We like each other. His eyes and lips I get lost in. And we've only talked once. But we didn't say goodbye to eachother. But we will see each other soon. And I can't wait to kiss him and gaze into each others eyes and have sex. He gazes into my eyes like he isnt scared of them. I usually scare ppl when I look at their eyes cause i have a wrathful gaze (even tho im not wrathful)

One time we got into an argument and he kind of whacked me in the back of the head. It didn't hurt but it shocked me and I cried. He said he was sorry. This was four years ago and he's never been physical since and we've been living together over a year now. We are discussing marriage but it's something that's always stayed in the back of my mind. What should I do? Should I still be worried? When we get into fights now he just yells but we make up quickly.

I ve been married for 3 years, and in the last 2 years my husband doesn t trust me. Trust me in the way, if I say something, he wants more and more validation. When someone else says something very similar to what I said, then he believes me. I continue to have to validate myself. I can t take it and I m to the point I can t talk to him anymore and I want a divorce.

I just found out that my aunts husband (dads side )has a crush on my mom but he doesn't do anything bad . I know its not of my business but that bother me . How can I solve it ?

What are some differences in relationships of people from the city vs. people from the country? For example, I heard that people from large cities like New York City are less likely to marry and if they do get married it's at a later age than people from the country.

She had a tramadic birth and was scared to have sex. After we did it she felt much better. I know it's tough with kids. Is it wrong or unromantic to tell her I want her at night?

This guy I met recently asked me out and I added him on a social media account. I found out that he has a child on the way by another woman. This of course happened before he met me, and he's not married and can date whomever he pleases. Is he worth giving a chance or should I just run for the hills?

A friend of mine brags about her husband making insane amounts of money and that their monthly spending at Costco is sbout $5K a month. Her husband was forced to retire early but has a pension of $70K a year, a millionaire mom, and a good sum of life insurance. Things went downhill between them as she proposed an open relationship. She carried on open relationship despite his refusal but chose to not divorce for financial reasons. That was a year ago and things are still not better. Am I right in my assumption? She won't admit it but why stay in a crappy marriage if you keep telling everyone you're not happy? Their age difference us 22+ years and he tried kicking her out of his own house but he refused.

I live in California. My husband stopped supporting me and my kids. He also refuses a divorce. That is considered Abandonment and Desertion, right? If it is, then how will the property be split? The house me and my kids live in is under both my husband and I's name and if I divorce with the abandonment and desertion, what will happen to the property?

Will you quit your job to be at home if your kids and let the man provide? Why or why no? I feel nowadays is not only about the amount of money daycare cost about about the stress that comes with it, waking up the baby early in the cold, a stranger taking care of your baby, the stress from work, and much more. But how do you quit if no financial freedom especially when you have an strict husband, you know you will have to beg for personal money.

My one day to-be ex husband has abandoned me for the past 4 years. He sent me off with the car we got for myself which is in his name ( yes i know it was a mistake to just put it in his name). Well the car is not registered at all and he is ignoring me like I dont exist. How would I go about reporting this to the command that he has abandoned me with this car while he is still getting BAH and engaged to another woman without even trying to legally separate or divorce me? I just want my car and my life back more than anything.

So my husband got a stroke 3 years ago and ever since then he has been on dating websites chatting with women and asking them to meet up. I have seen bad texts on his phone and he has even sent a bouqet of flowers to one woman while i was out of the country this summer. We have 2 kids together. I dont know what to do anymore so what would you do if you were in my situation? Does he need medication? He doesnt admit this time to doing but he is a liar because it was all on his phone. Once he admitted to cheating but started to cry promising to never do it again, but he still did. Someone give me advice or tell me how to deal with this. I am currently not speaking to him and he doesnt come home at night either. He wasted all our money on these dating sites.

If I fear getting cheated an getting AIDS? Being a female, sex is way more risky for women, especially when it comes to AIDS, than it is for men I've dated somewhat, and knowing how so many guys sleep around or look for 'just one thing,' it scares me that they might cheat on me and give me an STD or HIV. People also change and cheat later on. Protection can break too. I'm in my 30's now and never ha sex b/c I'm petrified of this and don't trust Can you blame me, knowing how most ppl are jerks & selfishness is rampant?

Married for years, together 6 since we were 18. 2 months ago everything fell apart. I noticed we weren't connecting as much on any level. I started questioning my hubby and found out he no longer "felt" the same about me, there was no spark. But he still loves me. We tried to work on it but he was still distant. At this point he says he thinks he wants to be on his own and figure out himself as a individual. Since neither of us got to experience life after HS on our own. There is no other woman, I've checked everything and found no evidence. We decided to separate and leave the door open in case he changes his mind before filing for divorce. It's been 1month almost since. We only talk/text. He is very short when we talk tho. I started pushing for answers right away and he says I'm just pushing him away further. At first he had a lot of hope that space would help and he would change. Now he says he has no hope for us but still wants to wait to file for divorce just in case? I'm so confused at this point idk what to do. Just last week he was saying of course he wants to work on our marriage at some point he just isnt ready yet. Now he says that He loves me and misses me but he doesnt think its worth losing his independent life he has now. once we separated he started working a lot more to get promoted, going to gym, taking care of himself etc. which is great but he doesnt even seem worried about our marriage now. Ive already tried, crying and begging him to change his mind which i know now only made matters worse. He says we can still talk like friends etc but its just weird? He thinks we're just friends now and leaving the door open in case he changes his mind. wtf? I know we were young when we got together and we moved fast which is probably what led us to this, but I dont want to end our marriage over it One more thing, he wont go to counseling. The real kicker is that we now live miles apart. (I will not go into why) So thats why we can spend time with eachother, which is know is bad for us but he insisted this needed to happen for him to figure out things. We had the money to cover bills so I am away visiting family. He thinks we should wait and let him get all the space he needs and then see what happens. But like I said he said he has no hope for him changing how he feels I asked if there was anything I done to make him feel this way and he said no, i done nothing wrong and its him

My girlfriend wants to get married next week. I just found out that my ex wife never actually filed the divorce paperwork that we filled out and signed together. My girlfriend was planning on moving in with me next week. I told her that my ex wife dropped the ball on filing for divorce. Now she wants to call everything off and not move in. I just moved into this place and cannot afford it on my own. She is also pregnant with our twins. My ex and I have two kids, no assets and no property. I have agreed to give her sole custody and she has agreed not to request child support. WE AGREE ON EVERYTHING. We will be going into the courthouse together and filing the divorce paperwork in person and sign it with a notary present. No arguments, no fighting. The clerk says it should only take a few days because the courthouse is small but I did not inform her of our children. How long would this divorce take if we rush it?

He wouldn't pay because he was mad at my mother for divorcing him. I am 24 now and the youngest of us is 20

Should I divorce her so she won't live with regret I don't want kids that are not my blood We both agreed no kids before marrage but her nephew bonded with her so now she wants kids And how do I get over a divorce like I'll need to be single for rest of my life

I want to hear experiences from others. I don't have any friends here and my husband comes from an extremely religious background. He wouldn't dare let me tell his sisters or parents that he drinks so much (his religious parents/siblings are strictly against alcohol). So, my husband drinks almost every night. Sometimes it's just a little bit (two to four) and sometimes I can't keep count. But it's almost every night. If we go out to eat, he's going to drink at least 3 tall beers. If he couldn't drink while we were out, he wouldn't go. I'm 38 weeks pregnant and he promised that in the month I would deliver (September) that he would stop. Well. He's been drunk 3 or 4 nights this month, and it's only the 9th. I grew up with an alcoholic father, so I am pretty sure my husband isn't an alcoholic. My father was bipolar and abusive, and my husband doesn't hit me. He does yell, though. Does this sound like an alcohol problem? I have no idea where to start with fixing him. Help! I wanted to point out that he just went out to get another six pack... his friend is over right now and both are too intoxicated to be driving. There wasn't anything I could do (what am I going to do, block the door? They're both bigger than me).

She is always mad about this I can tell. She insults him all the time and gets mad at me if I can't make it to something she wants me to go to because I am doing something with my Dad. I do a lot more with my mother so it is not like I am with him more. I am 16 and live with my mother, I see my Dad about once a month. I am a boy. I was 8 when my parents divorced

So my husband cheated on me and he wants a divorce. I had rebound sex with a guy that was helping me move. I specifically asked if he was single. He said yes. Well I just found out he has been in a long term relationship and has a kid. Im so mad. I never wanted to be the other woman! Should I message his girlfriend and tell her or just leave it alone? I should say we live in a small town.

My Mom is divorcing my Dad because he can't find a job but he has been trying to find one so I think it is unfair. Also she doesn't like some of his friends and he doesn't like one of her friends. So how can I stop them from getting divorced because if they get divorced then I hurt. I am 12

Sometimes you need time to cool down before discussing disagreements with your loved one... and sometimes enough is enough. Recently, a Kansas man robbed a bank and admitted guilt just to avoid his wife. What's the craziest excuse you've used to avoid talking to someone? Read up on the man's crazy actions here: http://yhoo.it/2cxnYzr

From what I hear the woman's husband is just now learning and the woman is married with three kids one of whom is special ed. Her only complaint (I am told) about the husband is that he doesn't spend enough time with her and isn't emotional enough. I would guess my mother's step-brother will be the cause of their divorce if the woman leaves her husband for my step-uncle. So while I'm too young to get involved should someone be telling the step-uncle how wrong he is or is it his business? He is ruining someone's marriage even if the marriage is not the best.

Been with my wife for 6 years now, shes been mentally and physically abusive for 4 years. when i talk about anger management or therapy she laughs and calls me retarded. relationship one sided and we do whatever she wants. ive been feeling so depressed, mentally and physically drained. i work 62 hours a week and when i come home i have to take care of everything and most of the time she yells at me and tells me to do errands (cook her food clean up after dogs, walk the dogs, shower) after i come home from my 12 hour work days. is there anything besides therapy that can help her? i love her but i cant take this abusive side of her. i dont want to leave her

FYI- I completely stopped talking to him but I still see him from time to time. He is just so dang handsome. I wish I could kiss him.

now Mom lost all interest in life--I want to give her back rubs so she feels better and wants to go out, Do most moms like ideas like that?

We haven't fought or anything and he just left for work without saying bye or giving me a kiss. I yelled what are you doing you didn't say goodbye and he just got in his car and left.

the 31 yr old man has a steady career and wants to get married and have a baby. the 21 yr old doesn't want to have a baby yet and wants to finish grad school before she starts a family. She also wants to explore all her options before marrying someone so early(basically figuring out if theres anyone better than him that she can eventually meet later on)

So it seems my life will be without a sexlife now, Im 28 yrs old and my guess this is were sex is gone from my life lol since im married.. Is there any way to get back our sexlife ?

I'm not due until February 2017 so I have a long way to go. Me and my boyfriend planned to move in August but when I found out I was pregnant in June I had to stop working cause I'm high risk . So we had to change plans and decided to move after we have the baby. But I'm feeling like my boyfriend not really pulling his weigh. Yes if I ask him to do something far as taking the trash out changing cat litter going to the store hell do that . But this week he was off for 4 days from work and all o asked of him was to help me throughly clean our room. Of course that didn't happen and he wonder why I have a attitude. I don't bother him on his days off but during these last four days he ain't do nothing but hang out with friends smoke his weed n went to go see his mother. All I can do is do what I can far as cleaning the room but I can't lift nothing heavy. We been here two years and I feel like it's our fault we still here cause we didn't save any money. He feels like well where's your money you saved up ? It's like a back n fourth thing n he wonder why our relationship haven't went to the next level or why I envy others relationship cause they doing better then us

I was talking to a girl I met at the store. We were joking about stuff for awhile & talking about life & she asked me what I thought about marriage. I'm a Christian theologian so I went into a whole thing about marriage. I started talking about the spiritual meaning of marriage, how it's a covenant & how the male & female halfs are the image of God. I talked about the history of marriage, how important it always was in various cultures, she was fascinated & kept asking me more about it because people nowadays in our secular world don't even know what marriage really is. So she asked will I ever get married & I said probably not. She asked what I meant & I said "it ain't exactly 1954 out there" in a joking way. Then she got a little upset and just said "wow." But then I cleaned it up & said "but I really hope I do, I'm just young now & have to focus on school." Then the conversation got happy again from there. I think she got offended because she thinks I was saying women are trashy nowadays & unworthy to marry. I wasn't saying it like that, I was just saying marriage isn't valued that much these days as much as I value it. You think that's why she got angry? Truth be told, girls usually hate me when I put marriage above promiscuity so I think that's what she was thinking I meant.

I have been seeing a 3 years...we are not in a relationship but we do go out from time to time and we are intimate.....the only reason we are not in is bc we both have situations...But I am confused ....I recently told him that we are going to be just platonic friends...I don t think he was happy with that....but with that being said I had a friend that wanted to buy something that he sales...so I gave the guy his number....then my friend said the guy I was seeing was avoiding him....then when I called him he said that my friend asked him was me and him cousins and that why he started avoiding the guy. Then he told me tell the guy not call his f###ing phone anymore. But this guy does not show me he cares about me really and doesnt tell me he wants to be in a relationship and when I ask him he never says anything....so I don t understand why he was so mad about the guy asking him that....I think he should have said no and kept doing business but he refuses to do business with him...and lost 3000 dollar profit.....I thought may be his pride and ego is preventing him for saying how he really feels.....I am with someone but we are separated but still love together........help

what do i do? i dont want to hurt her feelings, but this dog she has had for years, until we move out of my parents BASEMENT and get our bigger house where the dog can have another room, she brought over her yorkie dog even though i told her i wasn't too fond of it. we are newly wed........ how do i nicely ask her to either not bring the dog or atleast dont let it sleep in the bed with us. she loves the dog more than me

Okay, so I want my husband to please me and he just won't. He never let's me get an orgasm, the sex is quick and boring, he won't go down on me, etc etc etc. We've been married for one year. Now, he rarely wants to have sex, like once a month. I'm having strong urges where I've started pleasing myself but it's getting boring too now. I've tried talking to him about it, and I do love him and want to be with him but he won't and/or can't please me sexually. So should I just find another partner for sex, I know one guy(the best I've ever had) and I'm considering calling him soon. Is this justified, since I've tried talking to him and pleasing myself? I've tried everything, I don't want to seem selfish but it's been a year, when is enough enough?

My husband will not give me oral,but wants it from me all the time. I asked him to do it because I wanted to try, which he did it once like 8months ago and it wasn't good lol. He won't try again and I asked him why. He said he just doesn't feel comfortable which I said was okay and I haven't pushed him to do it. I even asked if I smelled or anything and he said NO OF COURSE NOT! He always says I never smell and take good care of myself which is something he loves. But he doesn't like oral, but I do. What can I do about this? Do other husbands like to do it or not? I know everyone is different,but he's the first person I've been with who doesn't like to give it. We've been together for almost 2years and married for one.

My wife and I had the greatest relationship, then we got married and with time she changed, doesn t blow me anymore? she says she doesn t like it anymore. I feel betrayed guy s help me out, you go into a marriage and then someone changes on you and you re like wait it minute this wasn t the deal... Any advice welcomed...

I've been married for 3 years and I love my H very much. Long story short, My ex and I broke up 8yrs ago, i'd not seen him since, I moved to Dallas from NY after the break up. As funny as it sounds we'd been together since we were 12yrs old and we had an incredibly close relationship. We crossed paths two days ago in the line at the post office, in TX no less, we noticed each other but we didn't talk, He kept staring at me but I just gave him the odd quick glance, I couldn't believe I was seeing him, I have to admit he looked so good even more attractive than I remembered. Some feelings came back to me that I used to have when I was with him, feelings I didn't realise I missed so much. I said it to my friend and she said he is back in town. I cant get him off my mind since and my mood has changed a lot, I'm grumpy towards my husband and I keep thinking what my ex is doing these days & why he is in TX of all places . I feel ashamed to be thinking about another man when I honestly love my H deeply and he's become aware of my mood change and keeps pressing at it. How can I move past this and not let it affect my marriage because deep down im very happily married. Any advice?

I got tested for STDS, I didn't have anything. Got a pap, everything was fine. He was there with me when I got it all done. We've been married for 1year and have never used condoms. All of a sudden this month and last he won't have sex without a condom and I don't understand why. We had been trying to have a child but decided to wait a few months then try again, but he still never used a condom. Now we're ready to try again this month and I'm expecting him to take the condom off. But I'm wondering why the all of a sudden change?i mean he will absolutely not have sex without a condom anymore and he won't tell me why! He has never used a condom since I've met him, and it's weird to me now, that we've been married and together for so long, he wants to use a condom. We rarely ever have sex these days, he avoids it all the time. We might have sex once a month if I'm lucky. I don't understand.

Is it ok if your spouse flirts with others and should you just trust them? My wife is very flirtatious with other men and she says I should know that she wouldn't do anything and I should trust her and let it go and not make a deal out of her flirting or get frustrated with her behavior. But why does she feel the need to do it if it bothers me?

I made a paper that said She will give me the couch, love seat, dining table and 6 chairs, entertainment center, and exercise equipment if i sign the divorce papers. She signed this paper. So if she changes her mind can she. She also signed one that said she gives me these items as gifts also. She wants the divorce badly. I have 2 small children from a previous marriage and left a lot of stuff when I moved to be with this wife now. She gets paid over twice what I do and she can afford to start over again, I don't make much money and I cant afford to start over. So if she can change her mind then what do I have to get her to sign where she does give me these items. What if she designs the paper. If she make up the agreement then what would happen

From the movie, When Harry Met Sally I am talking about a straight man and a straight woman.

I trust my wife and I actually do the same. Not seeing the big deal. Anyone else?

Wife Lied about it before marraige and tricked him into marraige and only confesses after marraige, then how hard it will be for him to get rid of this situation which shocked him, feelings like sexual images of his wife coming in mind, dealing with the fact that all his sacrifice and devotion was left with nothing and went in vain and his world is being shattered. Now he can't even divorce her as he is not that kind of a person who would destroy a woman's life over this even though she did"nt care about his feelings. Now how can he get peace abd how can he trust his wife and view her as his holy girl who was compatible for her.

My husband of 19 years has told me he doesn't want me anymore and is looking for someone else, and got his heart set on a former coworker, although she barely even wants to be friends with him. He has always refused to friend me on facebook, and always does all his communications in incognito/private browsing mode, but a few times when drunk he left facebook open, and I have read most of their messages to each other, but he doesn't know this. He sends long drunken rambling messages, which she hardly replies to, or simply ignores. He includes a lot of personal stuff like how much he wants to get away from me. About a month ago he told her how I had "found out" about a big stash of cash he had in the house and asked her if she could keep a portion of the money, in exchange for taking a percentage of it for herself, in order to get it out of the house, since he says he can't trust me, his wife, but he told her he is sure he can trust her because she's such a nice person. She was quick to agree to that one. The other night he was drunk and woke me up in the middle of the night, trying to talk me into doing something, and he accidentally called me her name.........I confronted him about that this morning and ask him to please stop messaging her and he basically refused. I've been trying to ride out this midlife crisis thing hoping he'll come to his senses so I can keep our family together but this is really hard. What would you do?

I really need help with this...Since the four years I have been married to my wife our marrige ws never emotionally fulfilling for me or for her...but sex was always there when needed for me and for her. She never did things expected out of a wife to take care of my home and me...she is a house wife. 2 Months back I discovered my wife having affair i tracked all her whatsapp messages and phone records...she admitted to affair and promised to never do it...i reconsciled and was out of country for 15days while i still had tracking on she attempted to conatct him nonetheless i ignored and now evertime we have a small fight she tries to conatct him...she is not aware that I am aware of it....she uses her friends phone. Now i am suspecting she might have a second phone how do i make sure? I met a psychiatrist yesterday...he says she might do this again and the best bet would be to divorce her...I want to go for couple conselling...to save the marrige....is it worth?