Sophomore male

I am making gift baskets for all of my friend's whom are girls, but I also want to make one for my best friend who is a guy. What can I put in his? He is a college student plus a national football player. This is the basket I am making the females, but I know he would rather have different stuff.

Ok look, in my high school its homecoming this week. we're going to do a parade and everything. Our grade will even have a float, but we have to help decorate it. My friends are all excited about it, it'll be after school when we have to decorate, they're also asking for people to be on rhe float, blah blah, there's also a dance this week. And then the game on friday. So thing is, i don't want to do, or go to any of this, sure I'd get to hang out with my friends but id rather stay home :/ Am I anti-social or something? I have friends, i talk to people, i just don't like going to stuff like this. I feel kind of sad cuz i have no desire togo at all!

A guy asked me to talk to him on whatsapp and i didnt even like him then he made me like him and slowly stopped talking to me and one day blocked me. Then i went near where he lives so he asked to meet and i asked him to come over and hang out with us He refused saying why do i always want to meet him in private and said im stalking him ( i didnt have him on any social media) and said he wanted to meet to tell me not to contact him anymore. I told him i want to forget him. Then we met by chance somewhere for the first time and he kept staring at me even after i caught him looking. After that i moved and he unblocked my new number on whatsapp but doesnt message me. And he blocks me whenever i add him on any social media and keeps me on whatsapp that too because i dont message him there. Now his friend has added me on instagram. And anyways whats going on with him and what do i do i really like him so please dont say forget him how can i at least apologize or make this work? His friend adding me was a ray of hope. Thanks.

A majority of the mexicans get some serious bullying in my school, I don't know why they targetted like that. Is it because of donald trump and his influence in texas? Either way, the bullying has started to get really serious lately when one mexican kid fought back and even though he lost, he really made people angry, and in the middle of class I heard a mexican kid screaming for 20 seconds in the hallway while it sounded like he was getting jumped. I found out later that they took all his stuff too but he didn't tell the adults anything and denied that even got jumped despite the blood on his face because I think he was scared of it happening again. Personally, I think I should stop the bullying but I don't wanna walk into any crosshair's at this school. And trust me when I say its hard to stay inbetween them and not do anything because eventually i'm gonna have to choose a side. Should I stop the bullies and potetentially get grouped in with the mexicans? Or join the bullies and ensure my own protection?

every second weekend, i have to go to my dad's house, which is in a different town than i live in. i dont know anyone my age that lives there, so its really boring when i go there. i really want to make some friends!!! but i cant join any clubs or get a job since im only there for a couple of days every 2 weeks. advice?

So my best friend, well ex best friend, and I were friends for a couple years and i've always been there for her and her me. Anyway, i used to stay right down the street from her and she used to come over my house all the time. I moved away and we barely saw one another but still kept in contact. She mentioned to me that she found a new friend but told me to not worry because she didn't "replace me". I told her that i was happy for her that she made a new friend. A few days after that I asked her if she wanted to join me to go skating and she said that she couldn't go and i asked her why not and she said because her new friend couldn't tag along. I asked her why can't she just hang out with me and she said she wanted us all to hang out. I became confused. She also wasn't contacting me as much since she told me about her new friend. I got fed up and told her that maybe we shouldn't be friends anymore. Was i overreacting and wrong?

Im not stupid but I just am not the best at math and I'm in all normal classes. I have a group of 5 friends in advanced classes and I always feel so stupid and average. I always ask them for math help and then when they give me the answer I feel so stupid for not knowing the first time and idk what to do or what's wrong with me

it seem like everyone wishes every a happy birthday expect for me. I work at a fast food restaurant. I am the only one who cleans there yet, everyone gets a birthday card expect. on the side note, I was late for work and I call them and they had they left me hanging.

It's like everyone I encounter dislikes me, and it's been that way since I was in preschool. It led to me going to 5 different schools before college, because I was bullied out of or expelled from all of them. I'm 19 now, at community college and my parents are only still letting me live with them out of pity, I can't keep a job and they prefer my younger brother over me. I have about 2 fake friends, and a girlfriend who dislikes me. I was diagnosed with psychotic depression at 16 but I've been on every antidepressant and most anti psychotics, they all either didn't work at all or stopped working after a very short amount of time. I don't know what my problem is, I try to be a likable person. There is a bad side of me I don't show to people, the side that hates God with a burning passion, resentful towards almost everyone, and self hating. They couldn't possibly know all that stuff the instant they meet me, so what's the problem?

I lost all my friends in high school. My best friend Susan only cared about her appearance she became friends with a group of people. They only like her because she was pretty. She did not like me anyone because I wasnt as pretty as her. My other friend became OBSESSED with Susan because she was pretty and hated me because I was not as pretty as Susan. Girls only become friends with each other because they are pretty.

I'm in 8th grade (14). Okay, so I had this friend and we were really close, best friends even. Then something happened and we stopped talking. Over the summer I met some sophomore guys and really got along with them. I had a thing with one guy and the only thing we did was kiss. So anyways it wasn't a big deal. Theres a thing at my school where you go ice skating. I went and the guys were there. I hung out with them and a few girls. Then I found out some girl wanted to fight me. I thought it was a joke at first because she's friends with one of my best friends. So I laughed it off and continued on with my night. Then a large group of kids gathered around her and I sent a friend over to find out what was going on. They were all talking sh*t about me, saying I'm a slut, b*tch, etc. She was saying she was gonna skate up to me and punch me in the face. I knew she was all talk but what bothered me was how many people were listening to what she was saying about me. I consider myself popular. Not the most popular girl at school, but I definitely have my share of friends at school. Anyways, the girl I mentioned before (my ex-best friend) came up to me and the sophomore I had a thing with and said "here! you re going to need this. Don t worry it s small" and handed me a condom, then skated away laughing. So all I'm wondering is what this is about and how I make sure people don't bring it up. This is going to sound bad, but I don't want to lose my popularity and friends. What do I do?? Update: One of my best friends (friends with the girl who wanted to fight me) texted me and said I hate u I'm done with u loose my number have a nice life and I don't feel like explaining sh*t to u"

For example, my roommate (we're not even friends!) was super judgmental when I chose to hang out with some of my friends instead of going to a party. She said I wasn't "branching out" and she was being really condescending (not that it's any of her business). I really don't know why she thinks she can act like my boss or something (she's literally trying to TELL me what to do, not even giving suggestions). She thinks she's perfect and she's trying to "fix" me. I don't get what her problem is... I actually go out more than her, just with my few friends instead of a new group of people every time. Why can't she mind her own business.

I fought with my bf and he asked to meet and i didnt even meet him. Then his friend followed me on instagram and i followed back and she unfollowed me. Whats going on with this and him? Why did she add me? He posted a story on snapchat of him getting his car fixed to come see me and blocked me so i couldnt see it. Is he gonna give me a surprise by visiting? Thanks

it's already a month into the school year but i want new friends from he ones that i had since last year in freshman year up until now. how should i make friends but keep the old ones?

I went out with a friend. She has 1 DUI. She was driving us one night and decided to stop at a bar I have never been to to meet a "male" friend. I was wearing heels and the entrance was dark. When I went up the steps, in the rain, I rolled my ankle and broke it. It was actually hanging off the wrong direction and I said she needs to call 911 immediately. She could see my ankle was sideways and her response was: "I am not getting in trouble for this, we are outside and Im going to get public drunkenness so no." I told her do it now because I was going to start screaming in pain. My phone was dead. Instead, she forced her friend out of the bar and made him call for her. I was placed in an ambulance and from what she told everyone, she ran and hid in the bar bathroom so that she wouldn't get in trouble. Now, she calls every day. Not to say sorry or admit fault but just saying "When can you drive/drink again.". I am thinking about blocking her. Should I?

In 1 grade to 5 grade a lot. I used to play at my friends house and then she would ask have you peeid on yourself again. It is so embarrassing. I am 16 now an I am steal friends with her I feel so ashamed. I wanna die. Should I feel ashamed or not think about it cause I was a kid

There's a reason I want to know him. My friend who happens to know him best talked to me about him. I understand it's kinda wrong she told me this stuff cuz it's serious and he only told her but he is suicidal and struggling with feeling numb, sad, etc. We sat together once and we got along great but I'll feel awkward texting him, my friend says he likes me though(in a friend way.). Anyways his texts about how he feels is exactly how I feel, the numbness, suicidsl thoughts, sad, because I'm abused and was molestdd as a kid. People say he's a really trustworthy person and nice and really wanna get to know him to help him and give him someone to talk with, and because he's really funny and nice. I alsi wanna talk with someone about my problems too and he seems like he'd understand. But the thing is he's only in school in the morning after the buses cause of co-op. How do I go about talking with him and becoming close without coming off as creepy and stuff?

In all my 20 years of life, I have probably only had 3-5 real friends and 3 of them I am no longer in contact with. Lately with the small social circle I've made, which I made through one of the two friends I currently have, I have started to really wonder if I am really liked. All my life I have wanted a friend who is kinda ride or die, who loves hanging out with me and is kind down for anything. But I've rarely had that. I am a college junior transfer student. I came to the school I am at now because my only friend goes here too. But when he goes clubbing and bar hopping I begin to regret coming here because I feel left out when he goes with all my other friends. How can I initiate a friendship with someone that I know is genuine and real. How can I know that someone or people actually appreciate and like me? I often feel I am too boring to people and that I am not liked as much as I could be because I am not wild and an extreme party type. Personally I want to branch my social life out to other people. I am not saying that I want to drop all of my friends, but I want to meet new people who will not make me feel like a loser or left out because I don't entertain in clubbing and drinking. I need your advice please.

Hi, I m a girl, and I m 14. I don t know if that will help any, but there you go. Recently, (I d say over the past six months) I have become more introverted. But over the past year, I ve noticed I would rather stay home. It doesn t make any sense. Before this, I have always wanted to meet new people, make friends, go to parties, and be around a lot of people. Today, I had to go youth and began to make excuses why not. I just wanted to stay home and read, and just hang out with my best friend. I don t know if it has anything to do with it, but last year I went to a school where I was largerly ignored, bullied, and mistreated. I was left out a lot. I ve since then made friends, but especially over the past few weeks, I just don t want to socialize. I try to not worry myself with it, but I ve wondered if anything is going on. Thanks for your help!

Two years ago, two of my boyfriend and my mutual friends invited my boyfriend out for guys' night. At three that morning, I got a text from my boyfriend saying he was breaking up with me. Later that morning, I texted one of the friends what happened. He said he didn't know, but it was for the best, and he'll always be there for me and that he was my friend. Then, I asked him if he said anything to my boyfriend (this guy is a huge gossip). And the floodgates opened. He told me I've been making everyone's lives hell for the past three years and that everyone wishes I would just kill myself. He told me to leave it and that I shouldn't try to play his mind games. That's when I knew that these two convinced my boyfriend to break up with me. This friend had mentioned in his slew of texts that I was trying to take my boyfriend from them (we were both going to go study abroad in Germany). So I pieced together the how and why. They didn't want their friend to leave, so they tried to ruin his love life, I guess? a week after that, my boyfriend told me he thought he wanted to be with me and it shouldn't matter what anyone says. I found out this friend had been staying at the house with my boyfriend under the guise that he was just helping out, when really he was twisting everything to keep the wedge between me and my boyfriend. I've talked to him about it and he said he wishes he could forget it ever happened. My boyfriend says the same. But I can't?

My friend who is also my neighbor is 20 she wants to get back on birth control now that she has FWB with a guy. Her mom doesn't know at all. Her mom has a hard time excepting that she is sexual active. My friend also needs to get the plan-b pill she can get but she has a credit card that she shares with her mom. If she bought the plan-b with the credit card would the name show up on the bill? She doesn't have enough cash on her to cover the cost.

In the last day of school i was with my friends and my bestfriend (shes a girl ) my friend had aparty so me and my ftiend went to the party and everyone got drunk apart from me and someone else so my bestfriend ( lets call her lily) she was drunk so she asked yo go to the bathroom so i went with her and when she finished me and her kissed for like 10 seconds and i got hard over it and i gave her a hickey (btw she has a boyfriend ) and me and her stopped so we went back downstair where everyone is and since that time me and her stopped being friend ( for other reasons ) but i really do miss her and i try to get her back but it never works now me and her are friend (not as close as we use to be ) someone help !!!!

My friend has a problems and I do not know how to help her. She is sad all the time because people realy treat her bad, putting her down. She is trying hard and put her hart into everything she does. She finished college but she can't get a job, she did her internship and she had so much problems with people there, she wanted to quit but she stick to it and end up at the pshycologist and sick. She is afraid of people because everywhere she worked and her other friends and family are putting her down. she is kind and good to everyone, she wants to help others but instead people consider her weak and stupid and easy to manipulate. I am her friend and I care for her but I do not know how to help her. She doesn't even feel that I care for her. I am trying to show her that and want to help her but I do not know how becasue her experiences that continues every day (looking for job, living everyday life among other people) are puting her down and proving her that she is not good enough. I do not understand why people are mean to her. I saw how bad they treat her and anyone normal could not be able to handle this. It looks like they know that they can be mean to her because she will not defent herself because she is kind and don't wan't to hurt anybody because She knows how this feels to be hurt.

I am so upset over what he did to me. I feel the need of getting him fired, but I don't want to cause a huge mess in the hall. What should I do? I've already spoken to the community director of the hall and there was nothing done about the situation. He basically told me to move on. The thing is that I feel like the RA is doing this to multiple people. He knew it was easy to take advantage of me. I want him to suffer the way I am.

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The only friends I have live far away from me, but it doesn't look like they have any interested in me. I wish I could just get new friends at school - but it's hard to suddenly find someone at trust them. I cry often when I'm alone realizing i'm completely alone. I have no problem with socializing, I just don't know how to, any tips? Please answer, this is very important to me. Thank you.

My friend recently gave me this sword as a gift

So when I was at school last Friday, I was so frustrated because my Chemistry Teacher was being a pain in the ***. People think I'm this nice person but not after what happened on Friday, when I went to get my lunch, I guy named Connor told me "why are you so mad bro? Chill out being angry doesn't suit you, but making cupcakes does". I know he was joking but I was mad at the time by exploding at him by saying "your whore of a mother should've aborted you rotten child!". His mother died 2 months ago and you can tell he hasn't moved on yet and I knew it would destroy him by mentioning his dead mom. His jaw dropped and I saw him tear up when he was going to the bathroom. I was satisfied because I wanted to see him cry like a little b*tch but now people think I'm psychotic because of him. He called me later and he asked why I said that and I told him that he deserved it and that he shouldn't have messed with me when I was so mad, turns out he likes me and I "broke" his heart. Why can't I feel bad for him? I feel like he shouldn't have said that and instead tell me the truth not be a total idiot. Btw he also identifies as a "cool kid" so now the whole school probably thinks I'm fake and they probably hate me. Nobody knows he's gay so should I tell everyone so I can feel more satisfied? His family is homophobic and they would probably disown him :)

Iminthe7thgrade mybestfrans inthe8th grade ndivebeennoticinghowobsesseshe iswithme.we arent in the same grade so i have friends that r sheisjealous of them she always has something bad to say about them she doesnt have a lot of friends in her own grade so she hangs out with my friends and she tries to get them to not be my friend by spreading lies so she can have me all to herself.nd shes even trying to get held back so she can be in my grade!shed text and call me nonstop. Thisonetimeme my friendwent to acarnival and she frickinfollowed us.Shes soo controlling cunning even my family is starting to pick up on itshe always comes over to my house without askingme ifits okand when i tell her she cant come in she tells me that her parents arent home and they locked thedoor so i have no choice mom doesnt like her and insists that icutalltieswithher but shes my bffWeve had this problem before and i tried to talk to her about it but she gets offended and mad at me. Itried distancing myself from her and thatdoesnt work because do things like bang on my door until i open it or until my parents my brothers or i tell her off and shed do things like dumpmulchonpourporch. Andas soon as i take her back shes notobsessive butaftera while shebecomes obsessive again i dont know how to get her to stop ive tried so many different resolutions tothisreoccuring problem but im starting to believe she wont ever have to change and id havetochoose to dealwith it or stop being herfriends

I'm not that popular, I have about 10 friends and 2 best friends (total of 12). I do usually get along with people tho. And one thing, I'm not that popular on instagram, I got only like 150 followers. So do I have to be popular to get a gf? lol

And what can I do to make friends?

We met online, I'm 17 and he is 28. We have been texting on kik for the past three weeks. I would be happy to talk him through his problems if it wasn't every single conversation we had. I rant to him sometimes too, but not nearly as often as he does to me. He will text me maybe 4 or 5 days out of the week and it's always to talk about his depression. I told him yesterday that I need to take some time away from the internet and my phone because all I do is sit on my phone all day and I want to focus on my real life relationships and my mental health. I said that I'll try to talk to him sometimes but it won't be as often, maybe once a month. Well today, he texted me saying he wants to die and that he set a date for his suicide because he is lonely and feels like everyone abandons him. I told him to forget about what I said yesterday and that he can text me whenever he wants because I don't want him to die. He is just very needy and clingly and always says things like "we'll be friends forever, right?" when we haven't even known each other that long. I know I sound selfish but I can't deal with this constantly. I have problems myself and there are times when I'm having a great day and then he'll text me about how depressed he is and it brings me down and is emotionally draining to have those long conversations with him about those heavy topics. I don't want to hurt his feelings because he is a nice person but he stresses me out. I just don't want him to hurt himself though.

So me and my mom have never had a good relationship, we've always been arguing during my teenage years and i always thought she never really understood me. Now that I'm older, you would think our relationship would turn for the better, but no. I'm a very understanding and intelligent person and i just know it's not me anymore that is causing our strain relationship. I don't even know where to begin... i will give a few examples. Every time i try and talk to her about something, it's like i've never said it. Every time i tell her about something bad that happened to me, she says no i disagree with you that it was like that, and she takes the other persons side. An example (completely random): A friend of hers was walking past me, i was looking at her to say hi, but she was looking past me. And i thought it was strange. My cousin have done the same, twice! just looking past me. That's really rude right? that's not something you do. And then she says no, but why didn't you say hi? or she says ''I don't agree with you''. What is there to agree on??! I'm telling her that this happened to me. She blamed me for influencing my best friend in a bad way when we were influencing each other. It's completely UNTRUE that I was influencing my best friend only, like if you would know me you would never ever think so. I'm so disturbed my mom thinks of me that way. The thing is, I tell her everything, she knows everything about me and you would think she knows what kind of person I am... ...but like i said before, it seems like she doesn't take anything in or understands it? like.. i don't want to sound mean, I mean it's my own mother and i love her a lot... but i've been thinking she's actually stupid. Like, EVERY TIME i tell her something, it's like she's somewhere else. I'm trying to explain my feelings to her, detailed, and what we both can do to better our relationship by doing this to understand each other, but she always goes against me!! and even after I've told her.... ...what's wrong with out relationship, she still doesn't get it. It's like she's answering to my answers in a defensive or in a way to explain herself to be like this, or this... but i don't care! that's not what i'm even trying to tell her. It's not just about her, it's about everything else, do you guys get it? because sometimes when i talk to her i feel like i'm going insane for the lack of understanding. I've never ever experienced a person like this before in my life. It's like arguing.... ...with a stupid person. There's so many other things and it's crazy, because i KNOW there's nothing wrong with what i'm saying.

So when I was trying to open my locker, there was a guy next to me who wanted to borrow my notebook since he was absent the day before. So the locker was stuck and I tried hard to open in but I accidentally hit the guy's face with it and I broke his nose. He called me crazy and he told me to never talk to him and that he hates me. I feel bad for what happened and I kinda have a crush on him. What do it do now?

Me and my cousin Jerry are around the same age (19) and I never seemed to get along with him. He's very socially awkward and rude. I'ts like he goes out of his way to put others down to make himself feel better. He always brags about how he "calls it as he see's it" or "I tell it how it is" but if anybody gives him any sort of criticism he gets very offended and acts like he's being bullied. When we were in high school he would always end up getting his *** kicked every other month or so because he'd end up saying something disrespectful to the wrong person. At family parties and stuff I try to be nice to him and we'll get along for a bit but he'll end up saying something out of nowhere and I'll need to walk away before I end up strangling him. For instance one time he flat out said "your girlfriend is ******* ugly " and what got me mad is he repeated it plus he has never even ever had a girlfriend in his whole life. Last night my aunt and him stopped over when me and a few buddies were hanging out in the yard. He came out with us and at first he seemed fine then he asked my buddy who is 21 to buy him beer and when the dude politely declined because he didn't want to drive my cousin said " don't worry your mom sucked my dick last night" out of nowhere and I had to stop my friend from kicking his ***. My aunt keeps trying to have me hang out with him more because he has no friends but I don't care he's such an insecure little dweeb so I try to avoid him. The thing is though he's been coming over alot lately and I don't know how much more I can take without seriously hurting him. It's like he will start busting chops in a friendly way and when you bust on him back he will hit you with something like " I hope your mom dies" or something like that.

They get all touchy and feely around eachother and seem to do it more when they're around me. It hurts to see it and today I was finally done and ran out of the area we were in and hid in the bathroom crying. They both know I like him but purposefully flirt in front of me and it hurts so much...I dont know what im supposed to do cause I feel so depressed and lonely

My friend is doing a ''How well do you know me" and gave papers to all his friends but apparently he didn't give me any and I am his Friend. I really feel left out, because this isn't the first time, and this is just an instance. it's hard to say this without sounding like a crybaby do you give me any advice please?

we are a group of five friends. me and two others are really close. Me and one of those two are even closer, like best friends. we just arrived to high school and everything is not going well for me. First off my best friend likes a guy and my other close friends likes the same guy. Turns out that guy like my other close friends. So my best friends starts all talking crap and hated on my other close friend. Then in school she acts like best friends with my other close friend and just shuts me out. It really hurts me and i can't just shut her out because she carpools with me. I feel like she uses me when she needs to and then just throws me away. I really hate high school now. I am really hurt. i used to like both of these people and now i don't like either. Its like our group of five has two best pair of best friends and one fifth or third wheel. I always feel like that wheel. What should i do. I am not good at making friends and am very quiet. I feel like distracting myself is the best way. Any advice or suggestions related to my situation is VERY appreciated. I feel very lonely. help me...

I moved to Florida in January and I'm not in school bc of residency. So all I do is work, I have no friends (& ppl that want to hang out w me, I don't want to hang out with them bc they're not my type) I'm overweight and I have a hard time sticking to lifestyle change & I can't seem to loose weight and therefore incan't wear cute clothes. I don't have a boyfriend. So many things wrong. All I do is sleep if I can u till my dad comes in yelling at me saying I'm never going to be successful if I stay in bed. I'm so tired of life man. I'm not suicidal or depressed (at least not medically diagnosed) but I'm so over it. What should I do? I've been friendless for about 3 years now bc I have moved every year since high school to a new state and I've never really established friendships.

There's this girl in this uni i go to . Me and my best friend secretly don't like her but we act nice to her . Basically we're not mean to her . And we treat her with respect . We don't exactly talk about her behind her back or anything. So one day we saw her so i greeted her but she didn't greet me back and greeted my best friend even though I'm always the one to greet her and not my best friend who does it sometimes and other times she chooses to completely ignore her . I was just so embarrassed I literally waved at her in front of everyone and she ignored me and went to hug my best friend who was standing behind me . Should i stop greeting her ? I feel like it's ok to be mean to her from now on . But i don't want to become such a person . I also don't want to act all mean and have anyone notice and call me out on this and suddenly it's my fault .What do you think ? I know it's silly but it drives me crazy how some people act this rude when someone is extremely nice to them .

i'm 14 and my friend is 13. my friend said that she has been rather stressed lately, but she wouldn't tell me why. when i asked her why she was stressed she said that shes fine now, but she didn't look fine. then i said " you can tell me anything you know i won't judge you" then she said " no it's not that i think you'll judge me it's just i don't want to tell you' i kinda know the password to her phone and i looked at her text messages to find out a bit of info on why she was stressed and i found out the reason. but i want her to tell me so we can talk about it but at the same time i dont want to force it out of her because i don't want her to not want to talk to me about things without being scared that she will have to tell me everything. i really worried about her. the text messages. ive never seen that side of her before. i want to talk to her really badly about it.

I have aged out of foster care, and have lived within a few miles of the city I grew up in. Right now I'm in my first trimester of a two-year X-Ray Technician associate's degree program. When I graduate, I will be willing to relocate anywhere in the country. I know eventually I will make friends through work or through neighbors eventually, but in the first weeks and months is there anyway to jump start making friendships?

My friend posted a story on snapchat saying shes getting her car fixed and shes gonna drive to come see me. I added her on snapchat and she accepted and i didnt open her story but i knew what it was about ( i could see the thumbnail) she blocked me. Is she still gonna come? Why did she block me? Thanks

I started college a few weeks ago and fortunately coming in I already knew a bunch of people due to a pre-orientation program. I have been social these past few weeks, but now I'm starting to get annoyed with my friends. It's not that their doing anything wrong I just find them annoying. Like last night one of my friends wanted to go back to our dorm(we live in the same building), but she was like "If you don't want to leave I'll just wait for you because I do not want to walk alone." After hearing that I felt obligated then to leave. While we were walking they were walking they asked me a couple of times are you fine and I was just like "I didn't care."(because honestly I didn't I guess I was just annoyed that they couldn't just walk themselves back to the dorm.) But, that bothered me because by that person saying that,it felt like that basically meant we had to leave now or else that person was going to be doing something(staying out later) that they did not want to do. I guess that example basically sums up why my friends annoy me. It's because I don't always feel like I'm doing what I'm want to do. It's always what someone else wants to do, and if I object then they end up either doing something they do not want to do or getting upset. And that is so freaking annoying. Another thing that annoys me about my friends is how some of them will sulk when something does not go there way. And instead of voicing out what's wrong they just act all upset/depressed/ ruin the mood and it's annoying. Like can you just say what is wrong/be honest, and stop being so dramatic. I feel guilty for saying that, but that''s how I really feel. Why is this? Is this a bad way to be feeling? Also, in high school I was not so social so I'm not used to these kind of situations. Sorry for the bad grammar/repeated phrases. I clearly did not edit this, but that's because I really just want to have an idea of why I feel this way. And how to stop feeling this way(if that is possible).

I mean in my mom's generation. Some teenagers looked older and more old fashioned, but I notice that lots of them look younger..they don't look as old as kids do today. I've read old books about girls who are around my age or younger (I'm 14) and their pictures look younger as well, they even sound more innocent. For example 12 year olds played skipping ropes and other games outside back then and almost no one at that age does that anymore. They're like the 6 year old kids from our generation. I've heard from my parents that kids actually listened to their parents more (there might be some arguments but kids didn't know as much we do today).

I used to have a few friends in secondary school. We were super close and had a good friendship. However I have one friend that was best friends with for 4 years and i occasionally think about her. We were basically like sisters. But for some reason, today I couldn't stop thinking about her and I miss her a lot and I feel depressed? She was a good friend to me. We had loads of ups and downs but i adored her...we stopped talking because I stopped using social networking and we haven't spoke properly in over a year. But I know it is normal that friends grow apart but for some reason it hit me that I miss her a lot and a few of my old friends.ng about her and I miss her a lot? She was a good friend to me. We had loads of ups and downs but i adored her...we stopped talking because I stopped using social networking and we haven't spoke properly in over a year. But I know it is normal that friends grow apart but for some reason it hit me that I miss her a lot and a few of my old friends.

My pet went missing, and when I used messenger to tell my friends, telling them I was crying, the saw it and didn't reply. This was a few days ago and still nothing, not questions about how am I doing or if I found him. So when 24 hours passed, and no one commented on it, I decided maybe they weren't people I really want to keep in contact with me. However, the next day, my friend messaged us about good news for her, and she was upset that no one reacted to her. Is that fair, wouldn't it occur to her that there is a double standard in this situation? Should I end the friendship, since I feel disrespected in more ways than this, or should I keep it since we've been friends for eight years? The news was she joined a club.... -_- and I have other friendships then this, we don't even live near each other. Ironically, she was mad at my other friend for not replying, whose sibling had cancer treatment and was taking care of him. And no, the news was nothing like "her dad died" because how the hell is that good news?

i'm 14 and my firend is 13. my friend is on a sleepover at mine and she said that she has been rather stressed lately, but she wouldn't tell me why. when i asked her why she was stressed she said that shes fine now, then i said " you can tell me anything you know i won't judge you" then she said " no it's not that i think you'll judge me it's just i don't want to tell you" now my friend falls asleep rather early so she fell asleep about 1:30am and well i waited till 2:00 then i kinda know the password to her phone and i looked at her text messages to find out a bit of info on why she was stressed and i found out the reason. but now i feel guilty that i went in her phone and did that. does that make me a bad friend?

I was having trouble in my high school math class. My classmate Jim told me his mom was a engineer and she could help me understand my math problems. He said "come home and let her help you". At his house he introduced me to his mom. OH MY GOD. She was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen in my life. Gorgeous face, figure to die for. She had on a sweater that showed her 36Gs (my guess). She was a great tutor. She really knew her math. However it took ALL of my will power to keep my mind on math and not to get a b0ner when she was tutoring me. That would have been a DISASTER and the most embarrassing thing EVER to happen to me and the end of my friendship with Jim. Lucky for me it did not happen. After tutoring me she gave me and Jim a piece of homemade pie and ice cream. Was she ever a nice person. If there ever was a trophy wife, she would be it. I told Jim he was very lucky to have such a beautiful mom. He said I never noticed his mom was beautiful. How do you think it is possible that a teenage guy like me would not know his mom is so beautiful?

I recently turned 21 and I had no desire to drink and get drunk like my friends did on their 21st birthday. I have had Alchohol when I was younger and I never really liked it. I occasionally try certain drinks but other than that I don't really like drinking. I've tried margaritas, wine, jello shots, lemon drops and etc. I don't like any and my friends are really trying to pressure me to get drunk. They keep saying "what kind of girl doesn't want to be drunk?". When they get drunk theyre all so loud and obnoxious and then the next morning they're throwing up and complaining about their heads. Why would I want that? They told me next time I come over they're going to get me drunk. So I'm not going to go over anymore but what should I say to them? We've been friends since Elementary School and I'd hate for this to be the reason why we stop being friends.

So my bestfriend from high school and I decided to go to the same college and I absolutely lovee having her here, we dont live together but we do almost everything together. The downside is that since I am always with her I feel like im not getting the true college experience and I missed out making friends those first few weeks of school because I have been with her. I have a few friends but there isnt a ton. What should I do about this situation.