Family: Question: Should I talk to my son about this or just forget about it?

Question: Should I talk to my son about this or just forget about it?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 01:12 PM PST

I was late to leave for work and I forgot to lock the bathroom door and my teenage son walked in just as I was getting out of the shower. I quickly got a robe on but not before he said "Wow mom, you really have a beautiful body". It did not embarrass him any but it sure did me. He has not said a word about this since it happened. Should I just forget about it or should I tell him that was not an appropriate comment to say about his mother? He acts like it was not a big deal.

Question: HELP??!! I feel sad about my future because of my mom and dad's dysfunctional relationship??!!?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 01:07 PM PST

I just had a crying fit. Im 17, and I want to understand my dad and mom's mindset.. My dad was abused as a kid and he has emotional maturity of a kid (he is 53) now. he owns a store in Georgetown and he fights with my mom almost every day. My mom knows he has mental issues, but why didnt she try to get my dad help?? I understand my mom loves my dad, but my mom doesnt work or try to solve the problem with my dad.. No marriage counseling, no therapist, just the same fight over and over.. My dad tries to compensate his self hatred and low self esteem by painting himself the hero and me and my mom the villains. My mom insults my dad, but if my mom wanted my dad to get better why not therapy???!!! Im a girl, it just im afraid of being an adult becuz I thought adults were suppose to fix everything, my mom and dad the same fight

Question: How do I tell my brother-in-law he is not welcome in our house because his wheelchair tracks mud all over my floors?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 12:58 PM PST

My husband's younger brother got into a motorbike accident 12 years ago and now he uses a wheelchair as he is a paraplegic. I hate it when he comes over because his wheels track all the filthy mud over my parquet floors and my Persian rugs. It's disgusting. How do I tell him he is not welcome in my house without offending him and my husband? I am sorry, but it's not my fault he's in a wheelchair, but I will not have anyone destroying what I work so hard to maintain.

Question: I need Legal Advice?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 12:58 PM PST

Hello, I am an 18 year old fellow, and need advice. I have been living here in PA now for the past 13 years. I live with my mother and step father. My problem is that my step father is a real jack@$$. More specifically, he took $3500 from me. I don't know how to go about getting it back. I was given $4700 from my grandfather and I took it and gave it to my mother to look after. Mostly because I cant trust myself with money lol. But anyhow. Over time I kept putting money away and it should have grown. However it shrank. I should have had around $3500 last time I looked but my cash spot only had $200 were the wad once was. I lent the remaining $200 to my sister for my niece and nephews camp payment. And as I keep a good record of what I spend my money on I added up all of my expenses. I had shelled out $1500 or so over the past 2 years. Mind you I had a job and made $1300 with that, and $400 babysitting for my sister as over the 2 years. So I did the math and I should have $3500 still but it just up and gone. My mother said that Rod, My step father, had told her he thought my money stash was her money. So he took it and spent it all. When I confronted him about it he told me he didn't touch my money and "you don't have anything, everything here is mine." After that he continued to mock me in various ways and told me I will never repay him for what great parent he has blessed me with. I cant stand the guy, I need that $3500, how do I get it back?

Question: I stood home from school without letting my guardian know?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 12:56 PM PST

I really did not want to go to school AT ALL today just because. I even set an alarm last night for 2:37 (lol) because I needed to tell my gmom that I felt "sick". I only stood home from school once this year. I didn't go to bed until a little after 3 last night & my grandmom knows that. So this morning I continued the whole "sick" thing. She still was telling me 2 go 2 school. She even made me take Alka-seltzer & I ACTUALLY Alamogordo threw up. She left the house. & I made myself fake cry & tried to call her cellphone 3 times. By that time school was going to start in 30 mintues & I really didn't have time to get ready so I called my grand pop & told him that I threw up. He let me stay home today. I actually feel really drowsy & I haven't eaten anything all day. My grandmom will be home in a couple of minutes & she doesn't know that I stood home. Should I feel guilty or is it fine that I took the day off?

Question: How do I fix my relationship with my sister?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 12:24 PM PST

I am a new mom and ever since my baby was born my job moved out of state and so I was stuck with nothing to go back to. So once my maternity leave was up I decided to stay at home for a while and raise my newborn while I searched for another job. My husband started to work a lot of overtime and even got a second part time job to make some extra money while I am at home. So he is barely home and I have to do most of the work on my own. My mom has been very helpful and even offered to help with my laundry so that I can scratch one thing off my list. I have two sisters and I would think that they would call and ask if I ever needed anything or maybe planned a day out with me since I m always stuck at home with the baby but they never do. One day I called my parents house to see if my mom was home because I was planning to come over with the baby since my husband was working overtime and one of my sisters picked up. She was very nasty and was upset that she was folding my clothes (that my mom asked her to fold) while I am at home doing "nothing". I told her that she doesn t have to fold my clothes and I will do them when I come over. She was still rude to me and said, "well your husband should help you more especially since u have a baby." Ever since then we haven t been talking much and I feel like my relationship with my sister has been lost. Honestly I feel that she should be thankful to be helping me considering that i have a baby and I am home alone most of the time. How can i fix this situation? My husband tells me to not to talk to her so she can learn her lesson and realize she was wrong. I don t think that s the ideal way to solve the problem but then again I am a little mad at her still. What do you guys think?

Question: If my aunt is married to another persons grandfather, what does that make me and that person?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 12:06 PM PST

Question: Girls mature question?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 11:56 AM PST

I've gotten in shape and bought a new bmw car. Last night i went to the mall and in the parking lot i saw a stunning blonde on the phone. She started eyeing me as soon as i pulled up on the lot and i parked next to her on purpose. I then got out of my car and she was still starring at me. I then walked to the elevator and before i got in it i looked back and she was still starring at me. I'm 23 and she was at least 40. Point is do you think she liked what she saw? i ask only because next time it happens i will make a move but before i do i thought i asked this.

Question: My son doesn't tell me anything and is really distant?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 11:51 AM PST

Throughout my sons teenage years he become highly distant from me and the family. He never tells me anything about his personal life. My son is gay and told me about a year ago however everyone of his friends had known about this 2 years before he even came out to me. Now my son has entered a relationship his first boyfriend and he didn't tell me. He's been with this boy 2 months and never said a word about him. I asked why he never tells me anything and he said that he just doesn't like to. My son is very independent he's 17 and does things alone. I just wish he would tell me stuff and come to me for help but he never has. Have I done anything wrong what can I do to make him tell me things

Question: My mother received this due to my father s service. She has recently passed away, how do I stop the benefit.?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 11:20 AM PST

Question: How to cut ties with younger sister?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 11:19 AM PST

i am i 15 year old girl with a 12 year old sister and i never liked her. i hated her all my life. i fight with her all the time because im expected to look after her. she gave me depression. i wish i was an only child and i never wanted to be the oldest. i want to disown her asap. how can i disown her? mom still makes me share a room with her, so we were forced to be close siblings :(((( i meant to say we are forced to be close siblings i dont like my friends either or probably i do like my friends... but i dont want anymore friends

Question: What's the most "stupid" reason why your parents wanted to kick you out?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 11:14 AM PST

My mom threatened to kick me out because I wanted to go volunteer at this horse rescue farm. Her reason was that it was "too cold." The roads didn't ice, it didn't snow, etc. The temperature was above 40 degrees F. And she wonders why I hate her so much (along with other good reasons). I'm really hoping we get our green card soon so I can get a job and move out.

Question: What's the deal with parents and straight A's?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 11:08 AM PST

I try really hard in school, but due to the fact that I am not naturally good in subjects such as math and science, and that I take honors classes, I make some B's as well. My parents constantly want to kill me because I don't make A's. Why do parents care so much? All that happens is I try really hard and fail. I see it with my friends too, they make B's or the occasional C and are grounded for weeks. So parents, WTF?

Question: My dad is mad that I see my boyfriend's dad more often than I see him.?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 11:06 AM PST

Recently, I was supposed to go to an event with my dad and brother. Unfortunately, my brother cant get out of work and my dad is his ride ride. So, dad wanted to give me the tickets for my boyfriend and I and one other person. We thought of my boyfriends brother and, as a back up, his dad. Now my dad is angry because my boyfriend and I never see him, yet we always see my boyfriend's dad. I just dont know how to make my dad see that it isnt personal. My boyfriend's sister typically invites their dad over, then wakes us up and says "Tag you're it," before leaving him with us when she wants to sleep. Plus, I work constantly, my boyfriend works nights, and my dad lives 70 miles away. My boyfriend and I only see eachother once a week and dont really want to spend time with other people during that time. The only time we see his dad is when his sister dumps him on us.

Question: My aunt keep telling me that my boy language is offensive?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 10:41 AM PST

I keep offending my aunt without knowing that I am doing it until she tell me. For example, she gave me a piece of paper to read. I turned around, walked to my favorite recliner and sat down. I removed the wrinkles from the paper and I started reading it. She told me to watch my attitude. I ask her what she mean and she told me that I was being rude when I sat on the recliner quickly and removed the wrinkles from the paper. The thing is, I am so used to moving fast and I always move quickly. So I think nothing of it when I move fast. I find myself slower myself down because that is the only way to avoid getting yelled at for moving offensively. I am starting to feel uncomfortable and I want to know is there a way that I am allowed to move without making her angry with me? She will tell me that I am acting like my mom when I move fast or do "offensive movements". She will use what my grandma said and what my dad said as a fact when she wasn't there so she don't know the truth of what happened. When I was at my dad's house, he yelled at me because I answered his question with a "I don't know.." and a shrug. He told me that if I shrug and do this to the wrong person I will get beat up. I apologized and promised to never shrug again. My grandma got angry with me because I want to move to California. I told her that I love Cali and I want to move there. She said "when did you become so evil?" she thinks that I want to move far away to be selfish.

Question: Is it wrong to tell a child that their father wants nothing to do with them?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 10:26 AM PST

My youngest niece (4) asked her mother today, after watching a show about a father and daughter, why she didn't have a daddy. My sister (her mom) told her the most straight forward and honest answer I did not expect to hear. She told her that her father didn't want her, and that some dads love thier kids but others do not. She told her it wasn't her fault and that she would grow up just fine without a daddy. My neice didn't seem upset by the answer at all, all she said was, "oh, ok!" And proceeded to act like as happy and joyful as she usually does. It kind of hit home for me because when my sister found out she was pregnant, the father left her when she was 3 months along and said the did not want anything to do with the baby. I asked her if it was really nesecary to tell her that since she is so young, she told me she would rather she know now than ask the same questions later when they hurt more. It makes sense but kind of hurts me. What are you guys opinion?

Question: My brother gets anything he wants?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 10:18 AM PST

I am a 16(f) and my brother is 11 turning 12 in April this year I bust my a$$ to get good grades to appease my parents I am taking AP Physics and Pre-Calculus and trig The semester JUST ended, like yesterday, and I aced all of my finals and got A s in all of my classes despite the fact that i barley understand anything I suffered and cried the entire semester and im depressed My brother is in 6th grade and manages to fail his classes he just doesn t do his assignments He got gounded for it one time but my mom eneding up chickening out and ended it halfway. He has a whole room full of toys but he claims its too boring. I spent an entire year recycling plastic bottles in the big a$$ blue tin that we have here in the U.S. and my mom and dad decided to give it ALL to my brother to buy what he wants at the store. We barely drink anything that comes from a can or plastic so taking a year to fill up the whole thing took some patience. My mom told me she was going to do it before but I said if she can pls not cuz i spent a lot of time on it. She said fine but just snuck out of the house to take my brother. My brother is selfish, doesnt care about ppls felings, has anger issues, throws tantrums, using curse words at his convenience he s a brat and my mom calls me a brat when I barley have anything, barley any clothes, and the only thing i ask for his food When i want to but makeup its, Lisa no. All you do is want more and more, My parent s arent teaching my brother to be a good person

Question: Who in there right mind would WANT to have a daughter?!?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 09:51 AM PST

Males are superior :3

Question: Should I tell them that I am taking online classes? Edit?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 09:51 AM PST

This semester I am taking 5 classes, 4 of them being online. I like the freedom of doing whatever I want, when I want. Most of my classes were hybrid, so it is not much of a difference if all of the work was submitted online. The reason I am worried is because I live on-campus, and I don't know what my parents would think of this... i.e. what's the point of living there then if I could have done it at home...see where this is going? by the way, i'm paying. i just don't want it to be a discussion of "you don't like us?"

Question: Did I deserve this?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 08:31 AM PST

My moms rich Internet boyfriend has been staying w us for almost a month. He is the owner of his own company and he's supposed to be helping my mom start her own company. Keep in mind my mom doesn't even like him and is with him for that reason-more money. Last night my mom and him went to the post office and told me they would be back in an hour. He asked my mom for me to not come, knowing I'm homeschooled and sit at home all day. Anyways, my mom said she was going to pick up one of my favorite dinners and I was excited- I usually cook dinner everyday. I was starting to get hungry and it had been 3hr since they left and I was wondering where she was. Now it's 9:15&I call a billion times &there's no response. Eventually at 9:30 they came home. I got angry with my mom for not picking up her phone calls because I started to get worried. My mom told her boyfriend that I was mad because she came so late with my dinner (which I was). He's like "well she could have made herself something." Yes! I could have but I wasn't even tht hungry so I decided to wait. Then he goes on and on about how I never cook or take care of myself and I rely on my mom too much. i cook his and my moms dinner every night. Then he said I was rude& scolded me. My mom didn't do anything. Ever since he's been here he's been trying to but into my personal relationship w my mom& my personal life. I cried in front of him&thats embarrassing. Now I don't feel comfortable being in my house w him. What do I do? OH AND HIS SON IS COMING ON SUNDAY IM GOING TO CRY we just moved to a different state so there isnt any family members i can stay with. I love my mom and I want to live with her- just not with this ridiculous guy around!

Question: How do I ask my mom about my real dad?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 08:27 AM PST

This summer I recently found out that my father who has raised me for 11 years isn't my real dad. my mom had me with another man, and he raised me till I was about 2. Then, my mother left and moved to Pennsylvania. while we were in Pennsylvania I was about 2-3 years old. and we lived with my cousins. Then my mother met a guy. she introduced me to him and I started calling him by his name. then, when I was about 4-5 I started calling him dad.. He has raised me till now but ever since I found out I have a different father. I've wanted to know about him but my mom won't talk much to me about him. I want to know about him.. What do I do??

Question: I need a life saving advice, can you help?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 08:14 AM PST

This is no joke I desperately need an advice on what to do with my life. I've already tried with yahoo Italy cause I'm from Italy, but Italians so far gave me stupid answers and they even insult me. I'm 30, I'm still living with my parents and I'm from a small underdeveloped town which I hate, and I also hate the people who always stare and make bad comments about me, because I don't look like a Sicilian but rather like an American. That's why I've always refused to find a job, to avoid being constantly embarrassed by people, and also because it's very hard to find a good and stable job here, all you can get is a 11 hours job with a mean income of 300 dollars a month. So I think the best for me is to live with my parents, I really help them with the house chores, actually I really do everything and more. We are not rich people but saving the money my grandparents give me I was able to travel over the last 8 years. Now I've visited almost all the destinations I wanted to visit, I only have two left. My life is kind empty, I don't have a

Question: How Do i Tell My Parents That I'm Failing University ?? HELPP?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 08:06 AM PST

i'm just really so tired from all this. i can't understand any of my lessons and im failing all my classes except the ones that got to do with english because im good at that. i've failed my previous semester and i'm failing this one too and i DESPISE my field i always wanted to do music and push as hard to be successful at it but i cant do that in where i live instead im here studying lame computer engineering which in my opinion is the worst thing in the world because i dont wanna study something emotionless and pathetic and i'm actually crying as im writing this. what do i do ?? my parents might kick me out and i dont wanna be a homeless jobless person

Question: Paying for my own internet is a crime in my mothe's s eyes wtf?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 07:57 AM PST

I am 19 and I am currently working part time at a warehouse while going to college as well. I work hard for my money so I can pay my bills and my course. Well my mom is super cheap and ever since we've had the worst internet connection absolute crap. It's hard to do my homework when I come home from work cause it keeps disconnecting on me. My sister also uses the Internet but she uses it for gaming, she doesn't work at all and she even dropped out of college and basically lazes around the house she even eats my food that I pack for lunch at work but she doesn't care. I want to set up my own Internet connection with Comcast at my house even got an estimate from them and I am ready to get it set up I even have a date and time. My sister found out and told my and my mom said that now she doesn't have to pay internet bills anymore because I can do it. She expects me to share my connection and pay for it for my sister and her? So I told her no I already pay her rent as it is while my sister doesn't and she said it was wrong of me to do something like this

Question: My mom is leaving me in the middle of the night?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 07:56 AM PST

My parents are getting divorced and right now we are living in a separate house. But my mom is always going to my dads to sign "paperwork". She is barely here, she stays there for hours. She also keeps sneaking out of the house to my dad s in the middle of the night. She is always gone in the morning, evening, and middle of the night. When I ask her what she is doing over there I get in trouble and yelled at. Yesterday I got a text that was supposed to be for my mom from my dad and it was asking if I was asleep because it was getting to late for her to sneak over. What is really weird is that she hates the night and always goes to bed at 7. She would never see me at that time, let alone even sit with me and talk to me for one minute. She is always busy and never has time to be with me. It really hurts why she can t tell me if she is leaving, I feel abandoned. She doesn t cook or do anything for me anymore, i can t even have a conversation with her. Pls help I m really hurt i am 13 my brother is 11

Question: How to get out from under my family.?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 07:36 AM PST

I'm in my mid-twenties and currently living at home with my parents. I also work in a family business where both my parents and my sister work. Not a day goes by that I'm not interrupted over some silly family related issue that has absolutely no importance. I'm essentially next in line to receive the family business as I have all the appropriate licenses and degrees, Series 7, 65, 63, and 2-15 as well as an MBA. However, I make $15/hour, compared to most people in my field making $60-100K+ a year. I recently got engaged to my fiancee and don't know what to do as we will be looking to have our own place I don't want to be unemployed, however, my current job doesn't pay much for the type of work I'm qualified to do. I feel stuck as I don't want to hurt my family by leaving to do the same type of work somewhere else, but I also don't want to waste my life making no money and having to constantly be bothered by everyone's "problems." I just feel unappreciated and any time I try to talk to them about it they take it personally and act as though I'm attacking them and saying they did everything wrong. I've talked to my father about taking on a bigger role in order to make more money to which he agrees and says we'll work on it, but nothing ever happens. Nothing ever changes no matter what approach I take and I just need to know what advice anyone has out there, I'm just tired of everything here and I don't see it getting better either in the short or long run.

Question: What Should I Do ?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 06:48 AM PST

I Have Vagina Pimples And It's Hard For me To Even Walk , I Was Almost Kicked Out Of School Because Of My Social Anxiety And I Missed Alot Of Days But I have Been Going For Two Weeks Now And Discovered This Again And It's Very Painful And I'm Upset Because My Mom Isn't Letting Me stay Home I'm Literally Crying Right Now And She Also Said That Next Month I'm Going To A Different School So What's The Problem ? Like She Doesn't Get Me At All , I Do Not Wanna Walk Around In Pain At School .

Question: How likely will these moderators stop conspiring against me and to let me attend their programs?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 05:56 AM PST

Moderators from feminization/metrosexual programs in Victoria, Australia have decided to conspire against me ever since they had fallen victims to believing in some lies about me that were escalating since 2010 by a group of refugees who sought refuge and punished me accordingly to their culture - not see things from my culture. Here's what's happened to me (Jan Harmond Dacion) 1 - A group of refugees who sought refuge in my country, has defamed my name and image with harmful lies as punishment since they accused me of something I didn't even do. I now have moderators believing in these lies where they even spread it to a wider audience and get their participants to get as much info about me while having me ostracized. 2 - Parents wanted to blacklist me from ever attending such programs since I missed out where my dad now wanted to force me to being something I'm not which is hyper-masculinity since my then 25-year-old macho brother attended, making these moderators believe the other person telling lies about me as being true since I was blacklisted by parents. 3 - I had some sort of mental anguish attack as a result of this situation where I then started hating myself and defaming myself with lies about me being a violent person who assaulted both parents and siblings, being in trouble with the police and being a registered sex offender. It was only a coping mechanism that allowed me to vent out my frustration.

Question: If my dad has been a complete jerk to me throughout my childhood years to know, does that mean I'm also a bad person?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 05:15 AM PST

My dad has always blamed, scolded and bossed me throughout my childhood years where he also got me blacklisted from ever attending programs that makes males feminine/metrosexual when he took my siblings and violent macho brother there. He just now blamed le for something where he even scolded me for it. I have also defamed myself online with lies about me being a violent person who assaulted both parents and siblings, being in trouble with the police and being registered as a sex offender (I didn't do anything like that).

Question: Am I justified thAt my feelings are hurt from my brothers absence at my daughters play?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 05:13 AM PST

Myself and parents were invited to my brother's house for my nieces birthday. She's over 10 so it wasn't a little kid party or anything. He lives an hour from most of us. We had brownies and coffee. That was okay except my brother who works a lot to support everyone did all the hosting. His wife worked on some needlepoint and barely talked to anyone. Since I've attended all his children's musicals/performances I guess I assumed they would come to ONE of my kids. I bought tickets for everyone. I said hey no one got back to me on attending Melissa's play. I got tickets if youre going Sunday or Saturday. My brother said sorry I have to be out of town those days. I said oh how about the girls? His wife said yeah no were. Not going. It's too far away for us. The next week my daughter called to sell cookies for Girl Scouts. They said no thanks. I've bought from both my nieces every year. They make more money than me on one income and have a summer home. Is his wife just hating my family?

Question: I'm scared?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 05:12 AM PST

So a few moments ago I sat down with my mum to help me go through some of my homework. I just moved to a new school and I only enrolled one day before school actually started. I didn't have a school laptop or any stationary yet so I had to deal with what I was given. I wasn't complaining btw. I think that the idea that every student is required to have a laptop is bullshit. Anyways, my dad came in the room and we started to talk about my school. I've just moved States so I left all my friends and my previous school behind. Anyways my dad said that I could be doing better in school. With already having enough stress piled up on me... I just finally cracked. It was the first time in years that I cried in front of my parents. For about half an hour as well. My parents kept reassuring me that everything would be fine but I just ended up leaving, having a shower and going to bed. My dad apparently feels like he's failed me as a father and I don't want him to feel that way. How am I suppose to confront my parents tomorrow and how should I deal with all my stress at school?

Question: Why does my Mom not believe me?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 04:58 AM PST

I have been ill since my sophomore year in high school, and I am a senior now. I have always been smart, and I am in 7 AP s this year and still get good grades despite missing school a lot. However, my Mom has stopped believing I am sick. I was diagnosed with Celiac Disease, and although I have stopped the constant vomiting, I still have severe fatigue, muscle pain, sore throat, malaise, and headaches. Some days are better than others and when I feel okay, I can go to school and get work done, but I also want to do the fun stuff that I haven't gotten to have fun doing. I feel like my life hasn't been lived and I have missed everything. Ever since I was 14 there has been a problem, and I am 17 now. I can't even drive yet. On my good days, I want to go out and have fun, and I always get my work done (I am number 13 in a class of 500 something), but Mom doesn't believe I am sick anymore. She calls me unmotivated and lazy. She tells me that when I go to college I can't miss class as much, and I get that, but she treats me like I am faking it. She stopped taking me to the doctors (except for a 6 month Celiac panel) and doesn't want to help me get better because she thinks it is just me not wanting to do anything and just lay around. (I am severely vitamin D deficient... could that be it?) Anyway, I just don't understand why she doesn't believe me or what to do about it. I have since changed my diet and it has been 1.5 years since my original diagnosis, so I should have seen better results by now. I asked my Mom a couple weeks ago why she doesn't believe me, and she says it's because of how I sometimes feel okay enough to push through it and ignore my symptoms and other times don't. She thinks I just feel too lazy to do stuff, so I act sick in order to miss school. At my last Celiac panel a month ago and she told me to lie to the doctor and say I felt better.

Question: Cuanto dura la leche materna después de calentar?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 04:46 AM PST

Es sacada del refrigerador no congelador.

Question: I don t want to die young?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 04:45 AM PST

hi i m 14 and i live in germany but i m ethiopian i go there every summer and it s like my home. everytime i go there it gives me strength to live and seeing my family and friends make me happier than anything else. now finally my mom and me will move there in july. now i m afraid my plane will crash the day we ll go. it s just so scary for me. i don t want to die this young yet. i want to go home so bad, but what if i die in an airplane crash? we always take ethiopian airlines btw

Question: Can anyone help me get relocated so I'm not homeless?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 03:23 AM PST

I have Ms and my mom passed away leaving me homeless I found a place I just need to get there I need $20,000

Question: I want to see how my brother comes. Is that bad for a little sister to wonder if her brother is hot?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 03:10 AM PST

Question: My SISTER wrote me a love letter, what should I do?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 02:48 AM PST

Found this under my bed: "Only now while we're still under the same roof can I confess my affection for you, my dear brother. You're my best friend and the greatest thing that's ever happened to me. I love you more than anything in the world and if I could bear your children, I would. Unfortunately we may never be together, but always remember I love you, brother. Be mine forever." Isn't that a little too much for my little sister to be saying? I'm 18 and she's 16, so she's still a child and I can't do that nor am I remotely attracted to my own sister. She's seen me naked before but only when we were much younger (kids). What's with the sudden burst of love? Haven't told my parents yet cuz I don't wanna hurt her.

Question: My dad is acting really strange?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 01:51 AM PST

we are not close. he only yells at me, but these days, he's different. he talks really sweetly and became a little clingy. i am terrified tbh. and today he came home and told me he'll be sleeping over tonight. i've been sleeping in my dad's bed almost over a year because my room is under renovation. I don't live with my dad. he lives in a different home with his wife. so tonight he'll be sleeping in the same mattress as me. is it kinda weird? I'm 13 yo girl btw

Question: Parents: Need help making a decision (dishes / My niceness being used against me at aunt's house)?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 01:40 AM PST

So I'm currently staying over until my college reopens for its Spring Term in the beginning of February. I just got back from an off-campus January long class and I'm just spending the rest of the week at my aunt's place. (it's closer to the school) When I'm at my aunt's place, we usually alternate with doing the dishes but these past holidays, my cousin says she's "going to help" but then always either has somewhere to go before I do the dishes. When she has nowhere to run, she wants to take the clean ones out of the dishwasher while I take care of the dirty ones. It's almost never the other way around. Say no, she leaves the dishes in the sink overnight, hoping the obligation I feel to help her parents will make me do them. Even when my uncle's nephew (on his side of the family) over the Christmas also noticed that we were the ones doing the dishes literally 85-90% of the time. My cousins only did them twice those whole 3 weeks. My aunt and uncle just sighed when she ignores the dishes and asked us to do them. I decided to ignore her and leave the dishes overnight in the sink these last 3 days. I went upstairs an hour ago to get a quick snack and I saw a letter on the center table asking her mom and dad to "MAKE" (she wrote that word in caps) me do it since I haven't seen civilization in the last 2 days. It's been a bit cold in the house so I've been hanging around the heater. I took the letter from the countertop and hid it just to drive her insane. Should I put it back? Thanks a lot.

Question: Why is it that family betrays you the most?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 01:22 AM PST

I'm going back to college soon in less than a week and my family doesn't care to support me or be there for me. I attended college once and stopped going because I was young and didn't feel ready in which I regret. Recently I had to pay off a debt in order to get enrolled again, and my family members use to talk **** about me when I wasn't going to school they would hound me asking when am I going back or why did I stop going and that it was stupid of me to stop. It's funny because now that I'm actually going back to school I don't have financial aid yet and my grandma and aunt have tons of money yet they don't offer to help and make an excuse when I asked if they can help me. To make matters worse I'm going to be working part time and I still have to give my grandma $50 each week since I stay at her house I would think that she would understand that since my hours would be shorter I don't have to give her money.

Question: How toto approach the parents of the girl whom I love? Need advice.?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 01:04 AM PST

I am an Indian, I love this Kashmiri girl and we both have lived in Saudi Arabia all our lives till we both went to college. I have been in love with her since 10th grade and we have been together for 6 years now. Both of our parents don't know about us being in love with each other as we come from an Islamic family and so me and my love interest used to meet each other without them knowing. I know we have done things which is not acceptable in our religion. I want to marry this girl but the problem is that she says that her parents won't let her marry someone of her own choice or even if they do allow her to choose, then they will only let her choose a kashmiri only. My parents will accept my choice but I don't know how to approach her parents. Another problem is that while we used to live in Saudi Arabia, our mothers used to work in the same school and were teaching the same section for a while till her mother got a transfer. i have never seen my mom and her mom interact with each other since a very long time and she says that her mother might dislike my mother. Although when my mom talks about her mom she never shows any dislikings towards her mom. So my love interest says that her mom would moreover probably not accept me knowing who's son I am. I don't know how to approach her parents to ask for her hand. She is ready to support me in any way possible to convince her parents but she thinks that even if we convince them, her parents might start disliking her.

Question: How do you handle a mother-in-law who criticizes everything that you do?

Posted: 28 Jan 2016 01:02 AM PST

I'm a single and widowed mom of 4 amazing children. Besides the Lord, they are the most important people in the world. My husband passed away in 2013, after a very short battle with cancer. Before my husband died, she never said a word about how my husband and I raised our children. Since my husband's death, my mother-in-law seems to find fault in everything that I do or say. I mean this could be from how I discipline my children, to what they eat for dinner. She's even said to my face, that she is a much better mother than I am. Really? This is coming from the woman that smoked weed, did cocaine, and left her only son at home alone for days without proper supervision, and very often without food in the house. I have never criticized her for how she raised my husband. Nor have I ever brought up her past to her, and I certainly don't criticize the things that she's done. But she seems to get a lot pleasure out of trying to hurt me. She has said things about me in front of my children, and she has told them things that aren't true. I'm almost to the point, that I'm not going to allow her to be around my children anymore. She's destructive, manipulative, rude, disrespectful, and neurotic. How would you handle someone like this?

Question: Is it weird that I call my mom "dude"?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 11:12 PM PST

I am her son and whenever we're joking around or talking or anything like that I'll indirectly call her dude, sort of like when you're talking to your buddy. Examples would be if I was getting in the way of her in the kitchen I'd say "Sorry dude!" and then go somewhere else. Or when I am about to hang up on the phone I'll say "Okay, see you later dude". A few people have told me that it's weird. What do you think? I am 20 if that makes any difference.

Question: What is he too me? [family relationship question]?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 10:35 PM PST

ok so apart of my family had a baby last year today is his first birthday im making a card but... I don't know who he is to me.... ----------------------------------------- his mom is my mom half sister or step sister I don't know completely but I think my moms sister was adopted ------------------------------------- anyway can anyone help me is this baby my cousin or my nephew or something tomarrow his birthday so if you can help me id be very pleased and appreciate the help thank you :)

Question: I feel trapped in a relationship that is not good for me, but I can't leave my son. What do I do?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 10:28 PM PST

I have been in a relationship for many years, and my partner and I love each other, but my mother in law hates me (just because I am a woman) and tried everything she can to separate me from her daughter. We recently had a son, my partner and I did an IVF treatment, and she had the baby, and I love him so much. Anyways, the situation with my mother in law is unbearable and my partner is too weak to put boundaries, and I am tired of this, I don't think this is what I want for me, but because I am not considered my sons mom legally, I feel that if I leave, I could loose right to see him, and worse, I could not make desiciones for his future and that breaks my heart. I don't know what to do. Please help. I know he is not my biological son, but I take care of this baby from day one since he was born like he came out of me, and I did everything so the treatment would work and I feel responsible for his well being. What should I do??

Question: Need help with my 3 week old Daughter Sleeping!?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 10:21 PM PST

My daughter usually sleeps during the day almost all day in and out of being awake but up around 7pm until 2am and I have to be up by 7am to get my oldest Daughter who's 3 years up for school. It sucks running on less than 5 hours of sleep because my little girl Emilly gets up to eat. Is it possible and or okay to keep her up after 3pm so she'll be tired by 8pm so she sleeps better at night or is that too much for her? I'm really struggling to get any rest and I don't have friends near me to help support me my one friend lives an hour away

Question: My mother HATES my 7 year old son. Does anyone else have this problem? I feel so alone.?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 10:19 PM PST

I am heartbroken that I have to constantly defend my poor son from my bully mother. She calls him a "wussy", a f*cking brat, crybaby, etc. If he is sick it s his own fault. If he gets good grades it s because the school has low expectations, etc. She loves to tell mean stories about him and bully him when my brothers are around. They tell me it s messed up but they sure laugh when she s doing it. There children are God s gift to the world according to my mother. She told my dad he was not allowed to talk or play with my son because she doesn t like him. It s at the point now where they just talk to me like my son doesn t exist and they don t even acknowledge him when he s around. I feel so sad for him because he doesn t understand why he is singled out and neither do I for that matter. I think she has a pattern of hate as she singled my oldest brother out when we were kids. She hated him and we weren t allowed to talk to him. He is rich now and they tolerate him but he tries so hard to win my mother over and I know it s never going to happen. With my son either. I don t know what to do except cut off ties with all of my family members. Maybe my son will have a halfway normal life if I do.

Question: I watched porn with my mom?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 10:18 PM PST

I'm an 18 year old guy, and I showed my mom the two girls one cup video and the one nun one priest video. Was that weird? I didn't show her them to get off or to turn her on, I just thought it was funny. Also, a few weeks ago, my mom showed me a porn video just to show me how fake it was and she also pointed out some guy she thought was hot. This was at my grandmothers house too, in the living room.

Question: My grandmother watches me at night...?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 10:07 PM PST

This really isnt a joke. When I m doing my homework/studyingfor nursing (which is a lot), i end up having to stay up past midnight some nights to comepletely finish. I d do it earlier, but i have physical therapy, work and high school homework on top of it, so yeah. The thing is, when I do my homework, i can always count on my "awesome" grandmother to wake up at 1,2, or even 3 in the morning to make a lot of racket shuffling her feet against the carpet, creaking floor and all, peak out from behind the hallway wall *like i cant see*, and literally watch me, for no longer than 5-6 minutes, in the same damn spot. Theres a problem though, i cant say or do anything about it. One, i dont speak the same language she does, and two,even if i did, im not allowed to speak up. Theres this thing in Haiti where you can never "talk down" to your elders and say what they are doing is wrong because "they have more knowledge" or whatever. So i complained to my mom a number of times and she tells me to stop talking about it and get over it, but its really hard to when a beady-eyed 80 something year old woman is whispering to herself in a dark corner about why you are doing homework at all... Shes a very uncomfortable old woman at home and in public and if you do the even the slightest thing wrong she is not afraid to share her degrading opinion of you... From above you can tell that this ordeal is freaky and i dont like it. :( Df should i do? Help?

Question: Why does my childhood still hurt me?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 09:49 PM PST

I am currently the first out of 5 older siblings to attend college. I grew up in a poor environment where there was a lot of violence and drugs. My parents are immigrants from Mexico. Now that I am in college, I see all my friends they come from caring wealthy parents. They live in nice homes with successful siblings. As well as successful parents who are very encouraging. Seeing my friends have all this hurts me a little. I never got to go to Disneyland when my parents as a kid. I don't have a cool brother who is a Doctor. I remember working as a kid watching my siblings suffer from anxiety and suicidal. How can I enjoy my life when all this hurts? I can't control my emotions.

Question: Can someone PLEASE help me ASAP????!!?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 09:47 PM PST

Hi I am 12 years old. I am half black and Asian and my mom thinks that its idiotic when I talk in a ghetto fabulous way. My mom is Asian and she thinks that I should grow up like a perfect child that is restricted and has no personality. She is upset that my personality is more of a black person than of an Asian. To me it doesn't make any sense and it hurts my feelings that she feels this way. She told my dad that I do inappropriate things all the time and that I am a joke. I used to cry but I have become so used to it. I have no one to talk to about this and I have had enough. I cant stop thinking that I am a failure and that I have to be and do whatever my mom says to make her happy. Please help me.

Question: My foster parents were really mean when I first came to them, but 6 months later they are nice. What changed? Why were they mean before?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 09:45 PM PST

I can still remember when I first met my foster parents. It was late one night after I had been through the worst day in my life. Both of my parents had been arrested for some serious things. I just wanted to go to sleep and be finished with the day, but my foster parents put me through a long process of listening to their house rules, getting my bag checked and taking a drug test first. I remember crying a lot that night because everything was different and I wasn't even familiar with the area I was staying in. I also felt weird sleeping in a house with people I didn't know. It's been around 6 months now and now my foster parents are literally the nicest and most understanding people. What changed? They used to make me take random drug tests, but it has been two months since my last one. They trust me more in lots of ways now. I actually think I kind of love them.

Question: HOW DO I TELL MY SISTER THAT SHE SMELLS LIKE PEE AND THAT STEVE URKEL HAS A BETTER BUTT THAN HER?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 09:26 PM PST

Question: I think my brother might be gay?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 09:21 PM PST

He's 14 now. He seems pretty normal. He plays football and swims a lot. But he doesn't talk about girls much at all. Most of the singers he's into are young male singers. Also, he has this same boy over to do homework and play video games a lot, or goes to his house. And right before he comes over, my brother will tidy up his hair and put on deodorant, and mouthwash and stuff. And yesterday when his friend was over to study/game, I was upstairs, and all of a sudden I realized it was really quiet. I thought his friend had gone home. So I came down to make sure my brother had tidied everything up. His friend was still there. They weren't really doing anything. They didn't see me. But they were sitting really close and might have pulled away from each other. I don't know, but I think they might have been kissing. Then a couple days later I found this picture (BELOW) on his computer. Don't get mad at me for invading his privacy, he left his computer open AND I'm in charge of making sure he doesn't do anything that would get him in trouble. I don't know what to do. I think my brother might be gay. What do I do if he is?? Should I be okay with it? I've never been faced with something like this. How should I deal with him? Should I tell him he can't have his friend over anymore? Or let them keep hanging out? I'm pretty much in charge of him since I live at home, pay rent, and my parents work all the time and travel.

Question: If my wife's mom marries my dad, is she my step-mother in law?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 09:18 PM PST

Question: How do I turn my bad situation around and get some help?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 09:15 PM PST

Ive gotten laid off a couple of months ago. Can't find a replacement job. My family is in ruins: my father fell mentally ill, mothers disabled and my you siblings and families only able bodied is me. I'm 23 I can't persue anything myself like a relationship or continue education mba or even travel somewhere which seems like a distant dream only. I'm stuck and I'm in a pretty tough spot I never envisioned myself in.

Question: Is it a crime to completely ignore your parents after 18?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 09:00 PM PST

Lets just say, I run away at 18. Well, its not really "running away" since I'm 18. More like moving out without saying goodbye. Well, lets just say I "move out" without saying a word to them, go to this random city and spend my life there. I don't call them, I don't message them, I don't do ANYTHING! I don't interact with them AT ALL! Is that a crime? I remember hearing something about this judge telling this adult that she should interact with her parents or else she will go to jail. Is it a crime to completely break apart from your family? Like, could they call the cops and say "My daughter ran away, we don't know where she is, she doesn't call us or message us, I havent seen her in 10 years! FIND HER AND BRING HER BACK TO US!" Thoughts? They could always just go to my instagram and see that I'm still posting. Its not a matter of whether or not I'm alive and okay, I'm just wondering if the law forces me to interact with them and visit them.

Question: What should i do and how wrong was I for doing this ?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 08:45 PM PST

Ok so my dad is having to work all night . So I'm babysitting my sister and little brother . I'm 17 my sister is 14 ( so she laughed at what happened with my little brother ) and my little brother is 3 . We were all watching some kind of cop show where they try to figure out who murdered who and on the one we watched an 8 yearold kid was kidnapped and killed . Then u have to see a lot more murders and through out the show and I could tell my little brother was getting scared so I just put my arm around him thinking that he wouldn't be scared anymore . Well then another kid got kidnapped and they found him but some guy had a gun to the kid so that guy was shot kid was fine and appperently that scared the **** out of my little brother and he started crying and my sister started laughing . I thought he would understand it's fake . I guess I should have thought about the fact that he just turned 3 today . Anyways how am I supposed to get him to calm down ? And was it reall stupid to let him watch that show ?

Question: When he was 5 years old my parents took me to the revues of nude dancers.?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 08:11 PM PST

in the Canary Islands I wished to be one of them. whether parents should it show the children? It was almost as beautiful as my mother

Question: MY SISTER ACTS LIKE A PRISSY PRINCESS!?!?! HELP PLEASE!?

Posted: 27 Jan 2016 07:53 PM PST

my dad and I both don t get along with my 15 year old sister. everyone says "she s just being a teen" but she s been this way since she was 8 and it keeps getting worse. she makes petty little arguments into a big scene. I m not saying I m making things better by arguing with her, but it s obnoxious. a few weeks ago I went in the family room to watch t.v. and she was in there reading, she didn t say anything about the t.v. being on so I assumed it was fine. a few minutes later my mom called me in, my sister had been texting her "tell her to turn off the t.v. she s being a *****" I went back out and asked "may I please watch a quick t.v. show out here?" she rolled her eyes and said "um I m trying to study" and I said "well thanks for going behind my back and texting mom again" and she said "stop being a ***** oh my god. I was here first asshole." and so I left. I came back out to microwave some food and she walks past and rolls her eyes, I asked "what? do you have something to say? please say it instead of going behind my back." and she goes "**** you" she calls my dad an asshole behind his back (my parents are divorced) and my dad found out and asked if he could see her phone. she stomped her foot and yelled at him "NO ITS MY PHONE. you don t have the right to" and he grabbed it from her hand and she screamed. please help, my mom keeps taking her side and me and my dad are done with her bullshit.