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- Question: Should I forgive ex for ignoring my pleas for help during sexual assualt?
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| Question: Should I forgive ex for ignoring my pleas for help during sexual assualt? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 03:09 PM PDT Apologies for spelling errors as it unfortunatelyt took alcohol for the courage to ask this. So I'm an 18 year old girl who recently went through a bad break up with a 17 year old female. My ex partner was the only one who knew of my past history or being raped repeatedly by a family friend who lived where my Family vacationed for many years. I was depressed after my bad breakup so went on vacation to clear my mind, I checked that the person would not be there. Unfortunately for me he was in fact in the country and I ended up in a horrible situation where I was cornered in a bar. Before anything happened I managed to get alone to phone my ex as she was the only one who knew anr she was active but ignored the 17 phone calls and countless messages I left in desperation saying I was in danger and needed her help. As horrible as it is to admit that night I was very brutally molested and left with bruises all over my body. Do I have the right to be mad at my ex for not helping me. I left countless messages begging for her support to get out the situation but she purposely ignored me and never even checked up on me knowing the position I was in after the assault? She knew of the fear I was in and chose to spend time with friends instead of even listening to my desperate pleas. I want to be civil but I don't know if I should after this? |
| Question: Help me catch my molester? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 03:03 PM PDT I was molested around 3 years ago. Everysince ive been trying to find him and they said they cant find him. I moved from the state he lives in. But recently Ive been trying to reach out to people he knows to report him but They dont believe me. I feel like im running out of time. I need help. I need to talk to someone and make this happen faster but how? |
| Question: Has anyone ever had sex with your stepmother and how was it? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 02:23 PM PDT |
| Question: What does this mean? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 02:13 PM PDT was walking at the hallway with my friend & I see the girl i liked walking and i see her looking at me but I just looked down while she walked past us & she said hi but i didn't say hi my friend did. So then In class she was looking at me |
| Question: How do I fix this mistake with my boyfriend?? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 02:01 PM PDT I made the mistake this weekend of having a little too much to drink, and called my boyfriend saying some really mean and hurtful things for no reason (basically trying to pick a fight). I said things like "I hate you", "I don't want to be with you"... I don't remember saying any of those things, and I feel absolutely horrible. I apologized to him and he's forgiven me, but I feel as though I need to do more to show how much I really do appreciate him. I already made the decision of giving up alcohol, but I want to do more to show him how much I care for him. What should I do? Any tips or suggestions? |
| Question: PARENTS: How to earn my parents trust again? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 01:45 PM PDT |
| Question: Blended family drama- how to deal? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 01:18 PM PDT Advice on situation wanted! Ok me and bf have been together as in physically living together since we were 17. We have now 4 kids together and he has one he had when he was 16 with another woman. The first to children his first and our first are 10 months apart. Bf still occasionally slept with step daughters mom until step daughter was about 3- she s 11 now. We we re all young and doing crazy things. Cheating to get back at each other etc. Anyway ff- this mom didn t let bf see step kid for 3 years straight. Be went to court, long story after 3 years gained full custody. Mother has no visitations. He ll let her see their kid briefly here and there or i will take her to her for small visits. In hopes to let step kid not feel distanced. So for about 4 years step kid has lived with us full time..mom is on and off with calls. Comes thru with clothes and gifts for holidays and school etc. This is the problem: Step kid has no doubt been pulled thru the ringer. Made to call me out of my name, flip me off etc. Had to listen to be being talked about by her mother and friends, being constantly questioned etc. For the most part she is a sweet typical kid. Not super bad, disrespectful or anything of that nature. |
| Question: Could my ex still have feelings? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 12:33 PM PDT We ended up sleeping together on sat. We broke up amicable almost 5 months ago & have had a little contact. The week before he said he wanted to see me and it would be nice. I went home instead & said i was tired. Last Friday he messaged me after work & said it would be nice to see me again. I was curious to see him & we ended up sleeping together which I knew would happen as he lives far & I couldn't get back home. When he showed me his new flat upstairs, he still had my bath stuff around the shower like he wanted a reminder or expected to see me again. He cuddled me like he used to and brought up past memories. Said he isn't looking for a girl & hasn't been with anyone. he was scared to find out if i had & he doesn't know. He said it is so familiar but weird & in the morning made me tea & toast like always. we stayed in bed & watched tv. He said that this would mess with our heads, but we can worry about it tomorrow. On saturday he showed me a text with his friend asking us to go meet him, so he obviously told his friend I'm there. When he left I asked if he had anything I could put my work laptop in & he gave me his backpack and said it's a good excuse to see me again. do you want to see me again? He text me when I got home & he hasn't been online since. None of our feelings were said. It's confusing. I just wanted to see him one more time with no expectations. Do I post his backpack back or ask to meet him? |
| Question: Quiero tener mi primera vez, tengo 16 años y claro con na mujer jaja soy de Leon? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 12:27 PM PDT interesadas manden whats o pasen el suyo |
| Posted: 06 Sep 2016 11:15 AM PDT I don't expect an answer, but I just wanted to write this down somewhere. I'm always alone, I just sit at my house and either drink myself until I pass out or get so high that I don't feel anymore sadness. I used to have a boyfriend but he decided he didn't want me anymore and cheated on me, so we broke up. I don't have any friends, and the ones I did have all left to start their lives. I got in trouble for having a small amount of weed in my back pack in high school a few years ago, and got expelled for it. I failed the 11th grade due to expulsion, so I just dropped out. I had a few friends in school, but my 'best friend' is the one who told on me for having weed in my bag. I can't go to college since I dropped out and I work a dead end job at a restaurant. I used to dream of being a nurse so I could help people, but now that's just gone. I used to have great grades in school and one little thing ruined my life. I want to kill myself, but I fear I'll end up worse off or in hell. I live by myself in my grandmas old house that she let's me live in. She may be the only one that cares about me. My parents hate me and haven't spoke to me in a year, not even for Christmas. I'm so tired of being so lonely. I don't know where to go or what to do. My grandma is 89 so I can't depend on her forever, as sad as I am about it. I don't know what I'll do when she's gone, she's all I have left. I'm so sick, I just don't know what to do anymore. ive even stopped praying. I guess I'm done. |
| Posted: 06 Sep 2016 09:58 AM PDT Is it weird for a girl to like to hunt and fish? I'm a girly girl for the most part but I love going hunting and fishing! I stopped doing it though because I felt like guys and other people would think I was weird for liking that:/ I used to have a lot of fun doing those things.. My dad is mad and sad because he thinks I don't like those things anymore and I used to go with him all the time, but I stopped cause I didn't want to be considered weird. People treat me better and I've made more friends since I'm not "the girl that goes hunting and fishing all the time". I feel sad that I don't go fishing with my dad anymore, and he always says things like, you would've enjoyed going if you were like you used to be. I AM like I used to be, but I don't do it anymore cause I had no friends when I was like that..now I do. Why is it so bad that I liked to do those things, and still like them secretly. What's your opinion on this situation? Thanks for any answers, and please don't be rude or disrespectful! |
| Question: What does it mean when a guy has boundaries? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 09:52 AM PDT I asked the guy I liked maybe we could talk more and get to know one another that is, if he wants to and he told he didn't have any interest in creating long distance relationships or friendships because he thinks they're tedious and a lot of work... and I told him that I was kinda sad that, that's how feels about them and he'll never know unless he gives it a try, and that I think it would be nice to just have someone to talk to, in general you know, and asked him wouldn't he want that? And he kinda lashed out and was like I thought I made it clear in the first message while remaining nice, please respect my boundaries and not to text him again... But I did anyway cause I got mad and frustrated and told him he was being stubborn and it was my apologies for wanting to try and get to know him better... so yeah, I dont think he should've lashed out like that... but whatever, I guess he showed his true colors but what does it mean to have boundaries and do you think I crossed it? |
| Question: Does anyone know if i can get a loved or family member can be my Representative Payee? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 09:35 AM PDT I have been on ISSI benefits snice i was a baby and snice my mother is too old to care for me i been using the payee program and been mistreated twice is there a way to my anyone my payee |
| Question: My pregnant girlfriend got rid of our puppy? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 09:12 AM PDT Hi all I ve not been on here in years so I feel cheeky asking but I get really honest and good advice from you guys. My pregnant girlfriend has got rid of our puppy after a week, Anyway the dog was fine for a few days but then started to cry and kept us up. The dog was also giving us huge anxiety, the house wasn t tidy and we weren t even eating... For some reason this dog took over, and at night it would howl for hours, I had to shout at her to stop. Yesterday my girlfriend said she needs to go back, and I m absolutely gutted. I feel so depressed which hasn t happened for a long time. I can t express how upset and how much the puppy is on my mind. I miss her so much. It sounds crazy after a week, but I watched her be born and saw her loads before we got her. I don t want to sound selfish here I understand a pregnant woman needs to eat and sleep, but I m so so upset. I just can t get over this and I have my first day at my new job tomorrow. I feel so bad for shouting NO to the puppy, I miss her cute face and the way she walked and ran. I taught her to sit and loved her so much and now she s gone. I feel so much resentment to my partner and I don t show it as she s pregnant and she doesn t need the stress but I find it hard to sleep next to her, all of this was her idea and she s broken my heart. She said my opinion doesn t matter it s about her and the baby. God I m hurting so much, she tells me to pull myself together and it doesn t help. I m a man and feeling like this? |
| Question: Why would a happily married man reach out to an ex? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 09:11 AM PDT He was my fiancé but we broke up. He got married to someone else within a year. We did not stay in contact, and we were not friends. He contacted me to catch up and asked how I was doing. He talked about how happy he was. I was short with him because we ended on bad terms and because he started what I would call "light flirting". Why would he reach out to me if he is happy? There is absolutely no reason for this. He wanted to chat and meet for coffee but I told him I didn't feel comfortable with that. I haven't heard from him since and that was a few months ago. |
| Posted: 06 Sep 2016 08:58 AM PDT I m filling out some paper work at home that I need for a job and this would be my first job so Im new to all this. I m 18 years old, never married and one of the questions is "Do you have a maiden name?" and I have to check either Yes or No. Do I check Yes and just put my last name?? Or No bc I m not married??? |
| Question: Ayudaa!! Tendre algun trastorno o algo asi? 5 estrellas? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 08:35 AM PDT Veran ami me gusta llevarme con mis amigos en insultos y eso, pero en este año eh notado que si algun amigo me insulta o se rie de mi, me siento mal osea me pongo de nervios y todo el dia me quedo pensando en eso, si me juegan una bromita o algo tambien me pasa lo mismo, me dan ganas de llorar y no borro de la mente eso en todo el dia!!, pero si yo hago eso a un amigo o algo me siento muy bien, no se por que! Y tambien todo el dia trato de que sea perfecto mi dia pero una bromita o algo y termino triste todo el dia:( o peor si me buscan pelea o algo asi Todo el dia me la Paso pensando en mi cama, AYUDAA!!! Solo quiero dejar de pensar en todo eso:'( tengo un amigo al que le hacen bullying y todo el dia anda feliz sin pensar en todo lo que le hacen:( imaginense si me lo hicieran ami D: Si tengo algun trastorno o algo no me pidan que valla al psicologo solo diganme que hacer:( |
| Question: Do you guys know why she did this? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 08:28 AM PDT when this girl i liked came back to class cause she was feeling sick so she stayed home all week & on Friday she came late to class & when she walked in to class I was paying attention on the teacher & when I turn around i saw the girl i liked looking at me & i just looked away |
| Question: What do you think I feel for her? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 08:08 AM PDT I'm a 24 year old guy and I think I might have a crush on an actress but I'm not really sure, the first time I saw her was in the movie the blue lagoon: the awakening and her name is indiana evans. I've seen some videos and short films of hers in youtube and I have to say she's fairly pretty and she has something that catches my attention. sometimes I think about her through the day but the most confusing thing is that I don't think about kissing her, Neither do I think about having sex with her. So Do you think It's just admiration? or Could it be that I just like how she looks? I know this may be a stupid question since she' s someone who I'll probably never know in person and this question might be a tough one for you to answer, but at least I'd like you to give me your opinion or what you think about this. Would someone tell me whether my english is good or bad, english isn't really my native language since I'm mexican and I don't know how many mistakes I've made so far. |
| Question: Should I lie to my boyfriend? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 06:45 AM PDT I have a 2 year old daughter from a previous relationship.I am now in a relationship with someone else and he is acting jealous of my ex.My daughter biological dad wants to help take care of her financially since he just found out that she is really his with the dna test.My daughters dad wants to give me 300$ to go buy things for my daughter,but my boyfriend says I shouldn't accept it.I didn't want to do things behind his back so I've been telling him everything my ex and I had talked about so he would feel no need to think I'm lying.I told him last night about the money my ex wants to give and he went beserk.He said that I just want to see him and have sex with him,but I reassured him that I have no feelings for him whatsoever.I really don't want to do.I want to have her dad in her life m,but my be is making this so difficult.I do need to the extra help with thugs for my daughter so I'm thinking maybe I just take the money and don't tell,but then how will I explain that? |
| Question: How can I convince/suggest a different place to eat with in laws? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 06:44 AM PDT Every time we try to get together for dinner it's always the same place or a different place that makes the same food. They're Peruvian and I love their food. However whenever we all get together and go out for dinner it's always Peruvian. Seriously the last 5 years we have only eaten Peruvian places. They never want to go get Italian Chinese or whatever pizza you know. My husband says it's always been like this he doesn't understand either. They will buy pre made foods like frozen pizza orange chicken but won't actually go to a restaurant and order it. If I suggest anything not Peruvian they pretend to think about it then just excited shout the same restaurant we always go to. It's good don't get me wrong but I get tired of it honestly. We meet them every weekend for dinner or lunch. Same place everyone orders the same thing and it's the same thing they're already eating at home. So how can we suggest a different place and a good way to counter going to the same place. Also if we are in an unfamiliar area and there is not much Peruvian. They will still pick the 2 star rated Peruvian restaurant over whatever their local place is any day just because it's Peruvian. To clarify I do pay the bills and cannot even pick. They end up making a fit about it or insult the places we pick even though it's 5 stars. |
| Question: Does seeing a red robin only mean a memorance of a deceased person? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 05:57 AM PDT my ex boyfriend of three years says that he always see a red Robin and reminds him of his grandmother because she love them and after she passed away one kept coming his mom's house for days or anytime that I was with him by the pool where I work at, we always saw one every morning he was with me and I never seen this bird at my work but i only did when I was with him.. well I was at my moms house few days ago and I heard this really loud bird in the window behind me as I was working on the computer and when I turned around on the window that was a red robin staring at me and chirping.. now that he's moved away and we have broken up It was the first time I saw one since he left. and now my son has seen one too when he wasn't with me and told me about it without knowing anything about this... can this mean that my ex thinks of me because I never met his grandmother that deceased, I went to the funeral but I never met her. can this resemble him or what? esp my son who was closest to my ex seeing one. I don't get it .. anyone?? |
| Question: I caught my dad looking at me naked. What should I do? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 05:31 AM PDT About a year and a half ago (I was 14 at the time) I decided to take a shower while everyone else was asleep. My dad wasn t home,but he must ve got home around the same time. I got scared alone, so whileI waited for the water to warm up, I looked around. Thats when I noticed that he was looking in the space between the wall and the door. I was shocked and couldn t move, however, I don t think he knew I saw him. So I turned around and tried my best to act normal. I tested the water with my hand, and looked back. He was still there. It had to be about 30 secs. When he left i was relieved, but o was shocked. I didn t know what to do. I couldnt ever ask about it until now, when I ve accepted what happened and tried to forgive him. I m still angry, cause I don t know if he s done it without my knowledge before, but haven t seen him looking since. I looked through the same hole, just to see what he could see, and he had to have seen all of my named body. |
| Question: I don't value my life, I want death. Please help me? I'm having an emotional crisis? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 04:05 AM PDT Adult problems at 17. I seem to have the understanding of a 40 yr young person. I've been selfish lately. All I ever feel is sorry for myself. I don't believe in love anymore she's 21 I'm the other guy but f that. I need to move on I should have no place in that mess. I blame myself. I'm whoring myself out not sexually but I give people love and affection and support and all they ever do is take. People I don't even know that well. I got people that I'm not supposed to know on my line that can change my life but why would they want me. The moment I pick up the phone both of us will be akward I'm sorry but this is my first time. I'm tired of pushing others I can't help u if u don't want to help yourself. I'm a ******* monster. My dream job is a call away but I'm depressed alright so don't be mad at me. I tell these women they deserve better how I could save them. It pains me when I hear other guys talk about them like their hair body parts. She could be my daughter, but I don't know a soul that could be my wife. It's cold & im lonely I gotta finish my reports which is no biggie. But I feel lonely, I miss being touched hugged and that knowing somebody wants to **** me. I want a family, I want love. If you keep bashing somebody God takes them away because you don't want them. That's me. I'm in exile. I feel defeated, it's not over, but can I miss school to get my **** together? I can't afford a therapist. A therapist won't help they can't offer advice. I am going to die |
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| Question: How can i hook up with my friends mom? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 01:31 AM PDT i ve known her for years, she s been in my house a few times but when my parents are in the house, she even came to my room once to talk to me but anyways how can i get her to come to my house when i m home alone? any ideas? i'm 19 so it's all good |
| Question: Has anyone ever conceived a child with a close relative? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 12:18 AM PDT Was it consensual? Was it forced/rape? Who was it with? Was the baby born healthy? I've read about a brother-sister couple in Spain who have been living in a spousal relationship for over 35 years who had two healthy children together. Constructive comments only please. |
| Question: I'm having an emotional crisis can you help me? Posted: 06 Sep 2016 12:08 AM PDT Adult problems at 17. I seem to have the understanding of a 40 yr young person. I've been selfish lately. All I ever feel is sorry for myself. I don't believe in love anymore she's 21 I'm the other guy but f that. I need to move on I should have no place in that mess. I blame myself. I'm whoring myself out not sexually but I give people love and affection and support and all they ever do is take. People I don't even know that well. I got people that I'm not supposed to know on my line that can change my life but why would they want me. The moment I pick up the phone both of us will be akward I'm sorry but this is my first time. I'm tired of pushing others I can't help u if u don't want to help yourself. I'm a ******* monster. My dream job is a call away but I'm depressed alright so don't be mad at me. I tell these women they deserve better how I could save them. It pains me when I hear other guys talk about them like their hair body parts. She could be my daughter, but I don't know a soul that could be my wife. It's cold & im lonely I gotta finish my reports which is no biggie. But I feel lonely, I miss being touched hugged and that knowing somebody wants to **** me. I want a family, I want love. If you keep bashing somebody God takes them away because you don't want them. That's me. I'm in exile. I feel defeated, it's not over, but can I miss school to get my **** together? I can't afford a therapist. A therapist won't help they can't offer advice. I am going to die |
| Question: Do I have a chance with him or did i f**k up? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 11:41 PM PDT I met this guy online back in May of this year and we chatted for about a week. At the time I was in a bad place and wasn't looking for a relationship but he was so i pushed him away and we stopped talking. Well a week or two ago he popped up in my suggested friends on facebook and since he had been on my mind for a while now I sent him a friend request. He accepted right away but I haven't tried to talk to him again. He lives in my town and we have some mutual friends but not many. He's 24 and i'm 18. I had hardly ever spoken to this guy but he's on my mind constantly and I'm so scared to text him again because i'm afraid I messed up. Last time we talked he told me I was pretty and thought it was funny that i was so shy just talking to him (i'm not a shy person so it was a little weird). I'm also scared that he won't like me because i'm a little thicker... I used to be very musculer but in recent years packed on the pounds so i'm not as big as someone my weight would normaly be since I do still have so much muscle mass. I've been working out a lot lately and slowly i'm losing it but I don't want to lose my possible chance with him in the meantime. I'm 5'7" wear a 16 in jeans (I was blessed in the booty department but cursed with love handles), an xl in shirts and i'm a 40d/dd. I'm a mess please help ;'( I should also say that i'm not someone who wants/needs to be in a relationship. I'm perfectly fine being by myself as of now and i've only ever had a handful of crushes in my entire life. All of which I either went to school with or have met but I haven't met this guy. |
| Question: Is it sinful to hate your brother even if he treats your mother like shi*? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 10:38 PM PDT His wife and him love to come up with assumptions such as poisoning their children, that their children were molestex and just on and on. Treating his own mother like garage and following after his retarded wife and what stupidity comes out of her mouth. Every assumption was proven to be false and it just seems they get a kick of out making our mother feel like crap and break down crying. Im not a violet person, but I have so much anger and hatred for him that I want to beat his *** until he learns to be a man for once. I've tried talking to god, praying, and reading scriotures but I cannot seem to let go of anger. It just keeps coming back. While ill never act on it (i hope) is it sinful to hate your own brother? |
| Question: Why is my married ex bf jealous of my husband? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 09:37 PM PDT |
| Question: My moms boyfriend hit me? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 09:14 PM PDT She has a really bad history of talking to me like I'm trash. So when I got home from school today my bookbag literally fell apart. She yelled pick that $h*t up, I didn't drop it on purpose. Then she made a rant about the stuff that I had in there like my pads and tampons. She picked up my tampon and said is the b*tch on her period. I wouldn't have been as embarrassed but my brother was staring. I said put my $h*t down. Well her boyfriend was over and he heard and went over to me and said don't ever f*cking talk to your mother like that again. Then BAM he slapped the $h*t out of me and now it has swollen lines on my face. My brother had to get him off me, and my brother helped me pick my stuff up. My brother thinks I should call the cops and press charges. But I'm afraid to because my mom will be mad at me. Should I |
| Question: Can my medical insurers provide me a copy of my Social security card? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 08:29 PM PDT My mother refuses to give me my SSC, she has no custody of me, my father does, i am 16 year old, i have a job orientation this thursday, and i NEED that card, or else i wont be hired. Please help. |
| Question: DESPERATELY NEED HELP? (KINDA LONG)? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 07:43 PM PDT This situation is gonna sound stupid but its eating me alive. I have crippling anxiety to where I have extreme paranoia and over think every situation to where I can't convince myself that everything will turn out ok. I have a best friend named Jay, and he's the most important person in my life but the thing is my parents don't like him. He's the friend of my ex boyfriend who my parents hated, and jay also lead me on which caused my parents to also not like him along with other reasons for not liking him that I don't even know. Anyway its been almost 2 years since I've seen him in person and he's apologized a million times for leading me on and he treats me really well and It kills me not to see him, however my anxiety how caused me to be terrified of asking my parents if he can come over. I'm scared they're gonna question me, or that i'm somehow gonna end up in big trouble just for asking. I'm tired of keeping our closeness secret but a the same time I HAVE to see him. What do I do? |
| Question: Major dilemma. She will break up with me if idont do this for her!? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 07:42 PM PDT So im 29 and she is 28. We've been for 3 Years so far.we live together too.She booked a trip for herself couple days ago.and later told me she wants me to go with her.i told her i cant bec. I want to work to save up money bec. Every month i break even.She got mad at me and told me if i dont go with her she will break up with me.i am her boyfriend and wants me with her. But again i told her traveling is not in my priorities now. She got even madder. And said i am afraid in life and like to stay in my comfort zone.maybe its true.She told me i dont care for her and never do things for her and she deserves better.i aways bought her nice gifts, helped her out whenever she had problems (even with money), i try To be there for her as much as i can.I gave her couple weeks ago some cash for her, i paid her share one time for rent bec. she didnt have any money. Till the point that time i went broke and had to get a credit card but never told her. to be honest,she did offer to buy me the tickets and hotels but i still told her i dont feef to travel.i have a lot of stress about my finances. We also have to find a new place & i want to save up money.she told me that if she goes b herself she might be tempted to party with other men or do worse.thats what she told me! If i dont go with her. I feel so pressured and depressed.i cant function anymore in my life. What do i do? |
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| Question: Can a child be considered a "love child" in this case? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 07:28 PM PDT Say a woman gets pregnant, the child is born and then both biological parents get married can the child be considered a "love child" even if the parents get married?. NOT my case, just curious. |
| Posted: 05 Sep 2016 07:02 PM PDT Just curious. |
| Posted: 05 Sep 2016 06:48 PM PDT So, I'm 15 years old and I asked this girl out to homecoming and she said yes. She would've had to go anyways due to her sister wanting her to so I asked myself "why not?, I can just be a friend who tags along if nobody else asks her out." The thing is, two of my other friends asked her out there but she said no to both of them. In other words, I'm going. (It's complicated as to why she said no to them but yes to me but it's sort of irrelevant to what you're about to hear.) So right after that I was thinking about it, and I realized... I can't dance. I know that dancing is an artform that isn't set in stone and has many different styles to it but I literally cannot dance. I haven't danced in my life or even attempted to other than in two different occasions in which I in both times stopped after after I started since I thought like I looked like a fool. (In which I did 😅) Anyways, here's the question: What should I do? Should I go and potentially if not most definitely go make a fool out of myself? Should I politely decline? Should I make up an excuse? Please help. I'm in quite a pickle. Tl; dr. I can't dance and I asked a girl to homecoming. Idk what to do, please help. |
| Question: Cousin's wife having an affair - what should I do? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 06:44 PM PDT My cousin and his wife moved in with me while they sort out their financial situation. He is working and they will move out once they have enough cash saved up. A few months ago I hooked her up to babysit for some friends. Her being a married woman, they welcomed into their home. I soon found out that she was now having an affair with the guy. We had a confrontation and she basically admitted. I didn't tell my cousin. I did tell her that it wasn't right for her to return to this couple's house knowing what she has been doing. Anyway schools have opened and she's going back to babysit for this couple knowing what she has been doing with the guy. I don't want to break up marriages, what should I do? BTW - my cousin is obsessed with his wife and worships the ground she walks on. She does no wrong. |
| Question: What should i do? Is it like this everywhere? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 06:35 PM PDT Where I live if you aren't politically correct you get slammed over it. If you talk while your hands over your mouth you are shouted at 'take your hand away from your mouth! I cannot hear you!' If you say something like 'those guys are jerks!' Or something like that, you are presented with a stern face and they say 'you know when you're talking about people you're actually talking about yourself!' (You say but that's not what I was meaning) the person gets loud and sassy and starts calling you every thing under the sun because you supposely 'judge' someone which they took you way out of context and when you finally get that through to them then you are presented with a 'well what you said sounded like you were judging!' If you don't have good use of words they start telling you off, making fun of you or they bully you. Is it like this everywhere? Or is it just like this where I live? |
| Question: Es malo tener una relación amorosa con tu primo? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 06:13 PM PDT |
| Question: How do feel when you go out of your way for people and get nothing in return? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 06:11 PM PDT Our family is spread out pretty much. Every year I try to make sure that we have a birthday party and Christmas for the relative from our of town. Last year I spent a lot of money on Christmas gifts for all the kids and I thought they were so nice. I did the same for a recent birthday party for one the kids that we were unable to attend his original party. It was nice, I put a lot of thought and planning into it, yet when the Facebook pictures come out, not one of the birthday or Christmas parties or gifts that I gave made the cut so to speak. They took pictures of piles of Christmas and Birthday presents, cakes, wadded up wrapping paper and bows and ....not one single picture of the gifts or party that I gave. The pictures were from their homes, other relatives homes and party venues. I am really hurt, I am thinking about cancelling Christmas this year and just sending a few dollars in a card for Christmas and just a card for birthdays. What do you think is going on here Facebookers? The kids are not at fault in any way but I just feel like my efforts are unappreciated. I wanted to add that when I say "nothing in return" what I mean is no acknowledgement, not presents or material things like that. I also wanted to add that they do not hesitate to ask me to buy fundraiser things for their kids schools. I get all kinds of those "invitations". |
| Question: Sweet 16 candle lighting ceremony speeches? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 05:09 PM PDT |
| Question: Why did he block me ? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 04:48 PM PDT So, I've been dating this guy that's been really in love with me well I thought. He's written me a love letter and given me flowers, gifts and a heart cake he even made me. Yesterday was our fourth date and we have been talking for about two months. Anyways yesterday marked our fourth date and I thought it went well he was happy to see me and everything he kissed me and told me he will see me again and gave me a heart cake. So, I text him three hours after the date and I said thank you I enjoyed it. He replied back with a bunch of heart emojis and said your welcome. So, the evening came and I wanted to call him and I noticed it only rings like twice and sends me to voicemail so I was just like okay I know he's busy because he had to visit his father this weekend across town. So, I call again and I get the same ring twice and a voicemail so I'm like kinda confused , I call from my sister phone and rings like 5 times and goes to voicemail I'm just like wtf? Did I do something ? I wasn't rude I haven't heard from him in two days. *update* It's Monday and I still haven't heard anything from him. |
| Posted: 05 Sep 2016 04:44 PM PDT Adult problems at 17. I seem to have the understanding of a 40 yr young person. I've been selfish lately. All I ever feel is sorry for myself. I don't believe in love anymore she's 21 I'm the other guy but f that. I need to move on I should have no place in that mess. I blame myself. I'm whoring myself out not sexually but I give people love and affection and support and all they ever do is take. People I don't even know that well. I got people that I'm not supposed to know on my line that can change my life but why would they want me. The moment I pick up the phone both of us will be akward I'm sorry but this is my first time. I'm tired of pushing others I can't help u if u don't want to help yourself. I'm a ******* monster. My dream job is a call away but I'm depressed alright so don't be mad at me. I tell these women they deserve better how I could save them. It pains me when I hear other guys talk about them like their hair body parts. She could be my daughter, but I don't know a soul that could be my wife. It's cold & im lonely I gotta finish my reports which is no biggie. But I feel lonely, I miss being touched hugged and that knowing somebody wants to **** me. I want a family, I want love. If you keep bashing somebody God takes them away because you don't want them. That's me. I'm in exile. I feel defeated, it's not over, but can I miss school to get my **** together? I can't afford a therapist. A therapist won't help they can't offer advice. I am going to die |
| Question: My boyfriends friends are actual bad influences on my boyfriend. What should I do? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 04:38 PM PDT I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. I am 20 and he is 19. My boyfriend has a pretty serious drinking problem, not that he goes out drinking every night but when he does he drinks so much that he is belligerent. He has been depressed for a long time and whenever he drinks he just loses it and gets incredibly angry and depressed to the point where he talks about wanting to kill himself. His family and I have tried to convince him that he should not drink anymore and at the time he agrees but whenever he hangs out with his friends he can t say no to drinking. I have asked him why he can t just Hang out with his friends without drinking with him and he just says he doesn t know why. His brother and I both agree that he shouldn t be hanging out with those people anymore but to him those are his only friends and he doesn t want to be completed isolated and alone which I agree with but he could always make new, better friends. I m at the point where I don t know what to do anymore and I am very worried for him every time he hangs out with his friends and drinks. What should I do? |
| Question: How to find out if I have unknown siblings? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 04:36 PM PDT Long story short, my Dad cheated on my Mum for multiple years, usually while on "Business Trips" to other Countries. I am quite sure my Father could have gotten someone pregnant on those "Business Trips" and I want to find out but I am not sure how to go about doing that. Is there any website or forum or something that can help? |
| Posted: 05 Sep 2016 04:22 PM PDT he claimed he could replace you very easily. he also said he would be "watching from the sides to see if you make it or not" and you were in a "cubbyhole" doesnt he sound like a creepy stalker too? lol did he really think that i wouldn't make it? lol |
| Question: Do you guys think she was laughing at me while I was staring into space? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 03:11 PM PDT So I was staring into space & i was staring at the trash can & i see the girl i liked looking at me later I was staring at the wall & when i look over & i saw her looking at me & smiling while she have her hands on their chin |
| Question: My buddies wife is literally stealing his life from him.? Posted: 05 Sep 2016 01:25 PM PDT My friend lives in Russia and his wife is literally taking everything for him. He was a former KHL referee and has a 7 year old daughter. He told her he didn t want to be with her because she always humiliates him in public and makes him feel bad. She always answers no to any question he asks. She doesn t let his his parents see their child. Not even once. Instead of acting like a regular person and making everything right she changed the locks ( in the apartment that HE PAYS for) hid both car keys ( for the car HE PAYED FOR). Now she doesn t let him see his own kid. She said "The only time you ll see our kid is in court" she doesn t even want to give his valuables back. She only gave him his childhood toys back that his daughter played with before. There are a lot of pricey possessions inside like his hockey stick collection, skates, and everything you can imagine and even a $1,500 or ₽100,000 fur coat that HE bought for her. What should he do? Please help! What can he do to get everything back? Are things his wife did legal in Russia? |
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