 11 year old brother does his business, he somehow manages to get particles of poop all over the bathroom. Since I missed the bus this morning and will be unable to attend school, my mom wants me to clean up my brother's mess before she gets home, which I would rather die than do. Any ideas as to what I should do?

Question: Can my mom really do this at 19?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 07:28 AM PDT

I'm 19, a sophomore on full academic scholarship to college, and commute from home because of money. I work a part time job with a catering company and am mostly very responsible. My mom's been on me because sometimes, when I can't easily get a ride after work events, I walk to where my car is parked alone (sometimes up to a mile away) rather than calling a cab. After a bunch of conversations my mom basically begged me not to do it again. I did anyway, and when she asked I lied about it (rare for me, I almost never lie.....and honesty was always my mom's biggest things). She caught me in it and was mad both about the safety (woman walking alone at night) and even moreseo the lying. She grounded me. When I protested she said her house, her rules.....and that while I have VERY few rules these days because of my age, as long as I live here she has the right to enforce the rules she does have. Is this normal? Is there anything I can do? Is she being unreasonable? In fairness, to be clear, the grounding was less for the walking and more for the lying I have talked to her, and she has been reasonable about coming up with a compromise about the walking thing, and she admits in the end its my decision. But she won't budge on the grounding for the lying. She says if I lie to her in her house, and want to live here, it means grounding. 2 weeks, no going out, no tv/music/computer for fun, no friends over.

Question: Best practical 2 door family car?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 07:20 AM PDT

Okay so I know 2 door cars aren t very practical family cars but I really want one and I ve seen others make it work my girlfriend has a nice full size family car that my son rides in a lot so he really never rides in my car I just want to know what would you guys think would be the best 2 door car? My favorite is the Hyundai Genesis coupe ( I know they make a 4 door but dosent look as cool as a 2 door)

Question: Should I even bother explaining to this mother that I didn't mean to offend her or her disabled kid?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 07:15 AM PDT

I called her 7 year old disabled son ''baba''. She got really offended and pulled her kid away and stomped off, saying ''he's not a baby!''. She thought I said it because I think his disability makes him like a baby. I call my own *older* kids, nephews, nieces and friends kids that sometimes. It's just a habit from when my kids were young. It slips out. I'll be seeing her again at some point when I next take my kids to their sport. We got along very well before this. She's offended but I'm offended that she'd think I was being mean to her kid. My husband said I shouldn't apologize and if she says anything else I should tell her to go f herself but I think that's extreme. What do you think? She's made me feel terrible for something that wasn't meant the way she took it.

Question: How do I deal with my revengeful sister and her friends?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 06:51 AM PDT

My 14 year old sis ( i am 15 boy) is getting revenge for when i pulled her bikini bottoms down at the water park. She would not quit buggin me. So she and her friend snuk into my room when i was sleeping and took off my clothes to my underwear and tied my arms and legs to the corner of my bed, then woke be and took pictures. Then her friend said i m going to take off his underwear now real slow and watch how red his face gets!! and she grabbed my underwear and yanked it down to my legs exposing my penis and balls !!! Omg it was sooo embarrassing!1 and my sis got pics of EVERYTHING they did to me. if i don't go on cam for girls they tell me to. or any girl that is younger then me... they will show the pic to girls in my class!!! OMG i will do anything not to have that happen!!! But is this fair!!! I hate going on cam cuz i know that all the girls will make me strip and look at my thing and make me do other stuff i don't wanna to even think about... i mean girls don't really want to order me around on cam do they?

Question: Is it silly to be emotionally dependent on your parents?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 06:50 AM PDT

I'm 28 years old and still live with my parents and my younger sister, who is autistic. I always wanted to move out and live independently since I was 17. Because I wasn't able to secure employment or earn enough income to support independent living, I stayed at home - the other option was living on the streets. I have no family to live with, like cousins, aunts or grandparents. So my parents are really the only family/ emotional and moral support I have. I have constant fears that if anything happens to my parents and they're out of the picture, I'd be on my own and struggling with finances and loneliness. I took a nap today and had a nightmare where me and my family were staying in an hotel and suddenly my parents disappeared and me and my sister were on our own.

Question: My dad wants me to study all the time???

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 06:33 AM PDT

My dad didn t used to be this strict but since I ve enter 9th grade he s been wanting me to study 24/7!! I ve just entered 9th grade and is only the second week of school and he s already telling me to study right after I get home! The teachers haven t even started to teach us stuff and he s already being so strict just because I have 2 exams IN THE END OF JULY, and now is only September! The teachers barely have taught anything! He won t let me go out anymore with my friends, he confiscates my phone and my iPad when he comes back home! And last night é started yelling at me just because I didn t go study right away after eating dinner! He started saying that if I fail the year his not gonna pay for my school and I could just go clean the streets if I want to! The school year just started and he s already saying that I m going to fail the year!! I don t get it because I m not even a bad student! I can t do anything anymore just because my dad won t let me leave the house even on Saturdays and Sunday s. Every time I ask him if I can at least go to the park he says no, I understand this is for my own good but he can t keep me inside the house everyday just making me stare at the books!!

Question: All my siblings hate me!! And i hate them too!!?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 06:33 AM PDT

So my two brothers absalutly hate me to death they don't even like being in the same room as me they r 16 im 12, they would talk to me even if it killed them, if the house was on fire and i was sleeping they would even bother telling me they'd leave me to die, my 17 year old sister she always has to say something bad about me and make my life a misery for example we we sleep on a bunk bed and she always leaves the prayer mat on my bed, when i tell her to put it on her bed she says its easier for her to get it because my one is the lower one, but when i use to sleep on the top bunk shed say its best to leave the prayer mat or something on my bed so no one sees it, my oldest bro has cancer so all the attention is on him, when i need something for school my mum always says she's busy, i sometimes go to my best friends house after school, but my sister just randomly lies and says that i weren't at my friends house and saying she saw me with a boy, which is a COMPLETE LIE!! But my mum will obviously believe her!!! I honestly just cant wait till im 18 so i can move out, sometime s i feel like running away but there's no where for me to go. I know it sounds like im just being a whiny little brat, but sometimes its way worse and i just cant live with them!! Help!! Can you give me any tips to make my siblings like me again, or how to pass time until im 18? 😃 :)

Question: Is this because of genes?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 06:20 AM PDT

My grandpa is 5.1 and grandma is 4.7 but my uncle is 5.10. What is the reason behind that?My father is only 5.6.Does anyone kniws the answer?and grandpa says his father war 5.3

Question: My stomach hurts REALLY bad but my family doesn t believe it?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 06:14 AM PDT

I get lots of bad stomach aches and I am sick a lot but every time my family think I m faking it and yelling at me saying things like "you re only doing it to miss school! Stop faking it!" I really want to get it checked out but everyone just thinks I m faking it :( like one time my stomach hurt really bad and I couldn t walk well for awhile but my mom called me lazy and my grandma was saying to stop faking and other things. It s like my family hates me. Everything I do they always have something bad to say. Like the other day my mom was yelling at me because I had bad stomach pain and it was difficult to walk so I couldn t go to yhe hair salon, and then all of my family starts bashing on me calling me lazy and a lazy ***, etc. they think that it s only me faking it to miss a day of middle school and I really feel sad they would always bash on me. My mom always says rude things about my appearance and my hair for example

Question: Why do some fathers think their adult sons are less than them and weak and always try to fight their sons?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 06:09 AM PDT

Question: I messed up I told my bother some mean stuff cause we were both in the heat of the moment i apologized many times he wont say a word to me?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 05:09 AM PDT

Question: What do I do?!?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 04:49 AM PDT

I just moved to another city and my dad was scolding my mom for being late and we almost lost our flight and I was blaming them both for not waking up early but my mom thought I was blaming her too and today in the hotel I went to check on her and she left with her things

Question: I am so scared the extended family will think less of me because they are mad at my parents right now, how do I prevent this?

Posted: 12 Sep 2016 04:33 AM PDT

My parents are doing something right now that I know is going to stir up trouble with one side of the family by next summer. I am very worried because as a kid whenever they had a fight with extended family I suffered by having to miss family celebrations and since my mother holds grudges the feud would last longer then necessary. Even Christmas we missed for a few years when I was a kid (a very painful memory from when I was a kid). So what do I do if indeed this thing they are doing (I think innocently) turns into a conflict and people become uncomfortable around me because of them? I SHOULD ADD---More then anything I fear they won't want to see me because of my parents as my mother had some relatives when I was a kid who she didn't want to see because of their parents (her uncles).