Family: Question: Would you rather have three sons or three daughters, and why?

Question: Would you rather have three sons or three daughters, and why?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 01:05 PM PST

Question: Are their any HOSPITALS that do WATER BIRTHS in/around Tennessee?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 12:51 PM PST

I don't need anyones negative opinions, just would like my question answered. Mostly looking around East Tn, West NC, POSSIBLY South Va.

Question: Father in law of chelsea clinton?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 12:43 PM PST

Question: There's a big problem in my family now. Should I encourage my mother to leave her current husband?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 12:40 PM PST

Last year, my stepfather's daughter was sent back by her foster family. Now she is constantly trying to stir up conflicts between the adults. In addition to that my stepfather's son, who is currently mentally unstable, has caused a lot of problems for his father. Now my stepfather has completely changed from a mild and friendly individual to a hostile adult. He forces my mother to do the housework, even if she is tired, and uses weapons like a knife to threaten her, if she refuses. Also, he is irascible and gets angry when he hears complaints from his daughter about my mother.

Question: Younger sister punishment?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 12:32 PM PST

want to punish her by tickling her. Her behavior is horrible. She is 16 and ticklish and she hit in our little sister who is 4 years old, today and i decided to punish her, for it and other bad behaviors. how long should i tickle her?? how can i pin her? how long should i tickle her? where should i tickle her ?(she is more ticklish in feet and less in neck) ? what is the best tool to tickle (feathers, hair brush, teeth brush, fingers, or other)? I talked with her too and nothing changed. I am her older brother.

Question: Help Me its important?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 12:32 PM PST

Ok so I was trying to tell my step brother something and we accidentally kissed and my step mum say and now she moved us away from each other and now we re in trouble help

Question: Would you let your 16/17 year old daughter (high schooler) go out of town with her boyfriend for a day?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 12:26 PM PST

Even travel to a different state. The boyfriend is older.

Question: Do you love your grandparents and would you but them nice clothes and go out for dinner often?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 12:19 PM PST

YES I know a black woman that help out her 67 year female grandparent. She lives with her in same house. She had a bachelors and master degree in IT field and make like 80,000 a year. She is in her early 40s. She is single and no kids. She buys her grandparent nice healthy food,cook for eat, eat out 3 times a week, buy her designer clothing, keep hair in style, and everything. she even kisses her before sleep and when wake up. Its like 2000 a month she spends on her. 9 years in the same house But this same black girl dresses too sexy in house. Open toe sandals, orange and red high high heels, orange fishnets, leotard, orange or blue makeup, keep her hair colored red/burgundy or orange type most of them time, orange colored finger and toenails, orange colored high heels. she walks around in the house in panties, thongs, or shorts, fishnet, leotard only. many times, she only wears a bra. she 170, big tight firm butt, moderate cellulite on butt/thighs, and work out often. besides sexy, she has orange and red handbag and designer wallet. She leaves her money out open on the table and dont hide nothing. she shares her income, bank account, taxes, and all financial information with her grandparent often. ON MANY OCCASIONS, she helps her grandparent bathe. her grandparent has also seen her bathe and use the toilet too. she is in her 40s and very sexy and attractive as a black woman. she wears a moderate fragrance. she drinks white or red wine too and white teeth about a year and half ago, she bough her granny a 1800 ring. her granny wears it often. she has internet access and satellite television. her relationship with her grandparent is good. when she goes to eat, she spends like 30 dollars on granny. she drinks wine all the time. she is talkative too when eating and dress her sexiest. as usually just her and granny and nobody else. Its very exciting. wonder how granny would feel if she departed. her sexy style has been no bother

Question: My mom is being mean to me, and she just keeps getting worse.?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 12:13 PM PST

It all started when I got home today. I asked my mom for soup for lunch and she replied "the only thing you care about if food" in a snotty way. And she told me to do the dish washer. I started playing music while I was doing dishes. She came in and told me it was crap I was listening to and she turned my music on, proceeding to play her music. I finished the dishwasher and I asked her if she needed help cooking and she replied in a mean way "no, because you do it wrong" I then told her I m taking a break and she said "yea, and your going into your room and cleaning." I just sat at my table and then she came in telling me "if you don t fill 3 garbage bags you won t have a room." I filled up two and I went up to tell her I did, she said using horrible attitude "I guess you need to fill more if your filling that fast" I asked why and she said "goodbye now" and now I m sitting in my room, crying because I don t know what I did. I m always treated like this. She never tweets my siblings this way. I m the only one that does chores in the house and my siblings don t have any. What did I ever do?

Question: How to let go of family and never look back?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 12:08 PM PST

23 (female) no friends, or anything. I been sheltered and isolated for a long time. No I'm not dumb to the world, I just always been controlled and broken down by a very dysfunctional family. I'm tired and ready to go. I have older siblings who treat me like ****, lie to everyone about me and give everyone passes to get off on me and use me as a punching bag. I am tired. I am awaiting for my tax refund, and then I will be moving to NYC for a job offer doing home health aide, and will also be attending college. They talk about how I will never have friends, no one will ever like me and threaten to tell nasty things about me. I'm tired. I sit, and I take it.... I want out. I hope that I will have my refund by next week and will be buying a bus ticket out to NYC. I plan to cut them off and just focus on my life! I just know that I will probably have to pay for this move. What if they come after me? what if they spread lies? How can I just move in and allow someone to love me? I'm so scared.... should I write a letter? Should I write a letter before I leave?

Question: My 5 yr old comes back angry from his dad's house?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 11:56 AM PST

Right now my son spends a wk at his dad's house and a wk at my house. When his dad drops him off, my son comes back angry and refusing to talk. However once he is here for a few hours he is back to his normal self. I do not understand this because when he spends his wk with me he is happy and always telling me he loves me, but when he is with his dad for his wk he comes back angry. Is there anything I can do? His dad and I have been broken up for a yr now and he has re-married. The things is that when my son is with his dad I am not allowed to talk to him or anything which makes it hard for me. His step mom also wont watch him so my ex's mom has to leave her house and watch my son. I don't speak badly of his father, but I dont understand why my son acts angry at me. Also one time I was going out in the evening to take out my garbage when I caught my ex, and his mom at my apt. complex. When I noticed them they said that they were just coming by to make sure I knew the child arrangement but they didn't text or anything, just showed up.

Question: My dad is a so rude and I hate him!1?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 11:51 AM PST

hi guys my father is a ******* idiot and I hate him he is with my mom but they always fight everyday but today my mother's friends came and when he came at like 8pm from work he came and greeted my mother's friends but he only looked at my mom and didn't say hello or anything and I was really embarrassed in front of my mother's friends and I was really sad to see them like that I asked my mother about the problem she said they just fought a little but I am sure they made a big problem or fight.... I really hate my father. this isn't the first time and I am so mad. I always think of talking to him but he is so rude and so harsh like if I talked to him and he didn't like what we are talking about he would begin saying bad words to me and my mom and all the neighbors would hear his voice by the way I am 15 years old and I am a guy so I really need to talk to him for my sake and for the sake of my mother. he tried to kill my mother once when he threw small hand statue and thanks to God my mother's friend was here and she saved her by putting her hand in the way..... he is rude and now I sleep with my father and my mom sleeps in my room with my sister and I hate it a lot nd I hate him. he once let my mother out the house and changed the lock till the neighbors talked with him and he changed the lock..... plz guys what can I do about this I am so worried..... I don't want them to get divorced and I wish we can buy an apartment... help!!!

Question: My parents won't let me wrestle because it's a "dirty sport"?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 11:39 AM PST

My Dad wrestled but he won't support me and my Mom has told me I will never set foot in a wrestling ring. Any evidence to prove I'm right?

Question: Why do siblings have to have the exact same?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 11:31 AM PST

I have two nieces, a 7 year old and 6 year old, and if one has something then the other has to have it too. The younger one found a headband and put it on then the older one saw she had it and started whining about wanting one too and that she had to have it just because her sister has one. We have to buy two of everything because they have to have the same and then they fight over what they have ("she has mine!!!" "Nuh uh! She has mine!!!" The toys are exactly the same) I was wondering if other siblings had to have the exact same things?

Question: How to make my son eat well?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 11:30 AM PST

He is 3 years old. He doesn t eat well and when I ask him to eat with us, he escapes. After some times he asks me only for mil. Drinking too much milk makes him constipated and that is a big problem. Also it is not a good idea to give him only milk. What do you suggest? What should I do?

Question: Is my stepdad aloud to do this?!?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 11:25 AM PST

So i went over my friends house for the weekend And he went through all my stuff so when i got home he took away my ps3 And And cable because my room wasnt clean And he said he wasnt going to Pick me up from school anymore. so i texted my sister And told her i dont need him. He saw the text And started hitting me he Also through the iPad at my face so i said he isnt my dad so he said leave so i went upstairs And then he punched me in my my mouth then he stopped because i was bleeding, yesterday when i tried to eat he said dont eat Anything because he bought it so now i cant eat. Btw he has been my stepdad for 12 years but hes always hit me And he tried to get rid of me by sending me to my dads And i can tell my mother is afrad of him. Am i the issue ?

Question: Can a minor decide which house they stay at if their parents are divorced?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 11:25 AM PST

So I m 14, and my parents are divorced. But I stay at my dad s Monday and Wednesday, and my mom s on Tuesday, Thursday and Friday. The weekends switch between them two. Do I have the right to not go to one of their houses? Like if I just only wanted to live at my dad s?

Question: Parents complaining about everything!?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 11:09 AM PST

My parents are so strict! They yell at me for everything I do and complain about everything I do! They also hit me and beat me. I love them with all my heart and I'm lucky to have a roof over me (since my parents are rich). But they get pissed if I get lower than an A+ (A- or A). When they ground me its for 4 months. And they ground me for the stupidest reason, like the 1st time I was grounded was when I was 6 and it was because I said this "I want to quit ice skating". And they treat me like a 10 year old, I'm 16 and they don't allow me to watch Twaimz, Miranda Sings, or Super Woman since they say I'm "too young", well I hate that rule I'm not gonna listen to it. My friends actually feel bad for me because my parents are strict (I don't talk bad about them, but my parents yelled at me in front of them). I'm tired of people saying "their house their rules" no I can do what I want to as long as I'm not hurting anyone. Also my neighbor is my age and he's so rude, he lies to my parents saying "I hurt him" after he beats me up but I didn't my parents believe him and then I'm grounded. How can I get my parents to be less strict yet give me the appropriate amount of freedom?

Question: How is it selfish and/or unnatural to not want kids?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 11:09 AM PST

Anything that exists in nature is natural. Nothing is unnatural, so there goes that bullshit argument. I don't want kids. I don't see how it's selfish for someone to not want children. Isn't it more selfish to have children just to mistreat them? I have abusive parents. A lot of people just aren't ready to breed and I don't think they'll ever be ready. Children would get in the way of my freedom and my future. I want to have a career and a life. I never liked the idea of having a traditional family. I want to have a job. I don't want to be stuck in a house all day taking care of annoying children. I can't have children because I want to be a baker. That means I have to start work as early as 3:00 or 4:00am. If I did choose to have children, I would be a way better parent than most people. I would actually make sure my kids were educated. I would actually teach them about the bad things in life and how to avoid lots of misery and suffering. I would be able to do this without abusing them, a thing most parents can't do. I also don't want to be a single mother and marriage just scares me (abuse, cheating, controlling, sexual diseases from cheating, etc.). Is it really that selfish to be a woman who chooses a job over kids? I asked this question because I want people to freak out and call me an immoral, evil, monster :)

Question: I am grounded for drug suspicion What to do and thoughts?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 11:06 AM PST

So my parents found a pill bottle that had Epsom salt in it and they questioned and thought it was either meth or bath salts. They asked where I got it from and I said I my friends gave it to me as a joke.... BIG MISTAKE. They then questioned me because they also found a lighter and empty spice bottle in my room. They said if i smoked weed or did bath salts they would send me to jail or if i failed their drug test I would go to jail. So I had to lie and because I didn't want to go to jail. So I said we were giving people the Epsom salt as a joke and then told them it was fake. And for the lighter I said We built a campfire at my friends house and burned his Christmas tree. They then said I shouldn't have any friends and should move to a more ghetto school with even more drug problems. They then said they were going to drug test me Which believe it or not I do smoke weed every once in a while but I am not too worried about that. Now I am grounded for about 4-5 months which means no phone, tv, computer, friends, xbox, and they are taking the door off my room. To be honest I don't think its that bad for what I did because I got grounded 6 months for porn 2 year ago. Should I be upset and how do I get out of this grounding if possible. btw I am 15

Question: My older brother raped me and he got away with it ?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 11:05 AM PST

my older brother sexually abused me when i was about 5 years old he was like 12 or something its been 13 years since this happened i kinda just turn the blind eye to the situation and continued to live my life and pretend it never happened but lately i cant stop thinking about it and how awful it was and the fact that justice was never made i was just a little girl i dont think i wanted that to happened i told my mom about it 2 years ago but we never spoken about since then (btw hes my half brother so hes my dad s son from another marriage) should i tell my dad about it ? or confront my older brother about it ? idk what to do

Question: My mom is going through a midlife depression?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 10:32 AM PST

My mother has been going through this midlife depression phase ever since I entered the 4th grade. I am in my later years of high school now and its worsening. I have a younger brother in 3rd grade and a younger sister in 8th grade and I don't know what to do about it. She doesn't want to go out with friends, she's always "sick", and her best friends are going through the same thing so they are either too busy or also "sick". Her bestest friend in the whole world lives really far away and she would do anything to see her again, but tbh, we are broke and so is she. With my college and my sister's field trips and my brother's growing self, everything costs too much money. There's no time, and really its just sad how this is the way things are. Is there anyway to make her feel better? I don't want to be the one to reccomend anti-deppresants.

Question: My 8 year old sister whines constantly and my parents don't do anything?!?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 10:32 AM PST

I am 16, my brother is 13, and my little sister is 8. My sister is horrible to be around: she immediately begins to cry and whine when she doesn't get her way, throws tantrums in public, and has the maturity of a 3 year old. My family is humiliated by her, but my parents aren't doing anything to stop her! They make empty threats, but never go through with them so she knows she can get away with it. If my brother and I had acted the way she did when we were that age, we would have been grounded from everything for as many times as we committed an offense. I understand that whining is age appropriate for very young kids, but she is in the second grade and still acts like this. My brother and I agree that she is out of control, but our parents never listen when we voice our concerns. "Be the bigger person; it was different when you were that age; she's just tired." But she acts like this every day!!! Please help! What should I do? PS- anytime I babysit her, she doesn't mind and just calls my mom to complain, but my mom doesn't do anything to stop that either.

Question: A Falcon killed a snake outside my house and my dad got extremely mad at me. Can I get some help on what just happened?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 10:28 AM PST

I know this is a ridiculous question but I saw a Falcon strangling a snake (a black racer I see around my house often) outside me house and I decided to watch it as I never seen anything like it. My dad came and saw what was going on an got super angry for me not going out and scaring the Falcon away to prevent it from killing the snake. Then, he grabbed a BBQ cleaner and hit me in arm and started cursing at me. I'm stumped right now trying to figure out what the hell just happened. I know it sounds funny but did I really do anything wrong in this case? My dad does this stuff to me all the time. It is part of nature, right? I was kind of scared because it was a snake and a huge Falcon outside my house, I've never seen anything like that before. Was there a reason for my dad to get so angry like that?

Question: Do u agree my boyfriends dad is creepy? He combs his hair 4 him and tucks his shirt?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 10:23 AM PST

We are 19. When my bf is ready to leave his house his dad zips his jacket, or tucks his shirt or straightens out his sleeves or even combs his hair flat. It's weird af.

Question: I got rapped at my dads work on take your kids to work day.?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 10:16 AM PST

So last wednesday, It was take your child to work day. My dad works at a plumber business and he asked me to go into the snack room and grab him a coke. There was a group of men inside the room and they offered me a drink. I woke up and they were on top of me and there were like 3 men. They put something over my head once I woke up and I couldn't see anything but I heard my dad and don't know if he rapped me but they put themselves in my mouth, in my butt, and inside my vagina. I kept hearing my dad saying "ooooh" and "ouch" and "yeah". I think it was him I think that he and his friends rapped me. What should I do?

Question: Have you ever felt this way ?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 10:10 AM PST

Like the black sheep of your family?

Question: Should I or my mom care what people may think she is doing ?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 10:04 AM PST

My mom just adored my husband Joe when we were married and she still adores him now after our friendly divorce. Joe is the ultimate fix it guy. When mom has a problem with her house, car, computer she will call Joe to come over and fix it. He comes over after work and solves any problem mom has. Sometimes he works late and mom insists he spend the night at her house. Joe never charges mom anything for the work he does for her. He has saved her hundreds or even thousands of dollars by his help. Mom loves to make him a great breakfast in the morning. My sister is worried that people will think mom is becoming a cougar by letting a single guy sleep overnight at her house. She is afraid they are having sex. When I asked mom about Joe spending the night, she said she feels so safe and protected when Joe is there. I KNOW FOR SURE they are NOT having sex as she considers Joe the son she never had. But even if they were having sex, if he is making mom happy, I am all for it. She deserves all the happiness she can get. Should I care if other people think mom is becoming a cougar? Am I thinking straight? Advise please.

Question: I feel like I'm not loved by my mom enough.?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 09:51 AM PST

When I try to hug her, she pulls away, walks away, or doesn't even hug me back sometimes. She'll act like she's busy when she isn't. If I show her something on my phone, sometimes she'll just look at it, but if my brother shows her the same thing, she'll laugh her äss off. I feel like I can't even talk to my own mother about my problems. Ever since I was a little girl, she'll always end up yelling at me and won't try to see things from my point of view. If I try to tell her how I feel, she'll get angry at me.

Question: Can you get cash backo on cedit card purchases?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 09:28 AM PST

Question: How to keep people from looking at my computer screen?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 09:25 AM PST

I am at a friends house with my computer and his little brother keeps getting in my space and looking at my screen. I can't tell him to stop because his parents think he is a little angel and he would cry and his parents would yell at me or my friend. I absoulutly hate having people near me or in my space. How can I get this to stop?

Question: How do you deal with a nosy and intrusive mother-in-law?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 09:12 AM PST

I'm a single and widowed mom, and I have four children. My former mother-in-law seems to think that she has the right to stick her nose into my private life. I've told her to mind her own business, but she says that she has a right to know, since I'm single and dating someone. She says she has to "protect" her grandchildren. Protect them from what? My children are safe and very well taken care of. Beyond that she doesn't need to know anything.

Question: Whys my dad like girls more than boys? I don't get it?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 09:11 AM PST

He's likes my sisters more than me. He has blatently said girls are less hassle than boys. That's such BS cuz wait til they get older. I hope they all get pregnant at 12 and live in a trailer park. He is so much nicer to them. Like one is 5 and he buys her a lot of stuff and treat her like she is so special. Like my uncle has a tattoo of a vagina and my dad is like "put your shirt back on blah blah, theres little girls in this house blah blah and they can't see that tattoo." I saw it all the time!! I just thought it was an alien. It's just his example of his negligence. Like the 5 year old isnt allowed to play in the yard alone. I have to sit out there and watch her if my parents are busy. I played in the yard alone. I remember cuz I used to leave the yard and go on the street. I think he wanted me to get hit by a car. I think he still does want that to happen. He wasn't even around when I was younger half the time. Like he was gone for like 4 months every year until I was like 8. But with these he take them everywhere with him. Whys he act like they so special Cuz he answers that they less hassle but that's not true!!

Question: Should I tell my Mother that my Father has another woman?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 09:04 AM PST

This year I found out that my Dad has another woman. My parents are in their sixties and have been married for close to 30 years. About 16 years ago my father moved to another country for work. My mom would fly to see him every month or so. Last year he retired and moved back home and so they are now living under the same roof after 16 years. From what I can tell, my father has been with this 40 year old woman for more than 8 years and It seems like my father has no intention of leaving my mother nor ending it with this woman. My mother who still works will have a business trip in march and my father is planning to either fly to meet the other woman or fly her to him during this time. I feel that by not telling my mother that I am betraying her but if I tell her It would cause her a lot of pain. I am thinking that as my dad approaches 70 this thing will resolve on it's own taking into account that I know he wont leave my mother. He also does not know that I know about this and the other woman does not know he is married. This knowledge is starting to affect me in some ways and there are days that I want to tell someone. My parents are in retirement age and my dad is spending money on this woman which I find hard to swallow. I've thought about telling the woman that my dad is married but I am not sure. Any advice would be appreciated.

Question: My mum is a hoarder?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 08:55 AM PST

we all love her very much, but she's a huge hoarder! We live in a 6 bedroom house 1 for my parents and one each for all 5 kids. Now my oldest sister who moved out just after christmas. She wanted to have her last christmas in this part of town with us. since she left her bedroom has been cleared out because she took her stuff with her. that room was completely empty after she had gone. Now, my mom is in this facebook group called "Free Things in Fleet" and I went on her phone while she was out at the store (Shouldnt of done, I know" but her Facebook notifications were filled with notifications from that group. and her messages from people saying "When can you collect the ____" she comes home 2 nearly 3 hours later from work with shopping bags full of stuff she got for free from people around the area. how do i get her to stop? I think the problem is now my sister is gone the room is empty and she wants to fiil it up

Question: Do parents have a right to force their adult child to gave them his/her spare key?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 08:55 AM PST

Do parents have a right to force their adult child to gave them his/her spare key? (If the child lives separately, of course) What if the adult child would rather leave the spare key with someone else that's not family-related?

Question: I cannot stand my in-laws.?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 08:53 AM PST

They are good people. They take care of me and everything and never talked abusively to me anytime. They are super nice. And thats my problem. They take way too much care. They pay way too much attention which i do not like. It annoys me that with them around i have to pretend sometimes. All my mother in law does is gossip and I hate gossips. We have nothing in common to talk about and she wants me call her and talk to her all the time. My mother in law ans sis in lawalways ask a lot of questions and want to know more in detail about every little thing which i hate coz i am a private person. My father in law is always advicing me and i hate advices. And all they want us to do is have kids which i hate. I am always pretending to be nice around them and thats killing me. Need some advice

Question: My sister copies every single thing I do?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 08:48 AM PST

Ok so my younger sister copies everything I do. She downloads every song I own and I have around 500. She buys all the same clothes I own and then sneakily rubs it in my face that she also has the same thing as me or copies something I do. My parents don't care about it at all. She found out the password to my phone one time while I was asleep and wrote down all the songs and apps and shows I had and it's really annoying. She tries to be friends with my friends and she even copies my friends too. When she plays dolls she will give them the same names as my friends and it's creepy. She copied me with anime too and it's not all even appropriate for kids! She watches so many shows that swear and are not okay and only watches it since I do. I want to be my own person more than anything else in the world and I have had my own style for so long. I don't follow crowds or like things most kids do. I know who I am and what I want to be and I stay true to myself but I feel like all the time I spent trying to be original is wasted because now someone has stolen it all. Please do not say copying is the best form of flattery or she loves you because that's the only answer I get from anyone. She has copied me since the day she was able to. She types in the same way I do, she uses the same emojis I do, she copies my hairstyle and wants it cut the exact same way. I have dealt with this for so long and I just need some real solutions so please help me.

Question: My parents insult my makeup and say I look like a whore? Is this emotional abuse?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 08:35 AM PST

I'm 16 and I love playing around and experimenting with makeup. I spend most of my money from my weekend job on makeup. I love watching YouTube tutorials and makeup reviews. I used to have my own YouTube channel but had to delete my channel due to death threats (yes death threats over makeup). My parents are so critical. They say my makeup makes me look like a whore. They say I should be studying. It's a hobby! Perhaps a career since I'd like to be a make up artist. My brother spends his time skateboarding and they never complain about that when he could be studying. They're threatening to take away my makeup because they think it will lead to teen pregnancy. What can I do? They're driving me insane. I don't believe I look like a whore. Sometimes it's heavy eye makeup but that's the kind I don't leave the house in. I just do that for fun. The YouTube people didn't call me a whore. What happened is I'm half-asian and in one video I said I was using eye makeup in a certain why to reduce the chinkiness in my eyes. Some commenters went crazy with accusations of racism despite me being PART ASIAN. The commenters werent Asian themselves! They were mostly white. It was crazy.

Question: How do I show someone that talks **** behind my back that I heard what they said and it hurt?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 08:16 AM PST

It's a family member.

Question: I smacked my 14 year old son in the face?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 08:11 AM PST

Last night i smacked my 14 year old son in the face, because he came home with a gang tattoo. His dads in jail for distribution of narcotics. I live at home in Juarez, with my 14 year old son. He's playing up. I found a joint in his drawers and he's always out late at night, he never answers his phone and doesn't tell mw where he's at. I stay up late wait for him, and when he comes back he's high from something. He doesn't tell me anything. Last night, he came home, he had his shirt off and he had a huge tattoo, like his dads, on his chest. And i hit him. I don't know why i did it, truly. This morning there is no marks on his face, my ring caught his face and its scratched, but nothing bad. how can i resolve this behavior. My husbands in jail so its me that has yo deal with him. My husband thinks he's the best kid in the world and i don't want him to know what his sons been doing. Can i sort this myself, or should i tell my husband? Anybody have any advice? I'm 29. English, isn't my best language. my 1st language is spanish so sorry for any mistakes

Question: Why is my dad always mad at me?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 08:02 AM PST

My dad gets mad at me like, all the time. For example when that one time I said something (that I know was a fact because I learned about that at school) but he got mad at me and snapped at me, only because he thought I wasn t right. I tried telling him that I got to know about that at school just today, but it made him only more angry. When he s upset at me, he s sometimes mad at mum too, but other than that he s cool with his friends and family. What should I do? I don t quite know if asking my teacher or anyone at school for help is the best idea, since I know I can get taken away from my parents, and I would like to still live with my mum...

Question: Can I keep my car?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 07:50 AM PST

My dad gave me a car for my seventeenth birthday I m bout to turn eighteen and as soon as the first issue arises I will be telling the to go f themselves and I m gone. But my question is that my dad bought the car but the title and insurance is in my name he has the title tho and threatened me to sign it into his name or try and force me to do so. Don t give me any crap like your to young to leave home or listen to your parents and I would like to refrain from going to court about somthjng little like this

Question: How would you interpret this?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 07:46 AM PST

My fiance's sister and I have had our differences but lately we have been cool. Never really any big problems . and usually she would come to me about things before her brother . anyway now she only texts him and says she has a gift for our daughter but will only bring it if my fiance is here. I don't get it...does she seem angry at me?

Question: Are a good portion of adults still as immature as teenagers are?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 07:46 AM PST

I never realized how ignorant and cocky my parents were until I learned to think for myself...like they will never take blame when it's their fault and they judge others all the time. Seriously, teenagers at my school are even more mature than them. I just don't know how grown adults can still act that way?

Question: Why does my dad get so angry?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 07:39 AM PST

So my dad gets angry for little things. He goes mental and he can't control himself. Once I was having a water fight with my cousin and he comes out and says I can't have one wen he said I can and he always blames everything on me it's so annoying! Then wenever I call him he's always blanking me and not listening. He never sits down in one place and he's always walking around the house! I Havnt been on a airplane and I'm 13! I Havnt even been London and I'm in the uk because of him. He has some wierd thinkings aswell. Wen I'm ill and he asks me if I'm okay and if I say no he starts ranting that his brothers are doing black magic on me and him and making us ugly. He says that they are talking to him.because of my dad I Havnt seen his side of the family for ages and now we hardly talk!

Question: Full siblings, half-siblings and step-siblings...what's the difference?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 07:34 AM PST

Question: Why did my Dad s side reject me and my Mom? What should I do?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 07:24 AM PST

I hate to post a question to offend anyone. My dad is Puerto Rican and my mom is an African American but I look my mother. Besides the point, We had all went to a family get together that my uncle was having, but everyone avoided me and my mom and kept saying "who are those black girls?" I had to spend the entire time with my mom and uncle since they were the only ones who would talk to me. What should I do about this?

Question: Child Abuse????

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 07:11 AM PST

Well, I stole money from my dad so my dad let his close friend handle us because my dad was to mad to do it. Me and my brother are 15 and 16 the man is 38 6 ft 230 pounds he started punching my brother in the stomach hard multiple times maybe about 5 and then picked my brother upside down and slammed him on the head thats when my brother got stunned let his guard down so he punched my brother very hard in the stomach and my brother started gasping for air but he punched him 4x after that while he was still gasping! My brother was reaching for me. Then he grabbed me and threw me on my head so hard i saw a bright light then he started punching me like 5x i was yelling "my head, my head" while trying to block with my legs and feet so he grabbed my leg and twisted it. My dad said enough thats when the man stopped. He even told my dad the more he does it the more "hype" he gets. I usually don't report these but I dont want him to get away the way he did my brother.

Question: Why do parents tend to blame the oldest sibling for the younger sibling's actions?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 07:08 AM PST

I'm a female with two younger brothers and to be honest, I don't enjoy it as much. It's because I had no female friends growing up and no females my age to play with. I would also get in trouble a lot at school and I would take the majority of the emotional/physical abuse my father dished out to me. Middle school was the worse for me. As cruel as the kids were in 10-12th grade, middle school was basically hell. I would get suspended from school a lot and got kicked out of 2 private schools. My mother would go on and on about how much of a bad example I was for my brothers and be happy they aren't following me, despite the fact that they are only 1-2 years younger than me. Even when I'm 23, my mother is STILL trying to blame me for my brothers actions, despite the fact that they are 20 and 21. Also, I know two males who are even worse role models for their younger siblings than I was, but I rarely see people nagging them about that. One of them is my father. He had domestic violence charges, starts drama, has SERIOUS anger issues, and even went to jail. He even always abused me and (sometimes) my younger brothers. The others is a boy who would get bad behaviors from school everyday and even dropped out of school and went to jail. He got his GED. Yet even his parents weren't harsh on me like my parents were. So how come those guys can be bad examples for their siblings, but not me?

Question: How do you deal with a relatives who is nosy and snoops through your stuff?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 07:00 AM PST

My dad passed away recently. One of my relatives has gone into the house, snooped around, taken stuff and brought stuff to us to sort through. We are very upset about this. It's our estate, and we need to go through it ourselves. If anything ends up lost or missing, there will be consequences. What can we do to get this relative to respect us and our belongings without hurting the relationship?

Question: At what age are children too old to be spanked by the parents?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 06:55 AM PST

If you are a wussy liberal moron who does not believe in physical discipline on children then do not bother answering my question.

Question: How can I get my dad to allow me to move to Florida to live with my sister?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 06:54 AM PST

Hey, I'm LeAnn, In July of 2016 I will be 14 and I want to move in with my sister in Florida because I will be starting Freshman year and my mom is going to be moving to Florida during my sophomore year and I don't really enjoy switching schools I have already been to 6 different schools and I am only in 8th grade. I have already lived in Florida once but only for 5 months in 6th grade and I didn't really give it a chance. The problem that I am having is that my dad basically said no, my mom said that I could and my sister said that I could live with her. My sister is in her 20's and has 2 kids they are 4 and 5. I think that my dad said no because my sister moves around a lot but I don't think that she will be doing that, that much once her kids are in school. I have tried everything with my father and I finally got him to agree to talk with my sister about it but I really just want to set it in stone. Anyone have any ideas? Please help.

Question: Why does my older half brother always rat on me and thinks it's a funny thing ?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 06:27 AM PST

I have 4 older half brothers ,and when ever I mess up they figure it would be a good idea to tell everyone about what I've done , and this really bothers me because I'm very sensitive I'm trying not to give a **** anymore but it's hard

Question: Saw my grandma picking her nose how do I eat stuff she cooks now ? I can't.?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 06:24 AM PST

Question: Child abuse?????

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 06:21 AM PST

me and my brother stole money from my dad so my dad let this 6 ft 230 pound guy beat us. he started punching my brother in the stomach hard then picked him upside down and slammed him on the head so my brother was stunned then he punched him in the stomach 4 times while he was gasping for air then he grabbed me punched me in the stomach about 3-4 times then picked me up and threw me on my head (we have a tiled floor) so i started yelling he punched me more and then twisted my feet because i tried to block with them. the man is 38 im 15 my big brother 16. how do i report this? can i even report it? would u call this child abuse my ribs are also bruised idk what kinda injuries my brother suffered

Question: Do U think incest is still wrong even when it's consensual and everything?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 06:11 AM PST

Like if both ppl R siblings but they R attracted to each other, is that really that bad?

Question: Why does my dad do this?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 05:31 AM PST

I'm fifteen, homeschooled, my dad and I really never talk. I've caught him snooping through my bedroom about three times now. I don't really have access to drugs, I'm single, and prefer being left alone therefore I don't have many social connections. I'm currently not employed due to being busy with school. He always acts " caught " when I find him and tries to distract me from the fact that he was just looking through my drawers with a flashlight. Is this a normal " dad thing " or is this weird?

Question: How do i convince my parents to have a later curfew?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 05:29 AM PST

i only go out on fridays and i have to be at home by 8pm. all my friends also go out durung the school days and they consider a 10pm curfew early while i'd be happy if my curfew was 10pm. ive done a lot of bad stuff in the past which caused my parents not to trust me and im sure im not a good teenager ive tried drugs ,ran away but i think its all because my parents have always been overprotective ..so how do i convince them to allow me to go out more and stay out later? well they probably would let me go out on a school day but if i go out more than once a week they get all suspicious that im drinking or doing drugs or hanging with a bad crowd..

Question: Is my dad mentally ill?

Posted: 31 Jan 2016 05:24 AM PST

Alright so yesterday my mom and my dad had a huge argument and no one did nothing wrong. He just exploded. My mom was just talking normally about work and he was like "yeah yeah shut up" completely random. And later the night he got pissed cause my brother was apparently using the computer too much and he blamed it on my mom. He gave her the keys and yelled "THE HOUSE IS YOURS NOW" and for 2 days he has been living downstairs. He says he hates her and doesn't want her anymore. I think he might be very bipolar because he makes quick and irrational choices often. One moment he was looking at a Fiat and legit 15 minutes after he just walked into the Audi shop and bought a car... I know that he was tortured when he was young but i have no idea how. We don't talk about it because he always gets weird and stops talking the whole day. I know he has seen people getting shot and he was once doused in gasoline and threatened to get lit on fire. My dad is from Iran and was sent to prison because he protested against the government. When his mom died nobody told him for a year and was never at her funeral and he is still angry at his family for doing this to him. He has thrown things before and broke a chair (i don't remember why) but it was again and argument with my mom and him. My mom said she might want a divorce because she doesn't want a marriage where there is now love. So what could be wrong?.