We both have good paying jobs we are 29 and 30. He proposed with the ring until we go pick out a real ring. In the mean time I rather not wear it to work and he doesn't understand why. He says nobody world know the difference. It's a pretty big fake diamond ring. I'm not a gold digger. I surprised him with hawaii tickets for his birthday. I just feel silly wearing it to work. Who's in the wrong? I don't want to wear it and he wants me to.

and if its ok to marry there, would marriage laws that apply in Florida apply to us even if we are out of that state?

Some of my first cousins whom I'm close with have ALOT of kids . I totaled up if ALL kids in my immediate family , nieces , nephews and first cousins kids only and its still a whopping 30 kids . My adult guest list is 50. So my question is would it be ok for me to let them know that because of venue or whatever I come up with if they have child care options to utilize it . Obviously I don't want anyone to be offended its a family gathering so I wouldn't tell them not to bring all of their kids but is it rude to suggest it???