This girl I was texting lashed out at me for no good reason (she really did and even later admitted it). I just stopped responding to her, and she eventually apologized to me for everything that happened. I sort of accepted it, saying I understand and we are good (mostly to make her stop feeling awful). I told her what she said hurt, and it still does hurt. I feel like what she said still hit a crippling blow to me. Is it ok to feel like this, at least for a little until it rolls over?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for over two months.. She's the most attractive women I've ever seen but there's something so unusual about her is the fact she has six fingers on each hand and they look as normal as ever except for the number. I held her hand before but it feels like I'm holding her hand bigger than mine. Would you not want to date somebody like this. I would like to take more pictures of her hand baby to put them on Facebook is this ok to ask

My friend (He's a guy, I'm a girl) and I want to have a bet over text. We live about two hours away from each other so we can't do anything that will be in person.

We're getting back together but I told him not to kiss me on the lips, so he gave me a tight hug and kissed me on the cheek.

Ok so I have know my boyfriend for over a year but we just started dating a month ago and I plan on moving in this month advice please??

repeating and continuing the question(s):For Guys to Answer only: What size and cup size breast on girls do you find attractive? Why am I asking this? Is because I find AA to B's attractive on genetic(xx chromosome) adult girls/women? And I'm a 24 yr old heterosexual(straight) genetic(xy chromosome), male and I still present myself as such and I find heterosexual(straight), genetic(xx chromosome), and (the girls still presents herself as a girl)adult girls with small breasts(ranging from cup size AA to B's. And if you don't know the difference go to images.google.com and look up each size by typing cup AA breast and follow through until you hit the B sizes. and stuff. And yes I'm 24 yr old heterosexual(straight), genetic(xy chromosome) adult male.and i still present myself as such, had to say that just in case you though something different.

So my girlfriend got invited to join a sorority last semester and turned it down because she thinks its "paying for friends". I jsut got a bid from a Fraternity in which im friends with a lot of the members. Her best friend is in a Sorority and such. If I had to choose bewteen my girlfriend and joining a frat/frat events I would every time. Date night the same night as a frat event? Date night chosen. If I wasnt dating her I would join the Fraternity but its a hard decision .... Suggestions???

I'll spare you the long details. But I met this guy through working in retail and feelings have just been back and fourth. I didn't really feelings for him when he had them for me and I started developing feelings for him as his were beginning to fade. He always gave me little compliments and was so protective and respected me and claims that the things he told me he's never told anyone before. I started discovering he was actually a huge player and I ended up confronting him after I found he tried to get my friend to cheat on her boyfriend with him. I probably shouldn't have considering it wasn't my business but I did partly cause she's my friend and partly because I was so hurt he would try something with my friend. So after that, we were okay but barely interacted and we just weren't close anymore and that went on all of December. Now of all sudden he started talking to every single day through texting or snapchat and giving me compliments and being flirtatious and I have a bad feeling it's because all the girls he messed with are ignoring him so I'm like a last resort for attention but I"m having a hard time moving on. What should I do?

She is in a long distance relationship, and she seems to show she is happy and vocal about it to everyone else. Except me she never mentions her boyfriend. And when I asked her over the phone when she first met him how did it go? She said in a boring tone "Oh it was fun." She met me and him online btw. I am going to meet her soon to hang out. She wanted to by the way. The bf knows of me btw and I know of him but he only talked to me couple times long ago. Anways they been together for 6-7 months and only met once. But she show s interest to me sometimes not too long ago she said my name and I love you for the first time over the phone she said it like- "Ok Brian goodnight I love you your in my prayers." Then I said Goodnight hell we have been on the phone up to 7 hours before we get a long very well. One time this was recent she offered a ride to pick me up because I had to walk home and it would take her 40 minutes for her to drop me off home from a 10 minute drive isn't that a good sign as well? Could I have a chance if I build a stronger physical friendship with her that her Bf can't offer within a long time?

Besides meeting someone else romantically...What did you get out of it? I turned into a fitness guru, getting my sexy out, and hopefully i can do bikini competitions in the fall. Take that, ex who told me I was too skinny!

Simply -hurt her after we had been talking for 2 years -tried contacting her for months but she barely budged -tried visiting her but she'd blow me off -made her a gift to give her one last piece of me, my heart, my soul, body.. I gave the gift, came back to thw store and take it back, and then she seemed sad about me doing that so I jsut gave it back to her. We talked about me trying contact. She was playing hard/get Her eyes were still in love The gift was thotful and had some notes saying.. I didn't mean to hurt her and that she can contact me again but if not that's okay she can live her life. So she contct me on like Friday, 2 days later. Sends this long *** message saying 1.i suck, 2. if I go to her house again that her family can take action, 3.and her parents know I'm obsessed with her? 4. I'm going to have a restraining order set on me, 5. I'm wrong for saying her pain is mine and 6.she mentions the boyfriend for 5 months thing (bullshit by now) Personally I think she's making alot of this stuff up. 1. I suck for giving you a gift and caring for you? 2. Okay, but I didn't even harm anyone at all 3. That or they know she also loves me like I do 4. You want to create distance because I keep reminding you of our love? 5. She loves me saying that because it's real. 6. The boyfriend you broke up with? Or I assume so because you took down the pics with him which listed 2 months So in return I told her I'm totally wrong. No more of this. I'm finished

My best friend Jasmine is getting abused by her boyfriend.It's been going on sense middle school and I just now found out about it.We were at school the other day when he got jelouse and took her somewhere else and it looked like she had been crying,she was a mess.Couple days later he hit her and she didn't say anythibg about it.She refuses to admit that it's an abusive relationship,She thinks she really loves him and he does to but who would abuse someone they love physically and mentally.She won't say anything about it sense she had everything she could possibly want.But Hes a nice person to its just the drugs are getting to him now.I wanna help them out.But I just don't know how.

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we just decided to take a break which I don t know what that entails but I want to prove without a doubt that I care so whenever I say it she knows its true. I just want to know what I can do to erase any doubt in her mind?

I m a girl I am sexually attracted to guys. But there s this one girl that I like. I think ....... I see guys toatly different than girls I ve never liked them.. But I see her and my heart flutters, she s a lot like me. Kindov like a crush but not sure I m not sexually attracted to her exactly.. I don t like kissing much but I find her intreeging I m in teenage years so I get it can be confusing. Should I do something? Or just wait it out

We have been dating 7 years this year. I found out while I was pregnant my "friend" had cheated on me with multiple women. I was only 18 and never had a real relationship. Being he was my first love, I forgave him. But now 4 years later I still find myself upset about the situation and it makes me cry all the time.. My feelings are still extremely hurt and I feel extremely betrayed still.. Maybe now that im prego again the feelings are coming back. Is this normal? How long has it taken anyone to cope after being cheated on?

theres a guy in my 4th period and every time i look at him i get a weird feeling and i feel turned on...hes so super cute he stares at me and i like it is that weird?any way i have a boyfriend but my boyfriend dies not make me feel this way... What do i do???????and is this normal???????please tell me what you think

I like this guy at school lets call him Jared. Jared is a really nice guy and I sit next to him in language class and sometimes science. This girl who used to be friends with me (she has gotten really mean) is dating a guy named Joe. She broke up with Joe and went up to me and told me that she is going to get jared to go out with her. I really like jared and my friends thought he liked me but then this girl may be liked by jared. Is there anything i can do? I also heard Jared talk with his friends about how corra likes him. He was nervous about it though. I was going to tell him I like him when I heard about this but I panicked. Should I still tell him? Thanks for any answers Btw I am 14

So, last night there was this huge party that some dude passed out at. Someone called the ambulance and the cops for him, and so my friends decided to round our group up and leave. We had forgotten about one person, so 2 of us went to get him and 3 of us stayed where we were away from the party. I stayed, and I was with 2 of my friends who were girls. They were both really drunk and high, and I wasn't really drunk and I don't smoke. So they wanted to go to a bar/club by campus, and I went with them because I was supposed to be watching over them. There's this girl that I've been talking to for a while, and she really liked me, and I like her a ton back. We were close to dating, just hasn't been long enough yet. She ended up going to the club with her friends while I was there (completely unplanned), and I got really excited. When she got there we were both really excited, but she went upstairs where under 21 aren't allowed to go (I had Xs on my hand, she didnt). I went back over to my friends to check on them and wait for her to come back down, but I never saw her come down and she texted me she had left and saw me with the girls. I explained to her what the situation was and I felt so horrible I didn't mean to hurt her, and she said believed me, said it was okay, that i didn't hurt her. But everything is so strained now, I don't know what to do to fix this.

so im in 10th grade. i can't get gets, just being straight foward. all of my friends that are girls i grew up with say im good looking or cute. im nice to girls. the girls i try to get with tell me that i make them feel special. i take them on romantic dates. etc. then they tell me that they aren't interested or just randomly stop talking to me out of nowhere. if i try to text them they block me?! but the ugly, rude, obese, annoying, smelly kids get with them and they start dating within a week. like WHAT THE ACTUAL ******* ****?! why can't i get with them but they can? (they get with the girls i tried to get with) PS: im pretty confident, straight forward, i not sensitive and the other people are basically the oposite

Me and my gf broke up a week or so ago. Since then we realized although we aren't together we're still in love with eachother. She and i want to get back together but she says she doesn't know yet and she stills needs time. Idk what to do other than give her time to think. I just don't wanna be her rebound guy if what she wants to do isn't working out. I do care for her and want her, i just don't know how long i can wait

So long story short, I'm a 22 yesr old black male, and Ive been in the army for 3 years. 6 years ago, I almost committed suicide because of the bullying I was going through becuase of my skin color and my size and the way I sounded. I turned my life around by joining the military and becoming a dedicated weightlifter. That passion allowed me to place 4th in my first Men's Physique competition. I love working out and being in shape. Here's a pic of me, tell me what you honestly think http://tinypic.com/r/30t0xma/9 As far as the women go, I used to get rejected badly by women in the past. Now I've made out with like 7 and danced with lots of them at clubs. I've always liked white women. I've always been attracted ted to then the most. Most that look like this: http://tinypic.com/r/2epljzn/9 (Am I too picky?) I was close to having sex for the first time, but I never capitalized on it because I thought I was being played most of the time. And I truly wouldn't mind being in a relationship with a girl, but im in the army, and most girls these days don't really like army guys becuase they are always far away, and they don't like fit guys becuase they think that I'm automatically narcissistic and selfish, which isn't the case I'm deploying soon, and I want to at least have sex for the first time before I leave. So I'm just going to keep trying at clubs, etc. And if that doesn't work. Then I'll hire an escort. Because either way you're paying for p'ssy either way. And I know I may come off as self focused and conceited, but girls never liked me back in the day. I was always rejected because I always put the needs of girls above my own. I'm not going down that destructive past I was when I almost took my life. And if I have to focus more on myself, so be it. I want a relationship, but I just don't trust women these days.

This guy I have been talking to stayed the night at my house last night (did not sleep with him and haven't yet) in the morning my best friend came to pick up her things she left over. Her shirt said "tap that a5s" it was some logo for a bar... And the guy I'm talking to slapped her butt. I immediately felt disrespected and told him that is not okay and to leave. My friends and I are all laid back.. So the slapping her butt wouldn't have been a big deal if him and I were not talking. They have known each other for awhile now... Am I over reacting? I just do not want a poitional boyfriend thinking it's okay to slap my friends butt? Should I have let it go

So I want to change myself and try to practice myself socially. I am not really good-looking asian kid and Idk I feel ugly. I don't know what girl I want to approach because I don't really have a huge crush anyone right now. I am thinking this girl I think I still have a crush, but I think I have gotten over her. She is really nice and she said hi to me like two times this year, but I acted like an idiot and couldn't say it loud enough.I also she is very pretty for my opinion. I am a very quiet guy with very little friends. I am a senior a high school, so I am basically training for college. I go to a competitive high school, so people are really nice to me even though I am very quiet. I am very unconfident in myself, but if I look positively I could say a lot girls have talked to me and had conversations with them even some really hot girls. My problem is I can't open up to anyone and hold conversations to girls and even anyone.

Boyfriend says if I just give in to him I'd be happy. And that he supposed to run this relationship. And that I should do whatever he wants . When I try to object he says things like well I'm going to sleep and bye . Yes like stop you're the girl you're supposed to do what I want . He says believe me you don't know any better you need to be controlled .

I'm 14 years old and since i have such a revealing body ( big boobs and big butt ) many boys ask for nudes. Some even try to touch on me & ask to take my virginity. I have been curious on what it feels like to have sex but I'm very scared. I've never tried to finger myself and I have a boyfriend and i want to let him take it on my birthday but im extremely uncomfortable with what i think is gonna happen. This one girl told me on her 15th birthday she let her boyfriend take hers. She says the blood smells worse than period blood and that it hurts badly. Any advice?

He's stared a few times but I saw out of the corner of my eye and ignored him. I personally am uncomfortable with people although I can be loud and other times quiet (basically an ambivert). So I've never been open to the idea of guys since I have better things to do (no offense, that's just me being weird). So should I stare back at him next time I see him stare. If so what should I do: give him a death glare, look for a few seconds and then look away, or stare until he looks away. Haha or just forget all that... and look up, stare for two seconds, walk up to him, stop and stare, then poke his face and ask after I do that I would say, "can I ask you something?....do you know the muffin man?"

A couple weeks ago I became friends with this senior girl from my school, we'll call her Sara. I'm a junior and I'm good friends with her and her sister. Since the first time we hung out I've always thought she was perfect, literally. All of my friends would kiss my feet just for hanging out with her. After we hung out once, she's hit me up to hangout every single day. One weekend Sara invited me to a party and we hooked up, while she also thought it was a good idea to share the twin bed together. After that she started hitting me up late at night, asking to get drunk. Last night, Sara sent me a text when she was ****** and had to tell me something. She said she really likes me but isn't into me. I told her ok and that I was the same way, which I kind of regret but just went along with it. I also said I hope I wasn't leading you on, which I think maybe back fired. I was pretty sad after she told me that but she followed it up with a text saying she needed to see me and that we needed to get drunk together. She REALLY insisted on hanging out, keep in mind this is 1am. Whenever I hangout with her she seems like she's really into me and won't do anything but talk and touch me. I wake up to a text from Sara asking for me to come over to her friends house. When I get there, she acts completely different around me. Her usual greeting with a sexual hug was counteracted with awkward looks every time I looked up and kind of anti social behavior. I just don't know what to do..

My boyfriend has been really cold towards me over text. And I didn't wanna see him this weekend. So he texted me yesterday and accused me yesterday that I went out to a bar with another guy Friday night. 1. I don't even drink and 2. I was out with my mom at a store shopping and 3. I've never cheated. And he knew that. So he was trying to get some answers out of me. Trying to think I was gonna say I was cheating on him with another guy at a bar. But now last night he texted and said that he was a fool and he was sorry. So today I open my front door and there's a bunch of roses and a heart necklace around a vase with a card saying I love you. So what do I do now? Everybody around me is saying to breakup and leave him. But it's not that easy. I've been through a lot of good things with him. But I've been ignoring him all day and I tend on ignoring him longer. Will he change or it's not worth it?

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half, so we have quite a few memories and stories and jokes and... yay. So for V-Day I thought I would compile a bunch of those things into "A Guide to Girls" or more specifically, a handwritten guide to me by explaining how we females think and why this offends us or why that makes us cry, and slipping those tips and hints into our stories. I was going to stick it with the actual gift I'm getting him with a note. Would you think it was cheesy?

There's this girl in my 2nd period class that I like. She sits off to the side on me and up a seat, so I can never make eye contact with her and try out the whole eye contact thing. We get in groups in our class a lot, but she's always in groups with her friends. The only opening I'd have to talk to her is when we leave the class, because she gets in class as soon as we start. I'd like to say something like "Hey, I saw you the other day and I thought you were pretty cute, so I wanted to come say hi." but I don't know how or when I could do that. I feel like it might be a bit weird if I try to talk to her on the way to the next class. So could you give me some ideas on what I could say, or maybe a way to get her attention?

We are young teens I'm the girl we have been dating and I want him to hold my hand and kiss me I just want to know how to let him know I don't want to make the first move

About me, "she's hot, I like her."

This is what happens to me. But I like his friend. My ex crush was being a jerk and I'm falling for his friend that looks at me!

We started talking last semester and he knows i like a guy so he teases me about it. He will make sexual gestures to me about the guy and me. We joke around and stuff. He asked me to hook him up with a girl but then told me to forget about it. Me, my other friend and guy friend were talking in class and he put his hand in my shoulder. We talk about sexual stuff. He always puts himself down when we talk saying how he thinks he ugly (hes not the best looking guy but hes not ugly), how no girl will ever like him. He will always come over to my table in the caf even when i'm with friends and say hi and to tease me. My girl friends think something is going with me and my guy friend. They think me and him will get together by the end of the semester/ by the time we graduate. Does my guy friend like me? Why do people think there is more going on us when we are just friends?

So im 14 and hes 17 and hes owned me for nearly three months now. I love him very much and recently made the decion to give him my actual phone number in addtion to my skype and kik. Before you ask or make a rude comment yes i know we're young to be into this stuff and no i dont strip for him or send him nudes nor does he ask me to. Anyway i really feel like i should give him his own ring tone but im having a hard time picking a song. I would like some kind of love song perferably alternative. The two songs ive already thought of are umbrella by all time low and i miss you by blink 182. It can be anysong in the world the song i choose will be the best answer a list of songs would be nice. Please dont tell me to ask him hes not being helpful about this. Thanks.

what should you text a guy to make him a hook up buddy? (he said he wasn t interested in a relationship right now and neither am I)

This friend and I are going thru a thing right now. starting December she said she doesn't want to do anything with any guys. I ofc took this personally even tho she said it had nothing to do with me Tuesday I ran into her and she was on her phone with who I assumed was her boyfriend (I took this even worse because I thought by ANY guys she meant every male, not just myself and it caused me to second guess). He told me to get away and stop talking to her. I agreed because I wanted to keep it short with him. She wasn't the one who said it to me and I didn't know who she was talking to until I asked and vice Versa for him. Thursday or Friday I text her saying that I want to talk to her and that I'll see her after work. She says it would be best to stay away because she doesn't want to talk about anything with me and also states that he is not her boyfriend anymore and doesn't know why he called. I end up meeting with her after work (TODAY). She says she doesn't want to talk about it and isn't feeling well. I say that this came out of nowhere and that I just don't understand. I comment on how it seems more against me and she says it's not and that she just doesn't want ANY girls or guys in her life and wants to be alone. I asked how she's feeling and etc. but she refuses to talk about her feelings as she doesn't like to do so with anybody. We were both getting mad and we were giving each other sarcastic responses instead of her talking about her feelings. Then I had to leave.

So I was walking in the halls the other day with the friends. I broke away from them to talk to my other friend, who's a girl. My friend said "(my name), you're not old enough to flirt with women yet! Stay single!"

Okay I know this is one of the stupidest questions but it's a military setting so I literally have no clue. He does the following: •Stares occasionally •Touches me a lot during drill even if commands do not require me to be the way he adjusted me •When he touches me he holds on a good five seconds longer than needed •Is much kinder and softer with me than the other cadets. •Attempts to show off •He asked me (and only me) to come to the pull up bars with him, alone. That's all I can think of at the moment. He has a girlfriend which confused me even more, I just don't know what's going on so any tips or advice would be good.

Okay so I'm in high school. There's a guy who thought I was cute and told our mutual friend who told me. We started snapchatting. Our mutual friend already told me he was awkward and didn't really know how to talk to girls and I've noticed that while snapchatting. He doesn't really ask questions and gives short answers but he does flirt. I don't have any classes with him and I see him around school and I'm pretty sure he sees me too but he never acknowledges me. Sometimes I try to smile and wave but whenever I'm looking at him, he's not looking at me. I just want to know him better. Even though he's really nice and flirts and seems to care, it just doesn't seem consistent. I can't tell if he's interested or not. I can be kinda shy and awkward once in a while. And I don't know what else to ask him. The friend said that he doesn't really talk about serious things, he just likes to joke around. I've joked around with him before but he didn't seem any different. I don't think I know him enough to ask him out either. He can be forward but other times I feel like I just bore him and he doesn't want to talk to me. I can't tell if he likes me. He doesn't seem too interested in conversations even though he often times snapchats me first. I don't know him enough to know his sense of humor so I don't exactly know how to joke around with him. please help! Or give some advice or past experience with shy guys. Anything. If you respond to this, I'll respond to one of yours.

I was hanging out as part of a group and met a girl who was brought along by one of the people I did know. She was quick to initiate conversation with me, and often gave me her undivided attention while she was more easily distracted while talking to others. She did talk to the others as well though, she didn't completely ignore them. We discovered we have MUCH in common. Some of the others wanted to leave early, but the girl stayed on and hung out with me for a bit longer afterward. We did exchange numbers, but some girls seem to give out their number because they don't want to reject the guy right then and there, so I'm not using that as my indicator. Is it sounding like she's into me?

We have built quite a strong friendship together. Anytime she sees me in the hall at school, she will say "hey" in such a sweet way, she offered for me to sit next to a girl who sits across from her in math class so she can help me if I needed it (it was the only seat closest to her and she knew I was struggling in math). Sometimes we have some small talks, but I'm literally the only guy she talks to. She will talk to other guys only if they talk to her. I don't know what to do. I want to ask her out on a casual coffee date or something I don't want a relationship with her, I just want to have friendship with her outside of school. I want to wait to get into a relationship after we've known each other very well. Like I want to take her out to the mall or bowling or coffee or whatever. Any suggestions? I'm just terrible with talking to girls honestly so I need advice. She often ignores me on facebook, but other than that, she is really friendly with me, really sweet. I need help! The problem is, I might be leaving to another school, so I want to ask if she wants to hang out like go out for coffee or something. Because just facebook won't do much. One day I was doing a test, as I was on my way to my teacher's office, I saw her and told her I was doing my test. She was like, its really easy. and she told me what to expect. The day after when I saw her, she asked me how the test was and from there, we talked about math and stuff. I told her I was struggling so I asked if she had facebook, she says she does and willingly gave me her facebook. From her faceboo, I found she likes music. When I found that she plays piano, I told her I play the keyboard, which I do. So we have an interest relation there. We talked about music and stuff and from those talks, our friendship became stronger. She ignores me on facebook often times, but other times she will reply. Another story I have, she was doing a test that I still needed to do. She told was like "lets do it together and get it over with". I don't know if that points in some direction or not but I need advice. But she for whatever reason ignores my messages on facebook. She is barely on it, but when she is, she may reply to my messages, she may not. But nevertheless, she always says hi to me in the hallways at school in a sweet and friendly way.

I don't like moaning so Instead I do like a sexy laugh or giggle. Most people say that I shouldn't laugh while having sex because then the guy might get the wrong idea, but I hate Moaning.

I've had a crush on this guy and i found out he liked me too. But he recently got a gf but its still obvious he likes me. Anyway i don't intend to do anything about it because I'm not a relationship wrecker. But i have noticed that his girlfriend is always staring at me all the time. If I'm walking she'll stare at me the whole way. I remember one day i randomly turned around and she was just staring at me. I'm just curious as to why she's always staring at me.