I'm just so scared of being alone that it's really hard to focus on anything else in my life.

ciao ragazzi,ho un problema(voi direte che nella vita i problemi sono altri) ma comunque è una cosa che mi pesa.Da non molto sto lavorando la sera in una pizzeria e gli orari che faccio soprattutto nel week(finisco molto tardi) non mi permettono di uscire come prima( cioè mi basterebbe anche una sera nel week). sto facendo questo lavoro serale perchè di giorno sono in università e i miei amici lavorano di giorno e in pratica non li posso mai vedere perchè poi la sera appunto lavoro io,ho paura di perdere anche delle amicizie e non so come fare e questa cosa mi pesa parecchio!so anche che la vita è fatta di sacrifici però in questo modo ho paura di perdere alcune persone per me importanti e di non potermi godere la mia giovane età,datemi qualche consiglio grazie

I have a relative with life long financial struggles she has 4kids(4 different daddies) + custody of 2 sisters(he mom./ my aunt died). She pretty much has created her struggles she is facing eviction. I have a very small 800sq ft /2bdrm home perfect for me and my 24yr old son. To add 7ppl to that would literally be us walking over each other, plus I have no room for her to store so bags of clothes etc. The thought makes me cringe of having all those people and the noise in my peaceful humble abode. Not to mention my son works midnight's 6 nights a week the noise would have him sleepless. My cousin currently has 3 other adults living with he fee loading she never has the balls to have them pitch in on bills her landlord wants her out because there are to many in the house and she never bossed up to tell 2 adult brothers and 1 adult female cousin they need to go. So no they all have to go. Morally I feel its only right to look out for her yet I don't know if my sanity can allow it.1 month can go into 2 or 3 months and it interferes with my guy coming over, I don't go over his house as much any more because his daughter has moved back home from college and yes its awkward laying up in his bedroom with him with his daughter in the next room.

When my 7 year old misbehaves she looses dessert for that day. She recently called me a ***** and got dessert taken away for a week. It's very effective as she looves dessert. is this abuse kr neglect? She still gets all her normal meals and snacks.

Clearly there's no future. He's almost 33, we broke up because he said he realises his life is a mess. He isn't responsible and wants to drift through life with no direction or motivation. It's sad for me to see but not be able to help. He has no family around him, no real friends. He even put me as next of kin at his work when we were going out. I feel like he wants me around because I care & I'm a comfort for him, but that's not love. He doesn't want me to meet anyone else, but just wants to stay in and sleep in and make no effort. He thinks he has nothing to offer, but could easily change his lifestyle. He just thinks I'll always be there. When I was talking about a guy at work he got all teary & turned away when we met up recently. He doesn't want to be responsible for anyone, to settle down, and wants his own space, but won't let me go. When we met he says I make him happy, but now I think he's depressed & he seems to have given up, but we're not together & he wants to see me.

People would try to lie to spare my feelings. Like I can be a very understanding person. I can take the truth but I can't take the truth when I found out for myself.

im 5.4 long black brown hair,big eyes and long eyelashes and im kinda big but not too big idk if that helps.Will high ponytail help to make me look scary??Any makeup tips to look intimidaing??

Hi, I am a 25 year old female and very shy. I have been interested in this guy since graduating university which was about 3 years ago ish. I know him because he was on my course for 3 years. Id like to know how to ask him out on FB as I dont have his number. I also dont want to let life pass me by not know the answer :( I know I have left it a long time. Advice would be great :) P.S: I probably sound like a 12 year old girl but as you can tell I havent had much experience in this department lol I know I asked this question before but I only got one answer :( I also want to know how I'd go about askin lol

They can't see my info, but can I see theirs? Like online status etc

A little backstory, my dad and mom had a rocky year or two. A year and a month after my mom's brothers death, my dad commits suicide which happens to be a week before their anniversary. We're all grieving, my mom the worst. And a month after my dad passed, someone who he does business with is hanging out with my mom. I'm taking like she comes home at 11:30 giggling. She's always said they just talk, they always hangout like everyday. More than with me, her daughter. Recently I found proof they're dating and I got pissed. She said she's just having fun, I shouldn't be making her feel bad, she's just getting to know herself. This is one month after my dad literally died. They've known eachother since late teens. The guy is over my house all the time, and if he had any respect for my dad he wouldn't move in on her especially only ONE MONTH after it happens. I feel hurt she'd move on so quickly. And betrayed she lied saying nothing was going on. I can't even have a normal conversation with her right now. Am I wrong for being mad? She got angry that I was angry, I don't get it.

He gets paid every two weeks and I get paid once a month. He offers to buy food but goes so cheap that it's barely a meal ($10 a meal). Literally for this week our choices are Ramen or sandwiches for a whole week. He complains about eating out even if we get the dollar menu and would rather "cook at home". Which means trying to stay at $10 a meal. My mother is 61 and lives off widower pension, we stay with her to keep an eye on her as she is depressed a lot....so $10 for three people to eat. If he's feeling really awesome it might increase to twenty. I also try to have him budget for clothes as his clothes are raggedy and his shoes falling apart but that "costs too much". It's so embarrassing that he is so frugal!! Any advice?

My friend met a woman on a adult hookup site. He told me he had no issue with her husband watching. He told me while he was doing her with her being on her back, her husband without asking rubbed, and briefly fingered him. He said he never said anything, finished the sex with her then left. He doesn't know if he was violated or if its lesson learned.

My other halves father is kicking me out of the flat inside the family home in which myself and my partner(his son) pay rent to live in, because he feels I could be used against him, if his wife (my sons mother) decides to use me as a factor against him, if there relationship ends up in divorce (they have been separated yet still living together for 8 years, after she had an affair) She does not like me because she feels i poison her son with opinions of her, although that is not the case and he has always had his own feelings - I now have to rent a room in shared accommodation because my partner refuses to rent a flat with me, until we have enough for a mortgage as he does not want to rent which i understand but what about me? Should he not want to help me?

Would I be born to the different mother or father?

She's the woman of my dreams I fantasized about her since I was 12 & she knows all my business. She's the only one who hasn't changed on me & I told her how special she is & she told me how special I was too but the more I continued to embrace her for being the wonderful person she is she went cold on me but she said that I could count her for anything for ANYTHING. I know she thinks I'm handsome I know her family loves me. She makes me feel as if my life actually mattered. Her texts brought me to tears. She's the only human to offer me help the only one who actually seemed to care. Except she's got a boyfriend & im tired of pouring my heart out motivating her it's been months since I talked to her. Why the **** do I get all my dreams except for her right now. If she's gonna marry him than **** me my lifeis over. You say I should let go because I'm emotionally unstable. But I'm the only one who doesn't see her as just a body. When I was in the hospital her sister was the only person who hit me up. I surrender to God I know he has plan. The only time I'm happy is when I'm with her. Something about her just soothes me its that gene se quoi. She giggled when I kissed her cheek. I'd serenade her. I'd overhear her telling her parents how handsome I am. She called me sexy is that even flirting? Do I give up on my dream? Because I wanna live my life with I'm gonna have kids with her just give me a plan & motivation. I want to send her a motivational text & tell her I'm there for her

it sort of makes me feel awkward and scared to introduce him to my family:/ I wouldnt want them to make fun of me or make jokes about it Me and my step brother are not close at all if this makes a difference, we never talk

We met up two weekends ago, because he said he wanted to see me & I was curious to see him too. We ended up sleeping together & the next weekend. He kept holding me & even had brought my old body cream to his new flat, which was a bit strange, as he doesn't use it because it smells girly & I hadn't seen him in months. He got jealous & upset hearing about a guy a work, even thought we're only friends. After I messaged him that it felt wrong, like we're just using each other, when it's not that because i care about him. He text me back "I know what you mean" He never talks about his feelings, and gives annoying short replies like that. He's 33 soon & we broke up because his "life is a mess". I agree. He text one night saying it might be nice to do something Sunday. Up to you. Talk to you later. I said yeah could do & I'll give him his backpack back. Saturday night I asked if we're still meeting, but my message didn't go through until Sunday afternoon, where he said "sorry just got your message. Not feeling great but see you soon x" I replied saying I was out anyway because he didn't get back, and maybe it's not a good idea like i said before. He replied "Yeah it's a weird one." So in the end I just said "Yeah, I mean we're not together and want different things, so won't work." he read it, but didn't reply. I think he's depressed and he says he's getting the 'manopause'. he wanted to know if I'd been with anyone & he said he hasn't even looked.

Lately I have been so stressed out with college, tuition money, gas money, assignments due, taking care of my four year old brother, and I don't know why I have been feeling so tired of myself. I don't mean to sound like I want pity because I know people who have hard lives and mine isn't one bit close to theirs, but I just need to hear about other peoples struggles and how they overcame them so I have some motivation everyday I wake up. I don't really have any friends who are there to push me through everything. Please, I just need to hear what problems you've solved in your life that made a difference in yourself.

How would you react if you walked in on your daughters bf jerking it with your pics would you think it's a compliment or be grossed out my girls mom walked in on me doing it and I don't know what to say to her

She's the woman of my dreams I fantasized about her since I was 12 & she knows all my business. She's the only one who hasn't changed on me & I told her how special she is & she told me how special I was too but the more I continued to embrace her for being the wonderful person she is she went cold on me but she said that I could count her for anything for ANYTHING. I know she thinks I'm handsome I know her family loves me. She makes me feel as if my life actually mattered. Her texts brought me to tears. She's the only human to offer me help the only one who actually seemed to care. Except she's got a boyfriend & im tired of pouring my heart out motivating her it's been months since I talked to her. Why the **** do I get all my dreams except for her right now. If she's gonna marry him than **** me my lifeis over. You say I should let go because I'm emotionally unstable. But I'm the only one who doesn't see her as just a body. When I was in the hospital her sister was the only person who hit me up. I surrender to God I know he has plan. The only time I'm happy is when I'm with her. Something about her just soothes me its that gene se quoi. She giggled when I kissed her cheek. I'd serenade her. I'd overhear her telling her parents how handsome I am. She called me sexy is that even flirting? Do I give up on my dream? Because I wanna live my life with I'm gonna have kids with her just give me a plan & motivation. I want to send her a motivational text & tell her I'm there for her

This girl used to teach at this post-grad school . I had a couple of classes with her, and we both around the same age group. We caught each others eyes when we saw each other in school. I'm friendly and she is so nice to me , and we always greet each other and talk . She started dressing really beautifully , and she might come to our class and talk with a teacher and we always exchange looks. She came to our class and told our teacher that she's leaving the school and that today was her last day. At the end of the classes, i went to her classroom , and told her that we will miss her. she immediately grabbed a paper and wrote her number and her website . Then, a teacher walked into the class and kept talking and once he left , she asked for my number and texted me her website. She invited me to her movie on october 8th , but i feel other teachers might be there and i'll look awkward. we exchanged texts and she always replied with awww. now it's around 11 p.m. and she sent me a message asking me to add her on FB and wish me good night. i replied that i don't have a facebok , then said we will miss her as a teacher. i don't wanna be in friendzone, and i wanna ask her if she's free on wednesday so we will meet at barnes and noble , so that will be an excuse to hang out with her . i'm nervous as i never dated before. help me. BTW. we both in our late 20's . she texted me : ( add me on FB .. and GN ) I replied ( i really don't have a facebook ) she replied with aw we will keep in touch over the phone GN i replied that we will miss her at school and hopefully we will have her as a sub teacher a lot. she replied i appreciate the kind words I An hour later, i texted ( did you watch the movie called ... ) but she didn't reply. i feel i screwed there .

Well first off I have a mild disability which involves speech problems and I don't have hardly any friends and the one person who is my friend is busy a lot so I don't see her a lot. She's older than me and more popular than me. She's 16 and I am 14. People at school don't care about me at all. I'm invisible to them and sometimes my friend. The people who do notice me laugh at me especially when I do something stupid. I am shy too. I have bad comebacks and I'm weak as ******* ****. I got the strength of a 3rd grader and I am in 9th grade. I am always physically exhausted. I stopped worrying about what I ate because that was making things even harder. My mom is strict too so if I forget something, make a mistake or get a Bon an assignment or test. She will threaten to ground me even if I tried my hardest. I don't know what to do. The only good thing anymore is Pokémon go. I just want to die but I don't want to go to hell because I try so hard.

I'm going to go meet a long ago friend but I don't want to be awkward or weird around her. She's also going to be surrounded by people so how should I approach them?

See a girl or a guy you're attracted and want to talk to them then you notice someone you associate with has their attention but you can't take your eyes off of one another but you aren't one to step on someone toes so you go about your life. YEARS go by and you start training at a local track only to realize the same person from years before is also there and again has caught your eye as you've caught theirs. It's one day so you think nothing of it but inside you're obviously happy. you return 2 days later and see this person again and again neither can take their eyes off of the other.. What would you call it?

It s alittle while til prom season but I d like to come up with some ideas in case I need to learn something on guitar or whatever ... I thought about singing to him and possibly playing the guitar Or doing a female version of a barbershop quartet kinda thing , I m big in choir and he (he s in college) is a music major but I m not sure what song id do ... Should I do it here infront of his family or our high school friends (if we did a quartet ) or when I go to visit him infront of his friends ... I m open to any ideas!!!!! maybe some kind of pun since he is in college he goes to SFA , maybe some tv shows .... JUST THROUGH YOUR IDEAS OUT THERE !!! he asked me last year with a poster saying "prom would be fire/lit if u were my date" and spelled prom in candles -infront of his family very sweet!! Any ideas?!

Domenica 18 settembre 2016 ho preso un volo aereo da Genova a Palermo ..e c era un ragazzo che mi ha colpito molto ,non so quando i nostri sguardi si incrociavano mi venivano i vuoti allo stomaco ... Era ben vestito e sedeva nel posto di fianco al mio ... X tutto il volo ci siamo guardati ,ma ne io ne lui abbiamo avuto il coraggio di farci avanti ...sono riuscita a capire che comunque era abbastanza timido ..volevo sapere c è un modo per scoprire il nome del passeggero ? Magari chiedendo alla compagnia aerea?.

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how can i do it

this guy I liked kind of rejected me, but instead of being straight up & saying I don't like you back, he said he wasn't interested in a long distance relationship or friendship, he said I seemed nice & he wished me well but that's how he felt with a sad emoji at the end, and then after I responded back letting him know I was kind of bummed he felt that way about LDR, he turned into an *** & told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again... like he should've just been straight up & told me he wasn't into me instead of trying to be all nice & sensitive & then turn around & be a jerk when I tried to get him to change his mind.. if he had told me he wasn't into me, I wouldn't have pushed him.. do you think he knew how I felt & just didn't want to hurt my feelings? Or he genuinely cares about my feelings? by the way, he ended up hurting my feelings anyway.. & I was the one who apologized & tried to be on good terms, idk. Do you think there's still a chance? Maybe I overwhelmed him too much? Please share your opinions

Ok so I m typing fast so there might be some errors. There s this guy who hates me for no reasons I don t know I ve asked other people to talk to him and ask why and it s a different answer everytime like he says oh her voice is annoying, and she acts like a know it all or he says she s ugly. He told everyone fake rumors about me too. When I walk alone and it s just me and him in the hallway he always looks at me with a helpless stare. He doesn t like me for sure when he likes girls he doesn t treat them like sh#t He also made fun of my hair because it s an Afro (I m black, but he s not racist that s for sure) Why does he stare is it because he wants to hurt me or what? P.s I don t like that douchebag

I'm 14 years old and I am really depressed. So 2 years ago my grandpa got sick and died. My mom just had bypass surgery a few years before that and she did it at the place she worked at Mayo. Well she got fired and they stopped checking up on her after the surgery. A couple of months later she falls down the stairs on to a cement floor and broke her back in October but the doctors didn't find out until may. She have already had surgery on her hips but now she need major back surgery that will have her in the hospital for about 5-6 days, then a month of bed rest, and a year of recovery. My dad works 2 full time jobs everyday. My great-grandma died a year ago and my cat died in June. We got a new kitten but he was my best friend and I talked to him all the time. Also I have been "the mother" to my two little sisters ever sense my mom fell and its to much pressure on me. I have almost daily panic attacks about the littlest of things like I got a really bad hair cut and i freaked out twice. My mom even had to call the police to calm me down. I have a therapist but I only seen her twice and I have a conseler to but I only seen her once. The conseler has me do something to calm down like lock myself in a room and calm down, listen to music, write the story I am writing, or go on my phone. Most of the time I can't do this stuff because I have no door because I live in the attic upstairs with no door because my mom took my room down stairs. I really need some advice.