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- Question: Ending a friendship?
- Question: Boy at school named Emma?
- Question: Good friend blocked me because I turned down his offers for meeting because I was genuinely busy. Is it my fault?
- Question: How To Make New Friends?
- Question: How to win a friend back?
- Question: Feeling suicidal right now?
- Question: Friend giving me a tough time for not wanting to spend time with them on their weekend home because my pet is really sick.?
- Question: Disgusted at My Friend?
- Question: Girl keeps bothering me in school?
- Question: How to deal with no friends and social anxiety in college?
- Question: Do you guys know why she did this?
- Question: Por que me pasa tantas cosas?
- Question: My only friend is annoying. Advice please?
- Question: I feel hopeless and lonely?
- Question: If a girlfriend talk her guy into modeling her frilly lingerie will she keep it a secret and not share the pictures?
- Question: What can I do for my 23rd birthday?
- Question: My friend cares too much about what other people think?
- Question: Why is it me and my friend, none stop laughing when we are together?
- Question: How to cope with someone leaving forever?
- Question: Should I move in with my friend?
- Question: My elderly roomate is losing her memory.?
- Question: Am I helping or hurting my "friend"?
- Question: Why is he doing this?
- Question: How to reassure amazing friend?
- Question: So... I hate high school now because we moved. I feel really home sick, how do I let my mom know I don't want this ?
- Question: How do I approach them?
- Question: Should I try to fix this friendship?
- Question: Is he jealous?
- Question: My only friend isn t talking to me anymore?
- Question: Why would my roommate decide to sleep all day after having a wisdom tooth cut out?
- Question: Why does my friend always try to start argument?
- Question: Are these people really friends? Is their behavior normal?
- Question: My child is bullied in school but wont talk to us about it. I considered calling her friends to ask what happened but it will hurt her more.?
- Question: My child is bullied in school but wont talk to us about it. I considered calling her friends to ask what happened but it will hurt her more.?
- Question: How do I handle this situation? honestly tired of it.?
- Question: My 15 y/o cousin mastubated to me, I'm 12. Havent told anypne except mom, and planning on telling my therapist. What can she do?
- Question: I'm so lonely at my new school, I'm practically being forced to rape. How do I learn to fit in?!?
- Question: Acne scars makes it really hard for me to make a friend.?
- Question: Are there any free to meet women who are looking for a discreet friend?
- Question: Can i make frnds on yahoo? I know there are bad ppl good ppl but it all depends.i need social life ppl to connect with not fake ones. Any 1?
- Question: I'm quite talkative but still can't make friends as I don't know what to say, so what can I say to people who I don't know much?
- Question: I have kind of a messed up reason is to why I think my friend likes me so much. Do you think I could be right?
- Question: Get rid of my Irritating roommate?
- Question: If one female friend is also friends with my mom, should I let my friend spend time alone with my mom?
- Question: How can I get wifey to unlocks the trunk on her car if I don't haves a key? She went and loaded up some clothes to go to lawndromat?
- Question: Does this make me a bad friend or are we heading in different directions?
- Question: Does peer pressure really exist or is it really exaggerated?
- Question: Girl went missing after we hang out. She is 17 and I'm 21.. Am I part of this ? Will police come to my house and ask me questions ?
- Question: I can't make friends in high school!! Any help?!?!?!?!?
- Question: Why are my friends all one of these? (please read details?)?
- Question: Why is she such a fat sadistic bully?
- Question: Should i transfer uni?
- Question: What should I do with this guy?!?
- Question: Why drama?
- Question: Why is she obsessed with me?
- Question: How to ask a girl out who is on my cross country running team? Please help!?
- Question: What does it mean when someone puts their head on your shoulder?
- Question: Is this girl thinking im gay or something? I was just being nice in conversation?
- Question: I think I am addicted to the computer and I don't know how to stop.?
| Question: Ending a friendship? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 05:40 PM PDT I knew a guy my whole life, we were best friends for so long and I did everything I could to hold onto the friendship but finally after years of torment I had to let go and it was like the years of friendship didn't mean anything to him. Over time he grew to be this bully of a person, I tried explaining my mental illnesses to him but he wouldn't understand, said "It's all in your head" "The pain isn't real" and I finally had enough. but the thing was though after being so much of an asshole he then turned into a good friend for a while and that was the cycle. I cut all communication but honestly the good part of him plagues my dreams and haunts me everyday. How do I get rid of this pain, of losing a friend I knew my whole life? |
| Question: Boy at school named Emma? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 05:34 PM PDT |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2016 05:30 PM PDT Had a friend I've known for a few years and he recently blocked me from everything because I kept rejecting his offers to meet up due to how busy I am (it's also quiet a busy time for Uni students right now too). I've apparently rejected him 3 times in a row (haven't even kept count) and now I'm not too sure if I'm the one at fault here because I keep prioritising nearly everything else over him or it's him just over-reacting and not giving me a chance to explain myself. |
| Question: How To Make New Friends? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 05:24 PM PDT I'm new to this high school, 3 weeks of school already passed by. It seems all they guys already have friends, and are already in groups and stuff. The kids also seem very immature/loud (we're freshman gr 9). I had a lot of friends in middle school and btw, I'm not ugly. I'm pretty good looking, tall, somewhat smart, and good at some sports. What should I do to hang out with people I think I might get along with? |
| Question: How to win a friend back? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 05:04 PM PDT First of all, I am an Eagles fan. He is a Cowboys fan. My very close friend sent me a troll video in a group chat of an Eagles fan getting pissed because they traded a whole lot of picks to get the number 2 pick.....my friend wrote the caption "hey look here is an eagles fan getting pissed off over something dumb just like our own eagles fan" I was having a bad day and I went on an all-out rage melt down at him on the group chat and spilled a SECRET of his. We haven't talked for about 4 months. I needed some space and he needed some space as well. So he cut me off from the group chat and from his life. A couple months later, he recommended me for a job to an IT recruiter without my knowledge. The IT recruiter called and said "i got your number from your friend"....so clearly he is still thinking of me. I got in touch with him a couple weeks ago. But he made it clear that he doesn't want to hang out with me anymore because I split his secret and that he can't trust me anymore. I sent him a long message apologizing to him and to give me another chance to prove that I can be trusted....he hasn't replied back. This message was sent 2 weeks ago. Please help. What can I do? Should I just knock on his door and tell him how sorry I am? He was a very good friend of mine and I miss him (no homo) |
| Question: Feeling suicidal right now? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 04:52 PM PDT Hello Ima try to make this as short as possible. My birthday is this weekend literally. I should be very happy, excited and all that. You would figure I would be right? but to be completely honest im not I hate the fact my bday falls this weekend whe me why? I feel terrible righting about it but why your probably wondering? To be honest I have no circle of friends at all I literally have no friends period I hardly ever go outside at all either. I have been a loner for much of my life since I was a teen being bullied in school. Non of my family is like me we are so different its crazy. They are all out going especially my little sisters they go to partys and have fun its insane to think im related to them at all. Idk what to do my sisters wanna do something but to be honest they always turn every family gathering to a social party for them I really hate meeting new people too. I believe they will do the same for my birthday invite people they know and turn it it to a social gathering for them and I dont want it. I really am thinking of just being alone on that day maybe get a hotel and just stay their till the days over I really dont know what to do Feeling very suicidal idkwtd |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2016 04:51 PM PDT Long story short I have a friend who is giving me a hard time for not spending time with them while they're home over the weekend because I'd rather spend time with my pet who is living through her last few days before we put her to sleep. Am I in the wrong for thinking they're being extremely selfish? |
| Question: Disgusted at My Friend? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 04:25 PM PDT Hi, so I was with my friend at lunchtime, other friends were round the other side of the queue to get food. So I'm having a conversation with him, and we stop taking for about 2-3 seconds. Then he got his bottle, and sucked the cap like a, uh.....yeah, you get it. Then he looked at me and raised his eyebrows, like people do when they flirt. Later when I went up to our friends and told my other friend Luke about it. The disgusting friend came up and denied the fact that he did it. I didn't speak to him for the rest of the day, and I wonder if I'll ever want to again. I acknowledge how this might sound a bit personal, but I am straight. But after that, I'm beginning to think he's bi-sexual. It's just...he didn't even laugh it off after. Every time I think about him as friends with me, I feel sick about it. We've actually had a few friendship problems in the past, with him being an idiot. I just hate him now, he's crossed the line so many times, and now he's doing things like this. Plz help. Thanks Daniel |
| Question: Girl keeps bothering me in school? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 04:00 PM PDT So basically she started this whole thing, she **** talked without even knowing me and at the right time I hapened to hear her and ever since we ve been at it. Its pretty much been a month now. Ive called her out and Ive definietly called her names bc I dont **** with that. She does the same thing but not to my face, she says it to her group of friends and they just look at me as she does it. Frankly I am getting tired of it. Its literally putting a strain on my relationship bc since I cant go up to her I take it out on my boyfriend. I dont do it on purpose but that ***** just angers me and ruins my day. I cant fight bc it wont look good to colleges so I honestly dont know what to do. I admit it, I have so much pride to just let it go and ignore her but trust me its hard from what she does. Like I honestly dont even know what I did to her for her to even start this. Just dont know what to do, even thinking about it angers me |
| Question: How to deal with no friends and social anxiety in college? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 03:47 PM PDT I am a college freshman and have been in college for 3 weeks now. I haven't made a single friend and it's probably due to my social anxiety. I did join two clubs but I still can't seem to talk to people and make any friends. I'm feeling more and more depressed each day of being alone and I don't know what to do anymore. Please help me. |
| Question: Do you guys know why she did this? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 03:29 PM PDT I was talking to my friend & smiling & then I guess the girl I liked was looking at me & i heard her telling her friends that I have the nicest smile & then when I look in the corner of my eyes I saw her looking at me & smiling while she had her hands on her chin |
| Question: Por que me pasa tantas cosas? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 03:19 PM PDT Bueno para resumir mi novio me drjo por otra deje la escuela por el ahora estoy en una escuela que no es licenciatura me toco mi ex con su novio mis amigas ya no mr hablan como antes empese a salir con un chico y no me quierr para novia ya no mr habla ni con los que nos ju tabamos eramos 4 ahora ni con el que salia ni du bolita ahora salen y no me invitan rmpese hablar con otro chico nomas dicr que quiere conocerme y me drja plantada no salgo de mi casa no tengo amigo no se la verdad que esta pasando estoy salada o embrujada o fea no se |
| Question: My only friend is annoying. Advice please? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 03:12 PM PDT They keep bugging me, but if I get rid of them I won't have any friends. I am bad at making and keeping friends anyway. Advice please?? |
| Question: I feel hopeless and lonely? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 03:12 PM PDT I'm a 22 yr old guy. There are some days where I feel like I'm all by myself and have no one to talk to. I just want to be able to talk to someone about what I'm thinking. I don't want to talk to my parents because i just dont feel comfortable Plus they are always at work. So what do you do when you are lonely? I never had a gf before or dated.Should I start? I do have friends but sometimes they are not around or they are busy. I'm a full time student so I don't have job right now. I'm graduating in may 2017. I'll appreciate your answers. |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2016 03:06 PM PDT She says lots of guys do it but its hard to imagine my buddies in lacy Bras and Panties |
| Question: What can I do for my 23rd birthday? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 03:03 PM PDT My birthday is less than 2 weeks away. I don't want to just go have a birthday dinner... I want to do something fun, maybe something different... But I'm drawin a blank and I just feel blah lol... Any ideas? Thanks! |
| Question: My friend cares too much about what other people think? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 02:33 PM PDT Honestly, this is kinda just a rant, but you can share your opinion if you want to. Recently, there was a school football game (the first one of the season) and my friend wanted to go with me. I was too tired, though, since I'd done something earlier that day. She didn't want to go unless it was with me so she ended up not going, but then she told me she put a pic on her snapchat story saying she was busy babysitting which is why she couldn't go to the game so people wouldn't think she "didn't have a life" or something. Also, one time, she didn't want to walk to Dunkin Donuts after school by herself because she said she didn't want to look like a loner. Honestly, who cares? It's not like people would be staring at her and thinking, "Wow, she's here by herself, she must be a loner." A ton of other stuff like this has happened and idek what point I'm trying to get across, it just annoys me. |
| Question: Why is it me and my friend, none stop laughing when we are together? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 01:55 PM PDT No other person I do this with as much as him NONE stop laughter! We will be busting up at random things. We laugh more then we can talk. And it will be like this constantly! What goes on in the brain to make this happen? And NO we do not use drugs... |
| Question: How to cope with someone leaving forever? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 01:47 PM PDT Hello. I'm 19yo, shy and without many friends, and now the a dear friend of mine ( more than a dear friend is a girl i recently met, for whom i care deeply, and with whom i shared "intimacy" and affection for the first time) is about to leave in some weeks, she was here just for an experience of a few week (In Italy). The poit is that I know that i will not see her again, maybe just texts for a while, then life will occure i guess, and it will all turn into nothing if not a memory. Already once, this summer, another person left like this, and it's still in my mind every day, i don't think i can handle 2 goodbyes in such a short period of time. My question is: How to you handle it? How do you cope with a goodbye, that will leave you with a broken hearth? Thanks. |
| Question: Should I move in with my friend? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 01:32 PM PDT I haven t talked to my family for a while now. They still pay for my car but I pay all other bills. I just don t get along with them and they always talk down to me. My best friend is moving to another state in a few months and wants me to go with her. I m guaranteed a good job and I m splitting rent with her. Even though I miss my mom, I m doing a little better in life with out them. Should I go with my friend and give the car back or just stay close to my parents? What would you do? |
| Question: My elderly roomate is losing her memory.? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 01:28 PM PDT I'm a 21 year old who bought a 5 bedroom house in L.A. with my buddies. Ended up buying them out so the place is just mine. Decided to try renting a room and so I have been for the last year to an elderly lady. Lately I've noticed she talks to herself. She's been throwing my food away from my fridge and moving my furniture in the kitchen and living room. When I confront her she gets really defensive and mean, she swears it wasnt her. She's verbally aggressive she calls me a dirty beaner and says she's going to call immigration on me (I was born in L.A.). I don't think she means it but idk what to do I honestly don't think she has much time before she completely goes blank. She's not married and has no kids so idk who to contact. What do I do? |
| Question: Am I helping or hurting my "friend"? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 01:14 PM PDT So back in freshman year of high school, me and this girl,"Jamie" were in a close friend group. We had all our classes together and talked a lot. Sophomore and Junior year we didn't have any classes together. I noticed she would be kind of rude to me and always say things that made me feel bad about myself :/ so i decided to now (senior year) try to distance myself from her and make the friendship break-up seem natural. What i didn't realize, though, was that everyone else in the friend group was also distancing themselves from her. Realizing that she was literally left with no one liking her anymore, i lied to her when she confronted me about me not wanting to be her friend anymore. Now she sits at the end of my lunch table with me and my friends and tries to join in convo when we make it kind of obvious that shes not wanted there. Basically what i am asking is should i just tell her i dont want to be her friend and leave her with no one, or should i keep pretending to like her when i really dont, just for her benefit? im so torn pls help |
| Question: Why is he doing this? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 12:55 PM PDT The guy who has a crush on me keeps viewing my snaps. He doesnt send back any. I skyped him and he said please dont call again and continues to view my snaps. Ge opens them as soon as ivsend them. Whats up with him? He told me to get off the phone so i could send him more snaps! |
| Question: How to reassure amazing friend? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 12:39 PM PDT I have a really close friend who s pretty smart, in my opinion. She s good at organizing parties and events, school stuff, makes friends easily with tons of people, etc etc she s like really talented in a lot of other stuff too. But like, she gets depressed pretty easily because she thinks everyone actually hates her, (BUT WE LOVE HER) and that she s bad at everything. (She thinks people just deal with her events cuz it s a nice thing to do, but THEYRE REALLY FUN AND AMAZING) How do I help her understand that we (and I) love her and all that good stuff?? |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2016 12:31 PM PDT I used to like school, now I hate it, I used to talk with my three close friends at lunch, now I sit alone in the library at my new school. I really like to talk to people but I get really scared when it comes to makin friends. I don't want any new friends though I just want to go back to my hometown I feel sick everyday not being their. If I where to somehow move back and stay with my auntie or grampa it would be fine I wouldn't miss my family because my mom goes to work every Friday over their. I would see here a lot and once I finish these last 2 years of high school I would move back in with my mom because I would go to college over their. Since I'm in high school i feel like this is a time to make a few new friends, be around my close friends and family and be comfortable in the place I've been born and raised. |
| Question: How do I approach them? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 12:24 PM PDT In school there is a really cool group of girls that are really nice to me and we all love books and are in advanced language arts. They all hang out and talk at lunch how do I ask them if I can sit with them? And I'm super shy so it's not easy. |
| Question: Should I try to fix this friendship? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 12:23 PM PDT Ok so my husband and I were friends with another couple, well the girl became like a sister too me until one day she wouldn t answer me, for two weeks I tried to figure out what I did to upset her, finally my husband text hers to see if he knew anything and all of a sudden my phone was blown up with texts saying i only care about myself and that I need to stop complaining about doing chores around the house because I get to stay home(totally grateful to my hubby for not making me work lol). So I answered her back and only said that it was never once my intention to make things about myself and I m sorry for hurting her and I won t bother her again(I have a kid I don t have time for drama) well this morning my husband ran into hers they miss each other and want to be friends I would love for them to be friends again but they want us to sit and talk and I really don t see the point, if the girl couldn t be straight up with me in the first place why should I bother? I know this sounds childish which is why I m on here because I dont know how to deal with this situation lol, do I sit down with this girl and try to work things out for the boys or should I refuse to talk with her? |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2016 12:15 PM PDT I have been friends with him for nine years now and when my friend sat down I started talking to him but then my childhood friend started making fun of him not in the humerous way either just straight up rude. But anyhow today when my friend walked up to me he squeezed my sides and sat down next to me and then twenty minute later my friend came over he was being rude but right before that he was in a great mood. Idk what's wrong with him but he just starting making fun of him even though he doesn't have a problem with him he still had this expression like he suddenly became disgusted by him. I kept talking to my friend that he was insulting and I look into peoples eyes a lot when listening and my other friend just kept staring at me I could feel it but do you think he sounds jealous? |
| Question: My only friend isn t talking to me anymore? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 12:09 PM PDT We re both really socially anxious, snd she s literally my only friend. She has a couple other friends other than me, but I d like to think i was her bestfriend. We do everything together, we go to the mountains often, I go to her house all the time. She doesn t hang out with her other friends outside of school. But recently she spent lunch with her other friends and left me alone, the only reason this bothered me was because she gets so offended and sad when I don t come to school or leave her alone, she asks me to walk with her to the trash can to throw stuff away, makes me come with her to the restroom but when she wants to leave me completely alone, knowing I have no one to spend lunch with, it s suddenly all okay. That same day I was upset do to something else that happened in one of my classes (too long to explain) so I went to my last class, which my friend is in, visibly upset and she started pestering me about telling her what was wrong with me, and I didn t want to tell her because it was a stupid reason to be upset, in my opinion. And she seemed so offended that I wouldn t tell her, I told her it wasn t her fault because she kept assuming it was and so today she hasn t talk to me and hasn t asked to spend lunch together, I had my mom come pick me up early so I wouldn t have to spend lunch by myself, is she mad at me? Is this a good reason to be mad at me? School is already bad enough right now, I cant deal with the stress of school and losing my best friend |
| Question: Why would my roommate decide to sleep all day after having a wisdom tooth cut out? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 11:53 AM PDT She wasn't put to sleep though but they gave her some laughing gas. Is she just lazy? |
| Question: Why does my friend always try to start argument? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 11:50 AM PDT I don't know why but my friend always tries to start an argument with me. I'll just be talking about something, anything, actually. SUDDENLY she just tries to make a remark against what I'm talking about, or sides with what I don't like. Whenever I tell her its like she purposely wants to start an argument then she just gets so passive aggressive then tries to change the subject to something random. It's like she's against me or something but we're close friends, in fact i'd call her my best friend like she calls me but it's because of this. We laugh a lot together but when it comes to just talking normally about any topic it's like this and it's so annoying. |
| Question: Are these people really friends? Is their behavior normal? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 11:45 AM PDT I'm 19,I'm a Marine, I have just gotten home on leave and I'll be here for a few days before going back to base. My friends aren't doing anything special yet since college hasn't started for them,and on facebook they were telling me we would've hang out once I got in town,especially cause I'm leaving on sunday night. I told them I'm here and one of them hasn't texted me back,the other when I asked him on facebook to hang out he was like "yeah totally man", then I was like "8.30 pm at my place?" and he didn't answer. These 2 people are my closest friends who are not in the military and since I haven't seen them in months I thought they would've liked to hang out. I guess I was wrong |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2016 11:33 AM PDT the kids ganged up not to talk to her and not invite her to year end party. She is a natural extrovert and this hurts her very badly. What should I do? I only have 1 child and I am at a loss... |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2016 11:28 AM PDT the kids will gang up not to talk to her and gossip about her. She is a born extrovert so this is painful treatment for her...I dont know how to help her.. |
| Question: How do I handle this situation? honestly tired of it.? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 11:04 AM PDT so ima try to make this short as possible so I guess you can say i have a stalker or wat not and i dont know who it is. alot of people dislike me and say or do things but this person would maake fake accounts talking bad about me saying im a hoe to my parents then delete the accounts then with two boyfriends i had they would say im cheating and im a slut , ***** ect then they kept hacking my accounts and pretened to be me but being a hoe basically just make me look bad all the accounts r gone but recently ive received baby stuff baby info and right after that their was this fake account same name they didn't know how to spell my last name and follow people from my middle skool and have no pictures but then as their profile they had a picture of me then added my mom just to take me down as their profile and unfollow my mom real quick my name is hazel and out of everyone i know im the only hazel and im 18 so idk wat to do |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2016 10:51 AM PDT I'm gonna keep this short, we were talking over Facebook messenger and since he said we're best friends and that I can trust him, we can talk about anything. We were making period jokes and he asked how a tampon works, and then it escelated to more of a sexual topic.. Mostly about masturbation.. He asked me how I did it and what I think when I masturbate, and then hinted he was using the bathroom to mastuabte, it was like one of those "relatable" statements like, "It's really weird to use the bathroom next your parents while doing it lol am I right?" So I KNEW he was mastuabting about me.. And mom said he can get in serious trouble, maybe with authorities. WHY I let this happen and told him about me with masturbation? Well, I was a very weak-minded person before I met him and he was pretty manipulative of my trust since I was desperate to have a very close best friend to emotionally depend on while my best friend I've known for years is busy. My cousin would get sort of mad and disappointed with me, to make me emotionally hurt by that and obey him next time. I realized that now, and I'm stronger. I'm a passive-aggressive peacemaker with more and better close best friends, we're a squad. But I'm tired of keeping this a secret. I need to get some sort of authority figure involved. Because I'm sort of scarred from him masturbating to ME. I feel like he did a pedophillia act on me. What can happen? |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2016 10:50 AM PDT Other guys have friends and dates like it's no problem, but I'm a pariah on campus. They won't even make fun of me!! How do I break the ice with them? I'd hate to have to resort to desperate measures.. |
| Question: Acne scars makes it really hard for me to make a friend.? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 10:33 AM PDT I havent had a friend in 3 years ever since my face got scarred im ugly please help. |
| Question: Are there any free to meet women who are looking for a discreet friend? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 10:29 AM PDT |
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| Posted: 16 Sep 2016 10:21 AM PDT So she's really popular right? At the same time though she doesn't have a good career. So me, I'm like unpopular right? But I have a good career. So it's like, she can show off to people how she can control a guy who has a high paying job. What do you think? lol. I think I'm right. as to why* |
| Question: Get rid of my Irritating roommate? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 10:19 AM PDT I am living with two other guys in a BHK flat since a 1 year 3 months. I get with these guys since we were classmates and got Internship in the same company. I didn't had much contact with the roommate 'X" and agreed to stay with him upon his request (very soft spoken) . Later for a month I come to know how selfish, arrogant and Irritating Idiot he was. He was terminated from the company due to non-performance and arrogance, he somehow managed to get project in some other company and its hard for him to commute to his new company. He said he will shift once the rent duration of one year is over. After the end of the month we returned his part of deposit and my first roommate "Y" went home for holidays. We were to continue the job in the same company. Even after 15 day Mr.X was staying in the room and I phoned Mr Y to ask about it ( I wasn't talking to Mr. X). Hell, he was telling that Mr X told him that he will stay in the room for one month. Leave the part of asking me whether Mr.X can stay, but even he din't had time to inform me. Now It's almost three months still no signs of Mr.X moving out. 1. Should I ask Mr. X when he will be vacating the room ( I hate talking to this Idiot) 2. Should I ask Mr. Y to clear the matter, since he is the one had taken the decision to make him stay 3. Should I find some alternatives and vacate room by myself, deposit is not a problem. |
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| Posted: 16 Sep 2016 09:49 AM PDT She took some of my misty's clothes by mistake when she got my pile of clothes, tshirt and caprees I don't have money for popolok |
| Question: Does this make me a bad friend or are we heading in different directions? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 09:42 AM PDT My best friend had her baby at 19, we're 22 now and she recently decided to move across country and try living out where I am for a while to see if she likes it to get away from the crazy lifestyle that's prominent where we're from. I have no children and what was supposed to be a fun experience living with my best friend has become a nightmare. Her child has written on my walls, pulled up my carpet, never listens and of course I expected it to be different but its way more different then I anticipated. I find myself not going out because she can't just drop everything and go. I miss freedom and I don't want to sit away and do nothing... Just the other day she got upset with me when I reminded her of something we were supposed to do together and said, "well I have motherly duties to tend to." in an actual nasty tone, it's been bothering me for DAYS. Am I overreacting? not being sensitive enough? HELP! |
| Question: Does peer pressure really exist or is it really exaggerated? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 09:39 AM PDT When you are in middle school teachers, counselors and parents would always talk about peer pressure and how that can affects someone life. However I went to high school. Not once was I pressured into doing something. My friend started smoking weed and he once offered me. I said no and he didn't care he was like, whatever. Didn't stop being friends with me whatsoever. Never did I experience "do this every kid is doing this, we'll be a loser". Never did that happen or did I see happen to other kids. People would ask once in a while but they never care if you said no. High School sucked don't get me wrong, but I believe peer pressure is overrated. I don't see people forcing kids to do bad stuff. That's just in the movies and TV. I live in NYC if that helps |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2016 09:38 AM PDT I dropped her off from school in the morning then I went to pick her up.. Her parents stated that she came home and later told her mom that she was going to hang out with a friend and she stated that she wasn't going to run away but she did. She's been missing since September 12, 2016 |
| Question: I can't make friends in high school!! Any help?!?!?!?!? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 09:38 AM PDT I am a boy and Ispent the middle school with no friends because I was very shy. Nine years with the same children but I was still to shy to approach to them. Then, it was time to start high school. I chose the one where none of them went in order to make it easier to make friends(only one from the generation came). I started the school and the first two days passed, no one has even came to introduce to me. I've heard that the best and friendlier students come here. Then it was a weekend and i spent much time thinking how to make friends. On the Monday on the big break I was sitting and doing something on my phone. Because it was only two of us in the classroom and he was walking around the classroom we both introduced our self and asked each other a few questions. Then the lesson started and we didn't talked later that day not even that week. Now two weeks of school ended(11 days because we started at the end of a week) and no one else even introduced to me except two girls. BTW here I'm not acting shy. Honestly I spent too much time on my phone. I don't see the others spending their phones all the time like I do. Maybe they don't want to be friends with me because when they see me on my phone they think I don't want to be a friend with them. Do you have advice about this? Any help would be appreciated(serious answers only please). :) |
| Question: Why are my friends all one of these? (please read details?)? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 09:12 AM PDT Significantly older than me - So, 16-25. Significantly younger than me - So, 7-10. Go to a different school. - So, I almost never see them. Hate me. - So, never talk to me. So I'm 12. I am a 6th grader and I have lots of friends in the 1st to 4th grade. So you can probably imagine that I don't have any other friends. Which would be fine to assume, except the 9th graders to people who aren't even in school anymore hang out with me. I know you saw that 25 up there, because I do have some friends who are "old". I have like, a small percentage of friends my age. But some of them go to a different school. Most of them DO go to my school, but they stopped hanging out with me because I hang out with those 1st-4th graders. We still talk on things like Facebook, but they don't want the other kids to think badly about them, so they don't talk to me in person. They see it as being a baby and hanging out with babies, but I just see it as expanding my horizons. Is this normal? There's also more legit reasons why my friends hate me: - My parents are divorced. - I'm bi. - I was born in a bad luck month. - I have a disability. My 16, 17, 18 and 19 year old friends know I hang out with 1st-4th graders, but they overlook that due to my friends who are in college. So basically, all my friends are either stupid and judgmental, older than me, younger than me or go to a different school. Is this normal? Is this healthy? Am I the stupid one? Am I overthinking everything? So many questions! |
| Question: Why is she such a fat sadistic bully? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 09:08 AM PDT I'm going through a hard time right now. I'm pretty much homeless and living out of a motel 6. My friends, Sara and Stephanie, wanted to meet up and talk to me about it. I didn't agree at first because they were being really hurtful, but then I (reluctantly) opened up to Sara and told her everything. Then she not only uninvited me from dinner, but she invited all our friends and told them my deepest secrets!!!! Why would she do that? And how can I get back at her? All of our mutual friends even blocked me on Facebook. She's so evil and manipulative, I never should've opened up to her. I hope she dies. She looks like a fat ugly hamster. I don't understand how anyone could do this other than jealousy. She's a low life gutter rat. I've never been more hurt. |
| Question: Should i transfer uni? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 08:36 AM PDT hey there, ive just started my third year in medical school, and i have got this huge dilemma... Basically i have known this guy for a long time of my life, you, could say he is an old friend, and we both decided to go to the same medial uni, same roomate and same group...the thing is i have never really liked him, especially as we grew up, i developed new interests and a different outlook towards life, and matured , whereas this friend became toxic.. he drains all my energy, he never lets me talk to other friends by talking over me, he is arrogant, insecure and makes my life hell...i have stuck with him for 2 damn years and grinded it out thinking that it will get better and ill make new friends...however i can never ever be my true self in front of people, as i am constanly feeling down, drained, and general low self esteem because he is in my life all the time...our families are close and have known each other for a long time, and so i cant just ditch him as a roomate , as the awkwardness would get too big..he always put me down in front of others, always tries to be center of attention, interrupts me , never lets me voice myself, and this has been killing me for so long...its got to the point were i cant stick around any longer...third year has just begun and im having serious thoughts about transferring medical school to get away from him and start fresh...I WISH i could just start fresh like most people do in uni...is it a good idea or am i being whiny? please help ;( |
| Question: What should I do with this guy?!? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 08:36 AM PDT So this guy who I worked with for a few months has a fiancee and a newborn son. When I first met him, I didn't know he even was in a relationship. He didn't really ever make that clear. I found out from someone else there. Before I knew that, I kinda had developed a crush on him. He would flirt with me. And I guess by my being nice, I was "flirting" with him, too.... Well, now he wants me to meet his son. He actually was born a few months back, and when I first met my friend, "Jack", he was just on the way. Well, eventually Jack stopped messaging me so frequently when he and his fiancee moved in together.( Hmmmm?!) He told me later at work that his fiancee thought we were cheating on her together. Jack still snaps me all the time..mainly just chat messages. But he flirts with me, wants me to flirt with him, says that he wouldn't care if his fiancee flirted with other guys, etc. He wants me to come over to his house while he's watching his son (and his fiancee is at her job), so I can see him. I bought Baby B a gift even, but now, I feel like it's just bad news to go behind his fiancee like this. He says it's all innocent and he means nothing by it and that "we both have self control"-- meaning him and me... Is it rude to tell him no? He tells me to stop worrying about it and that I should just flirt freely. He's a nice guy, but I don't even like him anymore, now that I know he's taken (and more what he's like, tbh). He's my friend, so I don't want to hurt his feelings. But I also don't want to be guilty of anything, nor do I want him to get in trouble, etc. He just always goes on and on about how he's sad he doesn't get to see his fiancee as much due to her work hour and also that he's sad he doesn't get to see me.now that I don't work with him anymore. -_____- Is visiting him with his fiancee not around an okay thing to do?! *so I can see him--as in his son. |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2016 08:31 AM PDT ok so me and my friends are very good friends and id say were pretty nice to others but this girl that we've have problems with in the past came up to me and said that me and my friends are spreading rumors about her which we all know we didn't we told the principle but she claims she can get us all suspended and I'm kinda mad about it any advice |
| Question: Why is she obsessed with me? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 08:11 AM PDT We used to be really close until I cut things off because she got too close to me. Anyway I made other friends and whenever I give someone a compliment on their appearance she will try to copy them. She also copies my style and moves and even observes me (stalks) in school. Like for instance I eat upstairs with my friends because that's where our hangout spot is. She has also decided to set up a hangout spot there and that wasn't good enough she even made one closer to us to eavesdrop on our conversations. I really like her as a person but I don't see her the way she used to see me. She's actually a lesbian and I found out recently. She tried making moves on me when we were friends... and it kinda seemed wrong since I'm straight I'd be fine with it if she was a guy. Anyway if that's not enough she was made reasons to touch me... yesterday she brushed her hand down my skirt and winked at me. She also stalk me online and etc... she used to always say that she loved me etc and that she'd do anything for me... why can't she just understand it's impossible? :/ why is she sooo obsessed with me anyway? She also constantly compliments me and gets angry if I talk to her ex bff's. She got really upset when I told people we weren't friends anymore and almost slapped me. She also told me she'd die for me and do anything for me.. |
| Question: How to ask a girl out who is on my cross country running team? Please help!? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 08:10 AM PDT There is a girl on my cross country team. She is in 12th grade and I am in 10th. The age difference makes it harder for me, on top of the fact that I'm incredibly shy. I only really talk to her in cross country when complimenting her run, as I do with everyone else. She seems really nice and I really want to get to know her more but I'm extremely nervous. What should I do or say? |
| Question: What does it mean when someone puts their head on your shoulder? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 07:55 AM PDT What does it mean when someone puts their head on your shoulder? |
| Question: Is this girl thinking im gay or something? I was just being nice in conversation? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 07:46 AM PDT Met this girl on Match.com, and we've been hitting it off. We were on the phone last night, and I was just being nice asking about her hair, since she said she went to the saloon. She said "i've never had a guy ask me about my hair before." |
| Question: I think I am addicted to the computer and I don't know how to stop.? Posted: 16 Sep 2016 07:45 AM PDT I am constantly on the road, never staying in one place for more than a year. My father is against me constantly playing on the computer, stating that "It seems to be the sole purpose in my life." I have tried to get out, but often I end up with people I don't want to hang out with. I keep in contact with old friends via mobile devices and gaming. I don't like having to say goodbye, so I distance myself but every now and then, a few people get in and I become good friends with them only to be moved by my job. My dad doesn't understand that me, being 23 years old, that this is destroying my social life and I am only now starting to realize it. I consider myself a huge introvert, only really going out when my dad surprises me with the fact we are going somewhere, or whenever I have plans and I often talk with a friend for a couple hours at night. I don't want to stay this way forever but honestly with the situation I am in, I don't see much other options. |
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