For some reason whenever I become emotionally attached to someone I lose all interest sexually. I know I'm not a sexual because I want to have sex with people who I am not emotionally attached to. Annyway. PS: IMPORTANT-The emotional attachments I'm talking about did not start as sexual crushes in fact I never wanted to have sex with them but i do enjoy hugging them and spending time with them. After a long time if not seeing them I feel almost infatuation when I get there texts and do see them. HOWEVER. I also get crushes that are both emotional and sexual at the same time. So does this mean that I have simply a strong and deep friendship bond and not at all romantic love with them? But the crushes are more what romantic is like? Also could these deep friendships be felt for any gender or sex?

What are ways to get two strangers to argue about something? What would be a good way to two friends to argue so you could film them and stop it right before it gets to heated? my friends always prank me and i want to get them both, i want to somehow make them mad at each other, any ideas or anything similar?

If you talk about your friend to your crush all The time. Him and her never met before but he accepted her friend request on Facebook. He doesn't accept everyone. He declined people request. Do you think it's a good sign he accepted hers?

my friend always been negative toward a guy I am interested in. She is welcoming and accepting my other friends but there's drama and fighting over a guy. If she's welcoming to my other friends with open arms means she wants my friends around or in the picture. So does her and I fighting over everything this guy does means she doesn't want him in the picture? He never did anything to her

So I'm in 7th grade (I'm 13)... I've recently moved to a new school and I hate it tbh.. I feel like I'm different from everyone (not in a good way) I'm more of a alternative person but most of the kids in my classes don't have anything in common with me AT ALL.. Anyways I feel like no one likes me like yeah I hang out with a few people (more like one person) but at lunch I can't bring up a convo. About anything because we have nothing IN COMMON.. I just feel like I'm a outcast and I feel as if no one likes me or wants to be around me what so ever.. Not to mention I'm shy asf and I have little to no self-confidence.. I try to talk to people but everyone seems to be uninterested or just full on ignores me :l and yeah I love being alone sometimes but I want someone to rant to and tell my cheesy puns to;-; and I'm a girl btw :p

There was a kid i elementary who I guess was a bit mean to. I was bullied in elementary, and I had this one friend who was a book worm. He had chubby cheeks, so I used to slap him, but not hard or anything. I have known him since second grade. After elementary, he went to the same middle school and high school with me (private school-grade k-12). He was getting popular too. However, he used to annoy me in middle school a lot so I would fight with him a lot. I feel bad for treating him like that. Thinking about it, I feel like I made him feel the same way my bullies made me feel. He has gotten pretty popular.

The good news is, a lot of people are already really nice and friendly towards me. The problem is, I almost always choke when I say something, or I end up doing/saying something really weird that makes me not want to talk any more. The result is awkward silences and not very deep conversations. I even feel weird and insecure when people are obviously trying to be nice or social towards me, which sucks, because I really do want to be friends or just have a good conversation with these people. What can I do to make me more open and sociable? Help!

it would seem detrimental to a person's wellbeing to not have any friends, so why would someone be lacking in this necessary life skill? note: i'm not awkward at all nor a dork. i'm actually very social and love talking to people. and yet still have a hard time making friends...

Hi I have 21 years and a few months ago I met a 19 year old girl called Nancy (s American ok American but I like to tell American for this) ok is American and she was very nice we became fast friends and if I love her and asked her to be my girlfriend and she started laughing because I thought I said it jokingly I told him I feel many things for her and she was thought and replied know Joseph you're a very nice guy and very smart I like you much but I can not be your girlfriend I hope and let us not talk about this because I do not like reject and do not feel bad feel good about yourself and we said goodbye (she said goodnight I said goodbye) since not returned to see us and truly strange much I still feel much love for her and sometimes phoned and if I answer talked for a while but it hurts no longer speak to me as before now treats me like a stranger I need her as a woman but I need more as a friend the truth if you can not regain your friendship and trust? and I do not want to forget clear that I speak in English but little'm still a rookie x3 I hope she teach me more;): 3 I realize now that she is a very beautiful eagle and can fly very high and I'm an ugly raven wings wounds that I can never fly again beside I am very sad because for me is Unreachable

I was bullied for a year by an over-confident jerk, over four years ago. I never got revenge on him and Im still angry to this day. He still acts over-confident but doesnt bully me anymore, I was told by my parents to never harm anyone, only to tell the teacher. Listened to them and never worked. He is still over-confident but doesnt bully me anymore. Should I get revenge on him?

My crush accepted my friend Facebook request (they never met but he knows of her and knows we are friends)

Some person randomly messaged me so I thought I'd see if they got the wrong number. They did, apologized, that was that. So I thought. After an hour they messaged me. I'm use to getting random messages on Kik, but not my phone. Being the nice person I am, I decided a conversation wouldn't be bad. They got clingy right away, called me "dummy" as if it were some sort of cute nickname, and started like, I don't know how to describe it. I guess worship me? They'd say I was awesome, perfect, and beautiful over and over again. It got to the point where I ignored my phone. After a couple days, I checked my phone, and I had ten messages from them, the last one being "Help I'm crying so much I need to talk to you" That hooked me right in. I care so much, even about strangers, and I hate that I care. I started talking to them. They said they were worried about me because we're "friends". I don't know how many friends they have, but I don't consider people I've talked to for a total of 2 hours to be a friend. Acquaintances at best. I said that. They apologized saying "I didn't mean to be an issue. Ill go if you dont want me..im sorry" I told them it was up to them, seeing as it's a free country. I was being a smart ***. After that they texted "Im sorry!" I know that wasn't the best way to handle it. For some reason it felt nice to hurt them. I just want to know why. I feel horrible if I kill a spider, let alone hurt another person, so why did it feel so nice to make someone feel bad?

a new girl has come to school. and everyday they just want to talk to her. theyr'e all friendly, chat with each other laugh, and they ignore me and forget about me on purpose. they don't even care. they don't say one word to me, it's all about the new girl 24/7

Now I am not completely starving myself but I noticed that I am eating less and less because today I skipped eating lunch and that is the 10th meal I skipped within the past two month however I am trying to lose weight I weigh 191 and I used to weigh 210 and I am trying to go down to 175 pounds and I have been skipping meals since two months ago, I have been losing weight but skipping meals is recently new. I am not depressed it's just sometimes I don't feel hungry or I forget to eat. By the way I am a guy

There is this guy in my school that is really close to my best friend. We know each other because we sat next to each other 3 years ago and we talked a bit. Anyways, he is one of the cool kids and I felt like he would be a bad influence on my friend so I told my friend to stop talking to him since he's a bad boy and my friend did. For the past few days, he has been following me around for no reason and earlier today he was following me but I had pepper spray just in case so he ran up to me and I sprayed the absolute **** outta his eyes till he feel on the ground in pain. There was nobody around so I was worried if someone else saw that but I noticed that he had a knife in his hand so I ran so fast and went to call the cops but he sent me a voice message saying that if I call the cops he would gut my little brother so I didn't and now my brother is here well and unharmed. I'm just so worried about what's going to happen next and I can't call the cops because he will find my little brother and kill him and I would do anything to protect my family. Please tell me what to do I'm so scared

So i was invited by my friend to this mixer a few weeks ago. Its happening this weekend and i wasnt invited recently but my other friend was and they were acting weird when it was brought up as if they didnt want me to know about it or something and when i asked about this weekend they just said they "had plans." Am i like un-invited?? What should i do i really want to go

OK, I somehow made this dude who was my friend pissed off at me, now I can't get over the fact he's mad at me. Like, he's a failing student heavy smoker/hillbilly and I am angry at myself for making him mad somehow How would you guys deal with this (he's a dick, I tried apologizing to him in person)

my high school is having a trip to disney and i chose to room with a group of girls who i had met newly in this school. my group of friends from my previous school were fine with this except for one even though we never even spoke about rooming together. now the one who was mad at me is rooming with us in our last available spot and she didn t even talk to me about and asked a girl she s barely friends with if she could room with us. She had already discussed rooming with our other friend who has social anxiety and not a lot of friends. Now she has left one of her best friends alone with no group and i don t know how i can deal with this because its bothering me that she s all alone. this girl still does not know yet that she s alone and its killing my conscience.

My sweet 16 is March 2nd. My family and I are already started the planning for it. Since the first time I ever watched the Labyrinth when I was 6 I've wanted a party themed after the ball. I love that movie so much. My family has always been super poor and were even homeless for awhile, Some stuff has happened in my family recently and my dads have been saving up to make this party happen. The problem is that I don't have many friends and I'm even bullied at my school, It's hard to have a sweet 16 party with no friends. So I was just wondering if anyone had any tips on how to at least make some more friends before my party that way it's not just me and my dad there. Thank you. I don't want friends for their gift or anything I just want this to be worth it for my dad. I have never really told him how unpopular I really am so I just don't him to find out when no one shows up to this party he's worked so hard to make happen

Wtf! My butt crack was showing the whole day today at school and my friend decides to tell me at the very end of the day. I am so embarrassed that means everyone in my classes saw it please help

I told her "Hi Camille I don't know if you remember but you were my neighbor in The Dalles. you lived in the house across from me. you and your brother Adam you two came over and swam in my pool and I would see you two out playing a lot. how are you? I was just thinking about it" and she said "Hey James!! I'm so sorry I didn't see this message until now, facebook filtered it into requested or something. how have you been?"

I started a new school year (grade 8 which sucks..) and this school is horrible. The first day I came, no one welcomed me at all, no one cared, I made a friend, but she didn't care about me at all. Seemed like she was just around me then she wouldn't seem like a loner. As soon as she got new friends, she pushed me away, so basically, I have no friends, I have depression, I have anxiety, No one cares if im dead or alive, I cry everyday walking home from school (sometimes I cry at school, if anyone bothers to ask i'd make an excuse.) On my first day one of my teachers ignored me, and it hurt, alot. I feel like running away, or dying if I may say. I was thinking I could run away and somehow find my way to join the army, but im about 13 years old... please help. I can't continue going to this school, my parents are no help.

They jumped out of their car in front of me and started banging on my window. I'm super peaceful and keep to myself but this was my friends friend and I am in a fight with my friend. nvm, it's a stupid story, but I am now having panick scared feelings and I really want to calm down and be able to feel happ;y again. thanks tysm I'm listening to chillnation now & it is really helping. I'll try the other things too. Yeah I know to avoid depressing songs, lol. There is someone I can talk to about it. I'll try later. I did already talk to my dad when I first got home and he made me breath in a paper bag, haha. I couldn't breath right. :/ Music is helping tho. & yeah put it out of my mind. I will try my best. Just a bit shook up.

Okay so my friend tells me everything and i notice a lot of the times she says stuff like i hate my life or i wanna kill my self of fml (f**** my life) sometimes she laughs after wards but sometimes when were talking about homework she says it. She stayed up til 3 am for the past 4 nights and i noticed she hasn't been eating a lot. Like today she didn't even eat her lunch she just at there. She always tells me she depressed also but she just tells me and in front of other people she just laughs about it like stop i hate my life. She tells me the truth. IS she joking or is she serious i can't tell. Today in class she didn't laugh at all and she looked really tired she also looked like she was about to cry. I asked her if she was okay and she just nodded but i know she wasn't. Is she really depressed or not i can't tell? What should i do if she is?

I'm a sophomore in college and I started dorming this year. I did not dorm last year so I didn't make much friends. My roommate is a senior and she has her own friends but we planned to hang out weekly. It's my 5th day here in my dorm and all I have been doing is going to class, ending at 12 and coming back to my dorm bored as heck and just watching Netflix. I feel like a loser and I don't know how to make friends in classes. Last year I made some friends in my classes but we never hung out outside of class. I am trying to meet new people. Yesterday I went to a floor meeting and we all went around introducing ourselves and it was great. But I am really struggling to make reliable friends here

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My friend and i are having a funny comment war dissing each other on Instagram, the last comment was him going, "Oh my god, what a **** youre 😂😂 xD" so how do i reply? I need a funny remark, not going too far and not harsh

I have been at college for about three weeks so far, and in those three weeks, I haven't had a single good day. I have just been through nothing but a long series of f**k-ups and haven't made any friends. On top of that, I can't talk to any of the girls here, and I skipped one of my classes today because one of my classmates was COMPLAINING that so many girls are into him. Complaining. That pissed me off so I went back to my dorm, only to have my key break on me when I put it in the lock. I can't make friends here, I can't talk to anyone, my classes are hard as s**t, and I just want to leave, but I know I can't. College is important to me, but I just want to hear that it'll get better. And I want to be able to believe it. I've been hearing people say "the first few weeks are always the hardest" yet the people who have told me that have been people who have tons of friends already and are only struggling with things like homework, but as for me, I can't do **** when it comes to my social life. How am I supposed to believe it'll get better when I've had nothing but failures so far? :(

Prior Info: my friend used to cut herself in 7th grade My friend keeps telling me how she hates her life and she can never focus on homework and asks me to help her. We video chat and when i go on she seems like she was crying before i get on. Today at school she didn't laugh at any of the jokes she usually find funny and she looked really tired and she said she stayed up till 3 am. I worried about her what should i do. Im the only one she tells stuff to so i cant talk to anyone else about it. I just want her to tell me whats wrong how can i help her (we've been best friends since 6th grade) should i be concerned?

I decided to cut this person out of my life . They were very horrible , selfish , bipolar , disrespectful people out there . They were so mean to a level where their jokes consist of putting you down , because they are angry With them selves , when you have done nothing but be nice to them and support them through their toughest times and prevent them from doing bad things that will hurt them . You always made time for them . Always cared and wore is so sick about them ... But yet they never bother to ask about you or how you feel .. They take their anger from everyone else on you and they expect you to kiss their *** and be sorry for caring 😒 If a person demand respect in a friendship then it s not a real friendship ! No matter what you re going through you should always love the people who love and take care of you , not hurt them and disrespect them . So you guys think I did the right thing ?

I am a housewife, currently 34 weeks pregnant with my first child. I get so bored at home without my husband and don't have many friends who are at the same place in life as me so I decided those things along with enjoying meeting new people and talking about all things to do with parenting and pregnancy, making a mom group would be a really great idea. I have had so much fun creating it and filling it with cool, fun info about many different mom topics and making sure it is going to be a safe, fun place for anyone that joins. I have posted short posts two days in a row "advertising" my group to my other mom friends but no one will join :( I am always very nice and helpful on facebook and have quite a few friends I thought would be interested in my group but 48 hours late, no one will join and its upsetting since I have put so much work into it. Any advice? I don't want to annoy people but I also want to get my group going.

every since the new girl came to school she has stole all my friends. it's like she trying to replace me. none of my friends want to talk to me and just want to be friends with the new girl. she acts extra nice. and i'm singled out.

I've been avoiding my friend but the truth to be told I'm not his friend I thought he'd get the point I don't want to be his friend anymore but he thought I was doing my silent treatment at first and then he said I see how it is does it mean he got the point he kept trying to reach out and I don't want nothing to do with him he blocked me on Facebook spring there is something I strongly feel that he's fake and I have a very strong feeling in my gut! I don't even know what to do am I wrong for this I have a trust issue ever since he blocked me on Facebook i've talk to him about this but all he does is lie and make some kind of BS excuse goes to the same school as me he's a senior and I'm a junior we always keep running into each other about all the time

So I'm in seventh grade and I just moved to a new school.. I left all of my frens behind aka the only 3 frens that I had but I was close to them :( Anyways I'm in a new school and I haven't settled in yet.. I'm shy asf and I have little to no self confidence which makes it hard to be myself and make friends ;-; I tried to make the best of it but everyone got the wrong impression of me ;-; I just want to jump off a cliff to end this.. Anyways can anyone just please give me advice?

Today it was unreasonably hot and I took my blazer off without thinking and I think my friend saw my cuts. What should I do? I put my blazer over my arm to cover them after but should I say something. She hasent said anything but I'm scared she will tell someone.

About 3 years ago, before I started university, I decided that I want to live in an apartment instead of dorms because I don't like the thought of sharing a kitchen with 8 peoples and not having random searches, also it was cheaper surprisingly. My mom told me that her good friend's son is planning to go to my university and is also thinking of getting an apartment. I didn't know him well but I contacted him to see if he found an apartment or needed a roommate, luckily for me he did. This summer during exam season, he were at each other's throats and always having useless arguments. So I proposed an idea of kissing when we were stressed out. It was successful and he tried to kiss me when the exams were over and I rejected it. That night j was going out with friends to celebrate and came home tipsy but my male friend took me to my apartment. My roommate started arguing with me and insinuating that I am some s|ut. Whenever I would have a male friend over to study he would always point out and call them my bf. I don't even have many male friends and some of them are in a committed relationship and were not doing anything wrong. But that was one of the biggest fights we've had and I went back home a few days later and didn't talk until a few days ago. Anyways, I've been getting the urge to get married soon ever since my cousin got married and I've only told that to my best friend. This morning I was making breakfast and he proposed. I ran to my room and locked myself in because I couldn't deal with it. Its been hours and I am hungry but I don't want to face him. There's pros and cons to this proposal but I don't even know what to think. Any advice ? I thought it was a prank to begin with but he got a bit too emotional and romantic. Plus when I went to my room he was outside talking about all the good times we've had. I see potential in him to be a good husband but his insecurities makes me wonder if we would be married would he always be this aggressive when I make contact with a male.

Back in May, a friend of mine invited me to be a part of a ladies group from our church. I couldn't visit or join at the time. Since May, she and I have become closer and I've gotten more involved in our church. I would really love to get involved in the group this time around if possible, so I can get to know some other ladies at our church. I asked her if she was free Wednesday or Friday to get together, and she said not Friday, since her Friday ladies group was starting, then proceeded to tell me some things that are going on with some of the ladies in the group (whom I have never met), but did not invite me again to join. I'm wondering if it would be rude or presumptuous to ask if the invite from May is still open? Bit of a backstory: I've invited her to a few groups, and she joined them, only to flake later on.... which is weird. But we still get together just the two of us all the time, and we text each other daily, so I do feel we're close and that she's not pulling away from me. Also, she can be pretty moody and gets overwhelmed easily, so that's one of the reasons I'm a little timid about asking. Any of my other friends, I would have asked weeks ago and they probably would have been excited. For some reason, I feel confused as to whether my friend is thinking I'm considering the invite still open OR if she has no intention of trying to include me this time around?

So my sister, brother, and all my friends constantly tell me that I ask way too many questions about literally everything. They tell me I do it on purpose (which I don't, I'm just insanely curious about everything). People constantly get annoyed when I ask them questions but it's just how I am. I'm 16, but does this make me childish or stupid for asking so many questions???

I'm 19 and never had a hug from a friend. I had a hug from family but that's it. Life kinda sucks right now and that's all I ask for. I've asked a friend before but they said no.

My friend is a really sweet guy and a good friend. I already know he has a crush on me but I don't like him like that. Just as a friend. Well he recently moved so he lives further away from me now. And ever since he moved, he has been texting me every. single. day. I swear to you, he does not miss a day. And it's really getting on my nerves. He never has anything interesting to say. He just sends me stupid meme pictures and youtube videos. But he does this every day. It's gotten to the point where I switched on the 'do not disturb' feature in our text conversation because he texts me at like 12 am, 3 am, 4 am....like really?!? He knows I'm asleep and I have to wake up early! He's very needy and clingy so when I try ignoring him, he goes 'Hey are you mat me? Did I say something wrong?'. I didn't reply to his texts yesterday and today and he goes 'Stop ignoring me!!'. He even sends me messages on my play station account. If I did have a crush on him, then I wouldn't mind all this. But since I don't, I kind of see it as desperation. I mean, I'm flattered that he thinks about me all the time but geez, he doesn't seem to know his boundaries. I'm not trying to be mean or rude. He's definitely the sensitive type so I don't know how to tell him without sounding too harsh or hurting his feelings. Am I being too harsh? Have you ever had an experience like this? What should I do? Thanks.

Today I posted a few pics of a friend of mine,KIA in combat in Iraq in 2006. Since we all knew each other as it was a small town everyone knew him. He was our "hometown hero". People,friends commented the photo with "Miss you buddy" or "Rest easy Marine,your job is done". Hell,even my mom commented "Miss that kid",but one of my girlfriends (who knew him well) commented just "Hey,so tonight we'll meet at Erin's at 9 or 10?" as we had plans for going tonight at our friend Erin's apartment. I mean I understand that she didn't remember the hour,but what the hell,I'm not mad but Is it just me or it is slightly insensitive commentig that under the picture of a guy who is no longer alive and died for our country? I just replied "yes" and I dont' want to fight over a facebook thing but come on...

Right now I have like no friends because everyone went off to college and I'm stuck here going to a school of nerds that isn't even at a college campus, and living at home because my parents forced me to go there. I am in the same classroom with he same people and same teacher for all the classes, and I don't have any friends in the class. Its not like I don't have any friends at all its just that everyone went off to big universities and is joining sororities and meeting all these new people and I am super jealous. I miss all of my friends, we used to be super close and promised to never forget each other and stuff like that, but lately I have started feeling lonely. I am planning on going to a different college next semester but I am screwed for this whole semester because I have no one to hang out with. What do I do? I am already stressing out about what I am going to do for all of the holidays like Halloween and what I am going to do during vacation because I have absolutely no one. And since I will go to the other university a semester late everyone will have already formed their groups and I will be left out again. I don't want to be a loner for the rest of my life!

i socialize and im not like others i love making friends

I've known this person for 16 years. We were really close for a long time, but they have been distant, only contacting me when they need help with money. I've helped in the past, but now its like they expect it. I know they are having a hard time, but I have things to take care of as well. I cant do this anymore and I want out. but part of me feels guilty like I am throwing something away. and what would be the best way do to it with out being an jerk

because i was on vacation and i have been told i would get beaten up and no one wants to be friends with a american asian women Im still upset that i still have no friends

They're one of my best friends I have ever had! I could never be rude to them.

i simply just can't take it, I'm basically a loner in highschool cuz i got held back a year so I'm still in 9th grade. i have nobody. i lost friends and ill never make new friends. i don't know anyone and nobody wants me. i just know ill never have friends or have a girlfriend. I'm good looking and play on varsity hockey team which starts in october. but no one talks to me. the people that reognzie me want to stay away from me. and everyone else i j=dont know and they take to their friends. how the F*** do i make friends and have a gf. lets not forget the fact that I'm gonna fail school, i don't do good at all. killing my self would be the best to do at thisnpoint.

so im going for my undergraduate studies in usa. i love making friends i also socialize? n im clean nor i smell bad n nor m hairy im an indian girl so will whites be im friends?

I read my daughters diaries from high school (bad I know) and I found out that for a year when she was 14 she got picked on really badly by this girl and the rest of the class. Apparently they'd make her run out of class crying. They'd call her names, pull her hair, scribble on her work, turn her friends against her, throw stuff at her and the teacher wouldn't do anything. And how she went to her head of year lots but he never did anything. She wrote about how she was so ashamed because she cried in front of her crush and how he would stare at her and how she'd feel so horrible, about how she'd cry in the bath so no one would know. I feel disgusted and angry that some ugly, jealous ***** would reduce my sweet, sensitive little girl to tears. Why wouldn't she tell me?

So as a joke i asked him to wake me up at 5:30 and give me a call and he actually did He wished me gm and told me to have a nice day Little background we recently started hanging out although we dont really call it dating

I've asked questions on here about hooking up with a girl that I like-- but, I've since been told that it won't work out (too many hurdles). Anyhow, my new priority is making friends. I need to do that before I can ever try a serious relationship... Outside of online interactions, I actually don't have any friends. I'm trying to make some, but I don't know how... To be honest, I've always been that guy who sits alone in the lunchroom. My main problem is that I'm anti-social, and neurotic. I don't really want to get into the laundry list of details, but I'm pretty awkward. Typically, the advice I get is "be yourself". But, being myself is the problem here. What do I do? Also, I'm an atheist, and most of the time I go to a Christian private school. Right now, my atheism is a secret... The only people I told were my parents. But, after I told them, I backtracked and pretended that it was just a phase I had gone through. After seeing how it strained the relationship between myself and my parents, I'm worried about how having friends, and how to handle a secret like that. Would staying in the closet be the right thing, or no (sorry that this might feel off-topic)?

It's very uncomfortable to hold in my business during a long visit.

There is a very annoying young man in my class who can easily aggravate anybody by using one of his pathetic and immature 'insults'. Nobody actually cares about what he says - he's just obnoxious, but is there anything I could do to make him shut up?

Me and her were best friends from age 5 till 19. We are now 22 and have not talked in 2 years. She started talkin to me 2 days ago. We were both drunk though. She said she wanted to start over and be friends and i agreed. But now i regret taking her back because she still does not like my boyfriend. I told her i love him and she says thats ok but her and her husband does not like hom and does not want him around. She talkes sh!t on him. Should i ignore it, or ignore her? Im worried my boyfriend will be hurt if i be friends with someone who talks sh!t on him...

so about a year or so ago I lent this girl I was friends with for 12 years some $ and every time I kept asking her she didn't have it. Then I saw she was buying stuff on Facebook so Im like u know what I see u have the $ to reward yourself with gifts and then she gave the same excuse.... so I told her...keep the $. Its worth it to not be your friend anymore. Its not as if we ever had sex, or um....duh pay it back in the form of a BJ? How simple is that. I know you're married but when you are a girl and keep someone waiting for $ that long wouldn't you think to blow someone (especially a straight guy) so you can clear your debt. Sheesh. Some friend she is. Linda...Someone owes ME $, but I'm the sicko....OK? Timbo, good answer but she could've been courteous enough to give a spicy BJ or flash her jugs (then put them in my face)

My best friend comes over most of the time when he's not at work or away on a business trip and recently we've been spending a great amount of time together. He came over and my mom (who loves him like her own kid) said: "Hi sweetheart. Whatcha been up too?" He just smiled and said Nothing much. Walked over and hugged her while I finished cooking the meat. He leaned up against the counter watching me and my mom said: Go hang out and chill for awhile. We stayed upstairs but we stood up cuddling in each others arms, then he moved my hair away from my forehead and kissed it really gentle. I looked in his eyes and said: She doesn't care if you actually kiss me. He laughed, then I leaned up and kissed him gently at first and pulled away. We kissed in front of her like a couple of pecks. She asked if we were really in love with one another or if it was just thing friends do with one another. I said: He'd be the only guy I would kiss no matter what. I put my head in between his shoulder and chest with my arms wrapped around him. He's gorgeous and has a really great body, but I love how he treats me as his friend and how much we get along with one another. We don't kiss a lot in front of her, but that time was just out of the blue and she liked seeing it. We told her that kissing one another was our way of sharing a breath together. She just smiled and said: No you wanted to see how I'd react to him kissing you. Watch her. I just laughed and rubbed his chest muscles. I looked at him and said: I'm glad to have a man like you in my life. We shared a little peck and my dad, who was in the living room, looked at my mom and said: I think he's a keeper, but you never know what she will do. We decided after dinner to go to the park to play basketball and just hang out alone with one another. We came back and had a movie night, but we ended up falling asleep together on the couch before the movie was over. Just being cuddled up next to him, I can't resist it. When I woke up to go to the bathroom, I glanced over my shoulder and he was still sleeping. I went upstairs and grabbed us a blanket from my bed and brought it down. We cuddled up facing one another, then he whispered in his sleepy voice, "I love you baby girl." Afterwards, he kissed my forehead and snuggled up behind me and fell back to sleep with his arms wrapped around me.