He left me. I did something terrible and I'm totally sorry about it. I asked him if we could meet up to talk & he said no .. But other then that haven't had any contact with him. I miss him dearly but it's time to heal just don't know how too?

I will provide, room with own bathroom, wifi, TV, cable. Will also provide food, car (can be use for personal use too) paid time off, cell phone and medical, dental vision insurance. Duties include laundry, cleaning, some cooking and from time to time it will include caring for my 7 year old mostly on days when I'm on call which is only 5-8 days out of the month. When my daughter is at school she doesn't have to be at home. It's only my daughter and I so it's not a huge family.

I had a mutual friend who reached out to me when requested by my ex. She was supportive (via phone) in some hard times and checked in on me. When my ex had made serious accusation about me to hurt me. We went to court for it. I asked her if she could talk to him and ask to drop the case bc I couldn't. she didn't even try. It affected my whole life. I understanding her not wanting to be in the middle but she contacted me for him. And I wrong to delete her from my life. It bothers me she did something for him and not me and my impact was greater. What do you think? Am I wrong for expecting more loyalty ?

Also since we broke up he moved to the flat upstairs and still had my body cream by his bath, like he expected to see me again. He kept mentioning things about our past, like do I still cook this meal I made him, and he got up and made me toast and tea like he used to, and more things like that. He said he hasn't been seeing anyone & didn't really want to know if I'd been with anyone, but was curious. He gave me the backpack I bought him to take home and put my laptop in. He said it's a good excuse to see me again. He mentioned that it's strange but so familiar, and this might mess with his head. He obviously told his friend i was seeing him, because he showed me a text his friend sent saying me & my ex should meet him at this festival locally. We're both mature enough. 28 &32 years old, but I'm not sure where we will go from here. We split up amicably.

@ Anonymous -> FYI: I'm not trashy! I'm in graduate school

My mom has had a gambling problem for a while. It ruined her marriage, and now its the final straw. We are being evicted. I am going to be a senior this year in high school too. I want to help but she is so impulsive. I tried getting her to stop smoking for more than a decade and thats not an exaggeration. I tell her 5 times a week to get help and advice but she makes no progress. With this gambling problem I think it will be the same way. Im not sure what to do. I need someone to talk to.

Just wondering if it was common

I just got home from riding with my dad to go get donuts. He drove and went in and I sat in the car. Since I did not go in anyplace to be more comfortable I went for the ride in my bare feet and did not bring my shoes.

I'm 17 and my dads had this friend that I've known since I was 5 and he's always been close to the family and its always been good. We don't all see each other as regularly but a couple of weeks ago he came over and I was off to a festival so I had all my make up done and in a cute outfit. I greeted him with a hug and he says "wow you look really good" which was fine but then he like pulled apart and looked me up and down and said "reaally good" but in the sort of sexual tone. I left and then came back home about 4am with a friend. My brothers were supposed to sleeping over on the sofas so I went to go make one of them jump but as I got closer I saw it was my dads friend which really made me jump and woke him up, I then said sorry and that I thought it was my brother to make him jump where then replied "well you can do whatever you want to me". Am I just reading too much into this or is it a bit creepy because it is playing on my mind?

the guy I liked told me he didn't want a long distance relationship, even as friends because they were tedious and a lot of work and I told him that I was sad that, that's how he feels about long distance relationships and he'll never know unless he tries & told him that it'd be nice to just have someone to talk to, and ask wouldn't he want that, and he said no and got mad & told me to respect his boundaries & not to text him again 😞 and that made me mad so I did and told him that if I had known he was so stubborn I wouldn't have even said anything and that it was my apologies for wanting to try and get to know him better... so, do you think I came off as pushy or is he just stubborn? I feel bad that i got him he probably hates me and thinks I'm a ***** now :(

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I'm really insecure about my marriage. We get stared at a lot because we're an interracial couple. I'm mixed and he's Caucasian so when we're out we get stares and it feels like people are judging. The stares are worse now since I'm 6 months pregnant and I can't even walk hand in hand with my husband. I'm worried how my child will be treated because of race. People seem to think he's too good for me just because he's white and it makes me feel terrible. I'm very insecure and having people judge me is awful. My husband is very kind man he's the nicest person I know, he says he doesn't notice anything but I'm not imagining. I'm scared my insecurities and my people judging me will drive him away. Maybe it wasn't such a good idea marrying him and having a child with him, what should I do?

Which girl sounds stronger?? GIRL #1- tackles another girl to the ground then starts biting her. Is on the track team and does shot put. GIRL #2-punches another girl in the face. Is on the basketball team. Which girl sounds stronger??

Since birth not so good guys have been around me. From dad abandoning me to being abused in every way to being seen as less than. I feel very uneasy around any guys and I know not all are bad. But I can't stand physically being around a guy. How do I get over this fear?

to break up over the distance when I told him about it. And I even said he can go date many girls but he still refused and called me crazy. However, now he is always tired and his time zone is the opposite of mine. Is there any tips or guide you guys can give me to make this relationship strong?? Am I being clingy? We text everyday it's just the video call that we didn't do for 2 days now because of his job (the first line was cutoff)* He told me he started working long hours... And I know he really likes me as he said it himself and he once even refused to break up over

I filed for an uncontested divorce in Texas. They said, after 60 days, I would have to go back. Can a lawyer or someone else go on my behalf or do I have to go myself?

I know a guy who is constantly saying negative things about himself online, like on social media, dating websites, etc., and he keeps saying with a complete worthless loser he is, because he can't play the banjo very well. He says that he can't see why any woman would ever want to be with him.

Growing up I used to collect Star Wars action figures (I stopped at 10 yrs young). I'm a complete cinephile, I feel out with you over music like I'm well cultured. Most of the stuff I like would be considered white boy ****. I'm Latino so I guess I'm mixed race if you will. I listen to rap but I know like every U2 song there is. I am now 17 & I've been talking to this young woman (21) idk if anything is serious. Together she's just talked about how beautiful i am. I'm a nerd but I take care of my body. Btw Karl Lagerfeld is my idol and she thinks I dress well. I told her how amazing she was ☺️ And she said I was amazing sweet smart etc. we know we have eachother if we need anything. I think she hit on me by calling me sexy but the thing is she's been dating somebody sometimes on and off since high school and he is 3 years older than her. He sounded like a douche sneaker head from what I heared. He could probably beat my *** up but he'd probably go to jail. Also umm we reside in diferent continents so...that's a thing. I've become emotionally invested in her which is probably a problem. She gigeled when we kissed like I kissed her on the cheek not lips. I mean I'm a swear guy but he is trying to be sweet like me but do you think they're relationship will even last like that's her first and she's my first love and it hurts cause I let her in my world. What do you think because she's offered to help me and I need her in my life she's my muse She makes my life feel worth it

Can't say I've really been in this position, but I had an incident with my boyfriend recently that caused me to become incredibly hurt, angry and disappointed. It wasn't cheating, it was incredibly rude behavior though that resulted in me just leaving his apartment without saying anything. Despite the intense emotions, I thought this would be resolved within a day or 2. The resentment is still lingering after a week on my end. I can't speak for him, but he surely doesn't seem to care too much either based on his lack of desire to see me (we don't live together). Essentially, I can't tell if this week is just a rough patch, but the more this goes on the closer it feels like the end vs. an issue that will get resolved. I've tried to resolve it and instead of cooperating/having an adult conversation he's simply just very dramatic, angry and really just plain emotionally abusive (to put it frankly). Is there any hope of getting passed something like this? I have more doubt each day this lingers on but wanted to hear from those with experience dealing with this

A female coworker and I work on projects together at work. At the end of one project she told me "you are the best" and at the end of another she asked me if I could get done with my part of the project before she left for vacation. I told her it will be done before you leave. Her response was "you are the greatest!!!" Also, in about 99 percent of the work emails I get from her she includes smiley faces. Does she like me??

I just got home from picking up my sister at her friend's house. Since it was warm out and I did not get out of my car I drove barefoot and left my shoes at home,