Family: Question: My mom is being so childish and petty?

Question: My mom is being so childish and petty?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 12:58 PM PST

The other day my mom and i got into an argument. I've done nothing but help her since my dad has been gone because she depends on me more other than my siblings. She was talking bad about my sister and then about to start talking about all the other kids. I asked her why has there been nothing but drama since dad is gone. She has started dram with everyone since my dad left for a business trip. She told me that my dad was;t sad about leaving us he was sad about leaving her. she said some pretty messed up things to me. Now she's going above and beyond to be extra nice to all my other siblings and giving me the cold shoulder. She has my siblings telling me what she needs done because she won't talk to me. Every time I walk by she always walks with an attitude. It's so childish and petty. Any other time she talks about my sister like a dog but now since she is mad at me, she's all buddy buddy with my sister. Any advice?

Question: I want to die before my sister, my parents, grandparents.?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 12:48 PM PST

I'm turning 15. I have a great problem. It started 2 years ago when i started thinking about how fast the time is. I look at old photos with me, my sister, my parents, my parents and grandparents, we are getting older. I realised grandparents move slowlier, they are 70. I have few friends. I listen to old music, 60-70-80, i grew up on this music, my dad put this kind of music at every end of week. I cant realise that they all will die someday, they will leave me. When i was younger i told them that i want to die with my grandma, she laughed at me and she told me she is The one who dies first And i shouldnt be thinking like this. I cant eveniment imagine that in some years i will walk in this house and find out that i am alone, alone in the house i've grown up. There won't be any old music playing, no mom telling me to learn more to achieve a good life, no grandpa to teach me alot of cool things, not even my sister to fight with me for every crap. This is why i would like to die first. Everytime i remember these things in the bed i start crying, i don't want to get older. The best times in my life were spend with my family. If i knew that everybody around me will die someday i would wish i was never been born at all. Even my friends think I'm creepy when i start telling my story so i keep quiet and remain the overthinking guy that everyone avoid. Tell me how to stop thinking like this, i get stressed and i sometimes start cry even at school. Please tell me what's wrong

Question: Im i a bad person?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 12:42 PM PST

I just want an honost opinion of who you think i am. I sometimes feel like the guy from butterfly effect. The main character systematically ruins the lives of everyone around him. He is like me. Just like me, he wasn't supposed to be there. But he is selfish and continues to try to make everything right for himself at the expense of the people around him. Anyone who truly knows me, hates me to the core. For good reason. I know my wife doesnt love me and would be happier without me. She told me that much. But im selfish and guilt trip her into staying with me. So in turn she is miserable so im not alone. My daughter tries to talk to me but im rarely interested. I always tell her to go away. I got disowned by my father because i never helped him with my mentally ill grandmother and used him watch my daughter while i went to school. When he wanted to reconnect with me after a year i never responded. It wasnt because i hated him, i just didnt want to deal with it. I have betrayed every friend i had by doing the one thing they never thought i would do to them. These are but a few thing about me that i dont tell anyone i know. I know who i am, im just scared to ask someone i know. So what kind of person do you think i am?

Question: Parents are going to scream at me I really messed up, what do I do?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 12:40 PM PST

I was bored during a big snow storm so I went outside and got a cup full of snow and was playing with it and added blue food dye to it. When I was done playing with it I decided to instead of putting it in the sink because I didn't want the dye to stain the sink I threw the snow out side into the dirt. The next day my dad melted the snow with salt to our front walk way and some of the dyed snow I threw outside missed the dirt and got on the stone walkway and when the snow melted it spread the dye everywhere and now half our stone steps is stained dark blue. My parents have no idea where it came from and keep asking me and my sister. My mom seems to think it was her fault because she uses this blue food stuff when she waters her plants. I have no idea what to do if I tell them what happened they will scream at me. I can't imagine how mad they will be. Is there anyway I can get the dye out of the stone? I'm so scared

Question: I m 16 and want to move in with my sister?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 12:34 PM PST

I m 16 and about a year ago my dad beat the crap out of me. I moved in with me mom. Then mover back in with my dad. And he got a paper saying if he did abuse me I will get taken away basically. And now he is verbally abuseing me. And I just can t take it. I m tired of being hurt depreesed and stressed But I was wondering in the state on indiana can I move in with my sister (threw court process ) at 16 without my dad doing anything about it?

Question: I lost my brother about 10 months ago... Im a 15 year old girl and I start grief group today. Any tips?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 12:31 PM PST

Question: Do adult women get jealous of teenagers' girls' looks and height?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 12:20 PM PST

My aunt from Kuwait is short, not attractive, and she is insecure. She has 3 children. She has brown hair, black eyes. I was 13-14 years old and I was blonde with green eyes, and she seems envious of my green eyes and blonde hair, and she hates me for no reason. Everytime she sees my face she goes "hmmph". Im taller than her with bigger breasts. She insults me sometimes and she teaches her kids to call me fat. Literally. She puts me down.

Question: How do I cope?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 12:16 PM PST

My mother suffers from depression, and probably other things too but she is constantly calling me a parasite, and saying how she wishes i was never born and how she wishes she died when giving birth to me. She also brings up past mistakes I've made, such as ALMOST having sex. I told her about it because i felt i could, but all she does is bring it up and label me as sleazy. I'm 18 and she loves to control me and never really lets me out. I go to college close by so if its 5pm an I'm in a library, she's calling me yelling at me to come home or she'll threaten to lock me out. she loves making me feel bad about myself and starting fights with me. My older siblings who are used to this behavior tell me she lashes out this way to cope with her depression and she just can't be changed. I have depression but I'm worried it'll only get worse if my mom continues to make me feel worthless. She trashes my makeup, throws out my jewelry, and just makes life impossible. But when i say how much i hate her, she starts crying. I really don't understand. someone help me cope. So I really don't think you people understand haha. I have tried talking to her, but she does not change. She's 55. she will be the same forever. I have tried talking to therapists. I try hugging her and telling her I love her but she just pushes me away. She has threatened to tell the police I hit her just to have me thrown out. I know deep down she "loves" me. BUT HOW DO I COPE is the question. She has attempted suicide about 3 times and i have once. I don't know what to do.

Question: Would you tell a kid that he's adopted?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 12:13 PM PST

he's not my son. he's actually my nephew, but he doesn't know. his parents died a long time ago. i've been taking care of him ever since he was a baby. he thinks i'm his father not his uncle. i figured since i'm his uncle, he's my flesh and blood. he's technically my son. so why would i ever tell him that? PS: my brother and his wife died 15 years ago in a car crash. it's a taboo subject. nobody talks about it in the family. if i don't tell him he'll never know. there's no reason for him to suffer this pain.

Question: Bad relationship with mother and step-father??

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 12:12 PM PST

Both step-father and mother cannot accept the idea of my current relationship with my boyfriend. I am 22 years old and I did a stupid thing of hiding this long-term relationship with this guy until something happened and I had to leave the house at midnight to solve some issues between us. We broke up for a week then the guy came back begging me to be in relationship with him again. All this time my parents saw my crying and suffering because of him. Now, I told my parents that I back with him again but they made me choose between him and them. I told them there is no choice like that , because parents are parents and i would like to keep a strong relationship with them forever. My step-father refused to talk to me ever since then, and the relationship with my relationship with my mother is not better than that either. My step-father told me in the end to leave the house or he calls the police. I left the house, I had to move in with my boyfriend because I am a full time student i don't have time to work that much. My mother changed her phone number, she refuses to talk to me. They both blocked me on facebook. Step-father still has the same number but he doesn't answer the phone when I call. I tried to get in touch with my grandmother to try to calm them down and get the situation resolved. My mother told me that the only thing i can do is to finish my Engineering(1 years and half more) and everything should get better, but I don't know...I love my mother should i wait Will the ever call me back?...or this is it?...I don't know what to think.I have a feeling that they did the same thing my real father did to me and that they just left me. I miss my mother and I would do anything to talk to her again.

Question: An autistic woman is spreading lies about my mother and father. What can be done?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 11:38 AM PST

My mother works with someone with autism. The woman was treated poorly by everyone else but my mother. That was a big mistake because this woman is delusional and trying to ruin my family. She kept following my mom around at work and bothering her, calling her and contacting her online, even after my mom told her to stop. The woman somehow thought my dad must be telling my mom not to hang out with her and must be controlling and abusing her. She even contacted a relative my mother had a falling out with who lied and said she was being abused to get back at my mom. The whole thing disgusts me and this psycho is posting crap on Facebook and is delusional, believing her own lies. It makes me sick and I fear she will make my parents lose their jobs and try to get my dad arrested. What can be done? She has no concept of reality and believes what she wants to believe. She is like a stalker and is destroying my father who works his butt off for his family working sometimes 6 days a week for 10 hours or more a day. It is so wrong, I don't know what to do. Please help. My mother is not being abused. Why would I post this if she was? How would that help anything? How would you feel if you were a man working your butt off for your family and you're being accused of something so terrible? You love your family so much you work incessantly and this is your reward, someone saying horrible lies about you.

Question: Is it all right if I let my brother and My little sister touch my boobs or should I pull my bra up?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 11:37 AM PST

Question: I think my brother may be gay?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 11:27 AM PST

He's 14 now. He seems pretty normal. He plays football and swims a lot. But he doesn't talk about girls much at all. Most of the singers he's into are young male singers. Also, he has this same boy over to do homework and play video games a lot, or goes to his house. And right before he comes over, my brother will tidy up his hair and put on deodorant, and mouthwash and stuff. And yesterday when his friend was over to study/game, I was upstairs, and all of a sudden I realized it was really quiet. I thought his friend had gone home. So I came down to make sure my brother had tidied everything up. His friend was still there. They weren't really doing anything. They didn't see me. But they were sitting really close and might have pulled away from each other. I don't know, but I think they might have been kissing. Then a couple days later I found this picture (BELOW) on his computer. Don't get mad at me for invading his privacy, he left his computer open AND I'm in charge of making sure he doesn't do anything that would get him in trouble. I don't know what to do. I think my brother might be gay. What do I do if he is?? Should I be okay with it? I've never been faced with something like this. How should I deal with him? Should I tell him he can't have his friend over anymore? Or let them keep hanging out? I'm pretty much in charge of him since I live at home, pay rent, and my parents work all the time and travel.

Question: Should I feel guilty that I have gotten used to my brother being dead and no longer feel like I miss him daily?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 11:08 AM PST

I still love him and we had a good relationship but I simply have gotten used to him being dead. He died 10 years ago today and I don't feel any deep pain like on the 1st anniversary of even fifth. He died young (19) from a drug overdose at college. I am still sad he died and wish I could bring him back. He was not a drug addict but was doing recreational abuse.

Question: How do I break it to my parents that I smoke cigarettes?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 11:07 AM PST

I started smoking cigarettes a while back and have been regularly up until now. Just the other day my dad took my car to get my oil changed and immediately called my mom to say that he thought I was smoking because there was ashes in my floor board. I went through my whole car and get everything out beforehand but I guess I didn t notice the ashes. My mom texted me and said "your dad thinks you re smoking because of the ashes in your car I told him it was probably (boyfriends mother who smokes)" she texted me and asked who smoked in my car and I told her it was my boyfriend being as he is 19 and of legal as. I m currently 17 have been smoking for about a year. My mother had been smoking for about 5 years but she hides it from my dad because he smoked for about 40 years and quit and she doesn t want him to smoke again. I couldn t tell based on what my mom texted me whether or not she knows I smoke she acted like she believed me when I said it wasn t me but I m not sure? She s a keep the peace kind of person so I really don t know. I got I trouble for smoking week one time even though I passed my drug test because it was my first time and didn t know how to smoke it right. The second time I got caught from a school drug test I didn t even get in trouble they just asked me if I was done with it. How do I break it to my mom without her freaking out and telling me I have to quit?

Question: Is my sister in law taking my sisters diveorce out on me ?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 11:04 AM PST

My sister was Andries to her half brother and I am married to her younger half brother .she used to take y picture and post it on fb but now she delibaritly leaves my out ever since my sister diveorced her half brother .when we go on trips she makes family albums on fb and has my husband in them but doesn't post the pictures she takes of me . It wasn't my fault they diveorced ,is it just occward bc I'm her ex sister in laws sister ? At a party she took a picture of her aunts and I with her but posted the one with just her

Question: My Dad stopped loving me long ago when he divorced my mother. Is there a way to get him back in my life when he refuses to so far?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 11:03 AM PST

I have told him how I feel and he just says he is busy with his younger kids. I have seen him twice in the last five years and both those times it was funerals. He no longer calls on my birthday or Christmas and I did get a Christmas card in handwriting I know was not his so his wife must have written it. All it said was "Merry Christmas to you and your family" signed their names. Nothing personal. So this hurts me deeply especially now that my mother has died. He did not offer me condolences when she died aside from his sister (my aunt) who came to the funeral saying "your Dad sends his regards". So how can I change this. I am single and my mother and grandparents have all died. Christmas was alone this year. All this makes me wish I could die. What do I do?

Question: My sister and mother are huge gossips, how do I get away from their gossip as it makes me uncomfortable?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 10:57 AM PST

They are family so I have to see them some. Even my father joins in some though my brother and I don't.

Question: What might be the reasons my parents still fight and hate each other 4 years after getting divorced?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 10:56 AM PST

Question: My mother often says how much better behaved I am then my two sisters. One of my sisters is offended by this. Should she be saying this?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 10:55 AM PST

I am the only son and she feels I am the most mature and best behaved.

Question: I caught my brother in the bed with some girl yesterday at my parents house. Should I be pissed and tell my parents?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 10:53 AM PST

He is not married nor has she ever been over. He is 20 and she looked about the same age. My brother is like addicted to sexual stuff.

Question: My parents are divorced and I have not gotten over the trauma from it. Alongside counseling what kind of self-help can I get?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 10:52 AM PST

I feel it is partially my fault as they had a good marriage they say until they had kids. Also because while I have friends with divorced parents none of my cousins have parents who are divorced. So I feel shame for it. I feel guilty for buying into the false info my mother gave me about my father after the divorce due to her bitterness. She has mellowed now. So how can I get past all this along with counseling. I have mental illness and am in counseling and have discussed this.

Question: Why is he so irritating?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 10:51 AM PST

my cosuin is so irritating he always comments on everything i do . like for example on snpachat my hair is very curly and i did a video of me showing off my curls and than he snap chatted me saying that " thats not curls thats naps " which it isnt and hes always comments on everything i do liek he always worried about me ! and my hair is very curly and not nappy at all

Question: Is this child spoiled?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 10:39 AM PST

he's six years old and he -constantly interrupts adults while they are talking -constantly interrupts adults conversations and asks why and what are you two talking about - always demands more food from his mother and never says please or thank you -wont do what he's told unless there is a reward offered and even then won't do it half of the time -you bring over supplies for the house because his mom asked you too and he meets you at the door and says "did you get us detergent?" -ignores you when he's asked to do something or asked a question he doesn't want to answer and is always pushing his limits as to what he can get away with

Question: If john cena marries nikki bella will he become daniel bryans brother in law?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 10:32 AM PST

Question: How can I get my dad to get rid of his unused junk?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 10:28 AM PST

I started sleeping in my own bed 2 months ago because of a house fire and we have a basement bedroom that is way bigger than my room and has a way bigger bed so I want to sleep down there now but there's just one problem my uncle died 2 years ago and my dad has all of his stuff in the basement. Yesterday I talked with my family about it and my mom was fine with it but my dad started making up excuses like because I have a slight fear of spiders he said that there were tons of spiders in that room when I was down there yesterday there were 0 spiders he also said he would have to fix the bathroom downstairs and I said that I could use the one upstairs and then he went silent. I am older now and I am sick of having to squeeze into a child's bed. We have 4 completely stuffed storages and a whole basement stuffed with junk. Please help!

Question: How can I get my dad to kick me out of his house?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 10:26 AM PST

I want to live with my mom, but I'm only 16.

Question: Is my dad overreacting about my grades?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 09:45 AM PST

My mark before the exam in science was a 76. My other courses are above 80 but my dad seemed fine with my science mark since I'm bad at math-related courses. On the exam I got a 71 or something and my science mark went down by 1 to 75%. I told my dad and he got really mad. It's just 1%! I expected it to be lower too! I really did try to study I just sucked at the equations part.

Question: I'm afraid men won't want to date me because of my family?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 09:44 AM PST

I'm getting my degree in science atm . Looks and figure are good. But my family is lower than working class. And the atmosphere at home is...it hurts to say that but disgusting. I don't wait to go home for holidays like others . Actually I'm glad (at certain moments) that I'm staying in the student house because it's calm here, no emotionally abusive stepfather and fighting all the time. I managed to date a guy for 2.5 and once he came to my town as a r suprise and I went dead scared if he got to ny house(he didn't) I love my mother but thing is she cannot leave stepfather which led to constant fights And house looks awful. I am the one who is helping them financialy although in uni its other way around usually. Would a guy be scared of a broken family? I dread the thought of having a partner and him seeing it all in detail...

Question: Is there a spirit attracted to my nephew?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 09:33 AM PST

My oldest sister and her boyfriend moved in when the baby was born who is currently 2 months old. There was this whole week where the baby could not sleep and would not stop crying at night, so my mom would take him to her room where he slept just fine. Obviously my sister right away thought it was Stacey ( a "ghost" we say is in the house when something randomly falls or closes) and we all said she was just paranoid. Up until this morning when my other sister said she would never sleep in that room. So last night my older sister asked her to go sleep with her once her boyfriend left to work at 3 or 4 am and she said yes. She fell asleep and suddenly woke up not being able to move,breath , or speak ; and she was trying to make noise for my older sister to hear her who had just gone to the bathroom. Once she was finally able to move she could no longer sleep, this had never happened to her. We don t know what to make of it because other people have heard things in this house when they sleep over, and an elderly woman died here not that long after her husband had passed away who were the previous owners.

Question: What to do when you're abused?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 09:25 AM PST

There's this girl whoms family members (mainly grandpa) who emotionally abuse her for the last fifteen years of her life (with an acception of spanking her when she was younger) and since she lives in a large family, and is the eldest among teen children who live there, is made to do chores. Recently, her grandad is intimidating and accusing her for things she doesn't even do! (Seemingly) Her grandad is a well educated but traditional. He uses her dad and makes him punish her for the smallest of things. Exams are around the corner, and she decided to sleep after school, because she can't cope with their presence. She woke up to a belt whipping and all day, due to the pain she couldn't lean back on the chair. It was the first time her dad hit her (grandads orders). Her mom is helpless. I want to consult a teacher anonymously, but I don't want to - without this girls consent. What do I do? Ten children* she lives with her fathers family.

Question: Do you think this living situation is ok or would you be ashamed, adults living with parents?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 09:23 AM PST

So my wife and I, in our 30's, are living with my parents. I know there is a stigma about adult people moving back home. With this living arrangement my wife was able to quit her job to stay at home with our son and any other possible children. Of course we pay like $500 per month to live in this house it is very spacious. Some other family members are acting like we are poor or something. I've even been ridiculed by a friend that there is something wrong with me for living with my parents. We all get along pretty good, and to be honest, my parents are retired so they are gone quite a bit. What do you think of this living arrangement? Do you tink we are weird? I asked my wife is she would rather work or live with my parents and she said stay with my parents so that's what we we are doing. Plus we can save more money. I don't feel ashamed but it seems a few people have thought I should be ashamed of it. Anonymous, we buy our own food, loser. It's actually 550/month Anoymous, again, just like my idiot friends, you assume that I am poor. I have over $50,000 in the bank.

Question: Brother is addicted to computer games. help:( tearing the family apart.?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 09:10 AM PST

my 17 year old brother is completely addicted to playing computer games. this addicted started almost 4 years ago. whenever i asked for help everyone would say it is just a phase. but its been 4 years! my brother is starting to apply to colleges and is so lazy and cant stop playing computer games, my mother has started most of his college applications, and he's payed his friends to write his essays for him. he stays up til 4 in the morning playing games and then wakes up at 1 in the afternoon and goes straight to the computer. my mom has taken away his computer, but he claims the computer is his only source of entertainment and without it he will sit in the house and do nothing all day. he doesnt have a car, doesnt even have his license, because hes too occupied with the computer to go to driving school or get a job. he is so incredibly lazy, he doesnt clean, he doesnt cook, he doesnt do anything. he cant even put a ******* dish in the dishwasher. last night i tried to get him off the computer to have him help me and my mom cook dinner, but he would not get off and when i started to get angry with him, he proceeded to say i was "harassing" him and he instantly left the house after my mom told him he was not allowed to leave. he yelled that our mother does nothing for him and doesnt take care of him, when that is completely the opposite. our mother does absolutely everything for him and i dont know what to do. he is completely addicted and i just want my brother back.

Question: Would anyone like to become my long term non sexual roleplay partner? Serious Inquiries only.?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 09:04 AM PST

I only enjoy sibling roles. I enjoy overprotective brother/sister roles. I am looking for a guy who is experienced, has been actively role playing for a while now, who is detailed with posts, and doesn't mind clean, no sex roleplay. If you have to ask the point in it, don't answer. If you have to be mean, don't answer. This is serious. Thanks.

Question: 1 totally have gigasleepus and my moms so judgemental cause I slept 15 hours a day and shess yelling at me like whats the big deal i miss?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 08:53 AM PST

School like who cares. Whys shess so judgemental of me cuz I am polysexual and sleep but she dont understand I got gigasleepus. A lot of multi sexuals get gifasleepus when they sleep caus thats just how wedo. Like I'm not bad I' a citizen of earth like how she disrespect

Question: Can my mom put me at a foster care for no reason?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 08:50 AM PST

So im 16 and my mom want's to kick me out because she says her life would be so much easier without me. Im not even a bad kid, i get decent grades, keep most my stuff organized. she's always getting mad over little things like me forgetting to clean the microwave or playing loud music, even though i turn it down when she asks. anyways can she just throw me in a foster care?

Question: I'm 16 and I have to tell my mom I'm pregnant. How do I do it?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 08:47 AM PST

My mom is the best mom I could ever ask for. She puts a lot of trust in me and up until this past year she had a good reason too. I could text my mom while I was at school and say I was going home with whoever and she would just say okay because she knew I was telling the truth and she knew I'd either be home that night or id text her and tell her what I was doing. Until this past year I honestly did everything I told my mom I was doing. My boyfriend is my aunts best friends son. I saw him a lot growing up and I hated him and so does my mom. I can honestly say I had zero intentions of ever even being friends with him. He texted me one day and asked me to give him a chance. After a lot of negotiating I agreed to go see a movie with him, which was the first time I lied to my mom because I knew she wouldn't let me go if she knew it was with him. A few months of him being very sweet and not pushing himself on me and we ended up having sex. He always wears a condom so getting pregnant was just an accident. When I told him he was very sweet and a week later my mom still doesn't know I asked if he told his parents and he said he told them as soon as he got home that day. He is a guy and 18 and they knew we have sex so they weren't too upset. My mom will be crushed when she finds out I've had sex and even more upset when she finds out who it was with. She won't be happy I'm pregnant but I know she'll be supportive.

Question: My mom won't let me go to the school dance what do I do?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 08:47 AM PST

my mom is an Arab mom and she is very strict and she won't let me go to any school events. she won't let me go to the semi formal unless she comes with me for the whole time and that is very embarrassing and I don't want her to come. what do I do??

Question: Dad problems saying sorry for the future grammar mistakes ;/ 17yr old?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 08:24 AM PST

So my dad is a complete asshole i think he hates our family. He gets mad at everything , like literally everything for example : My mom fires the fireplace because it starting to get cold ,but when my dad arrives he starts yelling that we are stupid retards because we fired the fireplace after that we dont touch it anymore , BUT after 2 days he start yelling that we dont fire the fireplace like wheres the logic in that? But the actual problem is that he almost started punching me after he slapped my mom on the face. He was doing it because he was thinking that we stole like 100euros from him and hes credit cards ,But we did not steal anything from him. we were telling him that some one broke into the house but he diddnt believe us.He yells at us too when we lock the door at night. There was clear evidence that someone broke into the house ( the thiefes left the door open the whole night open) but he still diddnt believe us like wtf? Im thinking to beat the living **** out of him if he touches my mom again. What should i do? i love my mom ,but my dad is ruining the whole family.

Question: What's a good-thoughtful gift for my girlfriends parents?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 08:23 AM PST

Long story short, I graduated nursing school in December & I wouldn't understood a lot of things without them as they are both in the medical field plus they've been nothing but supportive of me since day one & have literally taking me in as one of their own. I'm going to write a personal thank you card but not sure what else to give along with it that they both could enjoy EDIT: I usually give them a nice bottle of wine for celebrations / holidays but I'd like to make this one a little more special.

Question: Can someone please help??.. How do you think she felt seeing me like that? Is it weird we are close? I just want your opinion?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 08:07 AM PST

I'm 16. mom used to dance everyday Zumba with her 3 friends Dona & Elsa. I got really close with do as son, were still good friends, almost dated. I'm very close with both of them, but I'm closer with Dona. She's been there for me a lot, 16th birthday, homecoming crowning, supported me when I lost & gained my vision back etc. she's a very reserved person, after losing her husband & daughter 4yrs ago. But she's always super loving, caring to me, always giving hugs & laughing together, always happy, we have a special bond. Last year she quit Zumba due to fight she had with Elsa, so we don't see her anymore but I miss her so much, so I text her "have a great day!" Every know and then.. My grandma died a couple weeks ago & surprisingly Dona had came to her funeral, I was crying very hard & shaking, She came down the line hugging family, we she got to me I bawled out crying even harder when I saw her, Life seemed at its worst & to see her after months without her, I missed her so much.cit was overwhelming. She gave me the biggest/longest hug. She kept telling me that it's okay, it's okay to cry. It was a special moment, very hard & overwhelming. Days letter she would text me checking on me. Was it bad of me to cry more, How do you think she felt seeing me like that? is it weird that we are close? (Me & my mom are very close, there's nothing my mom lacks) I just want your opinion?

Question: Ever wrote your family off?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 08:06 AM PST

I want to. I plan to. We're a Black American family. They are not going to kill me, like they did my grandmother. I was closest to her and she died at the young age of 59. They are nothing but ignorance, stress and drama. Her last day of living, I was 19 years old. No one had money to rent a car and drive 6 hours to go see her. We got a rental car from one family friend, I scraped up 200$ from another family friend and we should of been on our way. But noo what does the dumbass (my mother) driver do? She picks up family to drop them off places, waits for someone to fry some ****** chicken for the road and wait for her no good as brother to get "pocket money". What happened? Two hours into FINALLY getting on the road, my grandmother dies. And I didn't get a chance to see her b/c of these f**k ni**as. I'm writing them off. They can't do sh** for me anyway. They don't like the person I am, because it's not like them. They have no respect for me, or competence to reach understanding. They WILL kill me, if I let them. Stress Kills. I would say ask my Grandmother, but, you know...

Question: What organization is OSHA's sister agency that focuses on research and training, also conducts Health Hazard Evaluations (HHEs)?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 07:52 AM PST

Question: My parents did the opposite of supporting on everything I say?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 07:42 AM PST

When im getting home from school, i got bored and talk to my parents about school, after what I told them the day after school, they just tell it like i'm useless and i'm hopeless, Should I ever talk to them about school, my life or any of my problems ever again?They just arent supportive as I think a normal parent would be.

Question: My parents are making me go to their anniversary dinner?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 07:41 AM PST

So today is my parent's 20th anniversary and it's also finals week for me and I can not afford to even get a B on my science finals and this week Is important to me but they can't understand that. When I refused to go they just said that all I care about is myself. They told me that they cancelled all of their plans because of me and wish I was never born. I mean, if finals week weren't this week I would definently go but that isn't the case this week. Finals week is extremely important to me and I just don't have time to go out and come back at like 12 am.

Question: My middle aged black mom is having sex with a younger (20s) white guy. I am very bothered by this. How can I come to terms with it? 10 pts?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 07:04 AM PST

I m an 18 year old guy. My parents got divorced about a year ago. It was hard, but I ve learned to deal with it. I very recently learned my mom has gotten into a casual sexual relationship with a much younger white guy (she s 45 and he s in is mid 20s; we are black). I found out because I saw them sexting on her phone (I know I shouldn t have looked, but when I saw something like that on my mom s phone it shocked me. Believe me I didn t look at it long. Just enough to know what was happening). I talked to my mom about it. She told me I shouldn t look at her texts (she s right), but that she d admit she s had a casual sexual relationship with this guy for a while. She said she doesn t want a relationship right now, but she really enjoys the sex and this guy is really good in bed and very sexy. She told me she knows her sex life and her life with me should be two different things. She said she knew it was weird for me to think my mom wanted sex, but she said she does. She said not to look into it anymore because her sex life wasn t my business. I know my mom is right, but it s driving me crazy. I hate the idea of my mom sleeping around casually with some random guy, especially a guy so much younger and white. Why would she want to sleep with a guy young enough to be her son? Maybe it s a bit racist, but thinking of her with a white guy is weird too. How can I forget this, or at least be OK with it? I know that I shouldn't have looked at the texts, but that's done and I can't forget it. My question is how can I be OK with it and not have it bother me. Better yet, is there a way I can forget it?

Question: My middle aged black mom is having sex with a younger (20s) white guy. I am very bothered by this. How can I come to terms with it? 10 pts?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 07:03 AM PST

I m an 18 year old guy. My parents got divorced about a year ago. It was hard, but I ve learned to deal with it. I very recently learned my mom has gotten into a casual sexual relationship with a much younger white guy (she s 45 and he s in is mid 20s; we are black). I found out because I saw them sexting on her phone (I know I shouldn t have looked, but when I saw something like that on my mom s phone it shocked me. Believe me I didn t look at it long. Just enough to know what was happening). I talked to my mom about it. She told me I shouldn t look at her texts (she s right), but that she d admit she s had a casual sexual relationship with this guy for a while. She said she doesn t want a relationship right now, but she really enjoys the sex and this guy is really good in bed and very sexy. She told me she knows her sex life and her life with me should be two different things. She said she knew it was weird for me to think my mom wanted sex, but she said she does. She said not to look into it anymore because her sex life wasn t my business. I know my mom is right, but it s driving me crazy. I hate the idea of my mom sleeping around casually with some random guy, especially a guy so much younger and white. Why would she want to sleep with a guy young enough to be her son? Maybe it s a bit racist, but thinking of her with a white guy is weird too. How can I forget this, or at least be OK with it? I know that I shouldn't have looked at the texts, but that's done and I can't forget it. My question is how can I be OK with it and not have it bother me. Better yet, is there a way I can forget it?

Question: My sister is a drug addict and hasn't talked to us since Christmas, could this be a sign she is using?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 06:43 AM PST

Question: How do I get my sister to stop neglecting her children?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 06:42 AM PST

She has three kids aged 6 to 12 and she always is dropping them off at her mother-in-law's house or with a babysitter. She and her husband travel on almost every weekend and the kids are usually with her mother-in-law who was widowed last March but I guess enjoys the kids. Meanwhile all week a babysitter gets them from school day care and helps them with homework as usually my sister and brother-in-law are out for dinner and then come home to tuck the kids in good night. So how do I get her to quit neglecting her kids? This past weekend I was really appalled when she took my brother's kids for an outing (they are 12 and 14) and not her own kids as her husband was away for the weekend. My brother's sons have no mother so I am glad she reached out but she has her own kids who should come first.

Question: My sister is not being helpful?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 06:41 AM PST

I'm a 20 year old single mom to my 4 year old son. My sister who's 17 did a very sweet thing in my time of need and offered to help me as much as she could, which is sweet, but she's really not helping. I don't really have a lot of rules, but I do know where to draw the line, she does not. Instead of being like a 2nd parent, she's his playmate and his defender against Mommy anytime I put down a rule. If he gets really mad, he'll pout and say things like " I wish I lived with Aunt Ally". Do I talk to her about this?

Question: What is the name of this movie/show/?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 06:15 AM PST

where a couple have sex in a museum and the morning after there a lot of kids watching them

Question: Im 13 and don't live with my parents?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 05:34 AM PST

my parents divorced since I was 5. i live with my dad. but he got married and i now live alone. is this normal? its been 6 months since i last spoke with him. im very awkward around him

Question: I think the mother of my father is my mother what do i do?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 05:28 AM PST

my fathers mother keeps feeding and helps gives me money she acts like my mother i think shes my mother because she talks to me like a mother and my "real" mother wont show me birth tape i think she hides something what do i do please?

Question: Parents keep shouting at me?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 05:16 AM PST

After i took parents to the doctors. I even took a day of to help parents schedule and a appointment. Every time i say something at home they tell me to shutup and follow the house rules. Every time i do something they tell me to hurry up i dont like how they keep doing that to me anytime i say something they threaten to kick me out of the house what can i do. I started healing from my walking and they said its not good enough i have to workout more till im tired and they force me to drink something when i ate a huge bowl of food. When i had 14days of returning a book they force me to drink something when i already did i need help.. My doctor said my parents never compliment me when i did house chores. I offer to pay for them, but they keep paying for me so i wont say nothing back. is this verbal abuse is there anyone for me to tell them to stop shouting at me if this happen again im going to record it and show it someone who could help me. I didn't even know i can do things better when i am putting effort into it. MY PARENTS NEVER COMPLIMENTED ME WHEN i do things well so i never react to it until my coworkers said i do really well when i react to things.. my parents keep shouting and speaking to me very loud with there high pitch voice and it made me struggle. when i gently step in moms room my brother shouted at me and i couldn't even ask mom a simple question he said its not the time to. Sometimes i dont even know if i say things right i need help......... SOMEBODY HELP ME.. THEY KEEP SHOUTING AT ME AND I FEEL THREATEN. I took my parents to the doctor when it was a working day Did you try reading it. I even paid 2,000 for house rent, that includes everything. Maybe i typed too much. I worked 60hours , paid house bills , supported mom , the doctor saw me and i went to work when it was stormy and my parents never drive me only on sunny days. When its rainy i went to work by myself.. Sometimes computer classes isn't part of school classes. Sometimes we make mistakes when we type. Off i meant I took a day off to help mom with her doctor stuff. I even paid for 2000, rent. Typing isn't for everyone . Not everyone have a high tech computer keyboard.

Question: Mother blamed us for something we didn't know. How to say sorry?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 05:10 AM PST

We all were called for dinner at 6.45± and we don't bring our phones so we left it at our rooms. My mother was out and she texted, called each of our phones to pick her up at 7pm but we were all eating. By 7.30pm, our dad opened his phone and saw all her messages and calls. He was shocked and ran to the car to come pick her. By the time they got back, she enters the kitchen and yelled like: "How did you all not know I called? Tell me your reasons!" Then we told her our phones were upstairs. She said, "What if it was an emergency? I would not be here by now. You all are always on your phone but why not now? Sometimes I wanna throw all your phones away. You guys only know how to ask for money." We didn't wanna piss her off so we shut up. She left and we were just shocked. I would NEVER EVER treat my mom like nothing and I most definitely don't ask her for money only. Od rather have her,love than money. She's giving the silent treatment now and I don't know what to do help?

Question: My parents are divorcing (and my mom is moving to a new country)?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 04:52 AM PST

My parents are involved in a messy divorce. My mom is German and will be moving back to Germany. My dad is staying in America (obviously). Since I have a duel citizenship and can speak German fluently, I will be living six months in each country. Half a year of not seeing my parents, friends, and pets seems really hard. I'm 16. What about holidays? My birthday? I'll have to make new friends in Germany and somehow keep my American ones. I also have a sister but she is under 12, so they are fighting for custody. Any suggestions?

Question: Does Palin cheat on her wonderful husband?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 04:20 AM PST

Question: Is it weird were so close? How do you think she felt seeing me that way? I felt bad for crying?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 04:19 AM PST

I'm 16. mom used to dance everyday Zumba with her 3 friends Dona & Elsa. I got really close with do as son, were still good friends, almost dated. I'm very close with both of them, but I'm closer with Dona. She's been there for me a lot, 16th birthday, homecoming crowning, supported me when I lost & gained my vision back etc. she's a very reserved person, after losing her husband & daughter 4yrs ago. But she's always super loving, caring to me, always giving hugs & laughing together, always happy, we have a special bond. Last year she quit Zumba due to fight she had with Elsa, so we don't see her anymore but I miss her so much, so I text her "have a great day!" Every know and then.. My grandma died a couple weeks ago & surprisingly Dona had came to her funeral, I was crying very hard & shaking, She came down the line hugging family, we she got to me I bawled out crying even harder when I saw her, Life seemed at its worst & to see her after months without her, I missed her so much.cit was overwhelming. She gave me the biggest/longest hug. She kept telling me that it's okay, it's okay to cry. It was a special moment, very hard & overwhelming. Days letter she would text me checking on me. Was it bad of me to cry more? How do you think she felt seeing me like that? Why are we so close? (Me & my mom are very close, there's nothing my mom lacks) I just want your opinion?

Question: Signs an elderly drunken father is trying to destroy a relationship so he can have somebody take care of him like a child?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 04:12 AM PST

Question: Would you let your young daughter, say, under ten years old, change in front of other kids her age, some of them boys?

Posted: 26 Jan 2016 02:29 AM PST