She is literally one of the most beautiful girls I've ever known, and even my friends admit that she is pretty, but she won't believe it when anyone tells her. And like she needs to know how gorgeous and stunning she is, i tell her everyday and she always laughs it off like she doesn't believe me or she says i'm being biased. Maybe I am but even all the people I know agree with me on her being really attractive, so why won't she believe anyone?

He been steady calling I ain't call em byke? (back)

Hello, so, a friend of mine came from another state for a few days and we decided to hang out. We decided to stop by and grab a shake and a burger and I insisted on paying since I haven't seen him in a long time (he refused but I insisted a lot) and I didn't want him to be doing all the paying. I think it's probably important to mention that we had gone to grab lunch earlier and he did all the paying (this was a few hours before). However, when I got home I was telling my family about what we had done and stuff and I casually mentioned that I had payed for his shake and burger (I didn't really care honestly since it wasn't expensive and I wanted to give back from when he payed for me) and my mother was shocked and very angry. She said that he should've paid, and that she now even disliked him because of it. I thought this was completely ridiculous since it only was a shake and a burger, what do you guys think?

I have a full time job but it doesn't pay enough for me to own my own apartment. I lived on my own for about 6 months but it was renting a room. I feel so embarrassed that I can't find a place and keep it. My mom makes fun me for it. Feel crap I would like my own place for once

I will put my question in the answers as there's not enough space here (or because i don't get well how it works.. ;) )

Okay my brother girlfriend copy everything I say or do she does it. Like just a minute ago I said I wanted to watch a new show cause it looks good. She was like I want to watch it too. Then I was showing her my tumblr and a video on there that was funny then she created a tumblr and followed me. I listen to my favorite music like band and rappers she knows nothing about then she steals them and tell me some weeks later about how much she likes them like their new music and everything. Should I keep my hobbies to myself? Because I love expressing myself to other but copying me and annoying me is very abusive to me. What should I do? And is she doing it on purpose? Cause it's been a year now that she started doing it. And she knows it's bothering me. She's annoying all together even my mom tired of her ****. She does it to my mom. Should I tell my mom about it so she can talk to her. Cause it's so pervert like to me.

We made a decision to seperate this week. He became distant and while I was away, he cheated. We talked and he said he didn't see us forever anymore. After so much talking I simply said ok and that I'd be the one to leave. I started packing my things along with my daughters and he asked me to stay the night. I did and after drinking, I ended up sleeping with him. It was so passionate and loving. We've been using the pulling out method for a while now and this time he held me so tight I couldn't move and came inside me. I dont know what this means. I feel like he might be rethinking things and decided that to show me he wants to stay. Or, he can't deal with me leaving and thinks getting me pregnant will lock me down. I just need different opinions....any thoughts?

My husband and I have been married for four years. The four years we've been married had been rough. I noticed the flame in our marriage has burned out. We feel settled in our marriage. I look at my sister's relationship with her boyfriend and can't help but reminisce about the days when we were dating and so in love. We've drifted apart. I still love my husband. I don't know if we should separate or still be together

I have been with my boyfriend nearly a year. Things with him are wonderful. He has a 7 year old son that has adhd. My boyfriend let's him get away with a lot of things.....ie swearing and general misbehaving. I love him and do love his son too, but lately his son has been hitting me, calling me names etc. His dad has been trying to curb that, but his son continues to do disrespectful things to me. How do I deal with this? I want to be able work on this with my boyfriend. He has his son half the time so if/when we move in together we can work on this, together.

the next day I took my pill during the night and have been taking my pill at night like before. Well today I had severe menstrual cramps like I was on my period so bad I almost cried but they went away after 30 mins. My boobs have been very tender and at the beginning of the week I noticed heavy odorless discharge. Could I be pregnant? Also I am 20 and I have had only one partner in my life and it s been over a year.

I'm 24 y.old and i feel like this my only chance. No-one guy has ever liked me in my whole life, asked me out or... even kissed me. I'm seriously so hideous and unattractive that i have no other chance

Hi, so i'm going on a date with a guy i really like so i could really use some advice. -What should I wear? An elegant dress and a statement necklace; or sth more casual like a leather or parka jacket, low/mid heel booties and pay more attention to my makeup? -How should I act? Should I try to be cool and make hilarious jokes? I'm more of a quiet/nerdy kind of girl but this guy doesn't know it. Actually this is a very confident/extrovert guy so i don't wanna appear nerdy. -What subjects should i discuss? -Should I offer to pay the bill? -Is a handshake appropriate to greet/say goodbye? Actually I'm 20

I want a girl I'll never have, and I'm super depressed as i want her so bad, and I cannot have her, and I never will as I am an ugly guy. I don't even have a girlfriend and I'm 15, no girls are ever interested in me. I have to catfish people just to achieve feelings that people like me..I'm too young to use a dating site and I'm such a loser and i have bad self esteem issues..I need advice..thank you ... I also tried asking girls out and they either never show up or don't reply to texts and I ask them in person and they say they forgot or they were busy..I've been screwed over..i tried getting to know girls at my school and they barely talk and I do most of the talking. Any advice on my self esteem issues?

So i'm using my boyfriends yahoo account for this. Im a 17 year old girl and my bf is 16. He's kissed and had sex in the past and i have done the same (but not with him.) I wanted to get in touch with my spirituallity and relationship with god a year or two and have now decided now not to have sex until marraige. And as you'd expect from a man he wasnt happy. I told him since he's a teen with urges i'd still jerk him off but no sex. Now he wont kiss me. I tried to be flirty (but not teasing in any way) and moved in and backed away... he wont hold my hand either. He'll hug but thats it.... he wont even cuddle!!! When i confronted him about this he said making out was still sexual. He said why should he give me what I want when i'm not giving him what he wants. He said relationshios are about love and compromise and that i'm not compromising. Can someone tell me how to snap him out of this?!?!

I lost my job in computers way back in April 2015. I was receiving unemployment and recently just got a job for more than I was making before. I've been out of the out force for like 7 months so Ibwas a little nervous and called in on my second day. The sgency didn't like that because they absolutely needed someone right before Christmas. Sometimes I'm my own worst enemy, now I'm depressed because I screwed up a job where I was making $28/hr.

I'm engaged to my girlfriend. She has children with her ex husband. He sees his kids supervised a couple times a week and is generally good with them. During her marriage he was verbally abusive to her and can still be towards her at times. He also has mocked me in texts to her even though he has never met me. He also is being investigated for illegal activities which is why he can't be around his kids alone. She says I need to meet him if we are going to get married because of the kids but I really don't want to. Is his justified?

Right now i'm kind of in a ditch. I'm 19, full time student in College and working part time. Just not happy with life right now. I'm working hard at College and working part time. I don't like the job, nor the other employees, it's just a job to pay for College. I don't really feel like i'm getting anywhere. Just got out of a serious relationship a while back and I can't get her off my mind, working hard at College but i'm not seeing the work pay off, plus this job is **** and I don't make enough money to do anything. Having some medical problem that I can't seem to figure out either. Overall i'm not happy with where i'm at. Would be nice if someone was in the same situation as me and told me it all worked out :/. I'd like to think two years from now i'll be out of College, maybe find someone special and be doing much better and can do what makes me happy.

A year ago my partner proposed. We had been together 6 years, now 7. We are turning 24 and 25. We did get together quite young and are still quite young. Throughout the year he was very hesitant to make any decisions or plan any details. He kept saying there was no rush as we were going to wait 2 years. It's now been a year and after many bad moods and anger he has admitted he was never ready, and felt pressured by me, our families, our friends and just thought it was time. He has two opinions which are confusing me. The first is, he told me when he first met me he didn't believe in marriage. He said he was never around happy married couples and sees how high the divorce rate is. He said it's just a piece of paper. I did know this, but as the years went by we spoke about marriage and kids and I assumed he changed his mind. The second argument is he said he will be ready by 27 or 28. That until then we can just enjoy our lives. How do I believe this when he is still sticking by it's just a piece of paper? I understand we are young so we don't need to rush, but am I in denial? He's young yes, but why is he freaking out so much? The past year our lives have barely changed and they won't change when we get married other than a title and a surname. To me marriage is about making someone your family and celebrating being with your best friend. To him, it's so scary?

There was this one time years ago, I was probably either 10/11 years old and my older sister Jasmine and I were arguing about something with the computer in our computer room. We were at each other's throats and arguing. Then Jasmine went into the guest room and I followed her there. While she was sitting listening to get iPod, I kept talking sh*t to get face. Then when I got everything off my chest, I got up and walked away and then out if nowhere, Jasmine punched me on the back of my head. Then we started scrapping like crazy in the kitchen. I forgot what happened after that, but I do remember she wanted to permanently make us enemies, but I wanted to make up. We eventually did and I started crying. We both got cut on our finger and went to the bathroom to heal our wounds. So was this counted as a sister fight/sister brawl??

I'm always respectful of her, to the point of being her doormat. Now I'm fed up. I don't want to sit with her at school events. I don't want my stepson feeling the tension or hearing the rude remarks. My husband says it's best for the child if we all sit together. That may or may not be true. I always enjoyed trying to find my family scattered in the crowd. I didn't feel like I had to "choose" who to look at, but my husband thinks this is what will happen. I do understand where he's coming from and we do avoid making the child choose sides, (and always speak kindly of her, etc.). However, I don't see how this means I should be forced to sit with his rude ex. If he wants to sit with his ex that's his choice, but I'm in charge of myself. I'd much rather sit by myself and be comfortable and cheer on my stepson in peace. Since he pulls the trump card of "I think this is best for my son" then nothing I say matters, so I'm stuck with sacrificing my need to be supported by my husband for his son's sake and yet still sticking up for myself by insisting I won't sit with his rude ex, which puts me in the corner by myself, with my husband mad at me. :/ I'm sick of this whirlwind of emotions being a stepmom and just trying to stand my ground; stop allowing everyone to disrespect me. I feel like, if my husband feels bad that his kid has to look around the room to see all the people (that loves him!), then that's his guilt to carry, not mine, because his divorce had nothing to do with me.

So yesterday I asked my mom if I could get a lip piercing and if she would take me, she said yes and I asked for conformation and she still said yes and today she wen back on her word. Now understand if this was the first time she went back on her word I wouldn t have a problem she s constantly doing it, I. Have a bad past and just got out of rehab and I thought we learned how to be straight forward about things but still she can t and depression adding on it makes me feel like I m an idiot for trusting her. It s things like this that already keeps me distant from my family but now after I ve learned new communication skills I m already doing it myself but I just ******* hate my family

My boyfriend and I have been trying for the past year to have a child with no luck. We are both in the military, me leaving for training in May and I was to start birth control so I couldn t get pregnant. We are both country, outdoorsy and he is a mechanic. What are some cute ways to tell him I will no longer be leaving for training because he s going to be a father? This is my first pregnancy and I m very excited but nervous to tell him. I m also a tomboy so I m not great at cute and creative. Thank you so much.

I texted my friend 3x within 3 months to hang out. He kept saying yes even After I said - if you don't wanna hang, say so. But he hasn't gotten back to me about a date he's free. I see he's blowing me off and I'm upset. And no he's not too busy, sick, working or traveling. He's blown me off in the past too. I might lose his friendship afterwards but I want to text him this one last time: "What day are you free? Or perhaps I'll bring marshmallows and catch up with you in hell lol." Is it a too agressive or a good idea?

I'm confused with a close friend of mine. Please help? So I have lived on the same street for my whole life. I am 22 years old and there is a great family who lives next door to me. The son is 19 and the daughter is 17. I am incredibly close to the both of them and whenever I'm with them I feel like I can be completely myself. Here's the thing... On christmas eve, I went over their house and I had not seen him in almost a month. When I was going to leave the son hugged me a few times and even smelt my hair. Later that night we were all hanging out with his sister and one of our old neighbors who moved away a few months ago. We all like to hang out in the dark with the lights off and just chill, We were laying on the floor and he went and held my hand twice, secretly. He has done this several times before that day and I never thought anything of it, Around 3am his sister falls alseep and then at 5am our old neighbor falls alseep. He immediately grabbed me and pulled me closer to him. Again, I didn't think anything of it because we are just that close. Until, his heart started beating really fast and his breathing was shortening. He was continuously pulling me closer and closer. This actually happened a few years ago when it was just us and his sister but back then he was 15 or 16 so I knew he was young and didn't think anything of it. I'm just confused because I have never had feelings for him and I'm scared he might have them for me.. What do you guys think?

Im a guy in college & I met the most wonderful girl. We texted & she agreed to go to dinner with me. I took her to the fanciest restaurant in the city, held the door open for her, pulled her chair out, & gave her a rose. I was awestruck when I saw her because she was the most beautiful girl that I had ever seen. I dont have trouble talking to girls & I have presented to sororities with 200+ girls with no problem. This girl made me nervous because she was THAT beautiful. We had a great dinner & there was never awkward silence. I asked if she would like to go out again & she said "Well of course!" I acted kinda shocked & said "wow! really??" She seemed concerned & asked why I was shocked & I said that I didnt know. This was my first date ever. She told me she would call me this week when she got back. She texted me that night saying that she made it home & had a good time & I texted her the next morning wishing her a safe trip home & didn't hear from her except for a few snapchats. I texted her Tuesday & asked how she was & she said: "I'm doing well! I worked all day and now I'm at home curled up in front of the tv. I'm happy to hear from you! How was your Christmas?" I texted back & she hasnt texted me since. We have sent snapchats a little since then, but that's it. I know that I might sound clingy, but this was my first date & I really like her. I was so caught up in the moment at how beautiful she was, my nerves got the best of me. Did she lose interest?

Although it is painful to talk about, I will briefly share what happened, because it's important. My friend was attending a slumber party that I had invited her to, and a tickle fight broke out between us. During the horseplay, random contact was made with my kneecap triggering what doctors called a "reflex". Completely beyond my control, I saw my leg involuntarily kick her in the head, knocking her unconscious. She had been chewing gum and, with her unconscious, my first instinct was to be sure she wasn't choking. So I immediately moved her onto her stomach, got on top of her and, reaching around from behind, began to vigorously administer the Heimlich maneuver. We were both wearing PJ's, with the little holes in the front, and in the process of this medical intervention, it appears that penetration inadvertently occurred. By the time I realized who, what, and where… it was too late. I had already semened. :-( It was at this point that I realized she had stopped breathing, so I began to administer CPR. When she didn't start breathing, I just panicked. As a last ditch effort to bring her back to life, I began pummeling my clenched fists into her abdominal area. In a state of confusion and in pure desperation, I pummeled her face too. Despite my best efforts, it was too late. She had dieded. When the police arrived, they asked a lot of questions. I had the same questions myself. I mean.. how did one of my closest friends die at my slumber party? Ultimately, the medical examiner determined she died due to a combination of blunt force trauma and asphyxiation that were caused by reflective kicks and improper application of life-saving techniques. Update 2: But her family doesn't accept it. They see only that their daughter was badly beaten raped, and murdered and they aren't considering the "science" behind it. How do I get them to let go of "how it appears" and open their minds to what really happened. Please, no trolls. This is very serious. :-( No rape because it wasn't intentional. And not manslaughter because there are good Samaritan laws that protect people, who in good faith, act to save the life of others. I'll tell you though.. I feel guilty. I know I shouldn't, but I do. Whenever I'm feeling guilty, I hit my knee with a mallet and watch my leg kick out. It reminds me that... It's not my fault! There's nothing I could have done differently. - I absolutely would never have kicked her by choice. She was my dear friend and I feel terrible. I really need help approaching her family. Can we get to some advice on how to help them understand? I already feel terrible as it is. I didn't mean for this to happen! I thank you Lisa. Yes, such a tragic situation. And, yes, it's all true, no fooling. I've done research, and these "reflex"es are very real and very well documented. I do appreciate your thoughts and sentiments. I'm going to approach her family with courage and conviction, just like you said. I'm going to demand that they forgive me for what was entirely out of my hands.

Who looks like a winner?

So my best friends of 4 years and I were having a sleepover, and we were at one of her houses and her brother usually comes in by us and hangs out (freshman). When we were all laying down he put his arm around me, and it was normal cuz he s like a brother to me. But I felt his hand start to go into my pants and play with my underwear. I really didn t know what was happening so I told him to move his hand. And he did so I rolled onto my side bug he pulled me in and started feeling up my shirt and grabbing my butt. I told him to move his hand, and he would but then went right back to doing it. I was just in shock that I didn t know what to do. I mean I just kinda wanna know, my friends gonna talk to her brother about it so it'll be fine.

From middle school through high school parents locked chastity belt on me and kept keys to make sure i wasnt having sex and to prevent rape. it was metal and neoprene lining to protect skin and made by company called Neosteel. i could never talk to others about it because toooo embarrassing! but i wondered if it is common? bathroom things - The front part had a mesh screen i could pee through and the back had chains in a V shape that i could go that way. i just used a spray bottle of water to clean after and could use folded paper towels to dry

I was talking to my friend of 3 1/2 years, we are lovers on the side, on the phone when we were about to hang up I heard him say I Love you and then I said okay bye, it struck me like lightning, and It put me in a stage of shock, when I hung up I wanted to call back and ask him did he say he loved me, I know those 3 words can not be in disguise you cannot pretend like you said something else, so I decided to leave it alone. God knows I love this man, but I have never even thought about telling him I love him unless he said it. He called me back the next day, I didn't want to ask him if he said he loved me because of fear, so instead at the end of our call it slipped out, I said I loved him, then he says not to use that word with him, he told me not to say that to him, he got pissed, I told him I was sorry, and that I was just playing. and now I believe I have ****** up, I feel so dumb and stupid I knew I should of played it off and gave it the benefit of the doubt, now I'm sitting here waiting on his call which might not happen. What do you think what happened here? WHY ARE MEN SO CONFUSING????