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- Question: How do you know when your arguing with a narcissistic flat earthed who thinks aliens are going to save us?
- Question: Husband went to a bar alone without friends while his wife was out of town. Took cash to go and deleted it from maps history. Thoughts?
- Question: Poll: what do these words remind you of : rock-hard, veiny, throbbing, stiff, penetration, engulfment, oneness?
- Question: Is it okay for a husband to go to a bar alone, without friends, when their wife is out of town? Even once?
- Question: What advice would you suggest to your grown son up in hearing his wife had an affair?
- Question: I NEED HELP WITH THE NAME OF THIS FILM PLEASE?
- Question: Should you divorce if you love your husband very much/would do anything for him but he doesn't feel the same?
- Question: Why my ex-husband wife makes up with him in front of me when I am around ?
- Question: Hubby is chronically ill and zero sex/intimacy for 7 years. He said I can cheat as long as he never hears about it. Does he mean it? so torn?
- Question: How to stop my girlfriend from pressing charges?
- Question: To please m husband I need to be mormon wife please tell me how?
- Question: How many meals should a mother provide her kids and husband?
- Question: Should we get married?
- Question: Am I responsible for my Wife's Credit Card debt?
- Question: Attempt at divorce not going well, need help?
- Question: Since my parents are divorced is it normal my mother bad mouths my Dad all the time to me? If so how do I get her not to?
- Question: My brother is getting divorced. Should I be supportive or not care?
- Question: Mothers maiden name?
- Question: Need help with my marriage issue?
- Question: I want to live a happy life, I want to leave?
- Question: Why do divorced mothers want to get with men without kids?
- Question: Married for 32 years but now separated for 10 years, I want divorce but I cannot afford a lawyer. What should I do?
- Question: Ahhh, so he says, he can't say, yes your'e my passport wife :P?
- Question: I see my bf checking out my daughters backside all the time?
- Question: Will my parents get a divorce?
- Question: Today someone close to me emotionally devastated me. Do I confront them?
- Question: My mother in law constantly mentions family friend whenever we see her!?
- Question: 40th wedding anniversary suggestions?
- Question: When did you meet you husband and how old were you?
- Question: How can my wife check her mail on my phone?
- Question: Can I put my ex husband's business on my work application even if I was mostly a stay-at-home mom?
- Question: I am mad that my parents are getting divorced and speaking ill of each other to us kids. How do I get my anger at them out?
- Question: Which one is the best state to live?
- Question: Does your wife or husband sleep talk?
- Question: What was the Untited States first international company?
- Question: Why do men cheat than expect wife to keep them after learning of it?
- Question: I want to leave my husband but the house is in his name?
- Question: Does it mean a girl will cheat if she gets naked all the time? doubts about getting married?
- Question: What should we do for our anniversary ?
- Question: Husband works a lot, what should I do?
- Question: Husband works a lot, what should I do?
- Question: Guys do you get jealous when your girlfriends likes other guys photos on Facebook?
- Question: I have a child support question?
- Question: Anyone more depressed after seeing posts and answers on this site? In summary after my questions were answered that my wife is cheating...?
- Question: Am I crazy?
- Question: Yesterday my fiance & I got in a argument and says he puts me first. He said "I put you first before my baby mama! wt**!!!" BUT..?
- Question: How to get my wife to want intimacy again. We have had 2 kids in 3 years and she lost all libido. She isn't her old affectionate self.?
- Question: Dealing with a divorced man with a grown adult child.?
- Question: Dumping male friend?
- Question: Do women worry about money a lot? We have 2 kids under 4. We also have school and normal day to day debt. I think she's depressed over it.?
- Question: My parents are fighting?
- Question: Last night I was out and I saw a co-worker. She is married and we kissed it was a 2 second kiss. Knew it was a mistake and then left.?
- Question: Wife does not contribute financially, does not do any household work. What to do?
- Question: Why neither rich american wives do not divorce in case they are cheated Is there any law which brings disadvantage to woman in divorce ?
- Question: How do I talk to my husband who possibly cheated on me ?
- Question: My wife and I are badly addicted, how do I get her to admit how bad it is? I'm ready to be done.?
- Question: Why do people who marry after being in live in relationship with that person for some time, get divorced after marriage?
- Question: Girls, why did she use me?
- Question: How do I regain my desire for my future wife?
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Question: What advice would you suggest to your grown son up in hearing his wife had an affair? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 09:33 PM PDT My son is 33......married a woman when he was 25 and they had a beautiful baby. The mother became addicted to drugs and therefore my son was awarded full custody. He is a wonderful father. Works hard, coaches his child in every sport and has devoted his life to being the best father and provider. Well, he met a woman several years ago. She is a few years older. They dated, got engaged and were married 2 years ago. Well, we just found out that 1.5 years into their marriage, she had an affair. My son is torn. This woman has been a "mother figure" to his son for the past few years. My son was crushed when he found out about her affair. As a mother looking in.....I don't know what kind of advice to give. We are a close family and my husband and I have spent many hours discussing this with our son...... What would you advise your child in this situation? |
Question: I NEED HELP WITH THE NAME OF THIS FILM PLEASE? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 09:19 PM PDT This movie is about a wife and a husband (i dont know but i think tha the actress is kelly rutherford) the husband travels and he hire a young guy to help his wife, the wife met him and she cheats on his husband while he is traveling, the wife tells the guy that they need to stop but he is obssesed with her and he tries to kill the womens husband while he is having a bath, then the wife tells the truth to the husband and he follows him on the car but he crash, finally the wife kill the obssesed guy |
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Question: Why my ex-husband wife makes up with him in front of me when I am around ? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 08:43 PM PDT |
Posted: 11 Sep 2016 08:19 PM PDT i finally said i really need physical intimacy. He is disabled now. I just feel awful and think he is just saying it because he doesn't think I would actually do it. He said he just doesn't want to lose me. I would feel like a terrible person betraying our vows but I'm so lonely |
Question: How to stop my girlfriend from pressing charges? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 08:18 PM PDT I sent my new girlfriend a penis picture a few days ago and she got mad and blocked my number. She also didn't show up to our gym session the next day. She also blocked me on facebook. I tried contacting her for days and was not able to get ahold of her so yesterday I decided to go to her house to try and talk to her face to face. I've never been to her house before and since we were early on in her relationship she didn't tell me her address yet. I found her address online. When I rang the door bell, her young daughter answered the door. I introduced myself as her mommy's boyfriend and she let me inside. Her mom was in the shower so I sat on the couch waiting for her. When she got out of the shower, she came out into the living room in her robe and screamed. She shouted at me and told me to get out. I didn't want to make matters worse so I got out of the house and she slammed the door shut. I started shouting outside her door and begged for her to talk to me. She ignored me. I told her "i'm not leaving until you come out and talk to me". She said if I don't leave she would call the police and file a restraining order. I told her I didn't believe her and wasn't going to fall for her empty threats. So she called 911 and the police forcefully removed me off her property. They told me that if she decides to press charges I could be arrested for stalking and harassment and she could file a permanent restraining order. How can I stop this? |
Question: To please m husband I need to be mormon wife please tell me how? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 08:16 PM PDT |
Question: How many meals should a mother provide her kids and husband? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 08:11 PM PDT |
Question: Should we get married? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 07:50 PM PDT I read that at 16 in my state that if you have a baby you are legally an adult and can get married. My bf and I are in love and graduate HS this year. So can we get married? We have been together 3 years and already have sex. FYI he has a good job being a manager at a grocery store. |
Question: Am I responsible for my Wife's Credit Card debt? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 07:45 PM PDT My wife and I have had arguments over money before. We finally got separate accounts about a year ago. My wife finally confessed that she had taken out a credit card and racked up a lot of debt on it and it has gotten out of control, while we had separate finances. We are planning on moving from Missouri to Texas, and am wondering if I am liable for it. From what I understand, in most states like Missouri a spouse isn't responsible for their partner's debt as long as their name isn't on it. Texas, however, is a community property state. That means that I would be responsible for her debt. But she accumulated the debt in Missouri, I'm not sure if it transfers over to Texas or not? Thanks |
Question: Attempt at divorce not going well, need help? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 07:44 PM PDT My brother is trying to divorce his wife. I won't get into the details but he is very unhappy in his marriage and has tried to work on it for years. He is telling her that he wants to split up and she has been hysterical for days, sobbing and begging and threatening to commit suicide. She tells him he will be so happy when the day comes that she closes her eyes and never opens them again because he can be happy and have the house etc. He is staying there with her because he is afraid she's going to hurt herself. She is having panic attacks, not sleeping or eating. Taking many sleeping pills. However he wants to move on. She refuses to get professional help even though she's tried to arrange it for her. Any advice I can give him? |
Posted: 11 Sep 2016 07:34 PM PDT @Mr. Awesome----Then what do I do when Mom cuts Dad down to me on the way to school tomorrow. |
Question: My brother is getting divorced. Should I be supportive or not care? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 07:31 PM PDT |
Question: Mothers maiden name? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 07:30 PM PDT |
Question: Need help with my marriage issue? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 07:06 PM PDT I have been married to my husband for 5 years. He moved to the United States two years ago and we have a two year old. Hold. He is trying to sit for his cpa exams but hadn't been able to pass even one. He is studying for the same exam for one year now. He took it 3 times and failed. He told me he was registered to take it twice and wasn't really. So basically he lied so I didn't say anything. He also moved the exam dates a bunch of times. So the $350 exam cost us over $1200 and one year. According to him it's wrong of me to bring up the past failures and I should motivate him for trying again. He works a full time job and takes care of our child after work. I am a medical student so I am always busy. He gets help from our parents with the baby but now we its not as much. He claims that he doesn't get much time to study because of his busy day at work and child. . I need to know if I am right on getting frustrated and telling him he's failed too many times because of his lack of motivation and seriousness. Which according to him is wrong and brining him down and he also says he's bringing home the money so I shouldn't worry too much about the exams. His job is not related to his education and he makes decent amount of money if it helps with your decisions. |
Question: I want to live a happy life, I want to leave? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 06:11 PM PDT My dad's a toxic person but I have to see him everyday. Do I hate him no but I'm tired of his pointless yelling everyday, I think he may be mentally ill he's just a fake person, his family disowned me. I don't have a family through my mom's side. I'm an only child. I just don't care about myself anymore. At school, the counselors can't do ****, the teachers are just doing their jobs. I fell in love with a 21 yr old woman but she's a mess & I know I deserve better so I'm out of there even though it hurts me & I want to cry I'm just the other guy & her bf is a jerk. I'm more mature than my friends I can't help them they don't want to help themselves. I don't care about myself. I'm focused for 6-8 hrs at school, I'm hopeful for an hour or two at home by the time my dad arrives I just give up. I start remembering being bullied as a kid & I tell myself the only way out is suicide but I know not to do that because it's only more pointless than my life already is. My parents just live together there's no relationship nor do I care about it. I'm just trying to survive another day in Chicago & escape the city. I've made some arrangements but my school won't support me neither does my mom because she's broke. I don't see a light at the end of this tunnel. I'm dead |
Question: Why do divorced mothers want to get with men without kids? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 06:03 PM PDT You think they are going to put up with you and your kid too?? Why is it that men are the only ones answering this question? I need a woman's perspective. |
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Question: Ahhh, so he says, he can't say, yes your'e my passport wife :P? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 04:57 PM PDT who erased my message to John and why? You know he has a hurt penis, but I guess that's not his fault. He's not even holding his wive's hand, that's cold man. Please always hold my hand! wife's* |
Question: I see my bf checking out my daughters backside all the time? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 04:52 PM PDT I know my daughter loves the attention and I feel jealous, is this a normal reaction? or am I being immature? |
Question: Will my parents get a divorce? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 03:27 PM PDT i'm 12, turning 13 in a week, and my parents are going through a tough time right now. let me start by saying that my parents have accused each other of cheating in the past, but for the most part we've always been a happy family. so last month, they got in a huge fight that lasted for about 3 days over "cheating" issues, but they resolved it and everything was fine. for the last couple of days, i've noticed my dad seemed really sad and my parents didn't talk much. today, he asked me if i would be fine without him, and i guess i kinda brushed it off and yeah. so now, i walk into the kitchen and my dad tells me my mom cheated on him. i asked him if he was joking, and he said yes, but i know he's not because my mom seemed really pissed. he told me they're not going to stay married unless they get counseling, and my mom wouldn't look at me or talk to me. now i'm really upset and scared and i don't know what to do. i don't wanna talk to either of my parents. help? |
Question: Today someone close to me emotionally devastated me. Do I confront them? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 03:16 PM PDT I mean I was reduced me to a sniveling, weeping mass of blubber. I felt more emotional pain than I have in years combined. The thing is nothing bad was done. No lies were told, no promises broken. I was eager for something and not only was that eagerness not returned it was blatantly disregarded. I want to call and confront them but I can't do that with out causing guilt. I don't believe they deserve guilt since there was no wrong doing. I have already missed a big event because I was so upset and I don't want that to happen again. We are not an emotional family and do not normally share our deep feelings. How do I handle this? Do I call and confront them or do I ignore all the feelings I have? I need honest opinions. What is the "mature" route to take? |
Question: My mother in law constantly mentions family friend whenever we see her!? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 03:06 PM PDT For almost a decade that I ve been with my husband, my mil talks about her friend s daughter to my husband in front of me. She tells him what she s up to now, if she s still single, about this girls new pet... I even know what her favourite animal is!! It s as if his mum wanted this girl and my husband to be together and I got in the way! They ve been family friends with them for 20yr! I feel I deserve more respect especially since she even does this in MY house! We go months without seeing each other being in seperate parts of the country so you d think more conversation would be brought up in a short weekend than if so-and-so is single or not!! Am I being irrational? Even my husband has picked up on it! |
Question: 40th wedding anniversary suggestions? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 02:52 PM PDT How do other couples celebrate their 40th Wedding anniversary?. We live in the UK if that makes any difference. Thanks |
Question: When did you meet you husband and how old were you? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 01:46 PM PDT I met my husband at 11 and he was 21. He was my older brothers friend. We didn't start going out until I was 20. Then got married when I was 25, now we both have 2 kids. We didn't necessarily have conversations until I was 14-15. It may seem disturbing to a lot of people, but like I said NOTHING happened between the two of us until I turned 20. So...what's your story? |
Question: How can my wife check her mail on my phone? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 01:44 PM PDT |
Posted: 11 Sep 2016 01:39 PM PDT I have been raising kids for almost a decade. I am trying to enter the workforce again. I left my ex-husband and moved on several years ago and have a family with another man. While I was still with my ex-husband, he had a pc repair business and although I was mainly the stay-at-home mom/housekeeper, once in awhile I assisted him repairing computers. I am not sure if being married means we were co-owners or what. We filed the business taxes together but pretty sure I was put up there as a dependent, not sure. Not sure what to put on a job application. I am filling one out now and didn't add a resume because there'd be nothing to put, but I am filling out the work history portion and thought I could put this up there. But my ex hates me so would they contact him to verify? Would it be considered self-employed and should I put that? Also, I haven't worked in so long I have no clue of the dates/times of my previous jobs. I was a cashier for a year and worked at walmart for 3 days. Should I even put the walmart part? What do I do when I can't recall dates from so long ago? I don't have any paperwork to get info from. |
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Question: Which one is the best state to live? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 01:11 PM PDT Which one is the best state to live the rest of my life at? All my family is in Europe, I am in the states with my wife and we are trying to find a place to live, we've been in NYC but we didn't like it, what would you suggest |
Question: Does your wife or husband sleep talk? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 12:24 PM PDT If so, funny stories are welcome! |
Question: What was the Untited States first international company? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 11:57 AM PDT |
Question: Why do men cheat than expect wife to keep them after learning of it? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 11:42 AM PDT |
Question: I want to leave my husband but the house is in his name? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 11:26 AM PDT when me and my husband moves house along with our 3 kids (one is biologically his), he put his name on the house, and not mine. it wasn't his house before I moved in, we all moved in together. we are now getting a divorce but because he only signed his name on the house, I will have nowhere to go with my children. what do i do? |
Posted: 11 Sep 2016 10:34 AM PDT she doesnt care if neighbors see her through window. she goes in yard and street in bra and very short shorts. doesnt care if wind blows up her skirt like she wants men to look at her. they do. she will cheat? |
Question: What should we do for our anniversary ? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 10:23 AM PDT Me and my wife are celebrating our 4 year anniversary on Wednesday. She has to go to town early Wednesday morning she's in the middle of practicing for a play we have to wait and see if she'll have rehersal this week. Rehersal only last 2 hours. But she's not home till 8:30 at night. It goes from 6:30 to 8:30. She hopes she doesn't have to go Wednesday night. If she doesn't have to go that night then what should we do on our anniversary ? |
Question: Husband works a lot, what should I do? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 10:21 AM PDT My husbands job goes by seniority and he bids on a shift every month. He's been with his job 1 year now and they are just starting to hire more people. He only gets afternoon & overnight shifts right now until he gains more seniority and can get a morning line. He works weekends and his only days off are durning the week, Wednesday & Thursday. We try and spend as much time as we can together on those days since that is his weekend but I miss getting to be together when there are family parties, just getting to spend quality time together. I feel so lonley all the time. His drive to work is an hour, sometimes more depending on traffic so he has to leave earlier just for his commute. I feel like it's straining on our marriage and I feel so depressed. How can I cope with this phase of life right now? I know it will get better eventually and that gives me hope but sometimes it just feels hopeless and I just miss spending time with him. This is our 2nd year of marriage and it's hard not having a normal schedule. I appreciate all the hard work he does do but I can't help how I feel. We also live with my parents as we are trying to save for a house so it makes it that much harder to spend time together when he is home. Any advise on how I can dea with this or what to do ? Thank you! |
Question: Husband works a lot, what should I do? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 10:13 AM PDT 1 |
Question: Guys do you get jealous when your girlfriends likes other guys photos on Facebook? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 09:27 AM PDT guys, do you get jealous when your gf likes other mens photos on Facebook? she likes their selfies or profile pics of themselves. |
Question: I have a child support question? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 08:19 AM PDT |
Posted: 11 Sep 2016 07:57 AM PDT she doesn't want to have sex with me and I am selfish. I feel that I was getting addicted to posting, but most comments I got back were harsh and made things worse. My advise is to communicate with your spouse and not on the Internet. Anyone else notice this? |
Posted: 11 Sep 2016 07:28 AM PDT Am I crazy? Periodically I catch my husband with profiles on dating sites and he says I am not doing anything I made them because I was mad due to us fighting. He will cancel the accounts and then I will find more A few months down the road. He says I ve never had sex with anyone else, but how do I know? He says I am cray and overreacting! |
Posted: 11 Sep 2016 07:26 AM PDT I thought you should always put someone first if you're in a relationship with that person so whats the point of you bringing that up? Does he still have feelings? does he feel guilty for leaving her and come to me? NO RUDE COMMENTS, OPINIONS PLEASE |
Posted: 11 Sep 2016 07:21 AM PDT Need some tips. She is the person who doesn't like to be asked for a kiss, hug, sex etc... Yesterday I said give me a hug. She said why r u being cheesy? Before she goes to bed tonight and puts the kids down I am going to ask her to come back downstairs. Not romantic but she should get the hint. It's been a month since we last did it. Thoughts? |
Question: Dealing with a divorced man with a grown adult child.? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 06:24 AM PDT My boyfriend of two years now has a grown daughter, from his divorce of ten years now. However, I have only met her twice. I notice when she comes around his entire demeanor changes. He has told me in the pass, another female left him; because she couldn't deal with he had to go whenever she calls. Now, we are speaking of a 25yr old woman. She only calls when she wants him to do something (which he himself admits). She does not work, and he will do whatever she wants. I don't have a problem with the daughter at all. I have a problem with why he changes when he is around her. He has introduced me to her once. I could tell he was nervous. I just talked to him mom about it and she totally understands how I feel about her. His mom even told me how the daughter has come between him and another female. The mother says she don't understand why he continues to let her do this to him. I just confronted him with it on this week. I told him when she comes around your entire demeanor changes. He says he didn't know I felt like that. He has not called me since I mentioned that to him on yesterday. How do I deal with this, because right now I want to let him go? He wants to be involved with my kids but not the same with his grown child. |
Question: Dumping male friend? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 06:05 AM PDT I must dump this male friend. He wants sex and don't want to commit. I regret having sex with him. Anyway I will leave him and if he called or text I won't respond only short text like ok ..Nice. .hi I will search for another man who will marry me instead. And will never sleep before marraige.no matter how hot he is. Marraige is better than fling relations. I don't want a male friend but I want a husband. |
Posted: 11 Sep 2016 05:04 AM PDT Between the 2 of us we make close to 150k a year. I told her we will be ok, but with kids being young we have a lot of bills. I know she is maxed out of credit card and I allow her to use mine if she needs to. This has hurt us as we don't have sex anymore and really she is not affectionate and has stopped doing things such as cooking. I have been helping her out more, but not sure what to do to fix this. |
Question: My parents are fighting? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 04:44 AM PDT They have been married for 32 years and it seems they both want different things in their life now. The most differences they have is probably religion. My mom is faithful to God while my dad isn t. They often fight about that. I m already 20 years old so I get that married couples can fight sometimes but it still feels uncomfortable to see them fighting. I haven t been home for months due to college. I thought having time alone to themselves will keep them closer but seems like not. Do I really have to see them distancing themselves like this. |
Posted: 11 Sep 2016 04:44 AM PDT I have a Fiancé and I feel like I let her down. Can't blame alcohol, but it was nothing and don't want to ruin my relationship. Also since this was a co-worker I'm sure it's going to be awkward. Not sure what to do. |
Question: Wife does not contribute financially, does not do any household work. What to do? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 04:21 AM PDT Hello everyone I have been married for 1.5 years and it seems I have seen everything. My wife is working and makes decent salary around 40k. I make around 70k. The problem is, she does not want to contribute financially. I have told her that I don t want the money just tell me what savings do u have and are u saving for our future and kids whenever we have them. She refuses to reveal that. She has said that I will neber be able to get her money and know the savings. She says that her money will go to my parents. I dont understand this. Her parents are also of the opinion that she can t give in the present scenario. We live with my parents. Her parents have insulted me and she has also insulted me Infront of them. I am ready to take the responsibility as I pay for everything rent, food, bill, shopping, gateways etc..I asked if she can atleast pay for groceries..she says that it will go to ur parents which she can t accept she has even said that it will be my responsibility to be financially taking care of our children..she does not do any work..no cooking..no cleaning..no purchasing. she claims her job is consuming time and energy..but we all do jobs. I can t leave my parents as they will be old soon..my wife can t stand my parents.. Now I have taken a stand..that I will not pay for anything..and waht she earns..she will spend..but I don t know what will happen..she and her family have threatened me with police in the past.. What should I do..? |
Posted: 11 Sep 2016 03:15 AM PDT Or is there a popular disapreciation or condamnation still as in puritan age ypon a woman who divorce |
Question: How do I talk to my husband who possibly cheated on me ? Posted: 11 Sep 2016 03:08 AM PDT A couple of weeks ago, during sex my husband moaned out his ex fiancée's name. I was upset and quite pissed because it made me wonder if he still thought about her, but I got over it pretty quickly. Last night, the ex fiancée knocked on my door and was giving my husband some sort of ultimatum and was expressing her love for him. I couldn't read his facial expression and was pretty quiet for a while. So I took my keys and wallet and went to the nearest hotel. This couldn't be some sort of coincident and I have seen what cheating spouse does to someone. A part of me wants to hear his side of story and hopes that it doesn't involve any sort of infidelity. But if I do hear his side of this, I am afraid that it would destroy me. It also makes me wonder how she knew my address since this house does belong to me and she's never been my guest. It actually makes me wonder if he took her to our bedroom. I have brunch with my brother on every Sunday at my house. If I cancel he'll know something is up since I've never cancelled it before. Since we do tell each other everything, if I tell him I know he'll get pretty mad. Also I am afraid to face my husband and know the truth. PS. I have already contacted my good friend who is a divorce attorney's so she could take on me as a client. How do I face him since I have no idea what to say or do ? |
Posted: 11 Sep 2016 01:25 AM PDT My wife and I are both badly adicted to pills. We are considered to be valued citizens of our community, we have been married for twelve years, we have two children, 8 & 11 both are in the 90 percentile testing range on national scale, and are in the top 5 in there school, we make decent money, we run our own business. Even though I never really enjoyed pills as my choice, I enjoyed living on them with her. The sex, chase, control, and escape the pills have brought, I am in as deep as my wife. It's starting to show in everything we do, and it's slowly taking over. I started trying to point it out about 3 months ago, and have been really pushing the issue for the last 2 months. 1 1/2 months ago I have essentially quit pills using meth, and it was my honest reasoning for using meth. Not to take away from how bad meth is, or to take away from my problems, but, I never liked the pills, and on the meth I am so much more productive, and it is only a quarter the cost the pills are. (Which has averaged $500 a week.) I hands down want to quit everything. I admit I have a problem, I admit it's very bad, and I admit I am to blame for myself. I also admit I'm to blame for half of our drug and marital problems. I can quit everything. If I am not around it. I am ready I can do it cold turkey today. But only if she will also. She will not admit the drugs are the problem, and she will not take half the blame for them. If she does admit, she will need help getting off I believe |
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Question: Girls, why did she use me? Posted: 10 Sep 2016 11:08 PM PDT I feel lonely & cold when i sleep alone. Like not in a creepy way but I think back to my past relationships & escapades and it's like maybe I don't deserve love because maybe I give too much. I practically worshiped her. I cooked, I'd carry her for the hell of it I'd ask her to tell me how she felt. I'd caress her at night and would tell her how everything would be fine because I'd die for her. Maybe I love too much. I'd buy her gifts take her out and we'd go places like Mandirs mosques and other cultural places not just dinner. I don't drink but I did it for her on Valentine's Day. I'd take days off just so we could make love cause it was more than sex. Her family loved me. Her friends loved me and vice versa but I was just the other guy and she took advantage of me being younger for her attention and ego but I forgive her. I can't but fall in love with someone I just want to make them happy and give them the love o could never have. I'm 18 but **** I've lived like I'm 80. My friends say I'm too emotional yeah I'm the cute nerdy guy but all these women I've been with are out of my Leauge. I don't know. What more can I give when they hurt me. I know I'm probably the only guy that didn't see her as just a body she was more than sex to me she was the only person who loved me but I was just a side. So I could never cheat on any woman I know how it feels. I'm in bed crying. What do you think of me? |
Question: How do I regain my desire for my future wife? Posted: 10 Sep 2016 10:55 PM PDT My girlfriend and are in proccess of getting marry but we have lost intimacy. I think the problem is me. Everything started after a a vacation trip where I cover all the expenses. The final count came way more than what we had plan to expend. The next day, and after realizing my big expending, my girlfriend asked me if I had money to buy a cellphone she had lost during the trip. I have her the money for one of the bills and use that money with the promise of paying the bill herself later during the month. That s fine. But somehow it got to me. I felt pressed to produce more money. Then on Sunday morning I feel so tired of the trip that I decide to stay in bed late. Get breakfast and come back to bed. By 12 she is bellying at me that I am trying to avoid her and her kid, that I am lazy, than I don t do anything to help her, etc. that s after staying late at night the night before taking care of the baby while she worked at a wedding "to pay for her new cellphone". The same week everytime I go out with a friend or by myself she says that I am just trying to dissolve the relationship but that I don t have the courage to do so and by leaving for few hours I am forcing her to so so. I am like; how so? I don t get it. I was a very independent person all my life and I now feel like this perdi depends completely on me, financially, emotionally, etc. she told me to go back to my country if that would make me happy. She knows I am new here and don t have a car or have enough friends. |
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