A couple of months back me and my boyfriend had just had sex, after I jokinly asked if he wanted to go again. He said that he actually could and turned me around but I said no and that I was joking, he entered me anyway and I said no again. He caried on but only stopped a couple minutes later once he noticed I was crying. I was scared and didn't fight back, I didn't know what to do apart from cry. When he did stop though he just sat there and watched me cry, I was 15 at the time and he was 16. He then said that he didn't realise that I didn't actually want it. I didn't tell anyone because I didn't want to get him into trouble but it was troubling me for months but I had no one to talk to that wasn't an adult. He told me that none of my friends wanted to be friends with me and I belived him, so I had no friends either. It wasn't until after we broke up a couple of weeks back that I found out that this was a lie, so becuase I was mad at him for isolating me from my friends I threatned to tell them about what happened. But before I could do anything he told them that I was going to lie to them about him rapeing me. So now I don't know what to do, I'm scared to tell anyone what happened becuase he's said that I'm going to lie about it but I need someone to talk to that isn't an adult that'll make me report it. But the sad thing is that I loved him and didn't see what a horrible person he his. Every time we fought it was always my fault becuase I was making him stressed and becuase I kept messaging him. I always felt like nothing I did was ever good enough, I spent £60 on him for his birthday but all I got in return was a tantrum because I wouldn't let him have it early. He was always so ungratful for everything, and he also kept guilt tripping me to always get his own way. He's 17 yrs old btw....

I m part time at a retail store, and I work very hard at my job. I mostly do freight at work and a lot of the time come home with severe foot pain and lower back stiffness... I m also very short, so I have to do a lot of reaching and climbing... so obviously I rest on my days off, especially since most of the girls there are lazy and I tend to pick up the slack when stocking. (Not my choice, but it looks good to the managers..) The problem is; My dad is dating a manager of another store, who happens to be best friends with the manager at my store. So when I decide not to answer the phone when they want me to work my off day, she calls her, who calls him and he calls me. If I give the "no sorry I m not available today", another round of calling happens. I feel like she s using this against me because I buckle under pressure. But instead, I m infuriated that this has turned into a "I ll tell your father", like I m a child. Which makes me even more upset because I am an adult, and have little to no relationship with him for him to even call me like he does when she does this. The question is, what do I even do about it? My self righteous father wants to impress his girlfriend by impressing my manager like I m a dog learning a trick. And my manager uses it to her advantage and makes me work on my off days. I know I sound like I m complaining, but I do not get paid enough for this to affect my home life.

There was a time I used to daydream that I'd become a great leader. But now I work as a random spoke in a large company. I never had the blessing of a true friend. All of them used me to get what they want and weren't there for me when I wanted. Although my parents have shown love despite the embarrassment and humiliation that they have caused onto me, I often feel like ending my life. All the women in my life have only created an impression that they are opportunists--tagging along with guys having loads of money. It is a sick world that I am living in. I've gotten bored of everything in life. I did weed, alcohol, hookers, ... but never fell prey of anything. By exploring things, I wonder why am I even here. I hate my life and feel like ending it.

There is this 44 year old guy who is new at my job he stares at me a lot. I'm only 18 soon going to be 19!! Like what in the world!!???

For the past several weeks, me and this other woman kept staring at each other at work. I figured she was in a relationship when I saw a ring. I thought she was engaged. One day when I sitting behind her, someone asked her was she engaged. She kept saying "oh no, we re not engaged. This ring you see on my finger is what I brought." However, someone she knew told me that her boyfriend brought the ring. If this is case, why did she lie if she did lie? I am not sure if this source that told me is liable or not.

B4 my hubby & I got married his family loved me specially my MIL! All of a sudden we got married &BOOM! They all hated me.I'm always respectful &nice to them. I don't know y the sudden change. She try's to get me jelious in any way possible. I mean it dn't work bcse she's his mother but it does kind of get annoying when she calls him all these name I usually call him. I feel like she's like that& has this weird way of showing her love to him because he looks exctly like his biological father tht she was deeply in love with but he ended up leaving her for another women. Idk sometimes I think it's just me trippn but other people have told me they see it to. She also ALWAYS makes him choose between me &her. We were planing his 21st bday (something small bcz we live in an apt) for him &She calls him to a ask if he want his step dad and uncle to go &he said no bcz he doesn't want alcoholics there since my fam is going as well so he didn't want any problems. When his dad gets drunk he starts problems.I guess she got offended & told him a lot of crap about my fam which she dsn't even kno. She starts telling him, " idk y u dn't want them there if u grew up with alcoholics (keep in mind my husband rarely drinks & dn't want to drink anymore) but it's ok celebrate your birthday with her perfect family ¬ ur ****** up alcoholic family. He felt so bad so he decided to cancel it. It's like what did my family have to do with her family my family isn't even perfect? Wht should I tell her?

any idea how can I change a person from turning their dark world into light in order to change their ways of life to make it better? please help! Darkness=greed, uncaring, pleasure, anger, depression Light=love, happiness, bravery, kindness, loyalty laughter

This is just one story, there are lots. I want to know if I'm over reacting. He always brings his friends over, but I can't seem to bring my friends over. He said that if I brought a friend over he would just be twiddling his thumbs because he won't have anything to do, yet he puts me in that situation all the time. Last night I was going to bring a friend over but he really didn't want me to and he called me an hour before she was supposed to arrive, asking if we can reschedule because he wanted to spend time with me and not my friend. She didn't end up coming because she was busy and then his friend came over. Then in the morning the same friend came over, with another friend too. So I was in the other room waiting for them to leave because I'm sick of just sitting there with nothing to do because they are all busy smoking up and talking about things I can't relate to

My mom's best friend is my godmother. She has three kids. Are they my godsiblings?

He has a DTR that needs a lot of attention, she gets jealous of me and I m his girlfriend he can t get me flowers with her complaining on how he didn t get her flowers... She s 21 and she s not in college loves to party, she wants her father to provide a certain life style for her, and he doesn t want to disappoint her as a parent but she s 21 living with a deadbeat boyfriend who does nothing for her, She wants to live with her dad and have him provide for her and the life style to her liking... he has his way of parenting but at 21 is he still suppose to be raising her? Provide a lifestyle for her? I don t know what to say to him. We don t live together and he wants to live together.. But how could we if he s gotta provide a lifestyle for her... Should I call this relationship quits?

We dated for about 3 months. In the last week of the relationship, we went on a trip together. 3 days later, she wanted to sleep over my parent's house with me for the first time. Then the next day, I went to her parent's house (for the first time) for a Christmas party. I met 20 of her family members. Everything was going well. She then was making plans for New Years with me and her. We went out on New Years (even slept together). But the very next morning she ended it. Not giving me a real reason why. I have not texted her (but she texted me once or twice), I do not comment or like anything on her Facebook, I do not look at her snapchat stories (but she always looks at mine) and now she deleted me off Facebook after 2 weeks of the Break Up. She still has my cousins and friends on it. Did she delete me to move on? Should I also delete our pictures on my Facebook?

What's your opinion? I'm 16. mom used to dance everyday Zumba with her 3 friends Dona & Elsa. I got really close with do as son, were still good friends, almost dated. I'm very close with both of them, but I'm closer with Dona. She's been there for me a lot, 16th birthday, homecoming crowning, supported me when I lost & gained my vision back etc. she's a very reserved person, after losing her husband & daughter 4yrs ago. But she's always super loving, caring to me, always giving hugs & laughing together, always happy, we have a special bond. Last year she quit Zumba due to fight she had with Elsa, so we don't see her anymore but I miss her so much, so I text her "have a great day!" Every know and then.. My grandma died a couple weeks ago & surprisingly Dona had came to her funeral, I was crying very hard & shaking, She came down the line hugging family, we she got to me I bawled out crying even harder when I saw her, Life seemed at its worst & to see her after months without her, I missed her so much.cit was overwhelming. She gave me the biggest/longest hug. She kept telling me that it's okay, it's okay to cry. It was a special moment, very hard & overwhelming. Days letter she would text me checking on me. Was it bad of me to cry more? How do you think she felt seeing me like that? ..

http://time.com/3422624/report-millennials-marriage/ Those stats aren't painting a pretty picture of marriage and economics for millenials, so it seems odd, at least to me, that any millennial is still even interested in marrying or just dating anymore. Why is that? All a serious question, by the way. And yes I get that divorce happens in all classes but the poor are the ones who have it the worst by far. The poorer you are the less and less likely your marriage or relationship works plain and simple

I can't find a way to ask him... I am curious because the first thought that came, was that he was cheating. That is the only reason I can think for the use of a condom this late in a relationship.

He has a DTR that needs a lot of attention, she gets jealous of me and I m his girlfriend he can t get me flowers with her complaining on how he didn t get her flowers... She s 21 and she s not in college loves to party, she wants her father to provide a certain life style for her, and he doesn t want to disappoint her as a parent but she s 21 living with a deadbeat boyfriend who does nothing for her, She wants to live with her dad and have him provide for her and the life style to her liking... he has his way of parenting but at 21 is he still suppose to be raising her? Provide a lifestyle for her? I don t know what to say to him. We don t live together and he wants to live together.. But how could we if he s gotta provide a lifestyle for her... Should I call this relationship quits?

Was it consensual? Was it forced/rape? Who was it with? Was the baby born healthy? I've read about a brother-sister couple in Spain who have been living in a spousal relationship for over 35 years who had two healthy children together. Constructive comments only please. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Col7ndyEr7Y

I am a sarcastic funny guy if you know me and for people who don't I am a werid person and awkward I wanna be a fun person and fun to hang out with

My mom told me a couple of days ago, she would kill me if I have a crush on a boy. I would never date a boy. Even if I want to talk to my mom about it, she would still kill me.

So i met a man at work, he is new at my facility, and we instantly clicked. Ater talking and getting to know eachother we decided to try things. Well he is married and going through a divorce. I seen the papers and made sure she knew that i was in his life before we even tried to date. Long story short, 2 months in i find out he never filed the papers. His lawyer told him to wait until she got a job so she couldnt try to claim alimony. A couple weeks after, i found out he had been texting her telling her he wants to working things out and be back down there with her. He made so many plans with me, thats why im so confused. He made us so public, and he was even flying my back home to meet his family. Ive talked to them on the phone, so its not like i was a secret. About 3 days before he was supposed to fly back home we broke things off because he couldnt belive he hurt me so bad.. we continued talking and working on things, and then he flew back home and we were fine the first day, then everything fell apart. I found out he was with her and then his phone got disconnected. He has to go court because of her, the last time he was down there he yelled at her for calling me bunches of names and other stuff, so she pressed domestic violence charges on him. Im scared that he wont follow through when he said he was going to go through court then file his papers, and im terrified that even though he said it, he isnt going to come back to me.. and i think im pregnant..

Is it time to end it? We ve been together for 7 months, and I ve been upset for about 3 at least. We are 21. He still lives at home and has to babysit his 4 year old sister all the time- Friday and Saturday nights are what frustrate me the most. I m 40 minutes away at college, so the weekend is the perfect time, and the normal time, to get together. But his babysitting means no dinner and a movie or anything normal. His parents work so that he has to babysit from 9:30-10:30 5 nights out of the week- at least! He never communicates when he has to babysit and it always becomes an issue. It s the only thing we fight about but we fight a LOT. I am upset/angry/sad at least as much as I am happy. I ve even tried babysitting with him but I don t agree with the parents rules of "let her do what she wants and she can stay up all night." Keep in mind he brought her everywhere and on all of our dates the first three months we dated before I said it bothered me. It know it IS his sister, not his kid. I told him his communication is lacking and I need more time from him-but it isn t getting better. He doesn t seem to understand or be willing to make improvements. He also planned to move out with me and said he was until his parents threatened if he did they d cut him off and never talk to him again. I love him. I don t love his family or communication. I m also in professional school so this is very distracting. What can I or should I do about this? Should I break up with him?

I had became friends with this guy about half a year ago. i always had a crush on him. roughly around 2 months ago he talked me a little more but then "friendzoned" me when he was under the assumption that i liked him. about a week ago, he suddenly became extremely flirty. and even over text he had told me he wanted to kiss me. after that night, he stopped talking to me for several days and ignored my texts. but last night, he had told me that we needed to have a serious talk and apologized for leading me on and that he only liked me as a friend. i asked him if he only liked me as a friend then why did he do it in the first place, and all he said was "i don't know" i really don't think he's telling the truth, but i could be in denial. what do you think?

I mean hes not committment ready. Get your sht straight and GO move the hell on. Why do thry need to have so much time "aline" doing other stuff...theyre with other people..then he wants to come around, again. Not in 20 years , now. ..typos..*

You wake up at 5 am to find your pregnant wife crying in the bathroom. This is not a common or typical behavior. After hugging her and waiting for her to stop crying you start to get ready for your usual sunday routine of playing games at your buddy's house. She asks you to stay home with her for a little bit. Do you A) Text your friends saying.you'll be late, and go later? Or B) Refuse, and spend the next 12 hours at your friends house? She's 35 weeks and was worried about everything about to happen. Aborting my son isn't an option, sorry champ

He was my sweet boy until about 2010. He was making his music in a band and a good kid but went through a breakup and ever since he's been getting more and more rude. He doesn't seem to care about most people besides himself. He's egotistical and overall becoming a bad person. I still love him but I just need to know what to do. Please help me. -a concerned parent Xx

I'm 21 and I've been with my amazing bf for 2 years now.(American Christian) I'm Arab and have converted to Christianity (it was for me not my bf & i love it) but I was raised Muslim by my parents. They wouldn't agree to what I've done and would see it as utter betrayal. They say they will never accept anything but an Arab Muslim boy for me to marry and are very racist. They hate when my black friends come over, don't like white people much either. My parents disgust me, they are complete hypocrites and my dad is the biggest liar you'll ever meet. My parents and boyfriend are in two completely seperate worlds in my mind and wouldn't ever get along. But I do have family I love. How can I be happy when I have to give up one side? How can I make them see the good? It's like I'm living a double life. I just want us to be one big happy mixed family.

I have a girlfriend that lives in the Philippines and I live in the United States. We met last month on a dating site, we never actually met in person. But do Skype all the time, we have different time zones, my nights are her days. So out monthaversary is the 25th and in the Philippines it is now the 25th and here in the USA, it's still the 24th. So she is mad at me because I was helping someone with a repair at 12 pm today and I didn't get a chance to send her a happy monthaversary message.. I was waiting until 12 am here for it to be the 25th. So now she is mad.. It it really all my fault? I honestly didn't mean it..

We had a big fight, and I went home for the night (we currently don't live together, but are looking to get a place together, and he's looking at rings). The next day his phone kept going off. I checked it, thinking it could be an emergency. It was texts from a number that wasn't saved. The texts read "Are you still interested?", "Wanna meet up tonight?", "Let me put a smile on your face", etc. Any previous texts with this number, he deleted. I googled the number to see if I could find anything. It was linked to a girl's hookup/prostitution ads. When he got back, I confronted him, he originally denied it, until I demanded his phone to text the number back. That's when he confessed to contacting this girl. He claimed he was upset do to lack of sex. He said he had no intention of going through with it, but I don't know if I should believe that. I feel heart broken. He says I should look at this as him proving how much he loves me, since he says he couldn't go through with it. The fact that he even contacted her in the first place makes me feel betrayed. I tried questioning him about the actual conversation the two of them had, but he doesn't want to discuss it. He just wants to drop it. I'm afraid to trust him now. I can't help but think "What if I didn't see those texts?", "Would he have gone through with it?", "Would he have kept it a secret?". I don't know how to handle this. Should I break up with him, or forgive him? How do I even begin to forgive this betrayal.

So this is an assignment for English and were supposed to rank the choices other classes suggested. I don't know how to rank them because for me it's hard to choose plus I'm supposed to explain why i chose it and why I ranked it 1st, 2nd, etc. I just want people's opinions so it'll help me figure out what I think is most important and why! ): pls help thanks. These are the choices: - Honesty -Humor - Intelligence -Kindness and if they are Attractive.

So I teach mixed martial arts three times a week, and theres this one girl who always seems to worry about her weight. And lately ive noticed her uniform getting baggy on her. I confronted her dad about it and he said i was just seeing things and nothing was to worry about. And as far as i can tell, hes very careless about her and for her. Theres a back room used for conferencing and tracking like your progress and stuff. But i mean, theres a scale back there too. Do you think it would be inappropriate to ask her to weigh herself once a week with me, a female who has known her for almost ten years (we arent that close though), present? I just want to see if shes loosing weight, and Id keep track of it to show her dad after a few weeks. Maybe it would inspire her to gain more weight? Im worried about her and i fear this is the only way i can really help her, maybe i could talk to her about it too? Would this be crossing the lines?